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Havanaman
02-27-04, 09:48
Wow: first to post here!

I’m not experienced with SM at all. I would love to learn more. Tips, tricks and philosophies appreciated.

Regards, Havanaman

OttoGraham
02-27-04, 11:39
Havanaman's post reminds me:

When asked by the Army recruiting sergeant in Stripes if he was a homosexual, Bill Murray replies: "Well, no, but is there a special school you'll send me to?" :D

-Uncle Otto

MeatMan
02-27-04, 19:38
Ah!Well lookie here!

I have a friend who is into it enitrely.What he likes is to have the woman walk over her and, call him every derogatoy name in the book.Now he wants to try "watersports"

And people think I screwed in the head.

Raider
03-02-04, 18:50
I am not much into S&M and have not had much experiance in this area .The closest I have ever been maybe is when a long time ago an old girlfriend let me tie her hands to the bed posts and let me fuck her brains out .Oh Boy ! That brings back some memories ;)

One Man
03-02-04, 21:35
>> And people think I screwed in the head.


The world of "BDSM" as it is often known is roughtly broken down into 3 pursuits. They are:

1. Bondage and Discipline
2. Domination and Submission
3. Sadism and Masochism

There is a significant subculture that considers bdsm and each of its subcultures to me very acceptable and "normal", if perhaps a bit kinkier than vanilla sex.

Personally I don't think they are anymore screwed in the head than we are, just different.


I am just

One Man
==========================

Hey, let's be careful out there, and wear a condom for Pete's (and my) sake

Fetish
03-03-04, 05:59
Hi All,

This is a very interesting subject. I just a normal guy who wwants to try out everything. I can't seems to get any of this action in Malaysia.

Had anyone ever had experience like foot workship, coporal punishment, golden shower etc? How does it feels like?

Havanaman
03-14-04, 05:12
Fetish

I have not been to Malaysia yet, but you can get all you want if you pay for it, this off course is the reason we can all hobby: we pay, they display. Ask your sex providers for what you want and they will probably go for it as long it is not too painful or disgusting to them.

Regards, Havanaman

latin
04-09-04, 04:40
I feel attracted by the idea of riding a girl like a pony before making sex, does anybody have the same feeling? Do you have experience in this?

nwtn20
04-17-04, 11:49
Hi people,

I am developing an interest in SM, I was wondering how does 'Tie and Tease' work in practice. I guess I would get tied up and my 'mistress' would play with me. But what I anted to know is after playing with me will I get relief - Hand job or blow job or foot job .

Thanks in advance

Benchseats Rock
04-19-04, 17:58
Hi all,

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for the last 13 years and am happy to offer my experience here if it will help out at all. As far as my credentials in the arena, I produce a line of fetish videos that run the gamut from light bondage to extreme spanking, though I will not discuss vending them here. There is enough porn out there that you can go and find your own if you want it badly enough. That being said:

Latin: Generally "pony riding" is female domination over either sex. It boils down to how much you weigh and how strong is the sub. Of course, if you are paying to dominate (this is rare) everything you want to do will be discussed beforehand. Havanaman is dead on in this respect.

nwtn20: There is a world of difference between being tied and teased as part of a service that includes light bondage and teasing to release and actually being tied and teased by a mistress and being dominated via S&M.

S&M is intense and VERY psychological. Most people involved in the scene have long standing relationships based entirely on trust: This is the only way to facilitate complete submision. There is a distinct difference between doing what you are told and submitting to the demands of a master or a mistress. Total submission takes some time to achieve, though it can be rewarding in the sense of breaking down personal barriers and building inner strength and confidence. All good dominants MUST start off as submissives, otherwise there can be no reciprocal understanding of your limits, or knowing and understanding how a punishment can affect you. Like anything else sexwise, there are true providers and girls who spank for money. Unfortunately, there are many, many more of the latter these days.

The critical difference in S&M as opposed to prostitution in general is simple. In real life S&M, sex and/or release isn't the goal, and doesn't have to take place in order to dominate the sub or have what is generally regarded as a successful session. Release is usually seen as a reward for being an obediant submissive; And though some providers will give you a HJ or a BJ to completion, most will force you to do it yourself in the corner, cum on their boots and then lick it up. This is certainly not the hard and fast rule, obviously YMMV, but in S&M you are trying to experience the domination and submission through pain as the catalyst and motivator, not sex.

Hope this was helpful. I'll try to answer any questions you all may have.

Stay Safe

Fetish
04-21-04, 05:25
BR,

This is a very interesting discussion. I have a question, it seems that most of the customer are sub (my preception) and enjoy been dominated by their mistress/master. Does the mistress/master actually enjoy punishing their subs?

Benchseats Rock
04-24-04, 07:14
Fetish,

Your perception is absolutely correct. Almost all of the clientelle are submissives for the simple fact that most dominants already have relationships with their own submissives. A dominant looking to pay to "play" with a submissive should raise an immediate red flag, they are usually untrained and don't know how to focus aggression or to build relationships to express it healthily. In short, they are dangerous.

"Does the mistress/master actually enjoy punishing their subs?"

Sadists, BY DEFINITION enjoy inflicting pain, suffering, punishment, discipline, humilation: call it what you will. I know I get hard (As hard as with Viagra during "vanilla" sex) when I have a sub over my knee and start to spank them, I get turned on when I have them tied to a cross and they are being flogged or having a forced enema, and I have a friend who is a Dominatrix who finds nothing more pleasurable than watching the humiliation and disgust on a sub's face while she urinates on them. As a Dominant, I enjoy punishing my subs, partly because I am a sadist, partly because I know that the sub is loving every minute of it and not getting off (no matter how much they beg), and the extra added bonus is when the sub makes an unintentional mistake that deserves punishment. But I am really into the scene and the lifestyle, so are many of my friends and of course, so are all the people that I play with.

