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NitroPimp
02-21-19, 09:12
Does anybody else have this problem? You can maintain a rock hard cock erection and then when the condom comes out it seems to go soft rapidly?

This is even while I have a fresh dose of Viagra. I'm baffled I think it's psychosomatic.

I found a bareback provider and I don't have a problem with that at all to completion.

John Dough
02-22-19, 00:56
The condom is probably too tight. This is a common complaint. You should try one that is wider at the base. Some so-called extra large condoms are wider at the head, but still narrow at the base and cut off circulation. If the condom is too long, the extra material rolls up at the base, making it less stretchy. Polyisoprene condoms like Skyn are a little bit stretchier than latex. Polyurethane condoms are not stretchy.

https://www.condom-sizes.org/condom-size-chart/condom-size-chart

Luckily, there are now more options for condom size than before. You can order custom sized condoms at myONE.

https://www.myonecondoms.com/

MySize condoms can be purchased on Amazon or LuckyBloke. They have seven different sizes. The wider ones are also longer.

https://www.mysize-condoms.com/

https://luckybloke.com/

LongBallsMcGee
02-22-19, 04:29
Does anybody else have this problem? You can maintain a rock hard cock erection and then when the condom comes out it seems to go soft rapidly?

This is even while I have a fresh dose of Viagra. I'm baffled I think it's psychosomatic.

I found a bareback provider and I don't have a problem with that at all to completion.I am with you in the psychosomatic angle. My cock dislikes condoms within a 30 ft radius lmao. I can keep erection usually with condom, but not as good a one bare. I just ditch any provider that won't BB nowadays though. Regarding the mental angle, my opinion is we (males) are hard wired by nature to "spread our seed" and father as many offspring as possible. This is instinctual. As a result, if we are knowingly using birth control, it fails to trigger the same primal urge that we would otherwise get if we can plant our seed and potentially produce offspring.

This is the same reason I refuse to get a vasectomy. I'm worried that knowing I cannot father a child will subconsciously ruin the primal urge and therefore the raw pleasure of dumping a load balls deep.

NitroPimp
02-22-19, 09:01
The condom is probably too tight. This is a common complaint. You should try one that is wider at the base. Some so-called extra large condoms are wider at the head, but still narrow at the base and cut off circulation. If the condom is too long, the extra material rolls up at the base, making it less stretchy. Polyisoprene condoms like Skyn are a little bit stretchier than latex. Polyurethane condoms are not stretchy.

https://www.condom-sizes.org/condom-size-chart/condom-size-chart

Luckily, there are now more options for condom size than before. You can order custom sized condoms at myONE.

https://www.myonecondoms.com/

MySize condoms can be purchased on Amazon or LuckyBloke. They have seven different sizes. The wider ones are also longer.

https://www.mysize-condoms.com/

https://luckybloke.com/Thanks for the reply. I've often wondered how you can get different sizes. Every time I go to the pharmacy they don't even list the size. I was wondering guys with larger penises use. It makes sense the one-size-fits-all is not a good approach with a large cock as the rubber would be tighter on a larger cock.

My problem might be psychological though because it just seems like the thought of it might be the issue. I will definitely have to shop the large condom selection an experiment that way.

As a footnote, one of the girls at a Korean spa told me it happens quite often. They put the condom on and the guy goes soft.

Since I posted this I experienced my first Saran Wrap BJ. I would have to say it was better than a condom BJ and that's about it team that I did maintain my erection better but in the end she tore off the Saran Wrap and finished me.

By hand.

NitroPimp
02-22-19, 09:14
I am with you in the psychosomatic angle. My cock dislikes condoms within a 30 ft radius lmao. I can keep erection usually with condom, but not as good a one bare. I just ditch any provider that won't BB nowadays though. Regarding the mental angle, my opinion is we (males) are hard wired by nature to "spread our seed" and father as many offspring as possible. This is instinctual. As a result, if we are knowingly using birth control, it fails to trigger the same primal urge that we would otherwise get if we can plant our seed and potentially produce offspring.

