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[TravelGuy65]

First let me say that I have been to numerous AMPs over the years. I have had a few wher I thought the provider liked me, more than just as a client. But this lady I have been going to is really cool and I just want to see what others think.

She is a Korean about 50, although she looks like she late 30's. She won't tell me her real age. She said she is afraid if she tells me that I won't like her anymore.

Everything has been amazing. The BJ, FS, Kissing, DATY, DATA. She allows me to go multiple times. Also when I do DATY she squirts multiple times and I drink it all. She like to cuddle, talk and make out when we are done. She have talked about both of our personal lives. She first tried to tell me that she only helps guy do HJ but today I said I know different. She claims she only does other stuff with a few guys and only cause she needs the money. She has said to me a few times that maybe I marry her some day. Said she does not like the job. Which I totally get. She's been telling me I'm not like the other guys and she likes me. I have to admit the sex is pretty mind blowing. Some of the best I've had. I like her because she is very sweet and of course the mind blowing sex. I'm not sure if I believe her about her liking just me. Today it was just the two of us there. Slow day. After we were done she invited to the back room and served me homemade dumplings and a drink while doting on me. I don't know that I could ever date or marry a massage girl. I asked her if maybe we should go out to dinner or on a date sometime and she said yes. Thoughts? Please be honest, but kind.

[Orion1938]

First let me say that I have been to numerous AMPs over the years. I have had a few wher I thought the provider liked me, more than just as a client. But this lady I have been going to is really cool and I just want to see what others think.

She is a Korean about 50, although she looks like she late 30's. She won't tell me her real age. She said she is afraid if she tells me that I won't like her anymore.

Everything has been amazing. The BJ, FS, Kissing, DATY, DATA. She allows me to go multiple times. Also when I do DATY she squirts multiple times and I drink it all. She like to cuddle, talk and make out when we are done. She have talked about both of our personal lives. She first tried to tell me that she only helps guy do HJ but today I said I know different. She claims she only does other stuff with a few guys and only cause she needs the money. She has said to me a few times that maybe I marry her some day. Said she does not like the job. Which I totally get. She's been telling me I'm not like the other guys and she likes me. I have to admit the sex is pretty mind blowing. Some of the best I've had. I like her because she is very sweet and of course the mind blowing sex. I'm not sure if I believe her about her liking just me. Today it was just the two of us there. Slow day. After we were done she invited to the back room and served me homemade dumplings and a drink while doting on me. I don't know that I could ever date or marry a massage girl. I asked her if maybe we should go out to dinner or on a date sometime and she said yes. Thoughts? Please be honest, but kind.1. Do a spread sheet with columns and rows.

2. Fill in any thoughts that come to your mind so you don't miss anything, which may happen if the only main thought is good sex.

3. Put yourself in her shoes and vice versa. Thiis allows you to examine her motives and perspectives.

4. As usual, we need to think and decide with our big head, remembering that nothing remains the same. People change philosophically and physiologically.

5. If all the questions are addressed to your satisfaction, the final decision is yours anfd nobody elses.

Best to you.

Be safe.

[Marlowe]

First let me say that I have been to numerous AMPs over the years. I have had a few wher I thought the provider liked me, more than just as a client. But this lady I have been going to is really cool and I just want to see what others think.

She is a Korean about 50, although she looks like she late 30's. She won't tell me her real age. She said she is afraid if she tells me that I won't like her anymore.

