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Supply Closet
08-11-21, 23:57
https://www.seeking.com/member/4cc532a5-4770-4bf5-875b-f09e5417371b
She went from SA to text quick and we were setting up M & G this Fri when she asked me to buy pics She said she is going to take a shower and send me sexy pics if I spoil her. I don't pay for pics or vids so I don't expect her to meet on Fri or at least she may ask for money just for the M & G but I'm curious if I'm missing anything.She makes a new account every other week for at least a few years that I've been on the site. Always selling pictures.
Woodson2019
08-13-21, 14:21
She makes a new account every other week for at least a few years that I've been on the site. Always selling pictures.Her pictures are old, 20 lbs heavier, pre-Covid. Tried selling pics and vids.
She gave me the same exact story. The BS seems out of control now on SA. You have to send tons of messages to get a few vaguely normal replies. It's scam city and / or the cute ones get flooded with messages, and I'm not some unattractive guy.
What are you experiencing?Same exact story here.
StanCopier
08-13-21, 17:20
Some of the best nymphomaniac action I have ever had has come out of Westchester. Be polite and good things will happen.
I've been talking to this one, as I appreciate big t and a. Any info?
https://www.seeking.com/member/f3e933f8-dfba-4554-b855-2f61e6ff81d5
HitMan1783
08-14-21, 09:42
Hey my guys. Hoping to get some help.
Want to rejoin sa as my lot of girls I'm bored and tired with but can't sign up due to me getting flagged because of bullshit reasons. Pretty sure my devices are flagged too so any help on how I can get around this is much appreciated. Thanks.
ChicagoKid5
08-14-21, 12:41
Can anyone dm a good looking sugarbaby today wifes out looking to lay some wood.
Hey my guys. Hoping to get some help.
Want to rejoin sa as my lot of girls I'm bored and tired with but can't sign up due to me getting flagged because of bullshit reasons. Pretty sure my devices are flagged too so any help on how I can get around this is much appreciated. Thanks.I'm using Brave as a browser, vanilla gift card, different name and address and different pictures. Evidently SA scans pics, matches addresses, uses up addresses and cc info to track those that were suspended from rejoining.
This is total bs because I've heard of at least 3 cases where girls were physically assaulted and raped from SA meets and the guys are still members. Yet us respectful guys get flagged for suggesting money or some other bs reason.
HitMan1783
08-14-21, 13:39
I'm using Brave as a browser, vanilla gift card, different name and address and different pictures. Evidently SA scans pics, matches addresses, uses up addresses and cc info to track those that were suspended from rejoining.
This is total bs because I've heard of at least 3 cases where girls were physically assaulted and raped from SA meets and the guys are still members. Yet us respectful guys get flagged for suggesting money or some other bs reason.Ok damn, if that's what I got to do fuck it. Thanks for that dude. Yea my memberships were suspended for bullshit reasons too. Politely saying and thank you I'm not interested and then I get accused of seeking sex for money from what I got reported for.
Thanks for the heads on rejoining. I am pretty upset bc I only got 1 month out of the 3 months I prepaid. I sent an email to SA asking to review bc I never talk about $ $ . H / E. I do politely reject, and block them. Not to mention all the scandilious hoes selling their pictures and videos. Like WTF SA?
I wanted to know if anyone has come out a rebuttal from SA to have them unblock their account. It's been over 48 hours. And no response to the lifetime ban.
I'm using Brave as a browser, vanilla gift card, different name and address and different pictures. Evidently SA scans pics, matches addresses, uses up addresses and cc info to track those that were suspended from rejoining.
This is total bs because I've heard of at least 3 cases where girls were physically assaulted and raped from SA meets and the guys are still members. Yet us respectful guys get flagged for suggesting money or some other bs reason.
JustinFields
08-14-21, 17:30
I have noticed recently the girls on SA have become a little bit pricier.
The girl that asked for 200 now wants 300.
The girl that asked for 300 now wants 400 and so on.
Everything comes down to supply and demand. It seems the supply has gotten lower and demand higher.
Thanks for the heads on rejoining. I am pretty upset bc I only got 1 month out of the 3 months I prepaid. I sent an email to SA asking to review bc I never talk about $ $ . H / E. I do politely reject, and block them. Not to mention all the scandilious hoes selling their pictures and videos. Like WTF SA?
I wanted to know if anyone has come out a rebuttal from SA to have them unblock their account. It's been over 48 hours. And no response to the lifetime ban.I have never successfully appealed a ban. All they ever did was respond with boilerplate garbage and also refuse to ever tell me why I was banned. They are supposed to refund your unused membership fee, though. I'd definitely push them on that.
Just wait a few weeks then reset your router and modem, download user agent switcher for FireFox and change it to something you don't ordinarily use, create a new account with a different email address and get a new membership with a green dot or vanilla prepaid card and use a different name / info for the account and card. If you had photos up, take different ones wearing different clothes, etc. Don't use any of the old info or pics or they will just ban you again.
Mke Player
08-15-21, 12:38
https://www.seeking.com/member/ca839f6a-5b9f-4157-b4dd-3614f69f8e5b
So, offer a couple thousand a night and how many gals would respond?
I have never successfully appealed a ban. All they ever did was respond with boilerplate garbage and also refuse to ever tell me why I was banned. They are supposed to refund your unused membership fee, though. I'd definitely push them on that.
Just wait a few weeks then reset your router and modem, download user agent switcher for FireFox and change it to something you don't ordinarily use, create a new account with a different email address and get a new membership with a green dot or vanilla prepaid card and use a different name / info for the account and card. If you had photos up, take different ones wearing different clothes, etc. Don't use any of the old info or pics or they will just ban you again.Pretty sure they're just covering their azz from those backpage problems, they want to show a zero tolerance from any allegations that they're running an escort site. They want to be known as Tinder for SB / SD.
Al Melrose
08-15-21, 13:34
https://www.seeking.com/member/ca839f6a-5b9f-4157-b4dd-3614f69f8e5b
So, offer a couple thousand a night and how many gals would respond?Her foot looks as big as her shin.
Hey guys. Like a year ago I got banned and since then I made a brake from it. But now I want to give it a shot again but I'm having a trouble in making a new account can someone please step by step guide me how to make a new one.
Hey guys. Like a year ago I got banned and since then I made a brake from it. But now I want to give it a shot again but I'm having a trouble in making a new account can someone please step by step guide me how to make a new one.See my post from several days ago.
See my post from several days ago.Thanks will try your method.
https://www.seeking.com/member/640eba40-4d9e-45bc-811e-5535af4adbef
Wants 500, BBFS, 2 hrs. Anyone actually see her? Seems cool and dtf but haven't met yet.
Her foot looks as big as her shin.What is wrong with her feet?
ChicagoGoer
08-16-21, 20:39
Not going to go crazy in-depth. YMMV, I got leads from members on here and didn't receive same rate or service as them.
Huge rack, bbjcim, FS covered, cannot host. Talked down to 2.
https://www.seeking.com/member/83326894-0748-4369-b9b0-6e31db11ebae
Did not partake but covered FS for 5, cannot host.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3de09c66-f424-47aa-a6cc-f67ccbd10487
Bbjcim, covered FS, also cannot host- asks for 350 for can get for 3. Availability shitty.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c8c0635c-31ba-4d4e-b29e-edfc42b6072e
Bbj, covered FS, cannot host but will not rush. Will ask for 5. But can get down to 3.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c777410c-d764-4760-b44b-6af21048fe2f
Bbj, covered FS, cannot host and not mobile. 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ee1b9cf-a1ec-458b-aecf-7ace650bb90d
From Indiana, cannot host not really mobile. Quoted 3 but too far for me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/640eba40-4d9e-45bc-811e-5535af4adbef
Submissive, likely open to uncovered FS, not very experienced but good to toss around, not mobile and cannot host, was able to get at 250.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b3962e4f-92d4-4387-8ed8-e8de0f7e5ab2
Just fo rfun.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b01b166e-d203-42cf-86be-1dd11d7466ac
$1 k PM, message me if you'd like to compare notes.
Thank you for reviewing these. Great update.
Not going to go crazy in-depth. YMMV, I got leads from members on here and didn't receive same rate or service as them.
Huge rack, bbjcim, FS covered, cannot host. Talked down to 2.
https://www.seeking.com/member/83326894-0748-4369-b9b0-6e31db11ebae
Did not partake but covered FS for 5, cannot host.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3de09c66-f424-47aa-a6cc-f67ccbd10487
Bbjcim, covered FS, also cannot host- asks for 350 for can get for 3. Availability shitty.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c8c0635c-31ba-4d4e-b29e-edfc42b6072e
Bbj, covered FS, cannot host but will not rush. Will ask for 5. But can get down to 3.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c777410c-d764-4760-b44b-6af21048fe2f
Bbj, covered FS, cannot host and not mobile. 300.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ee1b9cf-a1ec-458b-aecf-7ace650bb90d
From Indiana, cannot host not really mobile. Quoted 3 but too far for me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/640eba40-4d9e-45bc-811e-5535af4adbef
Submissive, likely open to uncovered FS, not very experienced but good to toss around, not mobile and cannot host, was able to get at 250.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b3962e4f-92d4-4387-8ed8-e8de0f7e5ab2
Anyone met her? She was only on the site for a bit but I'm set to meet up with her. Anyone ever meet her on person?
https://www.seeking.com/member/7c785e5c-a228-4a09-b403-7d920d5a42d3
You can message me here or DM me.
Signed up again after being on earlier this year. There are some who are dtf but the quality definitely has declined over the years IMO. I'll be lucky if I find 1-2 decent options in a month's membership. A lot of work for fruit that may or may not bear. Still some fun can be had so fingers crossed.
Keeps changing location between Chicago and Nashville, when asked she said she's in Nashville so I'd be weary on this one.
https://www.seeking.com/member/99867404-2e73-4c65-8d5b-96c3bb788b83
As others have said, she's from indiana. Been trying to schedule, but didn't pan out, may go for it this week. Dtf, quoted 3 for an hour, 4-5 for a couple of hours.
https://www.seeking.com/member/640eba40-4d9e-45bc-811e-5535af4adbef
Ended up getting a beer after texting, she's a nice girl, artsy type, but I didn't feel attraction so split after. Dtf tho, think around 3.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d22d62b7-63d9-4177-a04a-44639b3c1c78
A bit far from the city so wants to meet close to her st charles / glen ellyn dtf quoted 4 or 5 per meet, due to distance didn't pursue.
https://www.seeking.com/member/234d7a28-b6f5-4718-beec-7e6754fa7b6f
Said she "already has dick, just needs money", looking for online arrangement, at least she was honest.
https://www.seeking.com/member/dc860623-f1c0-4327-ba4e-25fa40bdec63
This one's in milwaukee, chatted for a bit but eventually wanted to sell pics / vids, said no.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a69a4283-ebe7-421b-87ce-8b8fedbaf98e
Talked to her for a few days scheduled for drinks and she ghosted on the the day of, a month later, texted again but went silent again. Wants to meet in public first. Seemed dtf and was cute but cutting my losses due to bad comms.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f882739c-5ad5-4977-9246-e3b22a224be4
MrNeoAnderson
08-17-21, 02:26
Anyone actually see her? Seems cool and dtf but haven't met yet.I texted with her a bit too, she's cool and dtf but can't host. I didn't follow thru.
ChicagoGoer
08-17-21, 11:03
Most of these girls I haven't met but agreed on terms before meeting. Just dropping as guide resource for others whom may be interested.
Student moving to Chicago, couldn't meet while she was in town. Asked me for 4. Would really like to know if someone was able to meet her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/975b0dbe-295a-45ea-9585-925137f8058f
Works at 390, says needs monthly of 1 k when I asked about meeting twice a month. Said Open to anything but didn't say about BBFS. Still have ongoing dialogue with her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/15c317e3-d8cc-4c90-9900-78959c3bc939
Asked me for 1500 monthly, willing to meet weekly. Didn't not get to conversation about BBFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a191976b-bbb3-4de8-955a-33da1e825d37
Lives in burbs but can host. Open minded to uncovered everything, asked for 250.
https://www.seeking.com/member/490362bd-242d-4418-b26c-10f8f335d525
Asked for me 4 but nothing uncovered.
https://www.seeking.com/member/027d73e8-85d7-4a9c-869b-7e52ea65ecaf
Lives up north, asked for 3. Seems really submissive and kinky.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2a1dd18b-eaa1-467d-92ab-f4ec15e8e4ff
Still waiting to meet this one. Offered 1 to get bbj and agreed. Upsold to 3 for FS but wasn't fond of BBFS. Cannot host and not really mobile.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d423d0a0-38ec-4a6c-8065-be0623d33368
Lives in city but not mobile. Asked for 450 talked down to 350 for a few hours. Bbjcim but no BBFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/41dcb790-5189-4295-9fb0-bb1266bc3ac1
Everything on the table, she is kinky. BBFS if recent results provided.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9b794c28-fdb3-4193-a591-8b11c828f64a
Asked for 4, but got to 3. Lives near loop but cannot host. Was open minded to BBFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0a088794-f6f6-4bf3-9a63-cdd7bf5fbfc3
Want to meet this one so bad but quoted me 3 at first but then tried to upsell me last min at 1 k.
Mentioned anything I wanted but didn't get to specifics.
https://www.seeking.com/member/11f21fbf-43dc-49a5-8c83-dad046e15d4f
Up north, cannot host and not really mobile. Said not to dump inside because no BC, mentioned anal was ok.
https://www.seeking.com/member/96fe6531-4ddd-4713-8299-477cbbfb8e9c
Info about her:
She is real and she can host, she's a lot into 420 and she will smoke with you, the place is full of crystals and stuff but she's friendly and a nice girl if you behave nice to her.
Her place is near downtown, you can skip the meet and greet, she's curvy.
I did 300, maybe you can get lower than that, she was asking 500 at first if I recall correctly, also I've been seeing a few times already.
She is a anal freak so if you are into that, she loves anal and deepthroat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e44dca58-a451-4c05-ada5-e40b3d7b3bafShe made her private pictures available and I'm now trying to get a response from her. Location will be good since I'm also close to downtown area. Let's see how long she takes to respond to my messages.
I texted with her a bit too, she's cool and dtf but can't host. I didn't follow thru.She kept changing the $ amount so felt a little bit like a pro, kept going back and forth so not going to waste more time.
Thanks for the dumps CG. We more people contributing like this to the board. Far too many takers and too few givers here!
Most of these girls I haven't met but agreed on terms before meeting. Just dropping as guide resource for others whom may be interested.
Most of these girls I haven't met but agreed on terms before meeting. Just dropping as guide resource for others whom may be interested.
Student moving to Chicago, couldn't meet while she was in town. Asked me for 4. Would really like to know if someone was able to meet her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/975b0dbe-295a-45ea-9585-925137f8058f
Works at 390, says needs monthly of 1 k when I asked about meeting twice a month. Said Open to anything but didn't say about BBFS. Still have ongoing dialogue with her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/15c317e3-d8cc-4c90-9900-78959c3bc939
Asked me for 1500 monthly, willing to meet weekly. Didn't not get to conversation about BBFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a191976b-bbb3-4de8-955a-33da1e825d37
Lives in burbs but can host. Open minded to uncovered everything, asked for 250.
https://www.seeking.com/member/490362bd-242d-4418-b26c-10f8f335d525
Asked for me 4 but nothing uncovered.
https://www.seeking.com/member/027d73e8-85d7-4a9c-869b-7e52ea65ecaf
Lives up north, asked for 3. Seems really submissive and kinky.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2a1dd18b-eaa1-467d-92ab-f4ec15e8e4ff
Still waiting to meet this one. Offered 1 to get bbj and agreed. Upsold to 3 for FS but wasn't fond of BBFS. Cannot host and not really mobile.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d423d0a0-38ec-4a6c-8065-be0623d33368
Lives in city but not mobile. Asked for 450 talked down to 350 for a few hours. Bbjcim but no BBFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/41dcb790-5189-4295-9fb0-bb1266bc3ac1
Everything on the table, she is kinky. BBFS if recent results provided.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9b794c28-fdb3-4193-a591-8b11c828f64a
Asked for 4, but got to 3. Lives near loop but cannot host. Was open minded to BBFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0a088794-f6f6-4bf3-9a63-cdd7bf5fbfc3
Want to meet this one so bad but quoted me 3 at first but then tried to upsell me last min at 1 k.
Mentioned anything I wanted but didn't get to specifics.
https://www.seeking.com/member/11f21fbf-43dc-49a5-8c83-dad046e15d4f
Up north, cannot host and not really mobile. Said not to dump inside because no BC, mentioned anal was ok.
https://www.seeking.com/member/96fe6531-4ddd-4713-8299-477cbbfb8e9cANOTHER DATA POINT ON ONE.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2a1dd18b-eaa1-467d-92ab-f4ec15e8e4ff
This one claims to go no lower for me than 450 and lives in the city. Not north according to her. Definitely dtf but everything covered unless recent results can be shared.
