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Pawns
08-19-22, 09:44
I have been using methods. For years and meet randomn women and slowly develop relationships and get down to money for sex. Prob 45% I eventually bang or at min get a BJ. I would like to open this up and I will add some of my methods.

SSideJohnny
08-19-22, 11:14
I have been using methods. For years and meet randomn women and slowly develop relationships and get down to money for sex. Prob 45% I eventually bang or at min get a BJ. I would like to open this up and I will add some of my methods., I am all ears, I have some game in picking up for a reg date, so like what age to you stay around, places you pick up? Bars? Stores?

Pawns
08-19-22, 14:10
, I am all ears, I have some game in picking up for a reg date, so like what age to you stay around, places you pick up? Bars? Stores?Anywhere really usually gas stations fast food. Ages 25-35 where cash is king. I have business cards for my side business with my google number. I let them know.

My situation and they can make in two hours what they make in a day. Best luck with black girls and latinas.

Pawns
08-22-22, 09:50
I now use the dot card as my business card. I picked up a girl at Taco Bell and had her in hotel Sunday all day. Fun times.

Member #6355
08-22-22, 11:21
I haven't tried this myself, but I know of a couple of people--including one bisexual provider!--who liked to pick up girls in pawn shops, especially around Christmas. It sounds like kind of a grim way to approach the matter, but you might spot a cute young thing desperately pawning stuff so that she can afford to buy presents. You'd have to be pretty adept at the proposition, but something like, "I might be able to help you out if you need some extra cash, sweetie."

Pawns
08-22-22, 14:35
I haven't tried this myself, but I know of a couple of people--including one bisexual provider!--who liked to pick up girls in pawn shops, especially around Christmas. It sounds like kind of a grim way to approach the matter, but you might spot a cute young thing desperately pawning stuff so that she can afford to buy presents. You'd have to be pretty adept at the proposition, but something like, "I might be able to help you out if you need some extra cash, sweetie."Great idea I will try it.

Pawns
08-22-22, 14:37
I use music to hook them. Once you get a number you're half way home. They also never know my real name. Had one try to blackmail me.

Pawns
08-25-22, 11:17
Met a girl from the Mac at Zaxby's Monday and banged her all night at Hampton. 100 hand shake and nice warm bed.

PervNerd48
08-25-22, 17:57
Met a girl from the Mac at Zaxby's Monday and banged her all night at Hampton. 100 hand shake and nice warm bed.OK, got to ask.

"The Mac"? What is that?

And how did you get a girl at f'in ZAXBY'S? How good was THAT line?

Kma2016
08-25-22, 19:03
OK, got to ask.

"The Mac"? What is that?

And how did you get a girl at f'in ZAXBY'S? How good was THAT line?How about.

Are you a chicken farmer? Because you sure raise good cocks.

PlayTiem
08-26-22, 07:21
OK, got to ask.

"The Mac"? What is that?

And how did you get a girl at f'in ZAXBY'S? How good was THAT line?The title of his post was "Maccleny".

Also, the cashiers at fast food places are making, what, $10 an hour? Maybe $13?

A little smile, a little flattery, and a little green.

Also, cock jokes!

Pawns
08-26-22, 11:22
The title of his post was "Maccleny".

Also, the cashiers at fast food places are making, what, $10 an hour? Maybe $13?

A little smile, a little flattery, and a little green.

Also, cock jokes!Pretty much talk to them get number tell 'them you need relief or are not getting any at home. And they will sometimes even say we can help each other out. I have had girls tell me they are not a hooker and get mad. It's a numbers game.

Bud Green
08-27-22, 19:24
I have been using methods. For years and meet randomn women and slowly develop relationships and get down to money for sex. Prob 45% I eventually bang or at min get a BJ. I would like to open this up and I will add some of my methods.Might I ask your ages for those that have been successful?

