Sex Parties in San Diego

[NudeBeachPerv]

I've posted a few things in General Events and Stupid Sh! T, but I think it might be cool to have a thread to discuss sex parties for those who have an interest. Please post on recurring events that occur within San Diego County. Feel free to share experiences, ask questions and let people know about where to find events.

Thanks!

[NudeBeachPerv]

Thads has a somewhat polarizing reputation, that is people either seem to love it or hate it. It has a rare license that basically allows on premise sex parties and so far as I know this is the only place in San Diego with such a license. It has been in San Diego for many years and in the same location near downtown for a good amount of time. A few complaints about the place are that men must be nude, the ratio of men to women is bad, the regulars are cliquey and the place is in disrepair. You are allowed to bring alcohol but you can't take it out so if you drink, take just what you need for the evening. You can find more information on the Thads website, on reddit and even on Yelp.

[NudeBeachPerv]

This is not a sex club or sex party but a bar where lifestyle people meet. These informal events are on Friday evenings. Swingers will meet other swingers and then go to other places like Thads or someone's private residences. I only mention this as it could be a good way for someone who is nervous to "dip their toes. " They can go have a pint of beer, maybe talk to a few people and if they aren't digging the vibe, go home without dropping the expensive door fee of going to a party as a single man. This place is reviewed on Yelp as well as other places and is near the Barnett Adult Theater as well as a stripper club. Goes without saying, use discretion as this is a public place and not everyone at the bar will be "in the lifestyle."

[NudeBeachPerv]

This is technically a dungeon for people involved in BDSM. They used to rent out the venue to private parties such as the BBW Kisses parties and the Liz and Charles swinger parties. IDK if they still rent the venue out. They are located in an industrial park in Mira Mesa. I would personally use extreme caution if going to the venue as BDSM can be very dangerous and I've heard from credible sources they are involved in legal troubles. This is personally on my no go list but mentioning it here as it would be incomplete not to include it.

[NudeBeachPerv]

This club is located near the Gaslamp District downtown and parking can be a challenge. I think they rent the venue to different parties so you have to know the theme of the party to know if it is right for you. This is very important, just as an example, for those who don't know, MMF has a different connotation that MFM and not knowing the difference could lead you into a situation where you are very uncomfortable! I think some of the parties have a meet and greet so you could have a drink and leave if it doesn't look like it will offer what you are looking for or the clientele are making you uncomfortable.

[NudeBeachPerv]

There are a couple of groups that go up and down the coast and throw parties in hotels, in some cases they've been doing it for years and have built a solid reputation as well as a following of fans. In some cases there are new parties advertised on places like fetlife. They could be a guy and his wife looking for an adventure or scammers. So proceed with caution in regards to hotel parties.

[Member #6555]

This club is located near the Gaslamp District downtown and parking can be a challenge. I think they rent the venue to different parties so you have to know the theme of the party to know if it is right for you. This is very important, just as an example, for those who don't know, MMF has a different connotation that MFM and not knowing the difference could lead you into a situation where you are very uncomfortable! I think some of the parties have a meet and greet so you could have a drink and leave if it doesn't look like it will offer what you are looking for or the clientele are making you uncomfortable.This one interests me since I live Downtown. You sound like you've been to a lot of these. How are the quality of females at these things? I'm thinking of going to the Crave event tonight. I'm registered for it, just want to know what to generally expect (age, races, looks etc).

[NudeBeachPerv]

This one interests me since I live Downtown. You sound like you've been to a lot of these. How are the quality of females at these things? I'm thinking of going to the Crave event tonight. I'm registered for it, just want to know what to generally expect (age, races, looks etc).All the parties can vary. General advice is the best night at the worst club can be way better than the worst night at a great club.

"just want to know what to generally expect (age, races, looks etc)".

This isn't like a massage place where you can say expect petite Korean girls or whatnot. These clubs are open to those with a membership or open to the general public so your guess is as good as mine in determining whom will be there. Sometimes there will be posts on websites like Fetlife and 100 people say they are going, then when you get to the event there are far less people and hardly any of the people who said they would be going are there.

"How are the quality of females at these things?

You will see a huge cross section of the population. There will be older women and BBW's but on occasion there will be literal porn stars. Now if you mean quality as in personalities, that can get complex. You will meet really cool women who have a very open attitude towards sex but you will also see sloppy drunks and some of the ladies are a hot mess if I am completely honest. Some of the clubs such as Thads have a huge drinking culture.

Would love to hear your experience at Crave if you went.

[Waylay]

Nice thread amigo! Good to have this here.

[Sudcciv]

A couple of months ago, I got an "invite" for a "new" swinger's club that was having a "meet-and-greet" event at a downtown location (can't remember its name-but the location it met at-was around 14th and J if I remember correctly). I wound up Not going, when I saw the location, and new parking would be a challenge. I wonder if this is now the new trend, these "traveling" swing parties-have been to a few of those, but only in the IE, and OC.

[Member #6555]

So I attended the Crave party last night in Kearny Mesa. It wasn't very crowded, maybe 10 people at most. Maybe it had to do with the weather and rain? Anyways, everyone there was much older than me so immediately I was put off. I'd say everyone was 40's and up except for me. I went solo so maybe that's why it wasn't as good of a time, however it did play in to my benefit with the beautiful sexy bartender. I spent the entire night basically chatting with her and we exchanged info at the end. One guy immediately started talking to me and propositioned me to fuck his girlfriend (who wasn't there). He kept showing me photos of her on his phone and she was decent looking, but he wanted me to go off site to their home which I didn't feel like doing. I def would have fucked her if she was there. I'm sure that is common is this life style but I didn't want to leave right away and the host said no re-entry. Plus I didn't feel comfortable going back to his home. Anyways, there was a DJ playing. They have a curtain with 3 beds in it separated by dividers on the bottom floor. There is a second floor right up the stairs with a larger bed and porn playing on a tv which is the "group room".

I'm not sure I would go back here. Can't say if this was a normal night or not given the weather. I def would not return solo but I don't know any females that would entertain this idea or lifestyle. I'm sure people would be more willing to play if there was a swap. But given the ages of everyone there and how they looked, not for me. One guy there told me to check out House of Black. Everyone there was super nice and friendly though and all knew I was new and welcomed me with open arms.

[NudeBeachPerv]

So I attended the Crave party last night in Kearny Mesa. It wasn't very crowded, maybe 10 people at most. Maybe it had to do with the weather and rain? Anyways, everyone there was much older than me so immediately I was put off. I'd say everyone was 40's and up except for me. I went solo so maybe that's why it wasn't as good of a time, however it did play in to my benefit with the beautiful sexy bartender. I spent the entire night basically chatting with her and we exchanged info at the end. One guy immediately started talking to me and propositioned me to fuck his girlfriend (who wasn't there). He kept showing me photos of her on his phone and she was decent looking, but he wanted me to go off site to their home which I didn't feel like doing. I def would have fucked her if she was there. I'm sure that is common is this life style but I didn't want to leave right away and the host said no re-entry. Plus I didn't feel comfortable going back to his home. Anyways, there was a DJ playing. They have a curtain with 3 beds in it separated by dividers on the bottom floor. There is a second floor right up the stairs with a larger bed and porn playing on a tv which is the "group room".

I'm not sure I would go back here. Can't say if this was a normal night or not given the weather. I def would not return solo but I don't know any females that would entertain this idea or lifestyle. I'm sure people would be more willing to play if there was a swap. But given the ages of everyone there and how they looked, not for me. One guy there told me to check out House of Black. Everyone there was super nice and friendly though and all knew I was new and welcomed me with open arms.Thanks for the great report. I just want to share a few observations / opinions if I may.

1.) There will be a few St. Patty's Day Parties in the upcoming week. It may be the weather but it is usually quiet the week before and the week after when a bunch of big parties are scheduled so that may explain the light turnout.

2.) You will definitely have more fun if you find a "partner in crime. " In fact you could probably get yourself invited into some of the more high class swinger events that are thrown in people's private residences if you find a woman who wants to party with you.

3.) Good job connecting with the sexy bartender. While I think most guys consider being able to play makes for a successful evening, sometimes making contacts can pay dividends in the long run.

4.) As far as the guy wanting you to go to his private residence, I'd be a bit sketched out by that myself. One of the great things about the parties is you can leave your private life out of it. Kind pf like the guys who meet escorts at hotels rather than at their homes, it might cost more but it gives you distance if someone is shady. When presented with similar situations I usually say, "Bring your wife to the party next time. If there is a connection, great, if not no worries. I don't meet outside of events, too much disappointment and drama. ".

[NudeBeachPerv]

A couple of months ago, I got an "invite" for a "new" swinger's club that was having a "meet-and-greet" event at a downtown location (can't remember its name-but the location it met at-was around 14th and J if I remember correctly). I wound up Not going, when I saw the location, and new parking would be a challenge. I wonder if this is now the new trend, these "traveling" swing parties-have been to a few of those, but only in the IE, and OC.I presume this was the Club Safe Word venue though the party may have had a different name as different parties host from that location. As far as the IE and OC "traveling" parties, I am guessing you are referencing the (in) famous So Cal Circus. One thing that is interesting about this party is they keep the lights on which can make it seem like you are in a real life porn. It can also be off-putting when you see pimples and but hairs. Much like Thads it is definitely an event that is not for everyone.

[MaximusKahn]

This is a great idea and you have already added so much. Thanks NBP.


Nice thread amigo! Good to have this here.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Pretty much all the clubs should be having events this weekend. I have no idea how to predict which event will be the best. And. Things seem a bit different than they were pre-pandemic. I always knew Thads would have a large turnout on an event like this. Now is anyone's guess.

I remember three years ago I went to Thads one of the last times before the lockdown. (Don't remember if it was Fri or Sat.) The bar and dance floor was packed. A big orgy broke out on the bed behind the pool room. They moved the party to the couples area and I heard were later booted out because someone in the group was filming. The place seemed relatively quiet after that. Sometimes it would be popping by about 2 am but I decided to call it a night rather than stay and see if things picked up. And, as they say the rest is history. After that we were in lockdown.

[Sudcciv]

A long time ago, there was an organization called "NASCA" (North American Swing Club Association) that had a website, where "clubs" in all 50 states, could be listed, located, and rated. It is long gone (both the organization and its website). This site is now the closest thing there is to "rating" local swing clubs.