She told me the same. Wanted 5, won't go lower than 450. All covered. Getting the high volume vibe, her message / rules was clearly a copy / paste. No pics shown below the tits either is always a red flag.
ANOTHER DATA POINT ON ONE.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2a1dd18b-eaa1-467d-92ab-f4ec15e8e4ff
This one claims to go no lower for me than 450 and lives in the city. Not north according to her. Definitely dtf but everything covered unless recent results can be shared.
Member #6323
08-17-21, 23:27
I have some very general tips and tricks to share about Seeking. First off, I have been on there on and off for a while. Members come and go, but I assure you it is a website of value. Some members stay and are sort of always on there many of which have been identified in this thread. I don't feel like going back but if you take 10-15 minutes and do it on your own, you'll figure it out. I have had the best luck with new members, new to Chicago. I have had dates the same day. The best way to approach this website if you want to be successful with it is to be patient. Try it for a couple weeks or so, then revisit it a few months later. Week to week, even month to month, profiles might seem stale and boring and you might feel like you're treading water. But it's like an outlet mall, you never know what you might find there next quarter. This website is definitely not bullshit and has definitely not gone downhill, you can meet some really cute half normal women on here. Good luck.
ChicagoGoer
08-18-21, 09:47
She told me the same. Wanted 5, won't go lower than 450. All covered. Getting the high volume vibe, her message / rules was clearly a copy / paste. No pics shown below the tits either is always a red flag.I got the same copy and paste message at 5 but I ignored that and asked her about her previous experiences. Went off track and said she would do 3.
Also have two body photos but nothing nude in case you want to leave me your contact info in pm's. She is not rock solid but appears to be relatively HWP.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4040126d-c8fc-4bd2-9e4f-229ef8f5e783
This one wants 500 so I can watch her eat lunch. She may get intimate after 2 or 3 meetings. Ha.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4040126d-c8fc-4bd2-9e4f-229ef8f5e783
This one wants 500 so I can watch her eat lunch. She may get intimate after 2 or 3 meetings. Ha.Watch the Heartland TV series on Faith and Family (13 seasons and over 100 episodes) and talk her language. She might come down a little if she thinks you're just like Ty.
You had me until you said this. 😂😂😂
This website has definitely not gone downhill
ChicagoGoer
08-19-21, 17:33
Some I have met for everything, others for coffee, and some just through text. As mentioned just a guide.
Asking for 3, located on the Southside. Everything covered.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d21ab47c-4f95-4fb3-9dbd-7f61c741d770
Asking for 1 k, didn't even get to talk details.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f1e0d2af-7f7a-4185-b9f0-88708fa5bdaf
Pretty hot, hit me with only platonic for 1 k a month.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d25b1a3a-9fa6-4131-9c08-06513c76a49b
Friendly girl, cannot host. In the south burbs. Bbjcim 1 and cfs at 3.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4209696a-9acf-449f-9d96-85631f868b45
Asking for 5, can host but everything covered.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8bf5c0a7-3bc8-42ed-bc06-ea9ae098a856
This one great in a pinch, can host in burbs. Heavy yes but really open minded. Anal, cream pie, rimming. Asking for 3 but gotten at 1 and 2 in a pinch. Stays with a GF who is also on the site.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ddfd2061-0349-497f-84fa-273fa31b0683
Quoted me 7, didn't bother to talk down after said everything needed to be covered.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d41cafc0-c8d3-463e-9c91-23549302bdfc
Flaky with replies, been trying to meet for almost a month. Quoted 1 for bbj 3 for FS.
Near the lake on the bad end cannot host.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2444b885-fe41-4f81-be0c-04a49c4aac42
Pro, can host asked for 5 for two hours.
https://www.seeking.com/member/360900fb-9d44-422c-86d1-54cd680d062e
College student up north. Asked for 2 for bbj 4 for cfs. Did not partake.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0dedbb18-2b0d-47f2-8051-2ef180c5c6d6
Bruh I had too. Showed me I'd, says over 18. Has a medical condition but good for anything minus Anal. Did not meet but asked for 3 per meet.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b8feaaa5-ec4e-480c-93d0-093e9fb35734
No longer in Chicago but does visits. Anything on the table including sharing with her BF, if you are into that. Asked. 25 for BBFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/62208046-d529-4ccb-aee2-c3ad3be03fbe
Bruh I had too. Showed me I'd, says over 18. Has a medical condition but good for anything minus Anal. Did not meet but asked for 3 per meet.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b8feaaa5-ec4e-480c-93d0-093e9fb35734
I had to too LOL Told me same thing, but I just couldn't, looks way too young even if she isn't.
Hoffman Oliver
08-20-21, 00:26
I cycle in and out of a paid membership, but have stayed out for about a year and half due lack luster results and the pandemic. Looks like I'm going to have to pony up for a membership come fall.
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/onlyfans-site-built-sex-will-ban-sexually-explicit-content-n1277222
ChicagoGoer
08-20-21, 14:41
Head pretty bad, gets grossed out by kum but willing to take 1.
2. 5 for CFS, no anal and will not budge for me on BBFS. Located southside and cannot host.
https://www.seeking.com/member/dce7e120-c861-4236-a4db-6fb378c3dede
I cycle in and out of a paid membership, but have stayed out for about a year and half due lack luster results and the pandemic. Looks like I'm going to have to pony up for a membership come fall.
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/onlyfans-site-built-sex-will-ban-sexually-explicit-content-n1277222Thinking winter break this year might be a good time to join back up.
ChicagoGoer
08-20-21, 15:38
Thinking winter break this year might be a good time to join back up.Personal experience. Last two weeks have been good to me: a lot of girls coming into town for college.
Some I have met for everything, others for coffee, and some just through text. As mentioned just a guide.
Asking for 3, located on the Southside. Everything covered.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d21ab47c-4f95-4fb3-9dbd-7f61c741d770
Asking for 1 k, didn't even get to talk details.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f1e0d2af-7f7a-4185-b9f0-88708fa5bdaf
Pretty hot, hit me with only platonic for 1 k a month.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d25b1a3a-9fa6-4131-9c08-06513c76a49b
Friendly girl, cannot host. In the south burbs. Bbjcim 1 and cfs at 3.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4209696a-9acf-449f-9d96-85631f868b45
Asking for 5, can host but everything covered.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8bf5c0a7-3bc8-42ed-bc06-ea9ae098a856
This one great in a pinch, can host in burbs. Heavy yes but really open minded. Anal, cream pie, rimming. Asking for 3 but gotten at 1 and 2 in a pinch. Stays with a GF who is also on the site.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ddfd2061-0349-497f-84fa-273fa31b0683
Quoted me 7, didn't bother to talk down after said everything needed to be covered.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d41cafc0-c8d3-463e-9c91-23549302bdfc
Flaky with replies, been trying to meet for almost a month. Quoted 1 for bbj 3 for FS.
Near the lake on the bad end cannot host.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2444b885-fe41-4f81-be0c-04a49c4aac42
Pro, can host asked for 5 for two hours.
https://www.seeking.com/member/360900fb-9d44-422c-86d1-54cd680d062e
College student up north. Asked for 2 for bbj 4 for cfs. Did not partake.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0dedbb18-2b0d-47f2-8051-2ef180c5c6d6
Bruh I had too. Showed me I'd, says over 18. Has a medical condition but good for anything minus Anal. Did not meet but asked for 3 per meet.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b8feaaa5-ec4e-480c-93d0-093e9fb35734
No longer in Chicago but does visits. Anything on the table including sharing with her BF, if you are into that. Asked. 25 for BBFS.
https://www.seeking.com/member/62208046-d529-4ccb-aee2-c3ad3be03fbeThis doesn't just apply to you but to people here in general, I'm impressed with how forward you are with negotiating such specific points with a girl before you meet them. I've had a lot of success on SA but I never really tried that sort of approach where you're seemingly negotiating specific acts. I was always afraid something like that would set the wrong tone or even turn them off. But it sounds like you've all had success doing it that way.
This doesn't just apply to you but to people here in general, I'm impressed with how forward you are with negotiating such specific points with a girl before you meet them. I've had a lot of success on SA but I never really tried that sort of approach where you're seemingly negotiating specific acts. I was always afraid something like that would set the wrong tone or even turn them off. But it sounds like you've all had success doing it that way.Agreed, in my experience if you ask for BBFS up front they will almost always say no. If you don't ask and you act like you are planning on it being an ongoing thing, they almost always hop on raw. I have even asked and they've said covered ahead of time, but when it came down to it, they just just climbed on.
ChicagoGoer
08-20-21, 16:19
This doesn't just apply to you but to people here in general, I'm impressed with how forward you are with negotiating such specific points with a girl before you meet them. I've had a lot of success on SA but I never really tried that sort of approach where you're seemingly negotiating specific acts. I was always afraid something like that would set the wrong tone or even turn them off. But it sounds like you've all had success doing it that way.Honestly it's a long drawn out process but I personally have the time for it. My usual dialogue is 2-3 days with on and off texting before getting this info. Of course some are more upfront then others but all girls have a level of expectation. I wish had more flexibility to use your strategy of wine and dine, would get me laid so much more. I do my best not to be so invasive right off the bat, helps me that I'm relatively younger so I can relate to alot of them in terms of popular culture.
Overall I would say your strategy gets you 9-10's, but I'll stick with the 6-7's LOL.
Much love to all your reports, people like you make it easy to share here.
OF hasn't said specifically what's going to be banned yet. My hunch is that its actual sex content. Couples fucking, dildos / toys, BJ's, etc. Which is a minority of OF girls who actually do this. Most are just semi nude or nudes.
They are just caving in to the credit card companies who have boycotted payments for porn. If it can be shown on Showtime or HBO then its not porn.
OF is a cash cow they don't want to ruin it so my hunch is there will be very little impact but we shall see in time.
I cycle in and out of a paid membership, but have stayed out for about a year and half due lack luster results and the pandemic. Looks like I'm going to have to pony up for a membership come fall.
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/onlyfans-site-built-sex-will-ban-sexually-explicit-content-n1277222
ChicagoGoer
08-20-21, 16:47
OF hasn't said specifically what's going to be banned yet. My hunch is that its actual sex content. Couples fucking, dildos / toys, BJ's, etc. Which is a minority of OF girls who actually do this. Most are just semi nude or nudes.
They are just caving in to the credit card companies who have boycotted payments for porn. If it can be shown on Showtime or HBO then its not porn.
OF is a cash cow they don't want to ruin it so my hunch is there will be very little impact but we shall see in time.I know someone in this space and this assessment is dead on. They are supposedly only going to take content from "verified users". No hard core pornography, more so an Instagram with less clothing. Anyone who uploads an I'd can be verified.
Just to keep this on topic.
Talked to these two, well just one. Wanted 2. 5 for oral and 3 per for FS. Everything covered.
Was going to meet for coffee pro Bono, asked for a selfie beforehand and went ghost.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c2d70a91-bb0c-4640-b4b4-3ae2c55b99fa
I know someone in this space and this assessment is dead on. They are supposedly only going to take content from "verified users". No hard core pornography, more so an Instagram with less clothing. Anyone who uploads an I'd can be verified.
Just to keep this on topic.
Talked to these two, well just one. Wanted 2. 5 for oral and 3 per for FS. Everything covered.
Was going to meet for coffee pro Bono, asked for a selfie beforehand and went ghost.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c2d70a91-bb0c-4640-b4b4-3ae2c55b99faTalked to the two as well, they wanted to meet for drinks / food first and wanted 100 so I said no.
GeorgeVerWest
08-20-21, 18:16
Any info on her?
She quoted me 600 per meet, not sure she is worth that much LOL but any of you managed to see her?
She's freakishly small lol and I think she might be a stripper as well
https://www.seeking.com/member/27d301d0-781d-449e-b01f-41bc75310424
Agoraphobe
08-20-21, 18:58
Any info on her?
She quoted me 600 per meet, not sure she is worth that much LOL but any of you managed to see her?
She's freakishly small lol and I think she might be a stripper as well
https://www.seeking.com/member/27d301d0-781d-449e-b01f-41bc75310424If she's 4'10 then I'm 7'2 LOL, those arms scream dwarf.
Info about her:
She is real and she can host, she's a lot into 420 and she will smoke with you, the place is full of crystals and stuff but she's friendly and a nice girl if you behave nice to her.
Her place is near downtown, you can skip the meet and greet, she's curvy.
I did 300, maybe you can get lower than that, she was asking 500 at first if I recall correctly, also I've been seeing a few times already.
She is a anal freak so if you are into that, she loves anal and deepthroat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e44dca58-a451-4c05-ada5-e40b3d7b3bafIs she BBFS or covered? Was talking to her but I was on the fence.
HitMan1783
08-21-21, 11:30
Any info on her?
She quoted me 600 per meet, not sure she is worth that much LOL but any of you managed to see her?
She's freakishly small lol and I think she might be a stripper as well
https://www.seeking.com/member/27d301d0-781d-449e-b01f-41bc75310424Yea she is a stripper. Was talking to her but not for 600 bruh LOL.
GeorgeVerWest
08-21-21, 15:19
It was protected with me, only the BJ was without.
Is she BBFS or covered? Was talking to her but I was on the fence.
It was protected with me, only the BJ was without.Did you try showing her clean test results? A lot of these girls are open to BBFS if you have clean test results on you or your phone.
GeorgeVerWest
08-22-21, 14:21
Has anyone seen her ?
https://www.seeking.com/member/228627a7-111c-4b89-b804-6e4741a8e935
BeNewAgain
08-22-21, 16:05
Agreed, in my experience if you ask for BBFS up front they will almost always say no. If you don't ask and you act like you are planning on it being an ongoing thing, they almost always hop on raw. I have even asked and they've said covered ahead of time, but when it came down to it, they just just climbed on.I fall in the category of someone who likes to spend those 2-3 days of texting before committing to a meet. By the end of that process I want to uncover if.
A) We can meet right at the hotel room or my place.
B) Is it understood that assuming all goes well, we are fucking?
C) About how long would they stay there. Multiple rounds? Overnight??
D) Are they into similar things in the bedroom (they have to give head).
E) Are they on birth control and / or ok with BBFS.
And in all those conversation topics it's several texts in and out to politely set up the questions. Then I ask them the correct way, use respectful words like intimacy, etc. The allowance amount also is negotiated of course. From there I just use my judgement in my head if the allowance amount is worth it. If it's a hot 19 year old college girl who's down for all that stuff, I may be ok giving more. But if it's some girl who doesn't like to give head, demands condoms, and seems like she'd only stay an hour. Then I would most likely cut off the conversation and move on.
It is a lot of work, but I've had some very very successful encounters. I've also had several agree to the plan b pill, and let me cum inside them as many times as I can on an overnight.
If she's 4'10 then I'm 7'2 LOL, those arms scream dwarf.The picture of her by the stairs is a good point of reference, I believe Chicago building code is 36 inches, and that's about chest height on her so she's 4' 4", 4' 5" maybe. $300 to bang a midget stripper isn't bad but $600 is a bit much.
One of the best posts. Great advice. I also follow the same process and have been for quite some time. It's work and requires patience but worth it. Some great arrangements came out of this process that have lasted a long time. Don't chase and communicate respectfully (she is also human after all) but stick to what makes you happy. There is always someone who is aligned to your asks.
I fall in the category of someone who likes to spend those 2-3 days of texting before committing to a meet. By the end of that process I want to uncover if.
A) We can meet right at the hotel room or my place.
B) Is it understood that assuming all goes well, we are fucking?
C) About how long would they stay there. Multiple rounds? Overnight??
D) Are they into similar things in the bedroom (they have to give head).
E) Are they on birth control and / or ok with BBFS.
And in all those conversation topics it's several texts in and out to politely set up the questions. Then I ask them the correct way, use respectful words like intimacy, etc. The allowance amount also is negotiated of course. From there I just use my judgement in my head if the allowance amount is worth it. If it's a hot 19 year old college girl who's down for all that stuff, I may be ok giving more. But if it's some girl who doesn't like to give head, demands condoms, and seems like she'd only stay an hour. Then I would most likely cut off the conversation and move on.
It is a lot of work, but I've had some very very successful encounters. I've also had several agree to the plan b pill, and let me cum inside them as many times as I can on an overnight.
