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https://www.secretbenefits.com
Thought I'd see if there was any interest here. It is somewhat interesting given there is some overlap with SA and the short videos that oft times reveal the truth behind heavily filtered photos.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fb8036b2a7a42a6c
Saw this one when she was on SA about 8 years ago. She looked like the younger blond photos then. She just went through the motions and was not all that interested. Of course, this may be YMMV.
Some notes:
- I do not remember the rates.
- early photos (at least) were real but somewhat flattering.
- BBBJ but CFS.
- Huge hairy Bush.
- did not host.
Of course, any or all of this could have changes. She is legit, jut not my cup of tea.
As someone mentioned earlier, the famous Alicia is not on SB. At least as of 4 days ago.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ddda2c5cf19f335d
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fb8036b2a7a42a6c
Saw this one when she was on SA about 8 years ago. She looked like the younger blond photos then. She just went through the motions and was not all that interested. Of course, this may be YMMV.
Some notes:
- I do not remember the rates.
- early photos (at least) were real but somewhat flattering.
- BBBJ but CFS.
- Huge hairy Bush.
- did not host.
Of course, any or all of this could have changes. She is legit, jut not my cup of tea.I met her about that long ago for a meet and greet and I just bailed. She showed up looking like she was homeless and just woke up. I assumed her demons were chasing her. Very nice and was willing to do the deed but just wasn't my flavor.
Pamela356 https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/661f86462884b616.
Asked for $500. Was going to negotiate but then decided she wasn't hot enough and seemed annoying.
Jessybabe143 xo https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/32b3a2bff54be500.
Nurse. Started at $800. I offered 4 and she didn't say no. But now is ghosting me.
Sharmila https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5aa12896e8ec6e12.
English dark skinned girl. Was on SA and I believe was good with 4 and all holes uncovered. Won't respond to me on SB though.
Kokito29 https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/217dc78fdfa7d854.
Pretty sure this is a scam. She said something about losing her purse and needing money for food for herself and her sister. Then made up another story. I didn't call her out and she just moved on to the next sucker.
If SA had the video verification process I would probably switch back. Helps weed out some of the fakes. Both sites are a pain in the ass though.
I met her about that long ago for a meet and greet and I just bailed. She showed up looking like she was homeless and just woke up. I assumed her demons were chasing her. Very nice and was willing to do the deed but just wasn't my flavor.Yeah, you did not miss anything.
Thanks for the info. Kokito29 looks like she is living in a crack house.
Pamela356 https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/661f86462884b616.
Asked for $500. Was going to negotiate but then decided she wasn't hot enough and seemed annoying.
Jessybabe143 xo https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/32b3a2bff54be500.
Nurse. Started at $800. I offered 4 and she didn't say no. But now is ghosting me.
Sharmila https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5aa12896e8ec6e12.
English dark skinned girl. Was on SA and I believe was good with 4 and all holes uncovered. Won't respond to me on SB though.
Kokito29 https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/217dc78fdfa7d854.
Pretty sure this is a scam. She said something about losing her purse and needing money for food for herself and her sister. Then made up another story. I didn't call her out and she just moved on to the next sucker.
If SA had the video verification process I would probably switch back. Helps weed out some of the fakes. Both sites are a pain in the ass though.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0f63c1bb8a98195c
Nurse. As you can see very pretty. She had some hot secret photos which are now gone I think. Lingerie, swimsuit etc. We were talking for a week and we're getting ready to meet and then she said oh by the way I'm hoping you understand this is going to be platonic. So I said well we're not going to last very long if that's the case. Silence from her. Then she changed her profile to saying looking for platonic. A bit later she changed it back to what it is now removing platonic. Assuming she got no messages with the platonic label. She's now got a bunch of dudes competing to be her top admirer. Good luck. Whatever.
I'd like to point out that SB has ads that promote it as the alternative to escorts showing chicks in doggy style and riding dudes. If I see platonic or they say platonic I explain this to them.
With the video testimonials that SB provides, girls can get verified. I never ever consider anyone without some kind of verification anymore. Does it eliminate the "Fakes" or.
"Bots" or chicks from Brazil, Russia, etc? No but in my estimation it's like 99%.
Here is a great example of the video telling the real story. Take "halley fun" a seemingly beautiful girl.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/94922d4e69d4ea7b
She posts a couple deceptively cute profile pics. Then when she goes to post the verification video (without makeup pre SBs guidance) you see a bit of a different story. She even got upset about guys then requesting more pics from her and put it in her profile. See attached to see what I mean.
