View Full Version : Domination and Other Fetishes
As you can tell from the title, I would like to start a thread on a topic that has been discussed, off and on, for some time now, but never really gained much traction. This topic concerns domination, BDSM and similar fetishes. While I do have a short list of ladies who will indulge in such fetishes, we will save that for later. The purpose if this introduction is to define a few basic concepts.
First of all, if you are on this message board at all, you are probably not interested in a professional hard-core dominatrix. This type of lady will demand half of your paycheck for the privilege of scrubbing out her toilet with your toothbrush. This type of lady will have a fully equipped dungeon filled with all sorts of equipment; whips, chains, handcuffs, restraints, dildos, whatever. This type of lady will never allow any type of sexual service. These ladies may come up from time to time, but I don't think they will be the main thrust of this thread.
The main focus of this thread will be ordinary ladies, (escorts and massage girls), with little domme experience, but who are willing to attempt some simple domination style fetishes. These girls will have little to nothing in the way of special equipment. These girls may jack up their prices for these unusual services. These girls may have a language barrier that makes it hard to understand what you are asking for. (If you need Google Translate, it's probably not going to work out.) These girls may have long fingernails that make some of these fetishes difficult. (Yes, you do have to ask.).
In subsequent notes, we will get into the details of how to find these girls, how to make first contact, how to negotiate prices, what fetishes can (and cannot) be expected, and what red flags to watch out for. But before we close out, I would like to broach the subject of the biggest red flag, the "box checkers". These are ladies whose ads appear to offer domination, but seem to have just checked off a box to produce interest. Take a look at these links to see some classic box checking.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/95364012
https://boston.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/asian/3176085850all-hole-open-possib/266401852368
Take care, and let me know what you think.
To get this ball rolling, I thought I would thought I'd start with Amy from Memphis. A google search indicates she has been reviewed on that board, though you can't search 3-letter names. She rolls into the Boston area something like 4 or 5 times a year, and stays about a week. A bit older; not a young college chick. I try to see her every time she stops in.
If you like straight "escort", she excels in that area. But I see her for her fetish / domination skills. She has equipment, but does not travel with it, so she can only do rather mild, simple fetishes where fancy equipment is not required. Not a pro, but rather an experienced, skilled amateur. She can get that domme attitude going with no problem This will sound odd, but she is very good at face slapping. She knows just how much force to use.
https://megapersonals.eu/public/post_detail/38367473
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/amy-9015053471-261902
https://adultsearch.com/missouri/saint-louis/female-escorts/1209778
Cool thread thanks for starting this. I Haven't found a good "Sub", I am a very amateur dom and trying to get into it but would be nice to find a good "sub".
To get this ball rolling, I thought I would thought I'd start with Amy from Memphis. A google search indicates she has been reviewed on that board, though you can't search 3-letter names. She rolls into the Boston area something like 4 or 5 times a year, and stays about a week. A bit older; not a young college chick. I try to see her every time she stops in.
If you like straight "escort", she excels in that area. But I see her for her fetish / domination skills. She has equipment, but does not travel with it, so she can only do rather mild, simple fetishes where fancy equipment is not required. Not a pro, but rather an experienced, skilled amateur. She can get that domme attitude going with no problem This will sound odd, but she is very good at face slapping. She knows just how much force to use.
https://megapersonals.eu/public/post_detail/38367473
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/amy-9015053471-261902
https://adultsearch.com/missouri/saint-louis/female-escorts/1209778
Cool thread thanks for starting this. I Haven't found a good "Sub", I am a very amateur dom and trying to get into it but would be nice to find a good "sub".Yes, I can see where that could be tough. There are providers that will serve as a submissive, for a nominal fee of course. You might want to also try Fet Life.
Another lady I have seen is Miss Tanyia. Once again, she gets high reviews for her "normal" escort services, but will also try some simple, mild domination style fetishes. She is not a pro domme by any means and will not provide pro level service, but she has one important qualification; she is willing to try. I have read that she also uses another name and number, but I cannot verify that.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/100158247
https://boston.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/black_caribbean/dedham-nothing-is----b-e-t-t-e/917013209743
Look for touring ladies, P411 not a bad route. You won't be domming someone you've only just met, but an experienced provider serious-minded in BDSM can walk you through a session and give advice and coaching along the way. Believe me, many would be very happy to do so.
