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Paul in WV
01-12-06, 11:06
The best by far was the old yahoo personals that ran years ago. It even showed if they were online. What they have now is lame. I never had any luck with AFF but I did hook up several times using Lavalife. It is worth a try. Anymore I just find it easier to spend my money directly getting what I want when I want it by mongering.

WoodZiLLa
01-23-06, 03:29
Yahoo has worked pretty well for me too. Romance by location, of course, helps narrow the field down to what is attainable. Married but looking is ok, but it is rare to find someone nearby, and phonesex is not my thing.

Meet a woman, make sure she's not a bot, talk with her, joke with her, empathize with her, get to like her. Then remember, she came there to find sex, just like you. Beat around the bush a while and finally exchange pics and set up an innocent little meeting.

Oh, yeah. Make SURE she is legal!!

Capa Negra 888
02-12-06, 04:25
Yahoo has worked pretty well for me too. Romance by location, of course, helps narrow the field down to what is attainable. Married but looking is ok, but it is rare to find someone nearby, and phonesex is not my thing.

Meet a woman, make sure she's not a bot, talk with her, joke with her, empathize with her, get to like her. Then remember, she came there to find sex, just like you. Beat around the bush a while and finally exchange pics and set up an innocent little meeting.

Oh, yeah. Make SURE she is legal!!

I agreed with woodzilla. I've hooked up with 5 girls from yahoo . 2 of them, I picked out from using the Advanced Search = http://members.yahoo.com/interests?.oc=a I sent them messages talked for a few days and then closed the deal. I dont see them for more than 2 months.

Bad Bad Boy
10-17-06, 15:51
While I have never tried Yahoo Personals, a close friend of mine has and had great results. If I remember correctly, he had to pay something like $70 for a 6 month membership.

He met 5 girls, 3 of which he bedded down on either the first or second date. He also mentioned that the quality of the girls were above average in both personality and appearance. These were not SW's but "regular" girls.

He said this was the best value he has ever gotten.

BBB

Matrix Neo
05-04-07, 17:30
I have used Quest personals (advertised in the back of many alternative weeklies) to find girls to play with. It costs a little bit for a guy to go on there to contact women, but sometimes, it's worth it. I have had many encounters thanks to Quest, some better than others, and occasionally some of these girls are on CL or elsewhere.

Vegas Partier
05-08-07, 09:38
I have used Quest personals (advertised in the back of many alternative weeklies) to find girls to play with. It costs a little bit for a guy to go on there to contact women, but sometimes, it's worth it. I have had many encounters thanks to Quest, some better than others, and occasionally some of these girls are on CL or elsewhere.I've had a lot of success with Quest and similar lines, as well. I've gotten a few freebies, as well as finding some part time providers.

Alan
05-15-07, 08:32
I think that the days of online connections for good amateur action are gone. My favorite moments came with friends I made through Yahoo Messenger in the past. Now that the meeting rooms have all gone almost completely 'commercial' it is very hard to meet legit women for sex there. Yahoo Personals is not bad, but it is still hit or miss. I am back to the clubs now and the street corner where the action is guaranteed.

Big Red50
05-18-07, 01:13
Albeit, girls who create ******* profiles are not necessarilly looking for NSA sex. But ******* does have a lot of benefits over Yahoo personals.

1. It is free. 2. More girls. 3. You can avoid being fooled by a bot more easily.

******* has the "search by location" feature just like Yahoo. But I can also search via interest, school, name, email, groups, relationship status, etc... You can even browse everyone in your zipcode who has listed "swinger" or "bi" as their relationship status.

The great thing about ******* is that you can tell if someone is a fake right away. ******* allows people on your "friend's list" to add and leave you comments that is viewable to just about everyone. So if I am viewing a profile of a supposed hot twenty something, I can tell she is real because she has dozens of people on her profile who are her friends, family, classmates, and coworkers leaving very personal messages. And thoses dozens and dozens of people have tens of thousands of people who leave comments on their pages in the same manner.

If I meet a younger woman on CL. I like to ask to see her ******* profile too because there is a good chance she would have one as well if she is posting on CL. Very easy tool to verify if a person is who they say they are. I know of people who have had success on Yahoo as well, but the fees is a major deterrent for most people. Maybe that is one of its strengths rather than weakness. Because you know people on Yahoo are more serious because they have to pay for it.Hey Spring Roll

What's up Dude! Took your advice and set up a my space page 3 weeks ago, have hit paydirt twice. Met a MILF at a local Pub and have tagged her twice now. I was contacted by an old flame from college that browsed my old alma mater, she was divorced and I took a trip to PA. She is again a friend with benefits.

Thanks for teaching an old dog new tricks

Big Red

Trompe032
08-04-07, 17:27
Aff works but you have to put in your time on the site. Much of it is talking or responding to posts. I wrote some erotic stories and this by far gave me the greatest success. Pics are always a must but I did a face pic with shades initially. If they show me theirs I'll show mine. Currently seeing someone from AFF so haven't really had too much use for anything else. I mean she loves sex, squirts, and willing to try anything to please me and she is a Redskins fan that understands what a 4-3 and cover 2 is.

But I digress.

Gents it's out there. I did meet a sexy Japanese girl named Satoko on there (found out later she had done AFF too)

Good Hunting.

Ms Monger
08-04-07, 22:18
Hey fellow mongers,

I was mongering aroung on craigslist and found a post saying she was in town on work and hated to be alone at nite. I posted a reply and went on to bed not expecting anything. The next day she had e-mailed me. After a few e-mails back and forth found out she was from california, married for 10 years. We exchanged cell phone numbers. BTW I was still skeptical. Anyway she said she would be in town in 2 days. Make a long story short I met her at the casino hotel lounge, had drinks and to my surprise was asked to come up to her room. I ended up staying 2 nights with her before she went back home. My point is they're out there guys, you just never know.