Everything has been amazing. The BJ, FS, Kissing, DATY, DATA. She allows me to go multiple times. Also when I do DATY she squirts multiple times and I drink it all. She like to cuddle, talk and make out when we are done. She have talked about both of our personal lives. She first tried to tell me that she only helps guy do HJ but today I said I know different. She claims she only does other stuff with a few guys and only cause she needs the money. She has said to me a few times that maybe I marry her some day. Said she does not like the job. Which I totally get. She's been telling me I'm not like the other guys and she likes me. I have to admit the sex is pretty mind blowing. Some of the best I've had. I like her because she is very sweet and of course the mind blowing sex. I'm not sure if I believe her about her liking just me. Today it was just the two of us there. Slow day. After we were done she invited to the back room and served me homemade dumplings and a drink while doting on me. I don't know that I could ever date or marry a massage girl. I asked her if maybe we should go out to dinner or on a date sometime and she said yes. Thoughts? Please be honest, but kind.Are you really desperate to be in a relationship? If not, you are getting what you want sexually, and that should be enough. The closer you get to any woman the more flaws she shows. Pessimistic, yeah, but that has been my experience. At least go for it with your eyes open and don't be destroyed if (when) it doesn't work out.

[TravelGuy65]

Are you really desperate to be in a relationship? If not, you are getting what you want sexually, and that should be enough. The closer you get to any woman the more flaws she shows. Pessimistic, yeah, but that has been my experience. At least go for it with your eyes open and don't be destroyed if (when) it doesn't work out.Desperate? No. Looking for a relationship? No. I'm having fun. I was just trying to decide if it seemed she was into me. I am getting a little attached. Wondering if I let things go further or should I stop going? Maybe I need a therapist LOL.

[Leche]

Desperate? No. Looking for a relationship? No. I'm having fun. I was just trying to decide if it seemed she was into me. I am getting a little attached. Wondering if I let things go further or should I stop going? Maybe I need a therapist LOL.Just have diner with her. Big deal. See where it goes after that.

[Marlowe]

Desperate? No. Looking for a relationship? No. I'm having fun. I was just trying to decide if it seemed she was into me. I am getting a little attached. Wondering if I let things go further or should I stop going? Maybe I need a therapist LOL.Maybe neither. Just be aware that you are becoming a bit attached and don't press it. I would continue to enjoy, just not take it to another level.

[Willie23]

I'm wrestling with the same thing, almost exactly. I got "my" girl (50) out of the business and we are working on a relationship. Chinese women recently 'off the boat' seem to have entirely different expectations of husbands. They expect very little but companionship and decent treatment. I suspect Korean women like yours could be mostly similar.

AMP girls get 'Americanized' quickly, so the amount of time as a provider has a big impact on their personality. They can turn into ShoppingMonsters, easily and only want what they perceive to be the very best 'stuff. ' One month, it's Michael Kors, the next, Louis Vuitton.

There are very few jobs for 50 year old Korean women with limited English. If you're lucky, you can put her someplace where she'll work 54 hour weeks and take home $1800-2200. Likely her place of work will have to be in Koreatown, so she'll need a license, a car, insurance, money for parking, etc, and that will consume most of her take-home.

As for the cultural differences, she will likely prefer a Korean diet. If she gets into American food, watch out for weight gain.

With limited English, unless you have different luck than I do, your 50 year old AMP girl will be more of a pet than a mate. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

Finally, you will have to consider that 2-5 years from now, you'll still have pictures of her fucking random guys in the back of your head. How will you feel about that?

[TravelGuy65]

I'm wrestling with the same thing, almost exactly. I got "my" girl (50) out of the business and we are working on a relationship. Chinese women recently 'off the boat' seem to have entirely different expectations of husbands. They expect very little but companionship and decent treatment. I suspect Korean women like yours could be mostly similar.

AMP girls get 'Americanized' quickly, so the amount of time as a provider has a big impact on their personality. They can turn into ShoppingMonsters, easily and only want what they perceive to be the very best 'stuff. ' One month, it's Michael Kors, the next, Louis Vuitton.

There are very few jobs for 50 year old Korean women with limited English. If you're lucky, you can put her someplace where she'll work 54 hour weeks and take home $1800-2200. Likely her place of work will have to be in Koreatown, so she'll need a license, a car, insurance, money for parking, etc, and that will consume most of her take-home.

As for the cultural differences, she will likely prefer a Korean diet. If she gets into American food, watch out for weight gain.

