View Full Version : Sugar Sites. Secret Benefits, WYP, Etc. Not Seeking or SA
DeezNutz33
12-22-22, 18:36
I have had some luck on WYP and Secret Benefits, I think I am forgetting one? The idea of this Thread is Intel / Encounters that are not from SA as the other Thread is Majority SA.
Currently talking to a Few from SB, WYP I had a One Year Thing but Ran out of Coin and didn't want to reinvest.
I usually only Pay for a Coffee, a Lunch, or a Drink on these. A Meet and Greet Call it. Then If they show up and I am interested I'll make a PPD Offer.
Feel Free to share Experiences and Info!
SecretMenu
12-22-22, 20:14
I have had some luck on WYP and Secret Benefits, I think I am forgetting one? The idea of this Thread is Intel / Encounters that are not from SA as the other Thread is Majority SA.
Currently talking to a Few from SB, WYP I had a One Year Thing but Ran out of Coin and didn't want to reinvest.
I usually only Pay for a Coffee, a Lunch, or a Drink on these. A Meet and Greet Call it. Then If they show up and I am interested I'll make a PPD Offer.
Feel Free to share Experiences and Info!SB gets a bad wrap but I've had no issue on there at all. It's a money dump but all the sites are.
HornySenior
12-22-22, 20:38
Hey this is great! I got kicked off SA so can't view any of the girls they talk about. I am killin' it on SB. It's cheap. 10 credits to get the convo started. Great support from the staff. Right now I have more girls than I can handle. Not sure it's appropriate to share links / pictures / info of the girls on here though. Seems like mostly UTR.
SecretMenu
12-22-22, 21:06
Hey this is great! I got kicked off SA so can't view any of the girls they talk about. I am killin' it on SB. It's cheap. 10 credits to get the convo started. Great support from the staff. Right now I have more girls than I can handle. Not sure it's appropriate to share links / pictures / info of the girls on here though. Seems like mostly UTR.I know from experience that the girls on here will ask for different amounts based on how they feel about you. I've had a couple that never asked for any money what so ever. However I do think confirming if a profile is legit or not is okay. There are a fuckload of fake accounts there.
DeezNutz33
12-23-22, 17:14
Hey this is great! I got kicked off SA so can't view any of the girls they talk about. I am killin' it on SB. It's cheap. 10 credits to get the convo started. Great support from the staff. Right now I have more girls than I can handle. Not sure it's appropriate to share links / pictures / info of the girls on here though. Seems like mostly UTR.I had the same problem, hense I looked elsewhere and started this thread!
DeezNutz33
12-23-22, 17:21
I only look at the Verified Accounts, and I see if the girl is active etc before I use the 10 to start a conversation. Once established, I then move to Snap or Text for the Dirty Details.
I don't offer a Monthly, Only PPD and its a sliding scale. I will always pay for actual dates, I bust a Nut and then the $ Starts. Met a few I bought a Coffee or Lunch and Told them I wasnt interested in making an offer. I have also had successful fun times too.
SecretMenu
12-23-22, 17:31
I only look at the Verified Accounts, and I see if the girl is active etc before I use the 10 to start a conversation. Once established, I then move to Snap or Text for the Dirty Details.
I don't offer a Monthly, Only PPD and its a sliding scale. I will always pay for actual dates, I bust a Nut and then the $ Starts. Met a few I bought a Coffee or Lunch and Told them I wasnt interested in making an offer. I have also had successful fun times too.I've had just as much fun with the non verified ladies. The trick is in the details, if they only have the minimum required info at the bottom of their profile it's not a real account. Also yes, don't ever spend credits starting a conversation with a lady who hasn't visited your profile, them simply favoriting you doesn't mean shit. No profile visit, no message. Don't open theirs either if they messaged you without having looked at your profile.
DeezNutz33
12-23-22, 17:39
I've had just as much fun with the non verified ladies. The trick is in the details, if they only have the minimum required info at the bottom of their profile it's not a real account. Also yes, don't ever spend credits starting a conversation with a lady who hasn't visited your profile, them simply favoriting you doesn't mean shit. No profile visit, no message. Don't open theirs either if they messaged you without having looked at your profile.We think alike! I do the same!!
I also ask if they are looking for Strictly Platonic, or will there be Intimacy.
SecretMenu
12-23-22, 20:27
We think alike! I do the same!!
I also ask if they are looking for Strictly Platonic, or will there be Intimacy.Same, I prefer not to waste time with meet and greets if they're strictly looking for an ATM. But for as much of a bad rep as the site has, I've had more than my fair share of fun from it. Like Horny said, I have more options at the moment than I could possibly afford.
BuckeyeGuy5
12-24-22, 11:16
There are posts in the title sub-forum for WYP, Secret Benefits, etc. So I'm not sure this new sub-forum is needed. I wonder if closing this one and renaming the other would be a better option?
SecretMenu
12-24-22, 12:28
There are posts in the title sub-forum for WYP, Secret Benefits, etc. So I'm not sure this new sub-forum is needed. I wonder if closing this one and renaming the other would be a better option?I don't think it's a bad idea to keep this one separate. The other sub forum is predominately for SA discussion.
HornySenior
12-24-22, 16:49
I don't think it's a bad idea to keep this one separate. The other sub forum is predominately for SA discussion.Keep it separate.
I've been the one bitching about all the useless and not needed forums on our page however I agree on this one. Keep the other strictly for SA and this one for all the others would be helpful.
I don't think it's a bad idea to keep this one separate. The other sub forum is predominately for SA discussion.
HornySenior
12-25-22, 09:58
Some of you may remember Cake from years ago. Saw her on SB. Also saw her in Kroger yesterday shopping with some dude.
Some of you may remember Cake from years ago. Saw her on SB. Also saw her in Kroger yesterday shopping with some dude.Saw her on tryst and SA.
SecretMenu
12-25-22, 12:52
Some of you may remember Cake from years ago. Saw her on SB. Also saw her in Kroger yesterday shopping with some dude.Yeah, talked with her on SB but I get the feeling she's looking for older men. Also noticed Hayden Salice joined as well, but not sure it's actually her. Profile is fully filled out but no indication it's real so haven't wasted time reaching out. The bigger girl who advertises as Star I believe is also on the site and can be had for cheaper than her ask on Tryst but not my type.
DeezNutz33
12-25-22, 22:15
I've been the one bitching about all the useless and not needed forums on our page however I agree on this one. Keep the other strictly for SA and this one for all the others would be helpful.Appreciate the Support. I too have Banned on SA, Hence the reason I started this one. (No Clue Why and they don't reply).
DeezNutz33
12-25-22, 22:19
Some of you may remember Cake from years ago. Saw her on SB. Also saw her in Kroger yesterday shopping with some dude.I seen her for awhile this Summer, but haven't in sometime, she has got plenty trying and I am sure willing to spend more than me, Even Cleaned my house a few times, actually a sharp girl.
Interesting Girl, but I seen a few things I prefer not to and stopped seeing her. Nothing you can catch, just some traits that aren't what I am looking for. Nice Girl, YMMV but never let me down.
Seems very busy.
Appreciate the Support. I too have Banned on SA, Hence the reason I started this one. (No Clue Why and they don't reply).I have been in trouble twice on SA they have always told me why. These girls turning guys in out of spite and the site banning it's paying members what a biz model!
RockaBillyRiot
12-26-22, 08:50
I seen her for awhile this Summer, but haven't in sometime, she has got plenty trying and I am sure willing to spend more than me, Even Cleaned my house a few times, actually a sharp girl.
Interesting Girl, but I seen a few things I prefer not to and stopped seeing her. Nothing you can catch, just some traits that aren't what I am looking for. Nice Girl, YMMV but never let me down.
