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Art_Collector
05-02-05, 16:06
Maybe this isn't the place, but I need to get some perspective and maybe a little advise on a situaion I am in.

As a part of my job, I travel from customer to customer, delivering various services at their locations. I this one clustomer, a chinese imigrant who is in a bad marriage. Because her job is a good deal from her home, she has an apartment near her workplace, and only goes home on weekends. I always thought she had a hot body, not much else though. From time to time after work, we'd meet for dinner and just talk. I have always wanted to get into bed with her, and have sort of made some hints towards that. But she never seemed interested, too traditional, and just a generally good girl. Well, one night after work, she had a couple of glasses of wine, and was a little too tipsty to drive. Not expecting anything to happen, I drove her home. She asked me in for coffee, and I accepted. She showed me into her living room, and offered me a seat while she made the coffee. She came back into the room, and sat next to me. There was an awkward silence. To break the moment, I said something stupid how this seemed like a date. she asked what would happen if it was. I said we'd probably start kissing, she said OK, moved closer, closed her eyes and puckered. Next thing you know we're making out.

Since the first time, we've met a few more times, and things have become insanely hot. She wants to leave her husband to be with me, but knows I am married, and not going to leave my wife. So she is willing to just have sex. She is willing to do just about anything to please me. Don;t get me wrong, the sex is incredibly intense, she has a nice hard tight body, but I am getting alittle paranoid about it. She say's she'd never ever reveal our relationship to anyone for fear of losing me, but she wants more and more of me. Even if it's only sex. I am beginning to worry about her, and if she would actually try to separate me from my wife.

Am I being too paranoid? Should I just enjoy the ride? Or should I end it now and run like hell? It just seems too good to be true.

Boston Monger
05-02-05, 17:42
no turning back. She knows too much about you and vice versa. You might as well enjoy it, for now. Try to END it. It will eventually come to a head, and you have to ask yourself if you are willing to end your marriage.

Scout Ii
05-02-05, 22:32
That whole thing is fun and all but it's time to come back to earth before something REALLY goes wrong, if you care. If not, keep nailing her! To get out of it and end it, I would find a way to stop going to her city or account either by passing it off to another traveler or visit when she's not going to be there if possible. In any case make the encounters not possible. Make it look like you don't want to end it, make it curcumstance, not your fault. That's less likely to get her boiling rabbits in your kitchen or leaving messages for your wife. If she's that frisky, she may have another egg roll in the wings waiting for your spot anyway.

Art_Collector
05-03-05, 08:52
I was in Upstate New York for a week a while ago. She calls and asks why she hasn;t heard from me, I told her I was away. Next night she calls again and asks where, the night after that, she's there too. Great sex, the best I've ever had, but it's just getting scary. Oh, and she doesn't give head, so what's the point?

Scout Ii
05-07-05, 12:42
She's under your spell and it needs to be broken. Like when I see a girl (not a sw) and she looks great but then she whips out a cigarette or says something stupid and it ruins the whole thing. Throw her a really good one then push her hard for the BJ. Tell her it's your fantasy to pop in her mouth or on her face and you want to do it all the time. Smack her ass really hard and rough her up just a little with some hair pullin or hold her hands behind her doggy style. Do it against an open window where someone could see. Mention the "new thing you learned from a hooker" that you'd like to try. Give her just a little something to hate about it to break the spell. Show her you may not be the person she thinks you are.

And if it doesn't work, at least you had some fun.

Art_Collector
05-11-05, 09:32
And I don't mean my johnson! I tried just about everything I could think of to get rid of her. But then found out that it didn't bother her, she had started renting porn flicks to try to learn some new stuff. After that, I blew in her mouth, on her back, and she even said she want to try anal (I am still tempted she has an astounding ass)

What finally worked was to start blowing her off. She'd say "I want to see you"
I'd say "me too", we'd set a time, and at the last minute I'd break the date.
She finally said if I don't see you tonight, it's over. I said fine. Next thing I know, she's calling me from a nearby hotel waiting for me. I said "Sorry, I have plans with my wife" she said "then don't call me anymore" I laughed and said "I don't call you, you call me!" she hasn't called or emailed since.

The "hard part" now is that I have to sit back and wait for her next move. She was not seeing anyone else, so I'm hoping she isn't obsessed. With any luck, her mailman will get a great thrill one day when he delivers the male ;)

Scout Ii
05-12-05, 00:45
Well, nice job, you managed to give her some splatter in various places. I really think I wouldn't be able to resist giving her at least one shot in the wazoo before the end.

Now, I'm off to go take the postal worker test and find out where she lives.

Art_Collector
05-12-05, 15:58
But it was time to get out. It was just getting too complicated and far too risky.
If I did anything else to encourage her it would have been impossible to put an end to it. As it stands, I'm still waiting for the fall out.

MeatMan
05-13-05, 13:19
Hmm,I wonder if the post office is hiring?:D

Junker
05-19-05, 03:12
I know... Everyone's saying "well well well, if it isn't Mr. Junker." Well all is good and Wussup. Hope all is well with everyone....

Here are my opinions on the matter. There are a few ways to do this.