With limited English, unless you have different luck than I do, your 50 year old AMP girl will be more of a pet than a mate. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

Finally, you will have to consider that 2-5 years from now, you'll still have pictures of her fucking random guys in the back of your head. How will you feel about that?Your last paragraph said it best. I'm not sure if I can get into a relationship with someone that has been banging guys or jerking them off for. But, what's the difference between that and any women that had sexual relations before you dated or married them.

[cheapguy]

Your last paragraph said it best. I'm not sure if I can get into a relationship with someone that has been banging guys or jerking them off for. But, what's the difference between that and any women that had sexual relations before you dated or married them.I have dabbled in this hobby for almost 40 years. What makes a good encounter has more to do with the attitude and skills of the provider. I have had the best time with those providers who seem to treat me more as their boyfriend than a client. Realize that this is just good business salesmanship on the part of the provider. While I am with her, I enjoy being treated by a king. If I analyze the situation with my mind, I realize that she is not really into me, but simply doing what it takes to make it a special occasion for me. By doing this, she gets top reviews and more repeat business. I would worry that her attention to me is either the fact she wants to get out of the business and is looking for someone to support her or that she is looking for a stable life and being with me (or you) is better than the life she was living. I think I would be worried that she would be only considering her best interests.

[The Tall Man]

First let me say that I have been to numerous AMPs over the years. I have had a few wher I thought the provider liked me, more than just as a client. But this lady I have been going to is really cool and I just want to see what others think.

She is a Korean about 50, although she looks like she late 30's. She won't tell me her real age. She said she is afraid if she tells me that I won't like her anymore.

Everything has been amazing. The BJ, FS, Kissing, DATY, DATA. She allows me to go multiple times. Also when I do DATY she squirts multiple times and I drink it all. She like to cuddle, talk and make out when we are done. She have talked about both of our personal lives. She first tried to tell me that she only helps guy do HJ but today I said I know different. She claims she only does other stuff with a few guys and only cause she needs the money. She has said to me a few times that maybe I marry her some day. Said she does not like the job. Which I totally get. She's been telling me I'm not like the other guys and she likes me. I have to admit the sex is pretty mind blowing. Some of the best I've had. I like her because she is very sweet and of course the mind blowing sex. I'm not sure if I believe her about her liking just me. Today it was just the two of us there. Slow day. After we were done she invited to the back room and served me homemade dumplings and a drink while doting on me. I don't know that I could ever date or marry a massage girl. I asked her if maybe we should go out to dinner or on a date sometime and she said yes. Thoughts? Please be honest, but kind.Just accept it for what it is, roll with it as long as you want to, have fun but then move on as you are in uncharted territory. Many of us have been there and done that.

The Tall Man.

[Christophe1]

First let me say that I have been to numerous AMPs over the years. I have had a few wher I thought the provider liked me, more than just as a client. But this lady I have been going to is really cool and I just want to see what others think.

She is a Korean about 50, although she looks like she late 30's. She won't tell me her real age. She said she is afraid if she tells me that I won't like her anymore.

Everything has been amazing. The BJ, FS, Kissing, DATY, DATA. She allows me to go multiple times. Also when I do DATY she squirts multiple times and I drink it all. She like to cuddle, talk and make out when we are done. She have talked about both of our personal lives. She first tried to tell me that she only helps guy do HJ but today I said I know different. She claims she only does other stuff with a few guys and only cause she needs the money. She has said to me a few times that maybe I marry her some day. Said she does not like the job. Which I totally get. She's been telling me I'm not like the other guys and she likes me. I have to admit the sex is pretty mind blowing. Some of the best I've had. I like her because she is very sweet and of course the mind blowing sex. I'm not sure if I believe her about her liking just me. Today it was just the two of us there. Slow day. After we were done she invited to the back room and served me homemade dumplings and a drink while doting on me. I don't know that I could ever date or marry a massage girl. I asked her if maybe we should go out to dinner or on a date sometime and she said yes. Thoughts? Please be honest, but kind.You went fast from not knowing if you could date one to asking her out. Be careful, or you'll soon be announcing your nuptials. IMO Chinese, Korean, Filipinas, Cambodian, and Thai women are the BEST. Good hearted, smart and hardworking. I've had 2 good and 1 bad experience with Vietnamese women, so I'm still questioning that. :)

Dating is exactly that- Dating. You don't have to be exclusive or expect anything more. Sadly though, if the girl is over 25, she is seeking a future with you. Providers are more open enjoying the field to get the best their young bodies can purchase.

