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Thanks for the heads up on the auto-renew. My membership expires today. I closed out my profile, as I do not want the auto-renew, and I could not find an option without it.I wonder what would happen if the auto-renew transaction got declined (which would happen if the original sign-up was with a gift card). I'd be ok with it just going back to a 'standard' membership, but having to close your profile to take a month or two off from Premium status is pretty harsh.
This and the removal of mobile apps has really hurt the site over the past few months, IMO. I think they forget that a lot of girls in the demographic that makes the site tick never actually get in front of a keyboard and monitor for their online activities. Its smartphone or nothing. I'm sure everyone's personal experience could be different depending on when they joined and their particular area & search filters, but it feels like last summer there would be a page or two of 'Newest' to review every few days. Now one scroll to the bottom of 'Newest' goes back 2 weeks. It's mostly the same old faces over and over, and that's kept me in non-Premium for awhile now.
FruitNinja
07-23-18, 22:13
I have used seeking arrangments and have not like spending time with Filtering and finding which girls are good. I am also not interested in doing this without protection becuase I know some girls there have herpes and other risky shit becuase I know guys that have gotten the short straw. Most girls there are flaky so If I would be 60 yrs old and retired, then great this is a good way to spend my time filtering and doing all the chit chat. Also girls have tried to set traps to rob some of my guy friends and shit like that, so I have now used independent escorts. Any recommendations on which agency I can use?Gee,
Thanks for sharing this useful information.
FruitNinja
07-24-18, 06:35
I have used seeking arrangments and have not like spending time with Filtering and finding which girls are good. I am also not interested in doing this without protection becuase I know some girls there have herpes and other risky shit becuase I know guys that have gotten the short straw. Most girls there are flaky so If I would be 60 yrs old and retired, then great this is a good way to spend my time filtering and doing all the chit chat. Also girls have tried to set traps to rob some of my guy friends and shit like that, so I have now used independent escorts. Any recommendations on which agency I can use?A little more on this:
I have literally done 200 plus girls starting with CL ads seeking Sb's to present day SA. Most of those have been uncovered. I have NEVER caught anything. Maybe it's because I use common sense in picking my SB. I have had a few girls try to scam me but I'd like to think I'm smarter than a 20 year old. If you get yourself in a position where you're set up to be robbed then you are a few cards short of a full deck. Meet in public man. I will say there is a big difference between a pro and a SB. Day and night actually. I've also seen many a pro in my life and I'm not a big fan. It's always some damn issue. I've also been ripped off by a pro. Broke the cardinal rule of no money upfront. That was in my younger days.
My guess is this two time poster is either a shill for the agencies or has no game on SA. JMHO.
CarolinaBlue
07-24-18, 07:15
From what women have told me, if they pay they can see your entire profile, otherwise it is just pictures and your tagline.Currently women have to pay $19/ month to become premium if they want to see if the men are premium subscribers that are able to send and read messages. They also can't tell if you have read their message unless they are premium.
Roarson 1281
07-24-18, 07:20
Thanks for the heads up on the auto-renew. My membership expires today. I closed out my profile, as I do not want the auto-renew, and I could not find an option without it.You can cancel autorenew on the website, just go to settings, payment, and theres an option to cancel autorenew on that screen.
Thanks!
A little more on this:
I have literally done 200 plus girls starting with CL ads seeking Sb's to present day SA. Most of those have been uncovered. I have NEVER caught anything. .I know of 2 guys that have got genital herpes from SA girls recently. Both guys have good taste in girls, are experienced hobbyist and are seeing higher end girls not the low rent ones. So it's not always the skank or streetwalker girl who passes it, these guys were only seeing the typical SA college / girl next door hotties. Both guys thought the girls they were seeing were low risk. They aren't pros, they are innocent college girls, what could go wrong right? LOL.
Don't want to be an alarmist but this stuff is out there and with everyone raw dogging each other on SA these days it's it's not surprising that we see a recent uptick in STD risks and transmission.
When you get STD tests make sure they are testing for HSV, not all tests do it automatically and you have to ask for it in many cases.
I know of 2 guys that have got genital herpes from SA girls recently. Both guys have good taste in girls, are experienced hobbyist and are seeing higher end girls not the low rent ones. So it's not always the skank or streetwalker girl who passes it, these guys were only seeing the typical SA college / girl next door hotties. Both guys thought the girls they were seeing were low risk. They aren't pros, they are innocent college girls, what could go wrong right? LOL.
Don't want to be an alarmist but this stuff is out there and with everyone raw dogging each other on SA these days it's it's not surprising that we see a recent uptick in STD risks and transmission.
When you get STD tests make sure they are testing for HSV, not all tests do it automatically and you have to ask for it in many cases.Three interesting things about HSV. 1) According to the CDC (US Centers for Disease Control) more than 85% of the people with genital HSV don't know they have it, but are nevertheless infectious (people with HSV are, however, only infectious part of the time). 2) HSV is a skin contact disease that can be present on many body parts not protected by condoms, and can be contracted on many body parts not protected by condoms. Studies show that condoms reduce the risk of acquiring HSV by, best case, about 50%. 3) Blood test for HSV antibodies can give a false negative for many weeks, even a couple months, after the first outbreak. A negative HSV blood test tells you, with certainty, that the person tested was clean as of about 3 months prior.
KriegHoff75
07-24-18, 16:31
Thanks for all the information. It is very true that we all need to be careful inside the bedroom. I know of many friends that have gone to the SA site in order to get their BB fix. They think those girls are meek and humble. What their finding out is if their willing to sleep on the first date, they will with the others if the price is right. Be careful Mongers!
So I just signed up for premium membership a few days ago. Have sent maybe 30-40 messages now, maybe about 6 replies. Only 1 turned into a phone number so far. Most of the replies are a few words, I reply then don't get a second reply. Out of the 40 messages only about 10 or so clicked on my profile.
The one girl I've been texting agreed to dinner, but then told me she was working Friday night and would need 1 k for the night. I told her nothing until we have dinner first (I'll buy) and she agreed. After we fixed a night and time for dinner she then told me she wanted me to uber her from some place far away from the city (will cost about $50 to do this). What do you guys think?
Also what can I do to increase response rate? Or is this the rate to expect more or less? Most of my initial messages are 2 sentences: 1 sentence commenting on something specific in her profile casually, the next sentence saying I'd love to buy her dinner some day and which day could work.
Thanks for any help guys!
SteamTrain98
07-25-18, 01:47
So I just signed up for premium membership a few days ago. Have sent maybe 30-40 messages now, maybe about 6 replies. Only 1 turned into a phone number so far. Most of the replies are a few words, I reply then don't get a second reply. Out of the 40 messages only about 10 or so clicked on my profile.
The one girl I've been texting agreed to dinner, but then told me she was working Friday night and would need 1 k for the night. I told her nothing until we have dinner first (I'll buy) and she agreed. After we fixed a night and time for dinner she then told me she wanted me to uber her from some place far away from the city (will cost about $50 to do this). What do you guys think?
Also what can I do to increase response rate? Or is this the rate to expect more or less? Most of my initial messages are 2 sentences: 1 sentence commenting on something specific in her profile casually, the next sentence saying I'd love to buy her dinner some day and which day could work.
Thanks for any help guys!Your experience so far has been par for the course based on my experience. Like any other dating site, there are plenty of bogus profiles out there (girls who gave up but never deactivated their account, weirdos creating fake accounts with stolen pics just for whatever reason, or even fake ones by the site itself to help make it seem like there's more in your area). Get used to the response rate being low. Honestly, having 25% actually even look at your profile after sending a message is pretty damned good.
Based on the way you're talking, I'm guessing the 1 k allowance was probably a little more than you were planning. If that's the case, I wouldn't have bothered to set up a meet, but rather just politely declined and been honest that it was too much. This would have resulted in one of 3 possible outcomes:
1) The girl decides you're not offering enough and just ghosts.
2) The girl truly has GPS, insists that she's worth it and tries to convince you to agree to her terms.
3) The girl decides she'll make an exception for you this one time, and will lower her expectations.
IMHO, scenario 3 is the only one I consider, but I proceed with caution. She's got to hold a decent conversation with me (text or messaging) and I need to feel confident she's not going to hustle me if we end up meeting. If she's actually willing and able to put together some coherent thoughts and doesn't just complain about how expensive life is. More or less, doesn't keep bringing up money, I MIGHT schedule a meet.
Personally, I've never run into the issue that you had where she wanted you to uber her in from somewhere else. I tend to arrange meet-ups somewhere convenient for us both and have been lucky enough never to have a girl pull that sort of stunt. If what happened to you were to happen to me, I'd cut anchor and move on to the next. It's just a sign of more drama, there will always be some other thing that they expect outside of the allowance. (This latter part has happened to me, and I quickly ended that arrangement, as I'm not in it for bullshit, if I was, I'd be on a normal dating site).
Bottom line. Arrangements require a lot of lines to be put in the water and the girls don't want to think of themselves as trading their bodies for money (even if that might be exactly what they are doing.) So, keep sending messages, but treat the messages like a regular dating site. Also, if you want better responses, make sure you have some decent photos of yourself. Just like us guys, girls like full body shots so they know they're not getting someone whose body they find unattractive. Make sure you have a couple clear face shots, and some good full body ones and you'll be surprised how much of a difference that makes.
Funsteve1111
07-25-18, 08:11
So I just signed up for premium membership a few days ago. Have sent maybe 30-40 messages now, maybe about 6 replies. Only 1 turned into a phone number so far. Most of the replies are a few words, I reply then don't get a second reply. Out of the 40 messages only about 10 or so clicked on my profile.
The one girl I've been texting agreed to dinner, but then told me she was working Friday night and would s!
I only message ladies who have been on this site recently. If they have not been on for a few weeks, the chances of getting a response are a lot lower. I have had a couple that wanted me to Uber them to my place. They were like over an hour away and wanted to stay the night. I declined LOL. Just be patient. I get a lot of unsolicited messages from actual ladies that are new to the site. It takes time. I have found that the ladies that give very brief responses are ones that you are not going to end up meeting. Sometimes I get a ton of new messages and end up seeing two new ladies in a week.
BudLover99
07-25-18, 08:15
Chat with her and exchange phone number, but her monthly allowance is too high, try to get her down to ppm deal, but she said no, not sure if she will lower her asking price or not.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ad5c8e39-32db-4e7b-b5ba-ce33afbd7e28How much did she want?
OF Charlie
07-25-18, 08:41
I only message ladies who have been on this site recently. If they have not been on for a few weeks, the chances of getting a response are a lot lower. I have had a couple that wanted me to Uber them to my place. They were like over an hour away and wanted to stay the night. I declined LOL. Just be patient. I get a lot of unsolicited messages from actual ladies that are new to the site. It takes time. I have found that the ladies that give very brief responses are ones that you are not going to end up meeting. Sometimes I get a ton of new messages and end up seeing two new ladies in a week.I go even a step further. I only message girls who are online at the same time that I am on. Here is my thought behind it. Hot girls get a ton of messages. If you message her when she is not online, the next time she logs on chances are your message is in the bottom of the message list. If she has say 25 new messages when she logs in the next time, the odd of her replying to your message that is in the bottom is not that good. I have made exceptions to this strategy on girls who I really want to talk to and some have replied. But from my experience, if you message a girl who is online, your chance of getting a reply is better.
I will leave one more tip. I log out and log back in every half hour. Just like us, some girls search by recently active. If you constantly log out and log back in, your profile will show up in the first page instead of page 5 that girls never get around to. I know this works because every time I log out and log back in again, I instantly get girls to view my profile. I am too cheap to buy the boost, so this is a work around. It's a pain to keep logging out and back in, but it works for me.
So I just signed up for premium membership a few days ago. Have sent maybe 30-40 messages now, maybe about 6 replies. Only 1 turned into a phone number so far. Most of the replies are a few words, I reply then don't get a second reply. Out of the 40 messages only about 10 or so clicked on my profile.
Also what can I do to increase response rate? Or is this the rate to expect more or less? Most of my initial messages are 2 sentences: 1 sentence commenting on something specific in her profile casually, the next sentence saying I'd love to buy her dinner some day and which day could work.
Thanks for any help guys!I think the overall response rate is par for the course. The instant dinner invitation may be pushing some more cautious (and therefore more real and reasonable) girls off. I usually start with a little bit more casual banter about things on their profile or the site in general. If there's any kind of exchange at that point I try to move it over to text / email ASAP, and then move quickly to logistics. The site's messaging system isn't the greatest, but if a girl can't carry on a simple exchange in a decent amount of time, then odds are it won't work out anyway. I also wouldn't rule out a follow-up message to non-responders who still show up online. Its not like you have anything to lose and sometimes getting back on the top of their message list is all that was needed.
But the dinner invite before you've even exchanged pleasantries may be giving some girls pause. Even a quick bit of back-and-forth and then moving communication off the site may put more of them at ease. And of course some may be more comfortable with coffee during the day, etc. Than a formal dinner as a first meet.
The Uber option depends on each situation. I've paid a $15 Uber for a girl to get to a room that we were going to spend hours in at a PPM I found fair. But a long-distance round trip would make everything more expensive and difficult (probably the same even if both parties were driving). In general girls that can't manage their own transportation are going to be harder to deal with in general so I'd hope they were worth it in all the other ways!
Thanks guys for the advice!
I actually took myself off search because I initially got spammed by a bunch of girls I really wasn't remotely interested in. I guess you guys think that's a bad idea?
For the pictures, you guys are using real pictures of yourselves? I just put someone who looks like me. Maybe do that for the face shot and put some real body shots with face cropped out?
For first meet ups I should only pay for dinner or coffee or whatever right, don't pay them just to have dinner?
Thanks again really appreciate the guidance.
Also, this might be a dumb question but do you guys know of forums similar to this one[Deleted by Admin]
You are correct, that was one of the dumber things you can do.
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How much did she want?We actually exchange phone number and chatting about meet up, but then she said 3000-4000 per month, and we can meet about 2 times a week, I said I can do 400 per meet and see how we get along, but she just want a monthly allowance so I said no, idk maybe she change her mind now or maybe not, she is the type of girl I would interested / invest my money and time, but not everything work out the way I want it. Oh well.
BudLover99
07-25-18, 12:55
We actually exchange phone number and chatting about meet up, but then she said 3000-4000 per month, and we can meet about 2 times a week, I said I can do 400 per meet and see how we get along, but she just want a monthly allowance so I said no, idk maybe she change her mind now or maybe not, she is the type of girl I would interested / invest my money and time, but not everything work out the way I want it. Oh well.Thanks. Yea she told me 4000 per month and once a week. That's nuts.
Member #5757
07-25-18, 16:40
I've been on SA for a little over a year now. I'd say I've had about one meet up on average per week, and typically a new girl as I like variety. My approach from day 1 was to make a profile that comes across very non-sketchy. I have a nicely written 3-5 sentence paragraph in the two categories. I do not have a public pic, only one private pic of me which is a selfie before a night out on the town. I answer all the pre-set stats questions (ht, body type, income, net worth) and I exaggerate all of them for the better. My goal is that when they click on my profile after my first message that my profile is welcoming, but also shows I'm serious about meeting.
As far as messaging. Use the filters to get it to the age and things you target, and then focus on the girls who are online, or at least online in the past day. First message I send is only a few sentences including a compliment on them physically, along with my interest in "discussing details to see if we're on the same page". I end it with the last line offering to send more pics of myself through text. I typically give access to my private pic along with my first message. Sometimes you'll get a response with a number right away because they're curious about the additional pics.
If you do get a response it's typically a brief sentence or two asking "what are you looking for? This is where a very sincerely written copy / paste message can help lay out what you're hoping to find. Just don't make it perverted, too long or overly specific. Mine says how I'm recently divorced, don't want to traditionally date, want one girl to meet weekly, and I'd provide allowance that we agree upon. I think putting in that you understand the allowance part helps them feel comfortable.
From there it's all negotiation if they're interested in what your copy / paste message said, and if you can pay the allowance. Meeting just be careful, but I typically just have them come to wherever I'm staying. You should have a good read on them after discussing the terms and always get at least one additional pic from them before meeting.
Good luck!
Thanks. Yea she told me 4000 per month and once a week. That's nuts.So I ask her why monthly, she said that if she get paid per meet, she will feel like a hooker, but if you get monthly payment then is okay, WTF is going on in these girls head, can anyone figure it out.
