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BestNtheWorld
07-19-20, 09:18
I've noticed there isn't any activity on this board for SB's in Memphis. How is the sugar bowl in this area? Any intel on real SB's?

Satyrrical
07-19-20, 19:41
I've had a few. It can be a PITA, but sometimes the search is fun. If you are into multiple hour visits then it can be cost effective vs a regular escort.

BestNtheWorld
07-20-20, 22:29
I've had a few. It can be a PITA, but sometimes the search is fun. If you are into multiple hour visits then it can be cost effective vs a regular escort.I don't mind playing the game and searching. I find it fun and all part of the experience. I prefer SB's it's just the matter of finding one that's on the same page and isn't ashamed to play the game.

HornDawgs
08-19-20, 15:51
I've had some success on there, been a little lame laterly as the girls all want to do "online only" until the virus is gone. Anyone ever able to get this girl to the bed? I chatted her up a bit but couldn't get a commit to meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/73989b04-954a-4223-8368-108f88adb383

Satyrrical
08-19-20, 15:57
I've had some success on there, been a little lame laterly as the girls all want to do "online only" until the virus is gone. Anyone ever able to get this girl to the bed? I chatted her up a bit but couldn't get a commit to meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/73989b04-954a-4223-8368-108f88adb383Strikes me as TGTBT. One of those accounts that will request gas money to meet or grocery money for nieces. No intention of meeting and probably a dude using fake pics sitting in Peru.

HornDawgs
08-19-20, 17:35
Strikes me as TGTBT. One of those accounts that will request gas money to meet or grocery money for nieces. No intention of meeting and probably a dude using fake pics sitting in Peru.Oh yeah, you would think so but I found her on social media and stuff, kind of a local "model" so lots of pics out there and lives in MS.

ShortBusGus
10-24-21, 15:47
Here is some info on just a couple of women on Seeking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d90adca4-94d6-427e-a1af-727698e193fe

Cute, little 5'-0" blonde mom type. Only met up with her one time for lunch. I guess I made a good impression on her because she BBBJ with cim in my car in the parking lot. Only paid for lunch.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9ca8c21f-b489-41b9-9b20-f2e8dd2dd9a0

She's wants a pay for play type deal where you can meet her as many times as you need. She's currently not working at the moment but she says she is going back to school in January.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3c7f0d30-1da1-49e6-b06b-470e9838809c

Haven't pulled the trigger on this one. Been chatting but she is down to have adult fun and expects to be gifted $$.

BlackCandleJon
10-25-21, 12:03
No luck there lately.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c90647e4-7f21-4d06-9bea-e532af55e013

Had some good hopes for this one because during the texting she mentioned she was at a hotel room, but she never agreed on a gift or a time to meet, kept giving excuses that another friend was there.

Later on saw her on stg.

She kept contacting me and ask to cashapp for this and that which of course didn't happen.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/8ee211dc-8d3d-4fed-b975-7a677bda9056

Same girl in person but wants an upfront allowance of 2,000 +.

WTF.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/ddb77273-8927-4489-b59f-0c7691443d6d

Ghosted me the day of the meet and greet after we had talked and texted and agreed on everything about the arrangement. Smh.

ShortBusGus
10-25-21, 18:00
https://members.seeking.com/member/41a86d08-d620-427a-a8cc-d455c795472e

Been texting with this one today. She's real. Looking for a $300-$400 donation. Could be talked down to $200, but you would have to get the room. Says she's free during the day.

ShortBusGus
10-26-21, 09:07
Any one have any intel on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c340fe77-1d46-473d-90c7-8904c09a07b7

Quienyo
10-27-21, 14:39
Any one have any intel on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c340fe77-1d46-473d-90c7-8904c09a07b7Started off good and was going to have me over to see her, but then said she needed 80 upfront before she'd give the address. To make sure she's safe or whatever. I told her no thank you, so she changed to wanting 30 in gas money up front to go to a hotel. I blocked her at that point.

Lshllc
11-01-21, 15:42
Any one have any intel on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c340fe77-1d46-473d-90c7-8904c09a07b7Same here, ended up blocking her.

SavageThing
11-03-21, 13:44
https://members.seeking.com/member/1593460d-9086-4e72-af81-a174c709d8b2

She's a looker. I think she's pricey. Anyone?

BlackCandleJon
11-03-21, 15:03
https://members.seeking.com/member/1593460d-9086-4e72-af81-a174c709d8b2

She's a looker. I think she's pricey. Anyone?I think she is fake, I texted her 2 months ago and I remember her pictures being different than the the ones she has up now.

Probably one of them that wants an advance or money sent.

ShortBusGus
11-04-21, 10:33
She is real but not worth anyone time. Based on her profile, I strongly believe she suffers from GPS. (Golden Pussy Syndrome).


https://members.seeking.com/member/1593460d-9086-4e72-af81-a174c709d8b2

She's a looker. I think she's pricey. Anyone?

ShortBusGus
11-05-21, 14:14
https://members.seeking.com/member/4dd5792c-3aae-4742-91d6-e681938d8344

Total flake. Lives out in Somerville. She wanted $300 to meet for lunch, then $600 for shenanigans. Claims she is "flat broke and in a bad situation. " I politely declined.

Lshllc
11-07-21, 18:01
She is real but not worth anyone time. Based on her profile, I strongly believe she suffers from GPS. (Golden Pussy Syndrome).Looking for $3 k / mo, at least that's what she said she got from her last arrangement until dude's wife found out.

IceDogCereal
11-10-21, 10:26
I had an easy setup with Rayne. We had met before when she was on Secret Benefits so we did not need a meet and greet. We met up at a notel in West Memphis and enjoyed our session. I wish she would have visited a little more-this is one reason I use the sugar sites- but we had a nice time. She provided BBBJ and covered FS for a reasonable. Allowance. She has put on a little baby weight since her photos were taken, but she is attractive and carries the pounds well with no damage. She used to be thin and tight bodied but now is grown up. I really like her pierced nipples and snug snatch.

BlackCandleJon
11-10-21, 12:40
I had an easy setup with Rayne. We had met before when she was on Secret Benefits so we did not need a meet and greet. We met up at a notel in West Memphis and enjoyed our session. I wish she would have visited a little more-this is one reason I use the sugar sites- but we had a nice time. She provided BBBJ and covered FS for a reasonable. Allowance. She has put on a little baby weight since her photos were taken, but she is attractive and carries the pounds well with no damage. She used to be thin and tight bodied but now is grown up. I really like her pierced nipples and snug snatch.Hey can you post the link to her SA profile?

There is no way to search by username or keyword there.

Or PM me, I have some info to share if you want to.

BlackCandleJon
11-10-21, 12:52
I'm currently without a reliable UTR or SB so been surfing the SA pages.

Blueyes.

https://members.seeking.com/member/533512de-4ce6-4b41-ab0c-bd0db7fdddd5

A lot of texting but no action, finally said she wants 500 so I passed.

Princess Siren.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9dc2538f-30bf-46c4-8bd8-735f85d5f209

Trying to meet her Friday, have not agreed on an allowance but seems to know what this is about, will see if it pans out 🙌127995;.

Lilemma.

https://members.seeking.com/member/dabe923a-2b85-458a-96f8-b37f799552a6

A bit shy but turned out to be a good dream, really throwing back that nice 🍑.

Couldn't get to go lower than 350.

Seekingsouls.

https://members.seeking.com/member/51aa96b1-3e66-4e59-b5a9-80889fa228d8

She is actually an escort and has a post on tryst, going to try through there because on SA she doesn't respond.

Lshllc
11-11-21, 12:35
Hey can you post the link to her SA profile?

There is no way to search by username or keyword there.

Or PM me, I have some info to share if you want to.If you scroll to the very bottom of the search bar, you'll see a box where you can type in the name you are looking for. I was able to find her yesterday by using it. Love to hear what info you have to share re SA. Feel free to PM me. Thanks!

ShortBusGus
11-11-21, 21:05
Any info on her.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/sent/52acd4dd-5f20-4287-ad6a-dc5909dee422

She has a room at the Motel 6 on Union downtown.

Cruiser45
11-13-21, 00:16
Any update on Princess Siren?


I'm currently without a reliable UTR or SB so been surfing the SA pages.

Blueyes.

https://members.seeking.com/member/533512de-4ce6-4b41-ab0c-bd0db7fdddd5

A lot of texting but no action, finally said she wants 500 so I passed.

Princess Siren.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9dc2538f-30bf-46c4-8bd8-735f85d5f209

Trying to meet her Friday, have not agreed on an allowance but seems to know what this is about, will see if it pans out 🙌127995;.

Lilemma.

https://members.seeking.com/member/dabe923a-2b85-458a-96f8-b37f799552a6

A bit shy but turned out to be a good dream, really throwing back that nice 🍑.

Couldn't get to go lower than 350.

Seekingsouls.

https://members.seeking.com/member/51aa96b1-3e66-4e59-b5a9-80889fa228d8

She is actually an escort and has a post on tryst, going to try through there because on SA she doesn't respond.

