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I'm sure you guys all know about her from my numerous posts in 2005. She played me real good for last 2 months and I could've bought a lot more than a brand new car with all the money I spent on her :-(
Her real name is Heather, 28, 5'8", shoulder length dirty blonde, hazel eyes, a piercing above her left eye, "John" (her REAL boyfriend's name which happened to be mine and suckered me right in) tattoo on the left side of her neck, missing top front row of teeth, bunch of amateur tattoos of her kids names and designs on her arms and legs, a tribal "fuckme" tattoo above her ass, nice C cups, stretch marks from her 5 kids, with some meat on her bones.
You can definitely recognize her by her piercing above her left eye and "John" tattoo on the left side of her neck. And she used to hang around Patapsco and Pontiac between 3rd and 6th Street. She now lives on 7th St with her skinny ass boyfriend and his tricking mom so I'm sure you guys will see her one of these days in her old "hunting/walking" ground.
She will sucker you in because she is extremely friendly and acts like she is clean/wants to clean up. She told me she was clean when I met her (which I didn't believe) and later found out she was both heroin and crack addict. She also tells you bad things always happen to her, like people stealing things from her because she is too trusting when she lies to you to get more drugs for herself. Also she'll never admit to you she has/had pimp boyfriend and that girls who do that are stupid and swears on her kids lives.
Anyway she lucked out by meeting a sucker like me because I came off a 6 year relationship with a pain killer addict in September with her killing herself right after I broke it off because I couldn't handle her addiction. After this I went on a "destructive" phase and decided to "bang" all my frustrations out with SWs without any emotional attachment. And I think I got fucked up big time because Heather looked very much like my ex and she was my first SW on this fuck binge.
Well, I guess I learned an expensive but valuable lesson here. NEVER trust SWs/addicts. Like you guys have stated here over and over, IT'S ALL ABOUT DRUGS!!!
Can you guys do me a favor? If you pick her up, kick her out since she's got terrible skills (which why I felt even more sorry for her because she can't make it out on the street with her skills). And call her "Sleepy" (which was my nickname for her because she slept/nodded all the time) and tell her "Mercedes John" said what goes around comes around (which she used to tell me all the time and that she's always nice to people because she believes in karma). I just want you guys to tell me the expression on her face when she realizes she's busted and that karma exists. That would be PRICELESS!!! Thanks guys!
[QUOTE=Ryou Acop]I'm sure you guys all know about her from my numerous posts in 2005. She played me real good for last 2 months and I could've bought a lot more than a brand new car with all the money I spent on her :-(
Her real name is Heather Kessler, 28, 5'8", shoulder length dirty blonde, hazel eyes, a piercing above her left eye, "John" (her REAL boyfriend's name which happened to be mine and suckered me right in) tattoo on the left side of her neck, missing top front row of teeth, bunch of amateur tattoos of her kids names and designs on her arms and legs, a tribal "fuckme" tattoo above her ass, nice C cups, stretch marks from her 5 kids, with some meat on her bones.
You can definitely recognize her by her piercing above her left eye and "John" tattoo on the left side of her neck. And she used to hang around Patapsco and Pontiac between 3rd and 6th Street. She now lives on 7th St with her skinny ass boyfriend and his tricking mom so I'm sure you guys will see her one of these days in her old "hunting/walking" ground.
She will sucker you in because she is extremely friendly and acts like she is clean/wants to clean up. She told me she was clean when I met her (which I didn't believe) and later found out she was both heroin and crack addict. She also tells you bad things always happen to her, like people stealing things from her because she is too trusting when she lies to you to get more drugs for herself. Also she'll never admit to you she has/had pimp boyfriend and that girls who do that are stupid and swears on her kids lives.
Anyway she lucked out by meeting a sucker like me because I came off a 6 year relationship with a pain killer addict in September with her killing herself right after I broke it off because I couldn't handle her addiction. After this I went on a "destructive" phase and decided to "bang" all my frustrations out with SWs without any emotional attachment. And I think I got fucked up big time because Heather looked very much like my ex and she was my first SW on this fuck binge.
Well, I guess I learned an expensive but valuable lesson here. NEVER trust SWs/addicts. Like you guys have stated here over and over, IT'S ALL ABOUT DRUGS!!!