Sadly, there are many, many, many women out there who think that being a Dominatrix is nothing more than a very good paying job with a neat uniform. Do these women (they are not true Dommes after all) really get off on administering punishment? I have heard more than one "Domme" complain about the length of session necessary to satisfy a submissive's tolerance not being worth what they were charging. The focus isn't the money in the real version of this game, though there is money exchanged, it is more of a formality. Mostly I think that the fakers out there do it just for the money and could care less about the sub. If you don't push the sub to their limit you have no place holding a whip.

A true Dom/Domme wants to get that sub to their limit and then push a little further. Maybe not in one session, but as a goal. Luckily the community is pretty tightly knit and a sub looking for a real Dom/Domme can find one who does enjoy it. If the Dom/Domme isn't having any fun, then the sub isn't going to get a good session.

Hope this was helpful,

BR

MeatMan
07-22-04, 13:01
Not sure if this belongs here but, I'll ask none the less. Have any of you ever done either vaginal or anal fisting on a woman before? I see that this is more common in places like Germany and the Urkraine as I rented a couple of DVDs showing fisting.

I know little of this, but enquiring minds wanna know.

Bend It
07-22-04, 16:35
Meat and Gentlemen,

Yup, I've done pussy fisting, a couple of times. Haven't shoved my fist up a ho's ass, though. What would you like to know?

Bend It

Daddy Lows
07-22-04, 17:02
Bend It,

I take it you don't have large hands? Or the lady was "well-endowed?" I've only gotten four fingers in my hoes cooches. Seems my thumb gets in the way. But if I ever find an appealing tall, amazon with a big cooch, I'll try the thumb, too.

Peace

Taco Malo
07-22-04, 18:03
Wow - didn't know this section was on the board.

Just a recommendation for all you guys out there (Jackson, I'm not trying to sell the site just relating some info)...try the site alt.com.

I've hooked up with a few women on there. And as they were basically looking for a fun fuck, and were submissive, they let me do all sorts of wierd shit to them.

Of course, it helps to be able to stomach obese crazy chicks - but when you don't need to worry about pleasing them at all (well, I'm not talking about tieing them up on all fours and whipping their ass with a belt), it makes things better.

Plus the site is not all that expensive considering the amount we drop as mongers.

Also a couple things as well about that site - it really educates you as to the formal "scene". Like one of the previous posters said - there is a certain level of understanding and relationship building needed, etc, etc... That's one philosophy. Me, I'm part of the other philosophy, where I don't consider myself part of the scene, but like rough and raunchy sex. But it's good to know the perspectives people have about the subject.






Anyway, I'd like to know about fisting as well. One of the three women I hooked up with, we fuck around every now and then. This chick is sub to the extreme! I mean pretty much nothing is too much.

Anyway, she's a big fat chick with a gaping pussy - and she loves craming big objects into her ass and snatch (she has one of those fist dildos if you've ever seen them)...

Well, we're going to be hooking up soon, and every time I meet here, I try something new...you know so I can check it off of my perverted things to do list. So since she's into fisting (her profile on alt says how she wants to get pictures of her taken while she gets "punchfucked"), I figured I'd try it out.

My main concern however is the danger - as I've heard this is a potentially dangerous act. And the last thing I need is a reinactment of the whorehouse scene with the senator from the Godfather movie.

So how do you execute a safe fisting?

Peace


P.S. By the way fetish - fuck yeah I love doming. It's pure greed and I love it. Kind of can make you feel guilty afterward, because it really pushes your level of depravity. It brings out your dark animal side in a big way.

Bend It
08-04-04, 17:25
Gentlemen --

Sorry for not getting back to this forum for a while (was out of town for a couple of weeks).

Daddy Lows, my hands are average size, I think, not small, not large. Have done this with three women and I think they were average sized.

Goo, I love your new word - "punch-fucked"! That sums this fetish up.

In my experience, you need to have a woman who really wants to be submissive. She needs to be really relaxed (drunk doesn't hurt) and you need to work on her clit like crazy. Lots of lube, of course, clit activity, vibrator on her clit, and patience. Once you are in, though, then fuck away and enjoy the look on the b****'s face like she can't believe you're doing this to her.

Best wishes,

Bend It

Benchseats Rock
08-07-04, 06:44
Regarding safe fisting:

Lots of lube, patience, clitoral stimulation etc. Be sure to take your time, you may not be able to accomplish the full stretch in one session, but the most important thing is to cut your nails and file them smooth... just to be sure though, nitrile gloves are highly recommended.

Have fun...(thank God I'm not a chick!)

Stay Safe

BR

Bend It
08-12-04, 10:15
Gentlemen,

Anyone ever ass-fisted a woman? Or is that just something you see in porn?

Bend It

Benchseats Rock
08-13-04, 00:04
It's not only in porn, but probably not outside of long term relationships either. Same rules apply: manicure, LOTS of lube and patience. It can take months.

MeatMan
08-16-04, 10:48
A little late to the party Bend It? I already asked that question.:)

Benchseats Rock
08-18-04, 01:21
The trick is not in getting in five fingers. It's getting past the knuckles that can be the real patience buster.

Once you do though, well, can you say squirt?

Alicia Klass has nothing on my gf.





Benchseats Rock

Mr Spanky
09-01-04, 19:25
Greetings fellow pervs (and pervettes).

Fisting is one of the things I love to do. Over the years I've gotten pretty good at it.

As has already been pointed out, fisting requires: lube, PATIENCE (sometimes in abundance), and surgical or other type of latex (or some non-allergenic material - ask the fistee first if she's got an allergy to latex). Latex gloves can be purchased cheaply at any pharmacy. For more exotic gloves, so a web search or 2. There's a web site for medical BDSM toys (name excapes me) and they carry gloves.

The gloves provide a far more slippery surface than just using your bare hands. Lube them up and start the adventure. :-)

I always start with 2 fingers to get the lay of the land - so to speak. How tight is she? How far can she stretch? Then stretch her open with 2 fingers from the other hand. Massaging her clit along the way helps the lubrication process.

Pick a hand and start inserting more fingers. If she stretches well, then you can try the whole hand. One technique is to form your hand by touching the tips of all your fingers and thumb together. This makes a nice sleek sort of giant (but wide) dildo. Insert it SLOWLY, work it in and out, gradually, slowly go deeper. Eventually, you'll get past the mid-knuckles and up to the top knuckles. As someone already pointed out, getting past this point requires patience and practice. But - once you're past the knuckles, what a treat! The phrase "Oh my God!!" can be heard in abundance.