Cruiser45
11-13-21, 00:28
Just curious, only saw her one time? What gives?


Here is some info on just a couple of women on Seeking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d90adca4-94d6-427e-a1af-727698e193fe

Cute, little 5'-0" blonde mom type. Only met up with her one time for lunch. I guess I made a good impression on her because she BBBJ with cim in my car in the parking lot. Only paid for lunch.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9ca8c21f-b489-41b9-9b20-f2e8dd2dd9a0

She's wants a pay for play type deal where you can meet her as many times as you need. She's currently not working at the moment but she says she is going back to school in January.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3c7f0d30-1da1-49e6-b06b-470e9838809c

Haven't pulled the trigger on this one. Been chatting but she is down to have adult fun and expects to be gifted $$.

ShortBusGus
11-13-21, 12:40
Just curious, only saw her one time? What gives?To be honest, I kinda dropped the ball on that one. I had another sugar baby I was pursuing, and I just never got back in touch with her.

Lshllc
11-16-21, 13:56
Latina Queen.

Went through the "getting to know you" messages before she said her husband wanted to watch or join. Not into that, but some may be. Agreed to see me alone, but haven't pulled the trigger yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/77548d2e-0a0b-436d-b9dd-fcc037473f1b

India.

Very nice. Way overvalued herself. Told her good luck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/de38e92a-00e4-486b-a916-7ff476379bca

ShortBusGus
11-16-21, 20:40
More SA tidbits.

Emmamar36.

This one is a complete waste of time. Used to dance at The Pony, used to getting her way. Total flake. This is her 3rd profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f16cb898-475c-4391-b207-b086c29a8339

Marie.

This one wanted $100 just to meet for coffee.

From her message:

"Would you be interested in meeting me over coffee for $100 cash or venmo following our introduction?

Hard pass. Please for the love of God, do NOT pay anyone on Seeking for the initial meet & greet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ea3beb9d-273e-47f3-ac02-d7282d80d596

Beneficialsky.

This one started off about how bad her life is. How rents due, car troubles, etc. I got a feeling she would always be asking for money at every opportunity. Too much drama for me. The Sugar Baby is supposed to be fun and exciting, a stress relief.

https://members.seeking.com/member/04a08a4a-831d-4604-b4c4-f2996f935a6a


Latina Queen.

Went through the "getting to know you" messages before she said her husband wanted to watch or join. Not into that, but some may be. Agreed to see me alone, but haven't pulled the trigger yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/77548d2e-0a0b-436d-b9dd-fcc037473f1b

India.

Very nice. Way overvalued herself. Told her good luck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/de38e92a-00e4-486b-a916-7ff476379bca

Lshllc
11-17-21, 14:33
More SA tidbits.

Emmamar36.

This one is a complete waste of time. Used to dance at The Pony, used to getting her way. Total flake. This is her 3rd profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f16cb898-475c-4391-b207-b086c29a8339

Marie.

This one wanted $100 just to meet for coffee.

From her message:

"Would you be interested in meeting me over coffee for $100 cash or venmo following our introduction?

Hard pass. Please for the love of God, do NOT pay anyone on Seeking for the initial meet & greet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ea3beb9d-273e-47f3-ac02-d7282d80d596

Beneficialsky.

This one started off about how bad her life is. How rents due, car troubles, etc. I got a feeling she would always be asking for money at every opportunity. Too much drama for me. The Sugar Baby is supposed to be fun and exciting, a stress relief.

https://members.seeking.com/member/04a08a4a-831d-4604-b4c4-f2996f935a6aFunny, a lot of these I have already blocked for the same reasons you mentioned.

I did meet with Marie for coffee meet and greet. Wasn't attracted. She must have talked about rock climbing for 95% of the time we were there. She texted me afterwards telling me she wanted $100 for her time. I just sent it to her because I didn't want problems with SA. It's pretty easy for them to report you and you get kicked off. Told her not to contact me again.

Working on a few others. I'll post once I know more.

Memdal
11-17-21, 19:01
Funny, a lot of these I have already blocked for the same reasons you mentioned.

I did meet with Marie for coffee meet and greet. Wasn't attracted. She must have talked about rock climbing for 95% of the time we were there. She texted me afterwards telling me she wanted $100 for her time. I just sent it to her because I didn't want problems with SA. It's pretty easy for them to report you and you get kicked off. Told her not to contact me again.

Working on a few others. I'll post once I know more.These girls are supposed to be there to help us Get Our Rocks Off, not talk about real rocks. Thanks for the report.

Skello
11-17-21, 19:04
How do you guys normally set up a meet is it better to be upfront about the allowance or just get to know them better first? I tried the latter for most of them to end in no reply or getting the number but flakey dates. It's like they want you to treat them like an UTR.

Lshllc
11-17-21, 23:03
How do you guys normally set up a meet is it better to be upfront about the allowance or just get to know them better first? I tried the latter for most of them to end in no reply or getting the number but flakey dates. It's like they want you to treat them like an UTR.I tend to let them drive that discussion. They always ask. I just respond that I can be flexible and what are they thinking or what are they comfortable with. You'll get answers all over the board, but you will know before you actually waste time meeting with them if they are unrealistic. If they throw out a high number, and they often do, I just tell them that I have had a few "arrangements" and what they are asking is significantly higher than what you have found with other people on the site. They'll either say ok and adjust their sights or they'll ghost you. Again, at least you will know at that point. Its a crap shoot and a lot of people have way too high an opinion of themselves. You have to weed through a ton of garbage to find something worthwhile. That's why I'll spend a month on, find someone or two and then get off the site for a while. Once I have run through all my options, I'll head back over a few months later and see what's new. It does appear that the new login verification has kept some, not all, of the bots and scammers away, at least for now. Good luck!

BossManJb87
11-18-21, 00:42
Been talking off and on with the Latina Queen. Initially wanted $400 for us to meet up and fuck. Told her that was over priced and then we somehow got on the subject of me, her, her husband, and my wife meeting up. That never materialized. Then randomly she will text me to meet up but then ghosts as the dates get closer.


Latina Queen.

Went through the "getting to know you" messages before she said her husband wanted to watch or join. Not into that, but some may be. Agreed to see me alone, but haven't pulled the trigger yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/77548d2e-0a0b-436d-b9dd-fcc037473f1b


India.

Very nice. Way overvalued herself. Told her good luck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/de38e92a-00e4-486b-a916-7ff476379bca

Yes I figured that with India. We chatted a bit and I told her what I wanted and she told me she would pass. We never got to the allowance part.

Lshllc
11-18-21, 13:31
Been talking off and on with the Latina Queen. Initially wanted $400 for us to meet up and fuck. Told her that was over priced and then we somehow got on the subject of me, her, her husband, and my wife meeting up. That never materialized. Then randomly she will text me to meet up but then ghosts as the dates get closer.



Yes I figured that with India. We chatted a bit and I told her what I wanted and she told me she would pass. We never got to the allowance part.Good info. Same thing happened with Latina. Agreed on a price similar to you and she ghosted the day of. I guess I'll never get it why so many of them do that. Thanks for sharing info.

BlackCandleJon
11-19-21, 11:00
Good info. Same thing happened with Latina. Agreed on a price similar to you and she ghosted the day of. I guess I'll never get it why so many of them do that. Thanks for sharing info.Similar outcome with my interaction with Latina, some chit chat first then she gets down to biz talk, asks if I have a gf or know someone that might be interested in foursomes.

Said yes just to see if she was going to come through, even sent her a picture of her.

More convo on the subject finally Latina wants to do a meet and greet the next day but ghosted me that morning and since then.

That Latina is one girl you can't please, just pure BS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/77548d2e-0a0b-436d-b9dd-fcc037473f1b

BlackCandleJon
11-19-21, 11:34
Persistence finally paid off, after dozens of messages and hours putting up with the fakes, undecided and drama queens found some sweet sugar.

Not going into details of the meets just the general info but the legwork is done for those interested.

Haizleigh (3rd pic).

https://members.seeking.com/member/fb336b1a-ca1a-4a13-a08a-aaf2ad8d03a4

Friendly texting and didn't waste much time getting to the important topics, wanted 400 and during meet and greet was able to talk her down to 300.

Had to get a place because she doesn't host, time was unrushed and definitely GFE.

Nice MILF body, better than many younger girls; only but is bigger man made boobs because my preference is medium size natural ones. Pics are accurate except for the boobs which are bigger than what you see.

Bombshell (middle pic).

https://members.seeking.com/member/41a86d08-d620-427a-a8cc-d455c795472e

Wanted 400 too, it seems they are all agreeing to that.

A bit older than Haizleigh but similar GFE experience, didn't need a meet and greet because we worked out the details over phone text and video call.

She accepted 300 but kept bringing up that she usually gets more. She doesn't host either and has better availability than the previous one.

