Why are ugly women so darn good at sex?

[Bill Bradsky]

I am starting this thread to see if other guys have had this experience and if any of you have an opinion about looks vs performance.

You know what I'm talking about. You go for the high-priced-spread, beauty queen type thinking, "Oh boy, She's worth it!" and get a starfish on the beach instead. A complete frikin disappointment. The only thing that excites her is a mirror.

Then you lower your "standards", say to yourself," I'm never telling anyone about this", and jump some church mouse you can barely look at and the sex is fantastic.

Why is this?

[PsyberZombie]

Because they don't have all the Emotional Baggage about Sex that the beauties do , Bill

Georgeous women tend to have a very warped view of men in general and sex in particular

These girls start getting stared at and accosted often times before they're even teen·agers

Their Beauty scares off all the 'normal' guys , so that the only guys who actually 'hit on' them are the a**·holes of our gender

By a very young age , they begin to believe that *all* men are like this sub·set of guys = aggressive , horny , use·em·and·lose·em types

They realize that their Sex Appeal is their meal ticket , but resent the way they are often forced or co·erced in·to converting that appeal in·to actual material gain

Pretty soon the concept of Sex for its Own Sake becomes foreign to them , if they ever developed that area of the brain in the first place


Now that we've answered your Question , here's Another Question I often wonder about =

WHY is it that you so often see Extreme Hotties working in menial jobs ??

I could give you many examples , but here's one :

There's this young chick who works at a local Dunkin Donuts who could be Center·Fold of the Month if she ever sub·mitted a port·folio to Play·boy . The place is right across the street from a fire station , and boy! , do those guys seem to spend a lot of time in there !!

" What the Frick are YOU doing , working in a place like this for minimum wage ??!!?? " , I ask my·self about her every time I go in there

[The Beachman]

As a young man I had a great older friend and mentor who often told me the following two statements "when you get picky you do without" and "the ugly ones have to work twice as hard".

I will say 47 years into life that both statements could not be more true. Some of the most awesome sexual encounters I have ever had (not paid for) were with women who were not beauty queens (still great bods) and easily made up for their lack of being blessed with beauty by being awesome lovers.

[Enor Muscock]

As a wise man once said "Beauty is just a lightswitch away!"

[PsyberZombie]

'Beauty' may be just a Light Switch away

.... but True Talent in Bed shines through , no matter what the lighting conditions are

[LongNDeepFuqs]

There are UmpFulls reasons why.

Look at the most Gorgeous women for a sec.. they are Primpin their Hair, make up, dress, and Hoping the quaterback of the HS,,asks her for the dance, and NOT even thinkin about sex>> While on the guys point of veiw. Some are too shy to ask a Good one. In TRUTH,,most will not marry a outstanding beauty anyway.

Soo that leave the Ugly ones. What do they do? While not being chased. Doing what they want, need, desire. Masturbating, learning their Bodies, What works, what doesn't.

As to Finesse. Def= To handle with a deceptive or evasive strategy, or even better def. Refinement and delicacy of performance, execution, or artisanship.

Ol confusous say: Never, repeat NEVER, judge a book by its cover. The pages have more evidence

Besides all of it,

Its not the face, nor the body, We are Actually seeking to relieve our Blue Balls, to explode from, and just as a female who wants some sex. They just need a good hard Cock. lol.

[KC Questor]

Revenge of the Nerds (1984) -- Nerd Louis Skolnick has tricked sorority girl Betty into having sex with him.

Betty Childs: Are all nerds as good as you?
Louis Skolnick: Yes
Betty Childs: Why?
Louis Skolnick: Because all nerds think about is sex. All jocks think about is sports.

So the pretty girls think about clothes and makeup while the ugly girls think about sex.

[KC Questor]

Another way to look at it, though, is maybe they aren't any better. Maybe we are more likely to have sex with an ugly girl when we are desperate, and anyone would be good. Kind of like how even a cheap beer is pretty darned good after moving the lawn.

[Best Tx Monger]

Just like some folks have snobby jobs and other have bad / menial jobs. Same applies to woman and the ability to give a good performance.

A good looking woman can get away with a sub-par performance both in bed and at work. Let's be honest with ourselves.

