View Full Version : Provider visit frequency. When is it too much?
Dealing with escorts was extremely frustrating. Either they don't answer the phone or when you show up they aren't available. Couldn't find a reliable one. You also have to drive upwards of 30+ minutes to see one (then add cost of hotel).
I Recently discovered AMPs, there are several within my area, you walk in, CFS, over time I started getting BBBJ, and eventually I'd like to work my way up to BBFS.
Anyway. The question is how often are you guys visiting providers? For me it used to be once a month, at this point I'm going every week, could be 2 x a week at one point.
What's everyone's average frequency?
Bishop8891
11-12-23, 10:32
Dealing with escorts was extremely frustrating. Either they don't answer the phone or when you show up they aren't available. Couldn't find a reliable one. You also have to drive upwards of 30+ minutes to see one (then add cost of hotel).
I Recently discovered AMPs, there are several within my area, you walk in, CFS, over time I started getting BBBJ, and eventually I'd like to work my way up to BBFS.
Anyway. The question is how often are you guys visiting providers? For me it used to be once a month, at this point I'm going every week, could be 2 x a week at one point.
What's everyone's average frequency?I don't think there is one answer to this question. I would say go as often as you like and can afford.
Try multiple AMP's to help spice it up. But I am sure your favorite provider would love to see you once or twice a week.
That will help build a strong relationship with benefits I believe.
BarebakRussian
11-12-23, 10:40
Dealing with escorts was extremely frustrating. Either they don't answer the phone or when you show up they aren't available. Couldn't find a reliable one. You also have to drive upwards of 30+ minutes to see one (then add cost of hotel).
I Recently discovered AMPs, there are several within my area, you walk in, CFS, over time I started getting BBBJ, and eventually I'd like to work my way up to BBFS.
Anyway. The question is how often are you guys visiting providers? For me it used to be once a month, at this point I'm going every week, could be 2 x a week at one point.
What's everyone's average frequency?I'd like to be able to go once a week, in fact I used to be able to, but limited funds and unreliable providers put an end to all that. But just the fact that you're asking the question indicates to me that you think it's too much. So that's your answer, I think.
Dealing with escorts was extremely frustrating. Either they don't answer the phone or when you show up they aren't available. Couldn't find a reliable one. You also have to drive upwards of 30+ minutes to see one (then add cost of hotel).
I Recently discovered AMPs, there are several within my area, you walk in, CFS, over time I started getting BBBJ, and eventually I'd like to work my way up to BBFS.
Anyway. The question is how often are you guys visiting providers? For me it used to be once a month, at this point I'm going every week, could be 2 x a week at one point.
What's everyone's average frequency?MB, I understand. If you can afford to go twice, do it. Rationalize it. Is it therapeutic to you, how do you feel afterwards, does it transform you, what other diversions do you spend your money on? If this is your only vice and are fiscally OK, go for it. Things don't last anyway, so live for the day.
I don't think there is one answer to this question. I would say go as often as you like and can afford.
Try multiple AMP's to help spice it up. But I am sure your favorite provider would love to see you once or twice a week.
That will help build a strong relationship with benefits I believe.Good idea, Its INSANE how much this hobby can cost, I saw in the high end section people are paying PER visit what my total monthly budget is. (about $1,000).
I'm almost at the point where I don't want to take care of my business anymore and have someone else do it, much more rewarding.
I'd like to be able to go once a week, in fact I used to be able to, but limited funds and unreliable providers put an end to all that. But just the fact that you're asking the question indicates to me that you think it's too much. So that's your answer, I think.Yeah its the unreliable providers that got me before, AMPs are inexpensive by comparison. I tried a few escorts and they are just too unreliable, a few that.
I've tried have gone clean, boyfriends, engaged and married within 6 months LOL.
Yeah its the unreliable providers that got me before, AMPs are inexpensive by comparison. I tried a few escorts and they are just too unreliable, a few that.
I've tried have gone clean, boyfriends, engaged and married within 6 months LOL.That's why, if you stay in the game and find an excellent provider, please see her as often as possible. To add to your list: depression, custody battles and moving will abruptly end the best of arrangements. You won't always see it coming and may not find it again in your lifetime even with civies.