Yep. The videos are definitely helpful.
With the video testimonials that SB provides, girls can get verified. I never ever consider anyone without some kind of verification anymore. Does it eliminate the "Fakes" or.
"Bots" or chicks from Brazil, Russia, etc? No but in my estimation it's like 99%.
Here is a great example of the video telling the real story. Take "halley fun" a seemingly beautiful girl.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/94922d4e69d4ea7b
She posts a couple deceptively cute profile pics. Then when she goes to post the verification video (without makeup pre SBs guidance) you see a bit of a different story. She even got upset about guys then requesting more pics from her and put it in her profile. See attached to see what I mean.
She wants $70 up front before she will start conversations with you. Obviously I took a pass, politely as you never know when they may come to their senses LOL.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/057dd3f6cd6c992d
With the video testimonials that SB provides, girls can get verified. I never ever consider anyone without some kind of verification anymore. Does it eliminate the "Fakes" or.
"Bots" or chicks from Brazil, Russia, etc? No but in my estimation it's like 99%.
Here is a great example of the video telling the real story. Take "halley fun" a seemingly beautiful girl.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/94922d4e69d4ea7b
She posts a couple deceptively cute profile pics. Then when she goes to post the verification video (without makeup pre SBs guidance) you see a bit of a different story. She even got upset about guys then requesting more pics from her and put it in her profile. See attached to see what I mean.And I found her on tryst. Some poor suckers going to try this girl without seeing the video!
https://tryst.link/escort/halleyy
And I found her on tryst. Some poor suckers going to try this girl without seeing the video!
https://tryst.link/escort/halleyyYeah, the SB videos are certainly a nice touch.
JClearMan1
02-04-23, 15:08
Yep. The videos are definitely helpful.Those videos also help you decide whether or not to waste points on unlocking the conversation, or even reaching out in the first place. I've seen so many that have filters on pictures, but look like dogs in the video.
KcirtaPanner2
02-04-23, 19:47
Those videos also help you decide whether or not to waste points on unlocking the conversation, or even reaching out in the first place. I've seen so many that have filters on pictures, but look like dogs in the video.A girl I met last week told me she didn't even realize the video was posted to her profile, she thought it was purely for confirmation. Hard to believe but I've noticed that in 90% of those videos the girls aren't wearing any makeup and their hair is a total mess, so I have a feeling she's not the only one. I wouldn't judge based on those vids is what I'm saying.
edit: So the site does tell them to do it without makeup? Still, do I really care what a girl looks like without makeup lol? I'm not marrying her, I'll never see her like that in person.
A girl I met last week told me she didn't even realize the video was posted to her profile, she thought it was purely for confirmation. Hard to believe but I've noticed that in 90% of those videos the girls aren't wearing any makeup and their hair is a total mess, so I have a feeling she's not the only one. I wouldn't judge based on those vids is what I'm saying.
edit: So the site does tell them to do it without makeup? Still, do I really care what a girl looks like without makeup lol? I'm not marrying her, I'll never see her like that in person.Yeah, I definitely look beyond the no makeup and I am ok with it. But sometimes when they talk it tells you a lot about their personality.
JClearMan1
02-07-23, 15:55
A girl I met last week told me she didn't even realize the video was posted to her profile, she thought it was purely for confirmation. Hard to believe but I've noticed that in 90% of those videos the girls aren't wearing any makeup and their hair is a total mess, so I have a feeling she's not the only one. I wouldn't judge based on those vids is what I'm saying.
edit: So the site does tell them to do it without makeup? Still, do I really care what a girl looks like without makeup lol? I'm not marrying her, I'll never see her like that in person.This is a good example of what I was talking about: https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a1f511e2805eb34b.
KcirtaPanner2
02-07-23, 17:52
Anyone run into this thing where you can't message someone? They haven't blocked me because I can view their profile and otherwise interact with it (fave, request pics etc), but when I hit "send" on a message it just doesn't send. I've noticed it with two different people now.
This is a good example of what I was talking about: https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a1f511e2805eb34b.I was going to post that one too. Amazing how a video could erase all my interest in like 1 second.
I was going to post that one too. Amazing how a video could erase all my interest in like 1 second.That their little video is available for us to see. Just saw a profile of a very attractive body with huge a huge star blocking her face in all of the photos. The video shows her face, of course. And while attractive, it is make up free and acne riddled.
Yikes! Not that her pics were all that but the video screams no way!