I'm not into that kind of stuff but whoever is I reccomend this one. Down for the dirtiest fetishes for cheap. I met her for a basic bjj FS sesh 2 weeks ago and while getting a drink pre hotel she said she likes to do crazy fetishes. Damage was 80 and the room but after 1 date she's willing to host. She just wants to meet you first. I ubered her to Down town NB then got a hotel near by. Great bbj and decent FS and drove her home.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c31ee7d0-78a9-4953-9fee-70e57a240956
I'm not into that kind of stuff but whoever is I reccomend this one. Down for the dirtiest fetishes for cheap. I met her for a basic bjj FS sesh 2 weeks ago and while getting a drink pre hotel she said she likes to do crazy fetishes. Damage was 80 and the room but after 1 date she's willing to host. She just wants to meet you first. I ubered her to Down town NB then got a hotel near by. Great bbj and decent FS and drove her home.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c31ee7d0-78a9-4953-9fee-70e57a240956Why are the last 2 pics so manly looking?
RoadWarrior182
11-21-22, 09:04
There use to a nice woman named Gina. I saw her for a couple years off and on. She started off really skinny and as she cleaned up she got heavier but still very attractive. She liked to do gentle Dom stuff and was an expert BBBJ with prostate. She always had toys and would do pretty much whatever you wanted but no FS. I miss her and would like to find another like her.
So I got to admit. I love a woman with nice feet and who knows how to use them. Problem is, No one ever really advertises it. I can't be the only one. Anyone know of a provider that fits the bill?
Anyone know a provider that gives a great foot job? I can't be the only one who has this fetish.
Anyone know a provider that gives a great foot job? I can't be the only one who has this fetish.ListCrawler and Skip the Games, (STG), are keyword searchable. Just type in "foot" and some ads will pop up. Of course, you will have the same problem as everyone else; determining which ads are real and which are fake. With that said, every non-professional domme girl I have ever asked were willing to use their feet.
Eros is nominally searchable, but the feature doesn't work.
ListCrawler and Skip the Games, (STG), are keyword searchable. Just type in "foot" and some ads will pop up. Of course, you will have the same problem as everyone else; determining which ads are real and which are fake. With that said, every non-professional domme girl I have ever asked were willing to use their feet.
Eros is nominally searchable, but the feature doesn't work.Anyone remember the cute spinner ms banks. Provided a great foot fetish. Rubbing the feet on your face and rubbing your cock. And gave great full service too.
https://imgur.com/a/iTWVJKl
Anyone remember the cute spinner ms banks. Provided a great foot fetish. Rubbing the feet on your face and rubbing your cock. And gave great full service too.
https://imgur.com/a/iTWVJKlOver on the Lawrence board, there is a fairly active Massage Parlor Reports thread. One popular parlor is the Lavender Spa in Methuen, which inexplicably has no RubMaps entry. Of the 4 Lavender girls I have had sessions with, all of them would indulge in some mild fetishes. One of them, (I can't remember if it was Jennifer or Nancy), could do the things you mentioned, as well as actually slap my face with her feet.
I met this lady in Woburn, though from the latest ad, it seems she no longer has a hotel room. It's hard to tell if the pictures are actually her. She does normal escort as well as domination. She is not a pro dominatrix, but rather a skilled amateur. She had no equipment of any kind, but I could tell she had done this before. She was actually friendly and "normal" seeming. She is definitely on the heavy side, so if you like "spinners", she may not be your thing.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/101252550
ListCrawler and Skip the Games, (STG), are keyword searchable. Just type in "foot" and some ads will pop up. Of course, you will have the same problem as everyone else; determining which ads are real and which are fake. With that said, every non-professional domme girl I have ever asked were willing to use their feet.
Eros is nominally searchable, but the feature doesn't work.Thanks for sharing. Listcrawler and STG are definitely dicey both in terms of the listings (real or fake?) and the types of girls (low end, drugs etc.).
Eros does have a fetish section that has been helpful, but you still need to contact each person to see if they are open to foot fetishes.
It'll be great to see if there are any Boston based providers that are open to foot fetishes?
I contacted this ad due to the pictures and the statement of "fetish and fantasies". I've been doing this long enough to know it may not turn out as I would like. So, I texted the lady on the phone (probably a handler) and told her what kind of domme fetishes I was looking for, and she gave me a hotel address and price list. I thought they were OK with what I was asking for. Literally right after I parked at the hotel, I got a text that they did not do what I was looking for, only "normal massage". At that point, I just went home, disappointed, but not totally surprised.
https://boston.skipthegames.com/massage/asian/607-898-8932-new-arrival-sexy-/180149002817
It'll be great to see if there are any Boston based providers that are open to foot fetishes?I recently re-visited the Lavender Spa in Methuen after a short hiatus. Michelle is currently the only one there, though she will have some help after the new year. She will indulge in some foot action, as well as other mild domme fetishes. She does have pretty feet.