That's why, if you stay in the game and find an excellent provider, please see her as often as possible. To add to your list: depression, custody battles and moving will abruptly end the best of arrangements. You won't always see it coming and may not find it again in your lifetime even with civies.Now, if you guys really want to feel good, try to roughly calculate how much total cash you have burned on providers during your whole life.
That's a real eye opener.
I On Da Street
11-13-23, 09:36
I'd like to be able to go once a week, in fact I used to be able to, but limited funds and unreliable providers put an end to all that. But just the fact that you're asking the question indicates to me that you think it's too much. So that's your answer, I think.My issue was more of available time. Sometimes I went weekly, sometimes every other week. Especially when I had one near work that was open late or willing to stay open for me (lights would be off, door locked until I sent a text, usually when I was parking just down the street). If they are reasonable in the service you provide and you treat them respectfully, I found more became available. Maybe not as much as I may like but given the limits of the providers in my area it's worth cultivating the relationship.
Now, if you guys really want to feel good, try to roughly calculate how much total cash you have burned on providers during your whole life.
That's a real eye opener.Mann listen, I bought a car for $60,000, the following year it was worth about 50 k. Next year about 42 k, I've lost more money on depreciating assets than I can count, at least the providers stay the same age LOL.
I see both the car and the providers services as necessary evils.
My issue was more of available time. Sometimes I went weekly, sometimes every other week. Especially when I had one near work that was open late or willing to stay open for me (lights would be off, door locked until I sent a text, usually when I was parking just down the street). If they are reasonable in the service you provide and you treat them respectfully, I found more became available. Maybe not as much as I may like but given the limits of the providers in my area it's worth cultivating the relationship.I asked one of my frequent fliers if I could go BB and she said "we will see".
Hey, it wasnt a "no" I'll take it!
I'd like to be able to go once a week, in fact I used to be able to, but limited funds and unreliable providers put an end to all that. But just the fact that you're asking the question indicates to me that you think it's too much. So that's your answer, I think.High end escort / pornstar $1000+ - 1 time per month.
Regular escort $300 - 2 times per week.
Sugar baby - 4 times per month.
Street walker - 5 times per month.
It's not a hard fast rule sometimes it could just be seeing the SB all month It depends on what's available.
High end escort / pornstar $1000+ - 1 time per month.
Regular escort $300 - 2 times per week.
Sugar baby - 4 times per month.
Street walker - 5 times per month.
It's not a hard fast rule sometimes it could just be seeing the SB all month It depends on what's available.Whats the average SB rate for "seeing" them 4 x per month I wonder.
HavingSoFun
11-15-23, 09:31
High end escort / pornstar $1000+ - 1 time per month.
Regular escort $300 - 2 times per week.
Sugar baby - 4 times per month.
Street walker - 5 times per month.
It's not a hard fast rule sometimes it could just be seeing the SB all month It depends on what's available.I've been mongering for over 50 years, I'm 70 now and spend 1 k or more a week, mostly on AMPs on the south shore. I have my favorites that I've been seeing for years!
I've been mongering for over 50 years, I'm 70 now and spend 1 k or more a week, mostly on AMPs on the south shore. I have my favorites that I've been seeing for years!I do 400-500 month. Depends. Split between AMPs, QV off STG, $30 streetwalker, maybe a half hour here and there for $150 etc. Generally something once a week.
I've been mongering for over 50 years, I'm 70 now and spend 1 k or more a week, mostly on AMPs on the south shore. I have my favorites that I've been seeing for years!Having, good for you. What is your frequency to be spending that coin on AMPs? Must be 5 or more times a week for FS. With extras? I'm intrigued and impressed.
I've been mongering for over 50 years, I'm 70 now and spend 1 k or more a week, mostly on AMPs on the south shore. I have my favorites that I've been seeing for years!1 k per week? God bless you sir. I need to start making more money.
You are an older gentleman, how do the women react to you?