If a woman's delivered a baby vaginally, then (usually) she'll be easier to fist. She's already been streteched.

Be certain to ask her if she's had any surgery on her female parts or if she tore internally during childbirth (if this applies) because scar tissue can prevent sucessful fisting, and may be risky.

I've fisted submissives and slaves, and a small number of providers. My experience tells me that bigger woman are easier to fist (but I once fisted a 5', 110 lb woman who'd never had kids, so go figure).

Just don't ram it in. That just normally doesn't work.

Have fun and keep the lube handy!

Mr Spanky

Mr Spanky
09-01-04, 19:33
Bend It and MeatMan,

Yeah, I've anally fisted women before.

Same rules apply: manicure, lube, patience, and as I said in a previous post, surgical/latex gloves.

One sub I had could be fisted in BOTH holes simeltaneously. That was fun. :) I ass-fisted a provider once, too. I've never tried it with SWs though. YMMV.

You'll really want the gloves here. Believe me. Ememas before hand help cut down/eliminate the mess.

Mr Spanky

Zidaho
11-29-04, 22:40
Mongers,

Would some one help me out here please. I have heard of a place in Thailand that a man could check in and submit 24/7/3days-5days as a sub. I have read the posts on this thread. I'd prefer to be the Dom, but I understand the hiearchy sp. Here are some pics, this American girl was fun . . . met her on Match. I know alot of women want to be submissive but I feel I need some fundamental experience to go where I know a few women want to go. Advise appreciated!

Funinst
03-30-05, 18:26
Hey Zidaho,

There is a site that lists professional dominatrixes and masters. I'm sure a local Domme in your area should be able to help you. The site is:
http://www.maxfisch.com

There are also alot of pages that give the generals of bdsm and some of the ideas/practices of different activities. Do a search for "bdsm faq" and similar phrases.

Good luck on your dominating,

Funinst


Mongers,

Would some one help me out here please. I have heard of a place in Thailand that a man could check in and submit 24/7/3days-5days as a sub. I have read the posts on this thread. I'd prefer to be the Dom, but I understand the hiearchy sp. Here are some pics, this American girl was fun . . . met her on Match. I know alot of women want to be submissive but I feel I need some fundamental experience to go where I know a few women want to go. Advise appreciated!

PsyberZombie
07-31-05, 08:15
Lots of *FREE* images of B & D for you S / M Fans =

http://hellselevator.com/Free/preview3.html

p.s. As old Uncle Zombie always says :

" America is Land of the Free , and 'Free' means you don't have to pay "

Best Tx Monger
09-19-05, 00:17
I am not much into this part of the spectrum.

However, it is really interesting to know that others enjoy things that I consider 'strange.'

Then again, if we were all the same, then the world would be something boring. I found ' fisting ' to be interesting to say the least.

-007

Benchseats Rock
09-17-06, 09:11
I am not much into this part of the spectrum.

However, it is really interesting to know that others enjoy things that I consider 'strange.'

Then again, if we were all the same, then the world would be something boring. I found ' fisting ' to be interesting to say the least.

-007


If you liked fisting, you'll love double fisting :)

Tanboat05
08-25-07, 15:46
And Squirting too. I see Benchseat mentioned his girlfriend knowing how to release herself. I LOVE getting hosed by a lady. Worth the work to get them there. I found it was always best to start that after they have been fucked and came a couple of times. :-)

Misfit
10-12-07, 06:40
Talk about the perfect position to have your significant other in. Now if I can only find a girl to be a submissive slave like this one.

http://hellselevator.com/Free/preview3/preview/CONTENT/pages/z094.htm
http://hellselevator.com/Free/preview3/preview/CONTENT/pages/z073.htm

Misfit

Daka1
02-18-08, 08:27
Medical Fetish includes nurse uniforms, clinic equipment and supplies, latex and rubber goodies, restraints of all types, probes of all kinds, cupping, pumping, sounds, electrostimulation, sharp objects, catheters, enemas, and lots of things you may never have even heard of before.

Even folks not heavily into medical fetish love the Wartenburg Wheel, and many employ e-stim. Dental dams are used for protected DATY and AR. Tuning forks can be fun toys.

Where to find all this fun stuff? Some stuff is available from retailers of sex toys, but there is also a company dedicated to medical fetish items that I've been using for quite a while.

http://www.medicaltoys.com/

In addition to the types of items mentioned above, and many others, the site has a Medical Fetish Library with educational material on various procedures and techniques.

Play safe

[My only connection to this company is as a satisfied customer.]

Horndog132
04-02-08, 00:04
Mongers,

Would some one help me out here please. I have heard of a place in Thailand that a man could check in and submit 24/7/3days-5days as a sub. I have read the posts on this thread. I'd prefer to be the Dom, but I understand the hiearchy sp. Here are some pics, this American girl was fun . . . met her on Match. I know alot of women want to be submissive but I feel I need some fundamental experience to go where I know a few women want to go. Advise appreciated!Sex stats show about 7% of women are into kink... The starting point is education about safe and sane kink play and more important "Trust" women who are into kink and bondage need to know absolutly you respect there boundries and experience with kink... Experienced Women know fetish play or scene creates more intense orgasms... start with education readthe book "SM-101".... attend some local fetish clubs and take some fetish classes...bondage 101, flogging 101, Masochism - "initial recruiting 90-9-1 rule"

"Of every 100 people you meet 90 will be basically stable and sincere, 9 will be genuinly interested in SM but too unstable to work out well in a SM club and 1 will be outright crazy "

women have to sort out these numbers... that is why referrals and fetish classes are a great way to meet like minded people...

Misfit
04-13-08, 06:03
"Of every 100 people you meet 90 will be basically stable and sincere, 9 will be genuinly interested in SM but too unstable to work out well in a SM club and 1 will be outright crazy "

I would find that "1 to be outright crazy" the most fun at being the submissive slave. Females who have a few loose screws in the head can be very fun to play with & are very open minded to just about any fetish.

