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Eagle7415
08-18-23, 20:03
Great information, much appreciated! Thank you!


Figured I'd pay my dues. Keep in mind some of these convos I've had with them are over a year ago plus. Some.

More recent. But I'm just scrolling through seeking and commenting on one's I know about:

https://members.seeking.com/member/5426e905-8f4c-457d-a78a-31f998db6d49

Real, have met and fucked. Very hot, expect 600+. She's not cheap.

https://members.seeking.com/member/379b1414-3a6f-4a8f-a298-117fb1626a73

Real, nice girl and was getting ready to meet but I changed my mind. She is GPS, she's hot so I almost said fuck it I'll pay, but changed my mind.

https://members.seeking.com/member/dc5f2835-4da7-4d34-9f25-d57821b2b7e6

DTF, real, snap chatted with her. Didn't meet because I had others I was interested in. Was like 300-400 with her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6bb8029a-e75c-467a-a971-ffe12ee56504

Real, she's a pro and DTF. But very pro like. Didn't meet because she's high volume.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3acf457e-32d7-42e0-af5a-1dd530be8d43

Real, DTF but also high volume. Very attractive but at this point she's seen a lot.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9ad17aea-61b4-4dfc-a26f-4405e69e1f6e

Real, have met with her but didn't fuck. 6/10 looks but a nice girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3b86a201-0d63-4a23-91c5-925c7991b245

Real, even matched with her on tinder. Never went through with it because just wasn't that into her. But DTF.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d292015f-e73e-4a4b-a641-bf049d07b760

DTF but very GPS, I didn't even bother.

https://members.seeking.com/member/59e0168b-490e-4666-9d06-afcdacdc15a0

Real, have met, very nice girl. Be kind to this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0109b674-6e51-4795-83b1-99571e828aa0

Real but only wants online, impossible GPS.

Will be better about intel sharing.

Jm1312
08-18-23, 22:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/4bb197ef-8062-45d1-b491-5c2803ed5d62

Brothers, any information on this lady will be greatly appreciated? Thank you.I have chatted with her. She can't host but seems eager.

NcNative
08-19-23, 07:17
Got the same from FierceHeiress. Wanted 100 deposit before meeting for dinner. I said No.I had same experience last Sunday afternoon. I suggested we speak on the phone and she would not do that. Sometimes they will speak on phone but still try to scam you though.

SandPiper540
08-21-23, 13:26
Anyone know if she's real or not? She shares pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/203e3896-7f9e-45e5-b9b5-1a0aeabc0098

SeekingRdu
08-21-23, 18:21
Anyone know if she's real or not? She shares pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/203e3896-7f9e-45e5-b9b5-1a0aeabc0098Don't have direct experience, but know someone who has, she is real.

Tribeca67
08-21-23, 20:04
Anyone seen her?

FuckHard
08-22-23, 23:21
The girl I'm seeing is interested in 3 some guy between 18-26.

AmpHunter69
08-23-23, 16:39
I m in middle of shady experience from TheOneThatGotAway. She is a pro coz I came across her profile on professional website and not SA. Not sure if she has Tryst up or not. But looted few of us I know of. She also has some good TER reviews. She is in bad shape and may lure you into multiple meet promise with advance payments. DO NOT fall for that. Just go for individual meet. She is a good time. Not like her pics but not bad either. She is in shady situation with surgery coming up in next 10 days. I know she may have some friends here and may cry to her about my post. But, I am the one who might have lost real $$ with uncertainty of future meetups. Be careful and play safe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/97022fe9-1503-4559-b612-dd5da55ff641Who is she?

Gulf0521
08-24-23, 18:52
Had several interactions with this one. Latest was someone (Male) calls me pretends to tell me she is underage and telling me with a small payment, it will all go away and she's under age. Yea right. Said he had my address (I'm too careful) so I know that's Bull shit. I never took call and only text when these assholes try this for proof. Reported to SA but she keeps coming up in Raleigh / Wilmington / Greenville, NC. Best to start clear. Makes goes by Alexis but sure to believe it ls a fake. Keep wanting gas money and said let's meet and sent me to a fake address (Found home for sell on internet). Anyways. STAY AWAY.

Jm1312
08-24-23, 22:14
Had several interactions with this one. Latest was someone (Male) calls me pretends to tell me she is underage and telling me with a small payment, it will all go away and she's under age. Yea right. Said he had my address (I'm too careful) so I know that's Bull shit. I never took call and only text when these assholes try this for proof. Reported to SA but she keeps coming up in Raleigh / Wilmington / Greenville, NC. Best to start clear. Makes goes by Alexis but sure to believe it ls a fake. Keep wanting gas money and said let's meet and sent me to a fake address (Found home for sell on internet). Anyways. STAY AWAY.Thanks for this information. I have always stayed with older ladies, divorced moms. Has been safer and better all the way around.

South215
08-24-23, 22:16
Any info out there on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5c329d55-1977-4eaa-8704-57b14515225b

SmallAsianCock
08-25-23, 00:04
Any info out there on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5c329d55-1977-4eaa-8704-57b14515225bI'll also be interested. I believe she works at some dancing place In Raleigh or Cary. She had invited me to the club last week. But I don't do the gentleman's.

Club thing anymore. It does not work for me.

Bachelor1234
08-25-23, 05:20
Any info out there on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5c329d55-1977-4eaa-8704-57b14515225bShe invited me to come meet her at the strip club where she works and buy drinks and dances. I declined.

Emeralddragon6
08-25-23, 07:26
She invited me to come meet her at the strip club where she works and buy drinks and dances. I declined.I assume it was teasers?

Swimmer123
08-25-23, 13:10
Yup had a similar thing happen to me you can see in my past posts. She said she doesn't text throw away numbers so in one naive moment in all my years of doing this, I used my real number and the same happened. I just ignored and blocked every number they texted from (about 5). I just went silent, not giving them any additional ammo, and after 24 hours of it they want off to lower hanging fruit. If they get upset with a fake number just walk, 99% a scam.


Had several interactions with this one. Latest was someone (Male) calls me pretends to tell me she is underage and telling me with a small payment, it will all go away and she's under age. Yea right. Said he had my address (I'm too careful) so I know that's Bull shit. I never took call and only text when these assholes try this for proof. Reported to SA but she keeps coming up in Raleigh / Wilmington / Greenville, NC. Best to start clear. Makes goes by Alexis but sure to believe it ls a fake. Keep wanting gas money and said let's meet and sent me to a fake address (Found home for sell on internet). Anyways. STAY AWAY.

GentleGiant78
08-25-23, 13:18
She invited me to come meet her at the strip club where she works and buy drinks and dances. I declined.I have a few friends who are dancers and they've told me that most of the girls doing this on seeking, tinder, bumble, etc. Are girls who haven't built up regulars at the club and are just trying to get guys to come to the club and buy dances from them. They'll promise the world "as soon as they're comfortable with you" and then never follow through. But as always YMMV.

I'm sure there's more but the following SA usernames are all dancers at various clubs in the area that I've messaged with recently: BBBrittney, HolyPrincess, TraveledHeiress and Salemxoxo. There were more but their profiles are gone now.

Swimmer123
08-25-23, 13:19
I've talked to two girls like this before. One straight up admitted the strip clubs have them do this to bring people in. Nothing more than influencers, it's a rinse. If the meeting is anywhere other than a coffee first meet or FC I walk.


She invited me to come meet her at the strip club where she works and buy drinks and dances. I declined.

jobobtheclown
08-26-23, 17:05
https://members.seeking.com/member/fead0a48-0b52-490e-9d74-6bf95a43ab1c

Scam: asking for Uber money prior to meet. This marks your daily reminder to NEVER SEND A SINGLE DOLLAR BEFORE YOU MEET.

Bachelor1234
08-27-23, 05:59
https://members.seeking.com/member/fead0a48-0b52-490e-9d74-6bf95a43ab1c

Scam: asking for Uber money prior to meet. This marks your daily reminder to NEVER SEND A SINGLE DOLLAR BEFORE YOU MEET.Her pics are stolen from an aspiring insta model in Arizona.

TopGun9
08-27-23, 14:10
Does anyone use Sugardaddyforme?

Sent around 50-60 messages and have yet to receive a single response.

The site seems like it was designed in the 1990's. Pics look low quality, can't see a baby's join date or last active date / time. Can't sort by newest, most recent active, distance, etc.

Is this site still legit, do you hunt on here?

Dr SugarD
08-27-23, 14:57
Does anyone use Sugardaddyforme?

Sent around 50-60 messages and have yet to receive a single response.

The site seems like it was designed in the 1990's. Pics look low quality, can't see a baby's join date or last active date / time. Can't sort by newest, most recent active, distance, etc.

Is this site still legit, do you hunt on here?SDforme was the first SD site that I ever joined many years ago. I did meet my first SB there. It was a decent site back then but after about the 3rd time joining they kept charging my credit card even though I notified them to stop well ahead of my expiration date. I ended up threatening legal action. I didn't know about prepaid cards back then. I never joined again. I didn't even realize they were still in business.

GentleGiant78
08-27-23, 17:19
Has anyone met this one? She wants to do dinner as a first date and asked if she could bring her girlfriend and include her afterwards too. Sounds TGTBT and I'm getting eat and run vibes but I'm debating seeing how it goes anyway just out of curiosity. I'd love to know if anyone has any experience or has also been talking to her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a2da4758-f5e1-460f-8ee4-f7f0d835c3a8

EasyeOne
08-27-23, 20:51
Has anyone met this one? She wants to do dinner as a first date and asked if she could bring her girlfriend and include her afterwards too. Sounds TGTBT and I'm getting eat and run vibes but I'm debating seeing how it goes anyway just out of curiosity. I'd love to know if anyone has any experience or has also been talking to her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a2da4758-f5e1-460f-8ee4-f7f0d835c3a8Has a tendency to ghost and also wants a lot. She's been in the game since 2017. Search this: a2 da4758 on here and you will find some reviews. I never got to meet her, we could never agree on numbers.

Nahh1
08-28-23, 17:38
Anyone have any experience with BabyJinxxx?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f208d68c-12f1-4e5a-af94-408b0cfe6958

Eagle7415
08-28-23, 20:27
https://members.seeking.com/member/fb6643c7-abba-4ed8-bdd8-92bec4f93bb8

Pics are her but she is a lot thicker now, high energy sub, weird fetish, beautiful face, fun time but very needy $.

Seniors pm for details.

GentleGiant78
08-29-23, 00:37
Anyone have any experience with BabyJinxxx?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f208d68c-12f1-4e5a-af94-408b0cfe6958She's real. She used to dance at Capital, but she's much nicer than your typical dancer personality. Very skinny, A cups (if that, more like mosquito bites) and no ass to speak of. Nice girl but not particularly GFE and not particularly enthusiastic about the sex part.

HolidayHero
08-29-23, 11:09
Anyone have any experience with Rylee? Comms are very sporadic but dtf and eager to meet. Seems more so closer to the end of the month.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/88e4f9c9055ad6ea

Thanks in advance.

HH.

Jm1312
08-29-23, 11:57
Anyone have any experience with Rylee? Comms are very sporadic but dtf and eager to meet. Seems more so closer to the end of the month.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/88e4f9c9055ad6ea

Thanks in advance..I chatted with her but as you said the messaging was sporadic she I just let it drop. I just figured she was further along with someone else but who knows.

SeekingRdu
08-29-23, 13:27
Money upfront scammer, don't waste your time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/89c81c72-0cd0-4e25-a628-2c996dd285f7

Fat Daddy
08-29-23, 23:36
Just don't. She's real but nothing like the pictures make you think.

Jm1312
08-30-23, 07:34
https://members.seeking.com/member/30b6124b-062d-4a5a-92ba-fb78911a449b

This is the third profile I have been messaged from with the same picture and variations of the same name. Each time it is like the first time they have contacted me. Anyone have experience? My gut says a scammer.

SeekingRdu
08-30-23, 12:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/30b6124b-062d-4a5a-92ba-fb78911a449b

This is the third profile I have been messaged from with the same picture and variations of the same name. Each time it is like the first time they have contacted me. Anyone have experience? My gut says a scammer.She is real for sure. Don't have in person experience but am told she is wild. She feels pretty pro. But def real.

SeekingRdu
08-30-23, 12:38
Just don't. She's real but nothing like the pictures make you think.LOL I met her years ago, she didn't look bad back then, but I got freaked out because turns out she lived a couple blocks from me. Too close to home LOL.

Jm1312
08-30-23, 13:19
She is real for sure. Don't have in person experience but am told she is wild. She feels pretty pro. But def real.Definitely thanks for the insight. The multiple profiles was concerning me.

SmallAsianCock
08-30-23, 18:26
Any info on this one would be appreciated. She's been around since Feb so I hope someone here has met her. She says she can host but wants proof.

Of identity. That's a big No for me. So we decided to meet for dinner instead. She was no show.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8135fe82-032f-4f21-9b3b-37224039dbb1

Ewg047
08-31-23, 08:39
Long time lurker her. Any intel on either of these ladies would be appreciated.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b68faaa11741b7cf

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5ee71093f0e8bb17

JohnQuincy
08-31-23, 11:04
I have a few friends who are dancers and they've told me that most of the girls doing this on seeking, tinder, bumble, etc. Are girls who haven't built up regulars at the club and are just trying to get guys to come to the club and buy dances from them. They'll promise the world "as soon as they're comfortable with you" and then never follow through. But as always YMMV.

I'm sure there's more but the following SA usernames are all dancers at various clubs in the area that I've messaged with recently: BBBrittney, HolyPrincess, TraveledHeiress and Salemxoxo. There were more but their profiles are gone now.Can you link those profiles?

JohnQuincy
08-31-23, 11:13
https://members.seeking.com/member/59e0168b-490e-4666-9d06-afcdacdc15a0

Real, have met, very nice girl. Be kind to this one.Is she DTF? Did you?

HolidayHero
08-31-23, 20:05
Anyone seen this one? Been chatting but wondering if anyone has took the plunge.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d6fef140840263c4

Jm1312
08-31-23, 20:11
Anyone seen this one? Been chatting but wondering if anyone has took the plunge.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d6fef140840263c4I think she is hitting everyone up recently. I have chatted with several that have talked to her.

SmallAsianCock
08-31-23, 20:49
I think she is hitting everyone up recently. I have chatted with several that have talked to her.Everybody but me. Hahaha. I favorited her hoping she will reciprocate but no. Nothing from her yet.