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/68a5e0a6f6a91d2f
HornyMan85
02-25-23, 18:25
Is it me or is there so many fake profiles and scammers. By far the worst website I've used. I'm a big fan of what's your price.
KcirtaPanner2
02-26-23, 13:13
Is it me or is there so many fake profiles and scammers. By far the worst website I've used. I'm a big fan of what's your price.Scammers, maybe. But I actually have found there to be way fewer straight up fake profiles than on Seeking. I mean Seeking doesn't have the video verification feature, for starters.
I On Da Street
02-27-23, 10:18
She's real and ready to meet.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/3d6001332eb16172
Does not host, doesn't drive and her profile pics are flattering but she is fun. I found her somewhat reasonable. She's in a hard spot in life though. I would also probably say don't advance anything up front. Keep her hungry.
Anyone ever talk, meet or have any info on her.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2f70b4a33563e436
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fb8036b2a7a42a6c
Some of the photos are very old (the good ones LOL). Saw her about 10 years ago and no good then.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fb8036b2a7a42a6c
Some of the photos are very old (the good ones LOL). Saw her about 10 years ago and no good then.I met her around the same time ago and decided to take a hard pass on her. She was pretty rough looking then so I can only imagine what stage she is at now. She really should go the STG route certainly not SB material IMO.
Coco has been on the site for a while, wants to meet but wasnt sure if she was real.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/9c1feab8aec0564a
Lexi wants to get hotel right away which is making me hesitant right away. Thoughts?
Me: Nice. What's are you looking for? Dinner dates, hotel dates, etc?
Her: Hotel dates with maybe some ubeae eats works be fun.
Me: haha touche you in the city or suburbs?
Her: I'm currently in the suburbs hbu.
Me: Woburn. Depending on what your weekdays are like. Maybe we can meet for a quick lunch before straight to a hotel.
Her: Yes sounds great.
Her: I'm free this week.
Me: how far are you from Woburn? Thursday at 12 works.
Her: I can be there.
Her: Hotel?
Her: Text me.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a04707d37b1cfdb8
Coco has been on the site for a while, wants to meet but wasnt sure if she was real.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/9c1feab8aec0564a
Lexi wants to get hotel right away which is making me hesitant right away. Thoughts?
Me: Nice. What's are you looking for? Dinner dates, hotel dates, etc?
Her: Hotel dates with maybe some ubeae eats works be fun.
Me: haha touche you in the city or suburbs?
Her: I'm currently in the suburbs hbu.
Me: Woburn. Depending on what your weekdays are like. Maybe we can meet for a quick lunch before straight to a hotel.
Her: Yes sounds great.
Her: I'm free this week.
Me: how far are you from Woburn? Thursday at 12 works.
Her: I can be there.
Her: Hotel?
Her: Text me.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a04707d37b1cfdb8Coco was reviewed on the Seeking thread. I don't remember too much negative. Just that she's been around the block. Not a sugar baby by any means. May have been on STG.
Lexi is an STG girl.
Safe travels.
CambridgeSci
04-04-23, 11:29
In Lexi's case -- haven't seen her post in a few weeks but she used to post regularly:
https://skipthegames.com/posts/boston/female-escorts/caucasian_w/warm-up-with-me-8573858754/718585761078
Coco was talked about here at some point, check the SA thread as she's on both.
Coco has been on the site for a while, wants to meet but wasnt sure if she was real.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/9c1feab8aec0564a
Lexi wants to get hotel right away which is making me hesitant right away. Thoughts?
Me: Nice. What's are you looking for? Dinner dates, hotel dates, etc?
Her: Hotel dates with maybe some ubeae eats works be fun.
Me: haha touche you in the city or suburbs?
Her: I'm currently in the suburbs hbu.
Me: Woburn. Depending on what your weekdays are like. Maybe we can meet for a quick lunch before straight to a hotel.
Her: Yes sounds great.
Her: I'm free this week.
Me: how far are you from Woburn? Thursday at 12 works.
Her: I can be there.
Her: Hotel?
Her: Text me.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a04707d37b1cfdb8
CambridgeSci
04-04-23, 11:33
In Lexi's case -- haven't seen her post in a few weeks but she used to post regularly:
https://skipthegames.com/posts/boston/female-escorts/caucasian_w/warm-up-with-me-8573858754/718585761078
Coco was talked about here at some point, check the SA thread as she's on both.Here's info on Coco:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?25176-Seeking-Arrangements&p=5933110&viewfull=1#post5933110.