Misfit

RediMax42
09-19-08, 13:00
I would find that "1 to be outright crazy" the most fun at being the submissive slave. Females who have a few loose screws in the head can be very fun to play with & are very open minded to just about any fetish.

MisfitAnd you simply have to ask.

R Consultant
10-31-08, 20:40
Theres a few sites out there that you can have some serious fun with subs who want to share there fantasies with you and they are very much wanting to explore there kinky side.

Happy Hunting..



I would find that "1 to be outright crazy" the most fun at being the submissive slave. Females who have a few loose screws in the head can be very fun to play with & are very open minded to just about any fetish.

Misfit

Misfit
11-02-08, 08:18
Theres a few sites out there that you can have some serious fun with subs who want to share there fantasies with you and they are very much wanting to explore there kinky side.

Happy Hunting..

What sites are you refering to?

Misfit

Verotica
11-09-08, 20:54
Misfit, there are probably hundreds if not thousands of sites that cater to all those interested in BDSM. A few that I, as a submissive female, tend to like are Alt.com, MyDungeonSpace.com and Colarme.com.

I like MDS a lot since it has a real "community" feel about it; plus, some of the photography is outstanding. I have a few blogs and photos on there myself (under Verotica). It's a great place for veterans and newbies alike.

Anyway, just some suggestions.

V

Niceguy3
11-27-08, 08:57
By far, the best online resource for BDSM friends is fetlife dot com.

Enjoy, Nice

Verotica
11-29-08, 00:02
By far, the best online resource for BDSM friends is fetlife dot com.

Enjoy, NiceThanks for the info - I'm checking it out right now.

V

Misfit
12-14-08, 08:10
Just wanted to share this picture of my favorite pornstar who also does bondage shots. You can't miss her since she advertises her name on her chest. Sexy submissive slave.

Misfit

Supereloquent
12-14-08, 11:42
Misfit, there are probably hundreds if not thousands of sites that cater to all those interested in BDSM. A few that I, as a submissive female, tend to like are Alt.com, MyDungeonSpace.com and Colarme.com.

I like MDS a lot since it has a real "community" feel about it; plus, some of the photography is outstanding. I have a few blogs and photos on there myself (under Verotica). It's a great place for veterans and newbies alike.

Anyway, just some suggestions.

VThere is another main site you missed: bondage.com. I have tried all of these sites and found them somewhat disappointing in that the chances of a female responding to a male inquiry are about 1 in 50 (maybe worse). So maybe there are many false postings or just postings of women who have absolutely no intention of corresponding and/or meeting, or even simply discussing the lifestyle. The other possibility is that the females are overwhelmed with inquiries and don't have the time/energy to reply to even a small portion of those who write.

A much better way of meeting and networking with people in the "lifestyle" is to join a local BDSM group (most are listed on line) that meets periodically in what they call a "munch" or "gathering." Such events are usually for discussion and sometimes demonstration and group play, and are a great way to get to know others of like BDSM temperament.

Raquel Whips
03-05-09, 23:30
I have this duality thing going on.

Smiles.

I pretend to be vanilla in real life all the time.

Raquel Whips

Misfit
03-08-09, 08:08
When I saw your picture, that song by Aerosmith came to mind. What's it called? Ah yes, I believe it is "Dude looks like a lady".

Misfit

Browsebot
03-08-09, 13:07
When I saw your picture, that song by Aerosmith came to mind. What's it called? Ah yes, I believe it is "Dude looks like a lady". Misfit

My guess is that may be what "she" was alluding to when "she" made the comment:


I have this duality thing going on.

Benchseats Rock
03-08-09, 13:44
I have this duality thing going on.

Smiles.

I pretend to be vanilla in real life all the time.

Raquel WhipsYou're definitely a sadist.

That girdle is working way above and beyond the call of duty.

Raquel Whips
04-22-09, 16:13
Yes, Collarme is a good one for playing.


Misfit, there are probably hundreds if not thousands of sites that cater to all those interested in BDSM. A few that I, as a submissive female, tend to like are Alt.com, MyDungeonSpace.com and Colarme.com.

I like MDS a lot since it has a real "community" feel about it; plus, some of the photography is outstanding. I have a few blogs and photos on there myself (under Verotica). It's a great place for veterans and newbies alike.

Anyway, just some suggestions.

V

Raquel Whips
04-22-09, 16:15
I have a few of those waist/girdles...smiles.

Kind of makes my 36F look even bigger.


You're definitely a sadist. That girdle is working way above and beyond the call of duty.

Ray Alan
05-10-09, 14:34
I have this duality thing going on.

Smiles.

I pretend to be vanilla in real life all the time.

Raquel WhipsI only wish I lived in your state.

I would submit to you anytime.

Verotica
06-28-09, 21:12
Hello, boys. It seems as though some of these boards are stagnating. I know business is down and a lot of you can't afford escorts these days, but I also know the economy hasn't made you all less horny!

So let's talk about sex. As in tie-me-up, smack-my-ass, pull-my-hair, clamp-my-nipples and call me Georgie. THAT kind of sex.

I am a submissive female. I LOVE it when a man takes control. It doesn't have to involve accoutrement like crops or ropes; it doesn't have to be degradating or mean; I just want a man who knows what he wants. From himself and from me. Confidence (not arrogance) is the single most sexy trait a man can have.

From that confidence can spring some incredibly erotic games (that DO require accoutrement) and a give-and-take that is currently labeled BDSM. There are layers and levels out there that "vanilla" just can't reach. I'm still exploring, learning and screaming in orgasmic abandon.

I know that I could address my questions and comments to more. Appropriate sites. But I wonder if the every-day hobbyist thinks about power exchange when searching for a provider. Do you seek submissive little lambs? Or are you searching for a woman strong enough to make you whimper?

Let me clarify one thing before I sign off. When I speak of little lambs, be assured that true professionals still harbor the wolf beneath. When I engage in submissive play I am still the one in control at all times. The tricky part is keeping the "sheep's clothing" in place long enough to bring the fantasy to a satisfying conclusion.