PlayTiem
08-29-22, 01:07
Might I ask your ages for those that have been successful?I've passed the half century mark, but have been successful with 19 yo chicks recently. I'm not that attractive, but I smile, look them in the eye, say "thank you" and mean it, and they remember me. Because this is not what they're generally used to dealing with, and the positivity matters. If they feel safe and positive about you, if you then suggest some play time, with maybe a little sugar on top, why wouldn't they?

Member #6475
08-29-22, 10:01
Met a girl from the Mac at Zaxby's Monday and banged her all night at Hampton. 100 hand shake and nice warm bed.Sent you a PM for more info.

Pawns
08-29-22, 11:17
I've passed the half century mark, but have been successful with 19 yo chicks recently. I'm not that attractive, but I smile, look them in the eye, say "thank you" and mean it, and they remember me. Because this is not what they're generally used to dealing with, and the positivity matters. If they feel safe and positive about you, if you then suggest some play time, with maybe a little sugar on top, why wouldn't they?My ages range from 19-35.

RuggerForFun
08-30-22, 16:21
I have had some luck recently connecting with a few using facebook. I created an fake profile a while back to check some girls out and now I have about a 1000 "friends". You can get a feel for those who may be down.

Eusue12
08-31-22, 00:26
I work at a Amzn warehouse on 103rd. There are a lot of Latinas from Columbia, Venezuela brasil and a lots of African American girls to pick from. You get talking to them and kinda feel if you link or not. Most won't even care about the money they just want to have fun.

Pawns
08-31-22, 09:56
I work at a Amzn warehouse on 103rd. There are a lot of Latinas from Columbia, Venezuela brasil and a lots of African American girls to pick from. You get talking to them and kinda feel if you link or not. Most won't even care about the money they just want to have fun.That a boy. I have to worry about my career so I don't fish if corp pier.

Sphyn
08-31-22, 17:42
Share your wisdom PAWN. Def. Interested especially with the whole side business thing. Feel free to PM or put it on here.

Pawns
09-01-22, 14:39
Share your wisdom PAWN. Def. Interested especially with the whole side business thing. Feel free to PM or put it on here.I was abDJ and still do it as a hobby. I use that as the girls love that type of stuff. When I was younger the what we called hoochie mammas of all colors flocked. So I carry cards or a dot card with me. I stop on way from work etc every day and just talk to people then I say let's stay in touch. I get their number to off POSs. Then it's easier to be honest over text. Now mind you I have connected with some right off the bat. But as I say it's a numbers game. No magic just some. Alls to say what you need and can provide. Have had a few POd boyfriends get my so called biz line but that is fine.

Sphyn
09-02-22, 18:48
Thanks, when you are talking with them do you mention any of that or just casual conversations about general stuff? And then you bring it up when you text them?

I'm still learning game.

If anyone else has game, let's share here.

Pawns
09-03-22, 07:51
Thanks, when you are talking with them do you mention any of that or just casual conversations about general stuff? And then you bring it up when you text them?

I'm still learning game.

If anyone else has game, let's share here.Sometime straight to it sometimes text. I can tell. Many times I say let's hang out we can have a good time. Drink etc. Mi d you a lot have second thoughts and don't. But if you do it ten times someone will bite.

PlayTiem
09-07-22, 02:23
Sometime straight to it sometimes text. I can tell. Many times I say let's hang out we can have a good time. Drink etc. Mi d you a lot have second thoughts and don't. But if you do it ten times someone will bite.That's the thing. If you get shot down "9 times out of 10", that means that every tenth try, you get some. If you're nice, and polite, and walk away when you get shot down without getting butthurt or rude about it, that 10th time will come up. And being polite about handling being shot down sometimes will convert that to a "oh, he's not an asshole, maybe I should give him a shot. ".

Sphyn
09-08-22, 16:34
Sometime straight to it sometimes text. I can tell. Many times I say let's hang out we can have a good time. Drink etc. Mi d you a lot have second thoughts and don't. But if you do it ten times someone will bite.Hey Pawns, sent you a PM.