Seems very busy.Can you share Cake's contact info?
SecretMenu
12-26-22, 09:18
Can you share Cake's contact info?Her number and email address are on Tryst. But she also has it clearly stated she's not taking on new clients. I've had no luck reaching out via text or email.
Decent site with plenty of options. Their messaging system kind of sucks though. SA for all it's shortcomings, had an easy messaging system where you can see if what you sent was read or not. SB nickel and dimes you every turn so you just have to be very judicious with your messaging. Other than that, we shall see if the site delivers LOL.
Decent site with plenty of options. Their messaging system kind of sucks though. SA for all it's shortcomings, had an easy messaging system where you can see if what you sent was read or not. SB nickel and dimes you every turn so you just have to be very judicious with your messaging. Other than that, we shall see if the site delivers LOL.Have yet to score here.
SecretMenu
01-01-23, 14:14
Have yet to score here.It's a bit of a time investment, but from my experience has been well worth it.
BuckeyeGuy5
01-01-23, 18:15
I posted this in the SA forum and thought I'd ask here as well. I just started trying SB and I'm more frustrated with it than SA. I've yet to really try WYP and for the record, I'm closer to the Pittsburgh area. This site isn't used much there so I thought I try Columbus since I'm in the area on occasion.
Hello All and Happy New Year!
I'm still relatively new to the SD game and wondered if there was a post somewhere with a playbook of sorts on things to say when communicating with a potential sugar baby. I've met a few and still learning how to weed out the ads that aren't worth chasing. However, when I find one that seems legit, I don't know how forward to be. Any info is much appreciated. Might get more into this for 2023! Thanks.
SecretMenu
01-01-23, 18:53
I posted this in the SA forum and thought I'd ask here as well. I just started trying SB and I'm more frustrated with it than SA. I've yet to really try WYP and for the record, I'm closer to the Pittsburgh area. This site isn't used much there so I thought I try Columbus since I'm in the area on occasion.
Hello All and Happy New Year!
I'm still relatively new to the SD game and wondered if there was a post somewhere with a playbook of sorts on things to say when communicating with a potential sugar baby. I've met a few and still learning how to weed out the ads that aren't worth chasing. However, when I find one that seems legit, I don't know how forward to be. Any info is much appreciated. Might get more into this for 2023! Thanks.SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well.
HornySenior
01-02-23, 10:30
SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well.I will ad. I start out in the search. If I see someone I click on the heart. Shows my interest. I click a lot of hearts. From there follow Secret's method. Once we are talking, I ask if there are into mutual benefits or pay to play, something along this line. A lot will ghost me at this point. If not, then get them off the site. Once off I don't beat around the Bush. Afterall dating is not what I'm after. I find out their real name and number and try to vet. Find out if they are a provider. I will never pay for a date without sex and a lot will leave because of that. I went out on a few dates without paying and about half were a waste of time and the money I spent on the food. The other half ended up back at my house. I paid 200 for a couple but now tell them my limit is 150. These girls are not providers. They have been giving out unskilled sex to guys who bust a nut in under a minute. For the most part I am done with them after a couple of visits because I become bored with them. Still looking for that diamond in the rough. I had a SB for 3 1/2 years and I'd like to have another. By the way if you follow these guidelines, it is really cheap to be on here. I think I've only spent like 250 on the credits. It may seem like a lot of work but if you want UTR 20-year old's then you may have to put in the time.
I will ad. I start out in the search. If I see someone I click on the heart. Shows my interest. I click a lot of hearts. From there follow Secret's method. Once we are talking, I ask if there are into mutual benefits or pay to play, something along this line. A lot will ghost me at this point. If not, then get them off the site. Once off I don't beat around the Bush. Afterall dating is not what I'm after. I find out their real name and number and try to vet. Find out if they are a provider. I will never pay for a date without sex and a lot will leave because of that. I went out on a few dates without paying and about half were a waste of time and the money I spent on the food. The other half ended up back at my house. I paid 200 for a couple but now tell them my limit is 150. These girls are not providers. They have been giving out unskilled sex to guys who bust a nut in under a minute. For the most part I am done with them after a couple of visits because I become bored with them. Still looking for that diamond in the rough. I had a SB for 3 1/2 years and I'd like to have another. By the way if you follow these guidelines, it is really cheap to be on here. I think I've only spent like 250 on the credits. It may seem like a lot of work but if you want UTR 20-year old's then you may have to put in the time.Good advice, seems they all want 300 for the deed even fat ones. They are not stupid they see traveling girls at 5-600. I would rather be with a non traveling college girl but these Brazilians, etc are usually hotter. Tough choice.
SecretMenu
01-02-23, 16:40
Good advice, seems they all want 300 for the deed even fat ones. They are not stupid they see traveling girls at 5-600. I would rather be with a non traveling college girl but these Brazilians, etc are usually hotter. Tough choice.There are definitely plenty of sub $300 date girls on the site. The girls on there that aren't pros or haven't been in the lifestyle awhile are generally pretty open to coming to a reasonable number.
BuckeyeGuy5
01-02-23, 17:00
There are definitely plenty of sub $300 date girls on the site. The girls on there that aren't pros or haven't been in the lifestyle awhile are generally pretty open to coming to a reasonable number.Repeating myself from the other forum, really appreciate all the feedback!
Just made an account on SB cause I didn't realize how expensive it was to upgrade on Seeking.
What did you all put on the What Do You Have To Offer? And Tagline sections?
Did you post pics of yourself in your profile?
I'm new to this, I've only been to escorts and AMPs. Little worried about getting blackmailed or scammed.
Any tips on finding girls that are pay to play or tips in general?
Thanks.
SecretMenu
01-10-23, 00:57
Just made an account on SB cause I didn't realize how expensive it was to upgrade on Seeking.
What did you all put on the What Do You Have To Offer? And Tagline sections?
Did you post pics of yourself in your profile?
I'm new to this, I've only been to escorts and AMPs. Little worried about getting blackmailed or scammed.
Any tips on finding girls that are pay to play or tips in general?
Thanks.Read down below, a lot of useful info on how to go about deciding how to spend the site currency. As for info and pics, that's up to you. I'd say keep it vague and if you're worried about being blackmailed you either need to find photos similar to your own, or don't put your face in your pictures or anything identifiable.
HornySenior
01-10-23, 09:01
Just made an account on SB cause I didn't realize how expensive it was to upgrade on Seeking.
What did you all put on the What Do You Have To Offer? And Tagline sections?
Did you post pics of yourself in your profile?
I'm new to this, I've only been to escorts and AMPs. Little worried about getting blackmailed or scammed.
Any tips on finding girls that are pay to play or tips in general?
Thanks.In addition to the tips already posted and what Secretmenu advised, once you are a subscriber you can access FAQ's for profile suggestions. Also, someone, who calls themselves Herb Rose sends emails with suggestions and encouragement. I find it helpful. I was considering taking a break and wrote to him expressing my frustrations. He gave me some profile tips and gave me 100 free credits. Turned things around. Glad I stayed. I still get frustrated but it's just a numbers game. I just keep plugging away and the couple I get are more than worthwhile.
BuckeyeGuy5
01-18-23, 11:25
I had created an SB account recently and purchased the starter package of credits. I noticed some women I know on the site and they had messaged me there. I reached out to them outside the site and told them my username on SB and they could just reach me directly and not through the site. One of them indicated that they never sent me a message and believe that the site does that to get people to spend credits on the site to read the message. I received a message from the site asking about my experience and if there was anything they could do. I shared this information with them and they refunded my money and deleted my account. I followed up with them as I didn't ask for that and haven't heard back.