Emerald Jade (1st pic).

https://members.seeking.com/member/72594162-f242-4fca-b1b3-1e4ee7bbcc1b

Girl matches the pics, nice MILF body with round firm bottom and the biggest rack of all 3.

Very steamy session but required an expensive meet and greet at an upscale restaurant.

Doesn't host either and she said her expectations for a gift started at 300. Gave her 350 just because I had a good time before the intimacy as well.

GFE for me is uninhibited kissing and public display of affection, uncovered oral giving and receiving and covered everything else.

All 3 are good options, I wish I could see them all alternating each time but unless I win the lottery it definitely isn't happening.

Not sure who I'm going to repeat with next and keep long term.

Decisions, decisions, decisions.

Final comments, my experience isn’t going to necessarily be the same for y’all. It may be better or it may be worse or none at all!
Don’t be immature and approach these or any other girls trying to get them to lower their $ expectations by saying that you know they do it for less with others, use your intelligence and charm, these girls aren’t street walkers or escort Babylon posters.
They are regular moms and possibly single parents.
Having said that if they wanted more than what I gave them I would look elsewhere, I can only afford certain things and I’m at peace with that.

BossManJb87
11-19-21, 19:15
I can back you up on the bombshell review. We was able to work everything out through text. Drove to my hotel and we got straight to business. True GFE and really got into it as well which I liked told her all of my requirements and she met them with no questions asked during the session. I will repeat in a month or so once I have saved up again. LOL.

As far as the other 2 thanks for that. I will spark a convo with them and see if we can stike a deal. Will report back my findings.


Persistence finally paid off, after dozens of messages and hours putting up with the fakes, undecided and drama queens found some sweet sugar.

Not going into details of the meets just the general info but the legwork is done for those interested.

Haizleigh (3rd pic).

https://members.seeking.com/member/fb336b1a-ca1a-4a13-a08a-aaf2ad8d03a4

Friendly texting and didn't waste much time getting to the important topics, wanted 400 and during meet and greet was able to talk her down to 300.

Had to get a place because she doesn't host, time was unrushed and definitely GFE.

Nice MILF body, better than many younger girls; only but is bigger man made boobs because my preference is medium size natural ones. Pics are accurate except for the boobs which are bigger than what you see.

Bombshell (middle pic).

https://members.seeking.com/member/41a86d08-d620-427a-a8cc-d455c795472e

Wanted 400 too, it seems they are all agreeing to that.

A bit older than Haizleigh but similar GFE experience, didn't need a meet and greet because we worked out the details over phone text and video call.

She accepted 300 but kept bringing up that she usually gets more. She doesn't host either and has better availability than the previous one.

Emerald Jade (1st pic).

https://members.seeking.com/member/72594162-f242-4fca-b1b3-1e4ee7bbcc1b

Girl matches the pics, nice MILF body with round firm bottom and the biggest rack of all 3.

Very steamy session but required an expensive meet and greet at an upscale restaurant.

Doesn't host either and she said her expectations for a gift started at 300. Gave her 350 just because I had a good time before the intimacy as well.

GFE for me is uninhibited kissing and public display of affection, uncovered oral giving and receiving and covered everything else.

All 3 are good options, I wish I could see them all alternating each time but unless I win the lottery it definitely isn't happening.

Not sure who I'm going to repeat with next and keep long term.

Decisions, decisions, decisions.

Final comments, my experience isnt going to necessarily be the same for yall. It may be better or it may be worse or none at all!
Dont be immature and approach these or any other girls trying to get them to lower their $ expectations by saying that you know they do it for less with others, use your intelligence and charm, these girls arent street walkers or escort Babylon posters.
They are regular moms and possibly single parents.
Having said that if they wanted more than what I gave them I would look elsewhere, I can only afford certain things and Im at peace with that.

BossManJb87
11-19-21, 19:30
After reading your review I clicked on Marie's profile and decided to pass. Sometime later I guess she seen that I viewed her profile and she decides to send me a message. We chat and she tells me what she is seeking and I do the same. I told her in graphic detail what I wanted her to do and how to perform in the bedroom and that she needs to tell me what will it take to make it happen and she tells me she is still interested and wants to meet for coffee. Told her I was skeptic to meet for coffee when she can just tell me now what her allowance needs to be for us to both be happy. Told her I don't mind doing a meet and greet so that she feels more comfortable with me but I don't want to meet and I don't like her allowance request. Plus I knew from your review that she likes to ask for $100 just to meet but of course I didn't tell her that.

She stop responding to me after that. LOL.

BossManJb87
11-19-21, 19:31
Senior Member.

Posts: 142.

Marie is interesting.

After reading your review I clicked on Marie's profile and decided to pass. Sometime later I guess she seen that I viewed her profile and she decides to send me a message. We chat and she tells me what she is seeking and I do the same. I told her in graphic detail what I wanted her to do and how to perform in the bedroom and that she needs to tell me what will it take to make it happen and she tells me she is still interested and wants to meet for coffee. Told her I was skeptic to meet for coffee when she can just tell me now what her allowance needs to be for us to both be happy. Told her I don't mind doing a meet and greet so that she feels more comfortable with me but I don't want to meet and I don't like her allowance request. Plus I knew from your review that she likes to ask for $100 just to meet but of course I didn't tell her that.

She stop responding to me after that. LOL.


Funny, a lot of these I have already blocked for the same reasons you mentioned.

I did meet with Marie for coffee meet and greet. Wasn't attracted. She must have talked about rock climbing for 95% of the time we were there. She texted me afterwards telling me she wanted $100 for her time. I just sent it to her because I didn't want problems with SA. It's pretty easy for them to report you and you get kicked off. Told her not to contact me again.

Working on a few others. I'll post once I know more.

BossManJb87
11-19-21, 20:57
During our second or third time trying to link I too sent a pic of my wife just to see if she will finally meet up and agreed to play but ghosted me the day of.

I am now starting to thinking how often she is ghosting us, either she or her husband or both get off on the fact of potentially getting fucked and then when the day comes to actually meet up they just go somewhere and just play by themselves. LOL.


Similar outcome with my interaction with Latina, some chit chat first then she gets down to biz talk, asks if I have a gf or know someone that might be interested in foursomes.

Said yes just to see if she was going to come through, even sent her a picture of her.

More convo on the subject finally Latina wants to do a meet and greet the next day but ghosted me that morning and since then.

That Latina is one girl you can't please, just pure BS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/77548d2e-0a0b-436d-b9dd-fcc037473f1b

BlackCandleJon
11-21-21, 16:44
I happened to be in Little Rock for a week and was able to sample the sugar over there.

The stage is pretty much the same as here in Memphis except there is a majority of white women on the site whereas in Memphis it's a mixed bag with AA's, whites and others.

There's some scammers and time wasters over there as well but it wasn't as hard to find the real ones. If I had more resources I would have definitely tried more.

Breanna.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e2f94c0e-10c0-4538-9a0d-eb373a6e3f58

Same process as in Memphis, some texting on the site, then on the phone followed by a meet and greet and from there to the fun part.

Her initial ask was exorbitant and I was ready to say no thanks but she took my offer for half of what she wanted.

I felt really comfortable at her place and throughout the visit, the only gripe is that I lasted only a few minutes, usually I can go over 10 or even 15 minutes but I must have been too horny that time.

She got on top and rode me so good I couldn't hold it when I felt it coming.

At 350 I feel like I should have had more time but the little head was knocked out so I just cleaned up and left.

Cruiser45
12-02-21, 15:03
Chatted with JayG2020- blew me off when she found out I seek ppm. From our conversations she's dtf and freaky. One of you with a larger budget may find gold. LOL.

Use search function amd enter her name. Couldn't get link to post here.

Thee are many on SA who will agree to Ppm. It's a chore to chat and make the connection as many have a sob story and beg for $.

Satyrrical
12-02-21, 23:30
Glad to see this thread since I've been exclusively doing the SB thing for a few years now. Though there is obvious crossover with the strictly hobby gals and SA gals. Scarlett being a prime example. Though in the Memphis area it really seems to have dried up lately. No pun intended. Still have 2 steady babies in Memphis. Currently visiting NE CA and am supposedly meating a late 20's Latina tomorrow night. She seems TGTBT, butt Latin gals are my kryptonite. Was in Spokane several months ago and had the best 2 nights of my life with a Seeking gal. Hope to get back there soon. Happy hunting.

BossManJb87
12-03-21, 13:52
I actually linked up with her about a month ago.

She is legit. We actually did a ppm but I never repeated because she was a lot skinnier than I'd like. True spinner.

Yes you nailed it right on the head. She is a freak and dtf. Even though she has a small frame she has exceptional good BBBJ with plenty of ball play in her mouth as if she was playing in the WNBA LOL.

Pussy is nice and tight but again kind of awkward for me cause of how small and skinny she is.


Chatted with JayG2020- blew me off when she found out I seek ppm. From our conversations she's dtf and freaky. One of you with a larger budget may find gold. LOL.

