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I explored SA in late 2014, early 2015. I signed-up for the trial membership. After many coffee dates, endless chats, no-shows, missed opportunities, and slam dunk moments, I'd still say it's worth the one time effort. Keep in mind, most of these girls stay active for a semester or two, so many of these sources may have dried up. I'm posting old email as a share to give members an understanding of what goes on at SA.
My first SA meet-up was a 22 year old Optometry student with the handle of Mary aka Mary Rose / Allison for coffee. She eventually canceled her profile. She actually rode a cab over to meet me. To save having to give her the cab fare home, I offered her a ride back to her apartment. Buy the time I got her to her place I was eating her out in the front seat of the car. I'm sure we could've went inside at that point, but I was only anticipating a quick meet-up and needed to return to work pronto. The downside? She went dark hasn't replied to me since. I chalk it up to guilt for moving so quickly with a stranger.
Olivia met me for regular BJ car dates at $60 a pop. Sweet, level headed 18 year old Girl who lives on the north side of Wauwatosa. My only complaint is that she's well over 6 ft tall and very large boned. She must've have grown up quickly due to her size, because her BBBJTCIM technique is skilled and attentive for a girl of her age.
Kate was supposed to meet me for coffee multiple times, but she keep chickening out. She told me her last Sugar Daddy helped with rent, so I think she was holding her breath for a big spender.
Darlinnng is an odd little ducky. 21 year old and part Native American, she seems more content with fast food dinners and drinking with her friends. A little on the immature side, she's willing to explore once she trusts you. I think she hides a larger chest under hoodies and baby sweats. Probably more on the BBW side, but a very pretty and exotic looking face. We were going to meet, but her phone is no longer in service and her email has gone silent.
Gymnast had me running in circles for weeks. A grand total of 51 SA chat messages and plenty of texts. We never met. She is put off by requests for sex or massage. She simply wants to meet men for gifts and spending money. A hottie who is a waste of time. Whoever nails her is a wizard.
Big ego bruise with Kat. She read all my messages, but never replied or granted me private photo access. Attractive, but picky. I've heard if you play your cards right, she's a big fish.
R4CH3L is a fastidious little number from Brookfield. Very intelligent. She's a science major at UM Madison. She was interested in meeting, but the fact that she's so far from Milwaukee during the school year made it a no-go for both of us. I get the impression she is well-bred or wealthy and gets what she wants.
Home Town Girl promised FS or BJ's for little to no cash, but canceled our date. Twice. It was some consolation to learn that the day she canceled, she had to go down to Waukegan for a court hearing. She was charged with violating her probation according to Lake County court records.
MikiSweety was going to do FS for only 100 somewhere near 30th & National Avenue, but I had to cancel. Bad hood incalls are a huge turn-off to me. She will now see guys via Backpage for a 1.50, 30 minute massage and HJ. I hear she has a flawless body in person, but the massage is weak.
SweetKisses offered to do sensual massage for my asking price of 120, but she looks like a nightclub rat.
Jess is actually my current UTR. I originally met her via Craigslist, but she's apparently on SA as well. She keeps me busy on a monthly basis. Enough so, that I've yet to find a reason to dive back to the world of SA.
Rach is a young UWM special education teacher. Athletic body. We met for a platonic, business like coffee on the Eastside. She was willing to do mutual body massage for only 120, but I ran into Jess and stuck with her. Probably should've indulged. Last I checked facebook, Rach has a steady BF.
There are multitudes of girls still on SA, like Jay, or BlueEyes, who wanted $$$ or more for FS. I had one platonic, puppy-love episode in my life with a beautiful and blue blooded Irish PhD student from Brown University. I would've followed her anywhere. It would take something akin to that kind of female idealization for me to spend that kind of cash.
Overall, despite the hit-and-miss leads and cancellations, the one-month fee paid for itself with Mary and Olivia alone.
[QUOTE=WiNiteOwl;2724296]I explored SA in late 2014, early 2015. I signed-up for the trial membership. After many coffee dates, endless chats, no-shows, missed opportunities, and slam dunk moments, I'd still say it's worth the one time effort. Keep in mind, most of these girls stay active for a semester or two, so many of these sources may have dried up. I'm posting old email as a share to give members an understanding of what goes on at SA.