Dpepsi
09-03-23, 12:38
Will second she's real but not what you think. Had a fun time but definitely not one you want around after having fun a few times.


Definitely thanks for the insight. The multiple profiles was concerning me.

Jm1312
09-03-23, 17:55
Will second she's real but not what you think. Had a fun time but definitely not one you want around after having fun a few times.Why do you say that?

Pdiddy71
09-03-23, 19:12
https://members.seeking.com/member/37f424dd-cbd1-4a5b-b6c9-2fdd8db17b00

Morgan is a non-starter for me. Constantly begging for relatively low amounts of cash. $10-$20 for gas money etc.

Constant bad luck, car, hospital, you know the nonsense. Definitely a meth head after meeting her. The whole vibe is like.

Me constantly checking my pocket to see if she's stolen my wallet. Your mileage may vary, but I highly doubt it. Super jumpy, constantly broke, constantly "running out of gas". . Tons and tons and tons of excuses to go and do something. I'd stay away if I were you.

https://members.seeking.com/member/37f424dd-cbd1-4a5b-b6c9-2fdd8db17b00

SeekingRdu
09-04-23, 09:16
Why do you say that?I have heard she is crazy LOL.

Fblah
09-04-23, 20:03
Has anyone met her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2c8dc161-e254-4e0e-acbe-cf588146ff36

She is very fast and dtf.

NiteLifed69
09-05-23, 10:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/37f424dd-cbd1-4a5b-b6c9-2fdd8db17b00

Morgan is a non-starter for me. Constantly begging for relatively low amounts of cash. $10-$20 for gas money etc.

Constant bad luck, car, hospital, you know the nonsense. Definitely a meth head after meeting her. The whole vibe is like.

Me constantly checking my pocket to see if she's stolen my wallet. Your mileage may vary, but I highly doubt it. Super jumpy, constantly broke, constantly "running out of gas". . Tons and tons and tons of excuses to go and do something. I'd stay away if I were you.

https://members.seeking.com/member/37f424dd-cbd1-4a5b-b6c9-2fdd8db17b00She use to be on SA as HilariousGorgeous. Agree she has all kinds of issues, says she has a cleaning business and needs the gas money to get to her jobs.

Falconwings33
09-05-23, 23:40
I have seen about a dozen or so women, out of these there have been only 2 that I saw more than once. I tend to lose interest after the first time, is it just me? Even though it is a pain to vet someone new and go through the hoops to finally make it happen (which I know is not easy) the excitement of meeting someone new is always better for me than seeing someone that I have been with before. Was curious if others felt the same way. I also want to know how do you guys get out of a SD arrangement, these girls keep hitting me up asking to meet again and I find myself running out of excuses. I never ghost anyone and want to find a way to politely ask them to move on.

SexGeek
09-06-23, 02:57
I have seen about a dozen or so women, out of these there have been only 2 that I saw more than once. I tend to lose interest after the first time, is it just me? Even though it is a pain to vet someone new and go through the hoops to finally make it happen (which I know is not easy) the excitement of meeting someone new is always better for me than seeing someone that I have been with before. Was curious if others felt the same way. I also want to know how do you guys get out of a SD arrangement, these girls keep hitting me up asking to meet again and I find myself running out of excuses. I never ghost anyone and want to find a way to politely ask them to move on.I would tell them when I wasn't going to see them again. I generally would see them for a few month, except the last one I saw for 4 years. As far as how you are going through the scene, IMO as long as you are having fun keep going.

Jlart123
09-06-23, 07:46
I have a sexy young friend that is looking for a few regulars. She is a slim spinner type Latina, early twenties just looking for a little fun and extra cash to help pay for college among other things. Her menu is GFE, with her specialty being BBBJ. She has long brunette hair, 5 ft nothing, and does have a lot of ink. She doesn't post ads, but trusted me enough to help her generate some business and I think this is a great platform with a cool group of gents and can be a win-win for everyone involved.

If anyone is interested please send me a DM with questions and I will either pass her information to you or give her yours.

Fat Daddy
09-06-23, 11:16
I have seen about a dozen or so women, out of these there have been only 2 that I saw more than once. I tend to lose interest after the first time, is it just me? Even though it is a pain to vet someone new and go through the hoops to finally make it happen (which I know is not easy) the excitement of meeting someone new is always better for me than seeing someone that I have been with before. Was curious if others felt the same way. I also want to know how do you guys get out of a SD arrangement, these girls keep hitting me up asking to meet again and I find myself running out of excuses. I never ghost anyone and want to find a way to politely ask them to move on.I tend to feel the same as you, always looking for something new, but did have one year-long arrangement that was pretty special. Anyway, to answer your question, I tell them that I met someone that I like just a little bit better, no dis on them, and that I can maintain only one SB at a time. This tends to leave the door open if I do decide to go back.

ElectricHug
09-06-23, 11:46
I tend to feel the same as you, always looking for something new, but did have one year-long arrangement that was pretty special. Anyway, to answer your question, I tell them that I met someone that I like just a little bit better, no dis on them, and that I can maintain only one SB at a time. This tends to leave the door open if I do decide to go back."No dis, I met someone better" doesn't make sense to me -- hard to see anyone taking that well, much less a younger SB who will likely have insecurities. I would leave it more vague, that you're currently in a personal situation in which you can't be seeing anyone else.

Fat Daddy
09-06-23, 12:28
"No dis, I met someone better" doesn't make sense to me -- hard to see anyone taking that well, much less a younger SB who will likely have insecurities. I would leave it more vague, that you're currently in a personal situation in which you can't be seeing anyone else.I actually say that I met someone who is a better fit for me. It has worked well for this old guy.

Rockzz
09-06-23, 15:56
Looking tips, reviews or price points for any of these (prefer MILFs, PM me if you don't want your favorites blown up):.Tried searching through the forum for a while, but no luck. Bringing this up to see if anyone has any review for the above profile.

Rockzz
09-06-23, 16:01
Looking tips, reviews or price points for any of these (prefer MILFs, PM me if you don't want your favorites blown up):

https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612

Or if you have other recommendations.

Thanks for any help.Tried searching through the forum but couldn't find any review. Bringing this back up to get some info. Did anyone tried contacting her or is there a review that I missed?

Falconwings33
09-06-23, 22:35
Tried searching through the forum but couldn't find any review. Bringing this back up to get some info. Did anyone tried contacting her or is there a review that I missed?I remember chatting with her for a bit, she had some outrageous demands moneywise so I passed.

Falconwings33
09-06-23, 22:38
I would tell them when I wasn't going to see them again. I generally would see them for a few month, except the last one I saw for 4 years. As far as how you are going through the scene, IMO as long as you are having fun keep going.Thanks, I am having a lot of fun for sure!

Falconwings33
09-06-23, 22:40
I tend to feel the same as you, always looking for something new, but did have one year-long arrangement that was pretty special. Anyway, to answer your question, I tell them that I met someone that I like just a little bit better, no dis on them, and that I can maintain only one SB at a time. This tends to leave the door open if I do decide to go back.Thank you, yeah I agree with the trill. I think that reason makes sense especially if schedule / distance makes it difficult to meet often.

SeekingRdu
09-07-23, 09:29
I remember chatting with her for a bit, she had some outrageous demands moneywise so I passed.Wow that is comical. She is a mediocre looking middle age chick, the only notable feature I can see in her profile is a forehead that comes straight from a 1950's alien movie. Can do way better on tinder for free tvm.

SeekingRdu
09-07-23, 09:32
I have seen about a dozen or so women, out of these there have been only 2 that I saw more than once. I tend to lose interest after the first time, is it just me? Even though it is a pain to vet someone new and go through the hoops to finally make it happen (which I know is not easy) the excitement of meeting someone new is always better for me than seeing someone that I have been with before. Was curious if others felt the same way. I also want to know how do you guys get out of a SD arrangement, these girls keep hitting me up asking to meet again and I find myself running out of excuses. I never ghost anyone and want to find a way to politely ask them to move on.I have been with many dozens of chicks on sa now and the majority are one time, largely because they just weren't that attractive, or they sucked in bed, or they were too pro, or some combo of all of the above.

However some of them have been worth keeping. Had one amazing one for nearly a year, she may come back on the scene. Have had actual regular relationships with some of them. Nothing beats a young 20 something hot chick willing to hang and have fun with an old dude, so when I find a really good one I try to keep them.

SandPiper540
09-07-23, 11:42
I have seen about a dozen or so women, out of these there have been only 2 that I saw more than once. I tend to lose interest after the first time, is it just me? Even though it is a pain to vet someone new and go through the hoops to finally make it happen (which I know is not easy) the excitement of meeting someone new is always better for me than seeing someone that I have been with before. Was curious if others felt the same way. I also want to know how do you guys get out of a SD arrangement, these girls keep hitting me up asking to meet again and I find myself running out of excuses. I never ghost anyone and want to find a way to politely ask them to move on.LOL. You want to know how to get a SB or any woman to stop calling you?? Tell them you lost your job & you're broke. If you want to add a cherry on top ask them if they can spot you a few bucks for gas. You will never hear from them again.

Pdiddy71
09-07-23, 11:49
Wow that is comical. She is a mediocre looking middle age chick, the only notable feature I can see in her profile is a forehead that comes straight from a 1950's alien movie. Can do way better on tinder for free tvm.Bro the forehead comment is spot on and no matter how hard I try I can't unsee it.

Not to mention how much that made me laugh. Thank you brother!

Jm1312
09-07-23, 12:42
Any reports or experiences?

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2aac4121556c5278

Jm1312
09-08-23, 20:35
Tried to send a message it said your box is full.

Fat Daddy
09-08-23, 23:57
I will not be going back and do not recommend. More like an overpriced, inexperienced escort than a SB and simply not worth your money.

RitterJ87
09-09-23, 17:11
Anyone seen her?Paid meet and greet and then does the send gas money for future meetings scam. Waste of time.

DirtyDeeds38
09-12-23, 13:42
I have seen about a dozen or so women, out of these there have been only 2 that I saw more than once. I tend to lose interest after the first time, is it just me? Even though it is a pain to vet someone new and go through the hoops to finally make it happen (which I know is not easy) the excitement of meeting someone new is always better for me than seeing someone that I have been with before. Was curious if others felt the same way. I also want to know how do you guys get out of a SD arrangement, these girls keep hitting me up asking to meet again and I find myself running out of excuses. I never ghost anyone and want to find a way to politely ask them to move on.I've been on the site for about eight years now. And I run into the situation about once a year. The exit plan. Here is something I am very upfront right out of the gate if it turns into anything more than a one night stand and there's going to be some type of relationship. I tell them I am allowancing you. I am giving you money. You are providing a service of sorts. Therefore I am a customer and at any time I want to cut it off I have the right to do that because I am paying you. If you want the right to dig your claws into me and make my life a living hell because I want to move on? Then you do not get to charge me an allowance for your service. LOL it's like the old saying, you are paying them to leave. Many of these women lose sight of that as the relationship progresses. But all of these arrangements come to an end eventually. The only question is how messy will it get. They can get extremely attached and extremely clingy. And that can turn into vengefulness and making your life hell in an instant. So for that reason I remind them often throughout the course of our relationship. If you want it to be different, quit accepting my money. The last sugar baby I had lasted a year. She literally thought of herself as my girlfriend and I pretty much treated her that way. In the end I reminded her that I had seen her dozens of times over the last year. Probably about 80 times. And every single one of those times, she had no issues whatsoever taking my money. So therefore she didn't get the right to act like a jaded girlfriend when it came to an end. That still didn't work though. Not until I sent her a picture of my dick in another woman's mouth. She finally got it then. Sue tried to get nasty with me over leaving. Rip that bandaid off and don't let them play games. If you do, you'll regret it.

Swimmer123
09-12-23, 16:10
Call it 80 bucks down the drain and a lesson learned. 10-12 messages received from "verified" profiles, when I reply I hear back from none. I have no doubt there are real people on there but I do feel baited into spending that 80 to see the messages that were dead ends. Much better engagement and responses from seeking and I'll stick with it instead.

ElectricHug
09-12-23, 16:18
Paid meet and greet and then does the send gas money for future meetings scam. Waste of time.I genuinely don't understand why anyone is agreeing to pay just to meet and buy them drinks / food. As far as I have seen, that never goes well, and you are feeding into GPS entitlement.

The Creature
09-12-23, 17:15
Same observation here. Considering the pricing structure, I say get a membership to Seeking and carpet bomb anyone of interest with your phone number. You will definitely get some hits.

Sometimes I think Secret is full of fake profiles. They send you an initial messages and you pay to read / reply. Then nothing but silence. Good business model.


Call it 80 bucks down the drain and a lesson learned. 10-12 messages received from "verified" profiles, when I reply I hear back from none. I have no doubt there are real people on there but I do feel baited into spending that 80 to see the messages that were dead ends. Much better engagement and responses from seeking and I'll stick with it instead.

Gatttaca
09-12-23, 17:52
Call it 80 bucks down the drain and a lesson learned. 10-12 messages received from "verified" profiles, when I reply I hear back from none. I have no doubt there are real people on there but I do feel baited into spending that 80 to see the messages that were dead ends. Much better engagement and responses from seeking and I'll stick with it instead.Secret benefits is Totally a scam. I am thinking the girls get paid on there if they make guys spend credits. In the past 5 or so years I have used SB I had one decent arrangement with one girl and had about 4 or 5 conversations, like at least 2 replies to my messages. I have record and replied to easily a 100 girls.

I too had more luck with SA and also WYP.

jobobtheclown
09-15-23, 17:21
A random tip: messages sent at the Seeking.com website can have vertical widespace (I. E. Carriage returns, separated paragraphs). On the app, it can't. So if you send a carefully organized message that separates its core ideas thoughtfully and cleanly, just know that in the app, it's all getting squished together like the rantings of a crazy person.

DriveHard
09-15-23, 18:54
A random tip: messages sent at the Seeking.com website can have vertical widespace (I. E. Carriage returns, separated paragraphs). On the app, it can't. So if you send a carefully organized message that separates its core ideas thoughtfully and cleanly, just know that in the app, it's all getting squished together like the rantings of a crazy person.While likely very true, I've found the young ladies in their 20's use iphones almost exclusively and are forced to use the website. I rarely venture out of that age range, so no app problems on my end, LOL.