[MaximusKahn]

I will say it again, this thread is a great idea.

For the Mongers who are not familiar with Swing Club etiquette or the Swingers lifestyle.

Remember just because "others" get wild and start an orgy right in front of you, god, and everybody, doesn't mean you are automatically invited. You have to be invited, or given permission to join. Don't assume you can or are welcome to jump in just because you see it 2 feet in front of you.

Mind your manners, be polite, charming, respectful and grateful. And ask for permission. If it is an orgy 2 feet in front of you, and you are polite and ask, you probably will be allowed to join.

I along with others have posted a few times about Thads and if you're interested just scroll through my post thread. Doing so may answer a lot of your questions about Thad's and swingers.

Everyone have fun. MxK.


Pretty much all the clubs should be having events this weekend. I have no idea how to predict which event will be the best. And. Things seem a bit different than they were pre-pandemic. I always knew Thads would have a large turnout on an event like this. Now is anyone's guess.

I remember three years ago I went to Thads one of the last times before the lockdown. (Don't remember if it was Fri or Sat.) The bar and dance floor was packed. A big orgy broke out on the bed behind the pool room. They moved the party to the couples area and I heard were later booted out because someone in the group was filming. The place seemed relatively quiet after that. Sometimes it would be popping by about 2 am but I decided to call it a night rather than stay and see if things picked up. And, as they say the rest is history. After that we were in lockdown.

[NudeBeachPerv]

A long time ago, there was an organization called "NASCA" (North American Swing Club Association) that had a website, where "clubs" in all 50 states, could be listed, located, and rated. It is long gone (both the organization and its website). This site is now the closest thing there is to "rating" local swing clubs.Looks like there is a book on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/NASCA-International-Directory-Publications-Events/product-reviews/0970272200

(I have no idea of the quality of the info, just found the link.).

If you know the website handle, you may be able to find archived copies on the Wayback Machine.

[NudeBeachPerv]

I will say it again, this thread is a great idea.

For the Mongers who are not familiar with Swing Club etiquette or the Swingers lifestyle.

Remember just because "others" get wild and start an orgy right in front of you, god, and everybody, doesn't mean you are automatically invited. You have to be invited, or given permission to join. Don't assume you can or are welcome to jump in just because you see it 2 feet in front of you.

Mind your manners, be polite, charming, respectful and grateful. And ask for permission. If it is an orgy 2 feet in front of you, and you are polite and ask, you probably will be allowed to join.

I along with others have posted a few times about Thads and if you're interested just scroll through my post thread. Doing so may answer a lot of your questions about Thad's and swingers.

Everyone have fun. MxK.Great points Max!

With that being said.

You will sometimes see escorts at parties.

Situation 1, a guy hires an escort to go to a place like Thads. Maybe they play in a public area and he just has an exhibitionist streak or maybe he invites other guys into the action. I suspect this is what happened on time when I was at Thads. I am not absolutely sure and of course I didn't ask "are you being paid for this" when I was invited in to play.

Situation 2, in some cases, a "featured" lady is given a portion of the door fee even if the host refers to it as "travel expenses. ".

Situation 3, some of the "independent massage ladies" will go to parties, sometimes in packs.

Remember to be discrete and always ask. Also feel free to walk out of a room if "things get weird." For example, I'm not into BDSM and I have had women ask me to choke them. I won't do it, it's wrong on so many levels and I would never want to be infront of a judge with "but she asked me." Consent is a two way street, know your limits and feel free too bail.

[Sudcciv]

Looks like there is a book on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/NASCA-International-Directory-Publications-Events/product-reviews/0970272200

(I have no idea of the quality of the info, just found the link.).

If you know the website handle, you may be able to find archived copies on the Wayback Machine.Surprised that Amazon still "has" such a thing-audits 23 years old now! "NASCA" was "sued out of existence" I have been told, and "swing club listings" can be found through others sources. The other thing being noticed is that swing clubs are DYING OFF, or "traveling". They are nowhere near as prevalent as they were 20 years ago.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Surprised that Amazon still "has" such a thing-audits 23 years old now! "NASCA" was "sued out of existence" I have been told, and "swing club listings" can be found through others sources. The other thing being noticed is that swing clubs are DYING OFF, or "traveling". They are nowhere near as prevalent as they were 20 years ago.Here is what I could find of the old website for those who are curious.

https://web.archive.org/web/20050112064141/http://www.nasca.com/join_nasca.html

[Rey KittyHawk]

After trying Thad's out, I learned quickly that if you show up with a woman, its much easier the be accepted by the couples at swing clubs.

I "hired" one of my favorite Providers to join me for the evening. Granted her fees were higher because of the time I had her, but when you consider all we did, dollar for dollar, it was less expensive than visits to the spas. It was a lot of fun, and although I've gone as a single since, being a "couple" was much more fun.

So yes, they may be "hired" escorts and you'll never know.


Great points Max!

With that being said.

You will sometimes see escorts at parties.

Situation 1, a guy hires an escort to go to a place like Thads. Maybe they play in a public area and he just has an exhibitionist streak or maybe he invites other guys into the action. I suspect this is what happened on time when I was at Thads. I am not absolutely sure and of course I didn't ask "are you being paid for this" when I was invited in to play.

Situation 2, in some cases, a "featured" lady is given a portion of the door fee even if the host refers to it as "travel expenses. ".

Situation 3, some of the "independent massage ladies" will go to parties, sometimes in packs.

Remember to be discrete and always ask. Also feel free to walk out of a room if "things get weird." For example, I'm not into BDSM and I have had women ask me to choke them. I won't do it, it's wrong on so many levels and I would never want to be infront of a judge with "but she asked me." Consent is a two way street, know your limits and feel free too bail.

[NudeBeachPerv]

After trying Thad's out, I learned quickly that if you show up with a woman, its much easier the be accepted by the couples at swing clubs.

I "hired" one of my favorite Providers to join me for the evening. Granted her fees were higher because of the time I had her, but when you consider all we did, dollar for dollar, it was less expensive than visits to the spas. It was a lot of fun, and although I've gone as a single since, being a "couple" was much more fun.

So yes, they may be "hired" escorts and you'll never know.Thanks for sharing!

[NudeBeachPerv]

In my vanilla life I am quiet and shy. I often decline going out for drinks with co-workers because I don't want to get involved in a fist fight or some kind of me too stuff. I am probably not the type of guy that a normie would think has attended lifestyle events.

A few years back I worked with some guys who were unpleasant, racist and lazy. They would often pour on the braggadocio as many guys do. I would often be silent. They were both married and I wasn't. They would both rib me with insults. Are you gay? Are you a virgin? Are you a gay virgin? Eventually the job ended and I collected sweet unemployment for a few months.

One of the guys called a little while back. At one point I mentioned that they used to make fun of me while at that time I was staying silent that I was going to wild parties. He asked about the wild parties and I said probably nothing he has heard of but he might of heard of Thads. He acknowledged that he did hear of Thads. I mentioned that he and my other former co-worker should take their wives there. He mentioned that their wives would probably get with black guys. My response was let me know when you take your wives. I'll show 'them around and make some introductions while you two can sit together in the hot tub. I'm pretty sure he was cussing me out under his breath.

Oh, well, I don't have anyone to share that story with IRL and figure some of you might find it funny.

[MaximusKahn]

I liked your story, and brings up an important point. Thads is a multi-racial, multi-cultural, fun sex space.

You should be prepared to see interracial mixing at it's finest. Women love the exotic experience of different races just like guys do. And a swingers club is a great place to explore your libido and fuck people from all over the world. Racially speaking.

I'm sure stuff, happens, but in my experience everyone is there to have a good time, and for the most part, to gets along.

I know guys can site examples of assholes, witches, and stuck up gravity enhanced women. But most of the experience is based on what you bring with you. The right attitude gets you a long way into the minds, hearts and pussies around you.

NBP, always sorry when a good guy has to endure racist assholes. You sound like you handle it well. My hats off to you. MxK.


In my vanilla life I am quiet and shy. I often decline going out for drinks with co-workers because I don't want to get involved in a fist fight or some kind of me too stuff. I am probably not the type of guy that a normie would think has attended lifestyle events.

A few years back I worked with some guys who were unpleasant, racist and lazy. They would often pour on the braggadocio as many guys do. I would often be silent. They were both married and I wasn't. They would both rib me with insults. Are you gay? Are you a virgin? Are you a gay virgin? Eventually the job ended and I collected sweet unemployment for a few months.

One of the guys called a little while back. At one point I mentioned that they used to make fun of me while at that time I was staying silent that I was going to wild parties. He asked about the wild parties and I said probably nothing he has heard of but he might of heard of Thads. He acknowledged that he did hear of Thads. I mentioned that he and my other former co-worker should take their wives there. He mentioned that their wives would probably get with black guys. My response was let me know when you take your wives. I'll show 'them around and make some introductions while you two can sit together in the hot tub. I'm pretty sure he was cussing me out under his breath.

Oh, well, I don't have anyone to share that story with IRL and figure some of you might find it funny.

[NudeBeachPerv]

I liked your story, and brings up an important point. Thads is a multi-racial, multi-cultural, fun sex space.

You should be prepared to see interracial mixing at it's finest. Women love the exotic experience of different races just like guys do. And a swingers club is a great place to explore your libido and fuck people from all over the world. Racially speaking.

I'm sure stuff, happens, but in my experience everyone is there to have a good time, and for the most part, to gets along.

I know guys can site examples of assholes, witches, and stuck up gravity enhanced women. But most of the experience is based on what you bring with you. The right attitude gets you a long way into the minds, hearts and pussies around you.

NBP, always sorry when a good guy has to endure racist assholes. You sound like you handle it well. My hats off to you. MxK.As far as Thads, I did notice I did much better with the out of towners than the regulars. Probably had something to do with me being "slightly exotic" to those ladies I suppose.

[Rey KittyHawk]

Checked out Thad's as a single guy Fri night.

Two gang bangs and some good freaky stuff going on, so for me it was a good night in general.

But lightning does strike! And it struck me!

It was just after 12 and I was feeling it was about time to head home. Did one more circuit to see what's going on.

Went upstairs, the hallway was empty of the usual single guys hanging around, when the door of one of the private rooms opens and a guys steps out, we make eye contact I say hi, and look into the room. A thin beauty was lying on the bed, so I acknowledged him again and said, "she is beautiful. ".