How can you "tell" if they are interested or not just by talking to them? Are there signs you see in a girl that gives you a higher chance, vs. Getting rejected in front of everyone LOL.

Bud Green
09-08-22, 19:43
Might I ask your ages for those that have been successful?If I had to guess probably 40 and below? I don't know, but I'm high 50's and if I hit on a woman 23 and younger I stand a good chance of being that "creepy" old guy, LOL.

Sphyn
09-08-22, 22:02
If I had to guess probably 40 and below? I don't know, but I'm high 50's and if I hit on a woman 23 and younger I stand a good chance of being that "creepy" old guy, LOL.You'd be surprised. I see a lot of younger chicks with older dudes at the mall and everywhere in Cali. LOL.

I think we can if we learn how. LOL.

PlayTiem
09-09-22, 05:44
If I had to guess probably 40 and below? I don't know, but I'm high 50's and if I hit on a woman 23 and younger I stand a good chance of being that "creepy" old guy, LOL.Like I said, I've passed the 50 mark. If you know where the line is, you can walk up to it. If it makes them feel uncomfortable, you can back away from it with a smile.

Sadly, most young guys now have about zero confidence in approaching young ladies. If you can approach the ladies in a friendly and direct way that lets them know that they're attractive to you and you actually pay attention to their signals, they're far more likely to be receptive. This is true regardless of whether or not it's P2 P. If you approach P2 P sideways ("hey, you need a little help getting that? Instead of "I want to fuck you for money", your chances of success increase.

But my point was that if 95% of 23 year old chicks find you creepy, if you're polite and don't do anything rude, this won't be a problem. And that means that 1 out of 20 might want to give it a try.

StainGlass
09-12-22, 01:32
You have hit the nail on its head.

Attitude matters. The questions about the duration of the conversations (3 conversations vs 10 vs a 2 minute long?.).

Would you be able to share one of your recent experiences in any of these food places or wherever else?

This is something a lot of us can take advise from, and yet only a rare few might be able to master.

Your humble student? .

Stain Glass.

P.S.: Also, any others who had used these approaches, please walk us thro' one or two of the convos that you have been proud of.


I've passed the half century mark, but have been successful with 19 yo chicks recently. I'm not that attractive, but I smile, look them in the eye, say "thank you" and mean it, and they remember me. Because this is not what they're generally used to dealing with, and the positivity matters. If they feel safe and positive about you, if you then suggest some play time, with maybe a little sugar on top, why wouldn't they?

Pawns
09-14-22, 14:39
I use my past DJing to lite them in. I send them mixes I did offer them mixes on thumb drive. I used to go by a DJ name on radio mix show. And I tell 'them I'm a white bog with skills. ESP the black girls. They love it. The last one was at speedway. I'm working her now. She is hesitant. But I got it.


You have hit the nail on its head.

Attitude matters. The questions about the duration of the conversations (3 conversations vs 10 vs a 2 minute long?.).

Would you be able to share one of your recent experiences in any of these food places or wherever else?

This is something a lot of us can take advise from, and yet only a rare few might be able to master.

Your humble student? .

Stain Glass.

P.S.: Also, any others who had used these approaches, please walk us thro' one or two of the convos that you have been proud of.

MouthHunter
09-14-22, 19:46
I've got a couple of girlfriends that would go out with older guys and tell them what they're doing wrong and what they should do right to pick up young chicks. I've been thinking about this for a while now as a side job for some of these girls and they're cool as shit hang out with in general. They're pretty good wing chicks and could possibly help you pick up a chick out in public. Anyhow give me some responses I'm just floating the idea.

StainGlass
09-15-22, 23:33
This sounds fun. A great idea. I'd be interested.

Stain Glass.