V

Ray Alan
06-29-09, 16:19
Hello, boys. It seems as though some of these boards are stagnating. I know business is down and a lot of you can't afford escorts these days, but I also know the economy hasn't made you all less horny!

So let's talk about sex. As in tie-me-up, smack-my-ass, pull-my-hair, clamp-my-nipples and call me Georgie. THAT kind of sex.

I am a submissive female. I LOVE it when a man takes control. It doesn't have to involve accoutrement like crops or ropes; it doesn't have to be degradating or mean; I just want a man who knows what he wants. From himself and from me. Confidence (not arrogance) is the single most sexy trait a man can have.

From that confidence can spring some incredibly erotic games (that DO require accoutrement) and a give-and-take that is currently labeled BDSM. There are layers and levels out there that "vanilla" just can't reach. I'm still exploring, learning and screaming in orgasmic abandon.

I know that I could address my questions and comments to more. Appropriate sites. But I wonder if the every-day hobbyist thinks about power exchange when searching for a provider. Do you seek submissive little lambs? Or are you searching for a woman strong enough to make you whimper?

Let me clarify one thing before I sign off. When I speak of little lambs, be assured that true professionals still harbor the wolf beneath. When I engage in submissive play I am still the one in control at all times. The tricky part is keeping the "sheep's clothing" in place long enough to bring the fantasy to a satisfying conclusion.

VWow, you get me horny just thinking about what you said, I too share your submissiveness, and I like to be the dominant one as well. I have never experienced BDSM with a pro, although I would like to someday, but I have tried it several times with my SO. I have been both the bottom and top at various times.

When I am the top I like the power of dominance over her and to force, albeit within established guidelines, my will on her and she complies. When I am the bottom, I am at ease knowing that I do not have to worry about how to please her, becuase she is the one that is deciding how to please herself by punishing me and forcing me to do things to her. The end result is pleasure for both of us.

I like this sex talk stuff.

ArisRose
10-25-11, 00:39
This section has potential.

CTmongerX1
03-29-12, 23:20
I do not see much posted on specific BDSM clubs for interested mongers to explore the fetish side. In Chicago, there is an open group Sinscenter. Com, went there once, minimal cost. Great as a voyeur. Good way to decide if this lifestyle is for you. Just be open, not judgmental, and to each his own. Any other BDSM groups worth trying in the Midwest?

CTm

Anderground
04-07-12, 06:09
Lots of *FREE* images of B & D for you S / M Fans =

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P. S. As old Uncle Zombie always says :

" America is Land of the Free, and 'Free' means you don't have to pay "This is pictures of nice S&M girl.

http://chatboutbeautiful.********.com/2012/02/whip-and-tie-adrianna-meehan-in-playboy.html

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And also this is actually more fetish then S&M but.

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TimBob
07-16-12, 13:14
If you are near SW Ohio I have a very good friend who recommends her. She has an in Depth knowledge of this interest and an extremely well. Equipped dungeon. He tells me that she is strict without being nasty to her subbies. Very knowledgeable and skilled with electric. Stim.

According to him, this is an amazing new area which he is only now exploring.

He adds that she has a body that is astounding as well as perfect feet. Your H-E is DIY, yet somehow he did not mind, she is that special. Rates start at $.5 / hr and up with options, I. E. She can vary time and experience's

T

SilkyWet
08-04-12, 16:26
Hey its silk and I'm a provider on the cin board I have been looking into bondage and it has grasp my interest. I'm completely new to this but would love to try it out as I'm sure it will be a crowd pleaser. Need someone experienced and will be easy teaching me nt too rough but enough to get my attention. Please feel free to pm me.

Hugs and kisses silk

CardGame
10-21-12, 13:13
Any info on Anna or Aurora posting in Louisville BP under Fetish section? Feel free to PM me with info.

Shaved Cock
11-19-12, 13:17
All:

I thought I'the share one of the wildest experiences I have had in a long time. I was in San Francisco on business last week and went out 2 days early. By sheer coincidence, I happened upon the ultimate kink event called Dark Odyssey (www.darkodyssey.com). There were over 700 'kinksters' in attendance. On Friday, Saturday and Sunday, there were over 50 classes during the day ranging from cock sucking to prostate massage to bondage training, but the evenings were wild.

On the Saturday night, I saw things that I had never imagined:

• Needle play where this woman (who was tied to a cross) must have had 100 needles threaded through her skin along both arms and both legs; thin thread was then used to connect each pair of needles in her arm and leg. When they were done, she looked like a human harp. Unbelievable.

• Tons of doms beating their subs with whips.

• Women wrapped in the heavy plastic used to wrap pallets with just a small hole to breathe.

• People suspended in mid-air by fishing hooks through their skin.

• Orgies galore.

It was the ultimate in kink and well worth the $145.

HollywoodGuy
11-19-12, 14:38
Here is a great place to meet girls.

G-rated parties where you can get numbers and arrange for private sessions later.

http://www.footnight.com/

DockMan
11-24-13, 11:02
All:

I thought I'the share one of the wildest experiences I have had in a long time. I was in San Francisco on business last week and went out 2 days early. By sheer coincidence, I happened upon the ultimate kink event called Dark Odyssey (www.darkodyssey.com). There were over 700 'kinksters' in attendance. On Friday, Saturday and Sunday, there were over 50 classes during the day ranging from cock sucking to prostate massage to bondage training, but the evenings were wild.

On the Saturday night, I saw things that I had never imagined:

• Needle play where this woman (who was tied to a cross) must have had 100 needles threaded through her skin along both arms and both legs; thin thread was then used to connect each pair of needles in her arm and leg. When they were done, she looked like a human harp. Unbelievable.

• Tons of doms beating their subs with whips.

• Women wrapped in the heavy plastic used to wrap pallets with just a small hole to breathe.

• People suspended in mid-air by fishing hooks through their skin.

• Orgies galore.

It was the ultimate in kink and well worth the $145.I've heard that it's pretty intense and great fun to watch. It's on my bucket list.

