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02-22-04, 16:44
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JimmyDR
02-22-04, 16:59
After doing more than 100 trips, I would say that a good place to start is either Costa Rica or Dominican Republic. The shock of the third world may be too much for some so if you need to get back, you are not very far at all. These areas are full of Americans and Europeans who can assist you if you need help, suchas finding a taxi, an Embassy or a doctor.

Lukasek
02-28-04, 19:10
Ciao Jimmy,

I am beginner in mongering, so I have some questions, (looking to your reports number you have surely big experince). I arrived in a bedroom with her, or in private flat, she wants money before sex, I want to give her money after sex. What you can suggesst me in this situation? Which lies (smiling) can I tell her? It could be enough to show her that I am ready to go to another place or girl to make her change her mind and accept money after sex? Cause I think,that most of times, I can have better sex if she receive money after sex, right? Question is "is it possible with you to have anal and can I kiss you during sex, I mean french kiss not oral, are normal question or not? So I have not to be shy for ask her this, right?

Thank you very much in advance!

Best regards,

Luca

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JimmyDR
02-29-04, 11:16
Ciao Jimmy,

I am beginner in mongering, so I have some questions, (looking to your reports number you have surely big experince). I arrived in a bedroom with her, or in private flat, she wants money before sex, I want to give her money after sex. What you can suggesst me in this situation? It depends what the custom is. Some clubs in DR you pay first while streetwalkers there you pay afterwards Which lies (smiling) can I tell her? It could be enough to show her that I am ready to go to another place or girl to make her change her mind and accept money after sex? Cause I think,that most of times, I can have better sex if she receive money after sex, right? Question is "is it possible with you to have anal and can I kiss you during sex, I mean french kiss not oral, are normal question or not? So I have not to be shy for ask her this, right? You need to tell them upfront what yoy want or they may say no afterwards. they are not all into this.


Thank you very much in advance!

Best regards,

Luca

Jaimito Cartero
02-29-04, 11:53
As JimmyDr states, you may want to negotiate all that you want before price is even discussed. For instance, I like DFK, DATY and BBBJ. Only the latter is usually a dealbreaker, but I do like the whole package.

I don't recommend paying up front if possible. However, many incall places there is no other choice.

I'd read the forums for the area you are going to, and then see what the norm is there. Some girls are afraid of getting ripped off of their fee, and of course you are fearful of getting subpar service. If you based in the US, money up front is fairly common where you don't know the lady.

Say you want to go to the Domincan Republic for 7 days of sun and fun. I'd read back at least 6 months and view some good field reports. Then if you have specific questions you'll have enough info to ask an intelligent question.

For close locations (if you're North American based), DR or CR would be the easiest choice. If you're willing to fly a bit further, Brazil, Argentina and Thailand are the other good choices.

Nefarious
03-21-04, 14:55
I will be traveling to Sosua, DR at the end of this month (March 2004). I would like some good advice on how to get two hot chicas in bed at once. How much will this cost me? Where would be a good palce to find this? Does anyone have expereicnes with this in Sosua?

Also, if I find that my hotel which is in a great location, but expensive and probably highly over-rated, is not chica friendly, what are my options for getting a cheap place for overnight? In fact, I might actually prefer not bringing them back to my room with my valuables. Any suggestions on either a cheap place to hae sex for the night if I want LT or a good, cheap place for ST sex there? Full-service massage, etc?

Does anyone know if real Viagra and Cialis available in Sosua? Just in case I want to try them? Reply or PM me.

Thanks,

Nefarious

JimmyDR
03-25-04, 17:42
I will be traveling to Sosua, DR at the end of this month (March 2004). I would like some good advice on how to get two hot chicas in bed at once. How much will this cost me? It costs doublr. Where would be a good palce to find this? Any of the clubs. Does anyone have expereicnes with this in Sosua? I had 2 a few times.

Also, if I find that my hotel which is in a great location, but expensive and probably highly over-rated, is not chica friendly, what are my options for getting a cheap place for overnight? In fact, I might actually prefer not bringing them back to my room with my valuables. I posted all of them. Any suggestions on either a cheap place to hae sex for the night if I want LT or a good, cheap place for ST sex there? Full-service massage, etc?