Use search function amd enter her name. Couldn't get link to post here.

Thee are many on SA who will agree to Ppm. It's a chore to chat and make the connection as many have a sob story and beg for $.

BossManJb87
12-03-21, 14:07
When I say I finally hit the jackpot from a SB with this seeking girl I truly mean that shit.

She is EVERYtHiNG I ever wanted in a SB.

First off she looks 10 times better in person. On the SA website all of her pics are fake except for the one where she is sitting down in a dress with heels on looking down. But just drop dead gorgeous and then she a freak.

Link is below:

https://members.seeking.com/member/3b716198-dd36-466c-af7a-e61f120a4edb

We started with small chat and then worked ourselves up to texting and then meeting up. She was kind of scary at first and requested that I meet up with her at a gas station before she came to my hotel.

Once we got back to my hotel she asked to take a shower. Once out the shower she literally with the clothes off looks exactly like your favorite black pornstar from head to toe. She laid me on the bed and started with some nice slow kissing while stroking my cock.

Then after kissing she asks me do I like getting my dick Sucked by my own little ****. I said proudly YES. She then moved down and delivered the best BBBJ with ball play I ever had. Talking dirty in-between moments when she came up for air. A lot of spit and moaning like that was her fav part of the session, sucking and deep throating just like the pornos. After a nice long session I told her I need to fuck her now before I explode prematurely in her mouth.

She gets up turns around and I fuck and pounded the shit out of her and she looked so dam good from the back. Kept the heels on upon my request. After doggy I pounded away in missionary and then she kept on talking soft and dirty until I told her I'm about to cum and I need her mouth. She gets up and takes the WhOLE dick in her mouth while I'm cumming. I swear the hardest I've ever cum in my life.

This one actually took the cake for me. I plan to cut the other SB off cause none of them to date have been able to meet ALL of my requirements like this one.

Damage was 3 Benjamin's but literally worth every penny.

Satyrrical
12-03-21, 20:37
Guess I need to quit blocking girls when we don't click since I have yet to click one of y’all’s links that works for me. 🤪 Reduces the clutter though.

Satyrrical
12-04-21, 13:41
Definitely still some gems out there, especially outside the Memphis area. My meating last night in CA was awesome. 300 where she stayed 3 hours. Wasn't quite as gorgeous as her pics were, butt her spinner body was banging, and she was a sex starved fucking machine.

Cruiser45
12-04-21, 14:03
Small and skinny works for me, mind sharing the amount of your donation? TIA.


I actually linked up with her about a month ago.

She is legit. We actually did a ppm but I never repeated because she was a lot skinnier than I'd like. True spinner.

Yes you nailed it right on the head. She is a freak and dtf. Even though she has a small frame she has exceptional good BBBJ with plenty of ball play in her mouth as if she was playing in the WNBA LOL.

Pussy is nice and tight but again kind of awkward for me cause of how small and skinny she is.

BossManJb87
12-04-21, 14:35
Sure no problem.

She quoted $150 for the hour.


Small and skinny works for me, mind sharing the amount of your donation? TIA.

BlackCandleJon
12-05-21, 18:51
Sure no problem.

She quoted $150 for the hour.Has anyone successfully located this sugar baby JayG using a Search function in seeking and NOT having had any contact with her before?

I must be doing something wrong because when I use Search it returns a message of Member not found.

Or only if you have already messaged that member the search function returns the find.

PM is fine.

Lshllc
12-05-21, 21:21
Has anyone successfully located this sugar baby JayG using a Search function in seeking and NOT having had any contact with her before?

I must be doing something wrong because when I use Search it returns a message of Member not found.

Or only if you have already messaged that member the search function returns the find.

PM is fine.I found her. She may have filters on her end that prevent some from finding her, like age, race, body type, net worth, etc, similar to how we filter for girls that come up in our searches. If that's not it, just ensure that you only have her name in the bottom box and nothing else checked. Search in Memphis and put a 100 mile radius in. She should come up.

Lshllc
12-05-21, 21:40
Has anyone successfully located this sugar baby JayG using a Search function in seeking and NOT having had any contact with her before?

I must be doing something wrong because when I use Search it returns a message of Member not found.

Or only if you have already messaged that member the search function returns the find.

PM is fine.Also, her handle is JayG2020 . Even though JayG should pull her up, type it in just like I just did, caps and all and see if that gets it.

BossManJb87
12-05-21, 23:02
That is correct I had to type in her entire screen name as well in order to pull her up. I will also plan to PM you additional contact info for her as well BlackCandleJon


Also, her handle is JayG2020 . Even though JayG should pull her up, type it in just like I just did, caps and all and see if that gets it.

ShortBusGus
12-05-21, 23:28
https://members.seeking.com/member/7bbeaf70-2511-4f2b-b6ed-bbda1bb288d9


That is correct I had to type in her entire screen name as well in order to pull her up. I will also plan to PM you additional contact info for her as well BlackCandleJon

BlackCandleJon
12-07-21, 15:22
https://members.seeking.com/member/7bbeaf70-2511-4f2b-b6ed-bbda1bb288d9Thanks for the link and help!

I seen her post on the Babylon site as well!

Lshllc
12-08-21, 20:29
So, I got curious and built a fake female profile for SA due to a conversation I had with one of the babies I was talking to. Found out a few interesting things. First, and not surprising, their memberships are like $20/ month.

Secondly, I sent my profile a message from the fake profile I set up. It shows sent in the fake profile, but I never got it in my inbox. Third, I viewed and favorited my real profile from fake profile and it never shows that in my real profile. Fourth, I tried t video call from fake profile to real profile and it said that I wasn't eligible to receive video calls or I had that feature turned off.

Anyhow, that it was strange. Anyone else do anything similar with different results. I'm wondering if I'm getting all the messages and things for the 100 I pay a month to be a member.

IndyFun99
12-08-21, 21:40
So, I got curious and built a fake female profile for SA due to a conversation I had with one of the babies I was talking to. Found out a few interesting things. First, and not surprising, their memberships are like $20/ month.

Secondly, I sent my profile a message from the fake profile I set up. It shows sent in the fake profile, but I never got it in my inbox. Third, I viewed and favorited my real profile from fake profile and it never shows that in my real profile. Fourth, I tried t video call from fake profile to real profile and it said that I wasn't eligible to receive video calls or I had that feature turned off.

Anyhow, that it was strange. Anyone else do anything similar with different results. I'm wondering if I'm getting all the messages and things for the 100 I pay a month to be a member.Their developers are awful. They have had problems in the past where blocking members didn't actually block them from seeing you, just contacting you. They also had an exploit for the longest time that by viewing the code you could read messages even if you're not a paying member. They don't care about their features working.

Lshllc
12-10-21, 16:58
https://members.seeking.com/member/6874f69e-1943-4824-abae-4b94e4eef9b6

Wants $300 for meet and greet and $1500 for ppm. Nicely declined although her pics, if real, are hot af.

Lshllc
12-13-21, 14:24
Anyone have any experience with Netherlands on SA?

John HandCock
12-13-21, 15:24
So, I got curious and built a fake female profile for SA due to a conversation I had with one of the babies I was talking to. Found out a few interesting things. First, and not surprising, their memberships are like $20/ month.

Secondly, I sent my profile a message from the fake profile I set up. It shows sent in the fake profile, but I never got it in my inbox. Third, I viewed and favorited my real profile from fake profile and it never shows that in my real profile. Fourth, I tried t video call from fake profile to real profile and it said that I wasn't eligible to receive video calls or I had that feature turned off.

Anyhow, that it was strange. Anyone else do anything similar with different results. I'm wondering if I'm getting all the messages and things for the 100 I pay a month to be a member.First off your over thinking this or way to much time on your hands. Girls with college email accounts can become a premium member for free, and if they don't have that they can pay the $20 to become one. Premium allows a few more site advantages as to the general profile. This isn't rocket science and IMHO guys making all these fake profiles is rather creepy. If unhappy with SA then don't pay the membership fee.

Lshllc
12-13-21, 21:55
First off your over thinking this or way to much time on your hands. Girls with college email accounts can become a premium member for free, and if they don't have that they can pay the $20 to become one. Premium allows a few more site advantages as to the general profile. This isn't rocket science and IMHO guys making all these fake profiles is rather creepy. If unhappy with SA then don't pay the membership fee.Hey, I get it. I feel like I should explain. I made the profile to test functionality basically around the messaging function. I immediately hid the profile from view so no one would see it. No sugar daddies were harmed in the creation of this fake account. I got the info I needed and deleted the account.

Satyrrical
12-14-21, 21:57
Current SB suddenly developed a taste for anal. Early Christmas present for me. Ho ho ho y’all.

BlackCandleJon
12-16-21, 18:09
Current SB suddenly developed a taste for anal. Early Christmas present for me. Ho ho ho yall.Satyrrical you lucky son of a gun!

Are you sharing the name or going to keep her all to yourself?