Agoraphobe
08-23-21, 12:58
Anyone ever talk to any of these? Found instagram profiles for all and they've been on SA for years so probably real.
https://www.seeking.com/member/aacdc577-6f4a-46a8-a64f-daa0c8f4b013
https://www.seeking.com/member/6e74a7cd-8fc8-4e4e-a049-9250fbf2864a
https://www.seeking.com/member/f65665e1-2d9d-4728-a9ba-99259d4469e1
ChicagoGoer
08-23-21, 13:09
Anyone ever talk to any of these? Found instagram profiles for all and they've been on SA for years so probably real.
https://www.seeking.com/member/aacdc577-6f4a-46a8-a64f-daa0c8f4b013
https://www.seeking.com/member/6e74a7cd-8fc8-4e4e-a049-9250fbf2864a
https://www.seeking.com/member/f65665e1-2d9d-4728-a9ba-99259d4469e11st one I spoke to about a year ago. It may have been under a different profile. She is real but really drags on trying to meet. I remember this because her availability was bad. She claimed strict household. Once she hit me for money before even meeting I stopped replying. Hopefully you have better luck.
3rd never exchanged numbers but messaged me on SA saying she was looking for 3 k per meet. Maybe she did that to tell me she wasn't interested, but hope you have better luck.
ChicagoGoer
08-23-21, 16:29
Anyone talk to this one? Moving fast but won't let me see private photos.
https://www.seeking.com/member/934f3ca6-f378-4165-a9df-b2b16e1877d9
Anyone talk to this one? Moving fast but won't let me see private photos.
https://www.seeking.com/member/934f3ca6-f378-4165-a9df-b2b16e1877d9Post #9294 and some general consensus say best to avoid and stack the cash elsewhere. Good luck.
Private pics look hot but feedback per link below is pretty bad.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?19231-Arrangement-Reports&p=5376581&highlight=b2b16e1877d9#post5376581.
Anyone talk to this one? Moving fast but won't let me see private photos.
https://www.seeking.com/member/934f3ca6-f378-4165-a9df-b2b16e1877d9
I've had a free account with no photos for like 2 years so I can see what you guys are talking about. Over the weekend I finally decided to upload a photo and go active again, and the second I uploaded the pic it puts me on suspension and logs me out. The photo was a new one I'd never used. So I emailed them and they respond that it was caught by their automatic process to "protect my financial information", even though I never gave them any on this account. They say the only way I can get unsuspended is to email them a photo of my government ID. Fuck that!! I think they just don't like people using VPNs anymore.
I've had a free account with no photos for like 2 years so I can see what you guys are talking about. Over the weekend I finally decided to upload a photo and go active again, and the second I uploaded the pic it puts me on suspension and logs me out. The photo was a new one I'd never used. So I emailed them and they respond that it was caught by their automatic process to "protect my financial information", even though I never gave them any on this account. They say the only way I can get unsuspended is to email them a photo of my government ID. Fuck that!! I think they just don't like people using VPNs anymore.Your VPN is probably showing your location as Istanbul, Pakistan or somewhere else that doesn't match the credit card info.
I'm not premium on SA but saw a profile for a woman I had seen in music venues from time to time before COVID: Miss Katalina. It's impossible for search the forum for SA posts because most of the mongers are posting URLs. Has anyone seen her? If so, can you share a report about what was on the menu and cost?
https://www.seeking.com/member/5a3d393c-304a-ae5c-06b2-80ab069861cb
Messaged back and forth for couple days on site then moved off. Wants 2-5 k per meet. LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b697ebcd-0621-40b6-b9f0-8553c19f5f05
Agoraphobe
08-24-21, 17:56
I'm not premium on SA but saw a profile for a woman I had seen in music venues from time to time before COVID: Miss Katalina. It's impossible for search the forum for SA posts because most of the mongers are posting URLs. Has anyone seen her? If so, can you share a report about what was on the menu and cost?
https://www.seeking.com/member/5a3d393c-304a-ae5c-06b2-80ab069861cbJust an FYI, you can search the string of characters after the last dash In the URL, so in this case "80 ab069861 cb" and you'll be able to search the forum that way. Nothing pops up for your girl though.
Finally paid the $100 monthly fee after posting a verified photo a week before and getting A few likes and messages.
Go premium and you'll get inundated. LOT'S of foreign countries, mostly from S America right now, but starting to get the Philippine market too. Lots of girls wanting to get you to pay for photos / videos.
Did find one cute Polish girl on there who was DTF for $$$ and that was great. Cute little girl with a great ass for a white girl and super sweet. Going to keep her as a regular girl for sure. Nutted her throat and then filled a bag. Might see her again next week or after.
I am messaging with one interesting one in Rockford and another in Wisconsin, but think those are probably going to be more "traditional" SB / SD arrangements. String that out and see what I can get away with. But it does seem that all the Adult Section Girls from Craigslist and Backpage have now moved to seeking.com and it IS possible to find "one-time" girls.
Few patters I have noticed about scammers on SA:
!. Nursing Student because of course they are.
2. They send you a phone number right away.
3. Want to sell you photos / vids.
The biggest scam right now is getting messaged from women you have never looked at. They sometimes even look at your profile first then message (which adds to credibiltiy). Most are far away and I ignore. Occasionally one will be 50-75 miles away and I respond just for fun that we are located too far apart. Invariably they always have family in my area and are willing to drive. So we go back a forth a little and man are they interested in my bullshit. They will share their photos. Then, always, comes the pitch that they would love to be with me but gas is so expensive and their care needs something repaired before she can leave. That's when I offer I do not use any cash app and deal in cash only. A few are straightforward enough to say oh, it's not going to work then. The rest just disappear. Never, ever send $ in advance. That is all so many of them are looking for.
It is definately harder right now to find decent quality real women but they are out there. You just need to hone your bullshit detector skills.
Randolph.
100% on the mark.
The biggest scam right now is getting messaged from women you have never looked at. They sometimes even look at your profile first then message (which adds to credibiltiy). Most are far away and I ignore. Occasionally one will be 50-75 miles away and I respond just for fun that we are located too far apart. Invariably they always have family in my area and are willing to drive. So we go back a forth a little and man are they interested in my bullshit. They will share their photos. Then, always, comes the pitch that they would love to be with me but gas is so expensive and their care needs something repaired before she can leave. That's when I offer I do not use any cash app and deal in cash only. A few are straightforward enough to say oh, it's not going to work then. The rest just disappear. Never, ever send $ in advance. That is all so many of them are looking for.
It is definately harder right now to find decent quality real women but they are out there. You just need to hone your bullshit detector skills.
Randolph.
Just an FYI, you can search the string of characters after the last dash In the URL, so in this case "80 ab069861 cb" and you'll be able to search the forum that way. Nothing pops up for your girl though.Thanks for that tip. I should have thought of that, although searching for phone numbers has never worked well so figured the same with URL numbers.
LikeMike1963
08-26-21, 07:48
I have been a long time member but as they have eliminated the cancel auto renewal and you just have a panel option. Has anyone hit the CANCEL and if so does it end your membership immediately or on your "renewal date?
I have been a long time member but as they have eliminated the cancel auto renewal and you just have a panel option. Has anyone hit the CANCEL and if so does it end your membership immediately or on your "renewal date?You'll keep your full time when you cancel.
You'll keep your full time when you cancel.Yep.
I signed up strictly for one month and cancelled. How it's worded is a little suspect, but you will be on for your month paid.
JustinFields
08-27-21, 01:48
https://www.seeking.com/member/e2368d36-0109-4306-8df8-ccf26b1abc1b
Nice body, big tits. Not a bad fuck but here attitude completely sucks. The only thing that is solid about her is the actual sex and her tits.
CFS, BBJ, 300 PPM.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e2368d36-0109-4306-8df8-ccf26b1abc1b
Nice body, big tits. Not a bad fuck but here attitude completely sucks. The only thing that is solid about her is the actual sex and her tits.
CFS, BBJ, 300 PPM.I saw her pop up as well.
I'm curious though, how do you already have a report on her when her account was created today?
JustinFields
08-27-21, 14:29
I saw her pop up as well.
I'm curious though, how do you already have a report on her when her account was created today?She was on SA around a year ago. Disappeared and came back. She is not new to this!
JustinFields
08-27-21, 14:47
Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8
Messaged back and forth for couple days on site then moved off. Wants 2-5 k per meet. LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b697ebcd-0621-40b6-b9f0-8553c19f5f05Freaking joke, some of these skanks think way to much of themselves.
I warned about her.Glad I logged in she just asked to meet her. Narrow escape.
Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8Last year I chatted and tried planning for meet and greet near west loop where she supposedly lives, think she wanted to get dinner vs. Just drinks. She kind of flaked so didn't end up seeing her.
Supply Closet
08-27-21, 21:08
This was true a while ago but is no longer the case. I'm not sure if there are identifying phrases anymore, every profile that's gone dark on me didn't block (verified this from another account and they're gone altogether) and says "Unable to send a message as user is no longer active. ".
But*yeah I figured out your trick a couple years ago.I've also noticed that if you're blocked, their location stops showing up in the header under their username on the messages page.
Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8It take a long time to finally get her to meet, met her about 2 weeks ago, she is hot and even more so in person. Never went beyond that meet for a couple drinks. What she is looking for, in my eyes anyway, seems to be on the high end of things, travel, boats, etc. And we were not able to agree on things so that was that.
Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8
It take a long time to finally get her to meet, met her about 2 weeks ago, she is hot and even more so in person. Never went beyond that meet for a couple drinks. What she is looking for, in my eyes anyway, seems to be on the high end of things, travel, boats, etc. And we were not able to agree on things so that was that.She's looking for a husband. And becomes very possessive and dominating very quickly.
JustinFields
08-27-21, 23:31
She's looking for a husband. And becomes very possessive and dominating very quickly.Where you able to close the deal?
She has a great set of tits, that is for sure!
I never met her and she had an attitude when messaging and decided to cut my losses.
She's looking for a husband. And becomes very possessive and dominating very quickly.Does anyone have any content or anything on her, I'd be interested in seeing that.
I saw her pop up as well.
I'm curious though, how do you already have a report on her when her account was created today?She's been around, used to go by Val before. I'm sure you can find old reports. And if I'm a gambling man (I am) she also goes by nataliaville at some point (maybe still currently).
She's been around, used to go by Val before. I'm sure you can find old reports. And if I'm a gambling man (I am) she also goes by nataliaville at some point (maybe still currently).Ahh yes, I recall. Mia Collins was one of her other names. I was going to reach out to her for an arrangement until I found out she was more interested in escorting (not judging, just not what I'm looking for).
I don't understand what drives someone with such a top tier figure to escort. Someone like that could easily pull 5 k-10 k / mo in a more traditional sugar arrangement.
Hello, does anyone have experience getting a hotel room without a credit card. I am concerned about a paper trail. Thanks.
Agoraphobe
08-29-21, 10:52
Ahh yes, I recall. Mia Collins was one of her other names. I was going to reach out to her for an arrangement until I found out she was more interested in escorting (not judging, just not what I'm looking for).
I don't understand what drives someone with such a top tier figure to escort. Someone like that could easily pull 5 k-10 k / mo in a more traditional sugar arrangement.Something tells me there isn't a lot of overlap in the women who are smart enough to figure out how to best profit from their beauty and the women who have to resort to banging random dudes for money.
I passed on this one, wants way too much scratch in my opinion. Basically a semi-pro. Attractive but way too slick, tries to act really genuine but seems to be an act.
https://www.seeking.com/member/31bca550-749a-42bd-a943-92b37a48000aAnyone else try for this one? We switched to text recently and she blasted me with 2000-3000 a month, then lowered to 1000 for two meets a month (not awful in my opinion) and then I suggested 300-400 ppm prior to an allowance and she was okay with that. Has called herself "a very sexual being" multiple times LOL.
JustinFields
08-29-21, 11:18
Ahh yes, I recall. Mia Collins was one of her other names. I was going to reach out to her for an arrangement until I found out she was more interested in escorting (not judging, just not what I'm looking for).
I don't understand what drives someone with such a top tier figure to escort. Someone like that could easily pull 5 k-10 k / mo in a more traditional sugar arrangement.It is going to be hard for her to make 5-10 k a month off sugaring. She is uneducated and doesn't speak English. She is not the type you could take to a work function or dinner. Her personality is also kind of blah.
She does have a great body and her tits are natural and top tier.
JustinFields
08-29-21, 11:20
https://www.seeking.com/member/b523c747-7524-4eb3-be4a-ed0e6bf30daf
This girl has a great pair of tits and was in the mood for AA but she requested 700 ppm. The most I will do is 300.
Where you able to close the deal?
She has a great set of tits, that is for sure!
I never met her and she had an attitude when messaging and decided to cut my losses.She was the last person I met before I canceled my membership and went back to escorts. She had just joined and on the first date it was immediately 20 million questions about who else I'm seeing, my dating history, some mess about something she called "roaching" that I didn't understand at all but apparently made her feel entitled to try to check my phone and come over unannounced. She would constantly text me and be like "Hello?? Where are you?" if I didn't write back immediately, and made an uncomfortable number of jokes involving her being pregnant which scared me off CIP.
I ended up leaving SA over her and a couple of other girls who were similar. I posted about the experience some months ago. There are less intense ways to get laid by hot young girls than that.
JustinFields
08-29-21, 11:26
Something tells me there isn't a lot of overlap in the women who are smart enough to figure out how to best profit from their beauty and the women who have to resort to banging random dudes for money.Even these girls on seeking are banging a lot of dudes. The ones who are responsive to you are responsive to many others as well.
The just aren't holed up in some house banging 5 dudes a day for money.
I think many over estimate the purity of these girls.
She was the last person I met before I canceled my membership and went back to escorts. She had just joined and on the first date it was immediately 20 million questions about who else I'm seeing, my dating history, some mess about something she called "roaching" that I didn't understand at all but apparently made her feel entitled to try to check my phone and come over unannounced. She would constantly text me and be like "Hello?? Where are you?" if I didn't write back immediately, and made an uncomfortable number of jokes involving her being pregnant which scared me off CIP.
I ended up leaving SA over her and a couple of other girls who were similar. I posted about the experience some months ago. There are less intense ways to get laid by hot young girls than that.I was msg'ing with her awhile ago and she kind of flaked when it came to setting firm plans to meet up and I didn't press it at all, just moved on. What was her PPM?
Hello, does anyone have experience getting a hotel room without a credit card. I am concerned about a paper trail. Thanks.I use dayuse and a couple small motels. Dayuse hotels ask for cc for incidentals. I pay in cash. BUT they sometimes put through a reserve that shows as pending if your wife can check the online account balance. It drops off in a few days to a week. The small motels are fine with cash and no CC.
Is this the girl you guys are talking about? (see pic attached).
If so it all makes sense, met her 18 months or so ago on SA and she was a complete nut job. Wouldn't STFU to save her life, no filter (in a bad way), hounded me with texts after just 1 meeting with her. Def has a screw loose. Pics on SA are not her, the one attached is her and she looks like a donkey with a beer belly.
She was the last person I met before I canceled my membership and went back to escorts. She had just joined and on the first date it was immediately 20 million questions about who else I'm seeing, my dating history, some mess about something she called "roaching" that I didn't understand at all but apparently made her feel entitled to try to check my phone and come over unannounced. She would constantly text me and be like "Hello?? Where are you?" if I didn't write back immediately, and made an uncomfortable number of jokes involving her being pregnant which scared me off CIP.
I ended up leaving SA over her and a couple of other girls who were similar. I posted about the experience some months ago. There are less intense ways to get laid by hot young girls than that.
Ahh yes, I recall. Mia Collins was one of her other names. I was going to reach out to her for an arrangement until I found out she was more interested in escorting (not judging, just not what I'm looking for).
I don't understand what drives someone with such a top tier figure to escort. Someone like that could easily pull 5 k-10 k / mo in a more traditional sugar arrangement.
Is this the girl you guys are talking about? (see pic attached).
If so it all makes sense, met her 18 months or so ago on SA and she was a complete nut job. Wouldn't STFU to save her life, no filter (in a bad way), hounded me with texts after just 1 meeting with her. Def has a screw loose. Pics on SA are not her, the one attached is her and she looks like a donkey with a beer belly.This seeking profile: https://www.seeking.com/member/e2368d36-0109-4306-8df8-ccf26b1abc1b.
This is the mia collins profile from earlier this year: https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/mia-collins-3126680076-355744.
I've never met her so I don't know what she looks like in real life.
Hi.
So I got banned from SA. I guess they changed something, because I haven't done anything different. But anyways, any idea how do I get back on? I had a different account (under different email) and they clearly were able to associate the two. Thanks.
Is this the girl you guys are talking about? (see pic attached).