SeekingRdu
09-16-23, 11:26
Has anyone managed to get anything from this one? Would love any insight.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a5fadfe9-df01-4541-956f-59d20ec45496

Falconwings33
09-16-23, 22:10
Figured, I'd share some of me experiences with you guys. Feel free to ask any questions you have and I will try to answer.

Alexis.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a7edfecd-f4b7-4e46-8aac-5624d4eb6453

This one started to ask money in the first conversation off the site, I asked for a meet and greet first and then she went silent on me.

Kamorra.

https://members.seeking.com/member/147c3ecc-31c2-413f-8583-2dc707f86217

She is a stripper and DTF. Kinda expensive but YMMV with this one. I had a great time.

Fungymgirl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/33240e39-9e74-4ce2-98b6-9d98a9cce9ef

This one was an UTR type, a regular college girl and I am bummed that I let it get away. Somehow our schedules could not work and the last message I got was that she was not in hobby for now. Maybe she might be back.

Nicocacola.

https://members.seeking.com/member/722fa89e-fa84-46a4-b380-3dc44468cd23

She is real and is into BDSM, I think she is a Dom. Mige find her on fetflife, anyway that is not my thing so I did not pursue.

Sexijessi.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1a2dd331-c5e0-4b15-9817-115bdd49f518

She is one of the hottest girls I have met on seeking but the experience itself wasnt great. Just something she did that turned me off and I did not see her again. Great body and cute face.

BeanieBaby94.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ce32d2aa-f1c4-4139-8c54-8cd0e4d5b2a7

Could not meet her, chatted with her for over a few weeks but she never agreed on a date, waste of time.

Ginger.

https://members.seeking.com/member/138a1217-a310-405b-bb9c-f4eac8e3729c

MILF types, she was ready to meet for the deed. I felt she had a bit of GPS or was just kinds rude while chatting so I skipped.

Some other ones that I cannot find on the site anymore, maybe they blocked me.

Funblonde. Another MILF, average body but cute. Kinda bad in bed. Was not willing to try postions and coming up with some excuses.

Bella99, Rebella. Chatted with these two and exchanged pics, looked really hot but could not meet due to schedules.

JDeller
09-18-23, 20:39
Have had about a dozen. About six were one and done. No exit strategy needed. Just don't text them.

Saw about 4-5 for a few times each. Usually it was mixture of waning fun, chemistry, better / cheaper / wider menu option, or inability to meet up consistently. Those I just sent a respectful text message. They sent back a respectful text message back and wished me well and that was that.

I had one for almost two years and this one was tough. I was going to do it in person but in the end I just ended it with a long text. There really isn't any easy exit strategy. Every arrangement / person is different.

After the breakup, only two girls ever contacted me again. One I saw a few times again after a year hiatus but I just stopped texting her. I didn't feel like "breaking up" with her twice LOL. The long term I am still in contact with but no sugar is exchanged.


I have seen about a dozen or so women, out of these there have been only 2 that I saw more than once. I tend to lose interest after the first time, is it just me? Even though it is a pain to vet someone new and go through the hoops to finally make it happen (which I know is not easy) the excitement of meeting someone new is always better for me than seeing someone that I have been with before. Was curious if others felt the same way. I also want to know how do you guys get out of a SD arrangement, these girls keep hitting me up asking to meet again and I find myself running out of excuses. I never ghost anyone and want to find a way to politely ask them to move on.

Falconwings33
09-20-23, 22:05
Have had about a dozen. About six were one and done. No exit strategy needed. Just don't text them.

Saw about 4-5 for a few times each. Usually it was mixture of waning fun, chemistry, better / cheaper / wider menu option, or inability to meet up consistently. Those I just sent a respectful text message. They sent back a respectful text message back and wished me well and that was that.

I had one for almost two years and this one was tough. I was going to do it in person but in the end I just ended it with a long text. There really isn't any easy exit strategy. Every arrangement / person is different.

After the breakup, only two girls ever contacted me again. One I saw a few times again after a year hiatus but I just stopped texting her. I didn't feel like "breaking up" with her twice LOL. The long term I am still in contact with but no sugar is exchanged.Thank you for sharing.

Tribeca67
09-22-23, 18:41
Any info on this one? Also if anyone wants to trade videos from girls on seeking only. Pm me.

Ncsmm
09-22-23, 22:27
Anyone want swap contacts?

RockedWood
09-25-23, 12:54
https://members.seeking.com/member/d59a4587-2bfe-4d2a-aaec-8d85d52153c6

Chat was ok talking about meeting but then wanted to know what she could do to earn $100 right now. Ghosted after refusing.

NiteLifed69
09-25-23, 14:16
Any information on bbygirll3?

We exchanged numbers and texted for a couple of days and she has offered pics to purchase.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2a7a5771-fdac-4958-8972-7b3abc000688

Jm1312
09-25-23, 22:24
Any information on bbygirll3?

We exchanged numbers and texted for a couple of days and she has offered pics to purchase.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2a7a5771-fdac-4958-8972-7b3abc000688I would not go through with any SB that leads with a picture purchase.

TXGuido
09-25-23, 22:56
Any information on bbygirll3?

We exchanged numbers and texted for a couple of days and she has offered pics to purchase.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2a7a5771-fdac-4958-8972-7b3abc000688Heck, I would have got the pics just out of sheer curiosity to see what that body looks like. Very interesting curves there! I know she's been around a while. I reached out once, didn't hear back, and didn't care enough to try again.

AkaToneloc
09-26-23, 08:46
Chatted back in June and I'm sure this is her 3rd account. Things don't go well when they want to communicate by snapchat. I didn't buy pics and she goes missing when time to meet before replying a day or two later offering to sell pics again. Keep on moving.


Any information on bbygirll3?

We exchanged numbers and texted for a couple of days and she has offered pics to purchase.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2a7a5771-fdac-4958-8972-7b3abc000688

SeekingRdu
09-26-23, 10:05
I would not go through with any SB that leads with a picture purchase.That and she looks fat and unattractive.

Jm1312
09-26-23, 13:24
That and she looks fat and unattractive.There are others more willing to meet than someone this vague.

ElectricHug
09-26-23, 18:23
Heck, I would have got the pics just out of sheer curiosity to see what that body looks like.Why would you pay for pics of someone you've never met? It's probably some dude in India selling you leaked OF content. You're only encouraging the fake account scammers. You can get porn for free these days, you know.

NiteLifed69
09-26-23, 21:55
Why would you pay for pics of someone you've never met? It's probably some dude in India selling you leaked OF content. You're only encouraging the fake account scammers. You can get porn for free these days, you know.I agree you can get porn for free but Bbygirl is real she's just a scammer like AkaToneloc says she'll promise to meetup but she never does all she wants to do is sell pictures and videos.

She did one video to show she was real, I asked her to put on a NC State hat, sucking on a lollipop while chewing gum. She sent that one video but after that all she wants now is to sell pics and videos but she doesn't want to meet.

LuckyAzn
09-26-23, 23:53
Anyone have any luck with WYP ladies? Lots of lookers but paying for a bunch of credits and not going anywhere with them is a scam in itself. Looks like it costs 40 credits ($20) just to message and contact the person. That's a little pricey isn't it? Especially if there is no guarantee of an actual date. And do you pay the agreed date offer through the site?

Just curious to see if anyone has had any luck on there and how the process works. Thanks.

ElectricHug
09-27-23, 10:01
I agree you can get porn for free but Bbygirl is real she's just a scammer like AkaToneloc says she'll promise to meetup but she never does all she wants to do is sell pictures and videos.

She did one video to show she was real, I asked her to put on a NC State hat, sucking on a lollipop while chewing gum. She sent that one video but after that all she wants now is to sell pics and videos but she doesn't want to meet.Fair enough. I still don't agree with indulging them selling content on SA or escort sites instead of OF, but to each his own.

NiteLifed69
09-27-23, 13:49
Fair enough. I still don't agree with indulging them selling content on SA or escort sites instead of OF, but to each his own.I agree with you on that, don't indulge the sugar babies by purchasing content on SA or an escort site.

Jm1312
09-27-23, 15:17
Fair enough. I still don't agree with indulging them selling content on SA or escort sites instead of OF, but to each his own.I am in agreement with you. I never buy content or send money before meetings.

jobobtheclown
09-27-23, 20:13
These two have a new account, and say they haven't been on there before, but I swear they - especially the one cut off on the right - look familiar. Am I crazy?

Hiamey
09-27-23, 23:41
These two have a new account, and say they haven't been on there before, but I swear they - especially the one cut off on the right - look familiar. Am I crazy?Can you post a link to the profile?

Swimmer123
09-28-23, 12:10
Joint / twin accounts are a waste of time 99% of the time. Double the price for half the pleasure. Save yourself the trouble and don't bother.


These two have a new account, and say they haven't been on there before, but I swear they - especially the one cut off on the right - look familiar. Am I crazy?

ElectricHug
09-28-23, 20:05
Joint / twin accounts are a waste of time 99% of the time. Double the price for half the pleasure. Save yourself the trouble and don't bother.That's what I usually assume, that it's either two girls who think that by joining up they can dupe someone into paying for a M&G by dangling the false hope of regular threesomes, or at best suggest an outrageous PPM like $800+.

Has anyone ever experienced different? Any that have been truly bi with each other (which seems near impossible to find, even among actual escorts).

SeekingRdu
09-29-23, 09:23
That's what I usually assume, that it's either two girls who think that by joining up they can dupe someone into paying for a M&G by dangling the false hope of regular threesomes, or at best suggest an outrageous PPM like $800+.

Has anyone ever experienced different? Any that have been truly bi with each other (which seems near impossible to find, even among actual escorts).I believe you are mostly correct.

There was one lesbian couple out by reidsville, but one half was fugly, the other pretty trashy. But I did do one threesome with them where they totally got into each other.

Better approach is to find a single bi sb and then try line up a third.

Jm1312
09-29-23, 16:09
I believe you are mostly correct.

There was one lesbian couple out by reidsville, but one half was fugly, the other pretty trashy. But I did do one threesome with them where they totally got into each other.

Better approach is to find a single bi sb and then try line up a third.I started a discussion with a couple on SA and within two days three more 'couples' reached out. Most likely they are all the same person trying to get money for stolen content or such. I agree with the approach mentioned above.

RobberFly
09-30-23, 02:19
Hi guys, I will be in Raleigh are for few days starting from next week. And if you guys can point me in the direction of a girl who enjoys what she does that would be awesome. What I'm looking for is some one who would be open to hangout and do the deed, maybe grab some lunch or go to a movie, something like that. If she enjoys 420 that's a plus point. Age docent matter as long as she is a good sport. And if you fine gents suggest someone, rest assured ill treat her right. And ill do the same if your ever in Greenville area. Cheers.

Hiamey
10-04-23, 20:07
Any information on this lady will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e023eb14-581f-4c2c-b6c9-8d0ab3da040f

Eagle7415
10-04-23, 20:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/76c5dc67-830f-4619-a554-ad7398cdf5f1

Any information on this lady would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

Bh400
10-05-23, 09:17
https://members.seeking.com/member/76c5dc67-830f-4619-a554-ad7398cdf5f1

Any information on this lady would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!She is legit despite having used multiple profiles recently. I have seen her a few times and overall had a good time with her. Cute little country girl vibe which I dig. I would place her a little more to the pro side instead of as an SB though.

She is not the most punctual and no-showed on me the last time we made plans to get together. She apologized the next day and said her phone broke. I get the feeling her life is more hectic than she lets on. I would see her again but unfortunately after that drama she moved down the list of priorities.

LostTribe
10-05-23, 09:47
Any information on this lady will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e023eb14-581f-4c2c-b6c9-8d0ab3da040fI have had some comms with her. I get a bit of a shady vibe and her pictures are way to touched up. Proceed with caution.

Jm1312
10-05-23, 11:01
I have had some comms with her. I get a bit of a shady vibe and her pictures are way to touched up. Proceed with caution.I agree with this. This one has more of a pro feeling.

SmallAsianCock
10-05-23, 20:12
Anyone has luck with this lady.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5dd045e0-c75b-4a2e-a16e-07d806aaab0b

Fblah
10-05-23, 21:25
GPS Waste of time. Asks for 500-1000 deposit.

HolidayHero
10-06-23, 07:25
Saw a story on WRAL this morning and I believe it's this girl from SB that I've had some contact with. Such a shame she was a beautiful girl.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f0a2d8295ddcf165

https://www.wral.com/video/durham-murder-victim-idd-as-duke-grad-student/21081419/

LostTribe
10-06-23, 09:03
GPS Waste of time. Asks for 500-1000 deposit.LOL, she was asking for 6 k allowance. Must be a nice colored sky in that world.

Ncsmm
10-06-23, 23:12
Any feedback?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8d85446d-d619-4104-9677-ae88432e5cb3

Ncsmm
10-06-23, 23:15
She is here until Monday.

She is asking 500.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f111926c-4cd3-4e5a-bcac-43a65678f6f9

SeekingRdu
10-07-23, 13:14
She is here until Monday.

She is asking 500.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f111926c-4cd3-4e5a-bcac-43a65678f6f9500? Lololoololololol.

IBuyIt2
10-07-23, 21:41
Saw a story on WRAL this morning and I believe it's this girl from SB that I've had some contact with. Such a shame she was a beautiful girl.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f0a2d8295ddcf165

https://www.wral.com/video/durham-murder-victim-idd-as-duke-grad-student/21081419/Wow, this is sad. I contacted her in the SB site and we exchanged numbers. I text her once and she said hi back, but that was it. One article said she knew the guy accused of the crime. I wonder if they met on the site.

SeekingRdu
10-08-23, 17:23
Wow, this is sad. I contacted her in the SB site and we exchanged numbers. I text her once and she said hi back, but that was it. One article said she knew the guy accused of the crime. I wonder if they met on the site.It is very sad. I have never seen her before but from what we see in the public eye she seemed cool. It sounds like the dude was the same age as her so probably not a sugar daddy but just a regular guy she was most likely dating.

This is going back a while but this chick was on seeking and I met her a few times. I was stunned when I saw her face pop up on the news. It was clear very early it was her psycho husband that was responsible.

https://abc11.com/wake-forest-murder-stalf-captured/1065211/

Member #6531
10-09-23, 02:02
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/blzjDGqrJ4PobeQJ3Vdgkx7X

She's tempted me to revisit my pass on her. Anyone have any new insight?