I do 400-500 month. Depends. Split between AMPs, QV off STG, $30 streetwalker, maybe a half hour here and there for $150 etc. Generally something once a week.500 average per month, visiting once a week, you are good at finding deals for sure.
500 average per month, visiting once a week, you are good at finding deals for sure.Sometimes it's a $30 streetwalker, so that helps cut down the costs. So if I do a street hooker a couple weeks, I have like $400 for the other 2 weeks. If I mix a cheap BBBJ off the street here and there, yiu can stretch your mongor $$. LOL. Like a coupon. Ha!
HavingSoFun
11-16-23, 13:51
1 k per week? God bless you sir. I need to start making more money.
You are an older gentleman, how do the women react to you?I am older, but have been told I don't look nearly my age. The women I see don't have an issue with it at all! Some meet me before they open and some after they close. We spend the entire time having fun! I've had the full menu with all of them. I have been blessed / cursed with a very high sex drive. I treat them well and they treat me very well! I will continue to do it as long as I can!!
I am older, but have been told I don't look nearly my age. The women I see don't have an issue with it at all! Some meet me before they open and some after they close. We spend the entire time having fun! I've had the full menu with all of them. I have been blessed / cursed with a very high sex drive. I treat them well and they treat me very well! I will continue to do it as long as I can!!Salute to you sir!
I've been mongering for over 50 years, I'm 70 now Did you start in high school?
and spend 1 k or more a week, mostly on AMPs on the south shore. I have my favorites that I've been seeing for years!$52,000 per year for over 50 years. Over $2,600,000 ? I wish I had your money. Of course, I'm sure YOU wish you had your money.
HavingSoFun
11-20-23, 06:53
Did you start in high school?
$52,000 per year for over 50 years. Over $2,600,000 ? I wish I had your money. Of course, I'm sure YOU wish you had your money.No, right out of high school!! I have not been spending that kind of money for that many years. Only the last few years. I'm having a blast!! And don't regret a thing!
Never posted anything before does anyone has any tips on how to stop? LOL I'm 34 b doing it since 19 I've seen 7 different in the same week like 10 yes ago when it much cheaper now I do like 2 ,3 a week at 3 oo a pop in can't keep this up it's half of my pay check every week.
Never posted anything before does anyone has any tips on how to stop? LOL I'm 34 b doing it since 19 I've seen 7 different in the same week like 10 yes ago when it much cheaper now I do like 2 ,3 a week at 3 oo a pop in can't keep this up it's half of my pay check every week.Tauros, thanks for posting. A theme which many of us dare not expose. PM me if you want. Please make some changes. I think you started too young. It is far better to have built a financially sturdy ground first, having dated or self pleasured for years before. Your trending needs to change, so I hope you can devise some strategies to achieve that.
Never posted anything before does anyone has any tips on how to stop? LOL I'm 34 b doing it since 19 I've seen 7 different in the same week like 10 yes ago when it much cheaper now I do like 2 ,3 a week at 3 oo a pop in can't keep this up it's half of my pay check every week.If you're REALLY serious, and ideally have decent medical insurance, a qualified counselor. LCSW or PhD psychologist. One who has a practice that includes sex compulsions. You're far from alone nor unique in this regard! Good luck!
If you're REALLY serious, and ideally have decent medical insurance, a qualified counselor. LCSW or PhD psychologist. One who has a practice that includes sex compulsions. You're far from alone nor unique in this regard! Good luck!I second this in my pm to Tauros. Alternatively, try going cold turkey and supplant this habit with something else. Maybe once you break through the wall of "need", you can carry on. Even if you wean yourself off, or just reduce, it will be a plus for you. As Bran advises, avail yourself of professional help. Good luck.
Never posted anything before does anyone has any tips on how to stop? LOL I'm 34 b doing it since 19 I've seen 7 different in the same week like 10 yes ago when it much cheaper now I do like 2 ,3 a week at 3 oo a pop in can't keep this up it's half of my pay check every week.Also, you may find some "sex addiction" online communities helpful. . . Or maybe won't. I'm pretty sure Reddit has one.
The problem with these is that everyone has their own issues. . . And people make up stuff online. . . Etc etc. But it may be worth exploring for you.
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