Midwest Dude
01-18-23, 11:33
I had created an SB account recently and purchased the starter package of credits. I noticed some women I know on the site and they had messaged me there. I reached out to them outside the site and told them my username on SB and they could just reach me directly and not through the site. One of them indicated that they never sent me a message and believe that the site does that to get people to spend credits on the site to read the message. I received a message from the site asking about my experience and if there was anything they could do. I shared this information with them and they refunded my money and deleted my account. I followed up with them as I didn't ask for that and haven't heard back.I know that a lot of people have had luck on these sites, but honestly most of them are trash and have taken advantage to the void left by BP and CL.
I had created an SB account recently and purchased the starter package of credits. I noticed some women I know on the site and they had messaged me there. I reached out to them outside the site and told them my username on SB and they could just reach me directly and not through the site. One of them indicated that they never sent me a message and believe that the site does that to get people to spend credits on the site to read the message. I received a message from the site asking about my experience and if there was anything they could do. I shared this information with them and they refunded my money and deleted my account. I followed up with them as I didn't ask for that and haven't heard back.I burned up credits on that site by responding to messages that got nowhere. Would love to cut the scammers balls off LOL.
I had created an SB account recently and purchased the starter package of credits. I noticed some women I know on the site and they had messaged me there. I reached out to them outside the site and told them my username on SB and they could just reach me directly and not through the site. One of them indicated that they never sent me a message and believe that the site does that to get people to spend credits on the site to read the message. I received a message from the site asking about my experience and if there was anything they could do. I shared this information with them and they refunded my money and deleted my account. I followed up with them as I didn't ask for that and haven't heard back.Same thing happened to me. I have a partially set up account on SB. No pics or anything. I received a message on there from a girl I was talking to on SA. She said she never sent it.
Same thing happened to me. I have a partially set up account on SB. No pics or anything. I received a message on there from a girl I was talking to on SA. She said she never sent it.I only had 1 or 2 legit contacts and one is on both sites.
HornySenior
01-19-23, 08:51
I only had 1 or 2 legit contacts and one is on both sites.Not sure what you guys are doing but I have had 6 girls that I have fucked for less than 200. I have been at this a while and seem to be utr. Even if they are not they are unlike most of the escorts I have encountered. Two of them are only 22. I have a few that, after following my routine, asked for advanced payment or wanted 3- 400. It only cost 10 credits to weed them out. 10 credits cost me $3. 40. I have spent about 300 for credits. Currently working 3 potentials. Secret Menu and I have both posted details of what works for us. This will be my last post on this subject.
Not sure what you guys are doing but I have had 6 girls that I have fucked for less than 200. I have been at this a while and seem to be utr. Even if they are not they are unlike most of the escorts I have encountered. Two of them are only 22. I have a few that, after following my routine, asked for advanced payment or wanted 3- 400. It only cost 10 credits to weed them out. 10 credits cost me $3. 40. I have spent about 300 for credits. Currently working 3 potentials. Secret Menu and I have both posted details of what works for us. This will be my last post on this subject.I'm wasn't saying you can't meet people on that site. There are just a lot of bots.
SecretMenu
01-19-23, 17:26
I'm wasn't saying you can't meet people on that site. There are just a lot of bots.Just requires more attention to detail as the site is setup to extract those coins from you. Have to know the patterns to weed out the fake accounts from the real ones. I have shared my method here, in the other Sugar thread and elsewhere on the boards. If you're gung ho to message everyone you see on there or open every message you get you won't have credits after a couple of minutes. Patience is a virtue on this site but it's more than been worth the money.
Do you guys ever wonder when talking ppm with these SB's and then meeting up especially for a drink that it could be an LE setup? Just wondering what guys think.
HornySenior
01-20-23, 08:04
I'm wasn't saying you can't meet people on that site. There are just a lot of bots.22. Not a bot.
Midwest Dude
01-20-23, 10:57
Do you guys ever wonder when talking ppm with these SB's and then meeting up especially for a drink that it could be an LE setup? Just wondering what guys think.Honestly, it could be a possible setup but I don't think that LE is going to go through all that trouble to get one person. They like the big scores (bonus if it's a shitty motel where the possibility is high that drugs are present).
BuckeyeGuy5
01-20-23, 11:00
Just requires more attention to detail as the site is setup to extract those coins from you. Have to know the patterns to weed out the fake accounts from the real ones. I have shared my method here, in the other Sugar thread and elsewhere on the boards. If you're gung ho to message everyone you see on there or open every message you get you won't have credits after a couple of minutes. Patience is a virtue on this site but it's more than been worth the money.I was kind of surprised that I was receiving messages from non-bots that weren't sent by the actual person. It was their account and not some catfish account. I think those are tougher to identify when using the site. SB has still not responded to my inquiry as to why they deleted my account.
22. Not a bot.Nice! I like that body type.
HornySenior
01-23-23, 08:59
If you are willing to pay 300 you can double your prospects. My limit is 150. As always, never send anything in advance. They are on here too. Dilemma: I have 3 girls I have been seeing and all want to hookup today. What to do what to do? I want to go see the 4th one though. Only been there once. She has incall.
SecretMenu
01-23-23, 10:05
Do you guys ever wonder when talking ppm with these SB's and then meeting up especially for a drink that it could be an LE setup? Just wondering what guys think.I try to get a sense of if the girl wants to dona meet and greet before getting into any specifics. I am not a lawyer, but I would think that solely discussing a ppm situation isn't enough to bust you. I believe (emphasis there) that there needs to be a financial transaction for physical activity for it to cross into those waters. But as was stated, I don't think LE is expending that much energy in the space. I'd be far more wary if a smoking hot 20 year old invited me over off rip for an absurdly low amount of money and was explicit when messaging.
SecretMenu
01-23-23, 10:08
If you are willing to pay 300 you can double your prospects. My limit is 150. As always, never send anything in advance. They are on here too. Dilemma: I have 3 girls I have been seeing and all want to hookup today. What to do what to do? I want to go see the 4th one though. Only been there once. She has incall.There have been periods of time where I couldn't find anyone willing to take less than $450-500 and that's high end pro rates. Thankful playing the long game has really benefitted me. Eventually you find the ones who aren't jaded to the scene and don't have massive GPS.
BuckeyeGuy5
01-23-23, 12:08
If you are willing to pay 300 you can double your prospects. My limit is 150. As always, never send anything in advance. They are on here too. Dilemma: I have 3 girls I have been seeing and all want to hookup today. What to do what to do? I want to go see the 4th one though. Only been there once. She has incall.Can I just be your wingman and get to meet with one of the ones you don't choose? LOL I live in a rural area so pickings are slim. I follow the Columbus forum since I visit the area. I'm closer to Pittsburgh, but not much activity here on their forum.
SecretMenu
01-23-23, 13:23
Can I just be your wingman and get to meet with one of the ones you don't choose? LOL I live in a rural area so pickings are slim. I follow the Columbus forum since I visit the area. I'm closer to Pittsburgh, but not much activity here on their forum.You'd be surprised, a lot of the girls who list themselves as in Columbus are in other cities. They list in Columbus because the smaller cities don't get much traffic on SB.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5335bf78633e03ce
We've been talking and she's down for p2 p.
Is she legit?
If there are any other girls with big tits who p2 p please let me know.
SecretMenu
01-30-23, 23:35
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5335bf78633e03ce
We've been talking and she's down for p2 p.
Is she legit?
If there are any other girls with big tits who p2 p please let me know.She sent me a message but I ran out of credits and haven't reupped so I can't read it. Profile looks legit from a quick eye test.