Can you guys do me a favor? If you pick her up, kick her out since she's got terrible skills (which why I felt even more sorry for her because she can't make it out on the street with her skills). And call her "Sleepy" (which was my nickname for her because she slept/nodded all the time) and tell her "Mercedes John" said what goes around comes around (which she used to tell me all the time and that she's always nice to people because she believes in karma). I just want you guys to tell me the expression on her face when she realizes she's busted and that karma exists. That would be PRICELESS!!! Thanks guys![/QUOTE]RU,
From your write-up, I'm not sure what it was that Heather did to you. Post or PM the answer. I don't know how vindictive I should be.
Dulc
[QUOTE=Dulcimer]I don't know how vindictive I should be.[/QUOTE]
The answer is, not at all.
Retribution for what went down between Heather and Ryou should remain between the two of them. The last thing we want is a bunch of bounty hunters out there. He's warned us that she is a scam artist. Be on the alert and don't be her next victim.
It sounds like Ryou just got taken by a smooth talking sw. It's happend to all of us to one degree or another.
If I pick her up by accident, I will kick her to the curb and tell her why, but nothing more than that.
Safe hunting to all.
Muff Scout
Over on the ISG site I called out a guy in the TJ thread who wanted someone to ass rape a SW from one of the bars, claiming some worthless bullshit reason. Further review of the clown's posts reveal that he lived with her for over a year, and tried to buy her off every which way, only to find out she didn't love him (surprise!).
A ripoff is not getting bad service. A ripoff is not getting what you paid for. A ripoff is an escort you pay $$.5 to, only to have her do nothing but give you a strip show. A ripoff is a SW who does the cash 'n dash (or Cash 'n Carrie). A ripoff is paying a stripper extra $$$ to give you a private show in the VIP room, that is nothing more than the same lame-assed no touch lapdance you get in the main lounge.
That's the kind of ripoff reports which need to be told, so that others don't suffer the same fate.
I am sorry to read your post about Heather. Your relationship with her sounded too good to be true.
You certainly treated her generously and with respect. It's a shame she turned on you, but that is what drugs do to a person.
Hopefully, you can put this bad experience behind you as another one of life's lessons learned. We have all been there and can feel your pain.
As far as seeking revenge, she is really not worth it. Don't let it consume you and move on.
You are way too decent of a person to let that happen.
Thanks for warning us about her.
BBB
[QUOTE=Dulcimer]RU,
From your write-up, I'm not sure what it was that Heather did to you. Post or PM the answer. I don't know how vindictive I should be.
Dulc[/QUOTE]PLEASE do NOT be vindictive to her!
Believe it or not, I still believe she's not a bad person. IT'S ALL ABOUT DRUGS! In the beginning I think she really wanted to clean herself up and she was doing pretty good in a rehab program I paid for. But whenever she went back to her place she was tempted by all the drug activities surrounding her and she was overcome by it. Also, she didn't have any family/friends to support her emotionally and I couldn't be there for her (because I'm not crazy enough for a live-in relationship :-)
The only thing she did to me was to lie about money she needed for things when she used it for drugs. She never stole from me directly. I volunteered because I felt sorry for her and wanted to help her when she was getting her life back together. I'm NOT angry and wanna harm her in anyway. Actually, I feel even more sorry for her.
Guess what? Her adopted mom called yesterday and asked me about Heather. I told her the truth and she asked me to track her down and bring her with me to the nursing home. Actually I'm going down to Baltimore for business and I might actually meet up with her since I know where she lives. I'll just tell her I feel sorry for her and that I won't give her any money from now on but if she still wants to clean up I'll pay for the rehab. Maybe I can kill her drug habit with kindness :-)
I do NOT want to harm her. The only thing I wanted you guys to do for me was just tell her "Sorry Sleepy, Mercedes John told me to avoid you" and let her out NICELY. This way she'll learn that if she keeps on conning people she'll get caught and she won't do that again. That would be enough for me to teach her a lesson in karma.
ONCE AGAIN, do NOT harm her in anyway! I don't hate her. I just hate what drug did to her and I pity her addiction. I just wanted to let you guys know about my personal experience with a SW and that IT'S ALL ABOUT DRUGS. Heather told me and showed me a lot of her life and trust me I'm kinda surprised she's still alive through all the issues she had to deal with. I pity her sorry-life and all the other SWs out there.
You are obviously a really decent guy. I don't think any of the folks who read this post would do anything to harm Heather for a variety of reasons some merely involving not wanting to get into a jam. If you can afford the time and money to help her out that is cool and would be good works, a mitzvah, good karma etc, but I would avoid intimacy lest you sucked backed into the situation. Finally, have you thought about deleting her surname from your original post as fellow gentlemonger don't need to know it to be on guard and deleting it would give her a measure of privacy?