So I ask her why monthly, she said that if she get paid per meet, she will feel like a hooker, but if you get monthly payment then is okay, WTF is going on in these girls head, can anyone figure it out.If you like her, this one is also something else https://www.seeking.com/member/4fe25a33-61c7-4b06-8f6e-6e97624b161c she text a 1 am and want to meet the next day before she leave for LA, at first she want 700, I said no, then she low to 400, I said ok, so the next day she text in the morning want to meet at a hotel near ohare before her 4 pm flight to LA, so we agree to meet at 1 pm by ohare before she leave, she text saying please confirm the hotel so we can meet at 1 pm, so around noon I confirm the hotel, then she ghost, WTF why she waste all that time for nothing, I do think she will be back chicago soon, probably have to go through the same BS game with her, again, she is the kind of pussy I am looking for so I have to play the game.
FruitNinja
07-25-18, 18:22
Thanks for all the information. It is very true that we all need to be careful inside the bedroom. I know of many friends that have gone to the SA site in order to get their BB fix. They think those girls are meek and humble. What their finding out is if their willing to sleep on the first date, they will with the others if the price is right. Be careful Mongers!I think one needs to be cautious but one can mitigate exposure by doing a subtle yet thorough investigation before you get to the bedroom. You would be surprised at what you can find ut by reading between the lines. If you're still concerned you can request a STD test. I did this once. She didn't want to so I passed. I have mongered for 30 plus years and like most guys I prefer BB. I've only gotten one STD (gonorrhea) in Kuala Lampur. This was me at my worst. Drunk and having to have a particular girl. Cost to me was a Dr visit followed by a shot and some antibiotics.
RidingOneUp
07-25-18, 19:04
https://www.seeking.com/member/8d614cc7-be33-477b-b58a-ebfe77e6d384
Looking for 1500/ min per month but will start out at 300 ppm for a couple months. Spent some time with her and it didn't click for me. Nice enough girl, attractive. Something just seemed off.
Thanks. Yea she told me 4000 per month and once a week. That's nuts.That's hilarious. For $48,000 a year she better fuck me BBFSCIP twice a day, cook me dinner every day and do the taxes!
I'm starting to figure out a lot of the people on SA are just plain old time wasters. I've had three good meetups, but at least 3/4 of the girls I contact either ignore me or respond with like a 5-word sentence. Most that respond just end up ghosting. Like someone said below, plenty of antisocial creeps making fake profiles, plenty of girls on there just messing around too. And a lot of GPS. I probably won't renew. I specifically joined this to meet 18-19 year olds and they're all flaky as hell on that site. I don't know how you guys have the patience for it. The ones I've met have been 30's and up and great. I'd rather bone a hot 30-year-old who knows what she's doing than waste time trying to hook up with these young flakes.
FruitNinja
07-25-18, 20:02
I think the overall response rate is par for the course. The instant dinner invitation may be pushing some more cautious (and therefore more real and reasonable) girls off. I usually start with a little bit more casual banter about things on their profile or the site in general. If there's any kind of exchange at that point I try to move it over to text / email ASAP, and then move quickly to logistics. The site's messaging system isn't the greatest, but if a girl can't carry on a simple exchange in a decent amount of time, then odds are it won't work out anyway. I also wouldn't rule out a follow-up message to non-responders who still show up online. Its not like you have anything to lose and sometimes getting back on the top of their message list is all that was needed.
But the dinner invite before you've even exchanged pleasantries may be giving some girls pause. Even a quick bit of back-and-forth and then moving communication off the site may put more of them at ease. And of course some may be more comfortable with coffee during the day, etc. Than a formal dinner as a first meet.
The Uber option depends on each situation. I've paid a $15 Uber for a girl to get to a room that we were going to spend hours in at a PPM I found fair. But a long-distance round trip would make everything more expensive and difficult (probably the same even if both parties were driving). In general girls that can't manage their own transportation are going to be harder to deal with in general so I'd hope they were worth it in all the other ways!You make a good point. Just like any other dating app you need to make the girl comfortable before you ask to meet. Especially girls that are new to the site. You have to realize they are nervous. They don't know who you are or what your intentions are. This can be done in many ways. Once she feels comfortable then you try and move it to another means of communications. Sa is not much different than real life. Just as in real life the key to a girls heart is laughter.
FruitNinja
07-25-18, 20:04
Thanks guys for the advice!
I actually took myself off search because I initially got spammed by a bunch of girls I really wasn't remotely interested in. I guess you guys think that's a bad idea?
For the pictures, you guys are using real pictures of yourselves? I just put someone who looks like me. Maybe do that for the face shot and put some real body shots with face cropped out?
For first meet ups I should only pay for dinner or coffee or whatever right, don't pay them just to have dinner?
Thanks again really appreciate the guidance.I'm not sure what everyone else does but I use a cropped picture of myself. I do not show my face. When I switch over to another means of communication is when I will share my real photo. This has worked well for me.
FruitNinja
07-25-18, 20:06
We actually exchange phone number and chatting about meet up, but then she said 3000-4000 per month, and we can meet about 2 times a week, I said I can do 400 per meet and see how we get along, but she just want a monthly allowance so I said no, idk maybe she change her mind now or maybe not, she is the type of girl I would interested / invest my money and time, but not everything work out the way I want it. Oh well.Move on. There are plenty of other girls on the site. I never entertain any girl that has high expectations and is not willing to compromise. Poker face.
FruitNinja
07-25-18, 20:08
So I ask her why monthly, she said that if she get paid per meet, she will feel like a hooker, but if you get monthly payment then is okay, WTF is going on in these girls head, can anyone figure it out.Why do you think she would be any saner than any other woman. I would have told her "sure, at the end of the month I will pay you the allowance. Where else do you pay for something before you get it? This is a sure way to get parted from your money.
FruitNinja
07-25-18, 20:09
If you like her, this one is also something else https://www.seeking.com/member/4fe25a33-61c7-4b06-8f6e-6e97624b161c she text a 1 am and want to meet the next day before she leave for LA, at first she want 700, I said no, then she low to 400, I said ok, so the next day she text in the morning want to meet at a hotel near ohare before her 4 pm flight to LA, so we agree to meet at 1 pm by ohare before she leave, she text saying please confirm the hotel so we can meet at 1 pm, so around noon I confirm the hotel, then she ghost, WTF why she waste all that time for nothing, I do think she will be back chicago soon, probably have to go through the same BS game with her, again, she is the kind of pussy I am looking for so I have to play the game.Don't get hung up on one particular girl. Be patient or you will be parted form your money.
So I ask her why monthly, she said that if she get paid per meet, she will feel like a hooker, but if you get monthly payment then is okay, WTF is going on in these girls head, can anyone figure it out.The girls on the site, not all, but most, are generally on the site out of curiosity. They def understand that most guys will want some action, but they definitely don't want to be labeled or feel like they are a p4 p gal. This can be a little frustrating when trying to negotiate rates to get your monies worth.
However, there is an upside to this: sometimes, you can get laid for free. These girls don't want to feel like a hooker but are definitely on the site for monetary gain. The way they get it has to be structured in such a way that they generally feel the money is for their amazing character, even if we don't give a damn about what comes out of their mouth only what they can do with it. This isn't always the case, as there are plenty of open-minded girls who definitely take the business approach to justify what they do behind closed doors for money.
All in all, we have to understand that women in general go by how they feel, not what makes logical sense. If you can make them feel like the interaction between the 2 of you is a little more personal than transactional, you'll have a better understanding of them mentally. Don't forget the hobby rules to prevent you from getting scammed and have fun. You might get lucky for absolutely free, just like I have and plenty other mongers on the site.
Thanks for all the tips again guys.
One more question: when paying do you just pay with cash right when the date starts? Or after? This is for first time meeting I imagine after you could just do PayPal or something.
One girl wants $500 per meet. I asked her what would happen during a meet and this was her response:
Well in the past we do things like get drinks, dinner, and then whatever we wanted to do. If we had a connection we could go back to your place or a hotel and get to know each other more.
I was thinking about telling her that I didn't mind giving her $200 at the start then if I have a good time at the end of the night giving her another $200. What do you guys think? How would this work logistically?
I'm not sure what everyone else does but I use a cropped picture of myself. I do not show my face. When I switch over to another means of communication is when I will share my real photo. This has worked well for me.Cropped photos can be reversed image searched so everyone taking this approach should make sure you're not using that full picture elsewhere. Just making sure everyone is aware.
All in all, we have to understand that women in general go by how they feel, not what makes logical sense. If you can make them feel like the interaction between the 2 of you is a little more personal than transactional, you'll have a better understanding of them mentally. Don't forget the hobby rules to prevent you from getting scammed and have fun. You might get lucky for absolutely free, just like I have and plenty other mongers on the site.Absolutely agree with you on this. Although not exactly free, once you get to a personal level it becomes more of a girlfriend experience than a P4 P set up.
Saw her today. More than I usually do, at 5. I have no words to describe. Worth 5 and another. PSE plus. Bare, and she is entirely body focused. Did anal and I'm huge.
The real deal.
https://www.seeking.com/member/62b2bbb3-2c01-4601-901b-e67bc7745543
The girls on the site, not all, but most, are generally on the site out of curiosity. They def understand that most guys will want some action, but they definitely don't want to be labeled or feel like they are a p4 p gal. This can be a little frustrating when trying to negotiate rates to get your monies worth.
However, there is an upside to this: sometimes, you can get laid for free. These girls don't want to feel like a hooker but are definitely on the site for monetary gain. The way they get it has to be structured in such a way that they generally feel the money is for their amazing character, even if we don't give a damn about what comes out of their mouth only what they can do with it. This isn't always the case, as there are plenty of open-minded girls who definitely take the business approach to justify what they do behind closed doors for money.
All in all, we have to understand that women in general go by how they feel, not what makes logical sense. If you can make them feel like the interaction between the 2 of you is a little more personal than transactional, you'll have a better understanding of them mentally. Don't forget the hobby rules to prevent you from getting scammed and have fun. You might get lucky for absolutely free, just like I have and plenty other mongers on the site.My point is payment is payment, it is really make any different between paying daily, weekly or monthly, still payment to me. What she trying to tell me is if she take monthly payment then she is not a hooker, but if she take payment daily or per meet then she is a hooker, WTF it's same to me., it have nothing to do with curiosity or not
https://www.seeking.com/member/8d614cc7-be33-477b-b58a-ebfe77e6d384
Looking for 1500/ min per month but will start out at 300 ppm for a couple months. Spent some time with her and it didn't click for me. Nice enough girl, attractive. Something just seemed off.I agree 300 is alot for her, beside she is too big and too old for me, likely be older and bigger in real person, but other guys like bigger and older women, so who knows, there are always a type of women for other guys out there.
The girls on the site, not all, but most, are generally on the site out of curiosity. They def understand that most guys will want some action, but they definitely don't want to be labeled or feel like they are a p4 p gal. This can be a little frustrating when trying to negotiate rates to get your monies worth.
However, there is an upside to this: sometimes, you can get laid for free. These girls don't want to feel like a hooker but are definitely on the site for monetary gain. The way they get it has to be structured in such a way that they generally feel the money is for their amazing character, even if we don't give a damn about what comes out of their mouth only what they can do with it. This isn't always the case, as there are plenty of open-minded girls who definitely take the business approach to justify what they do behind closed doors for money.
All in all, we have to understand that women in general go by how they feel, not what makes logical sense. If you can make them feel like the interaction between the 2 of you is a little more personal than transactional, you'll have a better understanding of them mentally. Don't forget the hobby rules to prevent you from getting scammed and have fun. You might get lucky for absolutely free, just like I have and plenty other mongers on the site.Not disagreeing with you, but note there are also a bunch of pros on SA posing as innocent sugar babies. This is really lame of them to do that and lie- they should just stick to other websites. The whole point of the sugar baby site- at least in my warped line of thinking, is to get the girl next door that isn't banging every guy in the county. If I wanted to see a pro I'd go see a pro.
The girls on the site, not all, but most, are generally on the site out of curiosity. They def understand that most guys will want some action, but they definitely don't want to be labeled or feel like they are a p4 p gal. This can be a little frustrating when trying to negotiate rates to get your monies worth.
However, there is an upside to this: sometimes, you can get laid for free. These girls don't want to feel like a hooker but are definitely on the site for monetary gain. The way they get it has to be structured in such a way that they generally feel the money is for their amazing character, even if we don't give a damn about what comes out of their mouth only what they can do with it. This isn't always the case, as there are plenty of open-minded girls who definitely take the business approach to justify what they do behind closed doors for money.
All in all, we have to understand that women in general go by how they feel, not what makes logical sense. If you can make them feel like the interaction between the 2 of you is a little more personal than transactional, you'll have a better understanding of them mentally. Don't forget the hobby rules to prevent you from getting scammed and have fun. You might get lucky for absolutely free, just like I have and plenty other mongers on the site.Idk, I guess anything is possible, maybe a 21 years old playboy model is curious about have sex with a 50 years old asian guy will go on SA and contact me and want to have sex with me for free, it possible but I think I have a better chance winning the Mega and Power balls lotto 10 times before that happen.
FruitNinja
07-26-18, 02:23
Thanks for all the tips again guys.
One more question: when paying do you just pay with cash right when the date starts? Or after? This is for first time meeting I imagine after you could just do PayPal or something.
One girl wants $500 per meet. I asked her what would happen during a meet and this was her response:
Well in the past we do things like get drinks, dinner, and then whatever we wanted to do. If we had a connection we could go back to your place or a hotel and get to know each other more.
I was thinking about telling her that I didn't mind giving her $200 at the start then if I have a good time at the end of the night giving her another $200. What do you guys think? How would this work logistically?I have never had to pay a SB upfront. This is what a pro does. And if she insisted I would suggest to her that this makes you feel like she's a pro and that's not what you're looking for. You sure are planning this out to every last detail. Meet for coffee. Don't give money upfront. If she wants allowance then there has to be some consideration. It's a legal term.
FruitNinja
07-26-18, 02:26
Cropped photos can be reversed image searched so everyone taking this approach should make sure you're not using that full picture elsewhere. Just making sure everyone is aware.I've covered this in an earlier post. My cropped photo is on a social media site where is is not cropped. Plausible deniability. Anyone can get my picture online. I don't have anything that I need to hide as I have no SO per se. I just like my privacy and there are some associates that might not understand.
FruitNinja
07-26-18, 02:30
I agree 300 is alot for her, beside she is too big and too old for me, likely be older and bigger in real person, but other guys like bigger and older women, so who knows, there are always a type of women for other guys out there.She looks huge to me. Evert full length she is hiding her belly. And yes, probably a lot bigger in person.
FruitNinja
07-26-18, 02:42
I'm starting to figure out a lot of the people on SA are just plain old time wasters. I've had three good meetups, but at least 3/4 of the girls I contact either ignore me or respond with like a 5-word sentence. Most that respond just end up ghosting. Like someone said below, plenty of antisocial creeps making fake profiles, plenty of girls on there just messing around too. And a lot of GPS. I probably won't renew. I specifically joined this to meet 18-19 year olds and they're all flaky as hell on that site. I don't know how you guys have the patience for it. The ones I've met have been 30's and up and great. I'd rather bone a hot 30-year-old who knows what she's doing than waste time trying to hook up with these young flakes.I get where you would think there are a bunch of time wasters. I think the 18-19 demographic in general are flighty. SA is just a microcosm of real life. How many girls would you date before you found a keeper? The other thing is like us they might have 5-10 or more conversations going at one time. She finds what she wants and ghosts. That just means she was looking for something long term and she got a better offer. I get it totally. I've met with girls and done all but fuck in the car and the next day they ghost. Who knows what happened. I just move on. You cann't dwell on the lost ones when there's so many more to chose from. And as far as age preference that's totally subjective. I'm 60 and I can still pull 30 year olds in the real world. What I can't pull is a 18-19 year old. It would be very unlikely that there would be a place where we could meet and I could start putting on the moves. A 30 year oldis a different story. I personally prefer the innocence of the 18-19 year olds. Again. I like to train them. Very subjective.
ArielDude28
07-26-18, 05:14
Did anyone meet up these? I am in conversations with each one but no light at the other end of the pipe.
She does respond but did not commit to meetup or anything yet. Still going on.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1d37c42a-e088-4eac-841b-dc2a963d0c20
Some messages exchanged and looking more chatty. Anyone tried her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/c841d571-b1b7-41de-8aa1-98ce9afb342b
Only messages exchanged so far. LOL. Anyone tried her and any reason to be chatting more?
https://www.seeking.com/member/a7484986-000d-4360-80b4-2ae12663981b
Ready to meet but she dropped two times for some reason. Ready for the third attempt. Anyone met her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/3ce3af28-0424-4c16-8c66-42fdb8259aaf
Messages exchanged and planned to meet for coffee. But she dropped. Trying 2nd time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8e1a09f0-1c17-4456-8bab-d24c027686d4
I am ont sure if I am spending too much time on each one but that's just me as I feel these are real profiles. Trying not to rush. I will share any success but let me know if I am off. Messages exchanged have been mostly about stuff happening in life but there were some topics about arrangement and why we are on SA. Etc.