In a week or 2, Nancy will be returning. She actually has some serious domination experience.
HomerSpinSome
12-28-22, 15:15
Anyone know what happened to Lady J? She used to be in Framingham.
Gianni Versace
12-28-22, 18:09
One of my regular escorts I have become very friendly with. She told me that some of these crazy fetishes that many guys asks for are as follows.
Eating some other guys creampie out of her box.
Blowing air in her ass while she farts on the guy and or the guy buys her food that can make her fart.
Shitting on the guy. (This is beyond me but I guess for the right amount of money anything is possible).
Peeing on a guy. (This is not bad and I can see how erotic it could be).
I recently re-visited the Lavender Spa in Methuen after a short hiatus. Michelle is currently the only one there, though she will have some help after the new year. She will indulge in some foot action, as well as other mild domme fetishes. She does have pretty feet.
In a week or 2, Nancy will be returning. She actually has some serious domination experience.Thank you for the recommendation, you are a gentleman. I'll definitely check it out.
Some of the traveling Brazilians have been open to foot action but they rotate out of Boston frequently so it'll be good to have someone local to see on a regular basis.
One of my regular escorts I have become very friendly with. She told me that some of these crazy fetishes that many guys asks for are as follows.
Eating some other guys creampie out of her box.
Blowing air in her ass while she farts on the guy and or the guy buys her food that can make her fart.
Shitting on the guy. (This is beyond me but I guess for the right amount of money anything is possible).
Peeing on a guy. (This is not bad and I can see how erotic it could be).I'm not here to judge what others prefer but rather I'm curious whether she entertains these kinds of requests? Also when do they share these requests? Prior to the meeting or after they have seen her one time? I'm asking because I tend not to explicitly talk before the appointment.
Having said that, none of the fetishes you described are appealing to me.
Has anyone seen this lady?
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/113887565
The area code is local, but lack of a name and nearly complete absense of an online footprint leads me to suspect it could be scam of some sort.
GerogeohWell
02-12-23, 14:21
Has anyone seen this lady?
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/113887565
The area code is local, but lack of a name and nearly complete absense of an online footprint leads me to suspect it could be scam of some sort.I remember her posting a while back but not her name. You might have better luck on the main thread.
I remember her posting a while back but not her name. You might have better luck on the main thread.Actually, I spoke too soon. Using my formidable Google skills, I was able to find a major online footprint under a different phone number. Mistress Pleasure is actually the name she uses.
So she is real, but there is still the red flag of her ad. The photos she uses seem to span decades.
JackRabitSlim
02-25-23, 22:45
Actually, I spoke too soon. Using my formidable Google skills, I was able to find a major online footprint under a different phone number. Mistress Pleasure is actually the name she uses.
So she is real, but there is still the red flag of her ad. The photos she uses seem to span decades.Trying to find Mistress Pleasure, I click on the link and it only brings me to different escorts. BTW someone asked if Lady J is still active and the answer is yes. Spoke to you, but did not see her she told me she is accepting clients that she knew for pro sessions.
Trying to find Mistress Pleasure, I click on the link and it only brings me to different escorts. BTW someone asked if Lady J is still active and the answer is yes. Spoke to you, but did not see her she told me she is accepting clients that she knew for pro sessions.https://www.dickievirgin.com/country/massachusetts
JackRabitSlim
02-26-23, 15:26
https://www.dickievirgin.com/country/massachusettsThank you. DIdn't see her but many others. Thank you for the info!
Trying to find Mistress Pleasure, I click on the link and it only brings me to different escorts. BTW someone asked if Lady J is still active and the answer is yes. Spoke to you, but did not see her she told me she is accepting clients that she knew for pro sessions.Here are a few older ads I was able to find.
https://tryst.link/escort/1goddessbarbie
https://www.models-world.com/colorado/mistress-pleasure/
https://www.fiftyescorts.com/escort/mistress-pleasure/
It looks like she was in the Boston area for just a short time. She changed her phone number as well.
Anyone ever see her?
https://tryst.link/bdsm/spittdaddy
Anyone ever see her?
https://tryst.link/bdsm/spittdaddyShe does look interesting, but I'm not sure why she would put "daddy" in her name.