JonHangcok
01-31-23, 08:28
This is probably a dumb question, but has anyone ever replied to a verified account and it turned out to be a bot? I'm asking because I was looking at women who viewed my profile, and one was a verified account, she has a verification vid, but had barely wrote the first part of the the profile info filled out, and only a little bit of the Attributes details done.
This is probably a dumb question, but has anyone ever replied to a verified account and it turned out to be a bot? I'm asking because I was looking at women who viewed my profile, and one was a verified account, she has a verification vid, but had barely wrote the first part of the the profile info filled out, and only a little bit of the Attributes details done.I am willing to bet the verified bullshit is part of their scam.
HornySenior
02-01-23, 08:47
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5335bf78633e03ce
We've been talking and she's down for p2 p.
Is she legit?
If there are any other girls with big tits who p2 p please let me know.I've seen her ad on STG.
HornySenior
02-01-23, 09:08
I am willing to bet the verified bullshit is part of their scam.Only $3. 40 to contact. What's the harm?
I've had a love / hate relationship with this site over the years. Plenty of messages to fake profiles, paying to open messages and secret albums, and its become fairly apparent that many of these "girls" are website-mediated fakes. Start a conversation, then it tails off after I've spent 8-10 bucks to initiate contact (the multiply that times dozens of experiences.) On the plus side, once you establish a legit contact, and it seems you're on the same page, I've had a dozen meetups (and a few regular sugar relationships.) So, if you learn to navigate the fake stuff, there's definitely some talent there to be mined out.
For the past 3-4 months, something's changed. Profiles on the site look more like typical vanilla dating site profiles: pics are regular day-to-day (non sexual) head shots, profiles speak of love and companionship, dinner dates, etc. Well, it seems this has turned out o make sense. I've had a half dozen conversations that took an odd turn from the start: I'm asking about meeting, ppm, even some mild questions about date specifics. I've had a few responses of shock and disgust. Really, I'm thinking, then WHY are you on SecretBenefits? Are you not looking for a sugar relationship? In further discussions with a few (who I didn't turn off with my direct questions,) it turns out that the website has combined a few other platforms into SB.com. One girl said the website she's on is sugarbaby.com (which at least, still speaks of the central theme.). Another said she entered the site (from her side, again) via LuxuryDating.com. WTF? A dozen odd responses to my line of questioning, to be sure. Made me feel like a perv. Although she and I are working on meeting for a regular date. LOL. Regardless, I think the administrators have heard enough about fake female profiles that they're drumming up more profiles via other made-up or contrived websites. Idk. Tread lightly, gents. I think its safe to say that, when you respond to a message or two, you might get some very odd (or perturbed) responses. I judge from the secret album pics. But then again, its 3-5 buck to open them.
If you are willing to pay 300 you can double your prospects. My limit is 150. As always, never send anything in advance. They are on here too. Dilemma: I have 3 girls I have been seeing and all want to hookup today. What to do what to do? I want to go see the 4th one though. Only been there once. She has incall.I've found a sweet spot at 150 per meeting too. I explain that any more would really approach "escort" prices, and that "I won't see an escort. " LOL.
SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well.I'm trying out the playbook and just wanted to highlight the "don't waste money on private photos" advice. My reading comprehension isn't what it should be so I wasn't following that advice at first!
I've had a love / hate relationship with this site over the years. Plenty of messages to fake profiles, paying to open messages and secret albums, and its become fairly apparent that many of these "girls" are website-mediated fakes. Start a conversation, then it tails off after I've spent 8-10 bucks to initiate contact (the multiply that times dozens of experiences.) On the plus side, once you establish a legit contact, and it seems you're on the same page, I've had a dozen meetups (and a few regular sugar relationships.) So, if you learn to navigate the fake stuff, there's definitely some talent there to be mined out.
For the past 3-4 months, something's changed. Profiles on the site look more like typical vanilla dating site profiles: pics are regular day-to-day (non sexual) head shots, profiles speak of love and companionship, dinner dates, etc. Well, it seems this has turned out o make sense. I've had a half dozen conversations that took an odd turn from the start: I'm asking about meeting, ppm, even some mild questions about date specifics. I've had a few responses of shock and disgust. Really, I'm thinking, then WHY are you on SecretBenefits? Are you not looking for a sugar relationship? In further discussions with a few (who I didn't turn off with my direct questions,) it turns out that the website has combined a few other platforms into SB.com. One girl said the website she's on is sugarbaby.com (which at least, still speaks of the central theme.). Another said she entered the site (from her side, again) via LuxuryDating.com. WTF? A dozen odd responses to my line of questioning, to be sure. Made me feel like a perv. Although she and I are working on meeting for a regular date. LOL. Regardless, I think the administrators have heard enough about fake female profiles that they're drumming up more profiles via other made-up or contrived websites. Idk. Tread lightly, gents. I think its safe to say that, when you respond to a message or two, you might get some very odd (or perturbed) responses. I judge from the secret album pics. But then again, its 3-5 buck to open them.WWW.sugardaddy.com is another one that has the same girls.
SecretMenu
02-01-23, 23:58
I'm trying out the playbook and just wanted to highlight the "don't waste money on private photos" advice. My reading comprehension isn't what it should be so I wasn't following that advice at first!The private photos are never worth it to be honest. Besides if you can confirm they're real, they'll likely end up sending you the same photos anyways.
SuedeSuits
02-02-23, 17:58
22. Not a bot.One of the tightest pussies I've been in too. Def not a bot.
22. Not a bot.Whats her name? Looks like a SB I used to see.
Just curious if anyone has met up with this person. Trying to set up for Friday or Saturday, it would appreciate any info that might be out there.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/038202bd053406a2
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5335bf78633e03ce
We've been talking and she's down for p2 p.
Is she legit?
If there are any other girls with big tits who p2 p please let me know.She's Legit. Seen her a few times. BBBJ, FS (Covered or Bared), Back door is open. Price has dropped for me.
Initial was 200 $, took it to 150 $.
Did a 3 way with her friend. Initial wanted 400 $ talked down to 250 $.
Now I just see her for BBBJ's.
If you smash it and she likes it, she actually will hit you up with discounted rates (assuming) when she needs cash.
She's Legit. Seen her a few times. BBBJ, FS (Covered or Bared), Back door is open. Price has dropped for me.
Initial was 200 $, took it to 150 $.
Did a 3 way with her friend. Initial wanted 400 $ talked down to 250 $.
Now I just see her for BBBJ's.
If you smash it and she likes it, she actually will hit you up with discounted rates (assuming) when she needs cash.Damn the lisiting is gone.
Damn the lisiting is gone.She should be on SA.
Damn the lisiting is gone.Maybe try again? It is still there for me:
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5335bf78633e03ce
BAM.
Maybe try again? It is still there for me:
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5335bf78633e03ce
BAM.Weird it still shows up not active for me. Is she on sa? I searched there too and nothing.
Weird it still shows up not active for me. Is she on sa? I searched there too and nothing.She was about a week ago. I know she had to move hotels once and went radio silent for about a week after that. Maybe she has to move again. All speculation of course.
Weird it still shows up not active for me. Is she on sa? I searched there too and nothing.Make sure you are logged in before you click on the link.
HornySenior
02-22-23, 10:10
Maybe try again? It is still there for me:
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5335bf78633e03ce
BAM.Is this her? https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/ohio/columbus/114394308.
Is this her? https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/ohio/columbus/114394308.This is Kandy.
HornySenior
02-22-23, 13:51
This is Kandy.Just wondering. Could be the same girl.
This is Kandy.Ok thanks I know who she is! Have not seen.