I've got a couple of girlfriends that would go out with older guys and tell them what they're doing wrong and what they should do right to pick up young chicks. I've been thinking about this for a while now as a side job for some of these girls and they're cool as shit hang out with in general. They're pretty good wing chicks and could possibly help you pick up a chick out in public. Anyhow give me some responses I'm just floating the idea.

Zoinksjax
09-19-22, 18:41
This sounds fun. A great idea. I'd be interested.

Stain Glass.I second this!

SmallerOne
09-22-22, 16:54
I've got a couple of girlfriends that would go out with older guys and tell them what they're doing wrong and what they should do right to pick up young chicks. I've been thinking about this for a while now as a side job for some of these girls and they're cool as shit hang out with in general. They're pretty good wing chicks and could possibly help you pick up a chick out in public. Anyhow give me some responses I'm just floating the idea.Splendid idea. Bonus points for hot wings.

TankerJo
09-22-22, 20:53
I've got a couple of girlfriends that would go out with older guys and tell them what they're doing wrong and what they should do right to pick up young chicks. I've been thinking about this for a while now as a side job for some of these girls and they're cool as shit hang out with in general. They're pretty good wing chicks and could possibly help you pick up a chick out in public. Anyhow give me some responses I'm just floating the idea.How do we get in contact to make arrangements, and how much does it cost for an evening out while getting their pointers?

Would they do this for a nice diiner, drinks and whatever, or is there a surcharge on top of that?

Bud Green
09-25-22, 16:22
You'd be surprised. I see a lot of younger chicks with older dudes at the mall and everywhere in Cali. LOL.

I think we can if we learn how. LOL.Yes sir, I was just out visiting in the Hollywood, Santa Monica area and you are not kidding. Some fine women for sure with 60 yo men everywhere albeit most were getting in and out of Bentleys and a few Lambo's LOL. Can't believe the money out there, that's where girls get the 10 k a month allowances.

Scbomber
09-25-22, 18:18
Great thread gentlemen!

I've been doing this for years. Anytime I see an attractive younger girl working a low paying job I always pounce. I have cards in my car ready to go. I got to say, it works ALMOST as much as it doesn't. I'm mid 40's and look about 30 so that may help. I try to look for girls in their early 20's to early 30's. Like stated earlier, works best with "ethnic" girls. Once they text me I loosen them up with good banter then hit 'them with what I'm looking for. If it's for you, great, if not, no worries at all. The take it or leave it, straight forward approach works best. Sometimes you catch attitudes but such is life.

Be a gentleman, be respectful and follow through with what you say. Don't ever let them feel like a pro, be their friend.

VladVonK
09-26-22, 12:41
I've got a couple of girlfriends that would go out with older guys and tell them what they're doing wrong and what they should do right to pick up young chicks. I've been thinking about this for a while now as a side job for some of these girls and they're cool as shit hang out with in general. They're pretty good wing chicks and could possibly help you pick up a chick out in public. Anyhow give me some responses I'm just floating the idea.

I'm a late bloomer so I'd be down for this. I'm 31 and still trying to play catch-up. I make a high income, tall, decent enough looking just fat af but losing weight, biggest issue is I have no fucking game and very little experience from a life of a fatty who generally avoided dating. Ive been making good progress on the weight loss turns out throwing money at the problem helps a lot, I just want to work on my other weaknesses in parallel.

WmWetp
09-26-22, 16:59
This sounds amusing at least, I'll bite.


I've got a couple of girlfriends that would go out with older guys and tell them what they're doing wrong and what they should do right to pick up young chicks. I've been thinking about this for a while now as a side job for some of these girls and they're cool as shit hang out with in general. They're pretty good wing chicks and could possibly help you pick up a chick out in public. Anyhow give me some responses I'm just floating the idea.

MouthHunter
09-26-22, 20:10
It's going to take a bit to figure this shit out. Some of my girls have to get babysitters.

Pawns
09-27-22, 07:55
It's going to take a bit to figure this shit out. Some of my girls have to get babysitters.When that occurs I pay more or sr8 pay for the sitter.