He closed the door behind him, paused and said to me. Would you like to come in an play with her? Yes, my immediate answer. Then he say, but one thing, I know it is weird, but no talking. I said okay, no talking and did the zipper across lips gesture. He opened the door and said use our condoms, no latex.

She is lying on bed with her pussy facing me knees bent legs open. He hands me a condom and I put it on the side of the bed in reach and start to play with her. She respond with quiet moans and some motions as I touch, brush, stroke and explore her all over with my hands. He goes to a chair by the door and gets in position to watch, cock in hand.

I play with her a while, teasing and gently touching, but then have to eat that fluffy smooth bare pussy and got to it. Playfully, forcefully, alternating contact enjoying every moment. She has an amazing series of orgasms. After cumming, she wiggles around and gets in position to suck me and loves deep throat fucking, gasping and choking included. I fuck her face above and decide to 69 me on top forcing my cock in deep down her throat with my weight. After a little while, she pauses and softly says to her husband I want to suck your cock, so I move to her open legs, and put on the condom as he starts deep throating her, more choking, more gagging. I start fucking her. He and I have eye contact, and I smile in silence, and give a nod, he nods back smiling. He reaches to her clit and with vigorous stimulation from my cock in her pussy, his cock in her mouth, and his hand on her clit she has more convulsing moaning orgasms through chokes and gasps. He pulls out and goes back to his chair, as I start giving her slow continuous pumps.

Then she says the most amazing thing, very softly, Fuck my ass! At this point, she has not opened her eyes once, and I have not said a word.

I pull out, and with her knees up, move my tip to her ass, and gently push. She's saying yes, yes as I feel her rim give way, I pause then push again as I slip right in as she moans. I fuck her ass for a while. She then slowly rolls to her side, me still in her ass. I fuck her some more, but then want to play with my hands so I pull out and gently get one thumb in her ass and the other thumb in her pussy and play with both holes as I stimulate her clit.

She moans, and softly says to her man, "he's a dirty one" and has another orgasm. I stop and put my cock back into her ass which slides in easily, as she lies on her side and go to fuck town. She is lubed up but very tight and I don't last long at this, she senses my orgasm coming on, and asks, "are you cumming?" From my swelling cock, accelerated thrusting, and grunt she got her answer.

She reaches back to grab my leg as I let lose a series of intense orgasms and I feel her cumming again with me. After cumming I keep my cock in her ass and relax enjoying the moment. She lies there completely submissive. I pull out and she keeps in that position on her side.

I move off the bed, bend down, gently pet her has and pussy, and she moves her hips just enough to give me access. I then, kiss her ass, then her side, then shoulder, and finally her head, her back is to me she doesn't look, move, or say a word. I toss the condom in the trash, look at him, smile, nod and reach for his hand to shake to give a silent thank you! He opens the door and out I go.

Okay, I know you want to know. She is about 5'7", sexy model type thin, bolt on C's, very firm, zero sag, bare soft pussy, super clean, wide hips, beautiful face, med length black hair. Basically in my opinion a fucking goddess. She is also a submissive who loves and orgasms form ass fucking!

If you think Thad's is a waste of time, maybe it is. It might be most of the time, but just one experience like this will always make someone like me go back. Lightning does strike, and when it strikes you, fucking wow!

[NudeBeachPerv]

Checked out Thad's as a single guy Fri night.

Two gang bangs and some good freaky stuff going on, so for me it was a good night in general.

But lightning does strike! And it struck me!

It was just after 12 and I was feeling it was about time to head home. Did one more circuit to see what's going on.

Went upstairs, the hallway was empty of the usual single guys hanging around, when the door of one of the private rooms opens and a guys steps out, we make eye contact I say hi, and look into the room. A thin beauty was lying on the bed, so I acknowledged him again and said, "she is beautiful. ".

He closed the door behind him, paused and said to me. Would you like to come in an play with her? Yes, my immediate answer. Then he say, but one thing, I know it is weird, but no talking. I said okay, no talking and did the zipper across lips gesture. He opened the door and said use our condoms, no latex.

She is lying on bed with her pussy facing me knees bent legs open. He hands me a condom and I put it on the side of the bed in reach and start to play with her. She respond with quiet moans and some motions as I touch, brush, stroke and explore her all over with my hands. He goes to a chair by the door and gets in position to watch, cock in hand.

I play with her a while, teasing and gently touching, but then have to eat that fluffy smooth bare pussy and got to it. Playfully, forcefully, alternating contact enjoying every moment. She has an amazing series of orgasms. After cumming, she wiggles around and gets in position to suck me and loves deep throat fucking, gasping and choking included. I fuck her face above and decide to 69 me on top forcing my cock in deep down her throat with my weight. After a little while, she pauses and softly says to her husband I want to suck your cock, so I move to her open legs, and put on the condom as he starts deep throating her, more choking, more gagging. I start fucking her. He and I have eye contact, and I smile in silence, and give a nod, he nods back smiling. He reaches to her clit and with vigorous stimulation from my cock in her pussy, his cock in her mouth, and his hand on her clit she has more convulsing moaning orgasms through chokes and gasps. He pulls out and goes back to his chair, as I start giving her slow continuous pumps.

Then she says the most amazing thing, very softly, Fuck my ass! At this point, she has not opened her eyes once, and I have not said a word.

I pull out, and with her knees up, move my tip to her ass, and gently push. She's saying yes, yes as I feel her rim give way, I pause then push again as I slip right in as she moans. I fuck her ass for a while. She then slowly rolls to her side, me still in her ass. I fuck her some more, but then want to play with my hands so I pull out and gently get one thumb in her ass and the other thumb in her pussy and play with both holes as I stimulate her clit.

She moans, and softly says to her man, "he's a dirty one" and has another orgasm. I stop and put my cock back into her ass which slides in easily, as she lies on her side and go to fuck town. She is lubed up but very tight and I don't last long at this, she senses my orgasm coming on, and asks, "are you cumming?" From my swelling cock, accelerated thrusting, and grunt she got her answer.

She reaches back to grab my leg as I let lose a series of intense orgasms and I feel her cumming again with me. After cumming I keep my cock in her ass and relax enjoying the moment. She lies there completely submissive. I pull out and she keeps in that position on her side.

I move off the bed, bend down, gently pet her has and pussy, and she moves her hips just enough to give me access. I then, kiss her ass, then her side, then shoulder, and finally her head, her back is to me she doesn't look, move, or say a word. I toss the condom in the trash, look at him, smile, nod and reach for his hand to shake to give a silent thank you! He opens the door and out I go.

Okay, I know you want to know. She is about 5'7", sexy model type thin, bolt on C's, very firm, zero sag, bare soft pussy, super clean, wide hips, beautiful face, med length black hair. Basically in my opinion a fucking goddess. She is also a submissive who loves and orgasms form ass fucking!

If you think Thad's is a waste of time, maybe it is. It might be most of the time, but just one experience like this will always make someone like me go back. Lightning does strike, and when it strikes you, fucking wow!Thanks for sharing! Your post illustrates that being in the right place at the right time pays dividends.

[MaximusKahn]

You sir are experiencing the "golf paradox".

In general Golf is a difficult and potentially frustrating game that you wonder many times why in hell do I play this game?

Then you make that one amazing shot and you think, I can do this, this is fun. And it is that "one shot" that makes you want to play again.

After the experience you described, I believe you will play again!


Checked out Thad's as a single guy Fri night.

If you think Thad's is a waste of time, maybe it is. It might be most of the time, but just one experience like this will always make someone like me go back. Lightning does strike, and when it strikes you, fucking wow!

[Sudcciv]

Checked out Thad's as a single guy Fri night.

Two gang bangs and some good freaky stuff going on, so for me it was a good night in general.

But lightning does strike! And it struck me!

It was just after 12 and I was feeling it was about time to head home. Did one more circuit to see what's going on.

Went upstairs, the hallway was empty of the usual single guys hanging around, when the door of one of the private rooms opens and a guys steps out, we make eye contact I say hi, and look into the room. A thin beauty was lying on the bed, so I acknowledged him again and said, "she is beautiful. ".

He closed the door behind him, paused and said to me. Would you like to come in an play with her? Yes, my immediate answer. Then he say, but one thing, I know it is weird, but no talking. I said okay, no talking and did the zipper across lips gesture. He opened the door and said use our condoms, no latex.

She is lying on bed with her pussy facing me knees bent legs open. He hands me a condom and I put it on the side of the bed in reach and start to play with her. She respond with quiet moans and some motions as I touch, brush, stroke and explore her all over with my hands. He goes to a chair by the door and gets in position to watch, cock in hand.

I play with her a while, teasing and gently touching, but then have to eat that fluffy smooth bare pussy and got to it. Playfully, forcefully, alternating contact enjoying every moment. She has an amazing series of orgasms. After cumming, she wiggles around and gets in position to suck me and loves deep throat fucking, gasping and choking included. I fuck her face above and decide to 69 me on top forcing my cock in deep down her throat with my weight. After a little while, she pauses and softly says to her husband I want to suck your cock, so I move to her open legs, and put on the condom as he starts deep throating her, more choking, more gagging. I start fucking her. He and I have eye contact, and I smile in silence, and give a nod, he nods back smiling. He reaches to her clit and with vigorous stimulation from my cock in her pussy, his cock in her mouth, and his hand on her clit she has more convulsing moaning orgasms through chokes and gasps. He pulls out and goes back to his chair, as I start giving her slow continuous pumps.

Then she says the most amazing thing, very softly, Fuck my ass! At this point, she has not opened her eyes once, and I have not said a word.

I pull out, and with her knees up, move my tip to her ass, and gently push. She's saying yes, yes as I feel her rim give way, I pause then push again as I slip right in as she moans. I fuck her ass for a while. She then slowly rolls to her side, me still in her ass. I fuck her some more, but then want to play with my hands so I pull out and gently get one thumb in her ass and the other thumb in her pussy and play with both holes as I stimulate her clit.

She moans, and softly says to her man, "he's a dirty one" and has another orgasm. I stop and put my cock back into her ass which slides in easily, as she lies on her side and go to fuck town. She is lubed up but very tight and I don't last long at this, she senses my orgasm coming on, and asks, "are you cumming?" From my swelling cock, accelerated thrusting, and grunt she got her answer.