When all other options evaporated, I drove up to Rogers 8 to see who was there. I was greeted by April, who I believe was not the April I had seen there late last year. She was Chinese, (duh!) Fairly pretty, average body, a little chubby, nice up top, not a very shapely butt, fair English. Tight pants and tight shirt. Friendly and flirty. Nice feet.
The massage was fairly good. Afterward, she indulged me in a few mild domination style fetishes. It started with some tickling and light spanking. After I turned over, she did some light hand choking without being asked, then some mild slapping. There was a couch in there, so we simulated a strip club style lap dance. None of this was hard enough to make any marks or bruises; nowhere near.
She did fairly well for an AMP lady. I might return, but as with all AMPs, you never know who you are going to get. 60 + 80 for a full hour. Had I asked her to remove clothing, I'm sure it would have been more.
I contacted this lady as her ad mentioned fetish and domination. It wasn't a rip-off, but I don't think I will repeat. Face and body were not as nice as the pictures suggest. At least 4 times during our session, she got on the rphone for a few minutes of texting. She kept telling me how some guy is harassing her, and how great the next session will be. The search continues.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/135453850
JackRabitSlim
06-17-23, 14:57
I contacted this lady as her ad mentioned fetish and domination. It wasn't a rip-off, but I don't think I will repeat. Face and body were not as nice as the pictures suggest. At least 4 times during our session, she got on the rphone for a few minutes of texting. She kept telling me how some guy is harassing her, and how great the next session will be. The search continues.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/135453850Choir Boy. If you are looking for a professional Dominatrix DM me, I may be able to help depending upon what you are looking for.
JackRabitSlim
06-17-23, 14:59
Does anyone know what become of Mellinda? She used to advertise on Eros. A bit older, but I had a great session with her once. Anyone know how I can contact her?
Choir Boy. If you are looking for a professional Dominatrix DM me, I may be able to help depending upon what you are looking for.Hey there Jack. (I sent you a private message.) Yes; if you know of a lady who is into this, I would be very interested. Though in practice, I tend to shy away from the hard-core pros. They will usually charge a bundle, especially those offering "financial domination". I tend to prefer the "normal" excorts who are willing to try domme style fetishes. Surprisingly, I have had some moderate degree of luck at the Asian massage parlors. I can sometimes find girls who are willing to give it a try, even though they aren't the most excperienced.
Patriarchist
06-25-23, 11:32
Looking for providers who are lactating and offer ABF. Any leads would be appreciated.
IspyWithMyEye
07-03-23, 07:36
So I got to admit. I love a woman with nice feet and who knows how to use them. Problem is, No one ever really advertises it. I can't be the only one. Anyone know of a provider that fits the bill?I'm looking for a foot fetish provider as well. The last two that a saw who both had Fetishes lusted in their ads, didn't like their feet being touched. WTF! One of whom was Mandy on the Northshore. Great safe provider who I have seen many times, but I want more!
https://listcrawler.eu/last_phone_post/9782160303
I'm looking for a foot fetish provider as well. The last two that a saw who both had Fetishes lusted in their ads, didn't like their feet being touched. WTF! One of whom was Mandy on the Northshore. Great safe provider who I have seen many times, but I want more!
https://listcrawler.eu/last_phone_post/9782160303If you can make it up to Lowell, you could try the Rogers St. Spa, # 8. Ask for Mia. Pretty, nice body, willing to try fetishes. She has nice, smooth, pretty feet; and she is totally OK with them being touched.
I'm not here to judge what others prefer but rather I'm curious whether she entertains these kinds of requests? Also when do they share these requests? Prior to the meeting or after they have seen her one time? I'm asking because I tend not to explicitly talk before the appointment.
Having said that, none of the fetishes you described are appealing to me.I've found that women like to share / relate these fetish experiences with men. It might be a sign of her comfort level with you. Given that, I think she would be comfortable telling you more and if she provides those services. Women are different: they have a detachment when we don't sometimes, especially if she is a sex worker. We're the ones that get excited. I sometimes will ask up front or I will bring it up if I think we will have an ongoing relationship. Do any of you know of providers who are experienced with water sports with her giving with face sitting or any that do extreme insertions? Thank you.
DeepThroat70
07-05-23, 10:42
I've found that women like to share / relate these fetish experiences with men. It might be a sign of her comfort level with you. Given that, I think she would be comfortable telling you more and if she provides those services. Women are different: they have a detachment when we don't sometimes, especially if she is a sex worker. We're the ones that get excited. I sometimes will ask up front or I will bring it up if I think we will have an ongoing relationship. Do any of you know of providers who are experienced with water sports with her giving with face sitting or any that do extreme insertions? Thank you.Danielle of NE is an experience provider that participates with sports. She will sit on your face and then have you clean up after.