This is the same reason I refuse to get a vasectomy. I'm worried that knowing I cannot father a child will subconsciously ruin the primal urge and therefore the raw pleasure of dumping a load balls deep.Wow, great reply. I hadn't thought of it from the Primal urge standpoint. Yeah, bareback seems to be the best. I know that's a no-brainer but condoms are definitely an issue for me. In fact by even giving it this much thought I might have driven the whole psychosomatic thing in deeper into my psyche.

I had some great bareback just last night, maintained a rock hard erection all the way through which is quite relieving to be honest. And it was a good test because as I was reaching climax on the table with the one girl anyone girl Spa, we both heard the door chimes ring. Yep mister late monger shows up right in the middle of my finish. She looked at me and told me to go ahead and finish. There was something oddly satisfying about that. Probably another primal thing! Yeah buddy, I planted my seed before you could get a chance!

I swear as soon as I see the condom package and hear it torn open, that seems to be the turning point for me. And, unfortunately I'm a one shot guy. Takes me a couple hours to recharge. I've tried countless times. I'll go to my favorite AMP and ask for the " finish" in the beginning and try to get another one later. I can get a semi going but not enough to complete, even in a 90-minute session.

So sad. I'm jealous of those guys to get a double shot, even with a condom. Pushing 60 though. Had lots of good times, and they're not Out Of Reach. Just getting harder to get there.

John Dough
03-22-19, 20:53
Every time I go to the pharmacy they don't even list the size.

Since I posted this I experienced my first Saran Wrap BJ. I would have to say it was better than a condom BJ.These websites offer suggestions for the best fit condom based on the measurements you input:

http://www.sizemeup.info/condom.html

https://www.condom-sizes.org/condom-sizes/condom-calculator

Unique Pull is a condom made from a material similar to Saran Wrap. It is the thinnest condom available, thereby enhancing sensation. However, it's not stretchy, so it doesn't fit everyone properly. You can buy it at LuckyBloke.

MadPlaid
10-03-19, 08:22
Does anybody else have this problem? You can maintain a rock hard cock erection and then when the condom comes out it seems to go soft rapidly?

This is even while I have a fresh dose of Viagra. I'm baffled I think it's psychosomatic.

I found a bareback provider and I don't have a problem with that at all to completion.I usually do the strip clubs vs providers but I'm noticing this too. I'll go in the back rearing to start and as soon as the condom goes on for the BJ I'm losing it. I have a few that started doing bbj on me and it ruined any sense of staying hard with a condom from the start. I really hate that as I used to be 100% safe only but now it's infuriating to see that condom going on right from the start. Was with one yesterday and she did that so I was able to talk her into taking it off for the BJ for a couple extra bucks but seriously the damage was done. It was much better but still hard to maintain and finish.

I'm starting to worry I'll venture into BBFS and I don't want to ever do that. I'll have to stop period before that step.

ScratchDent
10-03-19, 18:33
Just noticed this thread. Same for me. Beats me why but I see a rubber it's over for me, and then takes a few min to restart again. So far my answer is fill them up. More enjoyable and so far so good. And although I never mention it because it adds to the fantasy for me but having kids is about a zero chance due to a childhood injury.

Earl2211
02-11-20, 19:22
Just noticed this thread. Same for me. Beats me why but I see a rubber it's over for me, and then takes a few min to restart again. So far my answer is fill them up. More enjoyable and so far so good. And although I never mention it because it adds to the fantasy for me but having kids is about a zero chance due to a childhood injury.The non latex, extra thin Skyn condom is the best I have found yet. It really feels better then the others.

BBKang
02-18-20, 17:04
I have found my people. I have been mongering for 10 years and once my feet was dipped into Lake Bareback, it was game over for me and condoms. I am an advocate for safe sex in principle but for my own personal escapades it's bareback or nothing. Most of the time my boy will lose its bone at the mere denial of bb / sight of a condom, but there are moments where he cooperates (I know these days are numbered the older I get), and while the session was otherwise 10/10, I will leave unsatisfied feeling like I left empty handed. To be even more specific, I'm not full satisfied unless its CIP. I live for creampies.