Here's info on Coco:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?25176-Seeking-Arrangements&p=5933110&viewfull=1#post5933110.Great thanks everyone keep you posted.
Hey guys,
I'm new to this whole thing actually to the guide itself I've reading on and off these threads I've been considering to sign up for this SB thing but I'm a bit iffy on it, like I feel is more time and money waste can someone please advice?
Again from the fact if posting my picture there to putting my CC on their files makes me feel weird not sure if they will try to charge me a huge amount of money for random messages from members here. Could someone please advice?
Very much appreciate.
Hey guys,
I'm new to this whole thing actually to the guide itself I've reading on and off these threads I've been considering to sign up for this SB thing but I'm a bit iffy on it, like I feel is more time and money waste can someone please advice?
Again from the fact if posting my picture there to putting my CC on their files makes me feel weird not sure if they will try to charge me a huge amount of money for random messages from members here. Could someone please advice?
Very much appreciate.
Hey guys,
I'm new to this whole thing actually to the guide itself I've reading on and off these threads I've been considering to sign up for this SB thing but I'm a bit iffy on it, like I feel is more time and money waste can someone please advice?
Again from the fact if posting my picture there to putting my CC on their files makes me feel weird not sure if they will try to charge me a huge amount of money for random messages from members here. Could someone please advice?
Very much appreciate.No idea if it's worth it. I don't spend as much time hunting for girls on here like I used to. What I will say is that it is time consuming. You have to put the time in and be ready to go on SB. I've gotten dates within a day of messaging. There's benefits to both platforms SA vs SB which I've written about. I like the SB option to search by verified girls with video verifications. Give you a sense of whether they are real and they are hot. SB is a nickel and dime platform though. Paying to unlock pictures and message chicks vs monthly unlimited messaging on SA. Messages delete after 30 days on SB too. However SAs support team loves kicking you off the platform and banning you for silly reasons or no reason. SA doesn't let you put up blurry photos or photos where your face is not visible anymore. Plenty of scammers in both.
I do think there's less of the glamorous Sugar Baby wannabe bull $hit on SB though. It's a "we're all here for sex and money" meeting place. If some girl tells you different point her to the ads on this forum.
Good luck.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a04707d37b1cfdb8
I was trying to figure out where I saw her before / and then I remembered some posts on SA where she scammed guys pretty hardcore. If you search Lexie on the SA forum you'll see. Compare her video testimonial to her pictures too. Yikes she looks like a crackhead.
I have the week off so decided to give this site another whirl, my third foray into buying credits. The first was learning the site and empty messaging. I semi-soon went for round two and met two semi-pros that were cute and delivered but too much $ for too little return. This time and after a long hiatus, early but exchanged messages with "BabyTee," who's link is below. She sent her unsolicited number, then ghosted, any intel?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e6632cf2d3e630bd
The rest are works in progress, but not much traction yet.
Hey guys,
I'm new to this whole thing actually to the guide itself I've reading on and off these threads I've been considering to sign up for this SB thing but I'm a bit iffy on it, like I feel is more time and money waste can someone please advice?
Again from the fact if posting my picture there to putting my CC on their files makes me feel weird not sure if they will try to charge me a huge amount of money for random messages from members here. Could someone please advice?
Very much appreciate.Now these guidelines are for SB, NOT SA. How to get the most bang for your buck (pun intended):
- don't use credits on photos, etc. Only on emails.
- don't bother to email anyone who hasn't emailed or liked you. otherwise you are lowering your odds
- don't waste an email on a profile without the verification video, again you are lowering your odds
Finally, once you pay the credits to contact someone the first time, you can message them as often as you want without losing more credits. Newer messages appear at the top and they'll get a ton of messages. TIP: email them more than once if you have to to keep yourself near the top of their stack.
My $. 02.
Now these guidelines are for SB, NOT SA. How to get the most bang for your buck (pun intended):
- don't use credits on photos, etc. Only on emails.
- don't bother to email anyone who hasn't emailed or liked you. otherwise you are lowering your odds
- don't waste an email on a profile without the verification video, again you are lowering your odds
Finally, once you pay the credits to contact someone the first time, you can message them as often as you want without losing more credits. Newer messages appear at the top and they'll get a ton of messages. TIP: email them more than once if you have to to keep yourself near the top of their stack.