Thats why I always keep my options open. Sure this was a rare case and it hasnt ever happened on craigslist to me before, but I'm glad I posted to her ad. Btw she only comes down here once a year on business but promised to look me up when she does.

Good Luck all and happy mongering.

Layla
09-08-07, 20:49
The best by far was the old yahoo personals that ran years ago. It even showed if they were online. What they have now is lame. I never had any luck with AFF but I did hook up several times using Lavalife. It is worth a try. Anymore I just find it easier to spend my money directly getting what I want when I want it by mongering.Does anyone have any luck on ALT .com?

I started online with AFF and there are too many ppl there that have no clue about the reasons why most women are on there for.

Joegreen
09-12-07, 12:23
Does anyone have any luck on ALT .com?

I started online with AFF and there are too many ppl there that have no clue about the reasons why most women are on there for.I've done AFF and ALT.com. You are right, too many people on AFF, lots of things to deal with to hook up. I have had success there. Very nice times with a couple of sweet ladies. On ALT.com, not so. Maybe it's me and YMMV, but there are no good solutions in the dating site world.

Anybody with info on Fling.com or match.com? Oh, and Layla, coming to Arkansas anytime soon?

Layla
09-12-07, 23:09
I've done AFF and ALT.com. You are right, too many people on AFF, lots of things to deal with to hook up. I have had success there. Very nice times with a couple of sweet ladies. On ALT.com, not so. Maybe it's me and YMMV, but there are no good solutions in the dating site world.

Anybody with info on Fling.com or match.com? Oh, and Layla, coming to Arkansas anytime soon?If you are seeking providers that is not a good site for that . Maybe if you seek LTR marital material and others of that nature match is good site

I have not thought about coming to Arkansas but I am getting ready to go to VEGAS and NYC.

Not sure what the need for an INDY would be in Arkansas

http://www.southerngfe.com********register.php?referrerid=676

Here is a good site to keep up with me if I do come there.

True Hobbiest
09-13-07, 08:29
Hey All,

I have actually had some good luck on AFF and LAVA or just scanning the yahoo profiles. You will need an IM account (also free) either Yahoo or MSN IM. I have found that at least 50% of the "account names" for the ladies on AFF or LavaLife is also their IM name. I have contacted and scored by sending unsolicited but carefully phrased open endend IMs to these ladies and sometimes do receive a reply. But I am a "Smoooth and charming" dude who has perfected this "rap" LOL. It is not uncommon for me to send an IM to a lady on AFF who is listed at being on line at the time and spending a few hours (yes, sometimes you do need to invest) and end up in the sack by days end or at the very least with in the next few days. Just don't come on strong and you may win. There are a lot of lonely and hard up ladies out there...I do however try not to leave too much hurt in my wake and now have a list of "friends with benefits" arrangements..

Later,
TH

Hillbillydelux
09-18-07, 00:33
Thought what the fuck, I might as well make a post while I am here.

I will be traveling to California in a month and can't wait to monger in the hippie capitol of the usa.

Benchseats Rock
09-19-07, 01:21
Does anyone have any luck on ALT .com?


I've had mixed results from ALT, but I'm also a little more firmly entrenched in the fetish community than most people are. The people I've met through the site are still friends and activity partners to this day - whenever we're traveling to their neck of the woods we always make sure to stop by... never a dull moment. Lately though, it seems to have gone more commercial and it feels like it caters more toward the sort of people that think they're really kinky because they started to play with velveteen ropes and blindfolds - I would have to say that the best luck I've had consistently is at live group social events like Bound or Black Rose - or any number of parties held by relatively well know fetishists, but maybe that detail belongs in a different thread. Feel free to pm me if you've got any questions...


Bench

Global exec
09-26-07, 08:05
I had luck on yahoo personals years back but as many have mentioned it is so hard to weed thru the crap there now, to me its a total waste of time. I've had a great deal of luck on AFF. I travel internationally a lot and start looking about two wweks in advance to try to make my set ups prior to arriving in whatever country I'm visiting. Theres a lot more fun in the hunt for freebies than just looking thru excort ads. ALT was a freekie break but my success there was very limited. Good luck all.

Big Dawg1087
11-08-07, 22:06
Hey All,

I have actually had some good luck on AFF and LAVA or just scanning the yahoo profiles. You will need an IM account (also free) either Yahoo or MSN IM. I have found that at least 50% of the "account names" for the ladies on AFF or LavaLife is also their IM name.From using AFF and a couple sites, I would say more like 25% is a more realistic number. I've added over 50 names and only about 15 have even responded and talking to them online is harder. So far I've got into it a little with a couple of the ladies but no real results yet.

Kidd74
03-02-08, 21:17
Does anyone know anything about FEVKey? They claim that they do not charge you credit card to obtain an id. Is this true or is it a scam? Also, are the girls who use FEVKey legit?

Big Dawg1087
03-03-08, 16:53
Finally hooked up with someone from AFF. For all those who don't know, I did not pay for membership and like someone said earlier, some of these girls use the same name for their YIM or AIM.

We met at her place, was going to have a threesome but the other person did not show up so....we had sex for 3 straight hours. o.O

Took almost 4 months but it worked so for those who don't like to pay, you need to put in a lot of work but it's worth it.

Mnepitjr
03-09-08, 17:57
Fling is a waste of your time. The women on there that you do contact are mostly cam girls or they want you to go to a pay site to see their pics. My wife is even on there trying to find her a female playmate and it's the same crap on her too. If you do finally find somebody that's real, it's all talk and no walk.