If so it all makes sense, met her 18 months or so ago on SA and she was a complete nut job. Wouldn't STFU to save her life, no filter (in a bad way), hounded me with texts after just 1 meeting with her. Def has a screw loose. Pics on SA are not her, the one attached is her and she looks like a donkey with a beer belly.The girl you posted is a pro.
https://tryst.link/bdsm/miss-anastasia
I use dayuse and a couple small motels. Dayuse hotels ask for cc for incidentals. I pay in cash. BUT they sometimes put through a reserve that shows as pending if your wife can check the online account balance. It drops off in a few days to a week. The small motels are fine with cash and no CC.You'll be at Motel 6 level and below with no credit card involved at all, so you'll have to consider the kind of impression that'll make with the type of girls you're shooting for. Most mainstream to upscale chains may let you pay in cash at checkout, but they'll almost always want a card to swipe for 'incidentals' when you check in. I've heard stories of some places taking a cash deposit instead of a card swipe up front, but the amount was something crazy like 150 or 200.
If you don't have a credit card under your control with no unwanted eyes on it, I think it'll be tough to play the SA game since hotel rooms are obviously a key requirement. FWIW, I used DayUse spots many times with a card for both deposit and payment and never had a single piece of paper mailed to me. I actually like to leave the room presentable with the key cards on the desk and just leave without going to the lobby to check out. Deposit always drops off and room charge stays on the card. In my opinion, if you try jumping through too many hoops to keep payments in cash, etc you're just going to stand out as doing something shady vs all the regular guests doing transactions normally.
I was msg'ing with her awhile ago and she kind of flaked when it came to setting firm plans to meet up and I didn't press it at all, just moved on. What was her PPM?She wasn't interested in a PPM, which was part of the problem. I don't know what she's like now, but at the time it was basically "$3000 for a month plus we hang out on weekends and go shopping". It started off a good deal because she was over like every day for hours so by week two she was cheaper than most escorts. But then she started coming over on days I didn't really want her or expect her to come over. And she wouldn't really take a hint that it was time to go. Then she was like "hey mind if I stay tonight? I have to be at x tomorrow and your place is real close" and each time more of her stuff wouldn't leave with her. By the end of the first month she somehow had a week's worth of clothes at my place and I don't know how that happened.
For the first couple of weeks I thought it was awesome because between the allowance, meals and occasional shopping trips it was working out to like $50 per hour. But then I realized that it was because she was quickly building her life around me and I knew I had to do something to get out of the situation before she ended up with keys and my credit card for buying nursery furniture.
I feel bad for whatever guy doesn't catch what's happening before it's too late.
Hello, does anyone have experience getting a hotel room without a credit card. I am concerned about a paper trail. Thanks.Can you explain what trail you're trying to avoid leaving? Charges from wife? The description of hotel on the charge? Hotel literature to your house? A hotel record of you being there? You may be able to get around using a card but they will almost certainly ask for at least one form of I'd.
She wasn't interested in a PPM, which was part of the problem. I don't know what she's like now, but at the time it was basically "$3000 for a month plus we hang out on weekends and go shopping". It started off a good deal because she was over like every day for hours so by week two she was cheaper than most escorts. But then she started coming over on days I didn't really want her or expect her to come over. And she wouldn't really take a hint that it was time to go. Then she was like "hey mind if I stay tonight? I have to be at x tomorrow and your place is real close" and each time more of her stuff wouldn't leave with her. By the end of the first month she somehow had a week's worth of clothes at my place and I don't know how that happened.
For the first couple of weeks I thought it was awesome because between the allowance, meals and occasional shopping trips it was working out to like $50 per hour. But then I realized that it was because she was quickly building her life around me and I knew I had to do something to get out of the situation before she ended up with keys and my credit card for buying nursery furniture.
I feel bad for whatever guy doesn't catch what's happening before it's too late.Please tell me she at least put out.
GetOnUrKnees
08-29-21, 19:26
It is going to be hard for her to make 5-10 k a month off sugaring. She is uneducated and doesn't speak English. She is not the type you could take to a work function or dinner. Her personality is also kind of blah.
She does have a great body and her tits are natural and top tier.She doesn't speak English? How does she communicate on text to setup a meet? Google translate? Or you think she has a pimp or booker type helping her? What does she speak? LOL.
GetOnUrKnees
08-29-21, 19:37
Quick report been meeting Alpalxoxo from SA awhile now. I believe a few guys here posted about how she wasn't replying. I think she's not very responsive due to she's an alcoholic and a hot mess. One of the times we met at the hotel she asked me if she should bring vodka from the car into the room. I told her no, because I actually like sober sex. Otherwise a sweet girl and appreciates the $ help.
Can you explain what trail you're trying to avoid leaving? Charges from wife? The description of hotel on the charge? Hotel literature to your house? A hotel record of you being there? You may be able to get around using a card but they will almost certainly ask for at least one form of I'd.I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.
TimeForPlay10
08-29-21, 21:24
Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8I met her in early summer for a meet / greet. Good personality, cute and has a nice body but complexion wasn't very good. We didn't discuss allowance in person but when we texted after, she gave me the same 2 k-3 k range for a "few dates" per month. I didn't even bother negotiating. I would consider at 300-400 but not a chance beyond that.
TimeForPlay10
08-30-21, 00:29
Anyone else try for this one? We switched to text recently and she blasted me with 2000-3000 a month, then lowered to 1000 for two meets a month (not awful in my opinion) and then I suggested 300-400 ppm prior to an allowance and she was okay with that. Has called herself "a very sexual being" multiple times LOL.This is actually the one I met not the one in the previous post. I met her in early summer for a meet / greet. Good personality, cute and has a nice body but complexion wasn't very good. We didn't discuss allowance in person but when we texted after, she gave me the same 2 k-3 k range for a "few dates" per month. I didn't even bother negotiating. I would consider at 300-400 but not a chance beyond that. She's thinks very highly of herself too which I find annoying from young twenty somethings in general. Please ignore my previous post-can't figure out how to delete a post.
Hello, does anyone have experience getting a hotel room without a credit card. I am concerned about a paper trail. Thanks.I have been using Walmart money card for years without hitch. They don't send you a paper statement and you can check your transactions and balance online. I load it with cash for 3 $ fee. It works for online or in person hotel pay, parking fees, incident deposit, restaurants and presents if I want to treat the girl. The only thing is to be careful checking your mail when ordering it or renewing it, but at that point you know it will be coming in few days, so I just check my mail every day for few days. I havent received too many hotel letters by mail and I used to travel a lot for work, so I had a ready made lie that the hotel send me that cause I had stayed at their hotel chain for work. Few times I was able to put my work as my home address for extra security.
ChicagoBred33
08-30-21, 10:07
Quick report been meeting Alpalxoxo from SA awhile now. I believe a few guys here posted about how she wasn't replying. I think she's not very responsive due to she's an alcoholic and a hot mess. One of the times we met at the hotel she asked me if she should bring vodka from the car into the room. I told her no, because I actually like sober sex. Otherwise a sweet girl and appreciates the $ help.Had the same experience. Nice girl, amazing tits, absolute alcoholic and can get sloppy which quickly became annoying.
Anyone get this one to meet?
Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.
Looks like she has a great pair of tits.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20cd94-c039-44a4-bd28-615b7d05cae8I did a meet and greet with her and she looked better in person than I expected. Agreed to $500 PPM next visit. However she has a personality disorder or something. Just can't keep herself from saying or messaging really off-putting stuff. I found something better and never followed through. Imagine that if in the first 15 minutes of meeting her it's already the same feeling as the last month of the worst relationship you've ever been in. It's possible she was created by one of the more mischievous Greek gods as a way to torture lustful men in the afterlife. If she could just find it in herself to pretend to be sweet, she'd make tons of money.
GetOnUrKnees
08-30-21, 10:59
I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.I use dayuse because I can only do stuff in daytime and it's like half the price at nice hotels. Have not gotten any actual mail to house, only a few emails of promotions. I also do occasional cash motels that are cleaner. You can search reviews on ChicagoLand motels that are cleaner, TripAdvisor, and won't upset the sb. I haven't had complaints. But for motel it's best to meet at a coffee shop first if it's the first meet. If you are nice and put it the right way (oh there's a festival-Chicago event" so, and looks like nice ones are all booked LOL) . They will overlook it. In a pinch there my suv, LOL the office after hours, or invest in an RV?
I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.There is nothing more discrete than an Air BNB, if you get marketing mail (which I never have) it's very easy to associate it to a prior trip or future trip you have planned. You reduce the risk of one of your wives friends seeing you go into a hotel etc. I have a small side business with chase / Amex business credit cards that allow me to create employee cards with completely random names (no ss# required) With business credit the inquiry goes against your personal credit but the balance doesn't report on your personal credit. You can always get cards sent to your office, PO Box etc. I also use privacy.com which allows you to generate virtual credit cards using funds from a bank account, it allows you to use random names and addresses and it allows you to mask the transition from Hilton.com to privacy.com/ hardware store / convenience store / etc.
Everyone has mentioned prepaid cards before but sites like Robinhood, cash app allow you to create debit cards as well. Apple Cash (not the CC) is an option as well. You can have a friend send you cash app or Apple Cash as your funding source.
Please tell me she at least put out.Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.
Then she started "joking" that she was late.
The whole thing was creepy.
Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.
Then she started "joking" that she was late.
The whole thing was creepy.Seems like she wants to trap a guy for monthly money for herself and child support for good measure.
I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.I wouldn't worry so much about paper mailed ads, since I don't see any of that from either these kind of stays or legitimate business / family trips. On the off chance it happens, it should be pretty easily explainable away as junk mail.
But I do see the credit card issue as a big obstacle for you. Even if one of the 'hacks' from the other posters work, that puts you in the position of withdrawing and / or moving cash around to have it on hand or load one of these other payment options. If your credit card activity is not private, are you sure you can pull off that kind of cash coming out of your account in a short time without questions being asked? If you're doing a typical PPM allowance, full price of the hotel room, and deposit / incidentals all in cash that would easily be 500 to 1 k in play for one session. If you have bank accounts under your control that are managed differently from your credit cards, then maybe you're ok. But if your spouse watches your bank account in the same way as the credit cards, it still seems like a version of the same issue. But hope you work it out and are able to have some fun!
But I do see the credit card issue as a big obstacle for you. Even if one of the 'hacks' from the other posters work, that puts you in the position of withdrawing and / or moving cash around to have it on hand or load one of these other payment options. If your credit card activity is not private, are you sure you can pull off that kind of cash coming out of your account in a short time without questions being asked?This is the exact reason I have avoided SA and even my general mongering is more limited than I want. It is nearly impossible to move money around if you had not previously moved money around and do not own your own business. If you work for someone else and your spouse is used to money coming in from your employer and going out for normal expenses and entertainment, it is very hard to find ways to shift 1 K plus a month. QV at 80-100 is much easier.
The thing that sucks is that I have seen a couple random people pop up on SA that I have either seen out and about or might see on IG and there is no way a guy with average looks, dad bod would have a shot with those women. But I'm not paying 1 K in hotel fees and donation for one shot. Too hard to do for me and not economical when that money could be spread over a few months with EB junkies. .
A guy responded to one of my vanilla personal ads and wants me to fuck his girlfriend with him. He wants to watch and do like a chicken-on-a-spit thing. Maybe get a little rough with her. He sent me a pic and she looks pretty good. Mid to late 20's. I'd *definitely* fuck her if there wasn't another guy in the room.
I've been chatting with him. It's not for me. They don't want any payment but would like someone to host. Also important for them to find someone fit, professional, respectful and attractive. Like a dentist who bikes a lot or something. They sound extremely new to any sort of "scene" so this might be a good chance for one of you weirdos to have a good time and show this chick the ropes.
He didn't ask me to post this, but I'll pass along one or two prospects to him as a way of saying "thanks, but no thanks. " If you fit the bill, shoot me a note.
Agoraphobe
08-30-21, 18:47
This is the exact reason I have avoided SA and even my general mongering is more limited than I want. It is nearly impossible to move money around if you had not previously moved money around and do not own your own business. If you work for someone else and your spouse is used to money coming in from your employer and going out for normal expenses and entertainment, it is very hard to find ways to shift 1 K plus a month. QV at 80-100 is much easier.
The thing that sucks is that I have seen a couple random people pop up on SA that I have either seen out and about or might see on IG and there is no way a guy with average looks, dad bod would have a shot with those women. But I'm not paying 1 K in hotel fees and donation for one shot. Too hard to do for me and not economical when that money could be spread over a few months with EB junkies. .Share links to those people you knew and saw pop up on SA and you can live vicariously through us LOL.
Agoraphobe
08-30-21, 19:36
Ran across this profile and she seemed familiar. Eventually remembered that I had seen her fetlife profile before LOL.
It's funny she's ShyNerdyGirl on SA but ChiFuckSlut there. Says she won't send you nudes on SA but posts a bunch of them on FL. Too old for me but she's into some kinky shit so figured I'd share in case any of you want to take a swing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9332f0ba-f4f4-41fd-a8de-7a67a6faf963
JustinFields
08-30-21, 20:23
Not very hot, but is extremely eager to meet!
Anyone have any info?
https://www.seeking.com/member/1c5d451b-a8c2-4579-ae67-188b7e7161e9
JustinFields
08-30-21, 20:26
Has been around and half the guys in here have probably seen her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/093263cd-1339-4609-9e16-c0e23f65b1e0
Anyone care to share a report?
Pm me if you prefer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5baa9bef-2399-490b-a205-6443af47aa28
This one will tell you nothings off limits and drive to your place. Wants the money right outside your door before going in. I said sure since I'm not wasting time going anywhere. I planned on giving her an empty envelope. If she runs I'm not at a loss but if she didn't then I'd reward her honesty later. Turns out she just grabbed the envelope and hopped in the car and drove off.
Be careful. Will try to rush you.
Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.
Then she started "joking" that she was late.
The whole thing was creepy.Was the sex worth the money?
I read an article a while ago about mongering that I found helpful. The guy was saying that preparation for the hobby is key for the married guys. I am fortunate to have a flexible schedule with odd hours especially prior to Covid but if you have a 9 to 5 job and a nosy wife it is a good idea to start by finding a hobby few month prior to starting mongering and he recommended swimming cause you can't pick up your phone or answer texts while in the pool and can explain why you return home freshly showered. The wife can start snooping around but you are really going to the pool at YMCA 1 - 2 a week for 2 - 3 months, but she won't find anything and lower her guard and then you can use the window you had carved to play instead of going to the pool. As far as money is concerned the author suggested to squirrel away small amounts over time and I was using my debit card at Costco to take 60 $ at the time and also I told my employers to send me paper checks instead of direct deposit and I will take 100 - 200 $ cash and deposit the rest. I personally prefer to play less often and "splurge" once a month for 300 - 500 $ instead of paying 75 $ for a high volume trashy ones, but obviously it depends on your financial capabilities. Of course you need a text app and e. Mail dedicated only for mongering. For me the saying "Pigs get fed and hogs get slaughtered" has been working well and if you play smart and not too often you can hide your secret life for a long time and my wife is a big time Gestapo but I have been successful with these strategy tips so far.
Share links to those people you knew and saw pop up on SA and you can live vicariously through us LOL.I posted one below who I saw once or twice in a music venue pre-covid and this one is on IG. She's in LA, where I travel for business meetings from time to time. No way she's going to be in budget, unfortunately.
https://www.seeking.com/member/440a9ae4-6cfe-425b-ac9a-f2ec9822d2c0
Sorry to hear about your experience. You didn't waste money but she wasted your time which hurts even more. She told me she can meet me in Schaumburg. When I pushed for some details the responses were all pro like.
I didn't partake as I never felt comfortable enough.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5baa9bef-2399-490b-a205-6443af47aa28
This one will tell you nothings off limits and drive to your place. Wants the money right outside your door before going in. I said sure since I'm not wasting time going anywhere. I planned on giving her an empty envelope. If she runs I'm not at a loss but if she didn't then I'd reward her honesty later. Turns out she just grabbed the envelope and hopped in the car and drove off.
Be careful. Will try to rush you.
This is the exact reason I have avoided SA and even my general mongering is more limited than I want. It is nearly impossible to move money around if you had not previously moved money around and do not own your own business. If you work for someone else and your spouse is used to money coming in from your employer and going out for normal expenses and entertainment, it is very hard to find ways to shift 1 K plus a month. QV at 80-100 is much easier.
The thing that sucks is that I have seen a couple random people pop up on SA that I have either seen out and about or might see on IG and there is no way a guy with average looks, dad bod would have a shot with those women. But I'm not paying 1 K in hotel fees and donation for one shot. Too hard to do for me and not economical when that money could be spread over a few months with EB junkies. .It can be done with a little planning, but its all predicated on having at least some of the financial tools completely under your control. I have a few cards just in my name that I opened for balance transfers years ago. I also have a credit union account from an old employer that we've had car loans through in the past, but it also has a checking account and debit card just in my name. All of those have been set to paperless. That gives me a couple of ways that I can make some small extra payments or deposits to cover hotels and make cash available to withdraw, and it wouldn't be easily noticed.