However, there is the added factor that I only enjoy sex if it's bareback with paid providers. I don't get the same degree of pleasure when having bareback sex with a committed partner with ticks all the criteria boxes. The excitement doesn't come close (unless its the first time). While this may not be too much of a problem now as a bachelor, I don't know what I'm going to do when I'm in a relationship. I'm not comfortable giving creampies to regular girls unless I know they're on bc. This is a personal dilemma that's I'm struggling with. Vasogel can't come soon enough.

Old Sailor
02-18-20, 23:09
The non latex, extra thin Skyn condom is the best I have found yet. It really feels better then the others.Skyn's pretty good.

Check here https://www.condomdepot.com/reviews/best-condoms.cfm.

I like Okomoto 004 https://www.condomdepot.com/okamoto-004-condoms/.

Crown Skinless https://www.condomdepot.com/crown-skinless-skin-condoms/.

And both of these by ONE.

https://www.condomdepot.com/pleasure-plus-condoms/

https://www.condomdepot.com/ONE-vanish-condoms/

And for three completely different "condoms".

https://luckybloke.com/products/buy-unique-non-latex-condoms-reviews Thin like saran wrap....

https://www.galacticcap.com/how-it-works/ I got nothing on this one.

https://www.jiftip.com/ BBBJ NOT CIM?

Trogon
02-18-20, 23:31
As my wife was a freaking fertile mertyle we used covers I had no problem until I hit my 50's now no matter w / V I can't keep it up the second it goes on it goes limp.

Bb no problem.

ManuelJellison
07-07-20, 17:11
The non latex, extra thin Skyn condom is the best I have found yet. It really feels better then the others.Yeah for sure extra thin condom make you feel more pleasurable.

JoanneTaylor
12-30-20, 11:06
Does anybody else have this problem? You can maintain a rock hard cock erection and then when the condom comes out it seems to go soft rapidly?

This is even while I have a fresh dose of Viagra. I'm baffled I think it's psychosomatic.

I found a bareback provider and I don't have a problem with that at all to completion.There was also a similar problem. It's nothing more than psychosomatic. I have passed over time, after a couple of years, when I was able to fully get used to my partner.

Plman Smith
12-30-20, 13:04
Very thin, truly next to nothing. Not cheap, but hey what's $6 added to a F.

LazyAss69
02-07-21, 21:06
Heard of Female Condoms.

XvrzaX
05-25-21, 01:27
Skyn's pretty good.

Check here https://www.condomdepot.com/reviews/best-condoms.cfm.

I like Okomoto 004 https://www.condomdepot.com/okamoto-004-condoms/.

Crown Skinless https://www.condomdepot.com/crown-skinless-skin-condoms/.

And both of these by ONE.

https://www.condomdepot.com/pleasure-plus-condoms/

https://www.condomdepot.com/ONE-vanish-condoms/

And for three completely different "condoms".

https://luckybloke.com/products/buy-unique-non-latex-condoms-reviews Thin like saran wrap....

https://www.galacticcap.com/how-it-works/ I got nothing on this one.

https://www.jiftip.com/ BBBJ NOT CIM?Wow, thanks.

BearsFan78
07-04-21, 15:57
I have found my people. I have been mongering for 10 years and once my feet was dipped into Lake Bareback, it was game over for me and condoms. I am an advocate for safe sex in principle but for my own personal escapades it's bareback or nothing. Most of the time my boy will lose its bone at the mere denial of bb / sight of a condom, but there are moments where he cooperates (I know these days are numbered the older I get), and while the session was otherwise 10/10, I will leave unsatisfied feeling like I left empty handed. To be even more specific, I'm not full satisfied unless its CIP. I live for creampies.

However, there is the added factor that I only enjoy sex if it's bareback with paid providers. I don't get the same degree of pleasure when having bareback sex with a committed partner with ticks all the criteria boxes. The excitement doesn't come close (unless its the first time). While this may not be too much of a problem now as a bachelor, I don't know what I'm going to do when I'm in a relationship. I'm not comfortable giving creampies to regular girls unless I know they're on bc. This is a personal dilemma that's I'm struggling with. Vasogel can't come soon enough.I know this post is old but I totally agree with you man. Been mongering for about a year now. And recently started seeking out BBFS providers because I've been having issues with condoms. Every time they slip the cover on I go limp and end up not finishing. Which pisses me off. I banged a hooker a few nights ago for the very first time without a cover. I keep asking myself Why haven't I done this a year ago! It's like crack man. My money will now be going to bb broads. I can't do the cover bs anymore.