My $. 02.I generally agree, though not sure about the verification in terms of others not being legit. Also, the hottest prob get lots of messages but the design likely limits them for others since each costs. Free for them though so sometimes surprised I don't get more As noted below, this is my third go with limited results. I am getting some replies though so we'll see.
KcirtaPanner2
04-20-23, 20:01
Has anyone else noticed that they will edit your bio / looking for sections on this site without your consent? That is some shady bullshit. It's bad enough that they gouge you with the fucking tokens. Mine said something to the effect of, "Not interested in anything online, only looking to meet. If you're in like New York please don't message me. " How is that against their guidelines? I look today and it says "A connection and fun! Looking to meet. ".
Now I know why all the girls have the same phrases ("weekly dinner dates", "a mentor") in their bios. I'm so annoyed that I got banned from Seeking and have to rely on this thing.
I have the week off so decided to give this site another whirl, my third foray into buying credits. The first was learning the site and empty messaging. I semi-soon went for round two and met two semi-pros that were cute and delivered but too much $ for too little return. This time and after a long hiatus, early but exchanged messages with "BabyTee," who's link is below. She sent her unsolicited number, then ghosted, any intel?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e6632cf2d3e630bd
The rest are works in progress, but not much traction yet.I received a text response from "BabyTee," who after some back and forth informed she lived in the Fenway area (I was going to the game) but wanted a fee to meet for a beer. Later, I responded on a lark since she seems like an escort type and we again went back and forth before she asked about a threesome in Dorchester and was vague about $. Needless to inform, she is sketchy and I wouldn't waste the 10 credits.
This one "Bella" has a language barrier, but looks hot. She texted this morning and wants $600. Hard pass for me but any high rollers?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b1f4e79bee540deb
On the plus side, I have received 10 responses to 12 messages and three are active with potential. Two more than the above want fees to meet, which I think is ludicrous and I wonder where that idea comes from if not a straight up scam. Happy Hunting!
I generally agree, though not sure about the verification in terms of others not being legit. Also, the hottest prob get lots of messages but the design likely limits them for others since each costs. Free for them though so sometimes surprised I don't get more As noted below, this is my third go with limited results. I am getting some replies though so we'll see.I did not say those without verification are not legit. I just said the odds are better if you are trying to not waste credits. This is also true because the verification video gets around (usually) the well filtered and out of date Photos.
I would like to make this thread more active, like the Seeking one and therefore make the site more viable. Recently, I purchased 200 credits, allowing twenty contacts and have used 19 of them. This has yielded multiple responses, a few ongoing communications and one visit, which I will review here. The girl with the handle "HazelEyes" messaged me first and looked good enough to respond. We went back and forth a fair amount before agreeing to meet at her tiny room last Sat. The negotiated fee was 150 (she wanted 300-350) and it was understood to be at least two rounds, possibly bare, which seemed like a decent deal. I was driving the approx 35 minutes to her place for a 7 pm meeting when I got a text about twenty of confirming if I was coming. I concurred and this was a good sign that she was real and ready. I arrived to find she had given me the wrong address down the road, the first of many antics. Finally getting to the right building now a few minutes late she says she is "putting her makeup on" and needs a few minutes. I wondered what happened to the twenty before, but this isn't unusual for women so wasn't alarmed. She came down and there was a lot of activity with a young guy getting food and an old guy possibly delivering it. She is chunky, cleverly hiding it in the pics but same pretty face with big tits and attractive. We get to her upstairs unit and she seems nervous, talking about the close quarters and an alleged "old guy" next door who might be listening (I think it is the young guy and her bf). I brought beer and a Twisted Tea for her (on request) and we chatted a few minutes while sipping until she says she "needs to freshen up," before we "lay down. " This was semi-encouraging until she left and was gone approx 25 minutes, showering and likely texting friends while I sat watching TV. Good thing I brought beer. I was suspicious and popped out a few times to the shared bathroom to hear the water running and her still in there, albeit too long and what was she doing before I came? At long last she arrives in a towel and proceeds to hit a button on the TV, whacking it out and saying I "need to help fix it. " Another ploy I later realized. We fix it and the clincher is she sits down, is fumbling with her phone and says she is "setting an alarm," huh? "I only have twenty minutes until my girlfriend comes to get me. " No mention of this before and it is 7:45, yes 45 minutes after our planned date. Now I know what is going on so went into damage control to at least get something. I press the issue and she lays next to me. To her credit, she gave a brief but good BBBJ, followed by daty and allowed me to go in bare. I popped quick here and thought I could coax seconds as agreed, but she wasn't having it, made several excuses and I left unsatisfied as I always go for at least two pops. All told, she did not deliver as promised and this was essentially a money grab with no intention of an ongoing relationship. Might work for some but not what I'm looking for and hope this helps. How about some reviews from others?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/93a800ade1a29005
Seemed decent. Young thin down to get dirty. Will host but out in the boonies. North of metro west. Seemed good with bare everything. Asked for 6 I countered with 4 and she stopped responding. Oh well.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c672db4617e1caa8
So I've been chatting with a cutie. We have taken it off the boards and she seems like she checks all my boxes for an exclusive long term arrangement, which is my preference. We are in the process of setting up our first public meet and she has asked that we do a short video call just to verify we are both real. Problem is I'm using Google Voice to communicate and I would prefer not to Facetime and expose my real number. I also do not have any cameras or Zoom capabilities on my home or office computers. Any suggestions for an app that I could use that won't expose my real number? Also keep in mind I'm a freakin' dinosaur when it comes to most tech stuff LOL!!