Mnepitjr
03-09-08, 18:01
Fling is a total waste of time. I have been on there for a while and it's full of cam girls or girls that want you to go to a website to see their pics. Of course you have to pay to see them. My wife is even on there to find her a female playmate and has the same problem. If you finally find someone on there, it's all talk and no walk.

J Pappa
05-23-08, 19:59
I was on AFF for a while no luck hooking up, saw lots of fake ads or just escorts, I was looking for a real girl who is discreet and looking to have some fun not just rip guys off. The advocate has a chat line that sometimes works.

R Consultant
06-05-08, 02:59
Right when you think you have seen it all then comes along a video of why did you even bother. Both of these chicks didnt seem to even care and why they are playing Wii to boot.

Go Figure..

http://www.youporn.com/watch/137427/japanese-girls-fucked-while-playing-wii/

Happy Hunting..

Mookie1733
06-15-08, 14:12
I was on AFF for a while no luck hooking up, saw lots of fake ads or just escorts, I was looking for a real girl who is discreet and looking to have some fun not just rip guys off. The advocate has a chat line that sometimes works.I was a sucker like most others.

Just another rip-off site!

Clinton Bush
06-19-08, 00:59
Right when you think you have seen it all then comes along a video of why did you even bother. Both of these chicks didnt seem to even care and why they are playing Wii to boot.

Go Figure..

http://www.youporn.com/watch/137427/japanese-girls-fucked-while-playing-wii/

Happy Hunting..
I hope the AMP girls don't watch this one. The sex here was more of an interruption, than anything else. Reminds me of one of my first sessions years ago. The woman lay on her back and watched TV the whole time I mounted her. I have had more erotic sessions with my hand.

CB

Festman
06-19-08, 09:23
Just completed a paid membership with sexsearch.com and they are B.S., too.
The last straw was a private msg. sent to me offering millions of dollars if only I paid a small retainer fee to the sender first. right. I get enough of that mess in my daily spam, but now thru a paid "dating" site? You can bet I dropped out real quick. I've found my local personal ads to be the best source of horny ladies. Had about a 50% or so success rate on those myself and they are free or relatively cheap most of the time. Happy hunting to all.

Seems to me these paid membership sites are nothing but elaborate electronic hustles, with lots of pics and ads that just don't exist. They generate suggestive msgs. from their "members" to you to get your interest (and your money) with no follow thru after you reply. Save your money for the reliable indie SW's & escorts; you'll be much happier in the end

Daka1
06-21-08, 08:49
Seems to me these paid membership sites are nothing but elaborate electronic hustles, with lots of pics and ads that just don't exist. They generate suggestive msgs. from their "members" to you to get your interest (and your money) with no follow thru after you reply.Some sites use the same fake "members" pics all over the country, but put the name of your city underneath. They determine where you are by looking at your ISP address and put that city on all the pics you see. If you can change your location in the software, you will then see the same pics of fake members now supposedly living in your "new" city.

D

Clinton Bush
06-21-08, 11:43
I agree, gets messages that say someone wants to meet and can't find same pic or person. What a waste, now people know why this is my hobbie, Window shopping and backpage is great!

Where have you had your best luck adult, personals or services massage?

Thanks,

CB

R Consultant
06-25-08, 07:20
I personally think the adult services is where you more likely to get what you want and whatever your looking for. I have gotten pretty lucky there myself. Just some are way overpriced and just wait them out and they will get alot more reasonable.

Happy Hunting..



Where have you had your best luck adult, personals or services massage?

Thanks,

CB

Member #1198
07-24-08, 22:51
I love flipping amateurs. Taking a nice girl who may need a little help and coming to a mutual beneficial arangement has always worked for me up until now.

Back around 2001 I started on the regional romance Y hoo chat rooms. It was easy to proposition girls. I even had a catchy screenname telling how much I would pay for a BJ. I remember back then that it was common to find a pro in the chat rooms within minutes. I would duck the pros (usually) and find a willing amateur. I swear I averaged only about two hours of chat time until I found an amateur ready for her first time for pay. The hunt was always fun and it ended well with a cute girl, usually nervous but horny, at my place ready to go.

When the bots became bad I tried a few dating sites and the chat lines. The dating sites had the worst effort-to-score ratio. The chat lines have been okay and I use them still today.

Along the way I have met several girls who I set up as a long-term (several months) deal with. It is cool when you have a good sugar baby. You just have to expect that these relationships are going to blow up when she tries to tap you for more money or gets a real boyfriend. Get in and get out.

Lately I've had a dry spell in finding another sugar baby or even some good one time amateur action. So what is working for you guys?

Orlando J
07-28-08, 22:29
I found this work very interesting and educational. Though I could not find a suitable thread, this work seemed to be of an amateur nature. I wish it was done by BBC or discovery.
http://www.tube1.com/101173/Inside-the-vag
http://blog.innerpendejo.net/2006/12/penetracion-eyaculacion-pene-vagina.html
Enjoy

Trompe032
08-07-08, 13:01
i have used aff and have only had one psychochick give me grief. i have been upfront and honest and found soccer moms that wanted some on the side. there is a lady i see now that i met on aff. the first time we met we were having sex. dont go for the to good to be true. but there are women that want sex on the site.

good hunting

Thencame Brnsn
08-07-08, 20:08
Aquantance is a member of SFF (he is 62) and gets tons of cobwebbers coming to visit. He owns his own business and they travel to service him both on the job and fun time. When he tires of them he sends them home and grabs another.

If you are 50+, this may be a good sight for you.

Joegreen
11-06-08, 14:54
I have tried Plenty of Fish and Adult Friend Finder as well as Craigslist. Of course YMMV, but here is where things are at for me:

Craigslist is a complete bust. No real posts from real women. My posts have yet to yield human responses.craigslist did work for me on business trips to large cities. Found companionship by honestly advertising that I was in town on business.