I dropped below due to high allowance rates or suspicion. There were others like this but their profiles are off SA.
Quoted 400 for PPM.
https://www.seeking.com/member/71a7d27a-818d-4232-a3c4-907b8cabdc15
I've covered this in an earlier post. My cropped photo is on a social media site where is is not cropped. Plausible deniability. Anyone can get my picture online. I don't have anything that I need to hide as I have no SO per se. I just like my privacy and there are some associates that might not understand.There are people on the board with varing levels of tech sophistication just wanted to prevent any possible issues for someone. Believe me there is at least one person on the board that was surprised by that fact. Was more of a blanket FYI.
I was thinking about telling her that I didn't mind giving her $200 at the start then if I have a good time at the end of the night giving her another $200. What do you guys think? How would this work logistically?That's a bad idea. You are paying her $200 to have drinks with you and she could theoretically just walk after drinks. Many girls will do this. They get cash in hand and don't have to sleep with you. You want to meet, feel each other out, if it's a go then you head off for private time, then you pay her. Cash is best for meetings early on, you can lay it out somewhere visible so she knows it's there. Once you develop trust you can do PayPal or Zelle transfers if you want. I just stick to cash all the time though so there's no paper trail.
KriegHoff75
07-26-18, 14:16
Don't give into their tactics. They will have lunch, dinner or cocktails with you and get the famous phonecall that her friend is in the hospital. LOL! I have a few SA friends that get pulled in by these girls with that craziness. Always remember from a position of power. In essence, that's what they are really wanting. A SD that has the power to control everything. That also includes how, when and how much. Enjoy and be safe.
I get where you would think there are a bunch of time wasters. I think the 18-19 demographic in general are flighty. SA is just a microcosm of real life. How many girls would you date before you found a keeper? The other thing is like us they might have 5-10 or more conversations going at one time. She finds what she wants and ghosts. That just means she was looking for something long term and she got a better offer. I get it totally. I've met with girls and done all but fuck in the car and the next day they ghost. Who knows what happened. I just move on. You cann't dwell on the lost ones when there's so many more to chose from. And as far as age preference that's totally subjective. I'm 60 and I can still pull 30 year olds in the real world. What I can't pull is a 18-19 year old. It would be very unlikely that there would be a place where we could meet and I could start putting on the moves. A 30 year oldis a different story. I personally prefer the innocence of the 18-19 year olds. Again. I like to train them. Very subjective.FruitNinja, I like your posts. I feel we have the same taste. I don't play the arrangement game here in the states, but I do in Ukraine. Monthly wages in that country are less then 200 and normal girls are forced to seek out relationships, often times with multiple guys. I think most young girls here are either flakes or addicts and I don't like the risks. I just want to mention the power of father figures with some of the younger girls that often times come from some pretty fucked up families. It's true we can't pull college girls out of clubs, but we do have distinct advantages over useless young and pretty boys just looking for fun. Of Charlie recently posted something I feel was kind of inaccurate about the sixty year old guy and the 20 year old hottie. My tip to older guys is to embrace father figure. They won't ever love you, but they will need and respect you.
I could write a book on how to play papa figure, but it mostly comes down to respect and support. Be clean, stay in shape, and show yourself as a proper role model.
OF Charlie
07-26-18, 18:46
FruitNinja, I like your posts. I feel we have the same taste. I don't play the arrangement game here in the states, but I do in Ukraine. Monthly wages in that country are less then 200 and normal girls are forced to seek out relationships, often times with multiple guys. I think most young girls here are either flakes or addicts and I don't like the risks. I just want to mention the power of father figures with some of the younger girls that often times come from some pretty fucked up families. It's true we can't pull college girls out of clubs, but we do have distinct advantages over useless young and pretty boys just looking for fun. Of Charlie recently posted something I feel was kind of inaccurate about the sixty year old guy and the 20 year old hottie. My tip to older guys is to embrace father figure. They won't ever love you, but they will need and respect you.
I could write a book on how to play papa figure, but it mostly comes down to respect and support. Be clean, stay in shape, and show yourself as a proper role model.I was trying to say it's hard to pull it off, not impossible but hard. You won't have a chance to put on your move if you can't even get the girl to message you back in the first place. Just like I have age as one of my filters, some girls also have age filter.
Yes, I agree a lot of girls are looking for father figure, but given a choice between a 50 yr old guy and a 60 yr old guy, my bet is that girls will go for the 50 yr old guy over the 60 yr old guy all else being equal as far as looks, income, net worth. This is from speaking to a couple of 60+ yr old guys.
FruitNinja
07-26-18, 18:59
Look below the link for my comments.
Did anyone meet up these? I am in conversations with each one but no light at the other end of the pipe.
She does respond but did not commit to meetup or anything yet. Still going on.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1d37c42a-e088-4eac-841b-dc2a963d0c20
After a certain time you need to cut and run. Looks kinda big to me. Not at all what I'm into.
Some messages exchanged and looking more chatty. Anyone tried her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/c841d571-b1b7-41de-8aa1-98ce9afb342b
" I'd love to talk and get to know each other for a while before meeting. Looking forward to speaking!" This is a long term with no possibility it will pay off. It's your time.
Only messages exchanged so far. LOL. Anyone tried her and any reason to be chatting more?
https://www.seeking.com/member/a7484986-000d-4360-80b4-2ae12663981b
This one lists Platonic. Why would you try for this?
Ready to meet but she dropped two times for some reason. Ready for the third attempt. Anyone met her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/3ce3af28-0424-4c16-8c66-42fdb8259aaf
Looks chunky to me.
Messages exchanged and planned to meet for coffee. But she dropped. Trying 2nd time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8e1a09f0-1c17-4456-8bab-d24c027686d4
"I'm open to new things and I'm always available to have a conversation about anything" and "Everything depends" would lead me to stay away.
I am ont sure if I am spending too much time on each one but that's just me as I feel these are real profiles. Trying not to rush. I will share any success but let me know if I am off. Messages exchanged have been mostly about stuff happening in life but there were some topics about arrangement and why we are on SA. Etc.
I dropped below due to high allowance rates or suspicion. There were others like this but their profiles are off SA.
Quoted 400 for PPM.
https://www.seeking.com/member/71a7d27a-818d-4232-a3c4-907b8cabdc15"I am splitting time between working on my startup, school, and a job!" Good luck getting her to make time for you.
I will say it again. You need to look for clues in the profile. Read between the lines. If they are looking for "Platonic" what makes you think you can change that? Why waste your time on trying to change her while there are 100's of girls that are looking for what you're looking for. If they complain how busy they are, why bother. She's not going to make time for you and if she does it will be a lot of work and money to get to that place.
JMHO.
SugarDaddyX
07-26-18, 20:39
Did anyone meet up these? I am in conversations with each one but no light at the other end of the pipe.
She does respond but did not commit to meetup or anything yet. Still going on.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1d37c42a-e088-4eac-841b-dc2a963d0c20She looks like she is wearing a drape in the one full body pic and calls herself "slim thick". I'm guessing she is heavy. Very brief profile, makes me think she is just checking SA out.
Some messages exchanged and looking more chatty. Anyone tried her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/c841d571-b1b7-41de-8aa1-98ce9afb342bGood looking girl, only been on the site two weeks. It does not seem like she is looking for sex or even knows what she wants from the site.
Only messages exchanged so far. LOL. Anyone tried her and any reason to be chatting more?
https://www.seeking.com/member/a7484986-000d-4360-80b4-2ae12663981bShe seems like a game player.
"I don't BS about what I want nor do I make impossible demands, I simply ask to take things slow and see how they go from there. If you're more into the speedy type of encounters that only satisfy a certain part of you, kindly look elsewhere."
She makes it clear she is not going to put out and says she wants to do just dates and activities in the "what I'm looking for". She also talks about bringing cockblocking friends on the dates. I would not bother with this one.
Ready to meet but she dropped two times for some reason. Ready for the third attempt. Anyone met her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/3ce3af28-0424-4c16-8c66-42fdb8259aafSeems pretty down to the point on her profile. Maybe just cold feet or playing games.
Messages exchanged and planned to meet for coffee. But she dropped. Trying 2nd time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8e1a09f0-1c17-4456-8bab-d24c027686d4Give her one more shot. Maybe she was seeing if you were serious and really going to show up. The really young ones are the flakiest. If she flakes again, get rid of her. She shows no pics below the boobs and calls herself curvy, so expect her to be heavier. Curvy has become the socially inoffensive way to say fat.
I dropped below due to high allowance rates or suspicion. There were others like this but their profiles are off SA.
Quoted 400 for PPM.
https://www.seeking.com/member/71a7d27a-818d-4232-a3c4-907b8cabdc15The way her profile reads, she wants $400 for just a celibate date. Things like "come spoil me", "luxury lifestyle", and "If they can't make you richer..." -Cardi B. Seems GPS to me.
Only the fourth and fifth ladies you posted seem to be DTF. The rest seem to be looking for something more platonic or would require the long game before their thong hit the floor.
SDX.
I'm 60 and I can still pull 30 year olds in the real world. What I can't pull is a 18-19 year old. A 30 year oldis a different story.I'm 54. Getting 30 something women is easier because the options for dating for these women tend to become limited. With 18-19 year old girls the options are open.
FruitNinja
07-26-18, 21:47
FruitNinja, I like your posts. I feel we have the same taste. I don't play the arrangement game here in the states, but I do in Ukraine. Monthly wages in that country are less then 200 and normal girls are forced to seek out relationships, often times with multiple guys. I think most young girls here are either flakes or addicts and I don't like the risks. I just want to mention the power of father figures with some of the younger girls that often times come from some pretty fucked up families. It's true we can't pull college girls out of clubs, but we do have distinct advantages over useless young and pretty boys just looking for fun. Of Charlie recently posted something I feel was kind of inaccurate about the sixty year old guy and the 20 year old hottie. My tip to older guys is to embrace father figure. They won't ever love you, but they will need and respect you.
I could write a book on how to play papa figure, but it mostly comes down to respect and support. Be clean, stay in shape, and show yourself as a proper role model.BINGO! Most of the girls, and I've had the pleasure of having a lot, have some kind of father issue. The trick is to play into that and use it to your advantage. If you can do that you're home free with the majority of them. I can't stress how much this game is a psychological game. Most want a strong, firm, father figure. You have to temper that with a certain gentleness to disarm them. After that they are yours. I'm 61, and divorced for almost 15 years. I have slept with one woman over 30 and she was an exceptional woman. The body of an 18 year old coupled with the naughtiness of a 40 year old. The majority of the rest have been 18-20. So don't let age even cross your mind. Use your head. You're smarter than all of these girls. I use some of the negotiating lessons I've learned over the years. Learn how to read body language. You can also learn a lot from their profiles and messaging. Look for clues and gives. Try to ascertain what trips their trigger. I had a 19 year old that I groomed for weeks. She was down on her knees in my foyer 2 minutes after she walked in the house. I teased her, got her excited, got her guessing and inquisitive, and above all talked her into the state of horny. It took a little bit of kissing and she was on her knees. Great piece. I had her crawling up the wall. Shaking after our session. 75% of that was psychological. Lear.
ArielDude28
07-27-18, 06:25
She looks like she is wearing a drape in the one full body pic and calls herself "slim thick". I'm guessing she is heavy. Very brief profile, makes me think she is just checking SA out.
Good looking girl, only been on the site two weeks. It does not seem like she is looking for sex or even knows what she wants from the site.
She seems like a game player.
"I don't BS about what I want nor do I make impossible demands, I simply ask to take things slow and see how they go from there. If you're more into the speedy type of encounters that only satisfy a certain part of you, kindly look elsewhere."
She makes it clear she is not going to put out and says she wants to do just dates and activities in the "what I'm looking for". She also talks about bringing cockblocking friends on the dates. I would not bother with this one.
Seems pretty down to the point on her profile. Maybe just cold feet or playing games.
Give her one more shot. Maybe she was seeing if you were serious and really going to show up. The really young ones are the flakiest. If she flakes again, get rid of her. She shows no pics below the boobs and calls herself curvy, so expect her to be heavier. Curvy has become the socially inoffensive way to say fat.
The way her profile reads, she wants $400 for just a celibate date. Things like "come spoil me", "luxury lifestyle", and "If they can't make you richer..." -Cardi B. Seems GPS to me.
Only the fourth and fifth ladies you posted seem to be DTF. The rest seem to be looking for something more platonic or would require the long game before their thong hit the floor.
SDX.Thanks for a detailed feedback. I think I am still getting used to this and as you said, I am on for 4th and 5th. 5th feels a little cold feet probably due to her more than curvy personality I guess. But, she seems to be willing to go for it. Others as you said seem dud and will move on and spend my energies somewhere.
ArielDude28
07-27-18, 06:26
Look below the link for my comments.
"I am splitting time between working on my startup, school, and a job!" Good luck getting her to make time for you.
I will say it again. You need to look for clues in the profile. Read between the lines. If they are looking for "Platonic" what makes you think you can change that? Why waste your time on trying to change her while there are 100's of girls that are looking for what you're looking for. If they complain how busy they are, why bother. She's not going to make time for you and if she does it will be a lot of work and money to get to that place.
JMHO.Thanks for a detailed response. I think I got the message between your expert comments a SugerDaddy x comments. Let me change my track and see again.
ArielDude28
07-27-18, 06:28
This one is down and ready for 250 ppm. She can also host and lives near Motgomery. A little aged and not so beautiful face IMHO.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f64b7ad1-0afa-412f-bc99-9863c1efc5ae
This one is slow. Don;t think anything will happen.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7a009170-7e3e-4856-b566-de57e4a0132e
Ready for everything and travel
https://www.seeking.com/member/5b83e115-b04a-400e-85f0-4a73177bb9d4
Anyone try her? She is messaging and asking for a date. I am fine with over 30s
https://www.seeking.com/member/1a665d20-3812-4546-bbd7-1119d4b5e4b2
KriegHoff75
07-27-18, 08:20
This one is open to meet but requires a lot to see her. $1200 overnight or $800 for a couple hours. She is super hot but there's a lot out there that at this level.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e8f23b08-dbf7-472e-a2f1-90193dab82c4
ItsHowdyDoody
07-27-18, 08:44
This one is open to meet but requires a lot to see her. $1200 overnight or $800 for a couple hours. She is super hot but there's a lot out there that at this level.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e8f23b08-dbf7-472e-a2f1-90193dab82c4Unless she is shooting fireworks out of her body, complete with multi orgasmic super powered enhancement powers, I am going to say that is a bit much for who she is. Just imo.
FruitNinja
07-27-18, 09:42
This one is open to meet but requires a lot to see her. $1200 overnight or $800 for a couple hours. She is super hot but there's a lot out there that at this level.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e8f23b08-dbf7-472e-a2f1-90193dab82c4Based on her pictures looks like a stripper. The good clubs make a lot of money for these girls. She's used to big money. There is no pu**why that's worth that kind of money. I've had a lot in my life and more money does not translate into a better time. For that money I could have four 18-19 year olds that do as I direct them to do. I also do not like hanging with strippers. I consider them pros.
This one is open to meet but requires a lot to see her. $1200 overnight or $800 for a couple hours. She is super hot but there's a lot out there that at this level.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e8f23b08-dbf7-472e-a2f1-90193dab82c4I had message her too, she quote me about the same price, it odd that she go from 800 two hours, to 1200 overnight, if she have one hour, I maybe interested, anyway. I see you have good taste in women, sometime super hot women are not cheap and old guys who thinks girls like her with fall in love with them and will have sex with them for free, live in a dream world, anyway have you contact these SA ladies below.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ad7cb3d-66e6-4829-afc5-268dc71c1222 message with this one but no respond.
https://www.seeking.com/member/54792f8d-e82d-421f-9df0-e2e0a8a24295 i had chat with this one but was not interested in sex yet, that was a few month ago, she might change her mind now.
https://www.seeking.com/member/77501f00-f413-4506-b0e2-2188c8ff1443 chat with this one, still planing to meet up with her soon.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c9b0f1af-5b51-47a3-82ac-55936b5e358a this one is ready to go, claim to be model, euro student and she look much better in person then pic, which is very rare and she have her own place, kinda hard to find and street parking, but worth it.
https://www.seeking.com/member/988667df-eff3-4d4a-a047-d736f99e73e8 try to meet this one but not sure if she ready to play, she seems like a euro student and just want platonic before but she might change her mind now
There is more, but these are some of the SA ladies I was interested.
https://www.seeking.com/member/885e703c-b574-4d88-b90f-7db6868cf8ad
Meet her a few times last year, very tall blonde and actually a real model in real life, she was a true / full GFE to me but not sure is the same for others, if you like tall slim blonde model go for it, also very good looking kitty.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f2745c90-1ccc-42b4-898e-22d9e9f55e75
Her text pic look really good, plan to meet a few times but she flake out every time, not sure if she is serious in meet up or not, anyone try to meet her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/56537857-8e58-53a8-f669-1d6c2337f33c
Chat with this one, she want 600 an hour, I told her is was too high, not sure if she had lower her asking price or not, she is on my maybe list if the price is right, had anyone see her? I do require BBFS cip from all my SA ladies so that even make it harder.
https://www.seeking.com/member/425245db-d4a3-4a26-a760-749fa41239fd
Had anyone meet this one, please let me know, trying but nothing.