She reaches back to grab my leg as I let lose a series of intense orgasms and I feel her cumming again with me. After cumming I keep my cock in her ass and relax enjoying the moment. She lies there completely submissive. I pull out and she keeps in that position on her side.

I move off the bed, bend down, gently pet her has and pussy, and she moves her hips just enough to give me access. I then, kiss her ass, then her side, then shoulder, and finally her head, her back is to me she doesn't look, move, or say a word. I toss the condom in the trash, look at him, smile, nod and reach for his hand to shake to give a silent thank you! He opens the door and out I go.

Okay, I know you want to know. She is about 5'7", sexy model type thin, bolt on C's, very firm, zero sag, bare soft pussy, super clean, wide hips, beautiful face, med length black hair. Basically in my opinion a fucking goddess. She is also a submissive who loves and orgasms form ass fucking!

If you think Thad's is a waste of time, maybe it is. It might be most of the time, but just one experience like this will always make someone like me go back. Lightning does strike, and when it strikes you, fucking wow!Maybe it's only the "third Friday of the month" that this happens on? .

[NudeBeachPerv]

Maybe it's only the "third Friday of the month" that this happens on? .Actually it only happens on a Friday the 13th when you wear your Jason mask, it is a full moon and Mars aligns with Venus. Bonus points if you drink Bud Lite and "take one for the team" with a Gender Jumper or three as you call them. Got to show the ladies you are Woke if you want to Poke!

[JohnnyLovesIt]

BadBarbi will be having a party at the Barnett Adult Superstore this Friday.

https://dremiliolizardo.********.com/2023/04/rules-for-bad-barbis-cinco-de-bango-at.html?zx=fd85760f0ad07d3a

https://twitter.com/Badbarbi2

This is from her fetlife posting.

A couple things for guys coming to my visit.

Please let me get in the theater first.

This is not about how long you can last. Its about get it done.

Condoms required ass and pussy.

Photos encouraged but please keep guys faces out. Please help with some light from your phone.

Be polite my goal is to take care of everyone there.

I want to finish up with a huge Bukakki on the floor.

Help me clean up afterwards.

If you can count.

If you want a picture with me. I will be allowing pictures outside.

See you soon.

[MaximusKahn]

This promises a lot. Don't know if its just my system but neither link worked for me. I also don't go anywhere pictures are "allowed. ".

Since this is a public broadcast that should draw a huge monger following, I'm going to pass and wait for the reviews posted on the 6th.

While I'm having beer, tequila, and tacos, I hope you boys have a good time, but be sure to play it safe.


BadBarbi will be having a party at the Barnett Adult Superstore this Friday.

https://dremiliolizardo.********.com/2023/04/rules-for-bad-barbis-cinco-de-bango-at.html?zx=fd85760f0ad07d3a

https://twitter.com/Badbarbi2

This is from her fetlife posting.

A couple things for guys coming to my visit.

Please let me get in the theater first.

This is not about how long you can last. Its about get it done.

Condoms required ass and pussy.

Photos encouraged but please keep guys faces out. Please help with some light from your phone.

Be polite my goal is to take care of everyone there.

I want to finish up with a huge Bukakki on the floor.

Help me clean up afterwards.

If you can count.

If you want a picture with me. I will be allowing pictures outside.

See you soon.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Against my better judgement, I headed out to Barnett Adult Superstore. Parking sucked, all the spots in the main lot were taken, Saw a few "lifestyle" people in the lobby. Bought a ticket for $12. Got buzzed in to the theater area. There are 2 theaters, one play gays porn and the other plays straight porn. The one with the straight porn was packed, 2 older ladies were playing in the back. I ventured to the other theater. As it was less packed it was about 20 degrees cooler. There was another lady playing and this was a bit less crowded, not quite packed elbow to elbow. The whole scene was overwhelming. I stepped outside and walked around the building for a bit.

I went back into the straight theater. It was like being at a rock concert where you keep on bumping into people as you walk closer to the stage. It felt like it was close to 100 degrees in there. I was able to make it into a packed corner by slowly moving with my back against the wall. Bad Barbi was surrounded by guys with their cocks out. There was a guy snapping pics and another holding a light. Guys were filming with their cellphones. She said her pussy was sore so guys would have to fuck her butt. After watching the debauchery for 20 minutes or so, I took another break. I asked the nice ladies at the cash register if every Friday was like this and they mentioned "It's not our concern. That's a whole separate thing. ".

After taking another breather, I walked back into the theater, another lady was playing towards the back. I didn't really feel like elbowing my way in and decided to call it a night. Back in the lobby, here were a few attractive women being supplies. On my way out I saw the two older ladies kicking back and talking to some of the guys. All in all, interesting and action packed. But not my scene, will most likely not repeat.


BadBarbi will be having a party at the Barnett Adult Superstore this Friday.

https://dremiliolizardo.********.com/2023/04/rules-for-bad-barbis-cinco-de-bango-at.html?zx=fd85760f0ad07d3a

https://twitter.com/Badbarbi2

This is from her fetlife posting.

A couple things for guys coming to my visit.

Please let me get in the theater first.

This is not about how long you can last. Its about get it done.

Condoms required ass and pussy.

Photos encouraged but please keep guys faces out. Please help with some light from your phone.

Be polite my goal is to take care of everyone there.

I want to finish up with a huge Bukakki on the floor.

Help me clean up afterwards.

If you can count.

If you want a picture with me. I will be allowing pictures outside.

See you soon.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Looks like there will be another ganging, this time at the Jolars Theater. Saw it posted on Fetlife and appears to be one of the ladies who was at Barnett on Friday. Sorry if that's not enough info, I want to share information but not cross the line into promoting events.

[Nothing24]

Looks like this chick was down at Barnett on Friday providing free blowjobs as well. Not bad looking for a cum dump.

https://twitter.com/vegascumqueen/status/1654999734564827136?s=46&t=9KNDyacSldP7oTR2MqFkmw

[NudeBeachPerv]

Looks like this chick was down at Barnett on Friday providing free blowjobs as well. Not bad looking for a cum dump.

https://twitter.com/vegascumqueen/status/1654999734564827136?s=46&t=9KNDyacSldP7oTR2MqFkmwI remember seeing a heavily tattooed women in the lobby. Was probably her.

[MaroonedDude]

Looks like this chick was down at Barnett on Friday providing free blowjobs as well. Not bad looking for a cum dump.

https://twitter.com/vegascumqueen/status/1654999734564827136?s=46&t=9KNDyacSldP7oTR2MqFkmwI read the post on here about Bad Barbi hosting a gangbang at Barnett's. I showed up for her but this chick Lexi Mae showed up a little before with her man. They were standing around inside the theater then left. They came back in as soon as bad Barbi arrived and Barbi started getting fucked in the ass and blowing dudes. However I noticed Lexi got down on her knees and started sucking cocks. I thought Lexi was way better looking than Barbi so I ended up getting blown by Lexi and came in her mouth. I made line for Barbi as well but she ended up tapping out pretty early as there were over 50 guys in the theater and it was really hot. She only did Bjs and anal because her pussy was sore from an earlier gangbang. There was also another chick who's on FetLife as Twointhekitty, she was there as a spectator but she eventually wanted to get fucked too. I'm grateful that I got blown by Lexi as not everyone was able to get in on the action there was just way too many guys for everyone to get a turn.

[MaximusKahn]

Looks like there will be another ganging, this time at the Jolars Theater. Saw it posted on Fetlife and appears to be one of the ladies who was at Barnett on Friday. Sorry if that's not enough info, I want to share information but not cross the line into promoting events.Sharing what you can pass on isn't necessarily promoting, it is just passing information. Now if you started saying how hot it will be, or how awesome the women will be, that tends to approach promotions. But just telling us about it, even the details doesn't cross any lines.

I was glad to hear Friday night was real, and from what you posted a success, as far was women showing up to suck cocks and play. I enjoyed knowing about it even though it's not something I'd partake in. Thank for the follow up post about Barrett's and the additional post about Jolars.

The only thing that would compliment your post is sharing the times the woman planned to be there.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Sharing what you can pass on isn't necessarily promoting, it is just passing information. Now if you started saying how hot it will be, or how awesome the women will be, that tends to approach promotions. But just telling us about it, even the details doesn't cross any lines.
.Well as far as how hot it will be I did mention that it was close to 100 degrees at Barnett, so.

Just kidding, I think I know what you mean.

[NudeBeachPerv]

I read the post on here about Bad Barbi hosting a gangbang at Barnett's. I showed up for her but this chick Lexi Mae showed up a little before with her man. They were standing around inside the theater then left. They came back in as soon as bad Barbi arrived and Barbi started getting fucked in the ass and blowing dudes. However I noticed Lexi got down on her knees and started sucking cocks. I thought Lexi was way better looking than Barbi so I ended up getting blown by Lexi and came in her mouth. I made line for Barbi as well but she ended up tapping out pretty early as there were over 50 guys in the theater and it was really hot. She only did Bjs and anal because her pussy was sore from an earlier gangbang. There was also another chick who's on FetLife as Twointhekitty, she was there as a spectator but she eventually wanted to get fucked too. I'm grateful that I got blown by Lexi as not everyone was able to get in on the action there was just way too many guys for everyone to get a turn.Great post, thanks for sharing!

[Angel Pena]

Missed out! Anything going on today?

[NudeBeachPerv]

Missed out! Anything going on today?If you are willing to drive to OC, I think So Cal Circus is having a Monday day time party but you better hurry!

[Angel Pena]

How are those.

[NudeBeachPerv]

How are those.Some people swear by it and some swear it off. So, I can only say try it and see if you like it. They keep the lights on unlike most other events. So depending, that might be something you really like or really dislike.

[NudeBeachPerv]

One part sad, two parts hilarious.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sandiego/comments/eaycm4/i_am_an_average_redditor_a_skinny_white_male_and/

[Rey KittyHawk]

One part sad, two parts hilarious.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sandiego/comments/eaycm4/i_am_an_average_redditor_a_skinny_white_male_and/Lots of guys complain they get no action at Thads and this guy gets, gay, straight, and glory hole action in one night and leaves crying? You can leave out the gay stuff, but I'd definitely be up for the MILF and glory hole action in a heart beat.