Toshi69
01-28-14, 14:32
I've heard that it's pretty intense and great fun to watch. It's on my bucket list.But did not partake didn't like the price. Perhaps I should have.

DockMan
01-30-14, 09:58
But did not partake didn't like the price. Perhaps I should have.I've played with a pro domme and it's a lot of fun. I'd never believed that it would be enjoyable, but I had a blast. She knew how much I could take and I was very satisfied at the end of the session.

Ampboner
04-29-14, 23:28
Agree with what is said. First time. CBT by several petite asian dominants. I think I would have lost my head with one had I even hinted yes with my eyes.

Sascout
05-06-14, 00:00
I (male) have am in a codependent relationship with a submissive female that I seem to be addicted to how I've been taking her sexually the last year or so. She is paranoid that I'm going to leave her and will stop at nothing to keep me from breaking up with her, Yet this hasn't stopped her from being very argumentative with me. I don't know if this qualifies as a BDSM type relationship but she's always in pain when I have anal sex with her, she hates it and finds it horrible and used to always complain about it and tell me to slow down use more lube., stop taking it out "once its in leave it in" stuff, and used to make me stop. After a real bad argument one time I pretty much gave her an ultimatum. I told her I was going to do her anal and that if she didn't let me finish I was going to leave her, I was so furious at her. She reluctantly agreed and opened Pandora's box that night.

I was really angry and wanted her to feel some pain and discomfort to punish her. I didn't think she could handle it and that I'the be out the door eitherway, and this was the case at first as she would get angry and yelled at me to stop. I began gathering my clothes and things as I was really ready to leave the relationship. She starts mocking me but eventually realizes I'm serious as I start ignoring her. She starts trying to negotiate with me as I'm packing up silently ignoring her. As I'm walking out the door she starts to panic and starts crying. She wraps her self around me blocking me from leaving. Pretty much pleading to know what she can do for us to work it out. Angrily I tell her to let me finish. She disagrees I advance towards the door, she eventually agrees after a few attempts to negotiate and me rejecting them by moving to the door.

She presents her self doggy with her ass up high and her head way down on the bed. She also makes the mistake of taunting me. I forget exactly what she says but I want to remember it was some what insulting along the lines that "Your not a man". She bolts forward when I roughly thrust my penis forcefully inside of her to which I snap at her that "I'm not messing around either your going to do this or I'm out." She says nothing. She repositions and faces away from me with that face of disgust I've learned to love punishing over and over these days. Not nearly as aggressive as my first thrust I reinsert my cock in to her and start pumping. Still feeling annoyed I thrust more quickly enjoying the firm pinch of her sphincter but more so now that my speed and pressure are no longer regulated by her demands or grunts of agony. All the way in and all the way out, I can feel my cock expanding a little bit more with each thrust, and I'm guessing so does she. Her head turns around from time to time to glare at me all angry like she thinks it will intimidate me, but this just makes me more callus and I thrust harshly and till she breaks eye contact. I take little breaks now and then and pull all the way out for a while to let her close up and then start up again. It must have been working cause I see her face tense up and wince. I pull out when I see she's loosing to let her close up then repeat the penetration. Her back and body is wet from a cold sweat. Her buttocks feel cool against my hips as they slap into them. She's trying to be strong but she's starting to cry into the pillow.

Do the sounds of your woman crying during anal sex also send a chill down your spin and out your penis like a bolt? To me its almost like the sensation of biting into a lemon. Does it feel primal and natural taking her this way? Are you addicted to the sounds of her agony and desperation? I know I'm addicted but much like other addictions fail to satisfy as time goes on. I keep finding my self pushing and pushing her to the edge but stopping just before she starts screaming. One time she panicked and froze up on me and went into a fetal crouch. She wasn't even crying she just up stopped. I don't push her that hard anymore.

The strange thing is the moment I come I feel disturbed by all this I put her through and feel really bad for her. I start to cuddle and she's of course greatly relieved its all over. The holding and carerssing must be why she goes through with it. I don't know she brings the monster out of me. Its like I feel disturbed but that feeling wears off after an hour or so and its back to normal. We pretty much have anal sex exclusively and she hates it always but she knows it's a huge part of our relationship and knows her place in bed so se performs it faithfully.

I know this story may sound to fantastic to be true but Its true, and I also know I'm not alone. But I'm wondering how your relationships are? How far has your relationship gone with your submissive woman?

Joesouncool
08-15-14, 14:59
How far are most people willing to go when someone asks for something that's more than a little bit out there? I've drawn the line with a chick at the point of autoerotic asphyxiation to the point of her passing out (a little tightness on the neck is fine, but this chick wants too much from me).

Sludge
08-18-14, 17:15
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Wiregrass
10-12-14, 19:51
I've only read this one page, but Sascout, I know where you come from. I have those same demons, wanting to draw pain, but always relent after only a bit of anal torment to my wife; she abhors it (and me) when pushed into position / performed, despite her protests. I'd love to continue but guilt quickly creeps in and that's the end for me.

Incidentally, reading your post stirred my loins. Maybe later this week I'll again tackle the brown spot (we've got company preventing it until Wed.).

Sascout
11-22-14, 02:26
How far are most people willing to go when someone asks for something that's more than a little bit out there? I've drawn the line with a chick at the point of autoerotic asphyxiation to the point of her passing out (a little tightness on the neck is fine, but this chick wants too much from me).

I've done the choke out before. At least I think its a full choke out. She'll just collapse and I'll let go right at that point. Its funny cause it doesn't seem like she's losing consciousness because it only lasts like maby 1 second but she's always like "What happened" and she won't even remember we were having sex.

Sascout
11-22-14, 02:29
I've only read this one page, but Sascout, I know where you come from. I have those same demons, wanting to draw pain, but always relent after only a bit of anal torment to my wife; she abhors it (and me) when pushed into position / performed, despite her protests. I'd love to continue but guilt quickly creeps in and that's the end for me.

Incidentally, reading your post stirred my loins. Maybe later this week I'll again tackle the brown spot (we've got company preventing it until Wed.).