Me thinks this is the same melissa from massagechicagoland.net?
https://www.seeking.com/member/f15ed790-59bd-4127-aaf9-3bec5f4ef219
One of my SA ladies leaving for her first year to college in middle of August very far away, would love to have this one as a replacement, my girl is 19, exactly same body type as Lafunforsun30 but her face is much prettier to me anyway (I give my lady 8. 5 out of 10 vs 8. 25 out of 10 for Lafunforsun30), is Lafunforsun30 for real or fake and had anyone try to meet her yet, my guess she is not going to be cheap, if her price is reasonable, I think is worth it, any info would be nice.
https://www.seeking.com/member/425245db-d4a3-4a26-a760-749fa41239fd
SugarDaddyX
07-27-18, 16:36
The following happened last weekend.
Friday.
I had been talking to a SB about an hour away from me. She actually initiated contact and looked very good in her pictures. We arranged to meet at a bar near me on Friday night. She kept pestering me to tell her how much I was going to give her. I told her that I would prefer to meet her first and see if we have a connection before talking money. I guaranteed that I would cover her gasoline no matter what. Two hours before we are supposed to meet, she asks me via text, "You are going to give me at least 500, right?. " I told her, "I do not know how long she was planning to stay, what she looked like in person, or if there was a connection. Lets just meet first, and if we hit it off, we can negotiate an allowance. " I guess that was good enough for her, because she did show up to my town, albeit about an hour late.
We had a drink at the bar. I could tell she lied about being athletic in her description because she was out of shape. She was what I would describe as average, a little bit of pudge in the midsection. We did not have a whole lot in common, and she only had one drink. She talked about her divorced parents and smelled like cigarettes. She made it clear that she wanted to ride Space Mountain. I walked her a couple blocks to a nice hotel I had checked into about two hours earlier after nailing a rock bottom price on Priceline's Name Your Price.
We got up to the room and started stripping. When I got her naked, I realized that her pictures had to have been 2-4 years old and before she had a baby. Her belly was not too bad, but her boobs had too much sag for a 24 year old. The bra concealed that. She had more tattoos than seen on her profile's pictures. I pounded her real good, but the sex was not too enjoyable. She was a lazy partner. I did the work in missionary or spoon while she just took it and moaned. She was reluctant to kiss. I busted and laid on the bed to catch my breath. She said she had to work at 5 am and needed to get back home. This rubbed me the wrong way. I took her out to her car and tossed her 200 on her lap. She started shouting at me that she drove all this way and that she needed more. I told her, "We had only spent about an hour together total and she had no energy in the sack. If she wanted more, she should have stayed longer and put forth more effort. " I tossed a couple more 5's and 10's at her and walked away fast before she could count it and start bitching some more. I cooled off at a dance club watching some college girls grind all over each other.
I have not heard from her and see that she has been online every day, almost constantly. I am guessing she is spamming up guys' inboxes looking for a sucker to commit to 500+ sight unseen. It won't be too long before she finds a guy desperate enough.
Saturday.
I had been talking to a SB from my town and we agreed to meet up Saturday night. Now this SB was 27, so I was a bit hesitant. I typically try to stay at 24 and younger and was a bit on edge after Friday night's events. She did not ask about allowance at all.
We met up at an artisan taco place and had a bite to eat and some beers. She was on time, super friendly, and interesting. She had a job, and although it was not a great job, she could support herself. She made it clear that she wanted to bang, so we went over to her house. I was a little nervous because her room mate, her sister, was at home and in the next room. After a little small talk, we started making out. I peeled off her clothes and she was somewhere between slim and average. Maybe she could of afforded to lose 10 pounds (can't we all?), but she listed herself as average on her profile, so at least I was not in for any surprises. Her breasts were perky C cups, and there was no baby damage. She was clean and shaved.
The sex was amazing. We went for two rounds across about 90 minutes. She was eager to please and had awesome dick sucking technique. I felt guilty with her sister in the next room while I had the bed screeching across the hardwood floor and the SB moaning in pleasure while I jackhammered her warm, wet pussyhole. I also kind of felt bad that I left the bed she would be sleeping in that night covered in my sweat and her pussy juices. Once we were both exhausted, we both had another beer and got dressed. I thought about just leaving, but since she was so good to me and even hosted the rodeo, I asked her what she thought would be a fair allowance. She said 200 would be fine. To me that was a steal. We spent probably three hours together, she was fun to be around in public, and I did not even have to get a hotel room. If I did not bring up allowance, I doubt she would have even asked for anything. She seems like a girl that just wants good sex and a good time. In the future, I will "forget" the allowance and see if she bothers to ask me for it.
I am planning on meeting up with this lady again this coming weekend. At 27, she is the second oldest woman I have ever slept with.
So there you have it. Two consecutive nights and two very different experiences. The Saturday girl is a rare find. The Friday girl is a selfish SB who is all about getting money. Most women on SA are somewhere in between, but tend to skew a little more towards the Friday girl.
Get that sex.
SDX.
Agoraphobe
07-27-18, 19:10
https://www.seeking.com/member/885e703c-b574-4d88-b90f-7db6868cf8ad
Meet her a few times last year, very tall blonde and actually a real model in real life, she was a true / full GFE to me but not sure is the same for others, if you like tall slim blonde model go for it, also very good looking kitty.Saw here a few times last year as well and also got full GFE. Great change of pace from the usual kind girls I see who are short and curvy. Think I ended up spending between three and four with her.
What's her ppm rate if I may ask?
I've been on SA for a little over a year now. I'd say I've had about one meet up on average per week, and typically a new girl as I like variety. My approach from day 1 was to make a profile that comes across very non-sketchy. I have a nicely written 3-5 sentence paragraph in the two categories. I do not have a public pic, only one private pic of me which is a selfie before a night out on the town. I answer all the pre-set stats questions (ht, body type, income, net worth) and I exaggerate all of them for the better. My goal is that when they click on my profile after my first message that my profile is welcoming, but also shows I'm serious about meeting.
As far as messaging. Use the filters to get it to the age and things you target, and then focus on the girls who are online, or at least online in the past day. First message I send is only a few sentences including a compliment on them physically, along with my interest in "discussing details to see if we're on the same page". I end it with the last line offering to send more pics of myself through text. I typically give access to my private pic along with my first message. Sometimes you'll get a response with a number right away because they're curious about the additional pics.
If you do get a response it's typically a brief sentence or two asking "what are you looking for? This is where a very sincerely written copy / paste message can help lay out what you're hoping to find. Just don't make it perverted, too long or overly specific. Mine says how I'm recently divorced, don't want to traditionally date, want one girl to meet weekly, and I'd provide allowance that we agree upon. I think putting in that you understand the allowance part helps them feel comfortable.
From there it's all negotiation if they're interested in what your copy / paste message said, and if you can pay the allowance. Meeting just be careful, but I typically just have them come to wherever I'm staying. You should have a good read on them after discussing the terms and always get at least one additional pic from them before meeting.
Good luck!
Saw here a few times last year as well and also got full GFE. Great change of pace from the usual kind girls I see who are short and curvy. Think I ended up spending between three and four with her.
FruitNinja
07-27-18, 21:57
The following happened last weekend.
Friday.
I had been talking to a SB about an hour away from me. She actually initiated contact and looked very good in her pictures. We arranged to meet at a bar near me on Friday night. She kept pestering me to tell her how much I was going to give her. I told her that I would prefer to meet her first and see if we have a connection before talking money. I guaranteed that I would cover her gasoline no matter what. Two hours before we are supposed to meet, she asks me via text, "You are going to give me at least 500, right?. " I told her, "I do not know how long she was planning to stay, what she looked like in person, or if there was a connection. Lets just meet first, and if we hit it off, we can negotiate an allowance. " I guess that was good enough for her, because she did show up to my town, albeit about an hour late.
We had a drink at the bar. I could tell she lied about being athletic in her description because she was out of shape. She was what I would describe as average, a little bit of pudge in the midsection. We did not have a whole lot in common, and she only had one drink. She talked about her divorced parents and smelled like cigarettes. She made it clear that she wanted to ride Space Mountain. I walked her a couple blocks to a nice hotel I had checked into about two hours earlier after nailing a rock bottom price on Priceline's Name Your Price.
We got up to the room and started stripping. When I got her naked, I realized that her pictures had to have been 2-4 years old and before she had a baby. Her belly was not too bad, but her boobs had too much sag for a 24 year old. The bra concealed that. She had more tattoos than seen on her profile's pictures. I pounded her real good, but the sex was not too enjoyable. She was a lazy partner. I did the work in missionary or spoon while she just took it and moaned. She was reluctant to kiss. I busted and laid on the bed to catch my breath. She said she had to work at 5 am and needed to get back home. This rubbed me the wrong way. I took her out to her car and tossed her 200 on her lap. She started shouting at me that she drove all this way and that she needed more. I told her, "We had only spent about an hour together total and she had no energy in the sack. If she wanted more, she should have stayed longer and put forth more effort. " I tossed a couple more 5's and 10's at her and walked away fast before she could count it and start bitching some more. I cooled off at a dance club watching some college girls grind all over each other.
I have not heard from her and see that she has been online every day, almost constantly. I am guessing she is spamming up guys' inboxes looking for a sucker to commit to 500+ sight unseen. It won't be too long before she finds a guy desperate enough.
Saturday.
I had been talking to a SB from my town and we agreed to meet up Saturday night. Now this SB was 27, so I was a bit hesitant. I typically try to stay at 24 and younger and was a bit on edge after Friday night's events. She did not ask about allowance at all.
We met up at an artisan taco place and had a bite to eat and some beers. She was on time, super friendly, and interesting. She had a job, and although it was not a great job, she could support herself. She made it clear that she wanted to bang, so we went over to her house. I was a little nervous because her room mate, her sister, was at home and in the next room. After a little small talk, we started making out. I peeled off her clothes and she was somewhere between slim and average. Maybe she could of afforded to lose 10 pounds (can't we all?), but she listed herself as average on her profile, so at least I was not in for any surprises. Her breasts were perky C cups, and there was no baby damage. She was clean and shaved.
The sex was amazing. We went for two rounds across about 90 minutes. She was eager to please and had awesome dick sucking technique. I felt guilty with her sister in the next room while I had the bed screeching across the hardwood floor and the SB moaning in pleasure while I jackhammered her warm, wet pussyhole. I also kind of felt bad that I left the bed she would be sleeping in that night covered in my sweat and her pussy juices. Once we were both exhausted, we both had another beer and got dressed. I thought about just leaving, but since she was so good to me and even hosted the rodeo, I asked her what she thought would be a fair allowance. She said 200 would be fine. To me that was a steal. We spent probably three hours together, she was fun to be around in public, and I did not even have to get a hotel room. If I did not bring up allowance, I doubt she would have even asked for anything. She seems like a girl that just wants good sex and a good time. In the future, I will "forget" the allowance and see if she bothers to ask me for it.
I am planning on meeting up with this lady again this coming weekend. At 27, she is the second oldest woman I have ever slept with.
So there you have it. Two consecutive nights and two very different experiences. The Saturday girl is a rare find. The Friday girl is a selfish SB who is all about getting money. Most women on SA are somewhere in between, but tend to skew a little more towards the Friday girl.
Get that sex.
SDX.Sounds like fun. Why would you just walk away without giving her anything. We all know why we are all there. They are there for the $ and we are there for the p**sy. Why renig on that? Just because you think you can? Bad karma man.
TheRealMcoy
07-27-18, 22:28
https://www.seeking.com/member/885e703c-b574-4d88-b90f-7db6868cf8ad
Meet her a few times last year, very tall blonde and actually a real model in real life, she was a true / full GFE to me but not sure is the same for others, if you like tall slim blonde model go for it, also very good looking kitty.I met with her recently and she came into the hotel in high heels making her really, really tall. Good enough time but she has a weird vibe about her. Only problem I had was she kept shifting around and wouldn't allow me to go full depth. She complained she was sore but who knows. I would meet again if that improved and I just like her because of the combo of tall and skinny.
Saw here a few times last year as well and also got full GFE. Great change of pace from the usual kind girls I see who are short and curvy. Think I ended up spending between three and four with her.Just wondering was she BBFS with you also.
I met with her recently and she came into the hotel in high heels making her really, really tall. Good enough time but she has a weird vibe about her. Only problem I had was she kept shifting around and wouldn't allow me to go full depth. She complained she was sore but who knows. I would meet again if that improved and I just like her because of the combo of tall and skinny.Yeah that high hell make her 6'5" tall, she always put on make up and look really good to me, however I think her personality is kinda odd but in a friendly way, maybe it related to her modeling job, her tallness probably come from her German family side, was she BBFS with you, or cfs? Is rare for me to have a 6'5' blonde model at my hotel door, something new and different I guess, so was all good to me, I also had another tall 6'+ euro model in the past but no longer on SA and that experience is about the same, funny thing is I am 5'6" and having sex with (2) 6'+ models, maybe I am living in a dream world.
Agoraphobe
07-28-18, 18:14
Just wondering was she BBFS with you also.Nope, CFS but did offer BBBJ and CIM.
Nope, CFS but did offer BBBJ and CIM.What's her ppm rate if I may ask?
ArielDude28
07-30-18, 02:18
Did anyone move forward with below profile? Mixed reactions as I am unable to move it forward from messages.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e4e6cfba-7017-4527-8e44-3d4245bee1b5
FruitNinja
07-30-18, 05:13
Yeah that high hell make her 6'5" tall, she always put on make up and look really good to me, however I think her personality is kinda odd but in a friendly way, maybe it related to her modeling job, her tallness probably come from her German family side, was she BBFS with you, or cfs? Is rare for me to have a 6'5' blonde model at my hotel door, something new and different I guess, so was all good to me, I also had another tall 6'+ euro model in the past but no longer on SA and that experience is about the same, funny thing is I am 5'6" and having sex with (2) 6'+ models, maybe I am living in a dream world.I had a conversation going with her a while back. She seemed a little too eager for me. I asked her to send me a pictyre and she looked like she was anorexic. I like a little meat on my women so I passed.
I had a conversation going with her a while back. She seemed a little too eager for me. I asked her to send me a pictyre and she looked like she was anorexic. I like a little meat on my women so I passed.I don't think she is anorexic at all, I would said slim, about 6' and 130 lbs (because of her height), if she was 5'6" probably 110 lbs, and beside guys not going to look at models and said gee I wish models are ave weight and big bone, hahaha but who knows, what body type guys like or don't like (both of my brother's wife are about 160+ lbs and extremely big bone and they thinks their wife are the most beautiful women in this world, so different stroke for different folks, I guess.
This one is down and ready for 250 ppm. She can also host and lives near Motgomery. A little aged and not so beautiful face IMHO.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f64b7ad1-0afa-412f-bc99-9863c1efc5ae
This one is slow. Don;t think anything will happen.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7a009170-7e3e-4856-b566-de57e4a0132e
Ready for everything and travel
https://www.seeking.com/member/5b83e115-b04a-400e-85f0-4a73177bb9d4
Anyone try her? She is messaging and asking for a date. I am fine with over 30s
https://www.seeking.com/member/1a665d20-3812-4546-bbd7-1119d4b5e4b2-I met the last one mentioned here. She is not 35. She is way over that. Just had dinner and I had to bolt. As it was really not my cup of tea. Broken English, 40+, Expensive so. Not my cup of tea.
I just open account on SA and was wondering is anyone try this girl https://www.seeking.com/member/2a767e7b-611d-b15c-7ac9-331c5fa3cf01.
That sucks.
Am I missing something?
BudLover99
07-30-18, 12:38
Been messaging her and she is down for hosting at 300 ppm. Could probably talk her down from that. Have not met her yet because she is an hour north of me and fishing for something younger and closer.