Lshllc
12-17-21, 16:43
You guys may have already figured this out, but if you start communicating outside of the website, ie texting, and they block you on SA, 100% of the time they are trying to scam you. 100% of the time they will ask you to send them money in advance. Seeing more and more of this on that site.

Satyrrical
12-17-21, 21:15
Satyrrical you lucky son of a gun!

Are you sharing the name or going to keep her all to yourself?Sorry. Been seeing her for 2 years now. Don't even remember her SA username, and if I believe her, she's not on the site anymore.

ShortBusGus
12-20-21, 15:26
I've been chatting with her. She's really not my type, but she has 38 H boobs. She says she is bored and all alone in her Southaven hotel room. She quoted me $250 for 1/2 hour no anal.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c0056b21-76cd-44da-bc0e-9a67b5266f31

Satyrrical
12-21-21, 15:09
I've been chatting with her. She's really not my type, but she has 38 H boobs. She says she is bored and all alone in her Southaven hotel room. She quoted me $250 for 1/2 hour no anal.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c0056b21-76cd-44da-bc0e-9a67b5266f31Met her. Definitely on the bigger side, not quite as cute as pics. I don't mind some curves, but she was a bit too big for me. Nice Bush though if you like hair down there. Said some things that implied she was wanting a lot of clients / SDs, so I will not be returning. Prefer to think of SBs as a "private hooker. " Yes, I know I am being naive.

Decent BBBJTC. CFS.

BlackCandleJon
12-22-21, 23:35
Met her. Definitely on the bigger side, not quite as cute as pics. I don't mind some curves, but she was a bit too big for me. Nice Bush though if you like hair down there. Said some things that implied she was wanting a lot of clients / SDs, so I will not be returning. Prefer to think of SBs as a "private hooker. " Yes, I know I am being naive.

Decent BBBJTC. CFS.So she's not the same girl from the pictures?

I hate it when that happens.

Except the one time the real girl was an upgrade from the girl on the pictures. But that happened only once in my lifetime.

And what's the allowance she is expecting?

Satyrrical
12-23-21, 17:01
So she's not the same girl from the pictures?

I hate it when that happens.

Except the one time the real girl was an upgrade from the girl on the pictures. But that happened only once in my lifetime.

And what's the allowance she is expecting?The pics are her but taken from a very flattering angle. I gave 275 "for the hour. " My previous SBs have never mentioned time, which is something I don't put up with from SBs. She was hosting in a motel in Southaven (not an hourly).

Lshllc
12-30-21, 13:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/e77c2edf-4e4e-4a08-b10e-d5f54f195a28

Lexie is a cool girl. Looks like her pics but she wasn't made up at all when I saw her. She looked like she had gotten out of bed, threw on some sweats and showed up. She also was high and pretty giggly. Not a bad experience, but I won't repeat. Lots of tats, braces, but all in all she was nice enough, just not really my speed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e5179c00-edcd-4ef4-aece-915d7d790abf

Hot hot hot! Awesome experience. Thought we hit it off and she was talking about wanting to see me pretty often after we met the first time. Awesome body and good personality. Definitely wanted to see her again, but she went radio silent a few days after we met. She has run with some pretty big hitters around town, so maybe she got back with one of them and they gave her a lot more than I was willing to. Anyhow, would repeat if given the opportunity! DM me if you have seen her.

BossManJb87
12-30-21, 15:46
What was the damage for Lexie?


https://members.seeking.com/member/e77c2edf-4e4e-4a08-b10e-d5f54f195a28

Lexie is a cool girl. Looks like her pics but she wasn't made up at all when I saw her. She looked like she had gotten out of bed, threw on some sweats and showed up. She also was high and pretty giggly. Not a bad experience, but I won't repeat. Lots of tats, braces, but all in all she was nice enough, just not really my speed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e5179c00-edcd-4ef4-aece-915d7d790abf

Hot hot hot! Awesome experience. Thought we hit it off and she was talking about wanting to see me pretty often after we met the first time. Awesome body and good personality. Definitely wanted to see her again, but she went radio silent a few days after we met. She has run with some pretty big hitters around town, so maybe she got back with one of them and they gave her a lot more than I was willing to. Anyhow, would repeat if given the opportunity! DM me if you have seen her.

Lshllc
01-03-22, 14:56
Avoid this one. Asks for money after directing you to contact her on WhatsAPP. 100% of the time, WhatsApp users from this site are going to try and scam you.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3c480755-0dd0-4ddd-9ff1-9ebe6d9a9630

Satyrrical
01-03-22, 23:38
Avoid this one. Asks for money after directing you to contact her on WhatsAPP. 100% of the time, WhatsApp users from this site are going to try and scam you.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3c480755-0dd0-4ddd-9ff1-9ebe6d9a9630Yeah, she looked way TGTBT.

BlackCandleJon
01-04-22, 01:52
Just connected with a young and beautiful girl on SA, I'm in a bind because she requested twice what the usual ask is and that's outrageous, this time the little head was too dumbed down by the sight of that goddess just across the table from me when we met for drinks; it was actually me who consciously had a schizophrenic episode reminiscent of the gollum character…that precious girl had to be mine even if it was only once and for a short time…I went ahead and took the plunge. The dream was as good as I had imagined, a pristine and untainted playground for me, my god the firmness and roundness of that figure!! gravity defied in such a way that Newton would have committed suicide if he saw it, and it was all 100% natural.

Never before I had such difficulties holding back and not shooting a load like that time, her kitty cat was perfectly tight and wet, it tasted better than ice cream.

The climax was perfect too, can't describe it and do justice to what happened or how good it felt.

Was it worth it?

Yes.

Will I do it again? Probably.

For how long is what I don’t know, she even took her profile down because she said she only wants one SD.

I think the exclusiveness, the dream with no limits or restrictions with such an incredibly beautiful and hot girl justifies the allowance; but if I'm realistic it's not something I can afford to keep.

Damn that I am just a working class dog.

Lshllc
01-30-22, 14:43
Probably done with it after this month's membership runs out. Although they are relatively easy to pick out, the amount of scammers on there drive me crazy. I've put in my bio "If you are going to request money prior to meeting me in person, don't waste your time contacting me or responding to my message". Still get plenty that agree to a time / place for a meeting and I the next message or text I get is "Hey, can I ask a favor?" or "I need you to send me $$'s so I know you are serious".

The other gripe I have is being catfished. I'm not terribly picky, but not a fan of BBW. Curves are fine. This girl, and she's nice enough as I got to know her a bit over dinner, classifies herself as "Athletic" on her profile. She's 200+ in my estimation. Plenty of guys out there that like big girls. I'm not one of them. Anyhow, just venting and seeing if others have similar experiences.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9e3d386d-93da-443d-a03f-41c91b70cde0

BlackCandleJon
01-31-22, 17:20
Probably done with it after this month's membership runs out. Although they are relatively easy to pick out, the amount of scammers on there drive me crazy. I've put in my bio "If you are going to request money prior to meeting me in person, don't waste your time contacting me or responding to my message". Still get plenty that agree to a time / place for a meeting and I the next message or text I get is "Hey, can I ask a favor?" or "I need you to send me $$'s so I know you are serious".

The other gripe I have is being catfished. I'm not terribly picky, but not a fan of BBW. Curves are fine. This girl, and she's nice enough as I got to know her a bit over dinner, classifies herself as "Athletic" on her profile. She's 200+ in my estimation. Plenty of guys out there that like big girls. I'm not one of them. Anyhow, just venting and seeing if others have similar experiences.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9e3d386d-93da-443d-a03f-41c91b70cde0Have not renewed in a month and a half. For the $100+ they charge they could do a better job of keeping the scammers and beggar women away, it's wasteful and ruins it for the real ones.

Satyrrical
02-01-22, 11:20
Definitely not having any luck locally (Memphis &#129326. But managing some decent hookups during work travel. A very noticiable reduction in quality female profiles. And another price increase to 110 a month, not really worth it to me.

BlackCandleJon
02-10-22, 16:15
A few months back this thread was lively and with valuable intel.

What is everyone one up to?

Found a good sugar baby?

Share!

Satyrrical
02-15-22, 16:30
A few months back this thread was lively and with valuable intel.

What is everyone one up to?

Found a good sugar baby?

Share!There was a SA profile that looked like someone I knew from Hi Skool, low those many decades ago. It turned out to be her, and we're fucking regularly as she makes it to town. I pay for the room. Not sure she qualifies as SB then.

My regular SB is still going on after 2 years or so about every other week. She's 250 per meet for a couple hours per.

Met someone from AFF a couple years older than me. Petite blonde. We hook up about once a month at her place for free. Never met a woman who liked anal so much. AFF is a much less successful site for me than SA but it really pays off occasionally.

Chatted with a couple younger ones last week since I reupped SA membership with the Valentines Day special. Really too young for my tastes. I like 30-40 yo typically. I'm 54.