Well then becareful if you are ever angry at her. Cause those guilty feelings just vaporize, and it becomes an addictive method of punishment. Sometimes I'm just ready to start a fight so I can punish her.

Sascout
11-22-14, 02:35
I've done the choke out before. At least I think its a full choke out. She'll just collapse and I'll let go right at that point. Its funny cause it doesn't seem like she's losing consciousness because it only lasts like maby 1 second but she's always like "What happened" and she won't even remember we were having sex.


Oh I forgot to mention. Its not asphyxiation (Oxygen deprevasion) its just pinching off her blood supply. She should still be breathing when she goes lights out.

Arzee Banda
12-04-15, 17:23
Evolutionary theory predicts that males would be apt to seek more mating partners than females because they obtain higher reproductive benefits from such a strategy. Accordingly, males developed many behavior strategies that allowthem to acquire more reproductively capable sexual partners. Therefore, in order to monopolize periods of more than one female's reproductive life span without being considered polygamous and thus breaking social norms of a monogamous society, males try to remarry women younger than themselves. A study done in 1994 found a significant difference between ages of remarried men and women because the men have a longer reproductive window.

Monogamous pairs of animals are not always sexually exclusive. Many animals that form pairs to mate and raise offspring regularly engage in sexual activities with partners other than their primary mate. This is called extra-pair copulation. Sometimes these extra-pair sexual activities lead to offspring. Genetic tests frequently show that some of the offspring raised by a monogamous pair come from the female mating with an extra-pair male partner. These discoveries have led biologists to adopt new ways of talking about monogamy:

Ampboner
02-02-16, 11:16
Agree with what is said. First time. CBT by several petite asian dominants. I think I would have lost my head with one had I even hinted yes with my eyes.As a follow up. CBT with two young Vietnamese in LA. Not real experienced. Really just escorts. One almost bit the head of my cock off. Pain for real. Also a trip to the ER and to a urologist to.

To repair it further with two operations. I still am intact. A little deformed. Could have really lost it. I say to all be very careful and only play with the pro's who know when fantasy is exceeded.

NicolasBruno
07-08-16, 10:36
All I have is this picture and the information she is currently in Detroit, Michigan. She claims she posed for Vogue and Diva.

LoganSon
05-05-17, 18:01
Hi,

I am new here and have reviewed the topics, checked the lingo page, and searched my area threads for bdsm topics and providers with no luck. I used to use backpage and look on eros and craigslist but am unfamiliar with other resources. Is there a thread here on good resources? The familiar backpage women don't post in the "women seeking men" thread as much as they did special interests so I have to assume they're somewhere. I am on fetlife and collarspace but everything else I've searched for seems shady. Any help would be great.

Thanks.

DomBlkMilitar
05-21-17, 12:00
Hi,

I am new here and have reviewed the topics, checked the lingo page, and searched my area threads for bdsm topics and providers with no luck. I used to use backpage and look on eros and craigslist but am unfamiliar with other resources. Is there a thread here on good resources? The familiar backpage women don't post in the "women seeking men" thread as much as they did special interests so I have to assume they're somewhere. I am on fetlife and collarspace but everything else I've searched for seems shady. Any help would be great.

Thanks.Are you looking for a pro-Domme or a pro-sub?

DockMan
07-16-17, 10:37
I'd suggest putting an personal ad on Fetlife stating what your looking for and whether you're looking for a professional or a non pro to satisfy you. That's how I found my domme.


Hi,

I am new here and have reviewed the topics, checked the lingo page, and searched my area threads for bdsm topics and providers with no luck. I used to use backpage and look on eros and craigslist but am unfamiliar with other resources. Is there a thread here on good resources? The familiar backpage women don't post in the "women seeking men" thread as much as they did special interests so I have to assume they're somewhere. I am on fetlife and collarspace but everything else I've searched for seems shady. Any help would be great.

Thanks.

Civ2000
10-20-17, 06:31
I (male) have am in a codependent relationship with a submissive female that I seem to be addicted to how I've been taking her sexually the last year or so. She is paranoid that I'm going to leave her and will stop at nothing to keep me from breaking up with her, Yet this hasn't stopped her from being very argumentative with me. I don't know if this qualifies as a BDSM type relationship but she's always in pain when I have anal sex with her, she hates it and finds it horrible and used to always complain about it and tell me to slow down use more lube., stop taking it out "once its in leave it in" stuff, and used to make me stop. After a real bad argument one time I pretty much gave her an ultimatum. I told her I was going to do her anal and that if she didn't let me finish I was going to leave her, I was so furious at her. She reluctantly agreed and opened Pandora's box that night.

I was really angry and wanted her to feel some pain and discomfort to punish her. I didn't think she could handle it and that I'the be out the door eitherway, and this was the case at first as she would get angry and yelled at me to stop. I began gathering my clothes and things as I was really ready to leave the relationship. She starts mocking me but eventually realizes I'm serious as I start ignoring her. She starts trying to negotiate with me as I'm packing up silently ignoring her. As I'm walking out the door she starts to panic and starts crying. She wraps her self around me blocking me from leaving. Pretty much pleading to know what she can do for us to work it out. Angrily I tell her to let me finish. She disagrees I advance towards the door, she eventually agrees after a few attempts to negotiate and me rejecting them by moving to the door.

She presents her self doggy with her ass up high and her head way down on the bed. She also makes the mistake of taunting me. I forget exactly what she says but I want to remember it was some what insulting along the lines that "Your not a man". She bolts forward when I roughly thrust my penis forcefully inside of her to which I snap at her that "I'm not messing around either your going to do this or I'm out." She says nothing. She repositions and faces away from me with that face of disgust I've learned to love punishing over and over these days. Not nearly as aggressive as my first thrust I reinsert my cock in to her and start pumping. Still feeling annoyed I thrust more quickly enjoying the firm pinch of her sphincter but more so now that my speed and pressure are no longer regulated by her demands or grunts of agony. All the way in and all the way out, I can feel my cock expanding a little bit more with each thrust, and I'm guessing so does she. Her head turns around from time to time to glare at me all angry like she thinks it will intimidate me, but this just makes me more callus and I thrust harshly and till she breaks eye contact. I take little breaks now and then and pull all the way out for a while to let her close up and then start up again. It must have been working cause I see her face tense up and wince. I pull out when I see she's loosing to let her close up then repeat the penetration. Her back and body is wet from a cold sweat. Her buttocks feel cool against my hips as they slap into them. She's trying to be strong but she's starting to cry into the pillow.