Sobe69
10-09-23, 08:06
She was on BP back in the day and use to host at the crabtree la Quinta. Reports were mixed back then. Pics are filtered but she does look like the pics we have communicated but never met.


Any information on this lady will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e023eb14-581f-4c2c-b6c9-8d0ab3da040f

SeekingRdu
10-09-23, 09:13
She was on BP back in the day and use to host at the crabtree la Quinta. Reports were mixed back then. Pics are filtered but she does look like the pics we have communicated but never met.She came across way too pro for me and that explains it LOL.

Ncsmm
10-11-23, 22:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/76c5dc67-830f-4619-a554-ad7398cdf5f1

Any information on this lady would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!I scheduled her 2 time. She didn't show up.

I checked with her before 1 hr she said yes.

After she went to ghost.

Ncsmm
10-12-23, 13:48
Any feedback?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8d85446d-d619-4104-9677-ae88432e5cb3I set up date and time with her.

We was texting every hour. I got a room she said 25 min away.

She was texted before 5 min from the hotel after she went ghost.

I don't know she is really or someone just playing.

AshWink
10-14-23, 13:37
That's the profile name, and so is the experience. She is also on CC with profile as kitten something. And she is also on Fet.

Initially she cancelled twice because of some unknown reasons. Then finally met at her place which was strictly platonic (she said she will open up in future visits. I know I know it's my mistake). Just cuddled a bit, I had to change positions like move my own arms and legs a couple times because I'm not a lizard to stick to one position for ever. She is kind of crazy, later bombarded my phone blaming of manhandling her. Not worth the drama, even after treating her nice with some gifts.

Stay far away.

DriveHard
10-16-23, 15:32
Chatting now, any info on this one? She seems a little flakey.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a93cf58f-fdb8-4d2b-9a30-160d22ed4250

GentleGiant78
10-16-23, 17:00
Chatting now, any info on this one? She seems a little flakey.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a93cf58f-fdb8-4d2b-9a30-160d22ed4250She's real. We had drinks back in February or March sometime. I don't remember having any particular difficulty with communication or scheduling. She seemed really great and I definitely would have seen her again but she blew me off after our m&g so I guess she didn't feel the same way.

SeekingRdu
10-16-23, 17:07
She's real. We had drinks back in February or March sometime. I don't remember having any particular difficulty with communication or scheduling. She seemed really great and I definitely would have seen her again but she blew me off after our m&g so I guess she didn't feel the same way.She told me 5 months ago she had found an sd.

Looks like she is back.

Gulf0521
10-16-23, 22:42
I have a sexy young friend that is looking for a few regulars. She is a slim spinner type Latina, early twenties just looking for a little fun and extra cash to help pay for college among other things. Her menu is GFE, with her specialty being BBBJ. She has long brunette hair, 5 ft nothing, and does have a lot of ink. She doesn't post ads, but trusted me enough to help her generate some business and I think this is a great platform with a cool group of gents and can be a win-win for everyone involved.

If anyone is interested please send me a DM with questions and I will either pass her information to you or give her yours.I'd be interested in contacting with you sexy Latina. Send me her info. I'm.

Had only a few long term SB's.

Sobe69
10-18-23, 07:59
Was this a cuddle session or a SA date? I have gotten close but more interesting things came along and never returned.


That's the profile name, and so is the experience. She is also on CC with profile as kitten something. And she is also on Fet.

Initially she cancelled twice because of some unknown reasons. Then finally met at her place which was strictly platonic (she said she will open up in future visits. I know I know it's my mistake). Just cuddled a bit, I had to change positions like move my own arms and legs a couple times because I'm not a lizard to stick to one position for ever. She is kind of crazy, later bombarded my phone blaming of manhandling her. Not worth the drama, even after treating her nice with some gifts.

Stay far away.

SeekingRdu
10-18-23, 12:04
Spent all day texting her before she asked do I have zelle or applepay. Save why'all wasting your time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b3d75605-5d1c-46d8-b716-83448549bf81

South215
10-25-23, 15:10
https://members.seeking.com/member/15c2a439-9d03-4435-8d04-a7c5fe05fd0b

Who knows anything about this one? PM Open!!

LikesGirls
10-25-23, 16:13
https://members.seeking.com/member/15c2a439-9d03-4435-8d04-a7c5fe05fd0b

Who knows anything about this one? PM Open!!She's real and the photos are accurate but all you will get from her is a handjob and covered oral. She's been discussed here several times before, and has had many accounts over the years.

Bh400
10-25-23, 17:10
She's real and the photos are accurate but all you will get from her is a handjob and covered oral. She's been discussed here several times before, and has had many accounts over the years.Hmm, I wish I could have found some reviews before I set up a visit with her. Not nearly as fun as her profile or messages would lead you to believe. I got at least some very lackluster CFS but I could tell this really isn't the line of work she needs to be in. She is cool, but I have cool friends I can see for free. I would pass based on my experience. If anyone else has a different take let us know.

DriveHard
10-25-23, 18:07
She's real. We had drinks back in February or March sometime. I don't remember having any particular difficulty with communication or scheduling. She seemed really great and I definitely would have seen her again but she blew me off after our m&g so I guess she didn't feel the same way.


She told me 5 months ago she had found an sd.

Looks like she is back.Thanks gents. She's stalling. I think she's whale hunting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a93cf58f-fdb8-4d2b-9a30-160d22ed4250

Swimmer123
10-25-23, 18:56
Thanks gents. She's stalling. I think she's whale hunting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a93cf58f-fdb8-4d2b-9a30-160d22ed4250I spoke with her on Snapchat. She is dtf for the right amount, for me it was 6. YMMV, don't go quoting me to her. Just move on if she isn't about it. I'm willing to spend if you have seen previous posts of mine but once the "rules" started coming out I wasn't interested anymore. Once you're paying over 5 I'm not hearing about rules.

SeekingRdu
10-27-23, 09:52
Hmm, I wish I could have found some reviews before I set up a visit with her. Not nearly as fun as her profile or messages would lead you to believe. I got at least some very lackluster CFS but I could tell this really isn't the line of work she needs to be in. She is cool, but I have cool friends I can see for free. I would pass based on my experience. If anyone else has a different take let us know.No I saw her on in 2015 when she was younger, hotter, and still drinking. But she was lame af in the sack.

AkaToneloc
10-28-23, 09:53
100% fake pics. These are of an IG influencer / model.

https://members.seeking.com/member/28f92bbe-ea7b-459d-8f9a-2791ea1c3b60

Ncsmm
10-28-23, 19:32
Any info? Looks like a new profile?

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9af7739f-c11d-43f4-812f-28e328c8be67

jobobtheclown
10-29-23, 12:03
Any info? Looks like a new profile?

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9af7739f-c11d-43f4-812f-28e328c8be67Got to link the profile, not the message.

DriveHard
10-29-23, 13:40
That's the profile name, and so is the experience. She is also on CC with profile as kitten something. And she is also on Fet.

Initially she cancelled twice because of some unknown reasons. Then finally met at her place which was strictly platonic (she said she will open up in future visits. I know I know it's my mistake). Just cuddled a bit, I had to change positions like move my own arms and legs a couple times because I'm not a lizard to stick to one position for ever. She is kind of crazy, later bombarded my phone blaming of manhandling her. Not worth the drama, even after treating her nice with some gifts.

Stay far away.Is this the one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/02d37b82-67f3-493e-8a0e-33afc3495c53

Ncsmm
10-29-23, 14:04
Got to link the profile, not the message.https://members.seeking.com/member/603623fd-ac15-4612-81a1-f13d0c2ad308

DriveHard
10-29-23, 15:47
Here we go:

XBabyx: "I've been a SB before, this is not my first rodeo. GPS, wants a monthly allowance. "nor do I do 'weekly payments' ".

https://members.seeking.com/member/be73aa6a-9f07-48a9-bbac-0877ad7523d9.Any other reviews on her? She is very argumentative in her messages. Is she like that in person once we agree to meet?

https://members.seeking.com/member/be73aa6a-9f07-48a9-bbac-0877ad7523d9

Ncsmm
10-29-23, 22:22
https://members.seeking.com/member/603623fd-ac15-4612-81a1-f13d0c2ad308Anyone have any info about this girl? She is real?

Falconwings33
10-30-23, 07:23
Been chatting with these two who are ready to meet. Anybody has seen them before? Feel free to PM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/54ad3b6a-b150-4f4f-a1b6-cd21035bd911

https://members.seeking.com/member/423741b2-3eda-4da8-8673-ec38729dda22

NiteLifed69
10-30-23, 11:59
Anyone have any info about this girl? She is real?She's real, she will meet with you in one of the low end hotels in Wilson. I was going to meet up with.

Her a couple of weeks ago, I just hate going to those hotels like that at night in Wilson.

Ncsmm
10-30-23, 17:10
She's real, she will meet with you in one of the low end hotels in Wilson. I was going to meet up with.

Her a couple of weeks ago, I just hate going to those hotels like that at night in Wilson.Thank you.

I set up appointment with her 2 times, one time we was texting all day when is was time to meet she went ghost. After couple hours she texted, today I got a nice room close to her hotel we was texting all morning when I got there she went quiet after couple hours she texted again.

Looks like some playing.

Same like the other girl she want to meet in Wilson 2 times didn't show up.

This year before June I find do many young girls on the site I was meet them couple times after all was gone. Normally new girls on the site they are only in the site 1 day.

September & October I just waisted my time.

I am not doing coffee or dinner dates, I getting a room first time.

South215
10-31-23, 17:10
https://members.seeking.com/member/a6ac70f2-1908-4f31-96e5-0d6fa619281f

Anyone seen this one? PM open!

Ncsmm
10-31-23, 22:11
https://members.seeking.com/member/92c61c8e-a99c-451a-8ceb-f7e7570b847f

She is real girl, picture matching with her, I meet with her couple times always on the time, I had a good time she is really enjoy. She is not rushing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/47768c22-cfe3-48e3-8811-b574e20f2ca7

Her picture is older, she is looks little different she is more on the pro side, rushing not enjoy the time, money maker.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0bd6ab88-8bb2-4317-b843-2522654b9770

She is a super sweet girl, always on the time. She is really enjoy the time super wet, never rushing she send any time with you doing everything I asking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/46e53944-b3bb-4a87-b50d-46796e4bffb2

Her picture is older, she is on time. Not my type.

SavageThing
10-31-23, 23:22
Dude these women are ugly. You're wasting your time and money.


https://members.seeking.com/member/92c61c8e-a99c-451a-8ceb-f7e7570b847f

She is real girl, picture matching with her, I meet with her couple times always on the time, I had a good time she is really enjoy. She is not rushing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/47768c22-cfe3-48e3-8811-b574e20f2ca7

Her picture is older, she is looks little different she is more on the pro side, rushing not enjoy the time, money maker.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0bd6ab88-8bb2-4317-b843-2522654b9770

She is a super sweet girl, always on the time. She is really enjoy the time super wet, never rushing she send any time with you doing everything I asking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/46e53944-b3bb-4a87-b50d-46796e4bffb2

Her picture is older, she is on time. Not my type.

Ncsmm
11-01-23, 09:25
Dude these women are ugly. You're wasting your time and money.You're correct.

98% of the girls on the website ugly, other 2% want $5 k.

I never spent 150-200 , I never do public meetings.

Skillet
11-01-23, 10:50
Thank you.

I set up appointment with her 2 times, one time we was texting all day when is was time to meet she went ghost. After couple hours she texted, today I got a nice room close to her hotel we was texting all morning when I got there she went quiet after couple hours she texted again.

Looks like some playing.

Same like the other girl she want to meet in Wilson 2 times didn't show up.

This year before June I find do many young girls on the site I was meet them couple times after all was gone. Normally new girls on the site they are only in the site 1 day.

September & October I just waisted my time.

I am not doing coffee or dinner dates, I getting a room first time.Maybe it's the motel owner running this scam to get people to book rooms.

SeekingRdu
11-01-23, 12:47
You're correct.

98% of the girls on the website ugly, other 2% want $5 k.

I never spent 150-200 , I never do public meetings.Bro with all respect you are probably better off trying to focus on escort world not sb world.

Aamogdem
11-02-23, 00:59
Maybe it's the motel owner running this scam to get people to book rooms.That would a very smart business owner, LOL!

jobobtheclown
11-02-23, 22:04
https://members.seeking.com/member/114768da-9184-4474-9a1c-1baad6fdcf8d

This is an interesting one. It's a scammer; gets you to text then just flat out asks you to send money. No "my car broke down" or "could you help me out," just "could you send me some money. " What's interesting is that a social media search shows these pics are really of a student up in Chapel Hill. It's rare to see a scam not just grab random porn star pics.

AkaToneloc
11-03-23, 06:44
Short two letter profile name so difficult search. Personally I like her pics. The one with the hat gives off bartender / dancer vibes to me. I'm curious if anyone has met with her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6487ef14-194d-43f0-8b63-677b36483407

Tone.

SeekingRdu
11-03-23, 09:14
https://members.seeking.com/member/114768da-9184-4474-9a1c-1baad6fdcf8d

This is an interesting one. It's a scammer; gets you to text then just flat out asks you to send money. No "my car broke down" or "could you help me out," just "could you send me some money. " What's interesting is that a social media search shows these pics are really of a student up in Chapel Hill. It's rare to see a scam not just grab random porn star pics.Ha yeah I noticed the same. Facecheck. I'd makes most of these chicks searchable. "She" is saying on seeking she is a student at nc state. I mean at least look at where you are stealing the pics from.

SaintMan3500
11-04-23, 13:01
Has anyone seen Peut Etre, Gigi, or Joybabe? If so, how were they in terms of attitude during meet up, texting, ppm range, etc. The first two are in Raleigh, while the last seems to be in the Durham area.

Peut.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c3d258c6-fe03-4adf-8684-f3d3114a7de2

Gigi.

https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3

Joybabe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9ac1c8c6-f8af-4f45-ad7f-05b954bc86df

NeedToSearch2
11-07-23, 11:01
Hello all, Emily Brookes is transitioning from provider to sugar baby and is looking for a match. I used to have an arrangement with her until I lost an income revenue. She's the sweetest, most appreciative girl I've been with and you guys should really check her out. I've reviewed her before, you can look those up by search. I'll post her ad, but let me know if you need more details through DM.

https://tryst.link/escort/emilyangelic

P.S. Her snap is down so text is best.