BlackCandleJon
02-15-22, 18:34
There was a SA profile that looked like someone I knew from Hi Skool, low those many decades ago. It turned out to be her, and we're fucking regularly as she makes it to town. I pay for the room. Not sure she qualifies as SB then.

My regular SB is still going on after 2 years or so about every other week. She's 250 per meet for a couple hours per.

Met someone from AFF a couple years older than me. Petite blonde. We hook up about once a month at her place for free. Never met a woman who liked anal so much. AFF is a much less successful site for me than SA but it really pays off occasionally.

Chatted with a couple younger ones last week since I reupped SA membership with the Valentines Day special. Really too young for my tastes. I like 30-40 yo typically. I'm 54.I recon you won't want to divulge the digits to the SB or the girl from AFF since you have an active situation there; so How about sharing the link to the younger girls from seeking if you're not needing them?

PM works too.

Lee Co Man
02-15-22, 22:04
I am not sure if this has been mentioned, but if it has I apologize and will touch on it again. Seeking went up on their membership but ran a Valentine's Day special which was basically their full price before they raised the price. I went ahead and re-upped my membership after lapsing it several months and had a ton of messages to reply to and new connections I wanted to make. Spent some time Friday connecting and such, then again Saturday. Woke up Sunday to see what messages I had and had been banned. For using "language indicating prostitution" or something along those lines. I used "pay to play" when talking to a few girls and I am sure Seeking was watching what was being said. Might have been reported, not all the way sure. I had a girl tell me her old profile got banned for her doing the exact same thing. So, word of warning. Do not use pay to play lingo or any such. Make the connection then do that outside Seeking. Me personally, I have no qualms about giving my number out, so having had to do it over, any of these girls I was messaging I would have given her my number quick so they had it. Hope this helps at least one person save their money. Paying that fee for just 2 days was the worst part of the whole deal.

Lshllc
02-16-22, 12:57
I am not sure if this has been mentioned, but if it has I apologize and will touch on it again. Seeking went up on their membership but ran a Valentine's Day special which was basically their full price before they raised the price. I went ahead and re-upped my membership after lapsing it several months and had a ton of messages to reply to and new connections I wanted to make. Spent some time Friday connecting and such, then again Saturday. Woke up Sunday to see what messages I had and had been banned. For using "language indicating prostitution" or something along those lines. I used "pay to play" when talking to a few girls and I am sure Seeking was watching what was being said. Might have been reported, not all the way sure. I had a girl tell me her old profile got banned for her doing the exact same thing. So, word of warning. Do not use pay to play lingo or any such. Make the connection then do that outside Seeking. Me personally, I have no qualms about giving my number out, so having had to do it over, any of these girls I was messaging I would have given her my number quick so they had it. Hope this helps at least one person save their money. Paying that fee for just 2 days was the worst part of the whole deal.Dang, I think PPM is ok and won't get you in trouble if you are able to get back on. Mine lapses in a couple weeks and I'm prob out for good. Better than half the new folks on there are scammers I've found. Not worth the time any longer.

Satyrrical
03-03-22, 18:42
Seems to be a wave of 1 pic profiles with minimal information where the name is in humpback notation with an adjective followed by a noun:

PreciousLady.

ObscureDuchess.

ElegantPlayer.

ConfidentEnthusiast.

Etc.

Site's really going downhill.

Cruiser45
03-04-22, 11:26
I recently paid for membership on SA. The selection is totally changed from last time I was a member. I received likes, messages from fake profile and real girls were tough to find, even tougher to set up meet and greets. Many locations listed with city names same as state, like Illinois, Illinois, Missouri missouri which are of course fake. Also many listed as NY or LA who are "visiting" relatives in our area are fake. I'm done with those sites, easier to find UTR the old fashioned way- clerk at gas station, etc happy searching guys!


Seems to be a wave of 1 pic profiles with minimal information where the name is in humpback notation with an adjective followed by a noun:

PreciousLady.

ObscureDuchess.

ElegantPlayer.

ConfidentEnthusiast.

Etc.

Site's really going downhill.

BlackCandleJon
03-10-22, 00:41
Seems to be a wave of 1 pic profiles with minimal information where the name is in humpback notation with an adjective followed by a noun:

PreciousLady.

ObscureDuchess.

ElegantPlayer.

ConfidentEnthusiast.

Etc.

Site's really going downhill.Be careful with your conversations, the words ppm, pay per date, etc. Will get you banned if reported or they see it, no warning or explanation just the access cut off. No refunds either.

The funny thing is they have so many women profile scammers, that are harassing about a deposit for the sitter, for gas, for the Uber, for the sitter, to make sure I'm serious or real, to pay the phone with threats of not being able and I keep messaging back, the list goes on and they have so many justifications, some asking for just 10 or 20 others for half the allowance upfront.

It is really confounding, it wasn't this bad a year or so ago.

Check out the harassment from someone there. Sigh.

I stopped texting back that girl when she demanded a 150 advance for the gas and sitter to do a meet and greet, but she doesn't take a hint!

Cruiser45
03-10-22, 09:18
And god forbid your profile says something like, since this is not what's your price I'm not paying to meet and see if we click. Homeless and druggies do not appeal to me, I'm not seeking a baby to support, that's called marriage. They just send message saying not approved with no explanation so I had to guess which sentences were not proper. Finally.

Just changed my seeking section of my profile to "younger than me lady, ask me more".

I finally figured out. . Duh, unrealistic me, I want that unicorn UTR, and unrealistic girls want that unicorn man like in the movie Pretty Woman, or a guy to use an ATM. I'm done with those sites, used to meet some fun girls there, now it's nothing but scams and a wallet vac.


Be careful with your conversations, the words ppm, pay per date, etc. Will get you banned if reported or they see it, no warning or explanation just the access cut off. No refunds either.

The funny thing is they have so many women profile scammers, that are harassing about a deposit for the sitter, for gas, for the Uber, for the sitter, to make sure I'm serious or real, to pay the phone with threats of not being able and I keep messaging back, the list goes on and they have so many justifications, some asking for just 10 or 20 others for half the allowance upfront.

It is really confounding, it wasn't this bad a year or so ago.

Check out the harassment from someone there. Sigh.

I stopped texting back that girl when she demanded a 150 advance for the gas and sitter to do a meet and greet, but she doesn't take a hint!

Lshllc
03-21-22, 14:16
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/dcef9332e2b091e8

Here's one for you. I don't think she is really into it for the money. She likes to party. Drinks A LOT, I mean A LOT. Your in with her is if you speak exotic cars, better yet if you own one. McClaren's are her fav, but she's all about fast and foreign.

Satyrrical
05-07-22, 09:15
The last 3 girls I've made it to the money stage of discussion with all wanted 450+. 😳128514;129315;.

Uuuuuh, no.

BlackCandleJon
05-16-22, 14:35
The last 3 girls I've made it to the money stage of discussion with all wanted 450+. 😳128514;129315;.

Uuuuuh, no.Yeah 450 is high, what I am doing is cutting in half the number of visits to be able to afford the current rates.

Mind sharing their SA links?

Pm is ok if you prefer that.

Lshllc
05-25-22, 10:53
Anyone with any communication with this one? GPS for sure, but haven't negotiated yet, just wondering how legit she is if anyone has had any experience with her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ea642dee-7ddc-41a6-8bf2-c019d9fd9313

TrapJ
05-29-22, 16:01
Does anybody know ant sugar mommas in need.

EnigmaCare
07-04-22, 11:02
Does anybody know ant sugar mommas in need.If you decide to play on the sugar baby sites get ready to spend a lot of money. $450 and up is about average now for a hour or two if she is honest. Most of them will talk you into taking her out to eat and shopping. That $450 turns into a thousand very quickly. So you end up with a expensive girlfriend experience with a woman who is not your girlfriend and trying to get every penny she can out of you each visit. There are good women on those sites but most will have a sad story or need money for something they need or want to do. It is kinda the same as with escorts. You want sex. They want money. Only on a more expensive level. Just letting new men know what to expect. Take your time picking who you see, decide how much you will spend before you see her and don't be afraid to walk away. Good luck.

Sapuer
07-07-22, 13:45
If you decide to play on the sugar baby sites get ready to spend a lot of money. $450 and up is about average now for a hour or two if she is honest. Most of them will talk you into taking her out to eat and shopping. That $450 turns into a thousand very quickly. So you end up with a expensive girlfriend experience with a woman who is not your girlfriend and trying to get every penny she can out of you each visit. There are good women on those sites but most will have a sad story or need money for something they need or want to do. It is kinda the same as with escorts. You want sex. They want money. Only on a more expensive level. Just letting new men know what to expect. Take your time picking who you see, decide how much you will spend before you see her and don't be afraid to walk away. Good luck.I've had very good success in the $250-$300 range. Typically I state $1000 a month for a weekly date. Math seems hard to many of them and a grand is just enough to get them interested. At that rate, dinner is do able. I tend to date in the 30-40 range rather than the girls because they drive me nuts! In my range, honestly they really want a decent date, a little spending cash and a nice night out. Just don't be a dick about it.