Do the sounds of your woman crying during anal sex also send a chill down your spin and out your penis like a bolt? To me its almost like the sensation of biting into a lemon. Does it feel primal and natural taking her this way? Are you addicted to the sounds of her agony and desperation? I know I'm addicted but much like other addictions fail to satisfy as time goes on. I keep finding my self pushing and pushing her to the edge but stopping just before she starts screaming. One time she panicked and froze up on me and went into a fetal crouch. She wasn't even crying she just up stopped. I don't push her that hard anymore.

The strange thing is the moment I come I feel disturbed by all this I put her through and feel really bad for her. I start to cuddle and she's of course greatly relieved its all over. The holding and carerssing must be why she goes through with it. I don't know she brings the monster out of me. Its like I feel disturbed but that feeling wears off after an hour or so and its back to normal. We pretty much have anal sex exclusively and she hates it always but she knows it's a huge part of our relationship and knows her place in bed so se performs it faithfully.

I know this story may sound to fantastic to be true but Its true, and I also know I'm not alone. But I'm wondering how your relationships are? How far has your relationship gone with your submissive woman?It really just sounds like you are sexually abusing a mentally ill woman with Borderline Personality Disorder. Probably not okay and you could likely face criminal charges if she wanted, and since Borderlines don't love anyone, she actually hates you, but she's horribly afraid of losing you due to her severe abandonment issues, she will have the last laugh as she destroys you. Be careful, you are walking on dangerous ground.

MrHandsome7
02-02-19, 13:03
I was just wondering what you guys think the prices for pro dommes be and should I pay them more then hookers? I'm looking to explore my submissive side but don't want to be taken advantage finances wise. I have a humiliation fetish, foot fetish, and overall just want to be dominated. What are some of your experiences with Pro domme?

Taylor Taste
04-04-19, 10:05
I don't want a professional. I am looking more for someone with like a secret kinky side. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets type of thing.

DockMan
06-12-19, 16:33
I had one for several years and would see her every other month or so and an hour and a half-2 hour session would cost $300-400 depending how much work it was for her. She did not dominate me financially but I willingly gave her thousands over the years. But damn was it worth it. I'd only cum once per session near the end but it was hard as hell and left me shaking and she's hold me for 30 minutes giving me aftercare.


I was just wondering what you guys think the prices for pro dommes be and should I pay them more then hookers? I'm looking to explore my submissive side but don't want to be taken advantage finances wise. I have a humiliation fetish, foot fetish, and overall just want to be dominated. What are some of your experiences with Pro domme?

PornDude2
10-29-19, 02:22
Hi gang. In the past I had some very nice prostate massages in Bangkok. And now I am tried to find something similar in or around Seattle but with no luck. Does someone local have any experience with this?

Jackknoff
11-16-19, 02:03
All I have is this picture and the information she is currently in Detroit, Michigan. She claims she posed for Vogue and Diva.I'd love to know more about her.

Von1995
07-17-20, 01:01
I had one for several years and would see her every other month or so and an hour and a half-2 hour session would cost $300-400 depending how much work it was for her. She did not dominate me financially but I willingly gave her thousands over the years. But damn was it worth it. I'd only cum once per session near the end but it was hard as hell and left me shaking and she's hold me for 30 minutes giving me aftercare.I've wanted something like what you described for a while, but with more financial domination. Willingly giving a girl money, sending her gifts, and just feeling like she owns me feels so good.

Joesouncool
12-17-20, 21:41
I don't want a professional. I am looking more for someone with like a secret kinky side. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets type of thing.Old question, but thought I would share my MO.

I've liked to go to stripclubs since I turned 21. I don't go that often. I have success when I go alone. I don't make a scene, don't yell and scream. I play everything low key. I don't make it rain. All I do is talk to the strippers, waitresses, and bartenders like normal people. I treat them like normal people, which they are. Women love to have their hair pulled. I'll be respectful, but be firm in pulling a girls hair. You would be completely shocked at the number of fish that have just jumped in the boat. Every one of this chicks was normal looking and a complete sex freak in some way. One had a masters degree. One was a p5 cheerleader in college. There were a few that just came to work to make money and then go home.

Gail D Barry
01-23-21, 18:31
Hi gang. In the past I had some very nice prostate massages in Bangkok. And now I am tried to find something similar in or around Seattle but with no luck. Does someone local have any experience with this?If you find, then share, please, I want to try this type of massage.

DomBlkMilitar
06-07-21, 23:22
I don't want a professional. I am looking more for someone with like a secret kinky side. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets type of thing.Attend munches in your area. Fetlife is a good free source.

StrongMan69
04-22-22, 06:36
Hello everyone! Surely you can help me, I know I am in the right place! Soon I will be away for work in Italy, in Milan, and I would like to arrive with the tasks already done! Have any of you already been to Italy? I am looking for a Pro Domme that will make me his slave. I saw these two dominatrixes, Lady Scarlet and Goddess Noemi Bulgari the angel of sin. Do you have any info or have you already tried it? Thanks, below I put the link to the site where I saw them.

<a href="https://charmescorts.com/escort/mistress/milano" Mistress to Milan</ a .

Bettyyyyy
05-31-22, 22:45
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AlexandraS
07-28-23, 22:22
Hello everyone!

I am curious to discuss and to find out more about what are the first things you take in consideration before booking a session with a prodomme.

Is it appearance, what she offers, price?

AlexandraS
07-28-23, 22:38
If you find, then share, please, I want to try this type of massage.Hello everyone.

I am curious to find out and discuss about what are the first things you take in consideration before booking a session with a pro-domme. Is it the appearance, price, experience, what she offers?