LostTribe
11-07-23, 19:05
Can only speak to Gigi. She was very responsive and pleasant to be around. Her quoted ppm was 400-500. I did not take it past the first meeting.


Has anyone seen Peut Etre, Gigi, or Joybabe? If so, how were they in terms of attitude during meet up, texting, ppm range, etc. The first two are in Raleigh, while the last seems to be in the Durham area.

Peut.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c3d258c6-fe03-4adf-8684-f3d3114a7de2

Gigi.

https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3

Joybabe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9ac1c8c6-f8af-4f45-ad7f-05b954bc86df

Hppmstch2
11-09-23, 00:16
https://members.seeking.com/member/856db8ad-c770-4fe6-bf39-301361f4b423

Texted me from a fake number. I asked if she had a particular kind of sitch in mind. 'She' said she wanted to start online before meeting up. I went along with it saying 'ok that's wise, we can get familiar so no time gets wasted' just to find out the nuance of the scam, and was immediately hit with 'Okay! I can send nude pics / vids of me giving head and having sex with guys or girls for a payment I have anything you would like and I can do live cam sessions with toys'. I layed into 'her' mentioning that there's this new place you can get all the porn you can handle, and unbelievably it's all free! I think it's name is something like 'The Internet'. No response and I was immediately blocked on Sa.

Jm1312
11-09-23, 15:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/856db8ad-c770-4fe6-bf39-301361f4b423

Texted me from a fake number. I asked if she had a particular kind of sitch in mind. 'She' said she wanted to start online before meeting up. I went along with it saying 'ok that's wise, we can get familiar so no time gets wasted' just to find out the nuance of the scam, and was immediately hit with 'Okay! I can send nude pics / vids of me giving head and having sex with guys or girls for a payment I have anything you would like and I can do live cam sessions with toys'. I layed into 'her' mentioning that there's this new place you can get all the porn you can handle, and unbelievably it's all free! I think it's name is something like 'The Internet'. No response and I was immediately blocked on Sa.Great way too handle that.

BlueWaters
11-12-23, 18:40
Saw a story on WRAL this morning and I believe it's this girl from SB that I've had some contact with. Such a shame she was a beautiful girl.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f0a2d8295ddcf165

https://www.wral.com/video/durham-murder-victim-idd-as-duke-grad-student/21081419/Here's an update to that story. How strange, you wouldn't even expect a graduate student like her to run in the same circle as such a loser. And her father honestly sounds like he couldn't give 2 shits. Considering she's originally from California which is of course a legal recreational state, she probably tried to use that thug for access to drugs and her lack of street smarts cost her. You'd think women should know better than not to stay within a 15 mile radius of these kind of loser men by now. These Tiktok liberal apps gen Z obsesses over continue to push the narrative "never judge a book by its cover. " But unfortunately in this cruel world, people shouldn't be shocked when someone who looks like a bad apple (SURPRISE) turns out to be a bad apple. RIP.

https://www.wral.com/amp/21077800/

SaintMan3500
11-12-23, 20:59
Has anyone here seen Adessa1? She's been on Seeking Arrangements for More Than 5 YEARS, & has a large ESSAY of a profile. Looks wise, her PFP does look very attractive.

From pure Memory: I did reach out to her 2-3 years ago. And she was communicative in terms of text. At the time she wanted something substantial in terms of Money for a M&G. I decided not to meet due to IRL stuff and things beyond my control.

For people who have seen her.

-What was she like in your public meet up? In terms of chemistry, being able to hold a conversation, attitude, etc.

-What was her PPM like? Was she content with something around 300-400? Or more so, demanded on the higher end with little room for negotiation?

-Was she very consistent in terms of meeting? Or was it one and done?

-How was she like in the arrangement itself? Easy going, fun, etc.? Or very reserved, demanding, boring etc.?

I did do a quick search, but those reviews I seen were from two years ago. Figured I'd ask now for more recent info. As well as incase anything has changed with her or if other people have seen her in the past or more recently. Plus, good for people who search too.

And I attached some pics. First two are from what I remember on her profile from a few years ago. Last two seem to be more current?

Edit:

At losttribe.

Thanks!

Dpepsi
11-13-23, 09:54
New profile popped up over the weekend, so I took a chance and got immediate reply and meet. She's staying in Cary and I spent a few nights w / her. Think she's into playing for a while after a bad marriage so not sure how long she'll be around. Her profile is:

https://members.seeking.com/member/d229b211-c891-450b-8825-3bf2884f94e8

We played uncovered but she does have expensive ta $$te. Good luck! I filled her up but ready to go to the next.

Swimmer123
11-13-23, 12:05
Have chatted and almost met with her for a ppm. That being said, a few points: 1. She has a lot of old modeling pics up, she doesn't look like that anymore. She's cute, but not in her modeling prime anymore. 2. Ppm will run you 6 ish. She's not cheap. 3. I also like to establish expectations with SB's upfront. Some consider 1 round a completed arrangement. Seeking girls are trying to get the most money for the least amount of work, always keep this in mind. She did NOT like going into my specifics. She liked to "go with the flow", that's code for them running out the clock so they can take their money and go. Given all that I passed. I have some SB I can just tell how many rounds I want and everything that I want done and they don't blink. That's the ideal.


Has anyone here seen Adessa1? She's been on Seeking Arrangements for More Than 5 YEARS, & has a large ESSAY of a profile. Looks wise, her PFP does look very attractive.

From pure Memory: I did reach out to her 2-3 years ago. And she was communicative in terms of text. At the time she wanted something substantial in terms of Money for a M&G. I decided not to meet due to IRL stuff and things beyond my control.

For people who have seen her.

-What was she like in your public meet up? In terms of chemistry, being able to hold a conversation, attitude, etc.

-What was her PPM like? Was she content with something around 300-400? Or more so, demanded on the higher end with little room for negotiation?

-Was she very consistent in terms of meeting? Or was it one and done?

-How was she like in the arrangement itself? Easy going, fun, etc.? Or very reserved, demanding, boring etc.?

I did do a quick search, but those reviews I seen were from two years ago. Figured I'd ask now for more recent info. As well as incase anything has changed with her or if other people have seen her in the past or more recently. Plus, good for people who search too.

And I attached some pics. First two are from what I remember on her profile from a few years ago. Last two seem to be more current?

Edit:

At losttribe.

Thanks!

Ral613
11-13-23, 12:26
Has anyone had any contact with the profile below? We exchanged messages but schedules have not been able to sync.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c0cb5702cf113ea1

SavageThing
11-13-23, 12:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612

Anyone try this MILF?

Ral613
11-13-23, 12:42
I exchanged messages with her. Pics are pretty dated and seemed like a bit of a dud.


https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612

Anyone try this MILF?

SeekingRdu
11-13-23, 15:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612

Anyone try this MILF?MILF means "I'd like to fuck".

That chick's forehead is the largest I have ever seen, like she is out of some 1950's Alien movie, and not one of the humans.

SeekingRdu
11-13-23, 15:33
Have chatted and almost met with her for a ppm. That being said, a few points: 1. She has a lot of old modeling pics up, she doesn't look like that anymore. She's cute, but not in her modeling prime anymore. 2. Ppm will run you 6 ish. She's not cheap. 3. I also like to establish expectations with SB's upfront. Some consider 1 round a completed arrangement. Seeking girls are trying to get the most money for the least amount of work, always keep this in mind. She did NOT like going into my specifics. She liked to "go with the flow", that's code for them running out the clock so they can take their money and go. Given all that I passed. I have some SB I can just tell how many rounds I want and everything that I want done and they don't blink. That's the ideal.I've tried chatting with her a couple of times and she is pretty close to insane IMHO. She def has some mental demons. But based on her most recent insta and snap stories, she is looking pretty good right now. But idk if I could deal with her personality disorders.

LikesGirls
11-14-23, 07:45
This is her bio:

https://members.seeking.com/member/8b6401c4-474e-4011-9e16-61a42ef9241c

She will start with good coms, then the sob stories will start to pile up just as she starts to ask you for $5 here and $10 there for "food and snacks for the kid"or whatever.

LikesGirls
11-14-23, 17:08
Is anyone aware of any discount codes?

My membership expired and I'd like to renew it. Usually I'm offered a 20% discount just about every time I log in, but now that I'd actually like to renew the offers aren't forthcoming.

SeekingRdu
11-14-23, 17:16
Is anyone aware of any discount codes?

My membership expired and I'd like to renew it. Usually I'm offered a 20% discount just about every time I log in, but now that I'd actually like to renew the offers aren't forthcoming.This worked for me a couple weeks ago.

ABANFAV33.

LikesGirls
11-14-23, 17:43
This worked for me a couple weeks ago.

ABANFAV33.Perfect. Good discount, too. Thank you.

jobobtheclown
11-15-23, 15:22
Just had a weird experience: spoke to someone with a new account all morning, then the account went offline; looks to have been banned. But a new account cropped up with one of the same pictures and the same account name; figured she had problems with the first one and made another one rather than troubleshoot (happened before).

The odd bit: this new account is clearly a bullshit scammer account. They barely speak English and the vibe is completely different.

My current hypothesis: a scammer found a legit new account, reported it to get it banned, then opened a new one with the same pic to try and scam people. Anyone seen anything similar?

UPDATE: The new account blocked me when I called them on it. Reported, and pinged the original on social media, if only to confirm if both were fake or just the second one.

Link to the fake profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/7c3b6093-5e51-492c-b444-7dea5fe23882

LikesGirls
11-16-23, 14:26
https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3

Nice girl, very pretty, great attitude but her PPM expectations are very high at $1100

Swimmer123
11-16-23, 14:40
Almost met with her, I worked her down to 600. Pretty and nice, but at that allowance range there is younger and prettier. The play their game, we play ours.


https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3

Nice girl, very pretty, great attitude but her PPM expectations are very high at $1100

ElectricHug
11-16-23, 14:57
https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3

Nice girl, very pretty, great attitude but her PPM expectations are very high at $1100$1100?? Out of her GD mind.

Wizoz56
11-16-23, 15:10
I also could not get her to go below 700.


$1100?? Out of her GD mind.

LikesGirls
11-16-23, 16:02
$1100?? Out of her GD mind.Obviously it was a starting point, I'm sure she didn't expect me to say yes to that amount. But that's a long way from what I had in mind so we parted ways amicably.

Wizoz56
11-16-23, 16:17
This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?


Obviously it was a starting point, I'm sure she didn't expect me to say yes to that amount. But that's a long way from what I had in mind so we parted ways amicably.

Swimmer123
11-16-23, 17:29
It's more complicated than it used to be. Depends on her looks and how long she's been on. The longer she's been on the higher her expectations. You can low ball them when they are really new and don't know the market value. But after a while they eventually get a one time whale payment and that sets their new bar. Then they want over market. I'm mid 30's decent looking guy, decent game. I'd say generally attractive girls who know they are attractive won't take less than 500. I'm more inclined to say the attractive girl average is 5-600 first meet. Attraction is subjective but the ones I shoot for it's that. Really hot / attractive you can scoop for 800. This is all for a first meet. After a first meet you can negotiate more I've found. But the hot girls know they are hot and are looking for 600 for a first meet. I look for 4-5 hour to overnight meets though, multiple rounds. I don't even bother with meet and greet, come right to the room or I don't bother. So my requests require a premium to an extent. There are some insane ones looking for 1 k, especially in Charlotte. Charlotte is feeling the GPS for the hot ones. Don't get pissed saying I'm pushing the numbers up, I'm not, that's just the going rate for the hot ones now.


This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?

Bachelor1234
11-16-23, 17:31
This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?I almost exclusively play in the $300-$500 range and this gets me fun / hot encounters with early 20's college students / grad students / young professionals with hot bodies.

There are a lot of variables to consider as well as whole lot of randomness.

I've met women from SA who refused to accept money; they just wanted casual sex.

I've met women from SA who claimed to get $5 K per month from a guy from the site.

There is also a ton of competition for the most desirable ladies. They are getting lots of messages and lots of offers. I don't think there is anything wrong with offering something that gets you noticed if you're after the models. That's capitalism.

All of us are after the unicorn. They exist but it may take a lot of patience.

Bachelor1234.

Bh400
11-16-23, 17:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3

Nice girl, very pretty, great attitude but her PPM expectations are very high at $11001100,600, 700? Damn! She has upped her game a lot since I saw her. I feel like I practically got a pity fuck at this point!

Of course now I see why she didn't want to repeat with me. She is definitely a good looking and very cool girl. I would absolutely see her again and make it a regular thing but not at what you guys are getting quoted.

Bh400
11-16-23, 18:16
This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?I've been sticking to the 300-500 range. I would occasionally extend that but honestly some of my best experiences have been at the 300 mark. Unfortunately it seems to be a rarity now, at least for me. It seems lately like most girls won't entertain anything less than 500 or 600.

Some of the girls on SA have ultra high expectations in exchange for what they are bringing to the table. On the other hand, if a hot girl is throwing out a high number and guys are willing to pay I can't knock her game at all. Supply and demand is definitely in play for this marketplace but so is the law of diminishing returns.

Wizoz56
11-16-23, 18:41
I wonder how the other side of the equation plays into the amount that gets quoted, that is, if one is relatively fit, better than average looking, with decent conversation skills one probably gets better deal.


I've been sticking to the 300-500 range. I would occasionally extend that but honestly some of my best experiences have been at the 300 mark. Unfortunately it seems to be a rarity now, at least for me. It seems lately like most girls won't entertain anything less than 500 or 600.

Some of the girls on SA have ultra high expectations in exchange for what they are bringing to the table. On the other hand, if a hot girl is throwing out a high number and guys are willing to pay I can't knock her game at all. Supply and demand is definitely in play for this marketplace but so is the law of diminishing returns.

SaintMan3500
11-16-23, 19:53
Has anyone here ever had a Public Meet Up and / or Arrangement with blueyedgirl07?

Back when I used to be very active, I'd constantly see her on that site, and she's been on SA for several years. From memory, always had this same pic. I have talked with her in the past on seeking, but when it came time to exchanging numbers or taking the convo outside SA, it always fell through. Just curious if anyone has seen her and what was she like in terms of IRL personality, chemistry, PPM, etc.