TIA.
So I've been chatting with a cutie. We have taken it off the boards and she seems like she checks all my boxes for an exclusive long term arrangement, which is my preference. We are in the process of setting up our first public meet and she has asked that we do a short video call just to verify we are both real. Problem is I'm using Google Voice to communicate and I would prefer not to Facetime and expose my real number. I also do not have any cameras or Zoom capabilities on my home or office computers. Any suggestions for an app that I could use that won't expose my real number? Also keep in mind I'm a freakin' dinosaur when it comes to most tech stuff LOL!!.Why does she need to do a facetime to all of sudden now see if your "real" when she's been chatting with you for days or weeks. I mean what does she think you are. A robot. A woman, a scammer if that even was the case she could pick a bar to meet at and if you were being fake you wouldn't show up anyway. These woman don't need any kind of verification from us men who are paying them. If anything she should be selling herself to you not the other way around. You tell her if you don't want to meet then ill find someone else on the site to take my money and you can stay broke and watch how fast her attitude changes. Stand up for yourself. Stop letting hookers run the show. There all broke losers who need to fuck strangers for money. There not fucking brain surgeons or lawyers.
Seemed decent. Young thin down to get dirty. Will host but out in the boonies. North of metro west. Seemed good with bare everything. Asked for 6 I countered with 4 and she stopped responding. Oh well.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c672db4617e1caa8I corresponded with this one, never got to price and I see why. Site is tough unless willing to break the bank but I'm still looking for a diamond in the rough.
So I've been chatting with a cutie. We have taken it off the boards and she seems like she checks all my boxes for an exclusive long term arrangement, which is my preference. We are in the process of setting up our first public meet and she has asked that we do a short video call just to verify we are both real. Problem is I'm using Google Voice to communicate and I would prefer not to Facetime and expose my real number. I also do not have any cameras or Zoom capabilities on my home or office computers. Any suggestions for an app that I could use that won't expose my real number? Also keep in mind I'm a freakin' dinosaur when it comes to most tech stuff LOL!!
TIA.Set up a Snapchat account with a fake name and you can do it on there with your primary phone. I also believe you can download the zoom app on your phone and also just create a fake name, I don't think they will see your number but I could be mistaken. Snapchat would be best though.
So I've been chatting with a cutie. We have taken it off the boards and she seems like she checks all my boxes for an exclusive long term arrangement, which is my preference. We are in the process of setting up our first public meet and she has asked that we do a short video call just to verify we are both real. Problem is I'm using Google Voice to communicate and I would prefer not to Facetime and expose my real number. I also do not have any cameras or Zoom capabilities on my home or office computers. Any suggestions for an app that I could use that won't expose my real number? Also keep in mind I'm a freakin' dinosaur when it comes to most tech stuff LOL!!
TIA.Offer her a coffee meet and greet and if she declines than bail out before it goes downhill. I never do FaceTime and always tell them we can see if we are a good fit at the meet and greet. If she is that uptight about the situation than she will probably end up pulling a no show anyway. Like the LIST said stop being controlled by these girls and control the conversation when setting up an arrangement. Yes that means you may have to walk away.
Offer her a coffee meet and greet and if she declines than bail out before it goes downhill. I never do FaceTime and always tell them we can see if we are a good fit at the meet and greet. If she is that uptight about the situation than she will probably end up pulling a no show anyway. Like the LIST said stop being controlled by these girls and control the conversation when setting up an arrangement. Yes that means you may have to walk away.Brother, I could not but agree more with all that you have espoused. Always control the narrative. Alphas always do. Stop letting these women control the conversation. Well said, brother.