I just open account on SA and was wondering is anyone try this girl https://www.seeking.com/member/2a767e7b-611d-b15c-7ac9-331c5fa3cf01.I had chat with her but never meet, if she look like her pic. You go for it.
What's her ppm rate if I may ask?I think BBBJ and cfs will be 300, and BBBJ and BBFS will be 400, but may depend if she like you or not, if she like you, she might do BBFS but who knows.
https://www.seeking.com/member/587be569-8a7e-4489-89b5-61380ea4d2de
Had anyone meet this one, she want 100 for coffee, and I said no, then ghost.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ee88e4c-0905-4b60-aa97-9fce06c3ca8b
Chat with them and was about to meet for coffee, but both want 100 each for coffee, crazy so I pass, then they ghost me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/91705474-8e90-4d7b-bf9e-4a4de6e88f9b
She give out her kik, so I kik message her and she only want platonic BS, so I pass, anyone hook up with her at hotel room.
https://www.seeking.com/member/996fa828-07a3-4ef5-92bc-2123b7e6002f
Had plan to meet her for dinner, however on the date we were to meet, she went silent. Anyone hook up with her, maybe bad planning because we plan about a week in advanced, and usually week in advance planning never work out, just because 18-22 girls change their mind all the time.
MrWiggles03
07-30-18, 15:15
I just open account on SA and was wondering is anyone try this girl https://www.seeking.com/member/2a767e7b-611d-b15c-7ac9-331c5fa3cf01.I talked to her a bit but she wouldn't budge on 500 ppm so I had to pass.
ArielDude28
07-30-18, 19:53
-I met the last one mentioned here. She is not 35. She is way over that. Just had dinner and I had to bolt. As it was really not my cup of tea. Broken English, 40+, Expensive so. Not my cup of tea.Thanks for the caution. I skipped the plan to meet yesterday and she was freaking out and sending me bitchy messages. I can understand her point of view but I just said sorry, I have work. Etc. I will drop her from my plans.
https://www.seeking.com/member/587be569-8a7e-4489-89b5-61380ea4d2de
Had anyone meet this one, she want 100 for coffee, and I said no, then ghost.I talked to her a little a while back, then she just ghosted when I asked to get together.
FruitNinja
07-30-18, 21:29
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ee88e4c-0905-4b60-aa97-9fce06c3ca8b
Chat with them and was about to meet for coffee, but both want 100 each for coffee, crazy so I pass, then they ghost me.Just pass and move on. Life's too short.
BudLover99
07-30-18, 22:12
Been messaging her and she is down for hosting at 300 ppm. Could probably talk her down from that. Have not met her yet because she is an hour north of me and fishing for something younger and closer.https://www.seeking.com/member/1a03158a-f750-3360-3a28-4ccd292e213c
Thanks for the caution. I skipped the plan to meet yesterday and she was freaking out and sending me bitchy messages. I can understand her point of view but I just said sorry, I have work. Etc. I will drop her from my plans.Guess, I did not get her bitchy messages as I blocked her as soon as I left the Restaurant. Stay Safe.
Just pass and move on. Life's too short.I am not worry at all, right now I have more then enough SA girls that is same or better looking then those two.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b8757acd-5741-4dd1-8b33-c76d035c8da8
Was trying to get this one to the hotel, pain in the ass tho, anyone hook up with her.
BudLover99
07-30-18, 23:00
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f13b7f0d-4be1-4768-abe1-e9b8571050be
Don't waste your time with this one. Total fucking game player who will lead you on and on and on and you will get nowhere. That has been my experience any way. Four days wasted playing her games.
Al Melrose
07-31-18, 05:35
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f13b7f0d-4be1-4768-abe1-e9b8571050be
Don't waste your time with this one. Total fucking game player who will lead you on and on and on and you will get nowhere. That has been my experience any way. Four days wasted playing her games.You linked to your messages, which we can't see not to her profile.
FruitNinja
07-31-18, 06:26
https://www.seeking.com/member/b8757acd-5741-4dd1-8b33-c76d035c8da8
Was trying to get this one to the hotel, pain in the ass tho, anyone hook up with her.Why do you say she's a "pain in the ass?
Roarson 1281
07-31-18, 07:57
Met up with this girl a few days ago.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e51c4b50-4bd3-4694-ad3f-ce383fee7bb7
She's an escort with EEC, but doing this on the downlow on the side. Hit me up, I guess she was flying in a day early and wanted to hangout. She wanted 3, but I told her well see what happens. I got her from the airport and we went back to my place. She's tall, a little out of shape, fake boobs which were horribly done, and worst of all she wouldn't stop talking. She just went on and on and on until she wanted to take shots. Proceeded to rip 5 shots a vodka and then asked to go to the bedroom. BBBJ, BBFS, was talking about doing anal but didn't venture there. We went back into my living room where she started talking again and we took some more shots. Wanted food so I ordered a pizza, but before it could get there she passed out.
Woke up the next morning and went for round 2, she said she might of been on her period so I was careful. Right as I'm about to pop, I pull out and there blood on my dick, OMG. I quickly take a shower, she wipes herself off. Drop her off at her hotel that "she got" because "she's here to see her friends" LOL. Anyway, here's my review, if you want to get some BBFS she's not a bad choice, but from what I experienced, I would PASS.
BudLover99
07-31-18, 08:14
You linked to your messages, which we can't see not to her profile.Oooops. Sorry about that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e925dce7-c65b-4929-9c41-7bdc38bda660
BudLover99
07-31-18, 08:30
https://www.seeking.com/member/1a03158a-f750-3360-3a28-4ccd292e213c
Chatted with this one a while, and she gets right down to it. Says she can host. Did not seem like a role player. I did not meet her because she is pretty far from me, and I'm still fishing for younger and hotter, but she was definitely up for it.
Has anyone had any experience with either of these girls?
https://www.seeking.com/member/1ada7ea3-8e20-4ec1-913e-4bff05f27cea
https://www.seeking.com/member/d5d15a0d-c352-4f17-b0c7-30e38e9a176b
ChitownGuy321
07-31-18, 09:52
Has anyone had any experience with either of these girls?
https://www.seeking.com/member/1ada7ea3-8e20-4ec1-913e-4bff05f27cea
https://www.seeking.com/member/d5d15a0d-c352-4f17-b0c7-30e38e9a176bI saw Kiddy once a year ago. I had a good time. She is very laid back.
Why do you say she's a "pain in the ass?She keep making plan and change it, never commit, keep going online, then offline for weeks, you have to find the right time to meet her (when she need $$ then maybe she will meet or not.
BudLover99
07-31-18, 11:02
https://www.seeking.com/member/f64f5e0e-1719-4fef-8531-c55b01dc10ed
Anybody have any luck with this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/1a03158a-f750-3360-3a28-4ccd292e213cPics are overly flattering. Kind of a frumpy body in person and older than pics indicate. Overall a cool girl and she's no stranger to the sugar world but I bailed halfway through the M&G as she wasn't my type at all and the pics were a misleading representation of her. Plus she had a perfume or body lotion that smelled horrible and I couldn't even be next to her without dry heaving.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5ab788bc-7b4d-4259-83ce-731c17923504
Anyone meet this one.
BudLover99
07-31-18, 14:23
Pics are overly flattering. Kind of a frumpy body in person and older than pics indicate. Overall a cool girl and she's no stranger to the sugar world but I bailed halfway through the M&G as she wasn't my type at all and the pics were a misleading representation of her. Plus she had a perfume or body lotion that smelled horrible and I couldn't even be next to her without dry heaving.Thanks man. I appreciate the info. Glad I did not meet up with her. Thanks again.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c5dc8378-d308-4772-ad18-74ed444ecb94
Real or fake, anyone chat with her.
ArielDude28
07-31-18, 19:23
Did anyone try her? She responded and I am in the process of discussing options. Not sure though.
https://www.seeking.com/member/aa5eb1e8-f6ae-4cc9-a6c7-c70e74c08fc2
She was quick responding and working out the deal. But seems lost for past few days. Lets see if she turns back. Anyone try her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/ed96fc0c-be4c-4d92-9629-c140fd5d93b0
Anyone been with her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/b77fb3ef-e4e9-4359-837b-6b1799db5068
FruitNinja
07-31-18, 19:57
https://www.seeking.com/member/c5dc8378-d308-4772-ad18-74ed444ecb94
Real or fake, anyone chat with her.Sent her a message and she never read it.
FruitNinja
07-31-18, 19:59
https://www.seeking.com/member/5ab788bc-7b4d-4259-83ce-731c17923504
Anyone meet this one.She says she's looking for a platonic relationship. With all the girls to pick from why one that's looking for something platonic?
FruitNinja
07-31-18, 20:02
She keep making plan and change it, never commit, keep going online, then offline for weeks, you have to find the right time to meet her (when she need $$ then maybe she will meet or not.I sent her a message and as of now she hasn't read it. There are a lot of girls that just pop up when they need money. I don't spend a lot of time on the ones that are flighty. If they don't respond right away or disappear I move on. There's a ton of willing girls. This is time consuming enough why make it any harder on yourself?
FruitNinja
07-31-18, 20:06
https://www.seeking.com/member/1a03158a-f750-3360-3a28-4ccd292e213c
Chatted with this one a while, and she gets right down to it. Says she can host. Did not seem like a role player. I did not meet her because she is pretty far from me, and I'm still fishing for younger and hotter, but she was definitely up for it.I got to text with her and she was real slow in sending a full length picture. When she did I took a pass. Don't do it. She's not anything to look at. Quite fat actually.
She says she's looking for a platonic relationship. With all the girls to pick from why one that's looking for something platonic?She said "Preferably platonic but I also realize not many are on here for just friendships" to me that mean she might be interested in sex, sometime you have to play the game.
Hello, long time lurker, first time poster.
I happened upon MidwestExec's post and decided to give it a shot. I set up an account and whoa! It's like a feeding frenzy. I have 12 women are ready to go and I just finished meeting a girl, in my town, for a little afternoon delight. I followed his lead and it is relatively easy. Everything he said I did and bam! They chase you down, LOL. It's like a full time job and you have to play the numbers but here is what I have found so far. Maybe it will help.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1a03158a-f750-3360-3a28-4ccd292e213c
Looking for $200. Not sure about the body, though. Seems chill.
https://www.seeking.com/member/090727b7-0766-4cc8-bb2f-d3d691f16a81
$260 cfs Not sure as she looks like everyone else.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1f1db144-4de4-4571-992d-4d486c58937f
$300 CFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/002bce74-e5ad-42a2-978d-714e6a22e9ec
$300 CFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1bdabcb4-988e-f9cd-ed07-66a39e7b225b
$250 CFS.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/6e6cfae1-1cb3-4987-b00d-bbc1d48d38d2
$250 but she is a pain in the ass and really big.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/ea34b776-ade3-40a2-b14a-2ec7ee4f7c4c
She wants $650 per meet.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/5ce51fbe-011a-44e1-bec3-baaac812d780
This one is looking for a relationship. WTF?
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/804d0c00-d0d9-47f5-8821-84c02658ea7f
GPS and is slow to respond.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/c7aeb5e2-3c1a-4996-a3e3-895b833a0bf3
SCAMMER! Wants money before hand.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/fc6498e4-3523-4bf7-9aff-9d7a6ede8ceb
Hot girl! But bullshits when it comes to talking money and meeting. She is going back to school in a few weeks.
I also have a few that are offering BBFS. Two that I want to hit first, the one I saw today and two others that offered.
Yet I will trade with others, for Arrangment girls who are offering BBFS or non pros that offer BBFS.
Happy hunting!
Sent her a message and she never read it.Super hot girls get crazy amount of messages, one of my SA lady said when she is online, she said before she finish read one message, there will be 10 new messages coming in, then she said, she only read about 10% of the message and the rest she ignore.
https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf22a-8b7c-4488-9cb9-cf85534cb346
This one with take some time and lots $$.
FruitNinja
07-31-18, 21:21
She said "Preferably platonic but I also realize not many are on here for just friendships" to me that mean she might be interested in sex, sometime you have to play the game.I get that. Enough game you can talk anyone into anything. I've done it myself many times. I've just learned to make the hunt as easy as possible. If I see "platonic" I know that is more work than a girl that says "Discretion, Friends with benefits, No strings attached. " These are the girls I go for. If the look is there of course. That being said you may have more time than I do as I run two businesses.
FruitNinja
07-31-18, 21:23
https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf22a-8b7c-4488-9cb9-cf85534cb346
This one with take some time and lots $$.She looks good. Any other details?
https://www.seeking.com/member/c5dc8378-d308-4772-ad18-74ed444ecb94
Real or fake, anyone chat with her.Fake, probably one of SA's bots they use to get people to buy premium membership.
I saw Kiddy once a year ago. I had a good time. She is very laid back.What was damage and what services was she up for.
ChitownGuy321
07-31-18, 22:15
What was damage and what services was she up for.I think it was 3. She did BBBJ, and very good. DATY, CG, K9 covered were on the menu.
BudLover99
07-31-18, 22:46
I got to text with her and she was real slow in sending a full length picture. When she did I took a pass. Don't do it. She's not anything to look at. Quite fat actually.Thanks man. Appreciate the info.
OF Charlie
07-31-18, 22:47
Super hot girls get crazy amount of messages, one of my SA lady said when she is online, she said before she finish read one message, there will be 10 new messages coming in, then she said, she only read about 10% of the message and the rest she ignore.I posted about this before. I only message girls who are currently online the same time that I am on. It doesn't mean they will read my messages, but I have found that it increases my chance a lot.
https://www.seeking.com/member/12ae8254-76a1-4219-a7be-f5c89b809770
Chat with this one when she first on SA, back then she was just curious and was not sure about friend with benefits yet, she is back on now, just wondering if anyone hook up with her, I did try but she was not interested in meeting up back then.
Al Melrose
08-01-18, 05:32
Hello, long time lurker, first time poster.
I happened upon MidwestExec's post and decided to give it a shot. I set up an account and whoa! It's like a feeding frenzy. I have 12 women are ready to go and I just finished meeting a girl, in my town, for a little afternoon delight. I followed his lead and it is relatively easy. Everything he said I did and bam! They chase you down, LOL. It's like a full time job and you have to play the numbers but here is what I have found so far. Maybe it will help.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1a03158a-f750-3360-3a28-4ccd292e213c
Looking for $200. Not sure about the body, though. Seems chill.
https://www.seeking.com/member/090727b7-0766-4cc8-bb2f-d3d691f16a81
$260 cfs Not sure as she looks like everyone else.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1f1db144-4de4-4571-992d-4d486c58937f
$300 CFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/002bce74-e5ad-42a2-978d-714e6a22e9ec
$300 CFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1bdabcb4-988e-f9cd-ed07-66a39e7b225b
$250 CFS.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/6e6cfae1-1cb3-4987-b00d-bbc1d48d38d2
$250 but she is a pain in the ass and really big.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/ea34b776-ade3-40a2-b14a-2ec7ee4f7c4c
She wants $650 per meet.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/5ce51fbe-011a-44e1-bec3-baaac812d780
This one is looking for a relationship. WTF?
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/804d0c00-d0d9-47f5-8821-84c02658ea7f
GPS and is slow to respond.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/c7aeb5e2-3c1a-4996-a3e3-895b833a0bf3
SCAMMER! Wants money before hand.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/fc6498e4-3523-4bf7-9aff-9d7a6ede8ceb
Hot girl! But bullshits when it comes to talking money and meeting. She is going back to school in a few weeks.
I also have a few that are offering BBFS. Two that I want to hit first, the one I saw today and two others that offered.
Yet I will trade with others, for Arrangment girls who are offering BBFS or non pros that offer BBFS.
Happy hunting!Your links at the end, were the messages which we can't read, not the girls.
I did meet Pao about six months ago, dead fish one shot on goal, claimed to have hurt her lip so could not kiss, English not too good. Was not worth it to me. She want 250, I gave her 200 and that was too much. Huge breasts though.
Hello, long time monger but new to the site. Anxious to dive in and report back. For some reason, all of the links to members on SA lead me to a 'Profile Not Found' message. By all I mean 100%, and I tried at least 20 of them. I paid for a premium membership but the same thing happens. Anyone with a idea on how to correct that?
Your links at the end, were the messages which we can't read, not the girls.
I did meet Pao about six months ago, dead fish one shot on goal, claimed to have hurt her lip so could not kiss, English not too good. Was not worth it to me. She want 250, I gave her 200 and that was too much. Huge breasts though.Sorry about that.