MouthHunter
10-01-22, 12:23
I'm going to have him meet maybe a couple of guys at a time and introduce you to the girl all at once. Are you guys concerned about meeting each other would be a question? Or do you prefer meeting the girl and my friend alone? Her safety is my most important to me and I trust the guys judgement. Shoot some feedback on this thread please. Not trying to have my in blocks explode.

Zoinksjax
10-01-22, 12:41
I'm going to have him meet maybe a couple of guys at a time and introduce you to the girl all at once. Are you guys concerned about meeting each other would be a question? Or do you prefer meeting the girl and my friend alone? Her safety is my most important to me and I trust the guys judgement. Shoot some feedback on this thread please. Not trying to have my in blocks explode.Just speaking for myself, I think girl, friend and I. This area is prone to small town coincidences. I've randomly seen people I know all over.

Mtnboy49
10-01-22, 14:48
I'm a late bloomer so I'd be down for this. I'm 31 and still trying to play catch-up. I make a high income, tall, decent enough looking just fat af but losing weight, biggest issue is I have no fucking game and very little experience from a life of a fatty who generally avoided dating. Ive been making good progress on the weight loss turns out throwing money at the problem helps a lot, I just want to work on my other weaknesses in parallel.Sounds like rewatching a couple of Steve Carrel movies would be enlightening: 40 Year Old Virgin and Crazy Stupid Love.

Big take away is don't be a jerk or narcicist.

Zoinksjax
10-12-22, 09:28
I'm going to have him meet maybe a couple of guys at a time and introduce you to the girl all at once. Are you guys concerned about meeting each other would be a question? Or do you prefer meeting the girl and my friend alone? Her safety is my most important to me and I trust the guys judgement. Shoot some feedback on this thread please. Not trying to have my in blocks explode.Definitely curious about this as a future option still.

NflMongerv2
10-16-22, 09:50
I landed a civilian recently amd wanted to report back.

On a Wednesday night I stopped for drinks at the Millers Ale House in Tinseltown off Southside Blvd. Place was crowded but got a chair at the outside bar. After a few minutes a "girl next door" looking late 20's looking young lady sat next to me. I made some silly remark that made her giggle so we started talking. I bought her a drink then she got me one. She really seemed cool. At one point we were talking about having to do side work to pay the bills. I told her I clean cars to bring in extra money, she laughed and said I won't believe what she wants to start doing to make money. I say to tell me and I won't judge! She then says she loves sex and wants to sell sex!! I do a dramatic pause. Look at her in the eyes knod my head and say " oh yeah? Well she sees my interest and offers some fun. Well I quickly pay my tab and invite her to my truck. She gave a great BBJ in the parking lot for 40. She gave me a number but it is disconnected. I think there are lots of girls like this now.

-NFM.

Formula One
10-17-22, 07:55
Great report and well played at the bar. I have done this a few times, and used to buy a girl drinks in Charlottesville VA at BWW's and she would suck and swallow for her tab. But well done. That's how it's done. Too bad the number didn't work out, but it may just need to be reloaded with new funds.


I landed a civilian recently amd wanted to report back.

On a Wednesday night I stopped for drinks at the Millers Ale House in Tinseltown off Southside Blvd. Place was crowded but got a chair at the outside bar. After a few minutes a "girl next door" looking late 20's looking young lady sat next to me. I made some silly remark that made her giggle so we started talking. I bought her a drink then she got me one. She really seemed cool. At one point we were talking about having to do side work to pay the bills. I told her I clean cars to bring in extra money, she laughed and said I won't believe what she wants to start doing to make money. I say to tell me and I won't judge! She then says she loves sex and wants to sell sex!! I do a dramatic pause. Look at her in the eyes knod my head and say " oh yeah? Well she sees my interest and offers some fun. Well I quickly pay my tab and invite her to my truck. She gave a great BBJ in the parking lot for 40. She gave me a number but it is disconnected. I think there are lots of girls like this now.

