2 quick questions. To mostly other guys in rela's

[MadPlaid]

So.

1) how many other guys are married or in long terms that do this. I'm in one and have been doing this long before I even met her. Stopped when we met but then circumstances allured me back. No details. The relationship is still strong enough but I just like what I like. I'm a what I don't know doesn't hurt me guy, on both ends. I just try to be safe.

2) how many guys who do this would be pissed if they found out their woman was cheating? I remember having a Convo with a best friend once and asking him (he does it to). He said he'd be pissed. I thought that was selfish but then said he was stupid because if he was smart he would just look at her and say "well get through this" since that basically a get out of jail free card.

So basically how would you guys all feel if you found out your SOs were having an affair?

Just dumb questions while I'm on the toilet.

[Gonzo456]

So.

1) how many other guys are married or in long terms that do this. I'm in one and have been doing this long before I even met her. Stopped when we met but then circumstances allured me back. No details. The relationship is still strong enough but I just like what I like. I'm a what I don't know doesn't hurt me guy, on both ends. I just try to be safe.

2) how many guys who do this would be pissed if they found out their woman was cheating? I remember having a Convo with a best friend once and asking him (he does it to). He said he'd be pissed. I thought that was selfish but then said he was stupid because if he was smart he would just look at her and say "well get through this" since that basically a get out of jail free card.

So basically how would you guys all feel if you found out your SOs were having an affair?

Just dumb questions while I'm on the toilet.Been doing it on and off for a long time. Nowadays, more often when I'm not getting any at home.

I guess I'm much more open to the idea. Kind of what's good for the goose is good for the gander thing. I suggested a 3-some years ago in jest with her friends, but she was really turned off by the idea. So, I doubt that she'd ever cheat on me. But if she did, then I wouldn't feel bad about seeing escorts.

[Wild Walleye]

So.

1) how many other guys are married or in long terms that do this. I'm in one and have been doing this long before I even met her. Stopped when we met but then circumstances allured me back. No details. The relationship is still strong enough but I just like what I like. I'm a what I don't know doesn't hurt me guy, on both ends. I just try to be safe.

2) how many guys who do this would be pissed if they found out their woman was cheating? I remember having a Convo with a best friend once and asking him (he does it to). He said he'd be pissed. I thought that was selfish but then said he was stupid because if he was smart he would just look at her and say "well get through this" since that basically a get out of jail free card.

So basically how would you guys all feel if you found out your SOs were having an affair?

Just dumb questions while I'm on the toilet.I was in a LTR that spawned a bunch of kids. We had a great life. Everything was well cared for except my libido. We did it maybe twice a week but, that wasn't enough. We were together for 7 years or so before I sought supplemental assistance. I needed it. I could probably go seven days a week and still want more. It wasn't a case of wanting it so much as needing it. So, I started with a few massages and lap dances and progressed from there. I never had a girlfriend. There was never an emotional connection with the other women. I just wanted to be attracted to them and bust a nut. Transactional. Satisfying a need. I never looked to have a girlfriend on the side. I almost always played safe. There are four women with whom I have had BBFS over the last 20 years (out of about 200) one of whom was my ex. I never discussed it with anyone and no one knows. I consider that very different than having an affair. But, I doubt too many women would agree with me.

If my ex was having an affair (I. E. Emotional connection as well as intimate with another guy) I'd have been pissed.

[Woody50]

So basically how would you guys all feel if you found out your SOs were having an affair?

Just dumb questions while I'm on the toilet.Didn't you ask this same question on Rubmaps?

What is a a "rela"?

[Idkwtf]

Didn't you ask this same question on Rubmaps?

What is a a "rela"?Relationship, just guessing.