Obviously if you have completely merged finances and a wife or SO who's very involved then this kind of approach isn't really possible. Working from home has shut down my SA game for awhile, but I started out very nervous about this a few years ago and gradually worked it all into a routine because I loved the variety and more time behind closed doors with the SA experiences. I definitely wouldn't do it if you don't think you can control the paper trail end to end. I'm even nervous from some Covid related stories I've heard lately that have nothing to do with the finances. One buddy who does this in another state got contact traced because someone on the cleaning staff at the hotel they used for a few hours tested positive, and another got bombarded with questions about why he was booking a room for a short stay when he had a local address.
Many years ago, switched his payroll to give him two checks each month. One went home and one into his playtime account. Just prior to his divorce he had diverted enough to put his newest girlfriend into an apartment.
It can be done with a little planning, but its all predicated on having at least some of the financial tools completely under your control. I have a few cards just in my name that I opened for balance transfers years ago. I also have a credit union account from an old employer that we've had car loans through in the past, but it also has a checking account and debit card just in my name. All of those have been set to paperless. That gives me a couple of ways that I can make some small extra payments or deposits to cover hotels and make cash available to withdraw, and it wouldn't be easily noticed.
Obviously if you have completely merged finances and a wife or SO who's very involved then this kind of approach isn't really possible. Working from home has shut down my SA game for awhile, but I started out very nervous about this a few years ago and gradually worked it all into a routine because I loved the variety and more time behind closed doors with the SA experiences. I definitely wouldn't do it if you don't think you can control the paper trail end to end. I'm even nervous from some Covid related stories I've heard lately that have nothing to do with the finances. One buddy who does this in another state got contact traced because someone on the cleaning staff at the hotel they used for a few hours tested positive, and another got bombarded with questions about why he was booking a room for a short stay when he had a local address.
Was the sex worth the money?Worth the money? I guess.
Worth the hassle and crazy? No.
When I want value, I just do conventional dating. But this girl had all the hassle of conventional dating and wanted $3000 a month on top of that. It's the worst of both worlds haha.
I've never been married so maybe this is normal and I didn't realize it, but is it that common to have 100% blended finances? No separate accounts or cards at all whatsoever?
I was always under the impression that married couples have a joint account for joint expenses and savings but then each had their own thing.
I've never been married so maybe this is normal and I didn't realize it, but is it that common to have 100% blended finances? No separate accounts or cards at all whatsoever?
I was always under the impression that married couples have a joint account for joint expenses and savings but then each had their own thing.I think there's lots of different philosophies on this, so its all over the place, I'm guessing with a lot depending on the ages people get hitched and what kind of careers they have. Hobby motivations completely aside, your SSN and credit score / history are unique to you no matter who you marry and how much money they make, so my opinion is its important for everyone to have at least a little of their own credit 'identity'. I'm guessing most people who meet with some sort of career and credit history are of like minds, where they may open some joint cards but also keep ones they established before they met. Younger couples who meet when they're just starting out may not be in the same boat, though.
Cash management is trickier. If you have a decent double income, I don't think its realistic to juggle a large mortgage, car payments, expensive kid activities, etc with money going into two separate accounts, unless you're maybe living well below your means. At least in my case, a joint checking account is so busy with daily transactions, scheduled payments, etc that small to modest 'extra' transactions won't usually get noticed.
Of course all of this is out the window if you have a controlling or suspicious SO who wants to review everything, so everyone's got to take a good look at their own situation. I'm personally not in that kind of relationship, but at times where finances were a touchy subject or joint things were being reviewed (refinancing, etc), I definitely made sure anything hobby related was suspended long enough to not be visible on any recent statements.
Some bank accounts (all?) will show cashback coming with transactions. So you go to Target, buy whatever junk you buy, and withdraw 60 to start to build up for the hobby, that 60 shows up on the bank statement as cashback.
I've never been married so maybe this is normal and I didn't realize it, but is it that common to have 100% blended finances? No separate accounts or cards at all whatsoever?That's a good way to wind up like John Malkovich in Burn After Reading.
StanCopier
08-31-21, 14:45
Met her for lunch to meet, gave her a few dollars, then a week or two later met her at a hotel. Immaculate body, likes for you to shower with her and she continues to shower after every round. Nice girls, talks like an 80's valley girl, decent sex. We were very friendly then she disappeared, which from what I have read seems to be here thing.
Has been around and half the guys in here have probably seen her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/093263cd-1339-4609-9e16-c0e23f65b1e0
Anyone care to share a report?
Pm me if you prefer.
Woodson2019
09-01-21, 09:37
Met her last week for a drink. She is on SA everyday. Profile pic is not her. Private pics were her but maybe 7-10 years ago. Closer to 40 yo, 20-30 lbs heavier. Annoying.
https://www.seeking.com/member/452fbe82-1a8f-4a0c-9c11-0247ebd712e7
I've never been married so maybe this is normal and I didn't realize it, but is it that common to have 100% blended finances? No separate accounts or cards at all whatsoever?
I was always under the impression that married couples have a joint account for joint expenses and savings but then each had their own thing.My wife and I have both shared and separate accounts and I have 5-6 Credit cards she doesn't have access to that date back to my travel for work days so I can easily hide my expenses from her. The thing with women is they can smell happiness on you and once they do you better have your story straight and all the evidence hidden. If you guys start having more sex or less sex, you start coming home earlier or later. Anything suspicious she will start questioning. Why do you have so much cash on you? Where did you spend that cash you had in your wallet yesterday?
Has been around and half the guys in here have probably seen her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/093263cd-1339-4609-9e16-c0e23f65b1e0
Anyone care to share a report?
Pm me if you prefer.Several positive reports over the past 1-1. 5 years or so. Used to do BBFS / CIP but stopped. When I talked to her she was still open to BBBJ. Nothing in the back door. And yeah, she's known to ghost out of nowhere. I never met up with her because of distance, but she's hot and nice.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5baa9bef-2399-490b-a205-6443af47aa28
This one will tell you nothings off limits and drive to your place. Wants the money right outside your door before going in. I said sure since I'm not wasting time going anywhere. I planned on giving her an empty envelope. If she runs I'm not at a loss but if she didn't then I'd reward her honesty later. Turns out she just grabbed the envelope and hopped in the car and drove off.
Be careful. Will try to rush you.She's had multiple accounts, wanted $50 deposit and another $150 when we met, yeah, no thanks.
I read an article a while ago about mongering that I found helpful. The guy was saying that preparation for the hobby is key for the married guys. I am fortunate to have a flexible schedule with odd hours especially prior to Covid but if you have a 9 to 5 job and a nosy wife it is a good idea to start by finding a hobby few month prior to starting mongering and he recommended swimming cause you can't pick up your phone or answer texts while in the pool and can explain why you return home freshly showered. The wife can start snooping around but you are really going to the pool at YMCA 1 - 2 a week for 2 - 3 months, but she won't find anything and lower her guard and then you can use the window you had carved to play instead of going to the pool. As far as money is concerned the author suggested to squirrel away small amounts over time and I was using my debit card at Costco to take 60 $ at the time and also I told my employers to send me paper checks instead of direct deposit and I will take 100 - 200 $ cash and deposit the rest. I personally prefer to play less often and "splurge" once a month for 300 - 500 $ instead of paying 75 $ for a high volume trashy ones, but obviously it depends on your financial capabilities. Of course you need a text app and e. Mail dedicated only for mongering. For me the saying "Pigs get fed and hogs get slaughtered" has been working well and if you play smart and not too often you can hide your secret life for a long time and my wife is a big time Gestapo but I have been successful with these strategy tips so far.I pretty much do all of this, including the swimming but without realizing it. If you have a reason, say you have the ability to do a side hustle, open up a new bank account for business although this is all cash based so I suppose a sock drawer works too. Only time it got complicated was when I did the sugar bowl which is almost like another marriage.
I'm wondering if anyone had any experience with South asian / Indian girls on seeking. It's been on my bucket list.
JustinFields
09-02-21, 09:23
I'm wondering if anyone had any experience with South asian / Indian girls on seeking. It's been on my bucket list.Yes, I had a few from seeking. From my limited experience they like to ask a high price but will come down.
Several positive reports over the past 1-1. 5 years or so. Used to do BBFS / CIP but stopped. When I talked to her she was still open to BBBJ. Nothing in the back door. And yeah, she's known to ghost out of nowhere. I never met up with her because of distance, but she's hot and nice.Met her once last year, good time (BBBJ, but covered otherwise). Great body, very laid back, fun. And yeah then just disappeared. If you can hook up with her, I'd do it. She drives too, so location or distance is not a problem (at least wasn't for me).
HitMan1783
09-02-21, 23:50
Hey guys. Any info on this one. https://www.seeking.com/member/c559fa6f-6423-48b7-880c-4ff1ed8024b7.
Any info on this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/67e4344e-fd3e-4141-b2df-68bddb6379e7.
She looks familiar. Friend of mine said she offered BBFS.
Traded a few messages with this one. Seems real. I think most guys stay away from Joliet but it works for my situation. Curious if anyone has some intel to share. Seems to be on-line a lot.
https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0c32-a968-4c56-ad15-8e2347b46fac
Traded a few messages with this one. Seems real. I think most guys stay away from Joliet but it works for my situation. Curious if anyone has some intel to share. Seems to be on-line a lot.
https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0c32-a968-4c56-ad15-8e2347b46facCurrently exchanging messages with her now. I'm almost there (locking a deal). I will report back when it's done.
Woodson2019
09-03-21, 12:00
Met her last week. As you can probably guess, pictures are not her. She is slim but not like the pics. More like 5/6. Russian. Having a conversation was like pulling teeth.
https://www.seeking.com/member/761fbb2f-4e30-4f6c-a5ce-5ddba8e5c5df
Limeyincal
09-03-21, 12:49
https://www.seeking.com/member/586a59fc-2926-4021-9342-72d2925f43fa
This one contacted me first (warning sign # 1).
When texting said she was based at O'Hare (warning sign # 2).
Agreed to BBFS and 3 inpouts very quickly (warning sign # 3).
Wanted me so send a token for trust and pay for pics (warning sign # 4).
Asked for an advance before we met (even though I had told her 3 times no advances) (warning sign # 5).
Nope. Blocked her!
Location listed as Illinois, Illinois should have been an early warning sign too. Scammers all use State, State locations for some reason.
https://www.seeking.com/member/586a59fc-2926-4021-9342-72d2925f43fa
This one contacted me first (warning sign # 1).
When texting said she was based at O'Hare (warning sign # 2).
Agreed to BBFS and 3 inpouts very quickly (warning sign # 3).
Wanted me so send a token for trust and pay for pics (warning sign # 4).
Asked for an advance before we met (even though I had told her 3 times no advances) (warning sign # 5).
Nope. Blocked her!
Location listed as Illinois, Illinois should have been an early warning sign too. Scammers all use State, State locations for some reason.This is always a quick give away for escorts as well. They list "downtown" (anyone who researches Chicago would list the Loop), they list their phone number for location, or they list "text" Usually the ad contains OF info. , so they are posting to build paid followers, but sometimes it's clear that the ad is just a scam: "I only do outcall. You must send a deposit to cover my Uber or cab fare. " Yeah, right.
Traded a few messages with this one. Seems real. I think most guys stay away from Joliet but it works for my situation. Curious if anyone has some intel to share. Seems to be on-line a lot.
https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0c32-a968-4c56-ad15-8e2347b46facTalked a bunch, finally set a date to meet. And I got ghosted the day of.
ChrisHansen92
09-03-21, 20:22
She is getting free money from simps. Not you or me tho. A Seeking girl just left my house. While we were alone another guy she broke it off 3 months ago with that was her giving 500, was lonely and desperate tonight. He sent her 2 Venmo 50 buck payments then a 100 payment. Offering her another 500 tonight to come over. She might be headed over there IDK and don't care LOL. My point is desperate lonely simps will pay anything for the hope of pussy. She was actually laughing showing me the Venmo payments while I was banging her. I gave her 250 and advised her to milk him for all he has. You suckers doing this driving up prices should pay thru the nose and deserve it.
Location listed as Illinois, Illinois should have been an early warning sign too. Scammers all use State, State locations for some reason.
GetOnUrKnees
09-03-21, 22:51
I'm wondering if anyone had any experience with South asian / Indian girls on seeking. It's been on my bucket list.Well there's a Pakistani girl out of Skokie? I'm sure one of the guys here can help you with her link LOL. I had met her before covid started so not sure how she is lately. Prior post I saw described as village bicycle.
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TimeForPlay10
09-04-21, 08:47
Talked a bunch, finally set a date to meet. And I got ghosted the day of.Messaged back / forth for about a week. She even confirmed the night before. Completely ghosted the day of meet.
Agoraphobe
09-04-21, 12:25
Well there's a Pakistani girl out of Skokie? I'm sure one of the guys here can help you with her link LOL. I had met her before covid started so not sure how she is lately. Prior post I saw described as village bicycle.Here ya go. https://www.seeking.com/member/d55d9596-e841-400c-8271-2ef5da11d499.
LOL I feel bad for whatever dude her parents end up arrange marrying her off to.
I tried to contact her but no response.
She is online everyday. I am curious. Anyone have experience with this girl?
Any info on this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/67e4344e-fd3e-4141-b2df-68bddb6379e7.
She looks familiar. Friend of mine said she offered BBFS.
HarryMcHardon
09-04-21, 22:53
I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.You have plenty of options. You are where I was several years ago, when I despaired of having no private CC. Still don't have one. Does my SO look at the charges or statements often? Not much. Could she, for some unforeseen reason? Yes! So I never take the chance. But I did find ways around it, using cash, and haven't really had too much an issue. But you won't be able to stay in top tier places. You need to find places that accept cash for the room AND either 1.) require no security deposit, or 2.) accept cash for security deposit. Most the time, you will be relegated to 1 star places which require no security deposits, like M6 or Red Roof. (I avoid independent dumps or hourly notels.) The next step up is 2 star and even some 3 star that will accept cash for the room and require deposit, but will accept cash for deposit. The deposit at these places will be $50 to $200 paid up front, when checking in. Although I have had a few waive the deposit when they see me. (The benefit of being a neatly dressed old white guy I guess. LOL).
I do Motel 6's a lot. Most are clean and seem to be well run. Cash for room, no security deposit required. The drawback is the clientele, sometimes fringy type people stay there. You may need to walk through a cloud of smoke at the entrance, as you pass smoking guests on your way in. LOL. And you may pass someone walking a giant Bull Mastiff in the hallway. All to be expected. But it may scare some SBs though. But mostly I haven't had a problem. Most the time, I will meet them in the parking lot and walk with them to the room, which makes it feel safer for them. These things can only be a problem in the beginning with a new SB, though. I just joke about it and try to make it fun.
Plenty of Red Roofs and also accept cash and no deposit. I have also found some Super 8's, Days Inns, Comfort Inns and even some higher level type places will accept cash for room also – but these need up to $200 up front for security deposit Never had a problem getting my deposit returned. You just have to call around and ask to see what their cash policy is. Also in general, in high end and urban areas, it's more difficult to find these, while in rural and poorer areas, easier to find hotels that accept cash.
Many hotels say they will accept cash but only upon check-out, they want your CC when checking in. No fn way. I don't want some knucklehead hotel employee accidentally charging my card. Of course, they'll say this charge can be reversed, but can you trust that transaction will disappear? Or will it be debit appear to cancel it out, where both transactions stay on the statement? Not worth taking a chance on. I have never given a motel / hotel my CC#, ever. And won't!!
NOW – does it affect the quality level of SB's I get? Probably. But I don't go for the high end types anyway. I've had plenty of fun with young hot SBs in these motels though, and that's what this is all about!
I am sure everyone's "YMMV" but can you share some links on seeking of young SBs you have taken to motels? I've never had success with motels. They hear the name and either make an excuse or if in person they just flat out say no.
Also most you g hot SBs are in the city. Very rarely do I find them in the burbs.
Any input from anyone on this?
You have plenty of options. You are where I was several years ago, when I despaired of having no private CC. Still don't have one. Does my SO look at the charges or statements often? Not much. Could she, for some unforeseen reason? Yes! So I never take the chance. But I did find ways around it, using cash, and haven't really had too much an issue. But you won't be able to stay in top tier places. You need to find places that accept cash for the room AND either 1.) require no security deposit, or 2.) accept cash for security deposit. Most the time, you will be relegated to 1 star places which require no security deposits, like M6 or Red Roof. (I avoid independent dumps or hourly notels.) The next step up is 2 star and even some 3 star that will accept cash for the room and require deposit, but will accept cash for deposit. The deposit at these places will be $50 to $200 paid up front, when checking in. Although I have had a few waive the deposit when they see me. (The benefit of being a neatly dressed old white guy I guess. LOL).