I think guys like this call themselves, betas, or Incels or some other negative title to explain their failures with women in life. Came across to me as a bit of a whine story.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Lots of guys complain they get no action at Thads and this guy gets, gay, straight, and glory hole action in one night and leaves crying? You can leave out the gay stuff, but I'd definitely be up for the MILF and glory hole action in a heart beat.

I think guys like this call themselves, betas, or Incels or some other negative title to explain their failures with women in life. Came across to me as a bit of a whine story.He's the type of dude that would cry about the taxes if he won a million in the lottery.

Still funny to read.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Another Thad's story in 3 parts.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comments/xlp5sp/disappointed_in_thads_management/

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comments/xlp83h/thads_disappointment_2/

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comments/xlpcvm/thads_disappointment_3/

[BadbarbiGB]

Against my better judgement, I headed out to Barnett Adult Superstore. Parking sucked, all the spots in the main lot were taken, Saw a few "lifestyle" people in the lobby. Bought a ticket for $12. Got buzzed in to the theater area. There are 2 theaters, one play gays porn and the other plays straight porn. The one with the straight porn was packed, 2 older ladies were playing in the back. I ventured to the other theater. As it was less packed it was about 20 degrees cooler. There was another lady playing and this was a bit less crowded, not quite packed elbow to elbow. The whole scene was overwhelming. I stepped outside and walked around the building for a bit.

I went back into the straight theater. It was like being at a rock concert where you keep on bumping into people as you walk closer to the stage. It felt like it was close to 100 degrees in there. I was able to make it into a packed corner by slowly moving with my back against the wall. Bad Barbi was surrounded by guys with their cocks out. There was a guy snapping pics and another holding a light. Guys were filming with their cellphones. She said her pussy was sore so guys would have to fuck her butt. After watching the debauchery for 20 minutes or so, I took another break. I asked the nice ladies at the cash register if every Friday was like this and they mentioned "It's not our concern. That's a whole separate thing..I had a great time even though it was very hot. A couple things from other posts I need to correct. I don't tap out.

[NudeBeachPerv]

I had a great time even though it was very hot. A couple things from other posts I need to correct. I don't tap out.Hi Badbarbi,

Welcome to the blog. Did you attend any other events while you were in San Diego?

[Member #6555]

Has anyone been to the swingers party hosted by creambabee on twitter? I got her handle off someone from Reddit and it looks like she is having one tonight. She's not my type but supposedly she said there are 7 girls confirmed for tonight. Tonight's party is $80 and hosted at an apartment complex downtown that is super close to me. I've recognized a few girls going from list crawler. Anyways just curious if anyone has been and if they are legit. They want you to buy "tickets" through cash app prior which is super sketchy to me and I will not do it without confirmation. I tried reaching out to the guy on Reddit but he hasn't answered me.

[NoGrowthMan]

Too much high fructose corn syrup in her diet for daddy.


Has anyone been to the swingers party hosted by creambabee on twitter? I got her handle off someone from Reddit and it looks like she is having one tonight. She's not my type but supposedly she said there are 7 girls confirmed for tonight. Tonight's party is $80 and hosted at an apartment complex downtown that is super close to me. I've recognized a few girls going from list crawler. Anyways just curious if anyone has been and if they are legit. They want you to buy "tickets" through cash app prior which is super sketchy to me and I will not do it without confirmation. I tried reaching out to the guy on Reddit but he hasn't answered me.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Has anyone been to the swingers party hosted by creambabee on twitter? I got her handle off someone from Reddit and it looks like she is having one tonight. She's not my type but supposedly she said there are 7 girls confirmed for tonight. Tonight's party is $80 and hosted at an apartment complex downtown that is super close to me. I've recognized a few girls going from list crawler. Anyways just curious if anyone has been and if they are legit. They want you to buy "tickets" through cash app prior which is super sketchy to me and I will not do it without confirmation. I tried reaching out to the guy on Reddit but he hasn't answered me.I would almost always advise paying cash. I have seen even fairly solid parties cancel last minute and unless you know the host or hostess as a super solid individual who will honor the payment for the next party then I would consider it a no go. I almost broke my own rule on this for an LA party because one of the featured ladies is someone I had met before and really cool. Also one thing to keep in mind, sometimes when there are a bunch of ladies attending it is more of a "social event" where some fucking might go on rather than a gang bang where lots of fucking is going on. I don't know if that was the case for this event or not.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Thad's doesn't have the reputation of being the cleanest or classiest place.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comments/14vkq1u/what_was_that_weird_smell_in_the_couples_playroom/

Got to admit, I laughed when I read that.

[ShieldThrow]

I would almost always advise paying cash. I have seen even fairly solid parties cancel last minute and unless you know the host or hostess as a super solid individual who will honor the payment for the next party then I would consider it a no go. I almost broke my own rule on this for an LA party because one of the featured ladies is someone I had met before and really cool. Also one thing to keep in mind, sometimes when there are a bunch of ladies attending it is more of a "social event" where some fucking might go on rather than a gang bang where lots of fucking is going on. I don't know if that was the case for this event or not.They are using fake photos from different subs and so on, claiming it's from the orgy on twitter. This girl is already super sketch with content bfs supposedly unlimited dates for 150. BnG specials would make them many times that.

[Member #6585]

Has anyone been to the swingers party hosted by creambabee on twitter? I got her handle off someone from Reddit and it looks like she is having one tonight. She's not my type but supposedly she said there are 7 girls confirmed for tonight. Tonight's party is $80 and hosted at an apartment complex downtown that is super close to me. I've recognized a few girls going from list crawler. Anyways just curious if anyone has been and if they are legit. They want you to buy "tickets" through cash app prior which is super sketchy to me and I will not do it without confirmation. I tried reaching out to the guy on Reddit but he hasn't answered me.

She scammed me before, definitely don't give her your money. The other posters responding to you are definitely smarter than I. I made a post about it in the HX thread. Went by NymphoEmily on HX and had the same twitter linked. My original post is here http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?10201-Humaniplex&p=6497547&viewfull=1#post6497547

[MaximusKahn]

Not sure what is everyone's definition of a sex party, but Thads is a adult social club that I think qualifies.

It is rare that an adult club allows single guys in, but Thads does.

These are people who are outside the normal boundaries of sexuality in a social environment.

Guys are naked, but can a wear robe in cold weather. Women wear what they want from sexy down to nothing.

Couples show up, some single women come, and a whole lot of single guys.

Some couples only seek couples, some come to only fuck each other, some come to find guys for her. Many combinations.

Some have sex in the open, some have gang bangs, some single women show up to suck and fuck. All this sounds like a sex party to me.

For you single guys. You cannot expect to get blown or laid. Nothing is guaranteed, you have to charm the pants off the women to get to play. If you got the skills and qualities, you can have a great time. Check it out at least once, Good Luck.

[Member #6555]

Not sure what is everyone's definition of a sex party, but Thads is a adult social club that I think qualifies.

It is rare that an adult club allows single guys in, but Thads does.

These are people who are outside the normal boundaries of sexuality in a social environment.

Guys are naked, but can a wear robe in cold weather. Women wear what they want from sexy down to nothing.

Couples show up, some single women come, and a whole lot of single guys.

Some couples only seek couples, some come to only fuck each other, some come to find guys for her. Many combinations.

Some have sex in the open, some have gang bangs, some single women show up to suck and fuck. All this sounds like a sex party to me.

For you single guys. You cannot expect to get blown or laid. Nothing is guaranteed, you have to charm the pants off the women to get to play. If you got the skills and qualities, you can have a great time. Check it out at least once, Good Luck.I've always been curious about Thads but I will never go based upon their rules of men having to be naked. What is the typical age range though of Thads?

[MaximusKahn]

The ages range from 20's to 70 over any given time. But in general it's 30's and 40's with some younger an some older. If you're hoping for 20 something horny female spinners to be there, there are times they are there, but you shouldn't expect too many.

I'm more about attractiveness than age as a number, because I've found that any age female can be attractive to me, just depends on the female. I've been fortunate to play with women in their 20's and women in their 60's. And enjoyed them all.

You are right about the all men are naked rule. During the winter they now allow guys to wear a robe, you can even rent one, so go check it out and see what it is all about.


I've always been curious about Thads but I will never go based upon their rules of men having to be naked. What is the typical age range though of Thads?

[NudeBeachPerv]

The ages range from 20's to 70 over any given time. But in general it's 30's and 40's with some younger an some older. If you're hoping for 20 something horny female spinners to be there, there are times they are there, but you shouldn't expect too many.

I'm more about attractiveness than age as a number, because I've found that any age female can be attractive to me, just depends on the female. I've been fortunate to play with women in their 20's and women in their 60's. And enjoyed them all.

You are right about the all men are naked rule. During the winter they now allow guys to wear a robe, you can even rent one, so go check it out and see what it is all about.Thad's has a very interesting history and the OG owner was a bit of a Larry Flyntesque character who got in a few legal battles with the City of San Diego.

https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/2002/oct/03/la-villa-de-hubba-hubba/

They own a unique license which my understanding is the cops can't raid them for throwing sex parties. Now, my opinion on this is that they had operated for many years as a monopoly and let things go such as the maintenance of the place and ensuring that guests had a good experience. They could take the attitude of "take it or leave it" and many took it. In my opinion, it is better that there are now other options.

As far as the nudity, I have heard two different stories. IDK which one is true or if neither are true. One was that Mr. Thad was gay and he enjoyed seeing nude men. The other was that heavy drinking Marines were less likely to throw fists if they were full nude.

[MaximusKahn]

The rule of all guys being naked, regardless of the original reason, seems to be a good rule.

Guys can't hide. If you let guys be dressed you'll get more creeps and gawkers, and lurkers. More would go just to look. Like the creeps on the bluffs over Blacks beach who peep at the nudists with binoculars and telescopes.

If you got to be naked, you're like everyone else, a participant, and can't hide.

The women get to see what "physical" traits you have. So it gives the women the power of choice, and may even be erotic for some who like to look. And believe me, many lucky guys are chosen because she can see all he has.

Guys naked seems to humble guys, and possibly makes them less aggressive. I mean who wants to get into a fight in your birthday suit with your cock flopping around and your nuts in the wind?

It also lets the women see who's confident. There are lurkers who hide behind their towels, or now hide in their robes, but you'll also see the confident guys who proudly display all.

It's surprising how many guys are shy, or perhaps insecure yet participate because they have to. So even those who come to look, have to show too.