While on the other hand, the uglier and less fortunate woman have to work harder in order to keep their job. Because they are not eye candy, they have to give another reason on why they should be kept at a job.

In bed, uglier woman perhaps feel inferior and since they don't look as great they have to make up for that. They do that by giving superb bj's and sex.

That is my opinion but of course yours may vary from mine, that is why this is an opinion section.

-007

[Magic501]

Just remember, guys; it's been said over & over, even on this board:

Ugly women need sex too!!

[Member #3918]

The question is, do they have a STD that made them look that way?

[Double Nickle]

I am starting this thread to see if other guys have had this experience and if any of you have an opinion about looks vs performance.

You know what I'm talking about. You go for the high-priced-spread, beauty queen type thinking, "Oh boy, She's worth it!" and get a starfish on the beach instead. A complete frikin disappointment. The only thing that excites her is a mirror.

Then you lower your "standards", say to yourself," I'm never telling anyone about this", and jump some church mouse you can barely look at and the sex is fantastic.

Why is this?It was a great scene in the movie Shallow Hal where Anthony Robbins lays his hands on Jack Black's head while going up in an elevator, "from now on you will only see the inner beauty."

I tried an ugly woman at Xanadu Spa in Waterbury years ago to see if she had compensatory talents. No, she didn't. I've had total foxes who were great at sex. I've had women who wouldn't get a second glance with their clothes on who looked great naked. Great sex too.

Perhaps what we're really talking about here is the desire for something we can't have. We can fixate on the unobtainable ice princess, snow queen, whatever you want to call her. I still have it in me. An executive secretary, society girl, celebrity - boy would I like to bang one. Some only have a thin layer of social armor and will be great in bed. With others the armor is deep. In technical terms she has "hang-ups."

It is best to look at the total package. A hottie with a bad attitude? She should come back after some remedial growing up. A reasonably fit looking and pleasant girl with frumpy clothes and ugly make-up? The clothes and make-up can come off easily enough. At 56 with my glasses off a hell of a lot looks really good to me.

Double Nickle

[Double Nickle]

I agree. Thats why i'm going to goto Manhattan from now on or until i hear better reports. The problem is that old hags are getting report cards that should be reserved for amp girls under 30 years old! How could sex with the gramma next door be a good experience.

CT rip kidLet's face it, the 20ish female is more likely to be a 10 in appearance than a 50ish one, especially to a 20ish guy. But her skills don't erode over time. They probably improve. By the time she's fully learned technique she may have put on a few pounds around the middle and maybe her skin and hair aren't perfectly smooth and glowing anymore. Sometimes I imagine how awesome an older provider looked 20 years ago. Usually I just enjoy though.

Double Nickle

[Broome333]

At the risk of stating the obvious, I would say the reason that ugly girls tend to be better at sex, whether they are paid or doing it for free, is that they simply realize they have to try harder in other areas to make up for their looks. I have long been of the opinion that the prettier the girl the more likely she will be to just lay there or place lots of limits on what she is and isn't willing to do. on the other hand the uglier/fatter girls I have been with have practically bent over backwards to make things good. Long story short it comes down to attitude.

[Bad Bad Boy]

Any time you generalize, you are getting yourself into trouble because there are always exceptions to the rule. However, let's try.

Most beautiful girls are catered to, worshiped, treated differently, and given special privileges that their opposites don't get in life. They don't have to work as nearly as hard as the ugly girls to get what they want.

As a result, beautiful girls develop a sense of entitlement, inflated sense of worth, mammoth egos, and an unbelievable shity attitude. The queens feel they deserve to be given everything on a silver platter.

By contrast, the ugly girls have to work twice as hard to get what they want in life. They are looked down on, ignored for the most part, and treated as second class citizens. Thus, they have to try harder than most when it comes to everything in life including sex. They appreciate more what they are given and/or have earned.

When it comes to sex, the beautiful girls feel they are doing you a great favor for letting you fuck them and thus don't feel the need to try hard to satisfy. The ugly girls over compensate by trying harder to please.

BBB

[Trav Pokerman]

Young &/or beautiful girls think they are doing you a favor by being with you. They fail to realize that you are BOTH benefitting by your time together. She's making money, and you're having a good time. If you fail to have a good time, you will not continue to be with her. Therefore, over time, she will make much less money. This is the point the hotties seem to miss. It seems that they should be able to make more from regulars (and with far less effort and uncertainty) than from once-and-dones. The same applies to overcharging. You may pay it once, but you won't return.