Geeker
07-09-22, 17:11
I'm visiting for 2-3 months. Please let me know or DM me if you have any recommendations from SA. Reviews are limited. I am talking to few of them, but without reviews I'm flying blind. .

Loner075
07-16-22, 21:54
Just giving a heads up seeking member Sexytrust pulled the cash and dash on me today. Everyone I communicated with on there has been some kind of scam, is that the norm for this area, I've tried unsuccessful every time I'm in town.

Geeker
07-20-22, 13:58
Just giving a heads up seeking member Sexytrust pulled the cash and dash on me today. Everyone I communicated with on there has been some kind of scam, is that the norm for this area, I've tried unsuccessful every time I'm in town.She has a new profile now. Bougeebihh. Stay safe.

BlackCandleJon
07-20-22, 14:53
She has a new profile now. Bougeebihh. Stay safe.She almost scammed me too, the first red flag is she quickly gave me her cell phone number, just after a couple texts, then she quickly wanted to meet, the very same day.

Never in the past have I managed to get someone to meet after only 5 texts or so.

When I said we might need to reschedule, she actually demanded we meet after and started blowing up my phone and calling and texting from other numbers after I blocked her.

Stay safe.

Loner075
07-20-22, 16:21
She has a new profile now. Bougeebihh. Stay safe.Can you believe she sent me a message with that profile wanting to meet, I wish I was still in town would of loved to of seen her face when she came again, bad scammed so many don't remember who she scammed and talked to.

Lshllc
07-26-22, 15:33
Can you believe she sent me a message with that profile wanting to meet, I wish I was still in town would of loved to of seen her face when she came again, bad scammed so many don't remember who she scammed and talked to."She" My bet is that its some dude over in Nigeria or India using fake pics. Ton of that shit on there.

Loner075
07-26-22, 18:08
"She" My bet is that its some dude over in Nigeria or India using fake pics. Ton of that shit on there.She was real came to room got money then bolted.

BlackCandleJon
09-19-22, 15:09
This thread has been awfully quiet.

On my side I've been really struggling with the flaky sugar babies I have, yes, it is more than one, actually 3 because sometimes out of all 3, none is available!

They just don't text back for days, cancel last minute, or over time the encounters have become sub par, with less time offered, not wanting to do certain things in the past were happily done, etc.

And don't get me started on finding a new one, SA seems to have dried up more than it already was.

Or maybe I'm on a bad streak; my looks are passable same as my manners. The ppm I give is not bad I think, average $350 and if we need I room I don't get the hourly ones but better; it's really starting to hurt my wallet, but if I offer less, I'm afraid I'll end up with no one, just my unconditional hands and pornhub.

I don't even anymore request things like MSOG, or anal or CIP or CIM, though would be great to have that.

Would really like to hear what others are experiencing.

Is my donation low?

Are you settling for non GFE all covered visits?

Maybe I need to be more of a jerk or dick and girls will respond better.

Cruiser45
09-19-22, 18:43
I can't really comment as I've been off those sites. Just today visited SA and SBenefits again and looked around. . IMHO (one who has not been active with sugar sites lately) your $350 is quite generous. It's not rare and not hard to find girls who will p4 p and It takes zero training. Granted their personality and enthusiasm is all they have different than other females to offer. I get a kick out of secret benefits verification videos. Some are scowling, shaking their head no, have resting ***** face, making zero effort on those "let me be your secret" videos. Big turn off!

Many real life girls will play for $200-250 and less.


This thread has been awfully quiet.

On my side I've been really struggling with the flaky sugar babies I have, yes, it is more than one, actually 3 because sometimes out of all 3, none is available!

They just don't text back for days, cancel last minute, or over time the encounters have become sub par, with less time offered, not wanting to do certain things in the past were happily done, etc.

And don't get me started on finding a new one, SA seems to have dried up more than it already was.

Or maybe I'm on a bad streak; my looks are passable same as my manners. The ppm I give is not bad I think, average $350 and if we need I room I don't get the hourly ones but better; it's really starting to hurt my wallet, but if I offer less, I'm afraid I'll end up with no one, just my unconditional hands and pornhub.

I don't even anymore request things like MSOG, or anal or CIP or CIM, though would be great to have that.

Would really like to hear what others are experiencing.

Is my donation low?

Are you settling for non GFE all covered visits?

Maybe I need to be more of a jerk or dick and girls will respond better.

Cruiser45
10-11-22, 09:29
Hi guys, am considering re entering the bowl after reading other cities' threads. Always in search of that unicorn, huh?

I have used WYP, Secret B, amd SA with success in the past. Any thoughts on which I should try again? Will report as I wade back into it.

Satyrrical
10-11-22, 20:09
Done with the baby scene. At least getting a new one. GPS and Brandonflation have got these bitches asking for ridiculousness.

Cruiser45
10-26-22, 09:08
Done with the baby scene. At least getting a new one. GPS and Brandonflation have got these bitches asking for ridiculousness.I agree. It's ridiculous, GPS is off the chain. Hell, Escorts asking for $. 5 qv is more than it's worth to me. I have a rule that will take me out of the bowl altogether. I have knowledge and skills gained from many years of education and experience. I collect seventy bucks for an hour of time with a client. I'm not paying twice what I make in an hour for a mechanical qv. Half the worlds population is female, it's not rare and doesn't require years of education to lie down, open legs and lie there like a dead fish. Guess I'm just an old fart. LOL.

BlackCandleJon
10-26-22, 21:36
Hi guys, am considering re entering the bowl after reading other cities' threads. Always in search of that unicorn, huh?

I have used WYP, Secret B, amd SA with success in the past. Any thoughts on which I should try again? Will report as I wade back into it.Secret B was my first incursion into the sugar bowl, back in 2018 and it worked out decent if I accepted that for about every dozen of messages I sent, only one became a pseudo sugar baby. I got to meet several very good ones and the "allowance" was not too bad, about $. 5.

Just as today, the meet and greet was also standard practice to screen each other, the only difference is that back then I was never asked for a compensation for the M & G.

Nowadays some pretend SB require payment for having a coffee or drink or dinner, and on top of that, some choose an upscale place like Flight, Stoney River, etc. But the worst thing is that they really have no intentions of being a SB, all they want is the M&G money plus the free food.

So they'll never say yes to any arrangement.

Secret B stopped working for me, I had no replies even from the girls that contacted me first. I've concluded it's either bots or fake accounts to lure guys into buying credits. I don't trust that site anymore.

For the past 3 years Seeking A has been fruitful but at a high cost of $100 per month on the basic membership plus hours and hours of messaging and also the 50 to 100 restaurant checks for the initial M&G.
After all this expenses it’s rare to get anything in return except for the contact of a girl that’s willing to enter a mutually beneficial arrangement. So now it’s negotiating the allowance and do’s and don’t during a visit. The reward is that some, not all girls, will provide a true GFE in a worry and rush free environment.

It still works, this year I've met about 10 different girls and have made regular with two of them.

For the past 4 or so months, I've not renewed my membership, it's really not cheap and too laborious finding someone on that site.

I'm tempted to sign up again on Seeking, but I have no more $ to spend on a new SB and would have to cut one of the good ones I know.

But what's wrong with that? It seems wrong to me.

Heck the girls should be the ones jumping through all the hoops since we men are the ones handing out the cash!

Cruiser45
10-27-22, 08:40
There must be some mongers who pay for MnG just as some pay a deposit. That's totally backwards to how real like works. It's like a car dealership that says it will cost you $to come look at our vehicles for sale and NO TEST DRIVES. WTF?! In the real world the seller wines and dines the buyers. Too many guys are stupid and giving away the power of being a potential customer / buyer. I've told several potential SB thanks for the chat, not paying to interview you, feed you, see if we click so I can give you $. It's like paying to watch advertisements. Oh yes, I really want to see and learn about your product. May I give you $ to see if it appeals to me?

I know I'm preaching to the choir but damnit men! Some guys are fuc. G it up for everyone. It's like many other situations, if all the men said no thanks SB would not be demanding $ for MG or deposits in advance for an appointment. I'm not jumping through hoops to buy your services. I suspect online dating, when girls get many messages from many interested guys has contributed to false sense of value. Old man says,back in the day women dressed up, took efforts to attract a provider.



Secret B was my first incursion into the sugar bowl, back in 2018 and it worked out decent if I accepted that for about every dozen of messages I sent, only one became a pseudo sugar baby. I got to meet several very good ones and the "allowance" was not too bad, about $. 5.

Just as today, the meet and greet was also standard practice to screen each other, the only difference is that back then I was never asked for a compensation for the M & G.

Nowadays some pretend SB require payment for having a coffee or drink or dinner, and on top of that, some choose an upscale place like Flight, Stoney River, etc. But the worst thing is that they really have no intentions of being a SB, all they want is the M&G money plus the free food.

So they'll never say yes to any arrangement.