My first SA meet-up was a 22 year old Optometry student with the handle of Mary aka Mary Rose / Allison for coffee. She eventually canceled her profile. She actually rode a cab over to meet me. To save having to give her the cab fare home, I offered her a ride back to her apartment. Buy the time I got her to her place I was eating her out in the front seat of the car. I'm sure we could've went inside at that point, but I was only anticipating a quick meet-up and needed to return to work pronto. The downside? She went dark hasn't replied to me since. I chalk it up to guilt for moving so quickly with a stranger.
Olivia met me for regular BJ car dates at $60 a pop. Sweet, level headed 18 year old Girl who lives on the north side of Wauwatosa. My only complaint is that she's well over 6 ft tall and very large boned. She must've have grown up quickly due to her size, because her BBBJTCIM technique is skilled and attentive for a girl of her age.
Kate was supposed to meet me for coffee multiple times, but she keep chickening out. She told me her last Sugar Daddy helped with rent, so I think she was holding her breath for a big spender.
Darlinnng is an odd little ducky. 21 year old and part Native American, she seems more content with fast food dinners and drinking with her friends. A little on the immature side, she's willing to explore once she trusts you. I think she hides a larger chest under hoodies and baby sweats. Probably more on the BBW side, but a very pretty and exotic looking face. We were going to meet, but her phone is no longer in service and her email has gone silent.
Gymnast had me running in circles for weeks. A grand total of 51 SA chat messages and plenty of texts. We never met. She is put off by requests for sex or massage. She simply wants to meet men for gifts and spending money. A hottie who is a waste of time. Whoever nails her is a wizard.
Big ego bruise with Kat. She read all my messages, but never replied or granted me private photo access. Attractive, but picky. I've heard if you play your cards right, she's a big fish.
R4CH3L is a fastidious little number from Brookfield. Very intelligent. She's a science major at UM Madison. She was interested in meeting, but the fact that she's so far from Milwaukee during the school year made it a no-go for both of us. I get the impression she is well-bred or wealthy and gets what she wants.
Home Town Girl promised FS or BJ's for little to no cash, but canceled our date. Twice. It was some consolation to learn that the day she canceled, she had to go down to Waukegan for a court hearing. She was charged with violating her probation according to Lake County court records.
MikiSweety was going to do FS for only 100 somewhere near 30th & National Avenue, but I had to cancel. Bad hood incalls are a huge turn-off to me. She will now see guys via Backpage for a 1.50, 30 minute massage and HJ. I hear she has a flawless body in person, but the massage is weak.
SweetKisses offered to do sensual massage for my asking price of 120, but she looks like a nightclub rat.
Jess is actually my current UTR. I originally met her via Craigslist, but she's apparently on SA as well. She keeps me busy on a monthly basis. Enough so, that I've yet to find a reason to dive back to the world of SA.
Rach is a young UWM special education teacher. Athletic body. We met for a platonic, business like coffee on the Eastside. She was willing to do mutual body massage for only 120, but I ran into Jess and stuck with her. Probably should've indulged. Last I checked facebook, Rach has a steady BF.
There are multitudes of girls still on SA, like Jay, or BlueEyes, who wanted $$$ or more for FS. I had one platonic, puppy-love episode in my life with a beautiful and blue blooded Irish PhD student from Brown University. I would've followed her anywhere. It would take something akin to that kind of female idealization for me to spend that kind of cash.
Overall, despite the hit-and-miss leads and cancellations, the one-month fee paid for itself with Mary and Olivia alone.[/QUOTE]WNO.
What a great way to start the new blog!
I saw Rach a couple of times for coffee and lunch. She is pleasant, and very cute. Looked like she has a nice body. I was never able to get to the next level with her, and now she has a boy friend.
When I first joined SA I had some very good success, and met several very nice ladies who were a lot of fun. I have not had the same level of success recently, and think it has gotten more difficult on that site.
One of the last ones I met was The Lady Luna. A nice girl, tall, attractive, but I never was able to get beyond the 1st meeting. I also met Allison for coffee. She is attractive, tall, thin, pleasant enough, but I have not pursued another date with her.
[QUOTE=BigTen;2726466]WNO.
What a great way to start the new blog!
I saw Rach a couple of times for coffee and lunch. She is pleasant, and very cute. Looked like she has a nice body. I was never able to get to the next level with her, and now she has a boy friend...[/QUOTE]Rach actually contacted me, out of the blue, in November. She needed extra cash on the spot. A very trusted source informed me it was for rent money. Let just say that despite the BF, she was still very much active, at least 3-4 weeks ago.