I do Motel 6's a lot. Most are clean and seem to be well run. Cash for room, no security deposit required. The drawback is the clientele, sometimes fringy type people stay there. You may need to walk through a cloud of smoke at the entrance, as you pass smoking guests on your way in. LOL. And you may pass someone walking a giant Bull Mastiff in the hallway. All to be expected. But it may scare some SBs though. But mostly I haven't had a problem. Most the time, I will meet them in the parking lot and walk with them to the room, which makes it feel safer for them. These things can only be a problem in the beginning with a new SB, though. I just joke about it and try to make it fun.
Agoraphobe
09-05-21, 17:50
Anyone got anything on any of these?
https://www.seeking.com/member/369fc108-2454-437d-bd15-d9e26bce946e
https://www.seeking.com/member/a81292fb-4561-44a3-8745-bd3311b601f9
https://www.seeking.com/member/ecba48d4-9d67-421f-ab6e-994da982f2f1
https://www.seeking.com/member/e354a972-8d51-44ee-a6cf-7ac6321706d3
She is on some scamming stuff but I did meet up with her. Had to use some methods to get her to chill but she was fun. $400. Good luck.
https://www.seeking.com/member/42f50a4a-49dc-4add-89d3-fbc733a5af07
The hardest to get to meet. She is busy. Is a student. $500.
https://www.seeking.com/member/72385466-bf6f-447a-ab3f-8020b13027c9
The quickest meet up I have ever had. A good girl. Fairly new to this. Be nice to her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/cca7e92c-c4c0-47f9-a905-617d2110b6dc
Great find. She knows her way around a arrangement. Great female to be around.
The last 2 I did not dream with.
SummerCheer
09-06-21, 18:07
Hey guys. I hope everyone is doing well. I was wondering if anyone knows of any bimbos on seeking? Especially if there cool with BBFS. I've been looking but got nothing yet. Or stripper LOL.
If you want you can reply to this or just PM.
Thanks and have a wonderful day!
ShyBoy2020
09-06-21, 23:22
How's it going everybody? I'm a newbie to the hobby and I've been lurking for about a week. Very entertaining to read up on all the reviews and advice. I had to create an account on seeking in order to view the links from the reviews. Today I got a message for 33% off and I took the plunge. I wasn't getting results until I added a photo, although I blurred my face. I also added a private photo showing my face. Is showing my face on seeking a good idea or should I remove it?
I see many reviews with price for ppm and services which have been agreed on. When setting up a ppm and price and what's included, is this done in seeking chat or do I have to move the convo to text? Or do I have to set up a meet and greet to discuss ppm and price? Sorry if this has been answered already. I'm looking forward to sharing my adventures and reviews as well!
Ex0 ticDuo. Scammer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/eada4c55-1c04-4b73-822f-676652d4cffc
Messaged me:
"Spoil me on cashapp daddy and pay for my nails and feet. I'll add you to my snap" add me on snap? Gtfoh! Refuses to meet in person.
OnlyDreams
09-07-21, 00:40
https://www.seeking.com/member/e354a972-8d51-44ee-a6cf-7ac6321706d3
The hardest to get to meet. She is busy. Is a student. $500.
https://www.seeking.com/member/72385466-bf6f-447a-ab3f-8020b13027c9
The reason it may be hard to meet her is because I thinks she's a pro. I doubt she's a student who is busy doing homework and wow! $500 ?? !! I hope you didn't pay that much! We talked a couple of months ago (her area code was 417 , don't know if she still has the same number.) and she even begged me to see her for $150 at her place. She was staying at a motel known for hookers / pimps and all kinds of shady things. No college student spends nights at those motels.
How's it going everybody? I'm a newbie to the hobby and I've been lurking for about a week. Very entertaining to read up on all the reviews and advice. I had to create an account on seeking in order to view the links from the reviews. Today I got a message for 33% off and I took the plunge. I wasn't getting results until I added a photo, although I blurred my face. I also added a private photo showing my face. Is showing my face on seeking a good idea or should I remove it?
I see many reviews with price for ppm and services which have been agreed on. When setting up a ppm and price and what's included, is this done in seeking chat or do I have to move the convo to text? Or do I have to set up a meet and greet to discuss ppm and price? Sorry if this has been answered already. I'm looking forward to sharing my adventures and reviews as well!
Ex0 ticDuo. Scammer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/eada4c55-1c04-4b73-822f-676652d4cffc
Messaged me:
"Spoil me on cashapp daddy and pay for my nails and feet. I'll add you to my snap" add me on snap? Gtfoh! Refuses to meet in person.I think blurring your face is better especially if you have a job that you may get in trouble should your secret life becomes exposed. If you are a trucker or a construction guy probably it won't matter. Always move the convo to a text or in person and never discuss money on SA cause your account will get banned. I always prefer meet and greet unless I had read good reviews about the girl. As far as services offered I don't discuss it upfront cause many SA will feel you are treating them as escorts although they are in a way amateur escorts besides if you ask if they offer BBFS upfront they will refuse it, while in the heat of the moment if you schmooze them and instill trust in them they are likely to agree especially if you decide to repeat. The only question I like to clarify is how much time they plan to spend with me to avoid being shortened on the service although this is not a guarantee that they won't lie and say few hours, but come up with a lie and leave as soon as possible and few got mad even for even asking about that.
ShyBoy2020
09-07-21, 09:32
I think blurring your face is better especially if you have a job that you may get in trouble should your secret life becomes exposed. If you are a trucker or a construction guy probably it won't matter. Always move the convo to a text or in person and never discuss money on SA cause your account will get banned. I always prefer meet and greet unless I had read good reviews about the girl. As far as services offered I don't discuss it upfront cause many SA will feel you are treating them as escorts although they are in a way amateur escorts besides if you ask if they offer BBFS upfront they will refuse it, while in the heat of the moment if you schmooze them and instill trust in them they are likely to agree especially if you decide to repeat. The only question I like to clarify is how much time they plan to spend with me to avoid being shortened on the service although this is not a guarantee that they won't lie and say few hours, but come up with a lie and leave as soon as possible and few got mad even for even asking about that.Thank you for the advise! Time to put this new google voice phone number to use!
Thank you for the advise! Time to put this new google voice phone number to use!You should blur your face on a photo that has never been posted online preferably with a plain background. Reverse image searches can match a blurred photo to a non-blured. I reversed image searched a girl once that had her face blurred out and it found her LinkedIn in profile. Funny thing was I knew her in real life.
JustinFields
09-07-21, 12:14
Anyone got anything on any of these?
https://www.seeking.com/member/369fc108-2454-437d-bd15-d9e26bce946e
https://www.seeking.com/member/a81292fb-4561-44a3-8745-bd3311b601f9
https://www.seeking.com/member/ecba48d4-9d67-421f-ab6e-994da982f2f1I tried to set something up with all 3 and nothing came out of it so I can't comment. That being said they are probably great lays if no one has commented on them. When there are silence in these forums I take it as a positive!
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09-07-21, 20:18
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For a bs reason. I do photography and it got mention mid conversation as someone asked what I do for work. Girl I was talking to asked if I could take her picture (no talk of money) and I said I would. Apparently that's enough to get marked as a violation. Does anyone know if something like this has to get reported (as in she reported me) or is there some algorithm that picks up key words in conversations and flags them as a breach of terms and conditions. Got suspended for 24 hours and the next one is for good, so want to make sure I watch what I say.
I have on my profile that I'm a photographer.
If you mention at all: OF or any of the pay sites, that for sure triggers the algorithm.
For a bs reason. I do photography and it got mention mid conversation as someone asked what I do for work. Girl I was talking to asked if I could take her picture (no talk of money) and I said I would. Apparently that's enough to get marked as a violation. Does anyone know if something like this has to get reported (as in she reported me) or is there some algorithm that picks up key words in conversations and flags them as a breach of terms and conditions. Got suspended for 24 hours and the next one is for good, so want to make sure I watch what I say.
ShyBoy2020
09-08-21, 10:43
You should blur your face on a photo that has never been posted online preferably with a plain background. Reverse image searches can match a blurred photo to a non-blured. I reversed image searched a girl once that had her face blurred out and it found her LinkedIn in profile. Funny thing was I knew her in real life.Thanks for your input on my question about pictures. Awesome story that you knew the girl from the reverse image search in real life. Did you ever follow up with her and try your luck?
Agoraphobe
09-08-21, 11:42
Why?
You should feel no worse than you would for your husband. You're posting on a site to help connect with these women. You think you're somehow superior to them? How would your husband feel if he saw your body count? That's a shitty thing to say.Do you think I'm a woman? For the record I'm a dude and unmarried. Regardless, sorry I offended your delicate sensibilities here on this forum about paying for sex LOL.
Thanks for your input on my question about pictures. Awesome story that you knew the girl from the reverse image search in real life. Did you ever follow up with her and try your luck?I actually didn't it was a little too close for comfort, we rode the Metra together, had mutual friends and I used to randomly run into her at bars that I have frequented with my wife.
As an example I cropped Beyonce's head off and did a reverse search attached.
I tried to set something up with all 3 and nothing came out of it so I can't comment. That being said they are probably great lays if no one has commented on them. When there are silence in these forums I take it as a positive!I've tried with the third one, but no luck. I like her look but she was a no-go.
OnlyDreams
09-08-21, 12:58
The guy who told me about SA advised me to create multiple accounts under different names (2 or 3) and use different pictures. You do that before you get any warning / suspension / ban. Only one account can be paid subscription. Then if that account gets suspended / banned you can active a paid membership on the other one and so on. That's how scammers do.
* And one more important thing:
Always report scammers / content seller, I was told that if you report them, the system sees you as an aid. The more you report them, the more "favorable points" you get and the algorithm makes your account kind of untouchable. If you think deeply, it makes sense, Have you notice the same scammers / content sellers don't get banned easily? Simply because they tend to report guys who don't follow their BS.
RusselJimmies
09-09-21, 07:42
I noticed on Seeking there's a bunch of super-cute Asian girls with short and weirdly cryptic profiles that seem very foreign or "fresh off the boat. " Their age range tends to be between 30 and 35 though they look much younger (even accounting for the Asian thing) and frankly TGTBT. Usually they're looking for something long-term and / or monogamous.
Has anyone here hooked up with these girls? I wonder if they're just advertising massage places or something.
Some recently online examples:
- https://www.seeking.com/member/913bf72e-5726-4e98-a818-e7d6c33bc37f.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/66327ba2-feab-442e-9cc7-8ee652a16df2.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/e8aaab4f-2df5-4906-86d1-4e5d3b176ebe.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/4039bd8d-1726-40c9-a574-7e588601a36c.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/f253f05a-1bea-4d18-891a-7f3fd1e13e74.
I noticed on Seeking there's a bunch of super-cute Asian girls with short and weirdly cryptic profiles that seem very foreign or "fresh off the boat. " Their age range tends to be between 30 and 35 though they look much younger (even accounting for the Asian thing) and frankly TGTBT. Usually they're looking for something long-term and / or monogamous.
Has anyone here hooked up with these girls? I wonder if they're just advertising massage places or something.
Some recently online examples:
- https://www.seeking.com/member/913bf72e-5726-4e98-a818-e7d6c33bc37f.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/66327ba2-feab-442e-9cc7-8ee652a16df2.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/e8aaab4f-2df5-4906-86d1-4e5d3b176ebe.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/4039bd8d-1726-40c9-a574-7e588601a36c.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/f253f05a-1bea-4d18-891a-7f3fd1e13e74.These are very weird profiles. I just tend to ignore these because they're 99% not local anyway.
TimeForPlay10
09-09-21, 12:26
What is the most secure way to share explicit pictures these days? I generally do not share nudes, etc. But have been texting with a POT couple regarding a possible threesome and the next step is to share pics. I'm hyper concerned about their ability to download, blackmail, etc. They recommended using Imgur but believe they can still download. I know Snapchat is a possibility but I don't think you can stop someone from downloading or screenshotinf those pics either. I obviously would not include or blur my face in any case. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
What is the most secure way to share explicit pictures these days? I generally do not share nudes, etc. But have been texting with a POT couple regarding a possible threesome and the next step is to share pics. I'm hyper concerned about their ability to download, blackmail, etc. They recommended using Imgur but believe they can still download. I know Snapchat is a possibility but I don't think you can stop someone from downloading or screenshotinf those pics either. I obviously would not include or blur my face in any case. Any suggestions would be appreciated.If someone wants to save the photo, they can do it no matter what app you use. Some apps prevent screenshots at the device level, some apps notify you if a screenshot is taken (I. E. Snapchat), but nothing prevents someone from connecting their device to a computer and screen mirroring then saving the image from their computer.
RobertSterling
09-09-21, 16:47
Have a Samsung S21 (android) using google chrome browser and when going to the SA login page, a pop up come up saying "Keychain Loading Certificate" and will hang up and not load the login page. Anyone else have this issue or have a work around other than using a PC?
FirstTimer7
09-09-21, 19:24
Have a Samsung S21 (android) using google chrome browser and when going to the SA login page, a pop up come up saying "Keychain Loading Certificate" and will hang up and not load the login page. Anyone else have this issue or have a work around other than using a PC?Maybe try another browser?
I noticed on Seeking there's a bunch of super-cute Asian girls with short and weirdly cryptic profiles that seem very foreign or "fresh off the boat. " Their age range tends to be between 30 and 35 though they look much younger (even accounting for the Asian thing) and frankly TGTBT. Usually they're looking for something long-term and / or monogamous.
Has anyone here hooked up with these girls? I wonder if they're just advertising massage places or something.
Some recently online examples:
- https://www.seeking.com/member/913bf72e-5726-4e98-a818-e7d6c33bc37f.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/66327ba2-feab-442e-9cc7-8ee652a16df2.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/e8aaab4f-2df5-4906-86d1-4e5d3b176ebe.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/4039bd8d-1726-40c9-a574-7e588601a36c.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/f253f05a-1bea-4d18-891a-7f3fd1e13e74.I have contacted 2 of this type of unusual asian profile and they are not local and are probably scams. They eventually want travel money or want you to invest in their business or bitcoin scheme.
RusselJimmies
09-09-21, 20:47
I have contacted 2 of this type of unusual asian profile and they are not local and are probably scams. They eventually want travel money or want you to invest in their business or bitcoin scheme.Thanks, I was so curious about what their deal is that I contacted one of the super-kawaii ones today, and your description definitely seems to fit where this interaction is heading.
DickLongwood
09-09-21, 21:12
I noticed on Seeking there's a bunch of super-cute Asian girls with short and weirdly cryptic profiles that seem very foreign or "fresh off the boat. " Their age range tends to be between 30 and 35 though they look much younger (even accounting for the Asian thing) and frankly TGTBT. Usually they're looking for something long-term and / or monogamous.
Has anyone here hooked up with these girls? I wonder if they're just advertising massage places or something.
Some recently online examples:
- https://www.seeking.com/member/913bf72e-5726-4e98-a818-e7d6c33bc37f.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/66327ba2-feab-442e-9cc7-8ee652a16df2.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/e8aaab4f-2df5-4906-86d1-4e5d3b176ebe.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/4039bd8d-1726-40c9-a574-7e588601a36c.
- https://www.seeking.com/member/f253f05a-1bea-4d18-891a-7f3fd1e13e74.I agree with the other guys. These are not likely to be real. I get the same favorites and messages. Some are not from the USA, though some are. I ignore them. They all look similar--pale skin, thin, and tall, ages 30-36.
What is the most secure way to share explicit pictures these days? I generally do not share nudes, etc. But have been texting with a POT couple regarding a possible threesome and the next step is to share pics. I'm hyper concerned about their ability to download, blackmail, etc. They recommended using Imgur but believe they can still download. I know Snapchat is a possibility but I don't think you can stop someone from downloading or screenshotinf those pics either. I obviously would not include or blur my face in any case. Any suggestions would be appreciated.Instagram has a new feature that you can direct message someone a photo that automatically deletes after the other person views it for about 10 seconds. I'm not sure if instagram lets the other person screenshot the photo.
CT James 1232
09-10-21, 11:04
She goes on and off SA. Used to be in the burbs but now Chicago. Great looking. Hoping to connect again with her. Latest SA s / and was IvvvyRoseee (or something like that).
Thank you all in advance.
ShyBoy2020
09-10-21, 20:02
She goes on and off SA. Used to be in the burbs but now Chicago. Great looking. Hoping to connect again with her. Latest SA s / and was IvvvyRoseee (or something like that).