HornySenior
04-10-23, 06:41
I'm still working this site however haven't been able to hook up with any new ones. I have let the ones I was seeing go. Several different reasons. I have been asked to provide contact info a couple of times. I don't feel comfortable doing this as I don't think most girls on here are escorts or otherwise and do not solicit on other sites. Maybe I'm just kidding myself. I have seen a couple of girls I recognize, I'm more interested in the utr value this site provides. If you are having success here let me know how you feel about it.
SecretMenu
04-11-23, 10:41
I'm still working this site however haven't been able to hook up with any new ones. I have let the ones I was seeing go. Several different reasons. I have been asked to provide contact info a couple of times. I don't feel comfortable doing this as I don't think most girls on here are escorts or otherwise and do not solicit on other sites. Maybe I'm just kidding myself. I have seen a couple of girls I recognize, I'm more interested in the utr value this site provides. If you are having success here let me know how you feel about it.Just got back on the site myself after an extended hiatus. I've had a few promising exchanges but haven't followed through with any yet. Happy hunting, stay safe!
HornySenior
04-11-23, 20:56
I'm still working this site however haven't been able to hook up with any new ones. I have let the ones I was seeing go. Several different reasons. I have been asked to provide contact info a couple of times. I don't feel comfortable doing this as I don't think most girls on here are escorts or otherwise and do not solicit on other sites. Maybe I'm just kidding myself. I have seen a couple of girls I recognize, I'm more interested in the utr value this site provides. If you are having success here let me know how you feel about it.As luck would have it, after making this post a girl from SB just left my house. 27,5' ! 120 AA with natural C cups and a cute little ass. Down for the gamut. She's a keeper. Worth the work.
Have not been able to find any success on seceret benefits. I get alot of interest and messages but once I reply, there is no response. I'm guessing just alot of bots? I've replied to a range of girls too. Not just the hotties.
HotRod4305
04-16-23, 15:10
Have not been able to find any success on seceret benefits. I get alot of interest and messages but once I reply, there is no response. I'm guessing just alot of bots? I've replied to a range of girls too. Not just the hotties.Yea same for me only thing I got was a couple photos and that was from a girl I actually knew lmao but can't get her to do anything even though her add says she needs a sugar daddy.
Yea same for me only thing I got was a couple photos and that was from a girl I actually knew lmao but can't get her to do anything even though her add says she needs a sugar daddy.The sugar daddy term has changed for some of these girls, they expect spoiled for just being them.
HornySenior
04-17-23, 07:47
Have not been able to find any success on seceret benefits. I get alot of interest and messages but once I reply, there is no response. I'm guessing just alot of bots? I've replied to a range of girls too. Not just the hotties.Go back to the beginning of this thread and read some of the posts from me and Secretmenu. If you follow what we are doing you should have some success. Takes a little work.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d952762541577d7e
Trying to get clients for nuru massage. "Minimum donation of $300 but leaves it open if you want to increase it. " No specific mention of extras.
Just curious if anyone has met this one in person or not. I, texting with her and working out a meet. Just looking for any addtl info others might have.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/MrmO7PXVJeGexj80z6gWB8K1
Thanks, Pork.
Just curious if anyone has met this one in person or not. I, texting with her and working out a meet. Just looking for any addtl info others might have.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/MrmO7PXVJeGexj80z6gWB8K1
Thanks, Pork.Her profile says she is a dancer at the Dollhouse. Strippers are almost always rinsers and her profile makes it sound like all you are going to get is conversation. Good luck!
BAM.
Just curious if anyone has met this one in person or not. I, texting with her and working out a meet. Just looking for any addtl info others might have.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/MrmO7PXVJeGexj80z6gWB8K1
Thanks, Pork.She's legit.
HornySenior
05-20-23, 07:58
I have so many utr's from SB I can't handle them all. You are crazy if you're not working this site. BTW, don't ask for numbers. No providers in my stable although there are some on here.
BaddenBoy2020
06-06-23, 14:08
Chatting for a couple days and come to find out she’s not even in Ohio. Sounds like someone told her to join to try and get some free gifts from guys.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/mail/
ColoHobbyist
06-06-23, 14:57
Have not been able to find any success on seceret benefits. I get alot of interest and messages but once I reply, there is no response. I'm guessing just alot of bots? I've replied to a range of girls too. Not just the hotties.One of the things about SB that gets people thinking it's all bots is that, unlike SA, there's no active dates on profiles. So here you are, searching by recently active, targeting a specific kind of girl in a specific geographic area. You smash that search button, get dozens of hits, and start sending out messages at 10 points per. Nobody responds and you say "F* this site and the fake profiles. " Except they're not fake. They're just old and your message went off to a girl who hasn't logged in for weeks or months.
I figure that if a girl isn't in the top half of the first page of results and / or appears in various rankings day to day, they aren't on the site and not worth my effort.
That's one thing about SA I prefer. You know when they were last active.
Chatting for a couple days and come to find out shes not even in Ohio. Sounds like someone told her to join to try and get some free gifts from guys.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/mail/The link is to your mailbox.
BAM.
BaddenBoy2020
06-06-23, 22:07
The link is to your mailbox.
BAM.[URL]
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/myW2ordn5jjKERk56wY9ZQlM
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4533be5f275734f8
I swear I have seen this person before, but I can't remember where. The second and third pics are the ones that look most familiar.
HotRod4305
06-17-23, 07:37
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4533be5f275734f8
I swear I have seen this person before, but I can't remember where. The second and third pics are the ones that look most familiar.Yea she's posted on list crawler for a long time must be trying to get more for it now LOL.
Yea same for me only thing I got was a couple photos and that was from a girl I actually knew lmao but can't get her to do anything even though her add says she needs a sugar daddy.Same here, got one response in about 2 years of trying, and the response disappeared shortly after a few back and forth.
CharlieDee
06-18-23, 05:49
How are people's experiences with WYP? I've used SA successfully but it's getting harder and harder to find the real sugar babies who are college students, dependable and nymphos. I'm thinking since I'm not really going to use SA over summer, I should try WYP. What are some suggestions on how it works?
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=70521457
I know she has been discussed here and has a bad past, has anyone seen her lately? Some pics show D cups others are A cups LOL.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=70521457
I know she has been discussed here and has a bad past, has anyone seen her lately? Some pics show D cups others are A cups LOL.She is around. I have talked to her a lot. Haven't seen her in two months but hits me up weekly. She is fine. I just had another lately. I will go back. They are Cs. Definitely not A or D. Covered FS. BBBJ. NO CIM. Clean freak. No clock. Don't do duos with her picking unless you see pics first.
She is around. I have talked to her a lot. Haven't seen her in two months but hits me up weekly. She is fine. I just had another lately. I will go back. They are Cs. Definitely not A or D. Covered FS. BBBJ. NO CIM. Clean freak. No clock. Don't do duos with her picking unless you see pics first.What's the damage?
How are people's experiences with WYP? I've used SA successfully but it's getting harder and harder to find the real sugar babies who are college students, dependable and nymphos. I'm thinking since I'm not really going to use SA over summer, I should try WYP. What are some suggestions on how it works?I feel like WYP and SB are a crap shoot, but one where you can mitigate your risk / cost if you pay attention to the little things. I'm not sure if there is a FAQ on here for WYP, but the cost to message someone is directly related to the offer sent. I didn't take the time to work out whether the math is consistent or not. Pay attention to the amount of detail provided in the profile. And search by most recently active, or whatever they call it. I've had some profiles com up and then when searching by recent activity, they're 40 people down the list.
Like a lot of these sites, plan to spend some $$ just learning as you go along. It takes some time to figure out how to filter out the real profiles. But I feel better about controlling who I spend $$ on rather than having to give SA a flat $90 a month or whatever they're up to now.