Does anyone know if real Viagra and Cialis available in Sosua? Just in case I want to try them? Reply or PM me.

Thanks,

Nefarious

Double Nickle
11-26-06, 15:17
I would like to know how people even get to this website. I would think you would like to know that too. It is not like that question is too much of a personal inquiry, but it would be interesting to see how posters first arrived on this site. I think you should post that question because people would be more likely to answer you. Just a suggestion.I had seen USASexGuide before when surfing the web. But I didn't need it. There were 10 Asian Massage Parlors (AMPs) in Waterbury, Connecticut where I lived. I had no need to look outside Waterbury. Then all 10 Waterbury AMPs were shut down. I needed to look elsewhere. I was reminded of USASexGuide by the local paper which quoted it. I used USASexGuide for information on Norwalk, Connecticut and on Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. I had some good times in both places but had not yet joined USASexGuide. They were both raided in mid-August. This was the last straw. I joined USASexGuide the end of August. This is supposedly the land of liberty with free trade, free minds, and absence of bizarre religious prohibitions. Why should I need to fly to Copenhagen for a blow job or more.

Why did others join? How about you Keloid?

Double Nickle, All American Fighter for Sexual Freedom

Jboyva
06-18-08, 22:31
I am new to all this and just wanted to see if someone would give me an explanation of what should be included in these.

Thanks

Pseudonymous
06-23-08, 14:47
How do we handle paying in advance for a SW? I've tried this for my past few outings but all of them have their hands out whenever we've agreed to the deal. I believe one of the 22 rules is never pay in advance and even one of the SWs told me I shouldn't pay in advance. What are some suggestions to avoid paying up front then since the SW got what she wanted, does a half arse job since she already has the $.

Lusty Lloyd
04-06-09, 17:29
Can anyone give me a link to an existing post/ report/ story on safe (well, relatively safe) and intellegent ways to pick up streetwalkers on foot in a downtown metropolitan area? I know that there are SW's near where I live, and occasionaly I travel and see many possibilities. "Lloyd" has had some success car dating over the years, but does not want to have his car impounded, and doesn't always rent cars when traveling out of town. Specifically, I am looking for:

1)Simple ways to seperate temporary girlfriends from the pedestrians seeking boyfriends. The "look" and other signs seem much more subtle or nonexistant. Heh, maybe they aren't h**kers after all!

1a) Approaching a potential "civilian"? How careful/ subtle must you be?

2) Simple LE checks w/out vehicle. Lloyd relied heavily on a lady's willingness to get in car.

3) Simple ways to get your prize to room w/out having Mr Pimp in your business.

4) Negotiate on street (Yikes! Risky, risky) Room? Somewhere between?

5) Getting rid of a tranny? Should you monger in track spikes?

6) Any other advice on a matter that Lloyd is overlooking, or comments and experiences?

Prea51
06-23-09, 01:41
Do you guys think there would be any problems with my being 18 trying to get an escort? Like would escorts not even want to see me?

Carlusa
02-06-10, 13:50
I'm new to this and hoping to get some advice from the more sucessful, experienced mongers.

I have been looking at all the options- AMPs, SW's, escorts...

I'm a pretty cautious person by nature, so the SW thing seems a little risky to me- as well as not very safe or comfortable. I'm looking for more of a relaxing experience with no drama.

What I want:
A nice atmosphere, massage, sex. A nice friendly, professional relationship, maybe long term.

I don't want cops, extortion, STDs, mugging, etc.

What I am thinking of is incall service with craigslist type ladies.

What are your ideas on how to achieve this? They all want background info which I want to keep private, or referrals from other ASP's (which I don't have). How do I avoid giving this out but still provide reassurance to the lady that I'm not a cop/psycho/killer?

How do I protect myself when meeting her the first time- No muggers hiding in the closet, recording devices, having my stuff stolen, etc.

I want to protect her but at the same time protect myself.

Carl USA

Tuglover1
02-07-10, 23:10
I'm new to this and hoping to get some advice from the more sucessful, experienced mongers.