[QUOTE=Ryou Acop] IT'S ALL ABOUT DRUGS! In the beginning I think she really wanted to clean herself up and she was doing pretty good in a rehab program I paid for.....
I'll just tell her I feel sorry for her and that I won't give her any money from now on but if she still wants to clean up I'll pay for the rehab. Maybe I can kill her drug habit with kindness :-)
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Falling for a P4P girl ALWAYS leads to the Heart·break Hotel , R·A =
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=422434&postcount=124[/URL]
.... but it's No Mystery why we Mongers so often do =
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=418710&postcount=27[/URL]
Up·Date = [b]Jo·Elle[/b] never did bother applying for that job ; this led to a big fight with her 'Savior' Stephen ; so she's now back living at the N. Prov digs of another one of her suckers
[QUOTE=Old Monger] Finally, have you thought about deleting her surname from your original post as fellow gentlemonger don't need to know it to be on guard and deleting it would give her a measure of privacy?[/QUOTE]
It's too late , O·M = her name is also mentioned in a quote in Post # 3
I would recommend that R·A ask Heather Lynn Hartlov Kessler — DOB 03/21/1977 — about that arrest for Bank Fraud on Feb 21 , 2005 [ Provident Bank of Maryland ; Glen Burnie District Court ]
Oh , and ask her about that 2nd Degree Assault / Criminal Trespass arrest on May 28 , 2001 = that's probably an inner·resting Story !!
Other than those and some civil skirmish with HK Insurance Co. , her Record's not too bad = mostly possession of marijuana / paraphenalia , that sort of thing
[QUOTE=Ryou Acop]Actually I'm going down to Baltimore for business and I might actually meet up with her since I know where she lives. I'll just tell her I feel sorry for her and that I won't give her any money from now on but if she still wants to clean up I'll pay for the rehab. Maybe I can kill her drug habit with kindness :-)[/QUOTE]
This may sound harsh, but that is just throwing good money after bad.
An addict, regardless of type of addiction, will only get clean when they have hit rock bottom and realize themselves that they need to change.
Kindness does not work as a motivator in this situation. All it does is signal the con artist that the mark (that's you) is still vulnerable. In this situation, she is the pro and you are the amateur.
You are a kind person for offering to help, but you WILL get suckered in again.
WALK AWAY.
Remember, it's all about the drugs.
Muff Scout
[QUOTE=PsyberZombie]It's too late , O·M = her name is also mentioned in a quote in Post # 3
I would recommend that R·A ask Heather Lynn Hartlov Kessler — DOB 03/21/1977 — about that arrest for Bank Fraud on Feb 21 , 2005 [ Provident Bank of Maryland ; Glen Burnie District Court ]
Oh , and ask her about that 2nd Degree Assault / Criminal Trespass arrest on May 28 , 2001 = that's probably an inner·resting Story !!
Other than those and some civil skirmish with HK Insurance Co. , her Record's not too bad = mostly possession of marijuana / paraphenalia , that sort of thing[/QUOTE]
Sounds very familiar,
The outtish or Innish one has been served with a peace order by me not to contact me by any means for assaulting me the other day.
She told me she wants to get out and come back to me. I told her no. She tells me she is going to leave town with someone today (March 9), live with him, and stay clean. She told another guy she was going to leave town with [u]him[/u] tomorrow (March 10), and stay clean. She's doing her best to play all 3 of us at once. I contacted both of the other guys to let them know what's up.
Like Heather K, Out or In is a wonderful girl, with a lot of potential in the real world. You just can't convince her that the drugs are not the answer. Then again, what was the question?
[QUOTE=Baltimonger]Poll: Should I get Out or In out of jail? Shoot me a PM. I will tally up the results [/QUOTE]
I would recommend that you bail her out , Baltimonger
Why ?? Because there's more great Post material in her being out than being locked up , seeing as how that chick has more problems than a Math book
... but don't they all ??
Guys,
This is my last post.
I'm leaving town today with a sw I'm bailing out who has shit all over this other monger but promised to treat me right.
Just kidding:D
Dude, cut your losses man. Move on.
Muff Scout
Love will prevail, she will get bail. No this is not the beginning of a rap song.
Why do you guys seem to fall (Love?) for these girls? I would think even if you were a trained psychiatrist helping these girls would be almost hopeless.