You met with Rach for coffee a few times? What held you back from pulling the trigger with her? Rach actually offered me a nice donation rate to explore massage. I probably should have taken her up on the offer. My current SA UTR 'Jess' cut me an even better arrangement deal long term, so I went with her.
Rach looked very cute and quite athletic when I met her for coffee in the Spring. Even still, it was very business like. How was it for you..? As with anyone, PM if you're more comfortable. I figured this would be nice forum to at least get the SB / SD discussion rolling.
I haven't pulled the trigger on the SA subscription as yet. Mostly I've gotten the impression that Chicagoland area does not offer similar volume and affordable rate ranges (mostly $ or $. 5) as compared to CA state for instance. What do you say based on your experience?
[QUOTE=WiNiteOwl;2726620]Rach actually contacted me, out of the blue, in November. She needed extra cash on the spot. A very trusted source informed me it was for rent money. Let just say that despite the BF, she was still very much active, at least 3-4 weeks ago.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Lebruno;2726655]I haven't pulled the trigger on the SA subscription as yet. Mostly I've gotten the impression that Chicagoland area does not offer similar volume and affordable rate ranges (mostly $ or $. 5) as compared to CA state for instance. What do you say based on your experience?[/QUOTE]Yeah, great thread! I have basic membership and just browsed never did much of that. How did you do up your profile? Pics? Info? I just put basic stuff on there. I mostly am in Chicago but I also have Milwaukee connections so I am willing to check out some gals here. I might check out some of the gals you mentioned and also please PM the BP link to the 30th and National gal.
[QUOTE=WiNiteOwl;2726620]Rach actually contacted me, out of the blue, in November. She needed extra cash on the spot. A very trusted source informed me it was for rent money. Let just say that despite the BF, she was still very much active, at least 3-4 weeks ago.
You met with Rach for coffee a few times? What held you back from pulling the trigger with her? Rach actually offered me a nice donation rate to explore massage. I probably should have taken her up on the offer. My current SA UTR 'Jess' cut me an even better arrangement deal long term, so I went with her.
Rach looked very cute and quite athletic when I met her for coffee in the Spring. Even still, it was very business like. How was it for you..? As with anyone, PM if you're more comfortable. I figured this would be nice forum to at least get the SB / SD discussion rolling.[/QUOTE]I tried to pull the trigger with her, had an appointment scheduled, but she cancelled. Then she got sick and was hospitalized for a while, went home to live with her parents. We did not connect after that. I messaged her this fall also. I got some replies, including the rent issue, BF, including a pic of them together. Have not heard from her in about 2 weeks.
[QUOTE=Lebruno;2726655]I haven't pulled the trigger on the SA subscription as yet. Mostly I've gotten the impression that Chicagoland area does not offer similar volume and affordable rate ranges (mostly $ or $. 5) as compared to CA state for instance. What do you say based on your experience?[/QUOTE]IN the last year I have had better luck with the Chicago ladies than the ones in Wisconsin. They are more willing to meet, and seem to understand the nature of the site better than the Wisconsin ladies. Most of the ones I have contacted in Milwaukee think that some guy is going to throw FU money at them just for chatting. They also want a lot of cash for an initial meeting.
Hello Just relating my experience with SA. First off, let me say it appears that a lot of the ladies on there have what I call the triple P syndrome. (platinum plated pussy) Anyhow, I created a half assed profile on there about a year ago. Never posted a picture. Well, come May of this year I had like 30 messages. The normal charge is $70 per month, but I got a message that I could "upgrade" for 33% off so took the plunge for one month for like $45. Met three ladies, had sex with one, So, here goes.
JaneDoe#1 Looked nice. Met her for lunch. She wanted $1500 per month "allowance" Good bye!
JaneDoe#2 Smoking hot blonde spinner from Sheboygan. Met her for lunch. She comes to Milwaukee to see her clients two days a week. $450 for two hours. Good bye!
JaneDoe#3 Damn! This girl is great. I wait down the street from her parents house and see her walking to my car. At first glance it looks like not so UTR so and so. Well, this girl is better looking, better body and way better performance than UTR. Only downside is that I am thinking $100 per visit, she is thinking $300 and we split the difference. Saw her several times, would do lunch / dinner and each "date" was like 4 hours, so maybe all in all not too bad a deal.
I have about 25 messages in my box which will probably go unread. Some messages are from chicks in LA or NY! LOL Some of the pics are fake, but for the most part appear legit. Some of the pics will take you to Model Mayhem. So, it may be worth a shot to try it out for a month.