If having to be naked is holding you back, I'm not sure how you expect to enjoy a sex party clothed, but I say Thads is not for you.


Thad's has a very interesting history and the OG owner was a bit of a Larry Flyntesque character who got in a few legal battles with the City of San Diego.

https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/2002/oct/03/la-villa-de-hubba-hubba/

They own a unique license which my understanding is the cops can't raid them for throwing sex parties. Now, my opinion on this is that they had operated for many years as a monopoly and let things go such as the maintenance of the place and ensuring that guests had a good experience. They could take the attitude of "take it or leave it" and many took it. In my opinion, it is better that there are now other options.

As far as the nudity, I have heard two different stories. IDK which one is true or if neither are true. One was that Mr. Thad was gay and he enjoyed seeing nude men. The other was that heavy drinking Marines were less likely to throw fists if they were full nude.

[NudeBeachPerv]

The rule of all guys being naked, regardless of the original reason, seems to be a good rule.

Guys can't hide. If you let guys be dressed you'll get more creeps and gawkers, and lurkers. More would go just to look. Like the creeps on the bluffs over Blacks beach who peep at the nudists with binoculars and telescopes.

If you got to be naked, you're like everyone else, a participant, and can't hide.

The women get to see what "physical" traits you have. So it gives the women the power of choice, and may even be erotic for some who like to look. And believe me, many lucky guys are chosen because she can see all he has.

Guys naked seems to humble guys, and possibly makes them less aggressive. I mean who wants to get into a fight in your birthday suit with your cock flopping around and your nuts in the wind?

It also lets the women see who's confident. There are lurkers who hide behind their towels, or now hide in their robes, but you'll also see the confident guys who proudly display all.

It's surprising how many guys are shy, or perhaps insecure yet participate because they have to. So even those who come to look, have to show too.

If having to be naked is holding you back, I'm not sure how you expect to enjoy a sex party clothed, but I say Thads is not for you.For me, one of the most pleasurable experiences was standing by the edge of the dance floor and having women in thong panties grind against me and then admire how their work had effected me. One or two times this lead to receiving oral on the edge of the dance floor with an onlooking crowd. With all of that being said, I prefer an environment where one can be clothed in the lounge area and then is naked in the play area. For example the front room in a hotel and the bedroom.

As you mentioned Blacks Beach, I just have to mention that it took a few visits to get accustomed to nudity in a public situation and I understand a new guys reservations.

[NudeBeachPerv]

This is a story of a man who attended an event hosted by a porn star:

https://nightrollergame.wordpress.com/2024/04/14/wholesome-gangbangs-that-one-time-at-aellas-birthday-party/

A couple of points, he brings up that it is much easier to be relaxed when sex is virtually guaranteed. I think this sums up why I don't enjoy parties like Thads. Some of the guys are really pushy and the scarcity / competition vibe promotes this. He also breaks down the expenses. So whether dating, "mongering" or attending events, guys are "paying for it."

[NudeBeachPerv]

Here are the websites for a few regular parties in San Diego:

https://www.thads.com

https://www.clubsafeword.com/sessions/new

https://luxxevents.club

As with anything do your due diligence.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Okay, some had asked my advice on what is a good party. I probably have different tastes than others here so I might presumably say things different than another poster. I will state that one will have a much easier time if they find a woman who would like to attend parties with them.

With that being said, what I look for. Some degree of consistency. Many parties happen one time and then never again. It could be a husband and wife renting a hotel and once they get it out of their system they are done (at least for awhile.) I like to see a party happen a few times before I go just to eliminate the scummiest of the scammiest. Also, I avoid those that ask for I'd or real names. While constitutional protections such as Freedom of Speech and Freedom of Assembly give some legal protection to your attending a party, I would not want to wind up on some federal database after a place is raided. If they have that data, they have it but if you make it a little harder to track it doesn't guarantee that you can't be tracked but it makes it tougher. The next thing is cash only. It might be one thing to Venmo someone once you know they are legit but for the first party do not send money to someone you have never met. After that, I would look for a party with multiple women attending and a party that is welcoming to single guys if attending as a single guy. Some parties most of the action goes on in a couples area and many / most single guys will not get an invite. After attending a few parties, you will get a read on which parties are better for single guys and some of the women who have a reputation for playing with single guys and showing up when / where they say they are showing. (I know some of these ladies and if they say they are going to be at X, Y, Z event it makes my interest in X, Y, Z that much higher, and, no I can't give that info out.) Parties that don't necessarily follow these patterns could be boom or they could be bust. And even after going to many events, I can't predict which will be great, but being a "known entity" and having a few women that have treated me well and I treat well in return, general makes the events better.

[MaximusKahn]

All this is great advice from NBP, and the last line is true. You must do your OWN due diligence.

Entering the "lifestyle" is like finding out how to locate and buy things that are illegal. You have to get to know the people. This means you will need to meet couples and women who swing swap and do sex play. The swinger lifestyle is supported on trust and discretion. Many couples are closet swingers. Pillars of the community who really don't want everyone to know of there secret hobby.

You would be very surprised to learn who is very sexually active beyond the pale.

So you have to find out how to meet those who play, impress them, form a friendship, and gain their trust. If you're a single guy, the best advice I can share is to find a kinky fuck buddy who is willing to swing and swap with you. Once you have a woman with you, it will be much easier to enter the couples dominated sex party world.

Like everything, it's networking to forming connections.


Here are the websites for a few regular parties in San Diego:

https://www.thads.com

https://www.clubsafeword.com/sessions/new

https://luxxevents.club

As with anything do your due diligence.

[Rey KittyHawk]

Being a couple is the best way in.

All you need is a female with you, she doesn't have to be a 10 or a crazy horny woman in her 20's. You just need to show up with a woman.

There are women out there who don't want to go alone, and will welcome a male to go with her, and even possibly be there to help her feel safe in a a gang bang situation.

Once you get in, you can stay together, or you can split up, all depending on your arrangement.

Search the sites in your area for single women. Don't expect to find models, or 10's needing a male fuck buddy. Seek out the 5, 6, 7's who are also looking. Be honest in your search, "looking for a swing and swap partner to enjoy the swingers world".

I found a 6, a chubby red head to go play with. She and I would fuck now and then, but she loved a variety of cocks, but didn't want to go to the parties alone. I escorted her, and she got me in the door.

Worked out well.


All this is great advice from NBP, and the last line is true. You must do your OWN due diligence.

Entering the "lifestyle" is like finding out how to locate and buy things that are illegal. You have to get to know the people. This means you will need to meet couples and women who swing swap and do sex play. The swinger lifestyle is supported on trust and discretion. Many couples are closet swingers. Pillars of the community who really don't want everyone to know of there secret hobby.

You would be very surprised to learn who is very sexually active beyond the pale.

So you have to find out how to meet those who play, impress them, form a friendship, and gain their trust. If you're a single guy, the best advice I can share is to find a kinky fuck buddy who is willing to swing and swap with you. Once you have a woman with you, it will be much easier to enter the couples dominated sex party world.

Like everything, it's networking to forming connections.

[MaximusKahn]

To clarify what we're talking about. The below topic is if you want to enter the lifestyle as a swinger. If that is the case, you will have to network, and as mentioned you will have better luck as a couple.

Private Swingers Sex parties are civilians, not professionals. They are in it to socialize, and enjoy sexual activities with friends, acquaintances, and sometimes with strangers. To get invited to this type of private party you will have to know the host, or be brought by a trusted member of the group who has permission to bring you. Of course single women are always welcome, but they too generally come with either a couple or an escort. A few are in the trusted social circle and may be invited to come alone. These types of parties tend to be a bit exclusive.

There are Swinger Parties that are hosted by organizations, but they too are focused on couples and often single women. They may be by invitation only, or could be open to swinger couples. Just have to find where they advertise and what the rules are. Get on the email distribution list if you can to learn of up and coming events.

If you're after a sex party where the women are service providers expecting to be paid that is a different category of sex party. You'll have to follow provider sites, as well as other sites that advertise about them.

Sex clubs, generally cater to couples and single women, but some allow men to attend.

It all depends on what type of sex party you're looking for.


Being a couple is the best way in.

All you need is a female with you, she doesn't have to be a 10 or a crazy horny woman in her 20's. You just need to show up with a woman.

There are women out there who don't want to go alone, and will welcome a male to go with her, and even possibly be there to help her feel safe in a a gang bang situation.

Once you get in, you can stay together, or you can split up, all depending on your arrangement.

Search the sites in your area for single women. Don't expect to find models, or 10's needing a male fuck buddy. Seek out the 5, 6, 7's who are also looking. Be honest in your search, "looking for a swing and swap partner to enjoy the swingers world".

I found a 6, a chubby red head to go play with. She and I would fuck now and then, but she loved a variety of cocks, but didn't want to go to the parties alone. I escorted her, and she got me in the door.

Worked out well.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Got a phishing text from a 510 area code. It said they had me in their address book but no notes on who I was. This is a number I use mostly for parties and isn't publicly available.

I didn't respond.

Then they sent the attached pic. Asked "have we worked together?" Unsure if that was a reference to making adult content ala OF or throwing a party together. I never saw this broad in my life. My best guest is someone's party list got hacked and a bad actor is reaching out. No idea what the "end game" is.

[JerkieChan]

Got a phishing text from a 510 area code. It said they had me in their address book but no notes on who I was. This is a number I use mostly for parties and isn't publicly available.

I didn't respond.

Then they sent the attached pic. Asked "have we worked together?" Unsure if that was a reference to making adult content ala OF or throwing a party together. I never saw this broad in my life. My best guest is someone's party list got hacked and a bad actor is reaching out. No idea what the "end game" is.Based on the picture and the info you provided, it sounds to me like this is the lead-in to a "pig butchering" scam.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Based on the picture and the info you provided, it sounds to me like this is the lead-in to a "pig butchering" scam.It could be. When I reverse imaged searched, I found an account that showed a female Andrew Tate (if that makes sense) as she was standing near expensive race cars and the picture with her boozing it up. (I'm very put off by heavy drinkers IRL.) Also the account seemed to be pretty new. The image doesn't seem to be clean enough to be AI.

[MaximusKahn]

Saturday night was a much larger crowd, more than double Friday night, and everyone was in a very open good spirited mood like Friday was. The big girls were there in numbers, and some I mean were very big.