Here are the correct links.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7eb537c8-10ee-45bf-a4c6-cd004c6f708c
$250 but she is a pain in the ass and really big.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b8f98802-8aa0-4da0-b94b-47b6b69e2602
She wants $650 per meet.
https://www.seeking.com/member/be25b9e4-ea17-4fa5-a299-2d985331a30f
This one is looking for a relationship. WTF?
https://www.seeking.com/member/4771f6fe-f09b-4b06-ae65-f099c3575e6b
GPS and is slow to respond.
I can't get to here profile but the handle is Imokahwithit.
SCAMMER! Wants money before hand.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ccf8cebe-da34-4508-be78-fa233e866508
Hot girl! But bullshits when it comes to talking money and meeting. She is going back to school in a few weeks.
Do you need to upgrade to be able to view all profiles? Every profile I click on this forum leads to a page that says profile not found.
BudLover99
08-01-18, 09:24
https://www.seeking.com/member/86375669-a9e2-412e-8b23-5cef9bae83d4
She is asking 400 ppm and 500 if she hosts. Easy to message with, and looks pretty good in her pics. I have not met her because looking for a young one around 3.
KingForAMonth
08-01-18, 20:32
This one just has to have been discussed since she's been a member for over a year and smokin hot but I swear I couldn't find anything on the board. Apologies if this has been covered already but anyone with any info / luck on this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/3922d8aa-1046-4911-afab-16d776c8c475
https://www.seeking.com/member/bd9cf88e-ba20-4f25-ac3a-b0a835492ba5
Send her a message but no respond yet, anyone chat with her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/9824d492-4943-4467-9ed3-ebe7c1ca3e97
We exchange phone number and texting, and all the sudden ghost, anyone had better luck with her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7022f1ff-ae4c-4fa8-a39e-6fcf5c8664d0
Any info on this one?
OF Charlie
08-01-18, 23:40
https://www.seeking.com/member/9824d492-4943-4467-9ed3-ebe7c1ca3e97
We exchange phone number and texting, and all the sudden ghost, anyone had better luck with her.She wrote
"i'm looking for fun and interesting humans to interact with!"
Fun and interesting "humans". Who uses humans in this context. When I see this weird choice of word, I would not even bother with her. Most likely some oversea dude posing as a girl. No command of proper English.
Also, I is not capitalized. For some reason, this bugs me a lot.
I had chat with her but never meet, if she look like her pic. You go for it.She wants 400 plus uber for CBJ and doesn't do BBBJ.
Some interesting changes on the site in the last 24 hours. A key word is now gone from the name of the site, the 'Lifestyle Expectation' field is gone from profiles, and several tags have been removed like 'Short Term' and 'Monthly Allowance'. Must have had some pretty detailed reviews with their lawyers and got the web developers busy quickly LOL. This doesn't change much, especially for those on both sides who have looked at the site for awhile, but it does up the risk of newer POTs viewing it as a 'vanilla' or 'platonic' dating site. Of course the pricing and recurring subscription requirement are still in place.
She wants 400 plus uber for CBJ and doesn't do BBBJ.For 400, must do BBBJ and BBFS cip, otherwise not worth it.
KriegHoff75
08-02-18, 09:56
This girl is solid in the looks department. She is located in the general Oakbrook / Aurora area. It was tough for me to go up and see her so I had to call it quits. She's fun and outgoing. $300.00 ppm.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9d920295-5692-41c4-82f4-e8ce265af1b4
OlderGuy1954
08-02-18, 10:37
This girl is solid in the looks department. She is located in the general Oakbrook / Aurora area. It was tough for me to go up and see her so I had to call it quits. She's fun and outgoing. $300.00 ppm.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9d920295-5692-41c4-82f4-e8ce265af1b4It's not clear if you actually met up. Please clarify.
I have the exact same problem. I upgraded to premium membership and that didn't work. I also see a very small amount of matches, even if I keep all filters open.
Do you need to upgrade to be able to view all profiles? Every profile I click on this forum leads to a page that says profile not found.
ChiNorthside
08-02-18, 14:55
Both down to meet, curious if anyone as experienced either. Thanks!
https://www.seeking.com/member/f703d002-381d-4ad4-9ebd-4754b80fa6b3
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ada888f-06dd-4c25-9486-05bc93788c1a
Dr StrangeLust
08-02-18, 21:41
https://www.seeking.com/member/7022f1ff-ae4c-4fa8-a39e-6fcf5c8664d0
Any info on this one?Three word reply to my message: "Venmo me money. " You do the math.
Three word reply to my message: "Venmo me money. " You do the math.Ok, understand another scammer, what else is new.
SugarDaddyX
08-03-18, 00:40
This one just has to have been discussed since she's been a member for over a year and smokin hot but I swear I couldn't find anything on the board. Apologies if this has been covered already but anyone with any info / luck on this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/3922d8aa-1046-4911-afab-16d776c8c475Her profile lists her age as 18, yet her profile says "Member Since Apr 21,2017". So either she signed up when she was a minor or is lying about her current age. If you do meet this one, make sure you check her I'd and Chris Hansen is not hiding in the next room.
SDX.
ItsHowdyDoody
08-03-18, 08:46
Both down to meet, curious if anyone as experienced either. Thanks!
https://www.seeking.com/member/f703d002-381d-4ad4-9ebd-4754b80fa6b3
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ada888f-06dd-4c25-9486-05bc93788c1aShe has been covered a few times. She randomly texted me 6 months after we talked for a few days. I found her social media and all that, so she is real, but as as someone pointed out, can get a bit crazy. Most on SA above 30 are an avoid for me, but she used her "yoga" thing to properly entice herself a bit more. In any event, she kept my number to "dial for dollars me" as I am sure she did many other guys. I just ignored.
Given the fact that her age shows 18, she has been on the board for almost a year and a half, her description claims that she is 18 almost 19, how hot her pics look, and the fact that nobody has talked about her, it's possible that she is TGTBT or a fraud.
This one just has to have been discussed since she's been a member for over a year and smokin hot but I swear I couldn't find anything on the board. Apologies if this has been covered already but anyone with any info / luck on this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/3922d8aa-1046-4911-afab-16d776c8c475
Spoke to this one for a little while. Seems to be friendly enough, but can get a little bitchy at times if you say the wrong thing. Then caught her in a lie and the claws came out. Also had come out at 600 per meet and was trying to work her down to a more reasonable number, but she just wasn't having it. The pics she sends don't seem anywhere near as attractive in some of them and may be from different time periods over the last few years as you can see changes to the body. For someone who claims she is an aerobics instructor and dancer (not stripper) she should have a better body than her pics would indicate. With the high ask, the not so attractive photos, and the bitchiness, I moved on.
Both down to meet, curious if anyone as experienced either. Thanks!
https://www.seeking.com/member/f703d002-381d-4ad4-9ebd-4754b80fa6b3
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ada888f-06dd-4c25-9486-05bc93788c1a
ChicagoGoer
08-03-18, 10:00
Both down to meet, curious if anyone as experienced either. Thanks!
https://www.seeking.com/member/f703d002-381d-4ad4-9ebd-4754b80fa6b3
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ada888f-06dd-4c25-9486-05bc93788c1aI believe your second one caused a public scene with another monger. They agreed on a set expectation and then she went ballistic after he left demanding more. Chased down the street and forced to go into an atm to get more.
I believe your second one caused a public scene with another monger. They agreed on a set expectation and then she went ballistic after he left demanding more. Chased down the street and forced to go into an atm to get more.Oh my god, this must had been horrible.
Spoke to this one for a little while. Seems to be friendly enough, but can get a little bitchy at times if you say the wrong thing. Then caught her in a lie and the claws came out. Also had come out at 600 per meet and was trying to work her down to a more reasonable number, but she just wasn't having it. The pics she sends don't seem anywhere near as attractive in some of them and may be from different time periods over the last few years as you can see changes to the body. For someone who claims she is an aerobics instructor and dancer (not stripper) she should have a better body than her pics would indicate. With the high ask, the not so attractive photos, and the bitchiness, I moved on.I enjoyed my time with her. I think she was a bit drunk, but whatever. Pics actually are very representative. Great Head Game. Just be very clear about what you are willing to give before hand.
Industrial
08-03-18, 12:42
I believe your second one caused a public scene with another monger. They agreed on a set expectation and then she went ballistic after he left demanding more. Chased down the street and forced to go into an atm to get more.That was me. Craziest woman I've ever met- avoid at all costs.
At least I know not to bother to try premium then.
I have the exact same problem. I upgraded to premium membership and that didn't work. I also see a very small amount of matches, even if I keep all filters open.
At least I know not to bother to try premium then.Think you can block by age, income, location etc so maybe they don't want to be contacted by someone that fits your profile. I don't currently have premium but I very rarely can't see a profile. Only happens when someone gets a bad review or too glowing of a review and they want to close their profile.
That's hard to believe every link from this forum is a girl who has blocked me though.
Think you can block by age, income, location etc so maybe they don't want to be contacted by someone that fits your profile. I don't currently have premium but I very rarely can't see a profile. Only happens when someone gets a bad review or too glowing of a review and they want to close their profile.
Silver6933
08-03-18, 22:31
The second one is weird and sent me some pictures which looks decent. I actually went to her place and she was paranoid and she looks older than the picture she sent me. I went into her place then all of a sudden she tells me it's not what she expected and apologized. I left feeling I dodge a bullet.
Both down to meet, curious if anyone as experienced either. Thanks!
https://www.seeking.com/member/f703d002-381d-4ad4-9ebd-4754b80fa6b3
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ada888f-06dd-4c25-9486-05bc93788c1a
ChiNorthside
08-03-18, 23:19
Thanks for the info on the 2nd one fellas. She def has the stink of crazy on her. Tho sadly that does mean she must be crazy in bed and now I kinda want to fuck her more. Thanks again.
ArielDude28
08-04-18, 13:35
I was with her twice and she was fine at 300. She will jump in right after the first meet and would like someone who just like to fuck.
She keeps changing her profile every now and then. This is the 2nd change. Good one if you like a slightly big girl. Everything covered including BJ.
https://www.seeking.com/member/30606b49-efeb-4e00-8199-3b54984160d8
I think she is looking again. Looks fine and gets down to business right away. 250. I was with her thrice. I dropped as she was not providing the full experience. No BJ. Also had some concern with the smell her pu*.
https://www.seeking.com/member/67dd7a6d-4dc0-4c4a-ae94-9cc3328168a4
I was with her twice and she was fine at 300. She will jump in right after the first meet and would like someone who just like to fuck.
She keeps changing her profile every now and then. This is the 2nd change. Good one if you like a slightly big girl. Everything covered including BJ.
https://www.seeking.com/member/30606b49-efeb-4e00-8199-3b54984160d8
I think she is looking again. Looks fine and gets down to business right away. 250. I was with her thrice. I dropped as she was not providing the full experience. No BJ. Also had some concern with the smell her pu*.
https://www.seeking.com/member/67dd7a6d-4dc0-4c4a-ae94-9cc3328168a4The bottom SA profile said ave. Body type, is that ave fat or ave ave, I always concerns about face pic only, usually girls that have great body will show it off, girls with fat body will only have face pic.
ChicagoGoer
08-04-18, 15:49
That's hard to believe every link from this forum is a girl who has blocked me though.Although it may be a slight hassle, you may want to create a new profile if you aren't premium. I've done this twice and had pretty solid success. Revisiting conversations fresh that may have fizzled out.
She dabbles in one of the agencies downtown.Any links to that agency?
SugarDaddyX
08-05-18, 18:09
Some interesting changes on the site in the last 24 hours. A key word is now gone from the name of the site, the 'Lifestyle Expectation' field is gone from profiles, and several tags have been removed like 'Short Term' and 'Monthly Allowance'. Must have had some pretty detailed reviews with their lawyers and got the web developers busy quickly LOL. This doesn't change much, especially for those on both sides who have looked at the site for awhile, but it does up the risk of newer POTs viewing it as a 'vanilla' or 'platonic' dating site. Of course the pricing and recurring subscription requirement are still in place.The lifestyle expectation field was just not working from either direction. Many guys would not even deal with the women in the higher lifestyle expectations, perceiving major GPS. The newer ladies to the website would think it was the norm for guys give them $10 k or $20 k per month for platonic dates. When that did not work out, they would give up on the site. It gave them false expectations of what an arrangement is.
There are also new tags added. Here are some of them.
Designer Clothes & Accessories: I'm looking for someone who can accomodate my designer style.
Life of Leisure: I'm looking for someone who will support me in living a life of leisure.
Tuition & School Support: I'm looking for someone who can pay for my tuition or help me with minor school related expenses.
Fine Dining: I'm looking for someone who will take me out to amazing restaurants.
Shows & Entertainment: I'm looking for someone who wants to see shows and live entertainment with me.
Get that sex.
SDX
The lifestyle expectation field was just not working from either direction. Many guys would not even deal with the women in the higher lifestyle expectations, perceiving major GPS. The newer ladies to the website would think it was the norm for guys give them $10 k or $20 k per month for platonic dates. When that did not work out, they would give up on the site. It gave them false expectations of what an arrangement is.
There are also new tags added. Here are some of them.
Designer Clothes & Accessories: I'm looking for someone who can accomodate my designer style.
Life of Leisure: I'm looking for someone who will support me in living a life of leisure.
Tuition & School Support: I'm looking for someone who can pay for my tuition or help me with minor school related expenses.
Fine Dining: I'm looking for someone who will take me out to amazing restaurants.
Shows & Entertainment: I'm looking for someone who wants to see shows and live entertainment with me.
LOL. I'm sure the young ones especially will have fun with those new tags. Of course now the tag library is pretty firmly biased towards what the girls can 'get' out of an arrangement vs what they'll offer. I won't miss the lifestyle expectations either, although it could sometimes help weed out the most irrational girls. The high ends of the old scale were ludicrously inflated, but it, along with the 'big fish' stories that go around on some message boards fed the fantasies of the young ladies. Can't blame them for being a little jaded when they're sold on images of evenings on a yacht with George Clooney and the offers they get are lunch hours in a Motel 6 with George Costanza!
SugarDaddyX
08-05-18, 22:04
This girl came up in my search since she lists herself as athletic. Looking at the photos I would grade her out as either "a few extra pounds" or "full / overweight", and these might be her most flattering photos from a year or two ago. There must be some disconnect between men and women on body type.
https://www.seeking.com/member/09b636b2-71a6-4b94-b0d9-cbfbd79e068d
SDX.
And she did say she does yoga and acrobatic. Besides she has pics so it's not like she is totally trying to pull a fast one on guys. I have seen a lot worse!
This girl came up in my search since she lists herself as athletic. Looking at the photos I would grade her out as either "a few extra pounds" or "full / overweight", and these might be her most flattering photos from a year or two ago. There must be some disconnect between men and women on body type.
https://www.seeking.com/member/09b636b2-71a6-4b94-b0d9-cbfbd79e068d
SDX.
New poster long time lurker. Thought I'd give my take on SA. So far it's been good.
Signed up for premium last week. Probably put in around 20 hours to date (setup, searching, messaging).
Have sent 100 or so cold messages, basically any profile that caught my eye or has an oz of thought in it.
Right now, getting about 30-40% response rate, 10-15% transition to conversation / digits.
From those, I've 'selected' to hang with two of them this week, both beautiful and dtf, 19 and 23 yo. Going to book a hotel room this weekend and see how it goes. Hopefully, I keep both my kidneys.
Keep you guys posted.
New poster long time lurker. Thought I'd give my take on SA. So far it's been good.
Signed up for premium last week. Probably put in around 20 hours to date (setup, searching, messaging).
Have sent 100 or so cold messages, basically any profile that caught my eye or has an oz of thought in it.
Right now, getting about 30-40% response rate, 10-15% transition to conversation / digits.
From those, I've 'selected' to hang with two of them this week, both beautiful and dtf, 19 and 23 yo. Going to book a hotel room this weekend and see how it goes. Hopefully, I keep both my kidneys.
Keep you guys posted.Goodluck, man. But definitely do yourself a favor and have some sort of a backup if you already paid for the hotel. Most SA girls will flake. That's just life when fishing in the SA pool.
I've had my fair share of flakes, and I'd hate for it to happen to you.
This girl came up in my search since she lists herself as athletic. Looking at the photos I would grade her out as either "a few extra pounds" or "full / overweight", and these might be her most flattering photos from a year or two ago. There must be some disconnect between men and women on body type.
https://www.seeking.com/member/09b636b2-71a6-4b94-b0d9-cbfbd79e068d
SDX.I would said full / overweight, however there are guys out there that like full / overweight women, so different strokes for different folks, I guess, just not for me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/05355b4c-9dc3-4419-8a27-fc969e05d00d
Chatting with this one, I don't think she is that hot but maybe her price is reasonable for BBFS cip deal, will see how it turn out. Anyone meet her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d35ff3da-3307-41c5-8663-e7a804c3f0e5
This one ask for weekly deal, told her if we get along good, I am okay with once a week, then she ghost, WTF.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f2745c90-1ccc-42b4-898e-22d9e9f55e75
This one here for lollapalooza this weekend, she and her girlsfriend want to meet today, but I think she flake city.