For locals, I found two ladies on POF and one on AFF. All are OK, a little heavy, but love to hook up whenever. One even pays for the motel room herself. All have good oral skills and are very discreet.

The key for me has been to be completely honest and up front about everything.

Good luck

Mountbottum
01-17-09, 18:47
Just tried the dating site XXXBlackBook. Hooked up with two women, both 8+, in the first week! No, really, this site is BOGUS. Initial contacts are all computer generated. Near as I can tell no living woman has a profile on the site. I'm cancelling as soon as I finish this message. I might try AFF to see what pops up.

Catnibbler
02-06-09, 14:04
Just tried the dating site XXXBlackBook. Hooked up with two women, both 8+, in the first week! No, really, this site is BOGUS. Initial contacts are all computer generated. Near as I can tell no living woman has a profile on the site. I'm cancelling as soon as I finish this message. I might try AFF to see what pops up.Tried about 4 different dating sites all BS you get all different woman writing you at first. Try to hook up no chance. All computerized. You she a shit load of same profile on all different sites.

Good luck Any hits let me know!

Thanks

Survey Says
03-02-09, 16:08
I have tried Plenty of Fish and Adult Friend Finder as well as Craigslist. Of course YMMV, but here is where things are at for me:

Craigslist is a complete bust. No real posts from real women. My posts have yet to yield human responses.craigslist did work for me on business trips to large cities. Found companionship by honestly advertising that I was in town on business.

For locals, I found two ladies on POF and one on AFF. All are OK, a little heavy, but love to hook up whenever. One even pays for the motel room herself. All have good oral skills and are very discreet.

The key for me has been to be completely honest and up front about everything.

Good luck


I got onto POF shortly after reading this from you. It's been alright and I have hooked up on a few occasions. The girls aren't 10's, but they have their needs too!

Craigslist is not a bust here in SoCal. There are quite a few fake ads, but you can normally tell. It's pretty reliable and I don't recall ever being ripped off from them.

SS

Murdogg525
03-03-09, 21:47
We enjoy taking and swapping pics

Au Buffguy
03-03-09, 21:55
I've been successful at meeting a great woman on POF. Married girl whose not getting enough at home. Been seeing her off and on since fall. Lots of good sweaty times. Have also chatted with another who lives farther away where I travel for work. Again another mom with not enough mojo in her life. Could do more if I had more time to work it. POF is AOK by me.

Murdogg525
03-03-09, 21:55
We enjoy taking and swapping pics A few more pics

Memphis Guy
03-04-09, 01:03
Oh my goodness you are doing her BAREBACK.

Hell NO

Monger Forever
03-04-09, 02:26
Oh my goodness you are doing her BAREBACK.

Hell NO


Hell I would bare back her and DATY !!! !

Tanboat05
03-06-09, 17:05
Hell I would bare back her and DATY !!! !

I am with you. I love women whos husbands aren't delivering or allow their wives to see other men.

Mac Dre33
03-06-09, 17:42
Hell I would bare back her and DATY !!! !I would bareback her ALL DAY.

Murdogg525
03-07-09, 12:49
A few more for you pleasure

Mr Wild 911
03-07-09, 15:30
I love watching my wife get banged in front of me. I also think it is great to know that she is taking 2 inside her. If anyone wants to join in for the festivities pm me.

Misfit
03-08-09, 07:42
Excellent pics.

Misfit

Drivin for Fun
03-09-09, 16:37
Murdogg...GREAT pix, and I'd love to have my face buried between those thighs!

Anyway, on to my original topic I've been on several ''dating'' sites, with varying results. I've used AOL, OBC, and C/L, and here are some of my results.

AOL women seem to be the most intelligent and most honest about what they're looking for, but the most difficult to hear back from. I found that I would have to write to 10 to get one response, and we all know that takes time. That said, I've had affairs with three that lasted a while. Currently, I'm seeing one that I've seen for over two years. But with an affair comes some drama, and I guess you have to ''pay'' some way. Oh, and I even found several couples that liked threesomes, one of which I played with once a month for almost a year.

I was on OBC for a while, met a few, and some panned out and others didn't. One I'm still seeing when I get into her area, and have been for about 1-1/2 years. Some are pros, but most are looking for fwb, and many have issues. Overall, I've found that OBC women are REALLY full of drama or complete flakes, and I've cancelled my subscription.

Then there's C/L. Yes, most are bots or flakes, but every once in a while...Like the one I'm seeing now. She advertised as needing some spare cash because she doesn't have a job. She let me set the rate, and yes, I may be overpaying, but there are a couple of advantages to that: She meets when it works for ME, does anything I want to do, and always arrives smelling and tasting good. And I'm her first and so far, only ''john''. I know this because I've been with plenty of p4p women, and she was so nervous the first time that I thought she was going to not go through with it. But with a little DATY, kissing, a backrub, I went where no paying guy had gone before! And, it's more like a FWB relationship than professional. She never counted the money until she got home, I know because she never asked how much, and about 10 mins after she left I called her to make sure she wasn't dissapointed in the amount. So, all that said, there are a very few ''legit'' ads on C/L, you just have to learn to screen them, and then write MORE than a one line response. In this case she said she wasn't going to answer any of the letters because she didn't know if she could go through with it, but liked mine because it was funny.

So there's my perspective. Obviously, YMMV, but I've always found the results, like in anything else, are only as good as the effort you put forth.

Good luck, and Murdogg, let me LICK that FABULOUS woman!

Using what I have while it will still stand up,

Drivin For FUN

M Fever
03-18-09, 23:18
A few more pics
that is a very pretty flower!