Anyone have luck with Ashley Madison? I didn't realize you can send both standard and priority messages. The default is priority and uses more credits. The first few messages I sent were priority and I got a couple responses. I started sending standard messages and have received zero responses.
Anyone have luck with Ashley Madison? I didn't realize you can send both standard and priority messages. The default is priority and uses more credits. The first few messages I sent were priority and I got a couple responses. I started sending standard messages and have received zero responses.
Most people regard AM as a ripoff site. They were hacked several years ago (+10 years?) It exposed a lot of real names and numbers of men at the time. Very embarrassing for lots of people. However, since their data base was exposed, it allowed some enterprising people to analyze the profiles there. It was found that something like 98% of the female profiles were fake. Or, as the site explained, were "for entertainment purposes only!"
Several years ago, I recall someone saying they were getting action from the site but I do not recall seeing anything recently. Since you already have credits, please let us know how your experience progresses.
BAM
Mister Rogers
10-08-23, 23:10
Anyone have luck with Ashley Madison? I didn't realize you can send both standard and priority messages. The default is priority and uses more credits. The first few messages I sent were priority and I got a couple responses. I started sending standard messages and have received zero responses.I recently had luck with AM. Used $100 work of credits before I got a response from a real woman. She was pretty much straight to the point. Recently lost a ton of weight and had body image issues. We agreed to meet early in the AM at her house. BBBJ and CFS. Message me if you want her username. She's pretty accommodating. Not the best looking, but had the tightest box I've ever had.
BrutusBuck Oh3
11-05-23, 07:51
Her profile says she is a dancer at the Dollhouse. Strippers are almost always rinsers and her profile makes it sound like all you are going to get is conversation. Good luck!
BAM.Saw her many times. She worked as a bartender there not dancer. Def not a rinser. Only wants to see one guy at a time. Super sweet girl, wants to please.
Does anyone have any info.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f21f1295fd11052e
Does anyone have any info.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f21f1295fd11052eIs that AlanaSP from seeking? If so, she has been reviewed. Not great experience.
https://members.seeking.com/member/22b8c9c4-0f32-4fb3-aa37-1987314e1f55
BearsBuddy
11-06-23, 14:35
Is that AlanaSP from seeking? If so, she has been reviewed. Not great experience.
https://members.seeking.com/member/22b8c9c4-0f32-4fb3-aa37-1987314e1f55Yea, that's her. Wasn't my best experience.
BushMaster112
11-06-23, 15:45
Most people regard AM as a ripoff site. They were hacked several years ago (+10 years?) It exposed a lot of real names and numbers of men at the time. Very embarrassing for lots of people. However, since their data base was exposed, it allowed some enterprising people to analyze the profiles there. It was found that something like 98% of the female profiles were fake. Or, as the site explained, were "for entertainment purposes only!"
Several years ago, I recall someone saying they were getting action from the site but I do not recall seeing anything recently. Since you already have credits, please let us know how your experience progresses.
BAMI had absolute no luck at all on AM. Mostly a way to fleece money from men. Or so it seemed to me: fake profiles, bots.
I had absolute no luck at all on AM. Mostly a way to fleece money from men. Or so it seemed to me: fake profiles, bots.I had zero luck as well. However, I now get spam emails addressed to my username on there on a daily basis.
MrBigMover2
11-12-23, 02:28
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/zblQBO8R0QgEBLYJVowp6mEX
She makes up sob stories to try and get money from you. Even if you say you're close to where she said she's going she makes excuses not to meet, but keeps asking for money. Definitely notbtrying to meet anyone. And has a nice criminal record.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/zblQBO8R0QgEBLYJVowp6mEX
She makes up sob stories to try and get money from you. Even if you say you're close to where she said she's going she makes excuses not to meet, but keeps asking for money. Definitely notbtrying to meet anyone. And has a nice criminal record.She's on SA as well thanks.
She's on SA as well thanks.What is her seeking link?
What is her seeking link?If I bump into it I will post.
What is her seeking link?https://members.seeking.com/member/754ae1df-c132-4135-ae31-9771daec3987
Here you go.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bf93ac41cf26828a
Kyra B is here, SB turned escort don't overpay.
https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/brittany-escort-columbus-910030
https://members.seeking.com/member/43a34992-a27d-4d78-9a3a-b58a8efb2841
What is her seeking link?Oh I've communicated with her, she is just trying to scam money out of you with sad stories. She got 25 out of me one time, then she went silent. A month or so later she reached out again to set something up, I guess she forgot she scammed me once already. I played her game and set something up, then 30 min before she came up with an excuse and tried to scam me out of 25 more. I would avoid her if I was you.
Midwest Dude
11-14-23, 11:28
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bf93ac41cf26828a
Kyra B is here, SB turned escort don't overpay.
https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/brittany-escort-columbus-910030
https://members.seeking.com/member/43a34992-a27d-4d78-9a3a-b58a8efb2841Bbbbbut she said your reviews were false! Lololol.
Bbbbbut she said your reviews were false! Lololol.LOLOL don't overpay. At 300 I am seeing a traveling Brazilian for a hhr!!
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bf93ac41cf26828a
Kyra B is here, SB turned escort don't overpay.
https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/brittany-escort-columbus-910030
https://members.seeking.com/member/43a34992-a27d-4d78-9a3a-b58a8efb2841Became unreliable. Asked for help. Doesn't hold up her end. Stay away. Had great potential.
Became unreliable. Asked for help. Doesn't hold up her end. Stay away. Had great potential.Yes great report what a shame.
MrBigMover2
11-16-23, 00:42
Oh I've communicated with her, she is just trying to scam money out of you with sad stories. She got 25 out of me one time, then she went silent. A month or so later she reached out again to set something up, I guess she forgot she scammed me once already. I played her game and set something up, then 30 min before she came up with an excuse and tried to scam me out of 25 more. I would avoid her if I was you.Well I clicked on my link for her and the seeking link and both links are gone. Or I got blocked. But hopefully she got kicked off because she was seriously bothering me all the time.
Any help will be appreciated:
I was on both Seeking and Secret Benefits at one point. Kicked off Seeking after I reported a profile I thought was crazy fake. This person then turned around and reported me I'm guessing, and I was out. Laterally, because I thin theyre run by the same folks, I was also pushed off WYP. Got bumped off of Secret Benefits after I complained that there were fake profiles and responses that sounded like robo-calls.
I've attempted to get back on one or both, but when I put up the CC information, I'm blocked. Even tried to use a store bought Visa, and it was a no-go.
The next website I've found was OurSecret.com. Once I got a profile set up, it looked remarkably like Secret Benefits, so I'm thinking the Our Secret moniker may just be window dressing. But I was willing to persevere. I went to buy credits on this site, and it said that they only allowed payment with Bitcoin. WTF? Any one heard of this, or have a suggestion where I can go to shop for a sugar baby again.
Any help will be appreciated:
I was on both Seeking and Secret Benefits at one point. Kicked off Seeking after I reported a profile I thought was crazy fake. This person then turned around and reported me I'm guessing, and I was out. Laterally, because I thin theyre run by the same folks, I was also pushed off WYP. Got bumped off of Secret Benefits after I complained that there were fake profiles and responses that sounded like robo-calls.
I've attempted to get back on one or both, but when I put up the CC information, I'm blocked. Even tried to use a store bought Visa, and it was a no-go.