I have also found that chubby women tend to try harder to satisfy. One chubby woman I dated even pointed out that she believes "chubby chicks are better are head" (exact quote). I draw the line at chubby, before severely overweight, though, but everyone has different interests.

Have you even been to a strip club, and gotten dances with both young girls and older ones? I suspect your best experiences have been with the older ones. That has been my experience, anyway.

[Mister Luva]

You make great points. It is us men that makes the Beauty Queen. Maybe we should stop worshipping the Blond and blue eyed Goddess and we will get better treatment.

Mister Luva

[Bad Bad Boy]

I have dated some of these exotic dancers (strippers) who work at the various clubs in Baltimore, MD. Most of them are quite attractive with good bodies. Talk about having a major attitude........ they have it!

When they are in their environment at the club, it somehow feeds their over-sized egos and they think they are better than anyone else. It also spills over when they are on the street. Hence, they are snobs by any sense of the definition.

When it comes to sex with these gals, they put all kinds of boundaries on you like they are doing you a big favor even talking to and/or being seen with you. You will hear them tell you that they don't swallow, no fingering, no DFK, no ass play, and the list goes on. By the time you finish, you wished you would have dated someone else.

BBB

[Broome333]

I have dated some of these exotic dancers (strippers) who work at the various clubs in Baltimore, MD. Most of them are quite attractive with good bodies. Talk about having a major attitude........ they have it!

When they are in their environment at the club, it somehow feeds their over-sized egos and they think they are better than anyone else. It also spills over when they are on the street. Hence, they are snobs by any sense of the definition.

When it comes to sex with these gals, they put all kinds of boundaries on you like they are doing you a big favor even talking to and/or being seen with you. You will hear them tell you that they don't swallow, no fingering, no DFK, no ass play, and the list goes on. By the time you finish, you wished you would have dated someone else.

BBB

I too have dated a couple strippers in my younger days. Many do have a huge attitude, which I can understand. After all many of them are quite attractive and many also have regular customers that shower them with expensive gifts and cash in addition to the average customer that is willing to part with a few (or many) dollars, just for the pleasure of seeing her either partialy or fully naked. I can see how that would tend to go to a person's head. I have also known several strippers that hide behind the attitude because they are quite insecure. They look down on the customers as a defense mechanism because they realize that many of the customers see them as a sex object, *****, piece of meat or what ever else. The limitations on their sex life is often to prove to themselves that they are not the **** that society thinks they are. Many times with the strippers I dated I was amazed at how proper they were outside the club. My biggest success in dating strippers was to make them believe that I saw them as a regular girl and was interested in them for who they are as opposed to being after a quick piece of ass. You would be suprised how talking to them like you met them in a grocery store instead of a strip club will change their attitude. Of course some are there to pay for drugs or out of greed and you will never reach these types on any kind of personal or emotional level.

[Sexybldbbwfl]

I am a bbw, I have a very pretty face. I love sex. I think I am better at sex, especially oral because I live for your response. I love to see your toes curl in pleasure. I had a man scream my name once and that was just damn hot. I scream alot during sex but had not been on the end of hearing. I am not perfect but I know what I like and I focus on that. As it was said never judge a book by a cover. Hot girls are just like hot guys, you mean little to them, they can replace you anytime because they always have men falling over them. My regulars would not go anywhere else. Sex is a mental attitude. I had shitty sex for years when I was married and know I have great sex often and am always satisfied. I do not need to be told I am beautiful but it is nice. I would rather it be a real comment than lip service. Just look and you will find the honey just for you. If you come to Florida, call me. Talk is cheap. I would rather show you. Kisses, Debbie

sexybldbbwfl@aol.com

[Bama Dude]

That's what the make paper bags for.

[Hector54]

Thread title reminds me of a girl I saw a few weeks ago. My usual girl was not there so I got this other girl that was not as blessed in the looks department as my usual. She kind of noticed that I wasn't as enthusiastic as I was before I looked at her. But boy --- she more than made up for it with some of the moves she pulled on me when it came down to business. Turns out they have to work twice as hard as the good looking ones. The fine ones just get by on their looks and think that is all that matters.

