Premature ejaculation

[MrFrankRicard]

When I'm with a provider I tend to blow really quick. Whereas in my regular life I can control my orgasm. I've tried multiple positions as well as numbing gel on my balls. Last week I wanted to blow as soon as she started blowing me. Any tips?

[Fe Maiden]

When I'm with a provider I tend to blow really quick. Whereas in my regular life I can control my orgasm. I've tried multiple positions as well as numbing gel on my balls. Last week I wanted to blow as soon as she started blowing me. Any tips?Numbing gel should go on the sensitive parts of the penis and not the balls. Maybe that's the issue?

[John Dough]

When I'm with a provider I tend to blow really quick. Whereas in my regular life I can control my orgasm.The Coolidge Effect states that males will show renewed interest and finish faster with a new female than with a prior partner. The refractory period is also reduced with a new partner. Repeating with the same provider may help you last longer. Masturbating a couple of times before you go should also help, as shown on the attached graph. SSRI drugs like Dapoxatine delay ejaculation. There is a thread on that topic, and also one on PE remedies, that discusses herbal solutions.