Thank you all in advance.Not sure if this is her, but matches your description.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4fe9ca46-085c-493f-b458-9d70344dad31
Hoffman Oliver
09-11-21, 07:59
Leslii. DTF. 400. She uses Snapchat to communicate. Easy to set up.
https://www.seeking.com/member/acabf953-5ec1-4d7e-a406-b42ac501d962
Melissa. DTF $600+Ubers. She will come down from that. She was very stuck up and bougie but I kinda like that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a3fc22c9-a752-4fd9-aee8-0f5d4714a655
Marissa 3 k / month. Did not respond to her to offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b7b6b96e-4ce8-4297-a373-f65bedd11107
Sweetbb 350. Big girl but was fun. Easy to set up. Would repeat in a pinch.
https://www.seeking.com/member/586a59fc-2926-4021-9342-72d2925f43fa
French toast 2500-3000 monthly. Did not respond to her offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6a1230b-d36a-4736-b628-92e3c245c795
Chloe DTF started at 400, down 200 for subsequent visits. YMMV. She can host sometimes in the city. Will repeat. She's always smoking weed. Be aware If that's not your thing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0396e8f2-7bab-46df-926e-17193d333b01
Katerina 300. Lives parents, cannot host. She'll let you do what you want. But she will continually hit you up. Maybe would repeat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b22d4027-7040-4556-b3c9-e59938c1f139
Ali. DTF. She's been discussed here before. 300. She came to the room. She said she's a special Ed kindergarten teacher, works from 7-2 can only meet in the afternoons. Something was off, She wasn't high or drunk (atleast I don't think she was, I guess she's known to have drinking problem). Anyways I gave her the money and asked her to leave. Should've just fucked her but she depressing the fuck out of me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6d560b64-733a-1307-f94e-7ca2d40e1ecd
Faith DTF 500. Easy to set up. She know what she's doing. Very transactional but fun girl either way.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1e79b160-a75e-416d-8414-33f983ea4ea3
Aliceinwonderland 200. Easy to set up. She deactivated her acct when she's not on so I don't have a link but that's her handle.
Jasmine dtf 300. I didn't see her but she ready and willing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/764bf468-7a12-4013-b56d-63d74931a898
Mysticalmami dtf 250. Did not see her bits she's ready and willing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e32762a1-e291-4cdf-b975-723daf3a10ed
Hey you. Dtf 800. Did not respond to her offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/79af807c-29f7-40e5-8caa-33a519cd4ffb
Bustybaka dtf. She can host. 250 with cover 300 without. Did not see her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/490362bd-242d-4418-b26c-10f8f335d525
Michelle. 250-350. She's got 4 kids, she was in an accident and has a limp. The nose ring is distracting. She has surgery scars all over her back. She was a trooper, be nice to her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b64186e1-76e9-4bc4-ac58-171f505adbba
Russian doll. 600. Smoking hot, and worth it.
https://www.seeking.com/member/cdb74f2d-13cb-4248-8843-7c911245fa27
Thanks for sharing all this.
Leslii. DTF. 400. She uses Snapchat to communicate. Easy to set up.
https://www.seeking.com/member/acabf953-5ec1-4d7e-a406-b42ac501d962
Melissa. DTF $600+Ubers. She will come down from that. She was very stuck up and bougie but I kinda like that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a3fc22c9-a752-4fd9-aee8-0f5d4714a655
Marissa 3 k / month. Did not respond to her to offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b7b6b96e-4ce8-4297-a373-f65bedd11107
Sweetbb 350. Big girl but was fun. Easy to set up. Would repeat in a pinch.
https://www.seeking.com/member/586a59fc-2926-4021-9342-72d2925f43fa
French toast 2500-3000 monthly. Did not respond to her offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6a1230b-d36a-4736-b628-92e3c245c795
Chloe DTF started at 400, down 200 for subsequent visits. YMMV. She can host sometimes in the city. Will repeat. She's always smoking weed. Be aware If that's not your thing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0396e8f2-7bab-46df-926e-17193d333b01
Katerina 300. Lives parents, cannot host. She'll let you do what you want. But she will continually hit you up. Maybe would repeat.
ChicagoGoer
09-11-21, 15:45
Thanks for the drop.
Leslii. DTF. 400. She uses Snapchat to communicate. Easy to set up.
https://www.seeking.com/member/acabf953-5ec1-4d7e-a406-b42ac501d962
Melissa. DTF $600+Ubers. She will come down from that. She was very stuck up and bougie but I kinda like that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a3fc22c9-a752-4fd9-aee8-0f5d4714a655
Marissa 3 k / month. Did not respond to her to offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b7b6b96e-4ce8-4297-a373-f65bedd11107
Sweetbb 350. Big girl but was fun. Easy to set up. Would repeat in a pinch.
https://www.seeking.com/member/586a59fc-2926-4021-9342-72d2925f43fa
French toast 2500-3000 monthly. Did not respond to her offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6a1230b-d36a-4736-b628-92e3c245c795
Chloe DTF started at 400, down 200 for subsequent visits. YMMV. She can host sometimes in the city. Will repeat. She's always smoking weed. Be aware If that's not your thing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0396e8f2-7bab-46df-926e-17193d333b01
Katerina 300. Lives parents, cannot host. She'll let you do what you want. But she will continually hit you up. Maybe would repeat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b22d4027-7040-4556-b3c9-e59938c1f139
Ali. DTF. She's been discussed here before. 300. She came to the room. She said she's a special Ed kindergarten teacher, works from 7-2 can only meet in the afternoons. Something was off, She wasn't high or drunk (atleast I don't think she was, I guess she's known to have drinking problem). Anyways I gave her the money and asked her to leave. Should've just fucked her but she depressing the fuck out of me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6d560b64-733a-1307-f94e-7ca2d40e1ecd
Faith DTF 500. Easy to set up. She know what she's doing. Very transactional but fun girl either way.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1e79b160-a75e-416d-8414-33f983ea4ea3
Aliceinwonderland 200. Easy to set up. She deactivated her acct when she's not on so I don't have a link but that's her handle.
Jasmine dtf 300. I didn't see her but she ready and willing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/764bf468-7a12-4013-b56d-63d74931a898
Mysticalmami dtf 250. Did not see her bits she's ready and willing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e32762a1-e291-4cdf-b975-723daf3a10ed
Hey you. Dtf 800. Did not respond to her offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/79af807c-29f7-40e5-8caa-33a519cd4ffb
Bustybaka dtf. She can host. 250 with cover 300 without. Did not see her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/490362bd-242d-4418-b26c-10f8f335d525
Michelle. 250-350. She's got 4 kids, she was in an accident and has a limp. The nose ring is distracting. She has surgery scars all over her back. She was a trooper, be nice to her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b64186e1-76e9-4bc4-ac58-171f505adbba
Russian doll. 600. Smoking hot, and worth it.
https://www.seeking.com/member/cdb74f2d-13cb-4248-8843-7c911245fa27
Really appreciate this report!
Leslii. DTF. 400. She uses Snapchat to communicate. Easy to set up.
https://www.seeking.com/member/acabf953-5ec1-4d7e-a406-b42ac501d962
Melissa. DTF $600+Ubers. She will come down from that. She was very stuck up and bougie but I kinda like that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a3fc22c9-a752-4fd9-aee8-0f5d4714a655
Marissa 3 k / month. Did not respond to her to offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b7b6b96e-4ce8-4297-a373-f65bedd11107
Sweetbb 350. Big girl but was fun. Easy to set up. Would repeat in a pinch.
https://www.seeking.com/member/586a59fc-2926-4021-9342-72d2925f43fa
French toast 2500-3000 monthly. Did not respond to her offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6a1230b-d36a-4736-b628-92e3c245c795
Chloe DTF started at 400, down 200 for subsequent visits. YMMV. She can host sometimes in the city. Will repeat. She's always smoking weed. Be aware If that's not your thing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0396e8f2-7bab-46df-926e-17193d333b01
Katerina 300. Lives parents, cannot host. She'll let you do what you want. But she will continually hit you up. Maybe would repeat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b22d4027-7040-4556-b3c9-e59938c1f139
Ali. DTF. She's been discussed here before. 300. She came to the room. She said she's a special Ed kindergarten teacher, works from 7-2 can only meet in the afternoons. Something was off, She wasn't high or drunk (atleast I don't think she was, I guess she's known to have drinking problem). Anyways I gave her the money and asked her to leave. Should've just fucked her but she depressing the fuck out of me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6d560b64-733a-1307-f94e-7ca2d40e1ecd
Faith DTF 500. Easy to set up. She know what she's doing. Very transactional but fun girl either way.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1e79b160-a75e-416d-8414-33f983ea4ea3
Aliceinwonderland 200. Easy to set up. She deactivated her acct when she's not on so I don't have a link but that's her handle.
Jasmine dtf 300. I didn't see her but she ready and willing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/764bf468-7a12-4013-b56d-63d74931a898
Mysticalmami dtf 250. Did not see her bits she's ready and willing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e32762a1-e291-4cdf-b975-723daf3a10ed
Hey you. Dtf 800. Did not respond to her offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/79af807c-29f7-40e5-8caa-33a519cd4ffb
Bustybaka dtf. She can host. 250 with cover 300 without. Did not see her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/490362bd-242d-4418-b26c-10f8f335d525
Michelle. 250-350. She's got 4 kids, she was in an accident and has a limp. The nose ring is distracting. She has surgery scars all over her back. She was a trooper, be nice to her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b64186e1-76e9-4bc4-ac58-171f505adbba
Russian doll. 600. Smoking hot, and worth it.
https://www.seeking.com/member/cdb74f2d-13cb-4248-8843-7c911245fa27
Leslii. DTF. 400. She uses Snapchat to communicate. Easy to set up.
https://www.seeking.com/member/acabf953-5ec1-4d7e-a406-b42ac501d962
Melissa. DTF $600+Ubers. She will come down from that. She was very stuck up and bougie but I kinda like that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a3fc22c9-a752-4fd9-aee8-0f5d4714a655
Marissa 3 k / month. Did not respond to her to offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b7b6b96e-4ce8-4297-a373-f65bedd11107
Sweetbb 350. Big girl but was fun. Easy to set up. Would repeat in a pinch.
https://www.seeking.com/member/586a59fc-2926-4021-9342-72d2925f43fa
French toast 2500-3000 monthly. Did not respond to her offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6a1230b-d36a-4736-b628-92e3c245c795
Chloe DTF started at 400, down 200 for subsequent visits. YMMV. She can host sometimes in the city. Will repeat. She's always smoking weed. Be aware If that's not your thing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0396e8f2-7bab-46df-926e-17193d333b01
Katerina 300. Lives parents, cannot host. She'll let you do what you want. But she will continually hit you up. Maybe would repeat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b22d4027-7040-4556-b3c9-e59938c1f139
Ali. DTF. She's been discussed here before. 300. She came to the room. She said she's a special Ed kindergarten teacher, works from 7-2 can only meet in the afternoons. Something was off, She wasn't high or drunk (atleast I don't think she was, I guess she's known to have drinking problem). Anyways I gave her the money and asked her to leave. Should've just fucked her but she depressing the fuck out of me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6d560b64-733a-1307-f94e-7ca2d40e1ecd
Faith DTF 500. Easy to set up. She know what she's doing. Very transactional but fun girl either way.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1e79b160-a75e-416d-8414-33f983ea4ea3
Aliceinwonderland 200. Easy to set up. She deactivated her acct when she's not on so I don't have a link but that's her handle.
Jasmine dtf 300. I didn't see her but she ready and willing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/764bf468-7a12-4013-b56d-63d74931a898
Mysticalmami dtf 250. Did not see her bits she's ready and willing.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e32762a1-e291-4cdf-b975-723daf3a10ed
Hey you. Dtf 800. Did not respond to her offer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/79af807c-29f7-40e5-8caa-33a519cd4ffb
Bustybaka dtf. She can host. 250 with cover 300 without. Did not see her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/490362bd-242d-4418-b26c-10f8f335d525
Michelle. 250-350. She's got 4 kids, she was in an accident and has a limp. The nose ring is distracting. She has surgery scars all over her back. She was a trooper, be nice to her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b64186e1-76e9-4bc4-ac58-171f505adbba
Russian doll. 600. Smoking hot, and worth it.
https://www.seeking.com/member/cdb74f2d-13cb-4248-8843-7c911245fa27I second Faith. She acted transactional at first but I offered to take her to dinner first and her attitude changed dramatically. Total open minded chill hippie chick. I offered to take her someplace nice and she was like "let's go to Au Cheval and get a burger". Had some beers with the burger and was like "let's get out of here and fuck". Really good attitude.
I second Faith. She acted transactional at first but I offered to take her to dinner first and her attitude changed dramatically. Total open minded chill hippie chick. I offered to take her someplace nice and she was like "let's go to Au Cheval and get a burger". Had some beers with the burger and was like "let's get out of here and fuck". Really good attitude.300 on Tryst: https://tryst.link/escort/missmagic.
GeorgeVerWest
09-12-21, 05:38
Any info about her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/065243e1-4682-4792-a257-9f7199d7fc39
Hoffman Oliver
09-12-21, 07:32
Any info about her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/065243e1-4682-4792-a257-9f7199d7fc39Reach out to her. She's ready to go. Her name is Jess, she can't host but she'll drive to your hotel wherever. She's older but not bad. She's available after 12 pm most days. For some reason I didn't reply to her to set it up. But she's got nice pics and bad ass back tat. Thanks for bringing her up I'm gonn follow up with her. If you get any numbers please post or pm.
SimplySkilled
09-12-21, 22:02
I've been talking to a few in the past days. I haven't met any of then yet l.
So far Ali: 200 ppm, says she'll stay the whole night if I want her too. No Greek. Is it worth it?
https://www.seeking.com/member/6d560b64-733a-1307-f94e-7ca2d40e1ecd
Faith 300 ppm. 2 hrs and no Greek.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1e79b160-a75e-416d-8414-33f983ea4ea3
CuteCutie: 200 ppm no Greek.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b64186e1-76e9-4bc4-ac58-171f505adbba
RicaD: 200 ppm, will stay the whole night.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a263633c-fdff-2ea8-943b-6e1567df2a56
QueenChyna: 200 ppm, will stay the whole night. Open to Greek.
https://www.seeking.com/member/42f50a4a-49dc-4add-89d3-fbc733a5af07
Jaybaby: 150 ppm, she's plus size I might convince her for some Greek.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d63ef031-6fb7-4f89-b451-4451fa835e9f
Katerina: 200 ppm for 1 h.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b22d4027-7040-4556-b3c9-e59938c1f139
Any info on this one? We haven't discussed an arrangement yet but I love Asian girls.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c6a6e75e-a43f-4f6c-846e-60e7337fb171
Pakistani girl, I've read she's cheap. I'm going to try and offer her 150 will update if she does accept.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d55d9596-e841-400c-8271-2ef5da11d499
This one says she wants to meet first to see if there's chemistry, if it goes well she's open minded.
https://www.seeking.com/member/32334d41-b595-4938-a027-050273f0fda0
300 on Tryst: https://tryst.link/escort/missmagic.I wonder if her menu or her attitude would have been different if I met her that way instead of through SA.
Hoffman Oliver
09-13-21, 11:45
I wonder if her menu or her attitude would have been different if I met her that way instead of through SA.She initially quoted me 400, which aligns with her tryst outcall. After I told her what I wanted specifically she upped it to 500. In my case pricing seems consistent.
OnlyDreams
09-13-21, 14:14
https://www.seeking.com/member/5672bccf-d95f-9cf5-30ef-bef44af6936a
I've contacted her in the past but our interests didn't match and therefore, never planned anything. She even stopped replying. However, she's on SA all the time and checks my profile regularly. Has anybody actually seen her and how was the experience? I'm sure somebody on here has seen her, she's been on SA since 2015. I also think she does like to hook up (contrary to what she told me) otherwise she wouldn't be on SA for that long.
ChicagoGoer
09-13-21, 17:32
Anyone have any feedback on this one? Private photos any good?
Dialogue started but went silent before any terms discussion.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8723f0fe-a5f9-49d5-a6e6-73b16cc48479
Anyone have any experience with her?
A little while back, she said she wanted $250 just for the platonic meet and greet. Seems like there not a requirement now.
Curious if anyone can tell if she's a fake profile. Anyone met her or talked to her or have done a live video? Feel free to reply here or DM me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/64584d7f-3f52-48d1-b9e2-3538396bd20e
Failed photo verification step. I did not pursue.
MwmChicago
09-14-21, 18:09
Just signed up and blasted with a ton of emails, but haven't paid yet. Curious about a couple things;.