Also, I have a profile on Whats your Price. I have about 30 offers on there which will probably also go unread. They range from $90 to $250. On that site you have to buy credits to read / send messages, with the minimum package being $50.
Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night.
I know its difficult to talk about UTRs because UTR is all about not advertising. Its someone we find quietly on the side. Sometimes through CL or a dating site. I have found that finding UTRs is not a problem.
The problem is finding one that is someone you really like. I have found two that are real dynamos in the sack. Both know how to please me to no end with a full menu. There is nothing like sitting in my Lazy Boy throne while my cock is being worshiped.
The lights are dimmed but not turned off. These are no beauties. But both are spinners. One is young but unfortunately a drug addict and all that goes with that. There are times she goes MIA due to jail or rehab. She pretends to seem to care for me, but I know its all about the money. I believe she does enjoy the time we spend together and the affection I give her.
The other is in her mid 60's. Picture Barbara Eden when she was in her 60's. Nice perky set of man mades which she loves to have them worshiped. She can cum with no limits other than I just get tired of licking her.
Maybe 90 lbs and tight, under 5 ft. She's hard of hearing and talks loud. A real screamer to the point of being too loud. A squirter with no limits on squirting. I don't understand how she can keep squirting. The two of us really click and enjoy our time together. She's a neighbor and will boldly walk over to my house in her Victoria Secrets with an overcoat.
She walks over in high heels and a glass of wine. A real Mrs Robinson. During intercourse she only like missionary. But is super into grinding and bucking. Downside she is at least 65 and has one of those strong southside Milwaukee gravely smokers voices. She used to only call after she loaded up on Vicodin and cheap wine. She retired from her job and is home all the time now. She wants to hang out. She's a little pissed because I won't go on a date with her.
While both women are spinners, look sexy in dim lights, are super in the sack, and provide a full GFE, I really don't want to be seen in public with either of them. Still I don't tire of either of them. Each time it super.
What is great about UTRs is that you are not risking going down to Little Tijuana picking up SWs, not going to no-tels and Red Roofs to hook up with homeless addicts being pimped out. No under-age BP girls.
Some of the SA SDforme women are basically sex addicts or women with an overinflated view of their looks. A lot of fat girls who think they are sexy. When I see the Port Mom posting 20 year old photos and trying to pass for 39 and an athletic body (she's 50 and fat), you can only imagine just how many other false advertisers there are.
[QUOTE=WiNiteOwl;2724296]MikiSweety was going to do FS for only 100 somewhere near 30th & National Avenue, but I had to cancel. Bad hood incalls are a huge turn-off to me. She will now see guys via Backpage for a 1.50, 30 minute massage and HJ. I hear she has a flawless body in person, but the massage is weak.[/QUOTE]I think one of you tried reaching out to me recently for her Backpage ad. I was finally able to track down her listing. Shoot me a PM.
[QUOTE=WiNiteOwl;2730867]I think one of you tried reaching out to me recently for her Backpage ad. I was finally able to track down her listing. Shoot me a PM.[/QUOTE]I saw her a few times last year around this time of the year. Her body is flawless, but she's a chain smoker and a germaphobe. Not that much into DFK, will do it, but you can tell she isn't into it and is obsessed about precum when giving you a BBBJ. Also not really into DATY and definitely limits DFK after you go down on her. I'd rather have someone who's a 7 in looks but passionate in the sack than someone like her who you can tell isn't that into it. Might have to also do with the fact that she's still a teenager.
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Some of the SA SDforme women are basically sex addicts or women with an overinflated view of their looks. A lot of fat girls who think they are sexy. When I see the Port Mom posting 20 year old photos and trying to pass for 39 and an athletic body (she's 50 and fat), you can only imagine just how many other false advertisers there are.[/QUOTE]There are quite a few fat chicks on there that are full of themselves. I met Port Mom for lunch a couple of years ago. She has a difficult (impossible) time pulling off age 39. I think she was a few drinks ahead of me at lunch. I never followed up (no interest), but I had the impression that she was very flexible on donations, and the menu was wide open.
[QUOTE=WiNiteOwl;2730867]I think one of you tried reaching out to me recently for her Backpage ad. I was finally able to track down her listing. Shoot me a PM.[/QUOTE]Hey Night Owl, I got your reply but your inbox was full.
[QUOTE=WiNiteOwl;2730867]I think one of you tried reaching out to me recently for her Backpage ad. I was finally able to track down her listing. Shoot me a PM.[/QUOTE]Here's the picture she texted me. Wanted $$ I laughed. Next.