The next website I've found was OurSecret.com. Once I got a profile set up, it looked remarkably like Secret Benefits, so I'm thinking the Our Secret moniker may just be window dressing. But I was willing to persevere. I went to buy credits on this site, and it said that they only allowed payment with Bitcoin. WTF? Any one heard of this, or have a suggestion where I can go to shop for a sugar baby again.You need a new email and cc to get back on SA happened to me don't report anyone and be careful what you say onsite. Get them to the phone asap and text the details. Ask for a nude and if they want money move on!
You need a new email and cc to get back on SA happened to me don't report anyone and be careful what you say onsite. Get them to the phone asap and text the details. Ask for a nude and if they want money move on!You might need a new device too. I contacted SA after being kicked off and they told me they knew I had multiple accounts and that goes against their terms of use.
CBusAdventure
11-24-23, 14:45
So I've had zero luck in SB or any of the sites connected with it. But I've seen a lot of girls on seeking. Feel like I waisted money on SB and wondering if this is the same for others. Lmk if there is a trick to SB or if its just a scam or of there is something else out there with a higher success rate. Thanks.
So I've had zero luck in SB or any of the sites connected with it. But I've seen a lot of girls on seeking. Feel like I waisted money on SB and wondering if this is the same for others. Lmk if there is a trick to SB or if its just a scam or of there is something else out there with a higher success rate. Thanks.I worked SB hard and spent some coin and got nowhere.
HornySenior
11-24-23, 20:58
So I've had zero luck in SB or any of the sites connected with it. But I've seen a lot of girls on seeking. Feel like I waisted money on SB and wondering if this is the same for others. Lmk if there is a trick to SB or if its just a scam or of there is something else out there with a higher success rate. Thanks.Go to #27 on this thread. Read my playbook and the one from secretmenu.
BearDaddy50
11-25-23, 11:01
Any help will be appreciated:
I was on both Seeking and Secret Benefits at one point. Kicked off Seeking after I reported a profile I thought was crazy fake. This person then turned around and reported me I'm guessing, and I was out. Laterally, because I thin theyre run by the same folks, I was also pushed off WYP. Got bumped off of Secret Benefits after I complained that there were fake profiles and responses that sounded like robo-calls.
I've attempted to get back on one or both, but when I put up the CC information, I'm blocked. Even tried to use a store bought Visa, and it was a no-go.
The next website I've found was OurSecret.com. Once I got a profile set up, it looked remarkably like Secret Benefits, so I'm thinking the Our Secret moniker may just be window dressing. But I was willing to persevere. I went to buy credits on this site, and it said that they only allowed payment with Bitcoin. WTF? Any one heard of this, or have a suggestion where I can go to shop for a sugar baby again.Go to vanillagiftcards.com or giftcards.com and buy a virtual visa or master card that covers the price of the membership. Enter a bogus name and address. Use the same name and address to sign up on the site with and a new email. Works like a charm.
So I've had zero luck in SB or any of the sites connected with it. But I've seen a lot of girls on seeking. Feel like I waisted money on SB and wondering if this is the same for others. Lmk if there is a trick to SB or if its just a scam or of there is something else out there with a higher success rate. Thanks.Same here. Spent 1000 credits on SB, messaged 60-70 girls in 3 different cities (I travel for work). Got a couple one word replies and that's it. I even changed my game up a bit, used humor and typical online dating pickup lines. No luck. No phone numbers, Nothing more than a few "Heys".
SA on the other hand has been a much better experience. The response rate is 100 x higher and I'm usually able to get ones that respond to start texting. I have met numerous women on SA who are down for fun. Overall, worth the subscription, WYP, SDM, and SB have been a total fail for me.
Any help will be appreciated:
I was on both Seeking and Secret Benefits at one point. Kicked off Seeking after I reported a profile I thought was crazy fake. This person then turned around and reported me I'm guessing, and I was out. Laterally, because I thin theyre run by the same folks, I was also pushed off WYP. Got bumped off of Secret Benefits after I complained that there were fake profiles and responses that sounded like robo-calls.
I've attempted to get back on one or both, but when I put up the CC information, I'm blocked. Even tried to use a store bought Visa, and it was a no-go.
The next website I've found was OurSecret.com. Once I got a profile set up, it looked remarkably like Secret Benefits, so I'm thinking the Our Secret moniker may just be window dressing. But I was willing to persevere. I went to buy credits on this site, and it said that they only allowed payment with Bitcoin. WTF? Any one heard of this, or have a suggestion where I can go to shop for a sugar baby again.Just email SA asking why you were canceled, they will explain why and all you have to to is make written apology explaining you won't do it again. Its a pretty simple fix.
Norgan8989
12-07-23, 08:07
Any help will be appreciated:
I was on both Seeking and Secret Benefits at one point. Kicked off Seeking after I reported a profile I thought was crazy fake. This person then turned around and reported me I'm guessing, and I was out. Laterally, because I thin theyre run by the same folks, I was also pushed off WYP. Got bumped off of Secret Benefits after I complained that there were fake profiles and responses that sounded like robo-calls.
I've attempted to get back on one or both, but when I put up the CC information, I'm blocked. Even tried to use a store bought Visa, and it was a no-go.
The next website I've found was OurSecret.com. Once I got a profile set up, it looked remarkably like Secret Benefits, so I'm thinking the Our Secret moniker may just be window dressing. But I was willing to persevere. I went to buy credits on this site, and it said that they only allowed payment with Bitcoin. WTF? Any one heard of this, or have a suggestion where I can go to shop for a sugar baby again.I am guessing you were booted for something else. Email them and ask. They will tell you why. I report profiles all the time and haven't been booted yet. I have complained about the number of fake profiles in my profile statement and haven't been booted. The only time I was booted was when I tried to sneak a phone number in my profile. I wrote apologizing and they let me back on.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72360132
Over on SDM anyone partake? Don't overpay you can find her on Erotic Monkey and various escort sites.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72360132
Over on SDM anyone partake? Don't overpay you can find her on Erotic Monkey and various escort sites.According to ER you did! I have several times. She must be nuts. I helped her out a couple of times because she was dependable. Not anymore. Didn't pay up. Excuses. Went to CA. Then ghosts me. Must be back after getting fired. She is just another unreliable scammer. Add 20-30 pounds to the pics.
According to ER you did! I have several times. She must be nuts. I helped her out a couple of times because she was dependable. Not anymore. Didn't pay up. Excuses. Went to CA. Then ghosts me. Must be back after getting fired. She is just another unreliable scammer. Add 20-30 pounds to the pics. What do you mean ER? Erotic Monkey maybe? Yea could have been top of the game and making a mint!
What do you mean ER? Erotic Monkey maybe? Yea could have been top of the game and making a mint!Yeah. Erotic Monkey. She was still mad at you for some review. I told her you were a good guy. But now, I wouldn't see her. You are correct, she could be raking it in.
Yeah. Erotic Monkey. She was still mad at you for some review. I told her you were a good guy. But now, I wouldn't see her. You are correct, she could be raking it in.Thanks I am LOL yes she blew it but could always reverse course!
Thanks I am LOL yes she blew it but could always reverse course!Have you reached out to her? I'm curious if she is back. Seems like she is back from CA or got fired and came back. I'm just annoyed I fronted her to help her out and my payback was for her to ignore me. Her head isn't right. She was 260. I always gave her 3. Go figure, I turned into a bad client somehow. Got me. She also got a VRBO. The one time because she was reliable, I gave her money for the VRBO and was on the way when she cancel upon arrival for sickness. Make it up to me in two days. Nope.
Have you reached out to her? I'm curious if she is back. Seems like she is back from CA or got fired and came back. I'm just annoyed I fronted her to help her out and my payback was for her to ignore me. Her head isn't right. She was 260. I always gave her 3. Go figure, I turned into a bad client somehow. Got me. She also got a VRBO. The one time because she was reliable, I gave her money for the VRBO and was on the way when she cancel upon arrival for sickness. Make it up to me in two days. Nope.No hard pass I just don't want to see others overpay as a SD if she is escorting for less.