Should I do the month to month or prepay 3 months? Wondering how it works if you get banned and have 2 months left that's paid for.
And, what should I do / not do to avoid getting banned?
Thanks for the advice. This looks like it's going to be my new addiction, along with a time and money suck!
They got rid of the reporting option of online only.
Anyone have any experience with her?
A little while back, she said she wanted $250 just for the platonic meet and greet. Seems like there not a requirement now.
Curious if anyone can tell if she's a fake profile. Anyone met her or talked to her or have done a live video? Feel free to reply here or DM me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/64584d7f-3f52-48d1-b9e2-3538396bd20eTexted briefly at the end of Aug, and wanted something for a M&G then.
Al Melrose
09-14-21, 18:49
They got rid of the reporting option of online only.
Texted briefly at the end of Aug, and wanted something for a M&G then.Now there is a wish list for everyone.
MyDarkSide
09-14-21, 21:21
Just signed up and blasted with a ton of emails, but haven't paid yet. Curious about a couple things;.
Should I do the month to month or prepay 3 months? Wondering how it works if you get banned and have 2 months left that's paid for.
And, what should I do / not do to avoid getting banned?
Thanks for the advice. This looks like it's going to be my new addiction, along with a time and money suck!I'd never risk three months. My advice- just idle chit chat on site. Take all explicit $$ discussions to text. Good luck!
Should I do the month to month or prepay 3 months? Month to month, no question.
Wondering how it works if you get banned and have 2 months left that's paid for. How it works is SA will keep your money. Every cent of it don't even bother asking for a nickel back you won't get it. Thats one of several reasons why monthly is the best option. You should cancel auto renew in settings too otherwise they'll keep billing you.
And, what should I do / not do to avoid getting banned? Never ever ever have any discussion what so ever about sex and money. Keep convo's on the site to PG13 and then take that shit off site to texting before it even comes close to going further. Don't piss off a chick. Even if she is a grade A d-bag don't poke the lion with a stick. She can just report you for something, even if its not true, and you'll get banned.
This looks like it's going to be my new addiction, along with a time and money suck!Truer words never spoken. Be prepared to invest far more time than you ever expected.
Yea, pretty much.
I've managed to Not waste time or money. I for sure set my mind to: My amusement first and I'm pretty good at opening with "backhanded compliments".
Conservatively, I have over 150 open conversations. In the last 3 weeks, I have fucked 4 different girls and negotiated down their initial price and another I'm fucking for free. These are numbers to really NOT be proud of. Still, overall, paying for pussy. It IS fun to use verbal jujitsu and some PUA / Text Game.
I've been blocked by some girls for Puzzling reasons? Where the convo was almost text book solid solid / not creepy. But I also don't offer jack shit not ask anything. I engage and reengage. I never ask for anything except "I think we might get along over lunch". If they quote a PPM for lunch: "I'm paying for lunch. You can walk away or ask for take out at any time. ".
Blocked is where the girl's handle is still attached. And I've got a "text buddy" who IS supposed to come and visit next week Friday, and we ARE still texting, but she blocked me on SA. But now (suddenlt) haven't heard from her and so have a girl from MI who wants to come down and. Next weekend can either be fantastic or Really fucking interesting . I'm pretty solidly engaged with someone else to come in for the weekend, which can flake away as well.
I never initiate any negotiation about anything and remain cagey / ambivalent about as well. The invite for the weekend is a legit invite.
Basically, SA is the "good days" of craigslist. Secret Benefits, fucking sucks. Just spent my last credits and will never sign up again. Anyone I have open dialogue with, passed them my phone number and expect jack shit.
Some of you guys whom have dropped what some of the girls / links are about, kudos and thank you.
Now. What many who read this thread are not paying attention to are the Common threads that these profiles have and you can even create your OWN custom search on SA. Because you Aren't paying attention.
This is the new Craigslist but it now costs you $100 a month.
Month to month, no question.
How it works is SA will keep your money. Every cent of it don't even bother asking for a nickel back you won't get it. Thats one of several reasons why monthly is the best option. You should cancel auto renew in settings too otherwise they'll keep billing you.
Never ever ever have any discussion what so ever about sex and money. Keep convo's on the site to PG13 and then take that shit off site to texting before it even comes close to going further. Don't piss off a chick. Even if she is a grade A d-bag don't poke the lion with a stick. She can just report you for something, even if its not true, and you'll get banned.
Truer words never spoken. Be prepared to invest far more time than you ever expected.
If their user name is attached. They blocked you.
Sugar Baby. The account was removed.
If their user name is attached. They blocked you.Their username will still be attached if they have deactivated their profile. Deleted profile it will be SugarBaby, deactivated will still show the profile name.
Sugar Baby. The account was removed.True.
MwmChicago
09-15-21, 13:26
Just signed up and blasted with a ton of emails, but haven't paid yet. Curious about a couple things;.
Should I do the month to month or prepay 3 months? Wondering how it works if you get banned and have 2 months left that's paid for.
And, what should I do / not do to avoid getting banned?
Thanks for the advice. This looks like it's going to be my new addiction, along with a time and money suck!Thanks everyone for the feedback. This site is overwhelming! Talking to about a dozen different girls and already have plans to meet a few in the next week.
MwmChicago
09-15-21, 14:27
Set up a meet for tomorrow with;.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f3e79754-55bd-4e74-8e21-dd2429bd6d0c
But she wants a $100 deposit, $300 total for an hour +. Are deposits a hard NO? I'm assuming so, but new to the SA thing.
Thanks!
JackMeehan
09-15-21, 17:42
Set up a meet for tomorrow with;.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f3e79754-55bd-4e74-8e21-dd2429bd6d0c
But she wants a $100 deposit, $300 total for an hour +. Are deposits a hard NO? I'm assuming so, but new to the SA thing.
Thanks!To me it screams scam and I've never done it.
I never pay until I hand the girl the envelope in the room.
Limeyincal
09-15-21, 17:58
Set up a meet for tomorrow with;.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f3e79754-55bd-4e74-8e21-dd2429bd6d0c
But she wants a $100 deposit, $300 total for an hour +. Are deposits a hard NO? I'm assuming so, but new to the SA thing.
Thanks!If you pay the deposit there is a 95% chance the girl is a No-Show! You are then out of pocket $100. A lot of these chicks are scammers and have no intention of ever meeting you. They are just trying to see what they can squeeze out of you.
ShyBoy2020
09-15-21, 18:38
Set up a meet for tomorrow with;.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f3e79754-55bd-4e74-8e21-dd2429bd6d0c
But she wants a $100 deposit, $300 total for an hour +. Are deposits a hard NO? I'm assuming so, but new to the SA thing.
Thanks!Be careful my brother. I was in contact with this person. I say this person because I'm positive it is not the woman in the pictures. 937 area code. But different username. She sent me 3 pictures. One with a brown tight mini dress, another with black top and black and green pants, and the 3rd is the same pic this person is using for the new profile. If I can upload photos without getting suspended, I will upload. Let me know guys. I'm not sure about all the rules. This person also asked $300 with $100 deposit. Talked down to $200 but still wanted $100 deposit. I said no deposit and conversation ended. Then the profile disappeared. I see this person is back now with a new profile. Please do not send deposits before meeting in person.
JayChitown
09-15-21, 19:11
Any tips for using SA while travelling?
Gentlemen,
Has anyone details on this fine lady, AKA QuarantineShorty?
https://www.seeking.com/member/c559fa6f-6423-48b7-880c-4ff1ed8024b7
She wants to meet so any advice or info would be helpful.
Feel free to PM if better.
Thanks!
TJ.
So I've had an account for 2 years. All of a sudden, they suspended and then banned my account. I opened a new one, new email, etc. Then, it says that my account was deleted. Not banned, not suspended, just deleted. WTF?
RusselJimmies
09-15-21, 21:39
Set up a meet for tomorrow with;.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f3e79754-55bd-4e74-8e21-dd2429bd6d0c
But she wants a $100 deposit, $300 total for an hour +. Are deposits a hard NO? I'm assuming so, but new to the SA thing.
Thanks!1000% Scammer.
This person gave me the same routine, and claimed to be an * girl and sent a pic of her OF page (which is the girl in the pic) so I paid $5 to subscribe and DM'd her on OF to confirm she had control of the account. Scammer was obviously unable to reply to my message and made up some BS about the " managers" and messaging delay, obvious lies.
RusselJimmies
09-15-21, 21:40
If their user name is attached. They blocked you.
Sugar Baby. The account was removed.Not necessarily. They only blocked you if you can't click on their icon to their profile page from your conversation page.
RobertSterling
09-16-21, 08:09
Looks a lot like the Cary massage girl that charged a lot for a mediocre massage, teased but was tough about getting extras? She has already changed her location on SA from Huntley to Algonquin.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2b167fc5-1585-4194-8db4-17d487e46911
So I've had an account for 2 years. All of a sudden, they suspended and then banned my account. I opened a new one, new email, etc. Then, it says that my account was deleted. Not banned, not suspended, just deleted. WTF?SA tracks you by your IP address that's why your second account was deleted. Try using a VPN or try using another device with a different IP address, like your phone's browser or your computer at home.
Silver6933
09-16-21, 14:13
Anyone has seen this girl before? She's really cute.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b9b37026-d377-4266-a1f9-f478e23a2409
EAndrews8484
09-16-21, 15:05
Long shot, but does anyone have intel on a girl named Kelsey, who was active on SA as Kelsinator144444 pre-pandemic? She seems to have deleted her account, although perhaps she's now using another name. Curious if anyone has had experience with her historically or knows if she's still around?
Long shot, but does anyone have intel on a girl named Kelsey, who was active on SA as Kelsinator144444 pre-pandemic? She seems to have deleted her account, although perhaps she's now using another name. Curious if anyone has had experience with her historically or knows if she's still around?Was she out of Aurora or Naperville? I saw a Kelsey from that area like a year ago.
Long shot, but does anyone have intel on a girl named Kelsey, who was active on SA as Kelsinator144444 pre-pandemic? She seems to have deleted her account, although perhaps she's now using another name. Curious if anyone has had experience with her historically or knows if she's still around?If she lived in a townhouse near Fox Valley mall. Yes, she's still around. She has several accounts.
Talked a bunch, finally set a date to meet. And I got ghosted the day of.https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0c32-a968-4c56-ad15-8e2347b46fac
Thanks to the couple guys that responded. I did manage to do a M&G but she stuck with the "platonic until we get to know each other" thing. I get the feeling she's just doing M&G and platonic dates as long as she can and repeating. Or maybe I just don't have the game that others on here do! Either way. Moving on!!
Appreciate any leads for the Joliet / Romeoville / Plainfield area. PM me.
So I've had an account for 2 years. All of a sudden, they suspended and then banned my account. I opened a new one, new email, etc. Then, it says that my account was deleted. Not banned, not suspended, just deleted. WTF?There's threads on how to get a new account set up on here. One thing I did when this happened was a chargeback on my CC. It went through fine. I know it's all "violation of terms of service" etc but they are so random and broad, it's almost a scam, so charge back.
Hoffman Oliver
09-17-21, 13:39
Messaged FoxyInfluencer today. She replied back right away with her number (red flag). I texted her. She replied calling me hunny (red flag when they don't use your name). And offered to meet for 200 but with 100 deposit (red flag for low ppm and of course deposit). Of course I declined. She threatened me with "Your going all across Facebook" and " Yes since I'm trying to scam you out a deposit let's see how your friends and family and the community feel about this. ".
She's been reported and auto-blocked so I don't have a link.
Edit: attached her profile pic.
Messaged FoxyInfluencer today. She replied back right away with her number (red flag). I texted her. She replied calling me hunny (red flag when they don't use your name). And offered to meet for 200 but with 100 deposit (red flag for low ppm and of course deposit). Of course I declined. She threatened me with "Your going all across Facebook" and " Yes since I'm trying to scam you out a deposit let's see how your friends and family and the community feel about this. ".
She's been reported and auto-blocked so I don't have a link.
https://www.seeking.com/member/bf11a927-6dfb-4b46-a2de-bbc8c16c9137
Brand new account.
MwmChicago
09-17-21, 14:15
Messaged FoxyInfluencer today. She replied back right away with her number (red flag). I texted her. She replied calling me hunny (red flag when they don't use your name). And offered to meet for 200 but with 100 deposit (red flag for low ppm and of course deposit). Of course I declined. She threatened me with "Your going all across Facebook" and " Yes since I'm trying to scam you out a deposit let's see how your friends and family and the community feel about this. ".
She's been reported and auto-blocked so I don't have a link.
Edit: attached her profile pic.She reached out to me this morning with her number too. Google quickly showed she was no good and blocked her as well.
Anyone has seen this girl before? She's really cute.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b9b37026-d377-4266-a1f9-f478e23a2409Have communicated and was going to set up a date but it did not work out. Wants 500 ppm. Lives in Rogers Park but do not think she hosts. Did not get into specifics on what the 500 includes (it is my MO to just go with the flow and hope the service goes as I want, and if it does not, then I do not repeat).
EAndrews8484
09-17-21, 14:48
If she lived in a townhouse near Fox Valley mall. Yes, she's still around. She has several accounts.I suspect it's not the same person, but do you mind linking the accounts?
I suspect it's not the same person, but do you mind linking the accounts?https://www.seeking.com/member/ef277e21-a810-4088-b0b6-0992878f6622
https://www.seeking.com/member/ef277e21-a810-4088-b0b6-0992878f6622Not sure if that's the one the OP was interested in, but that's who I saw. Bit chubby, but super passionate, had an awesome time with her.
She wants a deposit before meeting.
https://www.seeking.com/member/586a5...2-72d2925f43fa
Have exchanged numerous messages with her (it's a Grand Rapids 616 area code number) and a total scam.
BeNewAgain
09-18-21, 18:08
So I've had an account for 2 years. All of a sudden, they suspended and then banned my account. I opened a new one, new email, etc. Then, it says that my account was deleted. Not banned, not suspended, just deleted. WTF?I'm going through the same problems right now. I got banned (again), and I have always gotten around it by the usual steps: reset mode / router, uninstall and reinstall a VPN browser, new email, new first pic. I've now tried this like 3 times, even on my LTE network on my iphone and it's just deleting my account. I even saw the IP address was different. It's confusing me now.
Has anyone recently gotten around the ban? (you can save your comments about why I got banned white knights).
EAndrews8484
09-18-21, 20:35
Not sure if that's the one the OP was interested in, but that's who I saw. Bit chubby, but super passionate, had an awesome time with her.That's not her, but appreciate the feedback. I actually found her profile URL in an old text file I used to maintain. Kinda strange. She doesn't appear in search anymore as far as I can tell, but looks like her profile is still active (although she hasn't logged on in two years).
https://www.seeking.com/member/ea57c5fb-3ce6-4c5a-b32f-2b24aa635404
Asked me to help her move from Boston.
Profile says she is already here but actually looking for someone to pay for her move.
Thank you but no thank you.
https://www.seeking.com/member/89cf2e6b-5d65-47a1-a25e-b22bca8de052
https://www.seeking.com/member/96b2a095-b63c-40db-9cc9-3ac5a8715e4d
We have been chatting for a few days now. She asks a lot of questions and just shared her number with me. Curious if anyone has any info on her before I TOFTT.
Sorry for multiple posts in succession. Just paid for a subscription and trying to get the most out of this month.
Any info on this one.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7ceba16b-6f19-4855-8129-8ebe43d85841
Looks like a real acct with all the verifications.
Not sure if anyone has any guidance.
Just want to double check if this is the same person with two accounts.
Account - 1 - mulletcutie99.
https://www.seeking.com/member/71c08bbe-b591-4a56-8342-35ad69aed656
Account - 2 - cutieneedsadaddy99.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ae42ab3c-f535-4e8b-b85e-e92b6d821e45
Seems like the same person but my eyes could be deceiving me.
Anyone have any experience with either?
Limeyincal
09-19-21, 17:36
XForeverEve.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6557ecf1-a451-49e3-99de-4108eda3fce6
Wants 200 for a M&G. Nope!
Angelwatchingoverme.
https://www.seeking.com/member/78b81251-2413-4750-8d17-08acaa054e31
Offered everything (anal and no cover and says she squirts) also sent two very explicit nude photos without me asking.
Donation 300, but then asks for iTunes gift card for the total of the visit in advance for the baby sitters books & tuition!
Next try was iTunes card for her daughters birthday!
Nope!
Crickets on subsequent attempts when trying to contact.
Angelwatchingoverme.
https://www.seeking.com/member/78b81251-2413-4750-8d17-08acaa054e31
Pics are of a porn star who was active 5-10 years ago. Can't remember her name, but she is eastern European / Russian. This profile is definitely one to stay away from.
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