New poster long time lurker. Thought I'd give my take on SA. So far it's been good.
Signed up for premium last week. Probably put in around 20 hours to date (setup, searching, messaging).
Have sent 100 or so cold messages, basically any profile that caught my eye or has an oz of thought in it.
Right now, getting about 30-40% response rate, 10-15% transition to conversation / digits.
From those, I've 'selected' to hang with two of them this week, both beautiful and dtf, 19 and 23 yo. Going to book a hotel room this weekend and see how it goes. Hopefully, I keep both my kidneys.
Keep you guys posted.I agree with the other poster. I'd wait on booking a hotel room. Many chicks on SA flake. Meet her for coffee- if she shows up and things go well then you can go to a hotel.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1edec890-3127-4c69-8ebc-c586009e3462
Chat with this one and exchange number, her text pic look young and hot, plan to meet this weekend, but probably flake, will see.
https://www.seeking.com/member/527499a3-2bc5-4b6c-a6d8-67b645351559
We chat and text and exchange pic, she want to meet this week near north side, pic look look and hopefully she look like her text pic in real life, not sure about BBFS cip but will try.
ChicagoGoer
08-06-18, 12:00
The lifestyle expectation field was just not working from either direction. Many guys would not even deal with the women in the higher lifestyle expectations, perceiving major GPS. The newer ladies to the website would think it was the norm for guys give them $10 k or $20 k per month for platonic dates. When that did not work out, they would give up on the site. It gave them false expectations of what an arrangement is.
There are also new tags added. Here are some of them.
Designer Clothes & Accessories: I'm looking for someone who can accomodate my designer style.
Life of Leisure: I'm looking for someone who will support me in living a life of leisure.
Tuition & School Support: I'm looking for someone who can pay for my tuition or help me with minor school related expenses.
Fine Dining: I'm looking for someone who will take me out to amazing restaurants.
Shows & Entertainment: I'm looking for someone who wants to see shows and live entertainment with me.
Get that sex.
SDXNot sure if it existed before. But Online Only is now a tag. Hopefully that makes it easier to weed out the pic sellers.
Member #5757
08-06-18, 12:00
New poster long time lurker. Thought I'd give my take on SA. So far it's been good.
Signed up for premium last week. Probably put in around 20 hours to date (setup, searching, messaging).
Have sent 100 or so cold messages, basically any profile that caught my eye or has an oz of thought in it.
Right now, getting about 30-40% response rate, 10-15% transition to conversation / digits.
From those, I've 'selected' to hang with two of them this week, both beautiful and dtf, 19 and 23 yo. Going to book a hotel room this weekend and see how it goes. Hopefully, I keep both my kidneys.
Keep you guys posted.I've done that a number of times where I book a hotel in the Chicago area, and see multiple women during the stay. It's a wild ride, but definitely make plans with about 5 girls because it's seriously ridiculous how often these girls flake out.
I've done that a number of times where I book a hotel in the Chicago area, and see multiple women during the stay. It's a wild ride, but definitely make plans with about 5 girls because it's seriously ridiculous how often these girls flake out.Thanks gents. Will definitely heed the advice and book after meets. Banter has been great tho so I'm hopeful. Side note I can tell my text game is massively improving with all the interaction, should spill over into other areas which is cool.
Not sure if it existed before. But Online Only is now a tag. Hopefully that makes it easier to weed out the pic sellers.WTF is online only, can a guys just watch porns on the internet and is free.
FruitNinja
08-06-18, 17:47
Not sure if it existed before. But Online Only is now a tag. Hopefully that makes it easier to weed out the pic sellers.Seems to me that this is the beginning of the end of SA as a usable source for girls. If they are allowing online only it's just a matter of time until the place is overrun with bots spitting out profiles. What an idiotic move.
FruitNinja
08-06-18, 17:51
https://www.seeking.com/member/f2745c90-1ccc-42b4-898e-22d9e9f55e75
This one here for lollapalooza this weekend, she and her girlsfriend want to meet today, but I think she flake city.HA! I was at lalla all four days. I did't see her but I had a lot of happy girls that were more than willing to talk. Unfortunately I was with my girl.
FruitNinja
08-06-18, 17:53
https://www.seeking.com/member/d35ff3da-3307-41c5-8663-e7a804c3f0e5
This one ask for weekly deal, told her if we get along good, I am okay with once a week, then she ghost, WTF.Dude,
These girls are here testing the waters. Some decide they can't go through with it and ghost. Some are talking to multiple guys and finally decide on one and ghost on all the others. We do the same. Nothing to get upset about.
Dude,
These girls are here testing the waters. Some decide they can't go through with it and ghost. Some are talking to multiple guys and finally decide on one and ghost on all the others. We do the same. Nothing to get upset about.I understand the game, just post link and a little info about her to share, that's all. I already have enough other SA ladies to worry about.
LoveSmallPerky
08-06-18, 20:09
WTF is online only, can a guys just watch porns on the internet and is free.Is just a way to say selling texts, pics or videos with not meeting in person. Problem is they tend to send fakes or internet downloads which are available for free.
LoveSmallPerky
08-06-18, 20:14
https://www.seeking.com/member/05355b4c-9dc3-4419-8a27-fc969e05d00d
Chatting with this one, I don't think she is that hot but maybe her price is reasonable for BBFS cip deal, will see how it turn out. Anyone meet her.I was messaging her this morning and all she would say was that it depends on how often / long we would meet. I replied that it depends on how we get along but I'm looking at weekly and she hasn'are replied.
I was messaging her this morning and all she would say was that it depends on how often / long we would meet. I replied that it depends on how we get along but I'm looking at weekly and she hasn'are replied.I don't like it when she don't give out a number, so no idea what she looking for, if something reasonable weekly deal, I may take it, but no way to monthly deal because will never work out.
ArielDude28
08-07-18, 02:12
Anyone messaged her? There was some back and forth but it looks like I lost her. May be she blocked me unless no one is unable to find her profile:-)
https://www.seeking.com/member/df01b1cd-e1b5-48f7-be01-d51dce827269
Anyone messaged her? There was some back and forth but it looks like I lost her. May be she blocked me unless no one is unable to find her profile:-)
https://www.seeking.com/member/df01b1cd-e1b5-48f7-be01-d51dce827269I can see her profile so maybe she blocked you. Cute girl!
SugarDaddyX
08-07-18, 08:37
Anyone messaged her? There was some back and forth but it looks like I lost her. May be she blocked me unless no one is unable to find her profile:-)
https://www.seeking.com/member/df01b1cd-e1b5-48f7-be01-d51dce827269I can see her profile. She might have blocked you.
SDX.
Buckeyebrent
08-07-18, 09:45
New profile, I saw here when she 1st started I guess. She is young, hot and seemed intelligent, she went to school in Boston, but it home now. Unfortunately her rate has gone up significantly. If you have the cash, she is real: https://www.seeking.com/member/488edf47-8b5c-4e23-8a05-59222e018d7c.
New profile, I saw here when she 1st started I guess. She is young, hot and seemed intelligent, she went to school in Boston, but it home now. Unfortunately her rate has gone up significantly. If you have the cash, she is real: https://www.seeking.com/member/488edf47-8b5c-4e23-8a05-59222e018d7c.Why she list curvy, is that curvy fat or curvy shape, so hard to figure out how women define curvy (some define curvy as fat, others define as shapely? Who knows.
Buckeyebrent
08-07-18, 12:15
Why she list curvy, is that curvy fat or curvy shape, so hard to figure out how women define curvy (some define curvy as fat, others define as shapely? Who knows.Not fat at all, she is young, firm and hot. It has been several months since I saw her in person, but I do see her on SC.
New profile, I saw here when she 1st started I guess. She is young, hot and seemed intelligent, she went to school in Boston, but it home now. Unfortunately her rate has gone up significantly. If you have the cash, she is real: https://www.seeking.com/member/488edf47-8b5c-4e23-8a05-59222e018d7c.Gotta love reading how a young 22 yr old living in the very upscale and affluent north shore suburb of Highland Park wants to live the luxury lifestyle. Good grief!
https://www.seeking.com/member/103ee62f-f701-4bfe-bcad-f4aed8c048dd
Chat and text, she will meet up for coffee but need 100 upfront for coffee and said whatever I give her after coffee for sex is fine with her, WTF is that so she okay with $5? (likely a scam I think she just want 100 coffee date and that's it) , I said no. I really don't think she is that good look either, I was not thinking straight, so go for it if you find her attractive.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3f7d7144-433a-49ba-a296-81c8d609e214
Chat and text, her SA pic don't tell me much, (I am a bikini at the beach girls pic, kind of guy) if you know girls look good in bikini, then she look good naked, anyway she will send text pic before we meet, have anyone meet her yet.
Not sure if it existed before. But Online Only is now a tag. Hopefully that makes it easier to weed out the pic sellers.You can't even filter it out like the Platonic tag.
SugarDaddyX
08-07-18, 15:53
https://www.seeking.com/member/103ee62f-f701-4bfe-bcad-f4aed8c048dd
Chat and text, she will meet up for coffee but need 100 upfront for coffee and said whatever I give her after coffee for sex is fine with her, WTF is that so she okay with $5? (likely a scam I think she just want 100 coffee date and that's it) , I said no. I really don't think she is that good look either, I was not thinking straight, so go for it if you find her attractive.Sounds like she will meet up for coffee, take the $100, then come up with an excuse like she is on her period or has to meet a coworker or some other BS.
There was a SB in Chicago running a scam like this last year. The only thing I remember was that she claimed to have relocated from Alabama, blonde, 24-25 years old. She said she wanted to do a celibate date first with half of the monthly allowance (she quoted $300, WTF?) on the first date. She said the subsequent dates would involve sex and no more money would be exchanged until the end of the month. She claimed she did not want to feel like a wh-re when we met for sex and that exchanging money for sex made her feel like a prostitute. Since "she did not want to feel like a wh-re", I told her "we could just do three or four regular dates to get comfortable before any intimacy", then I'd give her what she was asking up front because I'd know she was serious after meeting multiple times. Obviously, she would not go along with that idea, which I had predicted all along. It was a set up to get $300 for a dinner date, and then she would disappear, blocking your number and profile. When you play the game long enough, you can see through the scammers like they are glass.
Get that sex.
SDX.
https://www.seeking.com/member/92cbf992-34eb-455b-9a05-64d31f0150b7
Chat with this one, it seems to me usually the hottest and cutest one on SA want the Platonic Friendship Bullshits, I try to find another way to get her pussy but will see, (funny on SA supper hot / cute young girls want platonic and fat old ladies want sex right now, man would be nice if it was the other way around).
https://www.seeking.com/member/92cbf992-34eb-455b-9a05-64d31f0150b7
Chat with this one, it seems to me usually the hottest and cutest one on SA want the Platonic Friendship Bullshits, I try to find another way to get her pussy but will see, (funny on SA supper hot / cute young girls want platonic and fat old ladies want sex right now, man would be nice if it was the other way around).She change her seeking to platonic only, sorry guys did not know she change it today, I am guessing too many guys want to have sex with her.
FruitNinja
08-07-18, 21:24
https://www.seeking.com/member/103ee62f-f701-4bfe-bcad-f4aed8c048dd
Chat and text, she will meet up for coffee but need 100 upfront for coffee and said whatever I give her after coffee for sex is fine with her, WTF is that so she okay with $5? (likely a scam I think she just want 100 coffee date and that's it) , I said no. I really don't think she is that good look either, I was not thinking straight, so go for it if you find her attractive.This is a nothing burger. JMHO.
FruitNinja
08-07-18, 21:45
My search will not let me search by profile name. There is a text block for entering the name but my browser will not let me type in the block. Anyone else?
Funsteve1111
08-07-18, 21:50
My search will not let me search by profile name. There is a text block for entering the name but my browser will not let me type in the block. Anyone else?I think they removed that a few weeks ago.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ab83e4f-de52-4cfd-acb3-ef4e6a83115f
Message this one a few weeks ago, said she would be interested in meeting up, didn't set up anything because was too busy with other stuffs, she seems ok face and body, so if you guys find her attractive go for it.
https://www.seeking.com/member/96193cc8-add5-418d-8347-8b4b611e912f
Chat with this one a few weeks ago, said she was interested in meeting up, looking like a fun girls in the bedroom, but I did not set up anything with her, go for it if you find her attractive.
https://www.seeking.com/member/906264c1-0383-4bd8-86cd-cff916216254
This is a funny one, we chat and text about 4 days ago, she send sexy pic and want to meet that same night, she give me her locations and ask if I want to look for a hotel near her because she do not want to drive to far, so I said ok (by the way, her text pic look really good, seems like a fitness model), so I text her back a said I find a hotel near her, then ghost, WTF waste of time, can anyone check to see if she block me or not, but I really don't care, I thought the whole thing was stupid and laughable.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b7240713-4450-4ff1-aae2and-773ff3560d01
Not sure what to think about this one, she claim to be athletic and 18 years old, but only have one face photo, so without body pic can't tell you if she's really fat or not, and athletic body type can mean anything, we chat but I will not commit until see text body pic. Have anyone see her text body pic and confirm is young and tight? Most the time you can tell a young tight 18 years old body vs a 28 years old body easily....
side note, if an 18 years old and 28 years old or older wear exactly the same size, you would think their body would be the same, but not to me, i can tell a big different between a naked 18 years old body vs a naked 28 years old body, so if any guys tell me that their 30+ years old girlfriend wear size one, therefore is the same as a 18 years old wear size 1 body type, i would totally disagree
good example of young tight body are these two: https://www.seeking.com/member/425245db-d4a3-4a26-a760-749fa41239fd
and https://www.seeking.com/member/74ddffee-7065-4dac-835c-d661a1280819
https://www.seeking.com/member/bb8a713f-0c5c-4d7a-9498-60a021460966
She want online platonic friendship only, hahaha too funny, probably some fat old guy behind a computer in Nigeria or Siberia creative this profile, I will tell her, I will send her a 100 billions dollar to her Nigeria bank account, and also she said many guys benefits from her online chat and support therapy, whatever the fuck that mean, this one is too funny, she also said her pic is non sexual because she don't want to give guys the wrong ideas, are some of these girls from another planet far far away or what, but just to fair with her, there are guys somewhere out there that looking for online platonic friendship only with girls, is bizarre/crazy to me, but some guys actually only looking for online girls,
https://www.seeking.com/member/906264c1-0383-4bd8-86cd-cff916216254
This is a funny one, we chat and text about 4 days ago, she send sexy pic and want to meet that same night, she give me her locations and ask if I want to look for a hotel near her because she do not want to drive to far, so I said ok (by the way, her text pic look really good, seems like a fitness model), so I text her back a said I find a hotel near her, then ghost, WTF waste of time, can anyone check to see if she block me or not, but I really don't care, I thought the whole thing was stupid and laughable.Not seeing her profile pop up so think she's not on SA anymore.
ChiNorthside
08-09-18, 02:24
https://www.seeking.com/member/7508a829-9e47-4b4a-9db4-3f574832480e
She was pretty upfront about meeting. Sent some great pics and vids.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b73cff34-332a-4b1b-b0d6-d52e8c587aba
Chatted some but it tailed off.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ad7cb3d-66e6-4829-afc5-268dc71c1222
Down for anything but the butt.
Any of you had any interactions with any of these:
https://www.seeking.com/member/1d887c6c-9ed7-4bc8-92b0-a6e9d203fc74
https://www.seeking.com/member/06fd4953-e5f2-9015-2d46-1b6c70b96d57
https://www.seeking.com/member/ba5d4300-0c3a-4323-a3e0-d885d8537bc4
https://www.seeking.com/member/fa43601a-b419-4379-8d3a-19f9cd43cf3d
Just looking for any red flags you may have experienced.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7508a829-9e47-4b4a-9db4-3f574832480e
She was pretty upfront about meeting. Sent some great pics and vids.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b73cff34-332a-4b1b-b0d6-d52e8c587aba
Chatted some but it tailed off.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ad7cb3d-66e6-4829-afc5-268dc71c1222
Down for anything but the butt.The last one, izabellaizababe is she okay with BBFS or she only do cfs.
https://www.seeking.com/member/92cbf992-34eb-455b-9a05-64d31f0150b7
No idea about this one seeking, 1st was maybe fwb, then change to platonic friendship only, now back to "Typical sugar babby relationship. You spoil me and ill please you in return, submissive by nature. " is that mean she will have sex or not, anyone knows what the hell she seeking?
https://www.seeking.com/member/168a7dbf-d0bd-4fa0-81a3-f31848b6eba6
Chat with this one for a while but lead to nowhere, anyone had better success.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7f43974d-844c-4232-b220-5eba81e33539
This one ready to go, will only do cfs, I think she maybe a pro but not sure, she just give me that pro / business services vibe, and I am more interested in true amateur coed that do BBFS, but if you okay with cfs a pro, go for it.