Secret B stopped working for me, I had no replies even from the girls that contacted me first. I've concluded it's either bots or fake accounts to lure guys into buying credits. I don't trust that site anymore.

For the past 3 years Seeking A has been fruitful but at a high cost of $100 per month on the basic membership plus hours and hours of messaging and also the 50 to 100 restaurant checks for the initial M&G.
After all this expenses its rare to get anything in return except for the contact of a girl thats willing to enter a mutually beneficial arrangement. So now its negotiating the allowance and dos and dont during a visit. The reward is that some, not all girls, will provide a true GFE in a worry and rush free environment.

It still works, this year I've met about 10 different girls and have made regular with two of them.

For the past 4 or so months, I've not renewed my membership, it's really not cheap and too laborious finding someone on that site.

I'm tempted to sign up again on Seeking, but I have no more $ to spend on a new SB and would have to cut one of the good ones I know.

But what's wrong with that? It seems wrong to me.

Heck the girls should be the ones jumping through all the hoops since we men are the ones handing out the cash!

IceDogCereal
11-20-22, 20:42
Mrs Lovely, aka Heather, is a very sweet lady who seems eager to please. She has a very pleasant demeanor and is very easy to set up a meeting with and she understands what most folks are looking for from Secret Benefits, I. E. The Benefits. She is not unattractive but does not smile much and is a little heavier than my preference but not enough to matter. She will give BBBJCIM and swallow your load and then keep going if that what you want. Her nipples are very responsive to licking and she would allow BBFS if that is your cup of tea. I am not sure about Greek because I did not ask. She asks for $$.5 for a visit which is not timed and would work with you on that as long as you are reasonable with her. She is punctual and does not fill your inbox between meetings. I have seen her a couple of times and would have more if she was a little more of my preferred body style.

BossManJb87
11-23-22, 15:05
Just sent you a PM. Would love to meet her as well.


Mrs Lovely, aka Heather, is a very sweet lady who seems eager to please. She has a very pleasant demeanor and is very easy to set up a meeting with and she understands what most folks are looking for from Secret Benefits, I. E. The Benefits. She is not unattractive but does not smile much and is a little heavier than my preference but not enough to matter. She will give BBBJCIM and swallow your load and then keep going if that what you want. Her nipples are very responsive to licking and she would allow BBFS if that is your cup of tea. I am not sure about Greek because I did not ask. She asks for $$.5 for a visit which is not timed and would work with you on that as long as you are reasonable with her. She is punctual and does not fill your inbox between meetings. I have seen her a couple of times and would have more if she was a little more of my preferred body style.

Satyrrical
12-04-22, 11:58
Dipped my toe back into SA during their Black Friday promo. Had dinner with a young lady last night. Going private Tuesday. Seems like a wild one.

Satyrrical
12-05-22, 23:26
Dipped my toe back into SA during their Black Friday promo. Had dinner with a young lady last night. Going private Tuesday. Seems like a wild one.We decided to meat today. Wildest fuck in a long time. I'm not sharing. Just saying there are some good ones there.

Satyrrical
12-07-22, 20:38
M&G this afternoon was awkward AF. She was either even more introverted than me (hard to believe), really wasn't sure about the SB thing, or just wasn't into me (nah). Shame. Pretty eyes.

IceDogCereal
01-15-23, 15:04
Just an FYI to anyone interested in meeting this young lady. She passed away on November 26, 2022 in a traffic accident. She was a nice young lady although hard to schedule with. I am not sure who is still using her account on SB. The link is: https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ee9f66b70ff7f71f Just be aware that the lady in the pics is sadly no longer with us.

PoohBear69
01-18-23, 14:05
Heather is an amazing lady. UTR, sweet personality, great thick thighs, and a girl next door! I saw her about a year ago. She always replies, even if its just wishing her a happy new years. No scam, no robot, and refreshingly not in the stuck up mode. If you like a thick lady with a sweet personality she may be your cup of tea!

Cruiser45
01-28-23, 12:01
Hi guys, I dropped off Seeking a month or so back, just now created a new profile. I don't see any of the profiles I remember. It's as if there's a whole new group of potentials. And most have not been active recently. Also noticed the wish list feature is not in the same spot or is that only visible to paid members?

I trust I'll find a UTR, stay happy always.

Satyrrical
01-28-23, 20:35
Got an email that my payment for SA renewal had been processed. Pissed me off bc I really was done with it. Decided to look around since I paid for it. My first 2 interactions turned out to be blackmail attempts threatening my family life, one by telling my wife, one claiming "she" was underage and was going to the cops, both wanting $1000 CashApp. Pretty hilarious given they knew nothing about me, and I use a burn number. Be careful, gents.

Cruiser45
03-28-23, 08:46
Got an email that my payment for SA renewal had been processed. Pissed me off bc I really was done with it. Decided to look around since I paid for it. My first 2 interactions turned out to be blackmail attempts threatening my family life, one by telling my wife, one claiming "she" was underage and was going to the cops, both wanting $1000 CashApp. Pretty hilarious given they knew nothing about me, and I use a burn number. Be careful, gents.I was out of town and chatted up a potential, planned to see her sometime but "10 days after I got back". My job was extended and when I told her that, she wanted me to reimburse her for babysitter $ she paid in advance in anticipation of our visit. No specifics had been discussed, just said "when I get back we'll have a date. ".

I refused, she got pissy, then she said she knew who I was (text free #) knew all about me and was going to tell my family, boss, etc.

I told her to tell anyone she wanted to tell, and good luck. She insisted she was going to contact my ex wife for the money. I LOL thinking, Yeah, sweetie my EX is going to give some stranger I'm trying to fuck some babysitter $. Needless to say I did not contact her for a date when I returned.

The SB pool Is about like the escort pool, many fakes many trying to vacuum our wallets.

I gave up on SB sites. I found a younger girl and enjoy unlimited all night next morning GFE for the normal tons of $ associated with a GF. Good luck fellows!

Satyrrical
07-20-23, 07:15
Here I go again. Stupid little head. 😏.

Kaifas
10-25-23, 07:34
Hey guys I found an utr that's looking for weekly support.

21 light skin / mixed rather good shape honestly if she didn't have a type I would keep her for myself.

Apparently she likes them middle aged aka 30's with no kids and a decent body.

Hit the inbox for pics and let's trade.

BB Exec
11-13-23, 10:51
Decided to re-up the membership. Anyone have any traction lately? Seems like a decent amount of real ones, but haven't pulled the trigger on a M&G with any yet.

BB Exec
01-03-24, 11:53
Been having some decent luck lately in the SB pool. Don't know why but it's been fairly easy to weed-out the fakes / scammers and get to the real women who are actually ready for an arrangement. Decent amount are willing for PPM. Albeit for a premium price; however, the talent is far better than what I've found on the other boards, so I'm not complaining.

Let me know if anyone has had any luck, and maybe we can workout a trade.

Satyrrical
03-07-24, 13:50
The number of profiles with lines like "I am not a prostitute!" is fucking hilarious. *****, please. Maybe you don't walk the street. Maybe you're even an exclusive SB. 😏 But if you're on a SB site, you're a prostitute, or hoping to be. 🤣.

Satyrrical
03-28-24, 08:32
So SA membership is petty pricy imo. One way to try to lower it is to go into settings and deactivate your account. Most of the time, for me anyway, it will give you an option to sign up with a 20% discount. Still pricey but better.

EnigmaCare
04-06-24, 20:54
I've been thinking about using sugar baby sites but curious about the money given to sugar babies. I've been reaading $3500 a month or more. What do you men on here give?

MJ2023
04-07-24, 08:32
I've been thinking about using sugar baby sites but curious about the money given to sugar babies. I've been reaading $3500 a month or more. What do you men on here give?That sounds about right in total cost but really depends on her needs. Just like anything you are negotiating, don't just ask what she wants, find out what her true needs are. Measure that to what your willingness and wants are. Find the middle ground where you both get your needs met. Determine what her availability and priority to YOU will be for that.

Some of the younger ladies have much fewer needs but have bigger dreams for "lifestyle". Can depend on what else you are offering in fun times out, trips, shopping, etc.

Let us know what you work out.

Geeker
04-07-24, 13:18
I've been thinking about using sugar baby sites but curious about the money given to sugar babies. I've been reaading $3500 a month or more. What do you men on here give?300-400 ppm is my sweet spot and I get fine quality in that range. 500-600 for that occasional 10/10 cutie.

Satyrrical
04-08-24, 08:04
Also depends on the hosting situation. If they can host I allow a little more. So far it's been about 50/50. Most babies I've dealt with would not be down with an hourly.

Lshllc
04-08-24, 10:51
https://members.seeking.com/member/61a9bc7b-aa6d-4d28-86f5-b43aa4425648

Satyrrical
04-08-24, 12:47
https://members.seeking.com/member/61a9bc7b-aa6d-4d28-86f5-b43aa4425648Chatted briefly. Didn't feel real.