I have been looking at all the options- AMPs, SW's, escorts.

I'm a pretty cautious person by nature, so the SW thing seems a little risky to me- as well as not very safe or comfortable. I'm looking for more of a relaxing experience with no drama.

What I want:

A nice atmosphere, massage, sex. A nice friendly, professional relationship, maybe long term.

I don't want cops, extortion, STDs, mugging, etc.

What I am thinking of is incall service with craigslist type ladies.

What are your ideas on how to achieve this? They all want background info which I want to keep private, or referrals from other ASP's (which I don't have). How do I avoid giving this out but still provide reassurance to the lady that I'm not a cop/psycho/killer?

How do I protect myself when meeting her the first time- No muggers hiding in the closet, recording devices, having my stuff stolen, etc.

I want to protect her but at the same time protect myself.

Carl USACarl it sounds to me like you are somewhat nervous about your first monger experience, and rightfully so. There are a lot of variables that need to be considered, many of which you seem to be aware of. Because of these said reasons and your lack of experience in the field I would highly suggest you try an AMP first. Full service AMPs offer everything you appear to be looking for with none of the negative variables you seem so concerned with. They offer the "nice atmosphere, massage, sex" that you are looking for and if you find a particular girl that you like at one and keep returning you might even gain the "nice friendly, professional relationship, maybe long term" you are also interested in. However, be forewarned the girls at most AMPs rotate frequently, so avoid becoming emotional attached to any of them. After you become more acquainted with the game then you can move onto the escorts and SWs. Start posting your experiences on your local forum in order to gain the respect of other users and they may eventually be willing to point you in the right direction of positively rated escorts in your area and perhaps even provide you with a friendly referral. Remember not everyone on here is as willing to offer free advice so get out there and start reporting before asking too many questions.

Good luck and happy mongering.

Uncle Tug

Carlusa
02-09-10, 01:49
Thanks for the advice Uncle Tug! Yes, it looks like ASP is the way to start out. Much of the stuff I am concerned about is minimized that way- these places want to stay in business, so not much bad stuff is going to happen.

I'm only so-so on Asian faire- really prefer European and Latina. But I guess that can wait till I get some experience at the AMP. Going to take my frst crack at it later this week or maybe this weekend.

I wonder why the Asians have cornered this market? I would seem that any race could do just fine at this game. Something to do with Asian gangs or something? In my area (Colorado) at least all the massage places which have the signs of offering extras are Asian. You would think the Latinas would open "Grateful Taco massage" or "Burrito Heaven Spa" or whatever.

Carl

Member #3969
02-09-10, 11:18
IMHO most of them wouldn't even bat an eye at your age as long as you act mature. If you go in there and act like some young, dumb kid they might. I really don't see them caring about the "legal" aspect of being at least 18. Heck, some might even find that a plus as they can "teach you right". We do have several locals around here that do post a line such as "mature gentleman over 35 only" but those are in the minority. The main concern is to make money and not get busted. Good luck out there and keep the board updated on your actions.


Do you guys think there would be any problems with my being 18 trying to get an escort? Like would escorts not even want to see me?

Viriato
07-04-14, 02:06
Hi all. Amateur monger here. I've already had my first experience at an MP (not an AMP as it wasn't Asian) and established myself as a reliable repeat customer. Same woman each time, but I rather prefer it that way. I like her, and she's probably the most attractive and certainly the most skilled masseuse working there. Hoping to work up the courage to ask for FS soon. Yeah, it's an expensive hobby.

Anyway, I want to get some more mongering under my belt and would appreciate some advice. There are plenty of websites and reviews for MPs and even individual masseuses on the web, and while I haven't yet worked up the courage to approach a SW yet, there seems to be plenty of information on the subject. I've made the rounds a few times and have identified some possible SWs. The area that I'm most interested in information on are the various ads I've seen on Craig's List and Backpage. What are some good ways to separate the scams from the real women? I've tried contacting some of them, but so far with mixed results. A lot of them seem to have automated responses, and use fake pics (had one girl who claimed she was pregnant, for ex, but she didn't have a belly bulge in the pics she sent me; can't help but feel it was a scam).