Robertj3886
04-01-09, 19:37
I wrote a letter to the editor to my local paper a couple of times in the past. When they print the article, they include your email. Lo and behold, I had a response from a married woman who thought my letter was insightful so we met up and chatted after work. Well now I have tapped that three times now and am going back tonight for more. Worked for me any way. Keep those cards and letters coming.

Drivin for Fun
04-03-09, 12:12
In my previous post about web sites, I mentioned AOL, when I really meant AAF! AOL women are so 90's!!! LOL, and yes, I did meet a couple of them there in the early 90's, and one of which I still actually write to on a somewhat regular basis...but then she's in New Orleans and I'm in Vermont!

Anyway, getting back to the web site stuff, I just lost the one OBC woman I'd been seeing...she is now with someone she can call a permanent boyfriend, whereas I am just an old married fart!

But then, I have been contacted by a woman on this site who doesn't live too far from here and seems sane, kinky, and FUN. I'll let you all know what happens with that situation.

Good luck,

Drivin

Hugh Jardon
04-28-09, 22:33
I wrote a letter to the editor to my local paper a couple of times in the past. When they print the article, they include your email. Lo and behold, I had a response from a married woman who thought my letter was insightful so we met up and chatted after work. Well now I have tapped that three times now and am going back tonight for more. Worked for me any way. Keep those cards and letters coming.
Awesome!

I have never heard of getting laid from writing a letter to the editor of the paper. You must have some game!

David51
11-15-09, 23:52
I have had some success posting on CL in casual encounters, but it seems to be getting harder and harder. I travel a lot for work, so I generally post in whatever city I am in...have hooked up in a few places, and now have a regular in the LA area, Vegas, and around home (Philly area). (But I don't get to Vegas nor CA often!) Met the local one on AFF (I think...can't remember since it's been a while).

One trick that helps separate the bots is that I post two different ads around the same time on CL...when I get the same response twice, I know it's not real.

I would like to figure out a more reliable method, but am still searching. Have done the street route but most of the time I chicken out. The pros on CL generally want too much $ for not enough time or action...I always feel rushed and then feel I wasted my money. But maybe I'm cheap.

Travelrat
11-16-09, 17:35
Try Tagged. I've had success on this website. It's free, all you have to do is sign up. Last week, met two different women in two different cities: Grand Rapids, MI and Elkhart, IN. Had uncovered FS with both. I was looking for older ladies, 45+. First was 48 and next was 49. Both a little overweight, but the women on this site post a little about their background. If they're "married", or "it's complicated" and looking for friends, it's pretty easy to exchange a few emails and then connect. Read their profile, if they have porn pics (many do), they are looking. The married ones leave you alone afterwards. However, both want me to see them again next time I'm in town. This site is better than POF. Also, met one lady looking for income supplementation, she wanted. 5 for FS. She's in Milwaukee, can supply details if interested.


I have had some success posting on CL in casual encounters, but it seems to be getting harder and harder. I travel a lot for work, so I generally post in whatever city I am in...have hooked up in a few places, and now have a regular in the LA area, Vegas, and around home (Philly area). (But I don't get to Vegas nor CA often!) Met the local one on AFF (I think...can't remember since it's been a while).

One trick that helps separate the bots is that I post two different ads around the same time on CL...when I get the same response twice, I know it's not real.

I would like to figure out a more reliable method, but am still searching. Have done the street route but most of the time I chicken out. The pros on CL generally want too much $ for not enough time or action...I always feel rushed and then feel I wasted my money. But maybe I'm cheap.

RediMax42
12-22-09, 18:04
My best responses don't come til 3-4 weeks after I posted...sometime after I thought the post was deleted....why the delay? no clue. But they have all panned out.





I have had some success posting on CL in casual encounters, but it seems to be getting harder and harder. I travel a lot for work, so I generally post in whatever city I am in...have hooked up in a few places, and now have a regular in the LA area, Vegas, and around home (Philly area). (But I don't get to Vegas nor CA often!) Met the local one on AFF (I think...can't remember since it's been a while).

One trick that helps separate the bots is that I post two different ads around the same time on CL...when I get the same response twice, I know it's not real.

I would like to figure out a more reliable method, but am still searching. Have done the street route but most of the time I chicken out. The pros on CL generally want too much $ for not enough time or action...I always feel rushed and then feel I wasted my money. But maybe I'm cheap.

Clemsoncat
01-03-11, 20:49
I have had pretty good luck on AFF over the years but no so far on OBC but I keep trying.


In my previous post about web sites, I mentioned AOL, when I really meant AAF! AOL women are so 90's! LOL, and yes, I did meet a couple of them there in the early 90's, and one of which I still actually write to on a somewhat regular basis. But then she's in New Orleans and I'm in Vermont!

Anyway, getting back to the web site stuff, I just lost the one OBC woman I'd been seeing. She is now with someone she can call a permanent boyfriend, whereas I am just an old married fart!

But then, I have been contacted by a woman on this site who doesn't live too far from here and seems sane, kinky, and FUN. I'll let you all know what happens with that situation.

Good luck,

Drivin

A John
01-22-11, 10:13
Big loss to the porn Ind. Was not sure were too post R. I. P. Dear.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1349273/German-star-dies-breast-op-Big-Brother-star-dies-SIXTH-enlargement.html

Carolin Berger, a 23-year-old German adult film star who went by the name "Cora," died following her sixth breast enlargement surgery. The starlet, photographed here while on the 10th season of "Big Brother," died Thursday.

Porn Star Blows Her Chance At BJ Record

http://www.buzzfeed.com/steveo/carolin-berger-jt

Warpig2000
01-31-11, 18:48
Anyone using the dating site PlentyofFish, your data and that of thirty million others may be out in the hacker sphere.