There was some open play, and a couple of GB's that I got in some peripheral action on. But my highlight was getting the mmfm invite with a beauty who was teasing me earlier that night. This night I spotted a Hispanic couple with a very sexy woman who caught my eye. Fully equipped with C's plus, nice wide hips, full ass, with a shaved pussy. Beautiful, face, with a naughty smile.

This is the perfect example of being teased multiple time with no finish, but has a great ending.

First tease. She was sitting back leaning on husband with her legs wide open on a couch in the gang bang room. Crotch less mesh knit stocking, her beautiful pussy wide open. I asked to touch, she said "legs" so I rub her legs. After only a couples of seconds she moves one hand to her pussy. I gently play, then another guys comes up and speaks Spanish to her husband and her. Now he and I are both playing with her legs and pussy. 30 seconds later she says thank you, closes her legs and they get up and take him to a private room. I say thank you, and have to live with my half hard cock.

Second tease. I was watching some other action and when it ended, I walked by her, she waved me over. She asked got a condom? I said yes, she said put it on. I did. She sucked me for about 2 minutes, then her husband came over to get her. She said thank you and that was that. I smiled said thank you, she smiled back, and she went off with her hub to the couples' room. I pulled condom off, and went and washed my cock. Always want to be clean and fresh.

Later that night the third tease. I had some peripheral action in a GB and was standing there more than half-hard, as she walked by, she got a hand full and gave me a couple of gentle tugs with a big smile, then she let go and kept following her husband. That was that. I said thank you.

During my wandering, I came across this same couple in a mfm, in one of the rooms with the sliding glass doors. She was on her hands and knees facing out towards me, the hub was having his fun behind her while the another guy was to her side getting a hand job with some occasional sucking. I walked up to the doors to enjoy the show. We met eyes, she smiled, and I got the wave in! She asks got condom? I say yes. She literally says, get ready or get out! I was ready!

I won't go much further into detail, because I'm sure you know already, but I'll say it was a good time, and yes, I did finish as did she. She was beautiful, she was hot, and I made sure she knew it, and that I was there to please her. All three of us were. I was sure to thank her husband as much as I thanked her. It's with his blessing you get to be sucked by his wife and that you get to fuck her. So I treated him with respect as the man.

This night I noticed that many guys will fuck anything, and I do mean anything. One guy in particular was with one lady having open sex and at times eating her pussy. Not to be mean, but she wasn't attractive to me in any way. Then later that night I saw him fucking a very larger girl in one of the small rooms. Later I asked him how was the big girl? He said awesome. I was like, okay, to each his own. But, I'll admit it here, big girls just can't arouse me. Now that Thads seems to become big girl heaven, and they are getting sex, I do not think I'd be making this a primary plan for my weekends for a while. My easy rule is that I'm not attracted to any woman who outweighs me. A little extra on her bones is okay, but when it approaches fat, I'm just not into it. Sure Thads can be just a naked social event where nothing is guaranteed, but I do want some good eye candy to enjoy while I'm hoping to get some action.

It's a bad night when there are no women to fuck, but even more depressing when there are a lot of women, but none of them are attractive. I do enjoy live sexual action and shows, but I do not even want to see fat women being fucked. And I saw plenty of that going on.

Will I go back, sure? Will I rush back, maybe not for a little while? I wait till it gets deeper into summer as hopefully more women try to get in shape for beach time.

[MaximusKahn]

Had some free time so I though I go to Thads' over the weekend. Fri night, and Saturday night. I decided to go stag.

One major observation that struck me immediately is that the women have gotten bigger, and I do not mean taller. And that there were a lot more of the bigger women there.

Friday there was a moderate crowd. Yes a few beauties, but the big girls dominated the choices by far. A lot couples were going off to private rooms. A few went to the rooms that offered a view, and there was a lot of socializing, but not too much open sex. The good news is that there were some kinky couples playing, and that a couple of Gangbangs erupted during the night, which I enjoyed. Me and another guy were taking turns fucking a little darling, as her man watched, and when we got done, she called us a couple of heathens. Made me laugh. We fucked her brains out.

One thing worth mentioning about the lifestyle expectations. This night I met a young guy, who I talked with at the bar, who said it was his first time at Thads. Sitting there he caught the eye of an older couple, may be in their 40's. She was clearly the best-looking woman I saw the whole night, bar none. She may have been a model at one time, and even still could be. Beautiful face, perfect tits, flat stomach, and a nice ass in awesome proportions. Shortly after that when I wondered back out by the fire pits, sure enough. The young guy was in the room with the sliding glass doors with her blowing him as her husband is fucking her. This lucky stud on his first night is in a spit roast with a stunningly beautiful woman. I was proud my boy was getting it his first night, and jealous at the same time as I watched action. I walk to the glass and smiled, he give me the thumbs up. The next thing he does is to start vaping while she sucking him. I'm like are you fucking kidding me. You got a mfm with the hottest women here, and you are vaping? He is also looking out through the sliding doors, with a smile, like, hey, look at me, I'm getting a blow job. Young without experience!

Well they go through some positions, but I notice he's just "in" the room. They are initiating everything. He's a zombie with a hard on and just taking directions. He shows her no personal attention and almost no interest even when she approaches him for some hugging and kissing. Then as the husband starts licking her pussy, he is sitting on the edge of the bed vaping with his back to them.

Well that eventually ends, and I run into him later. He's all disappointed because he says he never finished. He got sucked by her, got to fuck the most beautiful women there that night, and he's all disappointed that he never got off. I mean he was actually complaining! His attitude was so fucked up, I didn't even try to give any advice for next time.

Let me add some advice to you all though. When you are invited to a mfm in the swing world, you perform like you worship the female. Make her pleasure your mission in life. Show interest, lust, desire for her. Then give her a good fucking and show her a good time in every way they ask or every way that you can think of. Most will give back the same. Above all, make her feel sexy, wanted, lusted after, and that you appreciate it as a great experience for you. Grateful, sums it up.

Another aspect about swinging and sex play. There are times, you don't "get off. " There is sucking, fucking, fingering, tugging, and playing and although an orgasm is the ultimate reward, many times you'll do all that and not get off so you can do more later, or she just decides she's had enough and you're done. It's not uncommon for a woman to play with you, then smile and walk away, or suck you a little and literally stop and move on. Yes, it is a tease, but that is part of the sex play at times. Women can see you, and just want a taste. They can enjoy their power to do with you as they please, and stop, as they please. Be prepared for it. Enjoy the little sexual moments. Sex play doesn't' always lead to intercourse, or to an orgasm.

See Saturday night and I'll tell you more about "teasing. ".

Sorry but I have to say this. Don't vape while enjoying any kind of sex play.

[Msog1]

Had some free time so I though I go to Thads' over the weekend. Fri night, and Saturday night. I decided to go stag.

One major observation that struck me immediately is that the women have gotten bigger, and I do not mean taller. And that there were a lot more of the bigger women there.

Friday there was a moderate crowd. Yes a few beauties, but the big girls dominated the choices by far. A lot couples were going off to private rooms. A few went to the rooms that offered a view, and there was a lot of socializing, but not too much open sex. The good news is that there were some kinky couples playing, and that a couple of Gangbangs erupted during the night, which I enjoyed. Me and another guy were taking turns fucking a little darling, as her man watched, and when we got done, she called us a couple of heathens. Made me laugh. We fucked her brains out.

One thing worth mentioning about the lifestyle expectations. This night I met a young guy, who I talked with at the bar, who said it was his first time at Thads. Sitting there he caught the eye of an older couple, may be in their 40's. She was clearly the best-looking woman I saw the whole night, bar none. She may have been a model at one time, and even still could be. Beautiful face, perfect tits, flat stomach, and a nice ass in awesome proportions. Shortly after that when I wondered back out by the fire pits, sure enough. The young guy was in the room with the sliding glass doors with her blowing him as her husband is fucking her. This lucky stud on his first night is in a spit roast with a stunningly beautiful woman. I was proud my boy was getting it his first night, and jealous at the same time as I watched action. I walk to the glass and smiled, he give me the thumbs up. The next thing he does is to start vaping while she sucking him. I'm like are you fucking kidding me. You got a mfm with the hottest women here, and you are vaping? He is also looking out through the sliding doors, with a smile, like, hey, look at me, I'm getting a blow job. Young without experience!

Well they go through some positions, but I notice he's just "in" the room. They are initiating everything. He's a zombie with a hard on and just taking directions. He shows her no personal attention and almost no interest even when she approaches him for some hugging and kissing. Then as the husband starts licking her pussy, he is sitting on the edge of the bed vaping with his back to them.

Well that eventually ends, and I run into him later. He's all disappointed because he says he never finished. He got sucked by her, got to fuck the most beautiful women there that night, and he's all disappointed that he never got off. I mean he was actually complaining! His attitude was so fucked up, I didn't even try to give any advice for next time..Might have to check it out one day to see what it's like just scared to run into anyone that might recognize me. I also can't get excited by bigger girls but might need to borrow your friend one day and I'll let you know if there is anything good. LOL. I'm definitely a shell of my former self.

The closest thing that happened to me was 25 years ago right after I got hired. I was excited to go out to an after hours party in PB with my manager and other coworkers. While we were walking in the parking lot my manager whispered in my ear that his girlfriend would suck my dick. When we got in the party she followed me in the bathroom and did. Later my manager would jokingly tell others out loud that she said I had a big dick. LOL. His nickname was Hedo. He was a stud. Fun times.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Had some free time so I though I go to Thads' over the weekend. Fri night, and Saturday night. I decided to go stag.

One major observation that struck me immediately is that the women have gotten bigger, and I do not mean taller. And that there were a lot more of the bigger women there.

Friday there was a moderate crowd. Yes a few beauties, but the big girls dominated the choices by far. A lot couples were going off to private rooms. A few went to the rooms that offered a view, and there was a lot of socializing, but not too much open sex. The good news is that there were some kinky couples playing, and that a couple of Gangbangs erupted during the night, which I enjoyed. Me and another guy were taking turns fucking a little darling, as her man watched, and when we got done, she called us a couple of heathens. Made me laugh. We fucked her brains out.