My suggestion is go on a date. Give her flowers or a small momento, smile a lot, and show her why you're the daddy. Later, she will want to fuck the shit out of you. I have some relationships that have lasted years.

[Mondo72]

Hey fellow mongers.

I've been having some issues with Jr lately so thought about posting here in and effort to get a take from someone with the same issue as me.

Happened that getting older has affected Jr, not in a good way, LOL.

Every time I overuse Jr the skin in back of the head which seems to be pretty thin starts to break if Jr is not handled with care. Just today I went to an MP in the SGV and the lady would not take directions, so, ended up with this issue again since I got some rough jerking in a bad way and sometimes it even bleeds. Usually, I have to wait a couple of days for it to go back to normal. That means leaving Jr with no fun for a couple of days.

I like to go at it for "long time" if I can in order to let the lady get some pleasure as well, as long as I don't over do it, there is no issue but if I happen to have a couple of days of fun in a row seems like this is when it happens.

Just wonder if anyone here has had this issue and would offer me some advice on what to use or where to go for help with this.

Appreciate any help.

Mondo.

[The Camel]

Hey fellow mongers.

I've been having some issues with Jr lately so thought about posting here in and effort to get a take from someone with the same issue as me.

Happened that getting older has affected Jr, not in a good way, LOL.

Every time I overuse Jr the skin in back of the head which seems to be pretty thin starts to break if Jr is not handled with care. Just today I went to an MP in the SGV and the lady would not take directions, so, ended up with this issue again since I got some rough jerking in a bad way and sometimes it even bleeds. Usually, I have to wait a couple of days for it to go back to normal. That means leaving Jr with no fun for a couple of days.

I like to go at it for "long time" if I can in order to let the lady get some pleasure as well, as long as I don't over do it, there is no issue but if I happen to have a couple of days of fun in a row seems like this is when it happens.

Just wonder if anyone here has had this issue and would offer me some advice on what to use or where to go for help with this.

Appreciate any help.

Mondo.Mondo, first I want to say that the one person you need to have deal with this is your doctor and any specialists you may be referred to. Don't look for or rely on solutions offered here. Believe me, your situation is not unusual and doctors have it under control at least to the extent that it can be controlled. In all probability you will find that steroidal topical ointments will help and if you're lucky, completely clear up the problem but just don't use them without medical advice as they present their own set of significant risks. The longer you let the problem fester and reoccur, the more difficult the situation can become. Yes, I do speak from experience but I'm not going to lay this out on the Board. Give me a day or three to rid myself of the current array of time pressing obligations and I will send you a PM with more info.

[Mondo72]

Mondo, first I want to say that the one person you need to have deal with this is your doctor and any specialists you may be referred to. Don't look for or rely on solutions offered here. Believe me, your situation is not unusual and doctors have it under control at least to the extent that it can be controlled. In all probability you will find that steroidal topical ointments will help and if you're lucky, completely clear up the problem but just don't use them without medical advice as they present their own set of significant risks. The longer you let the problem fester and reoccur, the more difficult the situation can become. Yes, I do speak from experience but I'm not going to lay this out on the Board. Give me a day or three to rid myself of the current array of time pressing obligations and I will send you a PM with more info.Hey Camel,

Thanks man, appreciate your feedback. I was hoping someone who had the same issue would reply.

Yeah, I have an appointment coming up with my primary at Kaiser next week.

Mondo.