Carib2
01-27-16, 12:40
Just curious, what is the difference between the "general" boards in each city and the escort / backpage / etc. Boards?

Challenger1970
02-04-16, 14:07
I'd like some advice on traveling and hobbying in the Dominican Republic, or perhaps someone can recommend another forum out there, since this one is for the USA. Can anyone help?

Xainn75
03-08-16, 20:28
I was researching burner phones today (new to the hobby) when I ran across this instead. Already using it and works as advertised.

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.adhoclabs.burner

IndianaMike
03-26-16, 07:39
Headed into Canada (Ontario) for week long trip Hitting at least 2 cities that I have seen ads on Backpage with some interesting prospects! Is our hobbie legal up there? They ads seem more to the point?

FuzzyB
03-29-16, 18:38
Headed into Canada (Ontario) for week long trip Hitting at least 2 cities that I have seen ads on Backpage with some interesting prospects! Is our hobbie legal up there? They ads seem more to the point?I visited Toronto several times about 10 years ago to indulge. I was single at the time.

The hobby wasn't exactly legal, but there was a court decision that basically said anything two consenting adults decide to do in the privacy of a hotel room is none of the government's business. LE couldn't use entrapment.

Streetwalkers and their clients were still subject to arrest, but in-call and out-call escort services were safe from LE back then.

Google to make sure this hasn't changed, but it was hobby heaven in Toronto back then.

FredWu
06-20-18, 19:03
What do you guys do if you find the woman too old or unattractive, but know that they have other girls there, but not by name.

She's not the mms.

Drste
07-16-19, 23:53
Good evening ya'll.

I'm a fairly established guy looking to play around in the scene a little. I've only done this in the US a couple times when I was younger, I was very nervous but had great experiences. Also have done it outside the US, but also where the rules are different.

Can anybody lend any advice? What I'm concerned about is mostly:

With both the fake ads and the girls posting pics that aren't themselves, how do you know if a girl is real?

How do you know a girl isn't LEO?

Do you have a process to verify or confirm these things? Are the reviews reliable, if so, on what aspects?

I see a lot of great options on the different sites where they post. Not hard to find several I'd love to call. But it seems by reading the boards that girls are sparse, leaving me without a good direction to go.

John B Tipton
08-09-19, 09:24
What ... if you find the woman too old or unattractive, but know that they have other girls there, but not by name.You are a customer paying for service. Some ways you can be direct but absolutely polite. Smile pleasantly while negotiating.

If talking with the mamasan, "Who is working today?" . "May I see girls?

If you are talking with the girl, "Other girls? This may be a disappointment to the "girl" to whom you are talking, but you are giving the mamasan and the business the chance for a paying customer and the "girl", who is a pro, will almost certainly know her desirability or lack of desirability and not take it too personally.

If you paid for a massage before seeing the "girl", you have made a mistake and should enjoy the massage, seeing how it goes. Sometimes experience or willingness to please tops looks.

Last, If whoever opens the door asks for payment for the massage before you know who the masseuse is and you don't want to be cornered, have in a pocket a prepaid (e. G bought for cash) credit card with enough on the account to pay for a massage. Mine is Amex or Wells Fargo or something that the "spa" is unlikely to be able to accept. That way you can smile and say, "I see if I have money in the car" and drive elsewhere. I found this gem of advice on this board. RTFB!

NoOne01
09-04-19, 17:18
I'm 22 and a virgin, and I would like to change that. I have a few questions:

What is the legality of all of this in the US? My understanding is that paying for sex is illegal, except in Vegas, so it's a bit of a shock to see so many "escort" services.

I'm in Texas right now. I arrived a few days ago and had planned to stay for a month, but I've had issues with my Aibnb and now I'm at a hotel. If I can't get a refund from Airbnb I have to end my trip. I had hoped to visit Vegas for a few days to see some colleges but my plans are up in the air right now.

How much does a FS quality escort usually cost? Would it be better (safer, legal) for me to go to Vegas? Are there alternatives? I have pretty bad social anxiety but having a few drinks helps with that tremendously.