SantaaClaus
04-23-22, 09:58
Personally I have always liked lifestyle for their tapered head. Without the tapered head its game over. Also staying well lubed. A little on the inside of the tip can help also. The fancy Japanese condoms are not readily available and I'm not in a position to safely store them.

WardTerry
10-12-22, 19:34
This is a great topic. I was hoping to revive this thread post my question and get some additional input from any of you here like other people who have posted in this thread, I find it very difficult to maintain an erection while wearing a condom and sex with a condom is disappointing in the sensation is so lacking I even find it difficult to orgasm, and if I do, it's simply not as fulfilling if I have to wear a condom with a partner or provider, I think I'd rather just go through the motions of fucking them, but then remove the condom and either get a hand job or blow job to Completion.

Years ago when I was much younger and frequently using condoms with partners, there was a brand of condom on the market made by Durex called the Avanti super thin. It came in a black box with this kind of fluorescent purple coloring on it. Those condoms were made of polyurethane and they were extremely thin. I know they were thin because if you weren't really careful they would break on you, but when you use them right, they were amazing mini mini times I thought it had broken wood pull out and realize it was perfectly intact. If you use them and they worked they were great. It was literally indistinguishable from unprotected sex because of all the breakage there were some complaints and they were pulled from the market. You can't get them anymore I'm hoping there's something else out there that is similar to those that it's super super thin. I'm curious if anyone has taken the time to buy different brands of condoms and experimented with them to tell us which one you think is actually the best.

I'd even consider trying to female condom if it would work.

I've read great things about the sensitivity of a lambskin condoms but if you're going to see your provider, I'm assuming they wouldn't let you use that and what's the point if you're trying to protect yourself from an STD lambskin isn't going to help at all.

If anyone has recommendations on how to find the best condom, let me know also, if any of you haven't tried this, I always found that putting a little bit of lubricant inside. The condom at the tip helps lubricated, and it feels a lot better as opposed to the thing been stuck on you.

LookingX
10-29-22, 11:51
I've been bringing Skyn Elite condoms with me and use them instead of the ones the providers have. They are non-latex, thin, and easily available (unlike the Japanese condoms). Does anyone have any different recommendations?


This is a great topic. I was hoping to revive this thread post my question and get some additional input from any of you here like other people who have posted in this thread, I find it very difficult to maintain an erection while wearing a condom and sex with a condom is disappointing in the sensation is so lacking I even find it difficult to orgasm, and if I do, it's simply not as fulfilling if I have to wear a condom with a partner or provider, I think I'd rather just go through the motions of fucking them, but then remove the condom and either get a hand job or blow job to Completion.

Years ago when I was much younger and frequently using condoms with partners, there was a brand of condom on the market made by Durex called the Avanti super thin. It came in a black box with this kind of fluorescent purple coloring on it. Those condoms were made of polyurethane and they were extremely thin. I know they were thin because if you weren't really careful they would break on you, but when you use them right, they were amazing mini mini times I thought it had broken wood pull out and realize it was perfectly intact. If you use them and they worked they were great. It was literally indistinguishable from unprotected sex because of all the breakage there were some complaints and they were pulled from the market. You can't get them anymore I'm hoping there's something else out there that is similar to those that it's super super thin. I'm curious if anyone has taken the time to buy different brands of condoms and experimented with them to tell us which one you think is actually the best.

HSVObserver
12-10-22, 19:52
It seems most of the posts here are related to the type of condom (which provides the most sensitive feeling) or the emotional effect of seeing / using condoms. For me, and I'm over 60 now, if is about blood flow. When the condom goes on it is so tight it cuts off blood flow and my erection disappears. Bareback is one solution, but the other solution I have found is to buy magnum condoms. They are not only longer but have a larger circumference. I don't need the extra length, but since they are not as tight, they don't kill my erection and they stay on just fine! Hope this helps!