KingForAMonth
08-09-18, 16:42
https://www.seeking.com/member/7f43974d-844c-4232-b220-5eba81e33539
This one ready to go, will only do cfs, I think she maybe a pro but not sure, she just give me that pro / business services vibe, and I am more interested in true amateur coed that do BBFS, but if you okay with cfs a pro, go for it.What did she quote you CFS?
https://www.seeking.com/member/168a7dbf-d0bd-4fa0-81a3-f31848b6eba6
Chat with this one for a while but lead to nowhere, anyone had better success.Same experience awhile back. Seemed real and non-pro, and she was in my area, but contact just tailed off as any talk of a M&G came up. Made no attempt to rinse or push for pre-payment, and she's back active on the site after I originally chatted with her months ago, so not sure what she's looking for off of SA. You seem to cast a very wide net LOL, so probably not worth more effort especially if anyone else had a similar experience with her.
What did she quote you CFS?She want 350 for cfs, I ask about BBFS and she said no.
Same experience awhile back. Seemed real and non-pro, and she was in my area, but contact just tailed off as any talk of a M&G came up. Made no attempt to rinse or push for pre-payment, and she's back active on the site after I originally chatted with her months ago, so not sure what she's looking for off of SA. You seem to cast a very wide net LOL, so probably not worth more effort especially if anyone else had a similar experience with her.It like fishing, you will see a lots swimming around, lots of trial and error, time, effort, money to catch a nice one, because of what I am looking for, it seems more unsuccessful fishing trip, then successful one, just part of the game.
Westburbia
08-09-18, 22:24
It looks pretty expensive to upgrade so you can exchange messages. Is it worth it?
Potentially looking for some companionship on a business trip. Do I need to put in a similar level of effort to using SA, or is it more straightforward given the nature of the site?
It looks pretty expensive to upgrade so you can exchange messages. Is it worth it?Just put it this way, if you are 40+ years old, that pick up college girls at college bars are over, SA is a new game with exactly same players (assuming you still want to have sex with hot amateur college coed), if you only interested in fat old ladies then is a very, very easy game and cost much less. If you still want 18-22 hot amateur college coed it will cost you much more, headache, time, trial and errors, flaking and lotssss bullshits. Ect, the reward, fun dates, events, dinners, movies, concerts, ect. And bareback pussy and cip (you will not get bare pussy with escorts agency girls, rare if any will do bare), my advice is think about it, if 90 fee to begin your game is too much, then don't do it because it will cost you a lots for then 90 for their pussy.
It looks pretty expensive to upgrade so you can exchange messages. Is it worth it?If you already have a nice rotation of indy or agency pros that give you what you enjoy and you can fit into your schedule and budget, then SA may not offer you a whole lot.
But if you're tired of that rotation, don't like the agency scene, or are looking to recapture some of the feeling of 'hooking up' then it may be worth the time and expense.
It's pretty damn amazing when it works, but can also wear thin quickly if you're running short on patience, free time, or play money. And there's been some changes to the site lately that some of us feel have made the game more difficult. But if you're intrigued it's certainly worth one $90 shot to see how it goes. As the others suggest, if you find that initial investment daunting you won't enjoy the next steps that put meet-and-greet dates, time out of your schedule for less than sure things, and hotel rooms on you.
SugarDaddyX
08-10-18, 13:26
https://www.seeking.com/member/6809d5ce-a542-4792-9ba2-b337b58f5363
This one has her profile tagged with "friends with benefits" and "no strings attached". After talking for awhile she said she only wants an allowance to be an online sugar baby because she is so busy with school. I guess she is not too busy to be constantly on SA all day, so it seems. I asked her why is she not using the "online only" tag since that is what she is seeking? Telling someone you want FWB and NSA implies actually meeting person. Avoid this time waster.
Get that sex.
SDX.
Samath2624
08-10-18, 14:31
https://www.seeking.com/member/7508a829-9e47-4b4a-9db4-3f574832480e
She was pretty upfront about meeting. Sent some great pics and vids.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b73cff34-332a-4b1b-b0d6-d52e8c587aba
Chatted some but it tailed off.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ad7cb3d-66e6-4829-afc5-268dc71c1222
Down for anything but the butt.Did the last one (izabellaizababe) commit to anything? I'm good with CFS and the other restriction.
Anyone with other experience with her?
Samath2624
08-10-18, 15:09
She looks good. Any other details?https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf22a-8b7c-4488-9cb9-cf85534cb346
Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?
Happy to learn more about the significance of this.
ItsHowdyDoody
08-10-18, 23:18
https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf22a-8b7c-4488-9cb9-cf85534cb346
Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?
Happy to learn more about the significance of this.I'd say no but I'd want to talk to her more before deciding. In Chicago we are lucky to have a lot of European, Latvian, Russian, etc. In the area.
My best score was a Polish 19 year old last year. If she had been mentioned like so many profiles have been lately, I may have had a bias and not tried her out. YMMV. She started as a gp type who over the course of attraction, mutual interest, etc. Became a great per meet friend and sex wise you name it. Just bringing that up as I see a lot of blanket profile opinions looking for concurrent intel on girls. Unlike agency or parlor types, these girls are not the same to each guy. (And when they are, they are more of a pro than I'd want).
I've also noticed if your diligent, some that are online at the same time, you can sometimes find their tinder, or whatever else profile they might have. I've caught a few on more legit dating sites, while it doesn't necessarily change the convo we might have, it does sort of lower their guard when you can first connect not on the sa site. (As the hot ones get slammed, and don't always appreciate what gets said to them in less than tactful ways) Just few thoughts.
I'd say no but I'd want to talk to her more before deciding. In Chicago we are lucky to have a lot of European, Latvian, Russian, etc. In the area.
My best score was a Polish 19 year old last year. If she had been mentioned like so many profiles have been lately, I may have had a bias and not tried her out. YMMV. She started as a gp type who over the course of attraction, mutual interest, etc. Became a great per meet friend and sex wise you name it. Just bringing that up as I see a lot of blanket profile opinions looking for concurrent intel on girls. Unlike agency or parlor types, these girls are not the same to each guy. (And when they are, they are more of a pro than I'd want).
I've also noticed if your diligent, some that are online at the same time, you can sometimes find their tinder, or whatever else profile they might have. I've caught a few on more legit dating sites, while it doesn't necessarily change the convo we might have, it does sort of lower their guard when you can first connect not on the sa site. (As the hot ones get slammed, and don't always appreciate what gets said to them in less than tactful ways) Just few thoughts.One of the few I met when I was on the site I originally saw on an online dating site first. She lives pretty far from me, but when I saw her on SA I had better luck and we met. She probably felt comfortable with me- especially since she had younger guys emailing her. I guess they were into the older woman, mommy fetish which she said freaked her out. She was close to my age- so not really a typical baby in the traditional sense.
FruitNinja
08-11-18, 08:14
It looks pretty expensive to upgrade so you can exchange messages. Is it worth it?Depend if you want to be able to talk or just look. Read the forum. See what others have managed to do and then make your own decision. For me it's been a gold mine.
FruitNinja
08-11-18, 08:15
Potentially looking for some companionship on a business trip. Do I need to put in a similar level of effort to using SA, or is it more straightforward given the nature of the site?THere is nothing in this hobby that is straightforward. It takes time. Unless you start months before and set up multiple meets for a travelling biz guy it's a waste. IMHO. If you're home and can put in the time it's a blast.
Hi everyone.
Thank you all for the valuable information and advice. FruitNinja, Jasse1 and TheMidwestExec have especially been helpful for orientation. I'm looking forward to getting started!
It sounds like the following are important: 1) prepaid VISA to pay for membership 2) burner phone for privacy 3) some way to deal with self photos.
I've come across a few methods on these forums for dealing with self photos: 1) use Badoo to find a look-a-like photo 2) use one real photo, that is not on any social media site, keep it private, and only show it once you are in communication with a SB 3) use a real photo, make it public, but blur your face. In any case, it sounds like once you are in communication with a SB over text or app (such as Kik), then it is okay to send a couple real photos. Am I summarizing this correctly? Any other tips for maximizing privacy, while still being effective on the site?
What do you all normally use to book a hotel while maintaining privacy? Do you use a pseudonym?
Thanks again for all these value-packed posts.
Incidentally, a while back I randomly met a girl at a bar in the city. During conversation she mentioned her "friend" is on SA. A few days later, we went on a date for drinks. She came clean and said it isn't her "friend", but herself that is on the site. Even more recently, about six months ago, I met another girl at a late-night bar, and again it came up in conversation that she is on SA. This girl was cute, but kind of a mess, and we didn't hook up. But it goes to show how many girls are signed up! Quite amazing.
Incidentally, a while back I randomly met a girl at a bar in the city. During conversation she mentioned her "friend" is on SA. A few days later, we went on a date for drinks. She came clean and said it isn't her "friend", but herself that is on the site. Even more recently, about six months ago, I met another girl at a late-night bar, and again it came up in conversation that she is on SA. This girl was cute, but kind of a mess, and we didn't hook up. But it goes to show how many girls are signed up! Quite amazing.Often, the way to other girls is through the ones you meet on the site. I've never had a SB that didn't say something along the lines of "do you know some other guys that might be interested in meeting my friend?" I'm thinking like, "Yeah. Me".
ChicagoGoer
08-12-18, 18:07
Gents, beware. There is a cutie girl on SA by the name Rosalove24. I never thought I'd get hit with something like this, but I'm a victim of attempted extortion.
Fellas, be aware that you're meeting girls you never have met before. After this experience, I don't know how to proceed on SA or whether I'd like to engage in any of this at all. Gauge the texts, see for yourself, and just try to be careful. I've got to deal with this now.
I can't view her profile anymore since I reported her through SA (it automatically blocks the person upon report), so this is the only picture from her profile that I could get. I won't be surprised if she already deleted her profile/blocked me. I'm sick to my stomach right now.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/961cc944-427c-412d-8c74-87c4fc4977b2Not really here to point fingers but there is a resemblance there.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f6e7ba22-32ae-4b72-be3f-39701c197fdf
Not really here to point fingers but there is a resemblance there.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f6e7ba22-32ae-4b72-be3f-39701c197fdfSame chick who tried extorting anyone she met up with. You should steer clear unless you want to put up with that.
I have been messaging this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/956794fc-bce5-4a4d-9852-c4c940cd5423.
Anyone have experience with her? Her profile says "If you think that you will be giving gifts or monies in exchange for sex, you are mistaken. I am looking for a legitimate connection!" Is that a psychological defense mechanism against the reality of the situation? Or should I stop messaging her? My profile makes it clear that I'm looking for something casual and implies NSA sex without actually saying it.
A couple of girls have asked, "tell me a little more about yourself. " How do you answer that? My profile is fairly complete, playful, and clear. I'm thinking the girls want to know standard small-talk type information, for their comfort, which is totally fine. Or am I missing something here?
Al Melrose
08-12-18, 20:34
Same chick who tried extorting anyone she met up with. You should steer clear unless you want to put up with that.But did you meet with her and besides the extortion was she worth it?
OlderGuy1954
08-12-18, 23:17
https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf22a-8b7c-4488-9cb9-cf85534cb346
Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?
Happy to learn more about the significance of this.The changing location may be because she's using SA as a phone app. Unless you turn it off, the app reports back your location to HQ, and then it's shown in the profile.
But did you meet with her and besides the extortion was she worth it?I don't understand how you can ask that, given the intel I provided on her already.
No she wasn't worth it, and no I wouldn't even think of seeing her again. She will extort you, and she is a sociopath. I am not exaggerating. Do as you please, though.
BudLover99
08-13-18, 17:26
https://www.seeking.com/member/8488689f-2118-42c4-85a5-0c45c98a5b93
This one claims to be Jo Jo Kiss, and in town for 3 weeks. Asking $400 per hour, but $200 up front. Told her nothing up front, and she squaked at that saying too many no shows. I think she is full of shit with stolen pics off web. Has anybody else risked the plunge and it really is her? I totally doubt it, but never hurts to ask. In the highly unlikely case it is, it would be a bargain because Jo Jo Kiss is very fucking hot. Thanks.
FruitNinja
08-13-18, 21:10
https://www.seeking.com/member/8488689f-2118-42c4-85a5-0c45c98a5b93
This one claims to be Jo Jo Kiss, and in town for 3 weeks. Asking $400 per hour, but $200 up front. Told her nothing up front, and she squaked at that saying too many no shows. I think she is full of shit with stolen pics off web. Has anybody else risked the plunge and it really is her? I totally doubt it, but never hurts to ask. In the highly unlikely case it is, it would be a bargain because Jo Jo Kiss is very fucking hot. Thanks.She messaged me but I doidn't reply. If you send her $ you can kiss it goodbye.
BudLover99
08-13-18, 22:38
She messaged me but I doidn't reply. If you send her $ you can kiss it goodbye.Yep Totally agree. Where did she tell you she was hosting? Just curious. Because she told me it was really close to me.
BudLover99
08-13-18, 22:40
She messaged me but I doidn't reply. If you send her $ you can kiss it goodbye.Never mind. You were smart enough to not even reply. Duh.
FruitNinja
08-14-18, 05:53
Yep Totally agree. Where did she tell you she was hosting? Just curious. Because she told me it was really close to me.I never engaged. I was just commenting about sending money. Money up front in this game is not a good idea.
FruitNinja
08-14-18, 05:56
https://www.seeking.com/member/2429a8bd-9e0d-4594-ac87-57766dc55a6d
"Hey there!! Are you interested in a short term arrangement? I live in Chicago the next 2 weeks before I move out to CA so I'm looking to have some mutually beneficial FWB fun in exchange for gifts / allowance. I enjoy red wine, nature, travel, fine dining, spa days, and trying new things Does this interest you at all?
That was her message to me. I have no interest nor did I engage. But her message is that she's DTF. If anyone's interested. I make no guarantees.
Samath2624
08-14-18, 08:26
Anyone have experience here?
https://www.seeking.com/member/e5d595d6-2085-4a09-9e05-1b9e05227c0a
Post says 21 yo and she could be, but messages and profile indicate she is a not looking for anything committed.
Anyone have experience here?
https://www.seeking.com/member/e5d595d6-2085-4a09-9e05-1b9e05227c0a
Post says 21 yo and she could be, but messages and profile indicate she is a not looking for anything committed.She has been on SA a while (longer than her profile indicates). She's 21, OK looking, nice rack and good head game. All covered though, she wouldn't budge on that. She's DTF, PPM basis.
Anyone have experience with this girl? https://www.seeking.com/member/cddba417-21a7-48db-ac6c-3b1926731dbb.
Asking because her photos look a little too airbrushed, and the fact that she mentions catfishing seems like a red flag.
I'm curious if anyone has experience with the following ladies. I've been talking w / them but nothing set up yet. I appreciate any insight!
https://www.seeking.com/member/2a4242ce-eace-477f-861c-c48946c29a89
https://www.seeking.com/member/8cf4c516-c87a-41c8-b8e6-3a6d0f4b3d3d
https://www.seeking.com/member/fe6debca-704b-7ebf-05e9-900fe9432439
https://www.seeking.com/member/603aa662-5b52-41f1-ab20-56827558c1cf
https://www.seeking.com/member/6566e94e-7f75-4284-8ca5-9c7920ef2eaf
https://www.seeking.com/member/bfb6befe-3fb9-4b9b-a218-aee91f07850f
https://www.seeking.com/member/f84fd27e-9dec-46c9-b2ff-686b37c945d6
Member #5929
08-14-18, 18:48
Has anyone had any experiences with these latinas? Any help or info would be appreciated!
https://www.seeking.com/member/d76ecf37-bf8a-4c5f-a00b-96ab3c31dd9a
https://www.seeking.com/member/60d0f11d-f5ff-41ae-b05a-94504ea32cb2
https://www.seeking.com/member/3e663f44-f1b1-4a18-90da-ed8faf1dde25
Is this for real or fake, I am thinking 99% fake.
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