Also, how can I get Viagra discreetly? I can't have it shipped anywhere and I'd rather not walk into a store and buy it.

Dusty20
09-12-19, 12:02
Anybody have experience with these?

Seems to be a lot of young eager girls but a slightly different dynamic.

Curious to hear different strategies thatve been successful.

MeanJoe
09-20-19, 16:36
I'm new and am curious about some of the donations I see. Some ads list a "menu" that includes virtually everything, yet the donation listed seams really low to me. At least low compared to most other ads I have seen. Is this a "Red Flag"?

MistFall
09-29-19, 21:26
What's protocol when a provider doesn't list her rates? Should you just ask? Also, what if you aren't sure she is, say, full service or not? Again, just ask? Better text or voice if so? Thanks!

MeanJoe
10-14-19, 20:47
I keep seeing this acronym but I don't see it listed anywhere and can't figure it out form the context. So, I'm new but what is UTR?

MistFall
10-15-19, 17:58
I keep seeing this acronym but I don't see it listed anywhere and can't figure it out form the context. So, I'm new but what is UTR?Under The Radar.

StrongMan4444
10-18-19, 11:53
I've been an avid AMP monger for a while now and was considering giving some of the local escorts a try. I enjoy my AMP time but sometimes need a bit more creativity in my sessions, maybe try out some fetishes I've had on my mind, and maybe get more of a GFE. What should I expect as part of the screening? Some seem to be looking for copies of drivers licenses, employment information, and prepaid deposits, none of which I am particularly comfortable with, but most ads are pretty vague and only say there will be a screening process.

It also doesn't help that I seem to somehow remind many service providers of their uncle LEO. I guess it's just some sort of vibe I give off but the 1st thing every MG asks me is what I do for a living. Once I tell them, they say "You not cop? You look like cop! I don't know much about how uncle LEO operates but I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be lying their with LEO Jr. Staring at the ceiling! I guess if I do decide to provide a picture, it may scare them off, and not because I am ugly.

I am just curious about the typical (if there is one) process I should be looking for before I do something stupid. I know we will all probably get burned to some degree at some time but just looking for a little guidance to minimize the damage if / when it happens. Thanks!

Old Sailor
12-28-19, 01:09
I'm 22 and a virgin, and I would like to change that. I have a few questions:

What is the legality of all of this in the US? My understanding is that paying for sex is illegal, except in Vegas, so it's a bit of a shock to see so many "escort" services.

I'm in Texas right now. I arrived a few days ago and had planned to stay for a month, but I've had issues with my Aibnb and now I'm at a hotel. If I can't get a refund from Airbnb I have to end my trip. I had hoped to visit Vegas for a few days to see some colleges but my plans are up in the air right now.

How much does a FS quality escort usually cost? Would it be better (safer, legal) for me to go to Vegas? Are there alternatives? I have pretty bad social anxiety but having a few drinks helps with that tremendously.

Also, how can I get Viagra discreetly? I can't have it shipped anywhere and I'd rather not walk into a store and buy it.You are 22, why would you need Viagra?

It's legal outside if Vegas, headed towards Pahrump.

And the government still can't stop the worlds oldest profession.

FranklySports
01-03-20, 10:54
You are 22, why would you need Viagra?

It's legal outside if Vegas, headed towards Pahrump.

And the government still can't stop the worlds oldest profession.Relax you'll be fine. When I was 22 I had trouble keeping it down not up.

LonelyGuy1
01-03-20, 17:33
The mongering in my town has all dried up. I'm in the process of searching for a new career opportunity. Which areas are the most monger friendly? Especially for someone with an asian fetish?

Vapido
03-04-20, 23:53
Yup, I is rookie.

I've read the terms and abbreviations doc (extremely informative, I must say! And I've searched a bit here and there. But I cannot figure out exactly what this type of pricing in a report means. I am guessing it might be a typo (missing a $?

"Going into the place. .4 HH and. 4 tip."

If it is a typo, I think it was supposed to be $.4 and 4 tip (I. E, half hour $140 + $40 tip).