LikesGirls
11-16-23, 22:07
I wonder how the other side of the equation plays into the amount that gets quoted, that is, if one is relatively fit, better than average looking, with decent conversation skills one probably gets better deal.I suspect the SD's overall attitude and demeanor play an important role too.

SeekingRdu
11-16-23, 22:08
This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?300 is getting harder and harder to make work, unless you are doing it as some kind of implied consistent allowance (so say $1200 a month to meet once a week).

350-500 does work well though. Like some of my friends in this thread, that has been getting me hot chicks in their early to mid twenties. I had a smoking hot 21 yo asian chick for about a year who would do overnights for 500. Anything above that level here and they either have to be extremely hot or you are doing something wrong in your approach.

That Gigi chick is out of her god damn fucking mind if she thinks she's a $700 chick nevermind four figures. I'm an average looking dude in my 50's and I match with chicks as hot if not hotter than her on vanilla dating apps. So why the fuck would I pay her? I would hesitate to even drop 350 on her. Unless you're in your 70's with a personality disorder you should never have to drop that on a weak chick like her.

For the less hot chicks, I have had some decent success getting consistent sex just for treating them nicely. I have also had some good success now getting sugar babies on the vanilla dating apps and those generally have lower gps as they aren't being messaged by hundreds of dudes on seeking. Easier for me to play that game being single, I know many of you are married and that is a riskier approach.

DoggieFan
11-17-23, 07:39
Has anyone here seen Adessa1? She's been on Seeking Arrangements for More Than 5 YEARS, & has a large ESSAY of a profile. Looks wise, her PFP does look very attractive.

From pure Memory: I did reach out to her 2-3 years ago. And she was communicative in terms of text. At the time she wanted something substantial in terms of Money for a M&G. I decided not to meet due to IRL stuff and things beyond my control.I saw her during the height of Covid, like February-June 2020,3 times in a nice RDU hotel. You are right, she had a real bohemian vibe. We got along great, no M&G was required, straight to the FC. She stayed about 2 1/2 - 3 hours. I thing we drank, smoked some weed, had Chinese food & drank. Allowance was $400, tried to get her to take $300, when she wouldn't, I had 4-5 in my rotation at the time at $200-$300 & ghosted her.

Two of my buddies saw her before me. One had her drive to Fayetteville and gave her an extra $100, for the driving. She had put on just a couple of pounds since the first pic, more like the last two, but still great body. The sex was great, might have been BBBJ, CFS, loved to kiss & went nuts with DATY, got to love a cheering section. MSOG.

If I was going to see her again, I'd want to do a M&G, but only if unpaid. I don't do paid M&Gs. Only done a few, with the understanding if we click, right to my hotel for adult fun. This ain't Christian Mingle! LOL.

Good luck if you see her, love to see what you think.

Ral613
11-17-23, 09:54
Has anyone had any contact with the profile below? We exchanged messages but schedules have not been able to sync.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c0cb5702cf113ea1Any intel gentlemen?

ElectricHug
11-17-23, 10:25
That Gigi chick is out of her god damn fucking mind if she thinks she's a $700 chick nevermind four figures. I'm an average looking dude in my 50's and I match with chicks as hot if not hotter than her on vanilla dating apps. So why the fuck would I pay her? I would hesitate to even drop 350 on her. Exactly, that's what I was getting at.

SeekingRdu
11-17-23, 10:38
Exactly, that's what I was getting at.It;'s funny because I had chatted with her thinking she might be cheap or even free but she didn't have conversation skills either so didn't even find out this comical ask.

jobobtheclown
11-17-23, 16:21
Chick:

https://members.seeking.com/member/19266bbb-5ff3-4b23-87aa-80ba20b7d5bb

This one was really aggressive and angry during texts, but I ended up setting up a meet early next week. Today, she just blocked me with no explanation. Don't waste your time.

jobobtheclown
11-17-23, 17:09
https://members.seeking.com/member/e60cefc6-f731-4e49-99b2-4c52a6892946

Doesn't live in Raleigh, but rather out between Winston and Greensboro. It was funny because she mentioned she was "willing to drive up to 40 minutes," but her actual location is already an hour+ away from her listed one (Raleigh). I wish this trend of SBs putting fake locations would end; my search radius is set to how far I'm willing to drive.

Falconwings33
11-18-23, 08:20
This Gigi girl quoted me $700 and I walked off. Like most have said the amount depends on the girls, I always propose than asking them for a number because I find that that they will start high and then you have to negotiate which I hate. I go with $300-$400 and have had lot of success. I have only paid $500 to two women who I really had the hots for and they were worth it.

The girls I go for are in the late 20's or early 30's, professional women. I find the younger chicks in early 20's are not very dependable and likely to ghost. I also avoid the pros. These women are usually happy with that amount. I don't bother with model type or super attractive as they would likely have a GPS. Funny enough I have had some average girls quote me 1 k and 1. 5 k for ppm.

SeekingRdu
11-18-23, 18:44
https://members.seeking.com/member/2b8674e7-b5c7-4045-a36d-afa998d839c0

Another one that wants $1 k ppm. I am tempted to set up a meet and greet at a comedy club and tell her to go on stage and tell more of her jokes there.

Gents please tell me none of you are giving bang average chicks like her this kind of $.

PurpleMango
11-18-23, 22:25
https://members.seeking.com/member/2b8674e7-b5c7-4045-a36d-afa998d839c0

Another one that wants $1 k ppm. I am tempted to set up a meet and greet at a comedy club and tell her to go on stage and tell more of her jokes there.

Gents please tell me none of you are giving bang average chicks like her this kind of $." I've been told I have high standards". I bet tf she has smh. I'd give her 5 for an overnight.

NiteLifed69
11-19-23, 19:32
" I've been told I have high standards". I bet tf she has smh. I'd give her 5 for an overnight.Not meaning to throw my friend under the bus, he'll read my response, but he paid 700 for 3 hrs with Bunny for two sessions with her.

Bunny is testing the market in the Triangle area.

My friend is a lurker and I wish he would join some of these discussions because the guys I have talked to have relocated from areas like LA, Chicago, New York and San Francisco.

Tell me it's insulting to try to keep the price at 300 - 400 ppm.

I don't agree with that I think the gentlemen moving into the Triangle are changing the market rate for ppm.

Example I had a waitress from Kenly, NC tell me that to just meet her was a 100 dollars plus dinner and if she decided.

We would do more than it would be 500 ppm for an hour. Does anyone know how much the starting hourly salary is for someone that works at HWY 55? I know it can't be a 500 dollars an hour.

Swimmer123
11-19-23, 22:19
We are the customer, customer is always right, don't negotiate dumb shit with them. Your contribution is the allowance, that's all you have to do. Any more hoops and they can take a hike. I make my offer, it's for the FC, nothing else. I don't want dinner, will occasionally make an exception for drinks. Always be ready to walk, you get your power back when you are. They want / need your money more then you need them. Give them your offer, say "I'll remain interested, let me know if you change your mind", and then walk. About 50% of the time they come back and drop their bullshit. This is the attitude you need to have, don't fall in love with any particular one.

PurpleMango
11-19-23, 22:22
Not meaning to throw my friend under the bus, he'll read my response, but he paid 700 for 3 hrs with Bunny for two sessions with her.

Bunny is testing the market in the Triangle area.

My friend is a lurker and I wish he would join some of these discussions because the guys I have talked to have relocated from areas like LA, Chicago, New York and San Francisco.

Tell me it's insulting to try to keep the price at 300 - 400 ppm.

I don't agree with that I think the gentlemen moving into the Triangle are changing the market rate for ppm.

Example I had a waitress from Kenly, NC tell me that to just meet her was a 100 dollars plus dinner and if she decided.

We would do more than it would be 500 ppm for an hour. Does anyone know how much the starting hourly salary is for someone that works at HWY 55? I know it can't be a 500 dollars an hour.I know I'm new here and yall can take what I say with a grain of salt. But I have never paid a girl more than 400 unless it was for an overnight. I've done my research. Thanks to this website and others. I feel like 3-4 is a sweet spot. Last girl I saw was 450 for BBFS for an overnight. I gave her an extra 50 for a plan b pill bc I cip. I'm a decent looking dude in his 40's so YMMV but still. I've had pretty good success being a decent human being and being straightforward w my intentions. These girls know what's up. They know we're in it for sex, they're in it for money. Find a girl who thinks you're decent looking, throw her some cash, and you're golden.

SeekingRdu
11-20-23, 09:34
Not meaning to throw my friend under the bus, he'll read my response, but he paid 700 for 3 hrs with Bunny for two sessions with her.

Bunny is testing the market in the Triangle area.

My friend is a lurker and I wish he would join some of these discussions because the guys I have talked to have relocated from areas like LA, Chicago, New York and San FranciscoTell your buddy (or he can read here) he can pay me $300 an hour for lessons on how to get these girls for 400 a meet. After a couple of meets he will be ahead.

Bro whoever you are I feel sorry you felt the need to give a mediocre chick in this area that much money. You overpaid.

SeekingRdu
11-20-23, 09:35
https://members.seeking.com/member/01fd237b-7571-4036-8717-f39d675d914b

Does anyone have any experience with her? Would love to know how she is. Feel free to DM if preferred.

jobobtheclown
11-20-23, 18:35
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/7GBPdRga0r9vkDm5Q2On6DwW

Talked for a week, made plans, confirmed plans 15 minutes before we were to be at the restaurant. Ghosted. Avoid.

SmallAsianCock
11-21-23, 16:34
Any information on this lady will be appreciated. PM is fine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/856db8ad-c770-4fe6-bf39-301361f4b423

Wizoz56
11-21-23, 18:49
She has been reviewed on this forum here: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?20290-The-Raleigh-area-quot-Sugar-Bowl-quot-(SA-WYP-SD4-ME)&p=6671066&viewfull=1#post6671066.


Any information on this lady will be appreciated. PM is fine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/856db8ad-c770-4fe6-bf39-301361f4b423

Tribeca67
11-21-23, 21:51
Any info on this one?

VanessaClipton
11-25-23, 13:04
Where the redheads at in Raleigh? Searching high and low and every one I find is a scammer. Any leads?

DbbClassy2
11-26-23, 09:27
https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612

Anyone try this MILF?I chatted with her for about a day before telling her I didn't feel any spark. Anytime I tried to get to know more about her, all she would talk about was how much money she needed for her son's football pursuits. There was no energy in the conversation and it was a drag getting anything else out of her that didn't involve how much money she needed. I guess I offended her but not being so amazed at her looks that I was willing to throw money at her immediately because she blocked me.

SaintMan3500
11-26-23, 21:11
Going to take the time to post people I've seen in the past. Specifically.

A: People who I have met in a public Meet up.

And / Or.

B. People who I have had an arrangement with.

Obviously I will include their usernames, and not their real names. Important note: Your Mileage May Vary, and my experiences don't mean that you may not have a good or bad experience. Pics associated with women numbers (pic1=Warm diva, Pic2=youraphrodite, etc).

1. Warm Diva.

-Pretty Tall. Good conversationalist. But something felt "off" with her in terms of conversation. Hard to explain. Looks wise, not bad looking. This is like her 3rd or 4th profile on the site at minimum. Can negotiate to $400. Very quick to meet, but got the feeling that she's meeting as much guys as possible or focused on high frequency. I didn't meet her again due to financial reasons but you may have a good experience with her! Text wise, 7/10 in terms of communication.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e93380a6-ad86-4e81-a0f8-1d51c2ed1e44

2. YourAphrodite:

Seen her a few times in an arrangement. Based in the Greenville area. She's willing to come to Raleigh. You can negotiate to $300-$400 in an arrangement. She is great at conversation, and you won't really feel awkward. However.

Pathological liar and scammer. Will lie constantly or make things up, even if said things seem ridiculous to lie about. You may not notice it at first, but the more you see or talk to her, you'll see that things don't add up. Told me she made 80 k a year from OF from feet pics, but then conjured up stories about she needs XX money ASAP or some other nonsense with lawyers and lawsuits she's allegedly deals with! Or how she got bit by a dog, etc. All just stories and endless excuses. I managed to get back my money I sent, but it was a good final lesson to never send $ to anyone outside of in person, even if you met them before. Or the classic "I never got your texts!

Other people may have a better experience. Make your limits known, never fall for any sob stories, don't get attached. I've been using SA for years, and this individual is one of the worst people I've ever dealt with. No morals or integrity. If you're looking to just get laid and move onto the next, then cool. If you're looking to see someone long term: Then good luck. 3/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/24186dc8-84ec-436a-b09f-e4e88fad9a8f

3. Marie:

Very attractive and tall in person. Better looking than in her pics. Told me she was non monogamous and made this known from the start. She does have ADHD and tends to move subject to subject and gets distracted but overall from my public meet up: She was fine.

I didn't move forward due to financial problems, etc. 5/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/17cc2b34-721e-4ec1-a304-5af01e5d50c5

4. Solace.

Very attractive. Looks like her pics. Okay conversationalist. She'll meet you in Raleigh. You can negotiate anywhere from $200-$400. Don't get too attached. Her goal seems to be getting someone very high end, and doing lower arrangements and will not hesitate to ghost when she finds a better option. 5/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9ce9dbfa-6945-4d4f-997b-bfa06b20c0b5

5. Cnabl.

Tall. Very attractive. "ok" at conversations. Pretty shy when it comes to opening up. Initially wanted online arrangements but I managed to negotiate and see her in hotel. 6-7/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7834e253-e5b2-4773-bf62-1e69fdf1dada

6. SexySuccubus.

She will drive to Raleigh. Decent looking and "down to earth" to an extent, from my experience. Negotiate Negotiate Negotiate! She asked for something initially very high (into the 600's) but I managed to get it lowered to 400. Very openminded, and great at conversation. At the time I talked to her, she informed me she was using seeking to meet many guys. Probably don't get too attached. 5-6/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f6e66be4-a7ec-437c-bda6-a7fd51573faf

Aamogdem
11-27-23, 14:20
Going to take the time to post people I've seen in the past. Specifically.

A: People who I have met in a public Meet up.

And / Or.

B. People who I have had an arrangement with.

Obviously I will include their usernames, and not their real names. Important note: Your Mileage May Vary, and my experiences don't mean that you may not have a good or bad experience. Pics associated with women numbers (pic1=Warm diva, Pic2=youraphrodite, etc).