[Nick Name Dan]

UGLY and OLD women crave being wanted and needed. UGLY women are glad they have someone to please and someone to please them. They try harder to get you pleased and are more willing to do wierd and strange things.

I have stuck my cock in more assholes of UGLY and OLD women then I have tight bodied college girls. The same goes for possitions. To please you UGLY and OLD women will try different possitions when you ask them.

Here are three different examples. I was having sex with this twenty something girl who was very pretty, but only liked it missionary and barely liked to give a blow job. On the other hand I had this girl who was a thirty something who was little chubby who endulged me in sharing her with other couples or an extra man and woman as well as going to adult parties and swingers clubs, but barely partaking. Lastly I was banging a sixty year old horn dog who I set up gang bangs for, always rode bareback on anyone who wanted to enter her raw in all three holes and let me take plenty of pictures of her. She also would come with me to adult theaters to have guys fuck her while sucking my cock.

Now as for the last one she was fat, old, and not the prettiest piece of ass, but wild as hell.

I love all women, don't get me wrong, but this thread is about why ugly women are so good at sex and the reason is that they along with the older women, quite plainly want it more strongly then hot and thin women do. Simple as that.

Now if the woman is a worker, hooker, massage, escort, etc., whether she is short, tall, young, old, skinny, fat, ugly, pretty, alien, parapalegic, amputee, or has a goat beard on her face, she better be good or no tip, no second visit and a bad USA Sex Guide review for her.

Oldest and fatest one (maria) and thirty something pics attached.

-NND

[Bevo Martini]

A few years ago, my buddies & I would go out hoggin'. Our goal was to find an ugly chick that we could gangbang. We usually went to club / bar that attracted older / ugly women. They were always more fun. Most loved sucking cock. We would require that they do the following or they wouldn't get any dick.

1) Swallow our loads.

2) Take a Greek pounding.

3) Facefucking.

Not one gal said no. We always set the rules after we were back at our place. I have found that most women fantasize about a gangbang (my wife is one). The good looking ones are always afraid of their public image. The ugly ones know we aren't going to tell anyone we fucked them. They were so much fun. Some would invite us back. My favorite was the look on a chicks face when she was penetrated dp for the first time. AWESOME!

[Savvyguy08]

I think many of the less attractive women out there new they had to put out from there school days in order to get the dates. I bet if the truth be known they sucked more dick than the cheerleaders did. They lost inhibitions early and are now game for anything. Watching a woman get dp'd for the first time is hot. One girl came so hard I thought she would rip my dick off with her ass.

On another note. Ever been to a high school reunion? You would be surprised how many hot girls aren't so hot anymore and how some of the homelier ones are quite striking. Fun to see how people changed.


A few years ago, my buddies & I would go out hoggin'. Our goal was to find an ugly chick that we could gangbang. We usually went to club / bar that attracted older / ugly women. They were always more fun. Most loved sucking cock. We would require that they do the following or they wouldn't get any dick.

1) Swallow our loads.

2) Take a Greek pounding.

3) Facefucking.

Not one gal said no. We always set the rules after we were back at our place. I have found that most women fantasize about a gangbang (my wife is one). The good looking ones are always afraid of their public image. The ugly ones know we aren't going to tell anyone we fucked them. They were so much fun. Some would invite us back. My favorite was the look on a chicks face when she was penetrated dp for the first time. AWESOME!

[Slowalk]

Honestly, this is not a consideration when seeking women."Hey, you're ugly so lets fuck". You can have them all.

[GentrifiedBent]

The simple answer is: Ugly women are good at sex because they have a lot to compensate to. More like a guy with a small dick needs to be very good at oral. Their ego, despite of their shortcomings, still longs for them to be memorable.

I know because I'm below average but I always leave my partner with a satisfied grin on their faces.

Speaking of partners, yes, that's what I've been getting at Tinder lately. Mostly average girls but really good at sex. I've read this article: http://www.mensaxis.com/how-to-get-laid-on-tinder/ and it seems to work for me.

And also this: https://soulmatesystem.com/how-to-get-laid-on-tinder-hookups/.

Ugly or not they still have a pussy. I look at them as practice sex for future hot women I'll find, as cruel as that sound. Plus, yes most of them are usually good at sex.