Columbus Dave
01-15-24, 16:21
Yea, that's her. Wasn't my best experience.She is cute but not the most fun.
HornySenior
02-01-24, 06:51
Been knocking it dead lately. More than I can handle. Saw one for the 3rd time yesterday. She turned 21 last week. New one coming over tomorrow. Passing on anyone who wants more than 200.
Been knocking it dead lately. More than I can handle. Saw one for the 3rd time yesterday. She turned 21 last week. New one coming over tomorrow. Passing on anyone who wants more than 200.Thanks for bragging but not sharing anything useful.
Thanks for bragging but not sharing anything useful.Not entirely useless. Now we know that he has a preference for the kind of women most of us have no interest in or that he is "cock blocking" trying to reduce the competition for women above the 200 price point.
Nobody is ever entirely worthless: some just serve as a negative example.
BAM.
Been knocking it dead lately. More than I can handle. Saw one for the 3rd time yesterday. She turned 21 last week. New one coming over tomorrow. Passing on anyone who wants more than 200.Thats 2017 prices LOL can you give an example of who is 200?
HornySenior
02-02-24, 07:57
Thanks for bragging but not sharing anything useful.I've been posting about my experiences since this thread started. Given plenty of advice. Nay sayers still abound but I have a lot of success. If you go back to the beginning of this thread and read some of my posts, you'll she I shared plenty. Try #28 and # 39. Also read the posts from Secretmenu. If all else fails PM me and I'll send a detailed process that works for me.
Homebrewerguy
02-02-24, 12:08
Not entirely useless. Now we know that he has a preference for the kind of women most of us have no interest in or that he is "cock blocking" trying to reduce the competition for women above the 200 price point.
Nobody is ever entirely worthless: some just serve as a negative example.
BAM.HornySenior is a valued contributor to this site. I don't see how his post could be viewed negatively. I see it as a positive that there is value out there if you put in the effort. Having a significant other, I can't play at that level, but I appreciate his contributions.
I've been posting about my experiences since this thread started. Given plenty of advice. Nay sayers still abound but I have a lot of success. If you go back to the beginning of this thread and read some of my posts, you'll she I shared plenty. Try #28 and # 39. Also read the posts from Secretmenu. If all else fails PM me and I'll send a detailed process that works for me.Not trying to bust chops 200 is a fair price but right now they are asking 4/500.
I've been posting about my experiences since this thread started. Given plenty of advice. Nay sayers still abound but I have a lot of success. If you go back to the beginning of this thread and read some of my posts, you'll she I shared plenty. Try #28 and # 39. Also read the posts from Secretmenu. If all else fails PM me and I'll send a detailed process that works for me.
Looking at your post history, you started posting a little before January of 2023. That's a little over a year. Also, didn't you post something like this: "No way that girl is fucking you for $150." This in response to someone who actually posted a picture of the girl he was pursuing.
"Not sure what you guys are doing but I have had 6 girls that I have fucked for less than 200." "For the most part I am done with them after a couple of visits because I become bored with them." And yet, you are never sharing the ones you have finished with.
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary proof. More experienced sugar daddies are seeing rates far different than what you claim. You may be a prodigy but the one *known* prodigy is HollywoodGuy who used to teach his approach. He routinely got chicks for under $100 and could post links and pictures. Even he is not finding anything under 200. I am not trying to start a pissing contest but other people reading this thread should not be misled or disappointed to find they cannot duplicate your success.
BAM
To save you all some time here are the tips that SM and HS have posted in the past:
From SM: "SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well. ".
From HS: "I will ad. I start out in the search. If I see someone I click on the heart. Shows my interest. I click a lot of hearts. From there follow Secret's method. Once we are talking, I ask if there are into mutual benefits or pay to play, something along this line. A lot will ghost me at this point. If not, then get them off the site. Once off I don't beat around the Bush. Afterall dating is not what I'm after. I find out their real name and number and try to vet. Find out if they are a provider. I will never pay for a date without sex and a lot will leave because of that. I went out on a few dates without paying and about half were a waste of time and the money I spent on the food. The other half ended up back at my house. I paid 200 for a couple but now tell them my limit is 150. These girls are not providers. They have been giving out unskilled sex to guys who bust a nut in under a minute. For the most part I am done with them after a couple of visits because I become bored with them. Still looking for that diamond in the rough. I had a SB for 3 1/2 years and I'd like to have another. By the way if you follow these guidelines, it is really cheap to be on here. I think I've only spent like 250 on the credits. It may seem like a lot of work but if you want UTR 20-year old's then you may have to put in the time. ".
"SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well. ".
This is all good advice on how to avoid wasting credits on the site. The real trick is closing the deal after you find the ones that are real and will engage/meet.
BAM
You need a new email and cc to get back on SA happened to me don't report anyone and be careful what you say onsite. Get them to the phone asap and text the details. Ask for a nude and if they want money move on!I got kicked off after getting a girls phone number and texting off site. She asked my what I wanted and gave me a way high price. I declined and she got really bitchy with me. I made a rude response and that ***** sent them screen shots of our off site messages and got me booted.
Post her user name so thers don't go through the same BS.
LOL, or share her number and we can f with her!
I got kicked off after getting a girls phone number and texting off site. She asked my what I wanted and gave me a way high price. I declined and she got really bitchy with me. I made a rude response and that ***** sent them screen shots of our off site messages and got me booted.
BearsBuddy
02-26-24, 08:27
To save you all some time here are the tips that SM and HS have posted in the past:
From SM: "SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well. ".
From HS: "I will ad. I start out in the search. If I see someone I click on the heart. Shows my interest. I click a lot of hearts. From there follow Secret's method. Once we are talking, I ask if there are into mutual benefits or pay to play, something along this line. A lot will ghost me at this point. If not, then get them off the site. Once off I don't beat around the Bush. Afterall dating is not what I'm after. I find out their real name and number and try to vet. Find out if they are a provider. I will never pay for a date without sex and a lot will leave because of that. I went out on a few dates without paying and about half were a waste of time and the money I spent on the food. The other half ended up back at my house. I paid 200 for a couple but now tell them my limit is 150. These girls are not providers. They have been giving out unskilled sex to guys who bust a nut in under a minute. For the most part I am done with them after a couple of visits because I become bored with them. Still looking for that diamond in the rough. I had a SB for 3 1/2 years and I'd like to have another. By the way if you follow these guidelines, it is really cheap to be on here. I think I've only spent like 250 on the credits. It may seem like a lot of work but if you want UTR 20-year old's then you may have to put in the time. ".
"SB requires a fair amount of patience. You have to understand that there's a metric fuckload of fake accounts so knowing how to spot them is the difference in spending all the site currency on nothing vs actually engaging with the real ones. Check the profile, if the bottom section only has the bare minimum requirements, I think three responses odds are it's not real. Don't ever message first and don't open messages from accounts who haven't viewed your profile. You can like and request private photos without spending anything and it's what I do, if they check your profile out normally they'll message you and I evaluate from that point if the person is worth spending the coins on or not. But don't waste money on private photos, get the conversation off the site as quickly as you can as well. ".
This is all good advice on how to avoid wasting credits on the site. The real trick is closing the deal after you find the ones that are real and will engage/meet.
BAMNever heard of HS. Thanks for all of the advice.
BearsBuddy
02-26-24, 17:14
Never heard of HS. Thanks for all of the advice.Never mind. I reread the thread. Thanks again for the advice.
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