2nd time seeing a provider and possibly my last.
So I saw this provider tonight in Tempe and the experience wasn't what I expected or hoped for. She was pleasant and nice but got vibe that she just wanted the session over with, didn't seem like she was having any fun or even into it. I paid for her GFE rate for hour but wasn't anything GFE about the date. I don't get it either because she has a ton of reviews that are all very good and all the reviewers described getting full GFE treatment but in my case my date with nothing like those other reviewers experiences went.
I'm in my early 40's. I know I'm not a handsome guy LOL but I don't think I'm disgusting or anything like that. I have very good hygiene. I am shy and a bit reserved around new people I don't know so I was extremely nervous which she pointed out to me. She tried to make small talk but it was awkward a little. Maybe I should of had a drink or 2 before going to loosen up more. Anyways. During the date she didn't want to do much, we did like 2 positions for maybe a total of 7 minutes then she was saying I'm taking too long and suggested a couple times that she give me a hand job. Didn't want me to suck her tits, she did let me do DATY for a few minutes but could tell she didn't like it that much (well I never had that problem before with a woman not enjoying it). She put a condom on for BJ, wouldn't kiss. Honestly I feel like I could have payed her much lower rate for the service I got.
Payed 400 for an hour and was out the door in less than 30 minutes. I later texted her and basically said that this wasn't the experience I expected and I left really disappointed. She basically said that a lot of positions I was doing or wanted to do was super uncomfortable for her but the only thing I suggested and done was DATY which was only for a few minutes. The only other thing I asked was if she could get on top and ride me and she did that for like 3 minutes and suggested we change positions and I stand at the end of the bed for doggy position than after a few minutes she suggested that maybe it be better for her just to get me off with a hand job. For one I'm probably average size, maybe even a bit smaller than average so I don't know why any of those positions would be uncomfortable. Perhaps she was just uncomfortable with my looks or maybe she was tired or just wanted to rush through for the next appointment or something.
She also said I could come back and see her again at a discounted rate, the discounted rate she stated didn't see like much of a discount and besides for the service I got. No way would I see her again. Matter of fact I think it will be a very long time before I see another provider if I ever see one again after the way this date went.
This has only been the 2nd time I've ever seen a provider and the first time was like 6 months ago and it was with a beautiful woman and full GFE and very fun. So this 2nd date was really confidence breaker. LOL kind of depressing actually, even when I'm paying for it this woman could even pretend like she enjoyed, she was treating me like a had the plague or something. As I said I booked with her because she was young and pretty and had great reviews. Should have contacted the first provider I saw the first time, at least she made me feel comfortable and was comfortable with me and I had fun. Lesson learned I guess.