One thing worth mentioning about the lifestyle expectations. This night I met a young guy, who I talked with at the bar, who said it was his first time at Thads. Sitting there he caught the eye of an older couple, may be in their 40's. She was clearly the best-looking woman I saw the whole night, bar none. She may have been a model at one time, and even still could be. Beautiful face, perfect tits, flat stomach, and a nice ass in awesome proportions. Shortly after that when I wondered back out by the fire pits, sure enough. The young guy was in the room with the sliding glass doors with her blowing him as her husband is fucking her. This lucky stud on his first night is in a spit roast with a stunningly beautiful woman.Great report!

Lots to address here, as far as the new guy, yeah, I think vaping was a bad move. As far as pleasuring a woman any way she wants, well, I won't perform oral on a woman I don't know well. I think it's ok and even good to have boundaries. Many GB girls won't kiss or will allow kissing but not above the neck line. I've gotten frustrated trying to give new guys tips. I've gotten PM's asking about good parties or "should I go" and that is not something I can answer.

And as far as GB's, there's always that guy who takes a half hour hogging until the lady or her hubby basically says "Next. " It's almost like a speech, it's better to say less and leave her wanting more.

As far as the ladies "getting larger" that's hard to imagine. I guess Tony and Thor will need to bring them in on wheel barrels once they hit the half ton mark, hehe.

[MaximusKahn]

You are right to point out that there are boundaries, theirs and your own. Even in a GB there are "rules" and boundaries to observe.

Always funny that a woman will suck your bare cock, even sometimes let you finish in her mouth but won't kiss you. But watch out, if they do let you finish in her mouth and she immediately tries to kiss you, watch out for the snow ball.

I know many guys love big women and I mean no disrespect. I'm just pointing out I'm not into large women and offer no judgment other than my own tastes.

When in a gang bang enjoying your turn, remember there are guys behind you, so get a fair share and surrender the pussy. Choose to cum or not, but be reasonable on how long you occupy her.

Let me also be clear. I really enjoy Thads, and don't get to go as often as I would like. In no way was I saying Thad's is not a great place if you like as sexual environment. I think all mongers should check it out. Just might be your paradise in SD.


Great report!

Lots to address here, as far as the new guy, yeah, I think vaping was a bad move. As far as pleasuring a woman any way she wants, well, I won't perform oral on a woman I don't know well. I think it's ok and even good to have boundaries. Many GB girls won't kiss or will allow kissing but not above the neck line. I've gotten frustrated trying to give new guys tips. I've gotten PM's asking about good parties or "should I go" and that is not something I can answer.

And as far as GB's, there's always that guy who takes a half hour hogging until the lady or her hubby basically says "Next. " It's almost like a speech, it's better to say less and leave her wanting more.

As far as the ladies "getting larger" that's hard to imagine. I guess Tony and Thor will need to bring them in on wheel barrels once they hit the half ton mark, hehe.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Might have to check it out one day to see what it's like just scared to run into anyone that might recognize me. I also can't get excited by bigger girls but might need to borrow your friend one day and I'll let you know if there is anything good. LOL. I'm definitely a shell of my former self.

The closest thing that happened to me was 25 years ago right after I got hired. I was excited to go out to an after hours party in PB with my manager and other coworkers. While we were walking in the parking lot my manager whispered in my ear that his girlfriend would suck my dick. When we got in the party she followed me in the bathroom and did. Later my manager would jokingly tell others out loud that she said I had a big dick. LOL. His nickname was Hedo. He was a stud. Fun times.Hey MSOG,

It is possible that you could run into someone you know and if you are going to run for public office or are a church minister, then maybe you should avoid going to such events. However, everyone going is looking for the same thing so it's hypocritical if they "out" you. "What are YOU doing here you firkin' perv?" "Well, what are YOU doing here, you degenerate?

With that being said, the etiquette is that if you see lifestyle people out and about, you either ignore them or acknowledge them with a slight nod but don't "out" them. I have observed that many do not follow etiquette as they should, even people who should know better. There's the ole saying "loose lips sink ships" but lots of people run their mouths.

One thing to be careful of is Thad's requires men to be nude so if you work in an office or such, it is possible women co-workers may "see it all" without having to bare much of themselves. And it is also possible such a scenario occurs at a place like Blacks Beach. Some things you can do to mitigate but not entirely eliminate the risk would be making the drive to OC or LA.

[NudeBeachPerv]

You are right to point out that there are boundaries, theirs and your own. Even in a GB there are "rules" and boundaries to observe.

Always funny that a woman will suck your bare cock, even sometimes let you finish in her mouth but won't kiss you. But watch out, if they do let you finish in her mouth and she immediately tries to kiss you, watch out for the snow ball.

I know many guys love big women and I mean no disrespect. I'm just pointing out I'm not into large women and offer no judgment other than my own tastes.

When in a gang bang enjoying your turn, remember there are guys behind you, so get a fair share and surrender the pussy. Choose to cum or not, but be reasonable on how long you occupy her.

Let me also be clear. I really enjoy Thads, and don't get to go as often as I would like. In no way was I saying Thad's is not a great place if you like as sexual environment. I think all mongers should check it out. Just might be your paradise in SD.Hey Max,

When I was there, they mostly played hip hop but I think this classic should be the Thad's theme song!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VMnjF1O4eH0

[Msog1]

Hey MSOG,

It is possible that you could run into someone you know and if you are going to run for public office or are a church minister, then maybe you should avoid going to such events. However, everyone going is looking for the same thing so it's hypocritical if they "out" you. "What are YOU doing here you firkin' perv?" "Well, what are YOU doing here, you degenerate?

With that being said, the etiquette is that if you see lifestyle people out and about, you either ignore them or acknowledge them with a slight nod but don't "out" them. I have observed that many do not follow etiquette as they should, even people who should know better. There's the ole saying "loose lips sink ships" but lots of people run their mouths.

One thing to be careful of is Thad's requires men to be nude so if you work in an office or such, it is possible women co-workers may "see it all" without having to bare much of themselves. And it is also possible such a scenario occurs at a place like Blacks Beach. Some things you can do to mitigate but not entirely eliminate the risk would be making the drive to OC or LA.Does anyone wear masks?

[DrPornDawger]

Hey Max,

When I was there, they mostly played hip hop but I think this classic should be the Thad's theme song!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VMnjF1O4eH0We need some examples of these mom bods,. Etc. Are bbw.

[NudeBeachPerv]

We need some examples of these mom bods,. Etc. Are bbw.Dr. PD,

It's more like this.

https://starwars.fandom.com/wiki/Gardulla_Besadii_the_Elder

[NudeBeachPerv]

Does anyone wear masks?MSOG,

I suppose you could wear a mask and say you have a family member that is vulnerable. IDK if anyone else would be wearing a mask. I have not ben there since before lockdown.

[Lotsoffun201]

We need some examples of these mom bods,. Etc. Are bbw.I've been to sex clubs all over the country at one time or another. You see your fair share of "robust" people but all shapes and sizes except you rarely see the morbidly obese where you need flour and duct tape to find the wet spot. There are some places that have the "pretty people" only parties so you never see the robust people there.

[NudeBeachPerv]

One of the reviews is revealing.

"and this groups of lady's like old timers acting like the place belong to them very rude Drunk and lousy smoking pot outside asking to move cause they says some spots are private cause they always there (really) eating fast food leaving the trash there criticizing good looking girls making Loud offensive comments".

https://www.yelp.com/user_details?userid=WgnZeWRhmt5DgxdoswZZ7g

I remember there always being one or two packs of ladies who were rude and unpleasant, they rarely played (as if anyone really wanted to play with them) but having them around was a real buzz kill. A woman at another party mentioned being "**** shamed" at Thads when she went down on a guy and a group of ladies made comments along the lines of "You blew that loser?" Unfortunately, some of the regulars are really low class and extremely unpleasant.

[MaximusKahn]

Does anyone wear masks?Assuming you don't mean medical masks, which nobody wears.

Masks to hide identity are rare. I've only seen one beauty wearing a Mardi Gras style mask. She had a great body and the mask she wore made her even sexier to me. Unfortunately I only saw her play with the man she came with. I got the impression they were checking Thad's out, as they seemed to keep to themselves and didn't socialize that I saw.

Other that her, nobody I've seen wears any identity hiding masks. If you are really afraid of seeing someone you know, consider the bright side, now you know what they are up to and they may become a fun fuck buddy.

Thad's is a public arena so there are all levels of society there and some may not be classy, or discrete. Private exclusive sex parties on the other hand tend to be more discrete. But of course are hard to find, and harder to get invited too.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Alright Guys,

Here's some basic stuff, follow or stay home.

(and this is going to be insultingly basic too many of you, but.).

Remember to thoroughly wipe you ass after you take a sh!t, better yet shower if you can. Maybe keep an extra stick of deodorant in your bag with your jimmies.

Put your condoms and condom wrappers in the garbage cans. No one wants to step on your jizz filled jimmies! Pro tip, keep you extra condoms in your socks and if you can't make it to a garbage can, slip the wrapper in your sock too. Once you finish, there will be a waste basket near the bed, use it!

Many parties don't allow phones in. Some allow phones in but not in the play area. Most don't allow filming but if you are in a party where it is allowed and you have ben given permission by a BJ queen, make sure you only get her in the frame and let others know you will be filming but not timing them. Some people don't want to get doxxed and they sure don't want to wind up in your impromptu porno. If you are at a party that allows phones, don't be the idiot shooting off twenty texts to your boys in the play area. Don't be sitting in the reception area but be aiming your phone at the play area. This creeps people out. Have some basic awareness and show some basic respect.

Boundaries. Understand that many ladies will have rules such as no anal, or no kissing above the neck. Respect those rules and if someone's rules are too much, find someone else to play with, don't be the asshole who begs for the butthole when it was stated as off limits. The other side of the coin is know your own boundaries. You might meet a bi guy with a super hot wife, their expectation may be both play with you. But if you are a straight guy better to let them know in a straightforward manner that the only contact you like to have with guys is shoulder to shoulder while playing w / a lady. Also some woman really love oral but if you don't like going down on women it's ok to say that it is something you only do in a serious relationship with a woman and not at parties or just that it is off limits for you. You are also allowed to have boundaries and they should absolutely be respected.

Alcohol-many parties are BYOB. Too many guys get stupid with alcohol and much / most of the drama at parties is because of drunks. If you drink, try to keep it to one or two. It is absolutely ok to drink only water.

If you see a party where rules constantly get broken and there are no repercussions, then that is probably a party to stop attending as word gets around and woman will avoid those situations (as well they should.)