SullyMonger
07-10-23, 10:30
Does anyone know what become of Mellinda? She used to advertise on Eros. A bit older, but I had a great session with her once. Anyone know how I can contact her?Hi Jack,
I'm a long time lurker and haven't posted much but unfortunately Melinda passed away last winter. I know a few of the ladies in her circle. She was a sweetheart.
InnocentShark
07-14-23, 17:01
Anyone dabble in session girls? I've been doing erotic / mixed with visiting girls but it'd be nice to find someone local for a regular thing.
Anyone dabble in session girls? I've been doing erotic / mixed with visiting girls but it'd be nice to find someone local for a regular thing.I have read about those session girls, but have not partaken myself. None are based in the Boston area, though they probably visit frequently.
JackRabitSlim
08-09-23, 13:56
I have read about those session girls, but have not partaken myself. None are based in the Boston area, though they probably visit frequently.I went once with Mistress Fernanda. In terms of a Dominatrix Session, not great. But she was wonderful. Very very pretty (I have to warn you I am old, and she is not a spring chicken, probably early 50's). But great body, very nice, a lot of fun and I think anything you want is on the table. The Great Megan Jones of Club Dom fame is coming but she insists there is no nudity on her or your part. Tempted to go just to meet her. What a legend! If you go, love to hear about it.
I went once with Mistress Fernanda. In terms of a Dominatrix Session, not great. But she was wonderful. Very very pretty (I have to warn you I am old, and she is not a spring chicken, probably early 50's). But great body, very nice, a lot of fun and I think anything you want is on the table. The Great Megan Jones of Club Dom fame is coming but she insists there is no nudity on her or your part. Tempted to go just to meet her. What a legend! If you go, love to hear about it.Very interesting. Do you have a link for Fernanda? Was she in Boston?
JackRabitSlim
08-10-23, 18:52
Very interesting. Do you have a link for Fernanda? Was she in Boston?If you go onto Session Girls website, type in Boston for location and she will come up.
BrandonNice777
10-05-23, 13:13
I recently visited Catherine liberale for a BDSM session. Catherine is a German domme visiting for a short time. She is thin tall and beautiful. She can accommodate cbt, GS, bondage, anal play, breath play and sounding. Domme sessions are not cheap, but they are worth the visit.
https://catherine-liberale.com/en/terms/
I recently visited Catherine liberale for a BDSM session. Catherine is a German domme visiting for a short time. She is thin tall and beautiful. She can accommodate cbt, GS, bondage, anal play, breath play and sounding. Domme sessions are not cheap, but they are worth the visit.
https://catherine-liberale.com/en/terms/She looks interested. Thanks.
I have to describe this one as a complete shot in the dark. I texted Fernanda in Woburn and told her I was looking for fetishes, not a normal session. She asked what fetishes, which is a very good sign. I told her and we agreed to session. I would say it was a mix of good and bad.
As for the bad, the pics are her, but several years and several pounds ago. She had a pot belly, which is not in the pics. She is bilingual, but only speaks Italian and Spanish. For English, she used a Star Trek universal translator.
As for the good, she was inexperienced but very cooperative and tried to do everything I asked of her. She gets an A+ for effort. It was an enjoyable session, but I'm not sure if I would see her again. She tried hard, but I need a little more of a visual.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/165907962
I am starting see ads pop up on ListCrawler that advertise domination.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/168357149
I will try to set something up this weekend. The text of the ad says she is 43, but the pictures seem far younger than that.
I am starting see ads pop up on ListCrawler that advertise domination.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/massachusetts/boston/168357149
I will try to set something up this weekend. The text of the ad says she is 43, but the pictures seem far younger than that.This has fake ad written all over it.
This has fake ad written all over it.That's kind of (sort of) what I thought. But I'm not totally sure. If the ad is fake, why is she so honest about her age. If she wanted to put out a fake ad, she wouldn't admit she is 43; she would claim to be 23.
That's kind of (sort of) what I thought. But I'm not totally sure. If the ad is fake, why is she so honest about her age. If she wanted to put out a fake ad, she wouldn't admit she is 43; she would claim to be 23.Maybe she is 63.
Powered by vBulletin® Version 4.1.4 Copyright © 2024 vBulletin Solutions, Inc. All rights reserved.