Offical PlentyofFish blog:

http://plentyoffish.wordpress.com/2011/01/31/plentyoffish-hacked/

Hacker's story:

http://grumomedia.com/plenty-of-fish-hacked-chris-russos-explains-how-he-did-it/

Pissing match:

http://krebsonsecurity.com/2011/01/plentyoffish-com-hacked-blames-messenger/

I was considering using this site on the basis of what I read in this forum- personally I think I will hold off for a few months while POF gets its act together and the security hole is fixed

Davidonecall
02-17-11, 15:27
Anyone using the dating site PlentyofFish, your data and that of thirty million others may be out in the hacker sphere.

Offical PlentyofFish blog:

http://plentyoffish.wordpress.com/2011/01/31/plentyoffish-hacked/

Hacker's story:

http://grumomedia.com/plenty-of-fish-hacked-chris-russos-explains-how-he-did-it/

Pissing match:

http://krebsonsecurity.com/2011/01/plentyoffish-com-hacked-blames-messenger/

I was considering using this site on the basis of what I read in this forum- personally I think I will hold off for a few months while POF gets its act together and the security hole is fixedHave anyone know if they have corrected the problem with plentyoffish. Com?

The Good Doctor
03-21-11, 10:08
Their blog states the hack was minor and mainly done to try to get POF to sign up for "protection". The vulnerability was fixed and all is good, or so they say.

Clemsoncat
04-08-11, 18:43
Their blog states the hack was minor and mainly done to try to get POF to sign up for "protection". The vulnerability was fixed and all is good, or so they say.Yup so they say. We'll see

Member #3996
05-30-11, 17:25
I would just like to add that fling. Com is another good website to find good quality pussy on there. I met a girl on there sometime early 09' and I still fuck to this very day, bareback and anal and all. But it all depends on your game though. If you approach with the first thing out of your mouth being "Hey let's fuck." then you can forget it. You have to come more creative than that.

Davidonecall
05-30-11, 23:44
I would just like to add that fling. Com is another good website to find good quality pussy on there. I met a girl on there sometime early 09' and I still fuck to this very day, bareback and anal and all. But it all depends on your game though. If you approach with the first thing out of your mouth being "Hey let's fuck." then you can forget it. You have to come more creative than that.If this is the girl you meant or seen let me knoe because I think I'm becoming a member. She is super hot.

Mrlefty
06-01-11, 11:31
I would just like to add that fling. Com is another good website to find good quality pussy on there. I met a girl on there sometime early 09' and I still fuck to this very day, bareback and anal and all. But it all depends on your game though. If you approach with the first thing out of your mouth being "Hey let's fuck." then you can forget it. You have to come more creative than that.So, what is your approach then? Curious minds want to know.

Member #3996
06-03-11, 21:08
If this is the girl you meant or seen let me knoe because I think I'm becoming a member. She is super hot.Yes, this is her. I didn't want to show her face out of respect for her. But this is the same one I met off of fling.

Member #3996
06-03-11, 23:52
So, what is your approach then? Curious minds want to know.Well I'm not saying that my approach will work for you OR work on EVERY girl on fling. Com, but it has gotten me my fair share of pussy from there. First thing is, you have to make them feel comfortable right from the get go. Like I stated before, if your first line contains anything related to "Hey, let's fuck." or "Hey, nice tits. Can I stick my cock between them." you will more than likely get a trip straight to their ignore bin. You can do one of two things to make them comfortable, act like a civilized human being or make them laugh. Fortunately I have the talent of being a funny dude, so a joke off the bat will do it. For example with this girl here who I met off fling, I messaged her with "Hey you, what's up the 432424254 pictures on your profile? Do you really need all of those pictures on your profile, or do you actually need a constant reminder of how beautiful you look? LOL." Now of course she didn't have that many pictures up on her profile, even though it was a full 20 pic gallery, I was just saying that to make fun of her. With that statement I not only broke the ice by cracking a friendly joke at her expense, which for some odd reason most women seem to be attracted towards men poking fun at them, but I also gave her a compliment at the same time. She quickly responsed with an LOL and then exchanged numbers about 3 e-mails later. Now if you can't be a comedian, a simple "Hey, how are you? How is your day going today?" will suffice. You have to remember, these girls get about a million messages a day, with about 98% of them consisting of the messages I said not to say in the beginning of this spiel. So even just a simple introduction such as asking them how their day was or weekend will make you stand out from the rest. Anyways my friend, I hoped this answered your question on what approach to use.

Davidonecall
06-04-11, 02:02
Yes, this is her. I didn't want to show her face out of respect for her. But this is the same one I met off of fling.You are lucky, I'm going to try this out. You know just like backpage and CL its a gamble. Most of the time its a different girl that the picture or its a very old picture. We all change but some take a turn for the worse.

Member #3996
06-04-11, 02:07
You are lucky, I'm going to try this out. You know just like backpage and CL its a gamble. Most of the time its a different girl that the picture or its a very old picture. We all change but some take a turn for the worse.Oh yes, I definitely agree with you on that one. Luckily the ones I ran into that were bigger in person than in their pictures, or who were ugly in person than in their pictures I had already seen on webcam before we had actually met up. So I had the opportunity to avoid the awkwardness of having to pretend to be okay meeting someone who looked nothing like their picture thanks to that method. I always try to either get them on webcam or send me the most recent pic of them from their phone since most phones have a camera on them.

Junkman53
06-20-11, 20:57
I would just like to add that fling. Com is another good website to find good quality pussy on there. I met a girl on there sometime early 09' and I still fuck to this very day, bareback and anal and all. But it all depends on your game though. If you approach with the first thing out of your mouth being "Hey let's fuck." then you can forget it. You have to come more creative than that.What are my chance of getting a reply from a woman if I send a penis pic versus a face pic?