Dig the voice on this one! Yikes! Transformer? Decepticon? Gracious! Smdh.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/19750b268e1f27ba
Dig the voice on this one! Yikes! Transformer? Decepticon? Gracious! Smdh.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/19750b268e1f27baI corresponded with this one, or at least think it was here. Sketchy and claimed to live in RI but go back and forth to Boston. Eventually went dark.
Met this one last night after several false starts. Drove to her place and waited at least 30 minutes while she "got ready," this after an hour prior notice. She finally emerges, thin and haggard with a glass of wine in hand, though we did agree to a drink on the beach. She is likely older than the listed 32, a user and rough around the edges. She lives near the beach and we made the short drive. It was chilly and her eyes watered while I evaluated how / if to proceed. Eventually she informed she wants 2-300 and can't host, despite asking me to come there. Don't think I would do her for free but offered to buy her a bar drink, which she refused after surmising I wasn't a paying customer. Another wasted effort but at least I found out. Does anyone know a north shore chick on the site that is lower cost and / or more into fun? Feel like I'm spinning my wheels and not getting much help here!
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5a792aab9be02984
Seemed decent. Young thin down to get dirty. Will host but out in the boonies. North of metro west. Seemed good with bare everything. Asked for 6 I countered with 4 and she stopped responding. Oh well.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c672db4617e1caa8I would do it! She is hosting. SB seems to have a lot of talents, but are those real? I don't see her on Seeking.
KcirtaPanner2
08-08-23, 20:44
I corresponded with this one, or at least think it was here. Sketchy and claimed to live in RI but go back and forth to Boston. Eventually went dark.She's real and most certainly not trans LOL despite the deep voice (sent me pics and vids over snap) but a total flake, cancelled on me / ghosted me at the last second at least 2 or 3 times. I got the feeling it's because I wasn't offering enough, even though she agreed to my offer (told me she got 800 from guys at the country club she used to work at, which if true obviously set unrealistic expecations).
And desperate! I've been getting pinged so much I have to make decisions on who to respond to. But I have had some dead end convos. I was talking to the girl in the attached secret pics. We were close to meeting and then she pulls the "uhm you're not expecting anything sexual right? I say clearly in my profile I'm not looking for platonic and that intimacy is very important to me. Why put these pics in a profile if you're not DTF? I don't get it.
And desperate! I've been getting pinged so much I have to make decisions on who to respond to. But I have had some dead end convos. I was talking to the girl in the attached secret pics. We were close to meeting and then she pulls the "uhm you're not expecting anything sexual right? I say clearly in my profile I'm not looking for platonic and that intimacy is very important to me. Why put these pics in a profile if you're not DTF? I don't get it.That sound cool. Do you have links of it?
KcirtaPanner2
08-22-23, 12:26
Anyone know what this one's deal is? Her profile is constantly getting deleted and she keeps making new ones, I've seen her do this at least 4 or 5 times over the course of this year. I finally got in touch with her, she immediately asked for my phone number (another red flag), but she seemed to be legitimately looking to meet, asked for 7 but agreed to 5. She's in further up in NH it seems and asked if we could meet halfway, and when I said no that's when she flipped. I wasn't rude, simply asked if she could come to me. "I'm blocking you now, you're wasting my time", started calling me a creep and ugly (which is hilarious because she never even viewed my profile on the site, another red flag). I might have given it a shot because she is young and hot enough, but pretty sure I dodged a bullet if indeed she does actually meet and isn't just some bipolar case who likes to mess with guys for fun.
Anyone know what this one's deal is? Her profile is constantly getting deleted and she keeps making new ones, I've seen her do this at least 4 or 5 times over the course of this year. I finally got in touch with her, she immediately asked for my phone number (another red flag), but she seemed to be legitimately looking to meet, asked for 7 but agreed to 5. She's in further up in NH it seems and asked if we could meet halfway, and when I said no that's when she flipped. I wasn't rude, simply asked if she could come to me. "I'm blocking you now, you're wasting my time", started calling me a creep and ugly (which is hilarious because she never even viewed my profile on the site, another red flag). I might have given it a shot because she is young and hot enough, but pretty sure I dodged a bullet if indeed she does actually meet and isn't just some bipolar case who likes to mess with guys for fun.I think she had a profile name with something Russian? She was up past Plymouth or Dartmouth and had a BF. I believe I read some posts about possible ripoffs or flaking out before or during the session. It was a while ago that these reports were done so they may be on the Seeking page??