Option A: (also known as not likely)
Hint around to your wife about 3somes and ask her if she'd like to swing.
Okay, I know that won't work so here we go.

Option B:
Tell the fling this "I'm Gay and I'm leaving my wife for Bruce".

Option C: (The Best)
For starters, if she knows where you live tell her your moving. The worst part of a fling is info she doesn't need to know.

Second, get a pre paid cell phone for all communications with her. Give her that number and only that number. It's not registered to anyone. You can use it for anything.

Third, like mentioned before. Don't go that route anymore. But always keep the booty call.

Fourth, don't get possesive. Asian women are used to nut case husbands. This of course is if you don't want to see her again.

Option D:
If you want to get rid of her, do this. Get her to involve another friend of hers, demand it. When or of that's done, demand 2 more women. If she'll do anything then, that's cake. When and if that's done, demand 3 more women. If you get the 3 more women thing. Repeat the 2,3 or 4somes as much as you can then demand her to perform in public. Basically become a real a-hole. Make her not hate you, but not want to be with you anymore.

Option E:
The nice way is to say "I feel realy bad for your husband. Do you love him?" Get real sincere. If she says no, your in it deep. If she says no again, tell her you slept with her husband before you slept with her. She'll freak.

Option F:
If you feel she will wreck your marriage on purpose. It's time to use the same tactics on her. Threaten her with photos, video, letters and proof to her husband. Hense she gets nothing from him and loses you at the same time.

Option G:
Tell wife of a converstion you heard at lunch. "these two guys are talking and one says that he's been sleeping with the woman, but he's married". See what she says about the whole thing. Ask her opinion on the matter. Then try "what would you do if I did that, ha ha ha ha ha". And end it right there. if you continue to talk about it, she'll know and cut if off.

Option H: (BEST OF ALL)
If you love your wife and don't want to get divorced, don't cheat on her. Go to confession and call it a day with Yoko.

Wrap It,
Junker

PS: These boards are viewed by LE every single day. Watch what ya say!

Art_Collector
05-20-05, 18:07
No more non business contact. I do miss the booty, and all but it was just getting too stressful. She doesn't know exactly where I live, only the town I live in. As for threatening her with telling her husband, she doesn't care, she doesn't love him, that's one reason why she wants to be banging me! As far as I'm concerned I'd be fine if it was only when I'm in town, but when she started following me to other locations, or telling me "if I don't see you tonight it's over".

I got tired of it. It started out as fun but soon became too much work. She was good in the sack, knows how to get me really hot and hard, and was so tight, the condom always stayed in her. But it was about the sex, not love.

I'll be working with her in another few weeks, it's going to be very interesting then. Maybe it will restart, maybe it won't.

I did enjoy banging her brains out though.

Art_Collector
08-17-05, 14:23
I was at her work place last Friday afternoon, and worked until about 6:30.

I packed up my gear and went out to my car without even seeing her.

I put my stuff in the trunk, and went to get in, and she jumped in next to me.
I asked what she was doing, trying to remain calm and professional.

She tells me her car is broken and she needs a ride home. And that there is no one else around that she trusts enough to got to her home. OK, I'll give you a lift. she lives within a few minutes drive, so it wasn't any effort.

Well, we get to her place and I'm in her driveway, she asks me to come in and just talk. I'm not biting, and tell her I'm tired and want to go home. So she grabs my keys from the car and bolts into the house. She is way ahead of me, and leaves the door open knowing I'll follow. I get inside the door, and she is hiding in the room next to it, she closes the door behind me and jumps on me with her legs wraped around me. I'm stunned, she's lost it, but man am I suddenly hard.

Well, we end up in the sack again, and where having a great time when she decides she want me to DATY. OK, I'll give it a shot.

OH MY GOD. I go down under the sheets, and damn near pass out. She has the nastiest smelling cooch I have ever been near. I come back up and start to get out of bed, when she grabs me and pulls me back. She says, "I'm sorry, I haven't showered." I'm thinking how did I get myself into this, and how can I get myself out of it without too much trouble. She was a great time in the sack, she moves all over the bed and really loves getting me off. But, all of a sudden it hits me that not only is she obsessed with me, she's possibly stalking me too.

We went at it for a while longer, and I left. She starts telling me how big and strong I am. And saying "Not like my husband, he is small and weak, he has no desire and goes to sleep fast" (He's probably exhausted) I tell her I have to go. She says OK, but she wants one more time tonight before I go. I tell her I can't I'm too tired, and leave.

Saturday, I go to the store and she'd left a message on my cell phone. "Where are you, I want to see you tonight" I ignored it.

It was fun, but now it's getting a little scarey. If her employer wasn't one of my biggest and best accounts I'd pass them on to another rep. But the money is too good. And making a harrassment complaint is no good, because I keep nailing her. She hates the idea of another woman, I'll tell her I want her and another at the same time and see what happens. If that doesn't work maybe I can convince her that I've found another. Or maybe I should just give up and enjoy the sex before she boils a rabbit or something.

BrotherStrang
08-19-06, 21:45
If she is willing to leave her husband send her my way.

BS