Member #3996
06-21-11, 00:21
What are my chance of getting a reply from a woman if I send a penis pic versus a face pic?Slim. Unless you are hung like a elephant or look like Ryan Reynolds, most women will react more off of what you say then what you show. Now unless she specifically asks for a picture from you, I would go with the face pic first and then gradually move up to more explicit pics.

Mbwrink
10-08-11, 04:13
Anyone using the dating site PlentyofFish, your data and that of thirty million others may be out in the hacker sphere.

Offical PlentyofFish blog:

http://plentyoffish.wordpress.com/2011/01/31/plentyoffish-hacked/

Hacker's story:

http://grumomedia.com/plenty-of-fish-hacked-chris-russos-explains-how-he-did-it/

Pissing match:

http://krebsonsecurity.com/2011/01/plentyoffish-com-hacked-blames-messenger/

I was considering using this site on the basis of what I read in this forum- personally I think I will hold off for a few months while POF gets its act together and the security hole is fixedOnly 345 accounts were downloaded and it sound slike POF has sealed the breach but the bozo who pulled it off was stupid enough to do so in the clear so he could be indentified and left himsell open to civil lawsuits as well as criminal charges for hacking and extortion.

Purple Porkchop
02-10-12, 15:59
Took your advice sort of and tried a soft approach. Didn't take your advice and used craigslist. Got one nibble and 5 commercial hits. The nibble was interested but didn't like my ball and chain. (better to be honest then have an issue later). Thought a small town in a not to metro area would return better results.

Will try FLING. Com next. I beginning to believe there is no such thing as free pussy

AMPs are looking better and better

GogoMaya
07-02-12, 09:38
International portal!

Here's a tape.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kRGiTDVGoaE

And.

http://www.sex-date.de/minicms/id/Sex_Date_Talk_37.html

GogoMaya
07-02-12, 09:43
International Portal!

Here's a tape.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kRGiTDVGoaE

And.

http://www.sex-date.de/minicms/id/Sex_Date_Talk_37.html

Black Treechas
07-28-12, 00:37
If preggo is your thing, I do know a lady in the Philipines that will do webcam for you, with voice, for a nominal fee through paypal. If interested, send me a PM

Joe Black
08-28-12, 21:10
Do you have any pics of such lady. It will make it interesting to see what she looks like.

I love them pregos.

Joe Black.


If preggo is your thing, I do know a lady in the Philipines that will do webcam for you, with voice, for a nominal fee through paypal. If interested, send me a PM

Joe Black
02-16-13, 23:36
You posting crap.


International portal!

Here's a tape.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kRGiTDVGoaE

And.

http://www.sex-date.de/minicms/id/Sex_Date_Talk_37.html

Toshi69
03-27-14, 19:13
Craigslist does work for me, but like others mentioned, sometimes takes a couple of weeks for a good hit. Lots of bs responses though.


Took your advice sort of and tried a soft approach. Didn't take your advice and used craigslist. Got one nibble and 5 commercial hits. The nibble was interested but didn't like my ball and chain. (better to be honest then have an issue later). Thought a small town in a not to metro area would return better results.

Will try FLING. Com next. I beginning to believe there is no such thing as free pussy

AMPs are looking better and better

Steve508
05-17-14, 10:41
I beginning to believe there is no such thing as free pussy Free is not always the best. Remember if you pay for it you are paying for them to leave.

Xephon
12-14-14, 00:00
So I'm new to the hobby, wanted to see if any vets know of any posts or could lend some insight isn't what's the best way when trying to find a girl on backpage. Is it safer to stay to the body rubs section? I'm on vacation and wanted to find a provider to meet up with. Been texting a few with potential but I can't find any reviews on them. Any knowledge is appreciated.

Dsrtp1
12-14-14, 16:19
So I'm new to the hobby, wanted to see if any vets know of any posts or could lend some insight isn't what's the best way when trying to find a girl on backpage. Is it safer to stay to the body rubs section? I'm on vacation and wanted to find a provider to meet up with. Been texting a few with potential but I can't find any reviews on them. Any knowledge is appreciated.Google their phone and cross reference on other site reviews (ter). Checking the forum here is a great place to find reviews. Google search their pics. Hope this helps, be safe.

Emerica9283
03-21-15, 23:47
So I'm new to the hobby, wanted to see if any vets know of any posts or could lend some insight isn't what's the best way when trying to find a girl on backpage. Is it safer to stay to the body rubs section? I'm on vacation and wanted to find a provider to meet up with. Been texting a few with potential but I can't find any reviews on them. Any knowledge is appreciated.Hey, another new guy here but I have some mongering experience. I live in a small town, close to a military base so local PD is really tight down here. 99% of the girls here don't have reviews on the big sites (eroticreview) and the thread for my city has been dead for years now. If you're in the same situation as me, the best and really only think you can do is travel to a nearby city and read up on reviews on this site. As Dsrtp1 said, searching their pics is pretty useful, but sometimes real providers will use fake pics to hide their identity.

Dynolas
03-01-16, 19:15
Hi I'm new to the US site, I'm a senior member on the international version of this site. Not sure if both related even thou both are 1:1 except international site doesn't have us.

Is it neccesary to have account with p411, date check, and other similar sites?

Since I really want to stay anonymous and don't want some Ashly Madison incident if those sites ever get hacked. Never seen this type of check on the monger when it came to international escorts in Europe or Asia.

Ray Alan
03-03-16, 14:30
Hi I'm new to the US site, I'm a senior member on the international version of this site. Not sure if both related even thou both are 1:1 except international site doesn't have us.

Is it neccesary to have account with p411, date check, and other similar sites?

Since I really want to stay anonymous and don't want some Ashly Madison incident if those sites ever get hacked. Never seen this type of check on the monger when it came to international escorts in Europe or Asia.If I am understanding you correctly, you do not need to be a member of any other monger / hobbyist site to be a member here. You are fully anonymous here unless of course you decide to reveal your real name and address in a post.