KcirtaPanner2
08-23-23, 18:11
I think she had a profile name with something Russian? She was up past Plymouth or Dartmouth and had a BF. I believe I read some posts about possible ripoffs or flaking out before or during the session. It was a while ago that these reports were done so they may be on the Seeking page??Wouldn't surprise me at all. One of the rudest people I've encountered on here or Seeking and I've talked to hundreds. If she had half a brain she'd realize that being normal and polite is a much better way to lure someone into your scam.
And desperate! I've been getting pinged so much I have to make decisions on who to respond to. But I have had some dead end convos. I was talking to the girl in the attached secret pics. We were close to meeting and then she pulls the "uhm you're not expecting anything sexual right? I say clearly in my profile I'm not looking for platonic and that intimacy is very important to me. Why put these pics in a profile if you're not DTF? I don't get it.Yes I've seen an increase in girls wanting an online or virtual sugar daddy. They will send more nude photos or sexting but unwillingness to meet up. I call it the "OF Effect".
Where digital content is the preferred medium and actually meet ups and fucking are necessarily not required anymore because they can make the same amount online.
I meet a 21 year old in my building who is an OF girl. She is a sex worker going to college and lives in a very expensive apartment building.
I invited her for drinks hoping it would lead to more. But she only offered me a free month on OF LOL. And it's all solo content very boring stuff.
I don't get why guys are paying for this crap.
DengKemboko
08-24-23, 13:19
Are y'all buying credits with Bitcoin? Or just lucky enough to still be carrying on conversations from back when the site took cards?
KcirtaPanner2
08-27-23, 20:32
Are y'all buying credits with Bitcoin? Or just lucky enough to still be carrying on conversations from back when the site took cards?I've been using my credit card on there since last year.
DengKemboko
08-28-23, 07:55
I've been using my credit card on there since last year.Weird. I was able to get my initial credits with a card, but since then I only get a pop-up saying the site only accepts Bitcoin when I try to buy more credits.
I am into Mature / older women Over 40. Haven't been having much luck. Anyone have any suggestions?
KcirtaPanner2
09-22-23, 12:49
Anyone ever been banned from SB? I'm getting an Internal Error message right now when I go there (I stay logged in), but when I visit as a guest on Incognito the site is working.
edit: nevermind, it's working now
She insists on prepayment because she doesn't feel safe but apparently cash puts her at ease. I offered a coffee meet / greet at a public spot but she declined. Obviously she is looking to take the money and run.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/08c4c95b320d6943
She insists on prepayment because she doesn't feel safe but apparently cash puts her at ease. I offered a coffee meet / greet at a public spot but she declined. Obviously she is looking to take the money and run.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/08c4c95b320d6943Thanks and too many like this. Making this thread more active will help but it is sparingly used.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/74e0fcfdc7272c11
Talking to this girl she requested 1000 ppm. Laughable didn't even counter.
I used my last ten credits from my bigger purchase and am done with the site (sans leftover contacts), at least for a while. It is partly my fault for not being a real "sugar daddy," but so many money grubbing jerks and entitled liars. I thought this thread might help find the fwb I was looking for, but posts have been scant and there are either few users, they keep info to themselves or apathy rules. Good luck to anyone having / pursuing success on SB and enjoy the season!
The thing about SB that sucks is that for whatever reason they seem to get the most traffic of all the sites but they cost the most to be on, they nickel and dime you for every thing and the absolute worst part is they will showcase people being online that haven't been online in months and the site will automatically send messages and allow for view of private photos even though the actual owner of the account hasn't been on in months and has likely completely forgotten about it. That's on top of the typical scammers and stuff that rome these sites.
SB Way too much of a cash grab for me to entertain. Which sucks because I actually know some girls that are legit there on there that won't go on to SA or WYP where I'd have a better chance of actually communicating with them.
Decided to be more flexible with $ and back on the site. A lot of the same shit so far but this one seems promising, though in Roxbury. Name is Nicole I think, any intel?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e9b5b706e14c857a
This "lady" messages me on SB, immediately starts with hostility (see thread). I'm cordial, even though she is someone that I wouldn't message first. The spelling, grammar, tone all scream Nigerian / Indian shill. Likely shill, to get you to use up your credits. After "her" last message, she immediately blocked me. BEWARE.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/20223d416f602def
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