1. Warm Diva.

-Pretty Tall. Good conversationalist. But something felt "off" with her in terms of conversation. Hard to explain. Looks wise, not bad looking. This is like her 3rd or 4th profile on the site at minimum. Can negotiate to $400. Very quick to meet, but got the feeling that she's meeting as much guys as possible or focused on high frequency. I didn't meet her again due to financial reasons but you may have a good experience with her! Text wise, 7/10 in terms of communication.Wonderful report, thanks for sharing!

SexySuccubus is on cuddlecomfort as well.

South215
11-27-23, 17:07
Going to take the time to post people I've seen in the past. Specifically.

A: People who I have met in a public Meet up.

And / Or.

B. People who I have had an arrangement with.

Obviously I will include their usernames, and not their real names. Important note: Your Mileage May Vary, and my experiences don't mean that you may not have a good or bad experience. Pics associated with women numbers (pic1=Warm diva, Pic2=youraphrodite, etc).

1. Warm Diva.

-Pretty Tall. Good conversationalist. But something felt "off" with her in terms of conversation. Hard to explain. Looks wise, not bad looking. This is like her 3rd or 4th profile on the site at minimum. Can negotiate to $400. Very quick to meet, but got the feeling that she's meeting as much guys as possible or focused on high frequency. I didn't meet her again due to financial reasons but you may have a good experience with her! Text wise, 7/10 in terms of communication.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e93380a6-ad86-4e81-a0f8-1d51c2ed1e44

2. YourAphrodite:

Seen her a few times in an arrangement. Based in the Greenville area. She's willing to come to Raleigh. You can negotiate to $300-$400 in an arrangement. She is great at conversation, and you won't really feel awkward. However.

Pathological liar and scammer. Will lie constantly or make things up, even if said things seem ridiculous to lie about. You may not notice it at first, but the more you see or talk to her, you'll see that things don't add up. Told me she made 80 k a year from OF from feet pics, but then conjured up stories about she needs XX money ASAP or some other nonsense with lawyers and lawsuits she's allegedly deals with! Or how she got bit by a dog, etc. All just stories and endless excuses. I managed to get back my money I sent, but it was a good final lesson to never send $ to anyone outside of in person, even if you met them before. Or the classic "I never got your texts!

Other people may have a better experience. Make your limits known, never fall for any sob stories, don't get attached. I've been using SA for years, and this individual is one of the worst people I've ever dealt with. No morals or integrity. If you're looking to just get laid and move onto the next, then cool. If you're looking to see someone long term: Then good luck. 3/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/24186dc8-84ec-436a-b09f-e4e88fad9a8f

3. Marie:

Very attractive and tall in person. Better looking than in her pics. Told me she was non monogamous and made this known from the start. She does have ADHD and tends to move subject to subject and gets distracted but overall from my public meet up: She was fine.

I didn't move forward due to financial problems, etc. 5/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/17cc2b34-721e-4ec1-a304-5af01e5d50c5

4. Solace.

Very attractive. Looks like her pics. Okay conversationalist. She'll meet you in Raleigh. You can negotiate anywhere from $200-$400. Don't get too attached. Her goal seems to be getting someone very high end, and doing lower arrangements and will not hesitate to ghost when she finds a better option. 5/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9ce9dbfa-6945-4d4f-997b-bfa06b20c0b5

5. Cnabl.

Tall. Very attractive. "ok" at conversations. Pretty shy when it comes to opening up. Initially wanted online arrangements but I managed to negotiate and see her in hotel. 6-7/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7834e253-e5b2-4773-bf62-1e69fdf1dada

6. SexySuccubus.

She will drive to Raleigh. Decent looking and "down to earth" to an extent, from my experience. Negotiate Negotiate Negotiate! She asked for something initially very high (into the 600's) but I managed to get it lowered to 400. Very openminded, and great at conversation. At the time I talked to her, she informed me she was using seeking to meet many guys. Probably don't get too attached. 5-6/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f6e66be4-a7ec-437c-bda6-a7fd51573fafSaint I PMed you about one of the Girls.

SmallAsianCock
11-27-23, 21:36
Saint I PMed you about one of the Girls.I did not have much luck with her in March 2022. She did not like that I didn't want to do the online thing. So she blocked me.

The Creature
11-27-23, 21:59
I don't host and need a place to go for a few hours. Any recommended hotels in the area that are cheap and decent, not drug dens?

What is the protocol? Do I get a room for overnight and then just leave after a few hours? Leave the key in the room, no questions asked?

SeekingRdu
11-28-23, 09:34
Wonderful report, thanks for sharing!

SexySuccubus is on cuddlecomfort as well.Maybe she has given up fucking guys if she can get clowns to pay her $50-100 an hour to cuddle.

Aamogdem
11-28-23, 11:26
Maybe she has given up fucking guys if she can get clowns to pay her $50-100 an hour to cuddle.Or maybe this is another way to get into a room with someone and then try to sell them something extra.

SaintMan3500
11-28-23, 12:33
Guess I'll do more reviews / thoughts on people I've seen in public meet ups, and / or people I've had arrangements with.

1. Allyours (Raleigh / Cary).

Talked with her in 2022. Profile originally said she was 32 in 2022, but she's actually in her late 30's. Looks wise, she is attractive and she can hold a decent conversation in real life. Snapchat or text wise, she is one of the worst people I have ever talked to. Low attention span, one word answers. Makes constant excuses. Takes hours to respond. Can't even answer some questions. Not a scammer, but unreliable and impossible to have any sort of conversation with via Snap or Text. I know people in their early 20's who can text better than her.

Anyone in the Raleigh Area who was active in 2022 probably seen her or glanced at her profile. Great looks, decent convo skills irl, but horrible texting / communication outside of that. 0/10 in text comms. I'd say avoid or Smash and Dash. I didn't, but hopefully you had better results!

2. SophieMarix (Greensboro).

Ah, this one. I seen her in 2022. She's around her Mid-Late 30's. She's willing to travel to Raleigh. Pretty decent conversation wise via text and IRL. When I did my public meet up with her, she looked fine. But had some type of growth around her eye. She's open minded. In our public meet up, we actually found a discrete spot where she gave me a HJ.

When we met in the arrangement itself: She started panicking when she couldn't figure out the directions to the hotel. And when we did meet: She had a bit of an attitude at points and personality wise, something felt off. As if there was something very dark about her that I didn't figure out from our first meet.

After our arrangement, she started asking for me to send her money. Blowing up my phone and leaving voice messages. I called her out on this as well as my experience with her and ultimately decided to end it.

PPM Wise, I lowballed to the 100's and seen her for that. 6-7/10 in text comms.

3. CuteKaty.

Good looking. Slim. Did two public meetups with her. First one went well. 2nd one was pretty bad, as I had to basically keep bringing up subjects to talk about. Basically just wanted platonic only and wanted to be paid for the act of having dinner (which I never did). 5/10 in text comms, but an overall waste of time and is the reason why I always set up intimacy after the first public meet. Basically just another platonic only person who wants money for the act of existing. If you really do want to see her, then be specific in terms of what you're into when you see her in public, and if she isn't cool with that or wants to wait, then move to someone else.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a74e2d85-e596-4c7d-b6ec-8e4d09091b33

4. Beauty4 beast22.

Late 30's. Willing to travel to Raleigh. Looks worse IRL, compared to her pics. Very very open minded. Below average text comms. Horrible IRL conversation skills. In our public meet up, she decided to give me a HJ at a discrete spot, and I went about my way and never saw her again.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5a10f3bd-3f66-49ef-86e7-b7ef88dbe144

5. Explicit Hippie.

23-24 years old. Based in the Fayetteville Area but willing to come to Raleigh. Attractive. Text comms, 6/10. IRL conversation skills, decent. She apparently has an OF (I don't know what it is) and she was very discrete and shy about certain stuff. After our meet up, she sent a text saying that she had a good time, but then ghosted when it came to setting up plans for the arrangement. Found out she had a long term BF.

6. VioletStone (Winston Salem, willing to come to Raleigh or Meet in the middle).

In her early 20's. Willing to come to Raleigh or meet in the middle. Average conversation skills in text and irl. Average looking IRL. Said she enjoyed our meet up, but informed me she moved forward with another guy, a week later. 3 weeks later and looking back on seeking, I saw that she was still on the site. Got the feeling she was looking for that one special guy with a lot of money or fit everything.

Triad Traveler
11-28-23, 13:17
I don't host and need a place to go for a few hours. Any recommended hotels in the area that are cheap and decent, not drug dens?

What is the protocol? Do I get a room for overnight and then just leave after a few hours? Leave the key in the room, no questions asked?Check out the dayuse website. You can get rooms for daytime only although availability is limited sometimes.

HolidayHero
11-28-23, 13:58
Maybe she has given up fucking guys if she can get clowns to pay her $50-100 an hour to cuddle.Yeah she is charging $125 to cuddle and anything above that is extra. Quoted me 5 bills for a BJ, hard pass. Problem is that there are suckers out there who are paying it.

Dr SugarD
11-28-23, 14:35
I don't host and need a place to go for a few hours. Any recommended hotels in the area that are cheap and decent, not drug dens?

What is the protocol? Do I get a room for overnight and then just leave after a few hours? Leave the key in the room, no questions asked?I've never had much luck finding day use hotels that are convenient to me. I'm usually more available for an early lunch and that often presents a problem of getting an early check-in for around 11 am. As far as the protocol for once you get a hotel, I just finish my business with the gal and leave. I use to leave my room key laying on the dresser but then I got to thinking what if a maid or someone got access to the room then they could use the room for themselves or friends. I just take the key card with me. If it was a regular conventional key then I probably would leave it but I don't know of any hotels that use regular keys anymore.

NiteLifed69
11-28-23, 16:05
Yeah she is charging $125 to cuddle and anything above that is extra. Quoted me 5 bills for a BJ, hard pass. Problem is that there are suckers out there who are paying it.Yeah, She told me she quotes a high asshole rate when she feels dudes are trying to lowball her like like SaintMan3500 said "Negotiate Negotiate Negotiate!" if you're really trying to get with her.

Member #6513
11-28-23, 16:37
I've never had much luck finding day use hotels that are convenient to me. I'm usually more available for an early lunch and that often presents a problem of getting an early check-in for around 11 am. As far as the protocol for once you get a hotel, I just finish my business with the gal and leave. I use to leave my room key laying on the dresser but then I got to thinking what if a maid or someone got access to the room then they could use the room for themselves or friends. I just take the key card with me. If it was a regular conventional key then I probably would leave it but I don't know of any hotels that use regular keys anymore.Used www.dayuse.com couple of time recently and I've had no issues.

HolidayHero
11-28-23, 17:32
Anyone here have any advice about this one? Looking for intel.

Thank you 🙏.

https://members.seeking.com/member/da375160-5418-4d31-a950-5e8c8ab9dba6

HolidayHero
11-28-23, 17:49
Yeah, She told me she quotes a high asshole rate when she feels dudes are trying to lowball her like like SaintMan3500 said "Negotiate Negotiate Negotiate!" if you're really trying to get with her.Ah so you're either her or the sucker paying it! 😂.

Jm1312
11-28-23, 19:34
Anyone here have any advice about this one? Looking for intel.

Thank you 🙏.

https://members.seeking.com/member/da375160-5418-4d31-a950-5e8c8ab9dba6Have not seen her but she sends messages regularly about parties she and another girl host. Asking if I am interested then no messages until days later. I'm not sure her deal but not someone I would be interested in.

NiteLifed69
11-28-23, 20:26
Ah so you're either her or the sucker paying it! 😂.Nope, just reporting facts like SaintMan3500. She drove from Greensboro and met me in Raleigh for 400 and the 400 was not for a BJ.

HolidayHero
11-29-23, 10:14
Nope, just reporting facts like SaintMan3500. She drove from Greensboro and met me in Raleigh for 400 and the 400 was not for a BJ.My bad, I misread your earlier post! 💯.

Falconwings33
11-30-23, 09:03
Used www.dayuse.com couple of time recently and I've had no issues.I have used dayuse many time and never had any issues, don't understand the maid scenario. It's perfect for this hobby, just wish there were more hotels to choose from.

Falconwings33
11-30-23, 09:05
Guess I'll do more reviews / thoughts on people I've seen in public meet ups, and / or people I've had arrangements with.

1. Allyours (Raleigh / Cary).

Talked with her in 2022. Profile originally said she was 32 in 2022, but she's actually in her late 30's. Looks wise, she is attractive and she can hold a decent conversation in real life. Snapchat or text wise, she is one of the worst people I have ever talked to. Low attention span, one word answers. Makes constant excuses. Takes hours to respond. Can't even answer some questions. Not a scammer, but unreliable and impossible to have any sort of conversation with via Snap or Text. I know people in their early 20's who can text better than her.

Anyone in the Raleigh Area who was active in 2022 probably seen her or glanced at her profile. Great looks, decent convo skills irl, but horrible texting / communication outside of that. 0/10 in text comms. I'd say avoid or Smash and Dash. I didn't, but hopefully you had better results!

2. SophieMarix (Greensboro).

Ah, this one. I seen her in 2022. She's around her Mid-Late 30's. She's willing to travel to Raleigh. Pretty decent conversation wise via text and IRL. When I did my public meet up with her, she looked fine. But had some type of growth around her eye. She's open minded. In our public meet up, we actually found a discrete spot where she gave me a HJ.

When we met in the arrangement itself: She started panicking when she couldn't figure out the directions to the hotel. And when we did meet: She had a bit of an attitude at points and personality wise, something felt off. As if there was something very dark about her that I didn't figure out from our first meet.

After our arrangement, she started asking for me to send her money. Blowing up my phone and leaving voice messages. I called her out on this as well as my experience with her and ultimately decided to end it.

PPM Wise, I lowballed to the 100's and seen her for that. 6-7/10 in text comms.