Welcome to the board and all it has to offer.

Dynolas
03-03-16, 17:48
Thanks ray Alan, what I meant to say is if I want to hire an escort is it necessary to have this p411, date check and other verifications? Since I really don't want to give out personal info and prefer anonymous. Since I really don't want some Ashley Madison incident.


If I am understanding you correctly, you do not need to be a member of any other monger / hobbyist site to be a member here. You are fully anonymous here unless of course you decide to reveal your real name and address in a post.

Welcome to the board and all it has to offer.

Ray Alan
03-07-16, 12:24
Thanks ray Alan, what I meant to say is if I want to hire an escort is it necessary to have this p411, date check and other verifications? Since I really don't want to give out personal info and prefer anonymous. Since I really don't want some Ashley Madison incident.Some of the girls that advertise here and on BESTGFE require references of some kind and Date Check and P411 are acceptable for many. It all comes down to your own persoanl comfort level as to what information you are will to give out, which you do make clear. I am leery myself giving out job info for references.

PaolaRomana
06-20-16, 06:56
ITALIANS DO IT BETTER.

https://c1.staticflickr.com/1/740/23628652275_405f4dd4a1_b.jpg

RainbowDragon
07-05-16, 22:56
Check out the boobs!

HapaBoy86
07-09-16, 04:10
Check out the boobs!Droopppppppyyyyy!

Ray Alan
07-12-16, 12:27
Check out the boobs!Is this chick 80 years old?

ComputerMan
09-18-16, 10:34
Hi,

Sugar Dating is a rapidly growing industry with several sites servicing the industry. The biggest, SeekingArrangements (SA) seems to be going the way of BackPage, Craigslist, etc. As it has been overrun by bad elements. Many are complaining (especially at $70/ month subscription!

Also, since Sugar Dating is the new big thing, shouldn't there be a section for it as well? Plus info. About Sugar Babies (SBs) for all the sites other than just SA? Sites like StrikeUps.com, ArrangementFinders.com, Sugardaddyforme.com, etc. ?

Personally, I haven't used a true provider for several years preferring the Sugar Dating and the fun and personal touch of Sugar Dating.

MeyghaMann
04-08-18, 22:26
Check out the boobs!I think people might be confuseing the hair for wrinkles LOL.

WillyHost
03-25-19, 21:57
Hi,

Sugar Dating is a rapidly growing industry with several sites servicing the industry. The biggest, SeekingArrangements (SA) seems to be going the way of BackPage, Craigslist, etc. As it has been overrun by bad elements. Many are complaining (especially at $70/ month subscription!

Also, since Sugar Dating is the new big thing, shouldn't there be a section for it as well? Plus info. About Sugar Babies (SBs) for all the sites other than just SA? Sites like StrikeUps.com, ArrangementFinders.com, Sugardaddyforme.com, etc. ?

Personally, I haven't used a true provider for several years preferring the Sugar Dating and the fun and personal touch of Sugar Dating.I've been an SA member for a bit, its very different from a dedicated provider. SA takes work / effort / time. It is very rare to message someone, get an instant reply & connect. While there are pros who use SA many are not. When you do put in the time & find a real connection it it truly a rewarding experience. I just recently received a message from a sweet heart I've not heard from in over a year, she wanted to re-connect. Maybe not for everyone however I for one am a fan.

Satime
03-28-19, 00:29
I've been an SA member for a bit, its very different from a dedicated provider. SA takes work / effort / time. It is very rare to message someone, get an instant reply & connect. While there are pros who use SA many are not. When you do put in the time & find a real connection it it truly a rewarding experience. I just recently received a message from a sweet heart I've not heard from in over a year, she wanted to re-connect. Maybe not for everyone however I for one am a fan.How much were you spending on the dates?

Taylor Taste
04-04-19, 10:13
How much were you spending on the dates?I'm spending $$$ on average for date not including hotel. It's a lot of mixed results and people who aren't what they say they are. There needs to be a better review process. This website is great and all but is there one dedicated more to sugar babies and SA and the other websites? The girls shouldn't be playing us like this.

DPunisHer
05-21-20, 05:38
If a chic post pics of her sucking a dick, that guy is her Pimp and you should avoid her.

CharissaSaleh
08-12-20, 02:56
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TwoPop
10-07-20, 23:37
If a chic post pics of her sucking a dick, that guy is her Pimp and you should avoid her.Not necessarily, I was once asked if I could take a picture of a hot provider giving me a BBBJ so she could put it in her ad. Sure enough, it showed up in her ad and was there for 6 months.

DuckyDick1
01-04-22, 05:52
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Poogee
04-10-22, 02:02
Not sure if this the limitation of Brave Browser, but, I truly searched for answer on "work around" using * via gift cards.

I don't want to leave a digital footprints, so I looked up on email generators and password generators to create a OF account.

What I'm stumped is the payment.

I understand how your payment ties to OF and Host, but, I don't want to even try a month.

There's only one couple I'm interested because I want to be absolutely sure. Its a couple I may know based on their tattoos.

I just want to satisfy that curiosity. I'm remotely interested in following them either.

I 'm just itching to prove to myself that its them. Once satisfied, I'll move on to gardening or reading books. Because those hobbies are far more interesting than these two.

Just need to scratch that itch.

Thanks for the insight.

Rhh33
07-25-22, 13:49
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PdxHuskie
08-28-22, 14:32
Not necessarily, I was once asked if I could take a picture of a hot provider giving me a BBBJ so she could put it in her ad. Sure enough, it showed up in her ad and was there for 6 months.She said she wanted a real thick dick for a profile pic and used mine, leaking out of her red lipstick mouth until she retired.

Great ego boost!