-NFM.

BigLipps145
02-15-23, 23:56
There are some good posts about picking up girls at bars. I know it is not easy. I would like to know if anyone has had good luck recently and where they go. I am coming to town in a few weeks and need some direction.

Thanks.

LolBoat
02-25-23, 12:31
I landed a civilian recently amd wanted to report back.

On a Wednesday night I stopped for drinks at the Millers Ale House in Tinseltown off Southside Blvd. Place was crowded but got a chair at the outside bar. After a few minutes a "girl next door" looking late 20's looking young lady sat next to me. I made some silly remark that made her giggle so we started talking. I bought her a drink then she got me one. She really seemed cool. At one point we were talking about having to do side work to pay the bills. I told her I clean cars to bring in extra money, she laughed and said I won't believe what she wants to start doing to make money. I say to tell me and I won't judge! She then says she loves sex and wants to sell sex!! I do a dramatic pause. Look at her in the eyes knod my head and say " oh yeah? Well she sees my interest and offers some fun. Well I quickly pay my tab and invite her to my truck. She gave a great BBJ in the parking lot for 40. She gave me a number but it is disconnected. I think there are lots of girls like this now.

-NFM.I don't think she was a civilian though.

Getcha
02-25-23, 16:39
There are some good posts about picking up girls at bars. I know it is not easy. I would like to know if anyone has had good luck recently and where they go. I am coming to town in a few weeks and need some direction.

Thanks.What kind of girls are your type? I don't go to the beach bars, but if you're looking for liberal or hippy girls, Riverside is where you want to be. There is a heavy gay population in this area though. In no particular order:

King Street bars: The Loft, Rogue, Keg and' Coin, The Garage, Mickie's, Brewz.

Five Points bars: Root Down, Birdies, Wall Street Lounge, Brew, Rain Dogs.

LolBoat
02-26-23, 15:10
The sugar sites are becoming more mainstream and the quality of girls on there is declining alot.

There has to be a better way to do this and trying to convince cam girls to meet is a waste of time.

LikoLottaPuss
02-28-23, 01:49
What kind of girls are your type? I don't go to the beach bars, but if you're looking for liberal or hippy girls, Riverside is where you want to be. There is a heavy gay population in this area though. In no particular order:

King Street bars: The Loft, Rogue, Keg and' Coin, The Garage, Mickie's, Brewz.

Five Points bars: Root Down, Birdies, Wall Street Lounge, Brew, Rain Dogs.Don't forget Locals, San Marco on the wknds. Lots of drunk girls there.

LikoLottaPuss
02-28-23, 01:58
Sounds like rewatching a couple of Steve Carrel movies would be enlightening: 40 Year Old Virgin and Crazy Stupid Love.

Big take away is don't be a jerk or narcicist.Women love a confident man, and they love to laugh and most intelligent women love to be engaged in conversation. Just don't dominate the entire convo. Sounds like you got the job thing going for you. They want to know you can provide for them too. IMHO they also like a cheesy pick up line. Just don't be a creep or too forward about it. Be confident articulate and interesting. Unless your real good looking, then all you need is $ LOL.

DonJon
05-16-23, 11:25
So I golf regularly at a few places around jacksonville. I've noticed that many of the 20 something cart girls seem to be up for more than serving a beer on the course.

Has anyone had any such luck with this type of environment?

My friends at deerwood golf club seem to have luck out there.

Interested in hearing anything you guys?

- DonJon.

ThrockMorton20
05-30-23, 20:00
I don't think she was a civilian though.This sounds like a very good sign of things to cum. Pre-Covid, I had so many extremely normal, nice, young beautiful college-aged and up to 40-somethings in the truck all the time! Glad to hear it might be coming back, but now, as a retired guy, I'm like so disconnected from the world. At 62. I need to get out more!