The Ravi Fantasy is no more
I do not actually think someone of Ravi's Ravishing looks (wait, is that where they got the name Ravi from?) and easy social graces likes me. But I try to enjoy the fantasy for an hour that she and other girls I see who are clearly out of my league do enjoy time with me, and like you say, I recognize that many are skilled at making me feel that way for sixty minutes. I saw Hana for several days in a row once and had to stop seeing her so frequently because the fantasy that she likes me that she creates is too good and believable and when I stepped out into the harsh sunlight of reality from her dark room, it was a shock of depression course through my veins and I could find nothing pleasurable until next hour with her. But it's hard to believe in the fantasy for even an hour more at the moment with Ravi given this new information that 100's have gotten BB with her. Judging from others posts, I almost always get equal or better service from girls, and I clearly don't with her. And no, I never asked or tried to BB her and it's not something I need, especially with her looks. It's just the thought that I never received this extraordinary treatment from Ravi probably means I am just another block of tiring work scheduled on her calendar, so the fantasy is spoiled a bit before it has even had a chance to begin for another hour. But, I'll forget about this and I am sure I will try to see Ravi again before long, because I do like her, even if it is an unrequited like.
[QUOTE=BastardChorum;5294328]Honestly, just go with your gut feeling and see whoever you want. We all see kgirls for a variety of reasons (looks, service, connection, potential BB, etc.). Generally I get a good idea if she's open to the possibility of BB after the first or second time seeing a girl. Have I gotten BB from girls that don't to others? You bet. Have the opposite happened? Absolutely. If BB with Ravi was your only goal, then yeah, stop seeing her and go somewhere else. I don't have the wallet size to keep banging a BB door to only nudge it a crack every time.
Keep in mind that a lot of these ladies, especially the popular ones, are quite good at portraying a pretense of personal attraction. When I hear they say they love me (saranghae) or the dreaded marry me, I automatically decode it to "I tolerate you". I would be shocked if any kgirl wanted to see me, much less likes me. They probably like to see me out the most.[/QUOTE]