3. CuteKaty.

Good looking. Slim. Did two public meetups with her. First one went well. 2nd one was pretty bad, as I had to basically keep bringing up subjects to talk about. Basically just wanted platonic only and wanted to be paid for the act of having dinner (which I never did). 5/10 in text comms, but an overall waste of time and is the reason why I always set up intimacy after the first public meet. Basically just another platonic only person who wants money for the act of existing. If you really do want to see her, then be specific in terms of what you're into when you see her in public, and if she isn't cool with that or wants to wait, then move to someone else.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a74e2d85-e596-4c7d-b6ec-8e4d09091b33

4. Beauty4 beast22.

Late 30's. Willing to travel to Raleigh. Looks worse IRL, compared to her pics. Very very open minded. Below average text comms. Horrible IRL conversation skills. In our public meet up, she decided to give me a HJ at a discrete spot, and I went about my way and never saw her again.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5a10f3bd-3f66-49ef-86e7-b7ef88dbe144

5. Explicit Hippie.

23-24 years old. Based in the Fayetteville Area but willing to come to Raleigh. Attractive. Text comms, 6/10. IRL conversation skills, decent. She apparently has an OF (I don't know what it is) and she was very discrete and shy about certain stuff. After our meet up, she sent a text saying that she had a good time, but then ghosted when it came to setting up plans for the arrangement. Found out she had a long term BF.

6. VioletStone (Winston Salem, willing to come to Raleigh or Meet in the middle).

In her early 20's. Willing to come to Raleigh or meet in the middle. Average conversation skills in text and irl. Average looking IRL. Said she enjoyed our meet up, but informed me she moved forward with another guy, a week later. 3 weeks later and looking back on seeking, I saw that she was still on the site. Got the feeling she was looking for that one special guy with a lot of money or fit everything.Fantastic reviews, thanks for sharing.

SmallAsianCock
12-01-23, 21:32
Has anyone met with this lady. PM me with any info you have.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5338fce2-6fff-491a-b686-f10729cf9b8c

South215
12-02-23, 01:01
Has anyone met with this lady. PM me with any info you have.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5338fce2-6fff-491a-b686-f10729cf9b8cLooks fake!!

LikesGirls
12-03-23, 00:35
Has any of you met this woman yet?

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/8071d7ad-9c28-4888-b627-89618983e5ef

I might see her tomorrow. Any feedback would be appreciated. Thank you.

South215
12-03-23, 01:47
Has any of you met this woman yet?

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/8071d7ad-9c28-4888-b627-89618983e5ef

I might see her tomorrow. Any feedback would be appreciated. Thank you.Update your link. That one goes to your messages.

LikesGirls
12-03-23, 11:10
Update your link. That one goes to your messages.I hate it when that happens!

https://members.seeking.com/member/a5942c82-535e-4c15-b1d7-d666f3c32dee

SeekingRdu
12-04-23, 09:02
Bit of a change, but curious if anyone has had any luck with any of these? These I consider my greatest misses. Chicks I have tried many times to get something going with but cannot get a reply or if they did reply, conversation faded after 1-2 replies:

ExoticSky.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0c158ddb-d610-47c7-ab48-c0a0e9dac70b

Yes this person is an IG model LOL. But she has been on SA and SB for a long time, and has responded on both, but never anything substantial. If they are a scammer, they have yet to try scamming me.

Eleanorsunrise.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e2af25e6-6b3e-42bf-bd45-2795945cc098

Just cannot get anything from her, looks stunning.

Lolita25.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a78b78ab-3ba2-438f-90b1-66eb266d346c

Looks hot, I can almost see the GPS though LOL. Has never responded.

Tkw123.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a5fadfe9-df01-4541-956f-59d20ec45496

Could never get a reply. After finding her socials I'd say her shitty personality makes up for her hot looks, but she it hot.

Galadriel.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4fe83ca7-70f1-4cad-a661-a8538f4948d2

Maybe not that hot but I am just curious if anyone actually closed with her? Have chatted off and on but seems she isn't committed to the cause.

DionysusVice
12-04-23, 12:08
Galadriel.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4fe83ca7-70f1-4cad-a661-a8538f4948d2

Maybe not that hot but I am just curious if anyone actually closed with her? Have chatted off and on but seems she isn't committed to the cause.I have spoken to her a few times. The only thing I have gotten out of it, is her wanting doordash via to her account. And, once "You think a girl like me doesn't get a lot of attention, now do you? You have to show how you are different by sending me money. All the other guys are just thinking they get things for free. ".

I haven't gotten a number yet for what she is expecting. But, I am already guessing it is going to be hight.

I am hoping someone has met her, also.

Swimmer123
12-04-23, 16:59
I've been with tkw123. Her schedule and comms are not great, took a while to organize. She's hot and I had a good time, she is a little bitchy though, but I'm not here to date after all. May see her again if it works out but her scheduling is really bad, she kind of reaches out when she's ready. She also needs to be attracted to you, can't buy your way out of it with her. If she's not about it just move on, more fish in the sea. Pm me if you've seen her too, would be curious to know who else has.


Bit of a change, but curious if anyone has had any luck with any of these? These I consider my greatest misses. Chicks I have tried many times to get something going with but cannot get a reply or if they did reply, conversation faded after 1-2 replies:

ExoticSky.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0c158ddb-d610-47c7-ab48-c0a0e9dac70b

Yes this person is an IG model LOL. But she has been on SA and SB for a long time, and has responded on both, but never anything substantial. If they are a scammer, they have yet to try scamming me.

Eleanorsunrise.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e2af25e6-6b3e-42bf-bd45-2795945cc098

Just cannot get anything from her, looks stunning.

Lolita25.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a78b78ab-3ba2-438f-90b1-66eb266d346c

Looks hot, I can almost see the GPS though LOL. Has never responded.

Tkw123.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a5fadfe9-df01-4541-956f-59d20ec45496

Could never get a reply. After finding her socials I'd say her shitty personality makes up for her hot looks, but she it hot.

Galadriel.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4fe83ca7-70f1-4cad-a661-a8538f4948d2

Maybe not that hot but I am just curious if anyone actually closed with her? Have chatted off and on but seems she isn't committed to the cause.

ElectricHug
12-04-23, 19:32
I have spoken to her a few times. The only thing I have gotten out of it, is her wanting doordash via to her account. Her first response is demanding you order her delivery food, that's too funny.

SaintMan3500
12-04-23, 21:52
Time to do more reviews / thoughts on People I've seen. Just as an FYI: If I say "open minded" or "very open minded" then it means something happened in our public meet up.

1. Clarity31.

This one is very amusing. Anyone who has used Seeking for a long time will know who she is, or be reminded of from seeing her previous profiles. She's very tall and "curvy". She's the type of person who will constantly ask for money.

Stand your ground. Don't fall for any sob stories. Don't send any money before meeting. Never send any money even after you've seen her and she asks for favors or help. Be blunt and honest about what you want. If she tries asking for something really high for ppm, negotiate. She'll cave. You can get away with under 200 and more. 6/10 in text communication.

https://members.seeking.com/member/12e76394-4693-49af-b3ae-b30dd3011b38

2. Gozuja.

Seen her a long time ago. Looks wise, average. Personality wise, decent. Not unpleasant to talk to, but was using seeking as a means to an end type of thing and started asking for an allowance of 1 k after our public meet up.

Not bad. But nothing remarkable or memorable from seeing her other than the fact that it seemed like her life was a mess and that she probably needed some therapy. For some reason, started holding my hand in public (I never asked for this). She also kissed me in the lips at the end of our meet (I never made the first move) 5/10 in text comms. Got the overall impression she's looking for a whale and thus didn't do an arrangement with her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/36261176-c2d5-4398-953d-438a7b73ff3d

3. Stacysmom.

Attractive. You can have a decent conversation with her, but she's unreliable. Negotiate below the 350's and more if you want. Don't expect her to stick around. 1/10 in text comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/59c5e951-48c8-4694-a99e-f05be1cb0bc6

4. CsMajor21.

Seen her long ago. Average in looks. Very, Open minded. 5/10 text comms. Never discussed amounts with her as I didn't see her again after our public meet up. 5/10 text comms. No big problems with her, just wasn't into her and nothing memorable comes to mind from our M&G other than her being open minded.

5. LittleCayy.

Asked for something in the high ppm's of 500 and above. Had a M&G and she was cool to talk to. Very open minded, but also came across as desperate. 7/10 in text comms, but started regretting seeing her after M&G and decided not to pursue. Looks better IRL compared to her pics.

6. LadiiV.

She's based in the Greensboro area, but is open to coming to Raleigh. Very good looking. She also obviously knows this and will try to hustle you. Last time I talked to her, she was applying to work at clubs. 5/10 in text comms. IRL Conversation wise, she's very good but don't expect her to stick around or see you again unless you give her big $$ Open Minded for $100 as she was more desperate at the time I saw her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a08b2a84-5ddd-42a7-9b53-3ad3a84c522c

Swimmer123
12-05-23, 11:28
https://members.seeking.com/member/7e4c9843-4f50-4ac0-8c78-5b71d485771e

1. She's too hot to have only one pic.

2. Girls that hot don't live in mebane (no offense).

3. She is "verified" but only college verified. It just means she used a. Edu email. I still have my edu email. Not all verification is equal.

4. Upon texting I asked for a call / facetime / snapchat to verify. She said she was already verified and didn't need to. I said a college email doesn't mean anything. Crickets.

As long as you're a little smarter than the scammers (having good common sense), you avoid a lot of bs. She wanted me to come to her house (suspicious). 400 ppm (suspiciously low for a girl that hot). Probably a rob / shakedown. Avoid.

Aamogdem
12-05-23, 16:44
https://members.seeking.com/member/7e4c9843-4f50-4ac0-8c78-5b71d485771e

1. She's too hot to have only one pic.

2. Girls that hot don't live in mebane (no offense).

3. She is "verified" but only college verified. It just means she used a. Edu email. I still have my edu email. Not all verification is equal.

4. Upon texting I asked for a call / facetime / snapchat to verify. She said she was already verified and didn't need to. I said a college email doesn't mean anything. Crickets.

As long as you're a little smarter than the scammers (having good common sense), you avoid a lot of bs. She wanted me to come to her house (suspicious). 400 ppm (suspiciously low for a girl that hot). Probably a rob / shakedown. Avoid.Yes, picture of Russian model.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CmtdyRaslX0/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

LikesGirls
12-05-23, 19:40
One scam that I've experienced recently with certain frequency:

I get a message from a good to very good to very hot looking woman from some place far (Sydney, for example) telling me that she will be in Cary (what I have on my bio) "soon for about four weeks, and then I will return again, it's for work".

At first I'd reply some variation of "no, you won't be anywhere near Cary" then block. Now, I just block.

Sobe69
12-06-23, 01:13
STG pro or use to be.


Have not seen her but she sends messages regularly about parties she and another girl host. Asking if I am interested then no messages until days later. I'm not sure her deal but not someone I would be interested in.

Sobe69
12-06-23, 01:28
The Hilton by the airport offers dayroom.


I don't host and need a place to go for a few hours. Any recommended hotels in the area that are cheap and decent, not drug dens?

What is the protocol? Do I get a room for overnight and then just leave after a few hours? Leave the key in the room, no questions asked?

Wizoz56
12-14-23, 17:07
Marriott also has that offering.


The Hilton by the airport offers dayroom.

SmallAsianCock
12-14-23, 22:03
Any info on this lady will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/03778bc1-7a2d-4690-a163-112f2510cc2f#.

SeekingRdu
12-15-23, 12:20
Any info on this lady will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/03778bc1-7a2d-4690-a163-112f2510cc2f#.I found her socials where she admits to an 8+ year heroin addiction. I passed on that.

Wizoz56
12-15-23, 12:47
Curious how did you manage to do that with just one pic she has? Hats off to you for your investigative prowess.


I found her socials where she admits to an 8+ year heroin addiction. I passed on that.

SaintMan3500
12-15-23, 18:53
Any info on this lady will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/03778bc1-7a2d-4690-a163-112f2510cc2f#.She was asking for $150 to do a public meet up. She sent pics of what she looked like and while she is attractive, not worth giving $150 to meet in public.

NiteLifed69
12-15-23, 23:18
Curious how did you manage to do that with just one pic she has? Hats off to you for your investigative prowess.https://facecheck.id , pimeyes or any reverse image search. It's been mention in the forum a ton. It has really been helpful.

BCarson549
12-17-23, 11:37
Does anyone have any experience or info on this one? I am going to try a SB for the first time and this one caught my eye.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4a1efa5e-8de6-4816-85b3-399a4618f8d9

SteveStone123
12-18-23, 01:31
I don't host and need a place to go for a few hours. Any recommended hotels in the area that are cheap and decent, not drug dens?

What is the protocol? Do I get a room for overnight and then just leave after a few hours? Leave the key in the room, no questions asked?Even if you return the key to front desk and if they ask any questions, you can always say you had to take a short break or nap time or take shower and blah blah.

AkaToneloc
12-23-23, 02:30
I don't host and need a place to go for a few hours. Any recommended hotels in the area that are cheap and decent, not drug dens?

What is the protocol? Do I get a room for overnight and then just leave after a few hours? Leave the key in the room, no questions asked?Right now there's only a few options on the Dayuse site for the RDU area. A couple Holiday Inns and a DoubleTree off Page Rd. You don't save much money but the benefit I see is that you're allowed early 10 am check-in and have the room until 6 pm. I travel with my job 3 weeks out of each month and rarely turn in a key to the front desk. 60% of the time I end up dropping the key in the trash at the gas station as I'm filling up my rental before turning that back in. The other times, I leave it in the room. Nothing to stress. If you still uncomfortable, call a few hours after you leave and let the desk know something came up with work and you are checking out.

Falconwings33
12-23-23, 11:42
Right now there's only a few options on the Dayuse site for the RDU area. A couple Holiday Inns and a DoubleTree off Page Rd. You don't save much money but the benefit I see is that you're allowed early 10 am check-in and have the room until 6 pm. I travel with my job 3 weeks out of each month and rarely turn in a key to the front desk. 60% of the time I end up dropping the key in the trash at the gas station as I'm filling up my rental before turning that back in. The other times, I leave it in the room. Nothing to stress. If you still uncomfortable, call a few hours after you leave and let the desk know something came up with work and you are checking out.It baffles my mind that of all the things that could go wrong in the engaging in this kind of hobby, that people are worried about hotel key cards and shit.

LikesGirls
12-23-23, 12:32
Even if you return the key to front desk and if they ask any questions, you can always say you had to take a short break or nap time or take shower and blah blah.I was a front desk agent in a previous life.

1) The FD folks, unless brand new, will know what you're up to. They can tell.

2) They don't give a shit what you're up to.

3) They think it's funny when you try to explain anything because it makes it more obvious.

If you don't want to deal with FD agents, just sign up for the Marriott and Hilton programs, check-in and out using their apps, and stay at properties that support digital keys. Zero interaction with hotel personnel that way.