Although that seems kind of pricey, as you can easily spend less than that for an hour w / escort.

Full context of the report I referenced is here: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?8084-Massage-Parlor-Reports&p=4681209&viewfull=1#post4681209.

Manolio
03-26-20, 20:45
Relax you'll be fine. When I was 22 I had trouble keeping it down not upWhen we were that age any smile made us feel good and we wanted to put it somewhere.

Curious Monkey
04-26-20, 00:46
Yup, I is rookie.

I've read the terms and abbreviations doc (extremely informative, I must say! And I've searched a bit here and there. But I cannot figure out exactly what this type of pricing in a report means. I am guessing it might be a typo (missing a $?

"Going into the place. .4 HH and. 4 tip."

If it is a typo, I think it was supposed to be $.4 and 4 tip (I. E, half hour $140 + $40 tip).

Although that seems kind of pricey, as you can easily spend less than that for an hour w / escort.

Full context of the report I referenced is here: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?8084-Massage-Parlor-Reports&p=4681209&viewfull=1#post4681209.Not all escorts are less then $. 8, even if so, its also location based. Massage parlor have a set rate to get in, then tipping is where the value changes by the service you receive.

For your post in question. . 4 for a HH massage is possible. Very likely platonic, but possible. $. 4 for HH just for entry is steep. Casual price is. 8 for entry alone so $. 4 is a higher magnitude.

TrickLessons
08-11-20, 01:54
What do you guys do if you find the woman too old or unattractive, but know that they have other girls there, but not by name.

She's not the mms.I've done better with older women. Theyr'e easier to deal with. Uglier ones still have egos.

TrickLessons
08-11-20, 01:58
Good evening ya'll.

I'm a fairly established guy looking to play around in the scene a little. I've only done this in the US a couple times when I was younger, I was very nervous but had great experiences. Also have done it outside the US, but also where the rules are different.

Can anybody lend any advice? What I'm concerned about is mostly:

With both the fake ads and the girls posting pics that aren't themselves, how do you know if a girl is real?

How do you know a girl isn't LEO?

Do you have a process to verify or confirm these things? Are the reviews reliable, if so, on what aspects?

I see a lot of great options on the different sites where they post. Not hard to find several I'd love to call. But it seems by reading the boards that girls are sparse, leaving me without a good direction to go.1. Here's a rule of thumb with fake ads, if the number isn't local or close the being local it's usually a fake. If the pictures look too professional and not in a realistic setting she's either a cop or fake.

2. I wouldn't worry about whos a LEO and who's not the odds of getting caught are very low and if you do get caught the penalty isn't severe enough to sweat it.

3. I confirm the ads are real (if the number is local and pictures look real) by googling the number and see if she's posted ads elsewhere. Its a red flag if a search turns up nothing but its not too concerning.

TrickLessons
08-11-20, 02:05
I'm 22 and a virgin, and I would like to change that. I have a few questions:

What is the legality of all of this in the US? My understanding is that paying for sex is illegal, except in Vegas, so it's a bit of a shock to see so many "escort" services.

I'm in Texas right now. I arrived a few days ago and had planned to stay for a month, but I've had issues with my Aibnb and now I'm at a hotel. If I can't get a refund from Airbnb I have to end my trip. I had hoped to visit Vegas for a few days to see some colleges but my plans are up in the air right now.

How much does a FS quality escort usually cost? Would it be better (safer, legal) for me to go to Vegas? Are there alternatives? I have pretty bad social anxiety but having a few drinks helps with that tremendously.

Also, how can I get Viagra discreetly? I can't have it shipped anywhere and I'd rather not walk into a store and buy it.By now you should be 23. Look young fella the truth is if you're getting into this trickin game you have to accept the possible consequences of getting caught. The good news is you have a better chance at golfing a hole in one at pebble beach than getting caught trickin (this is true research it).

You were in Texas but you're probably not there anymore. But a good FS can cost you 150 for the hour. But my pro tip to you is to take the quicky. If you're still a virgin you won't last that long. A 15 min usually costs 60-80. You'll be done in 5 minutes. Good luck champ. Even if you have already been devirginized, you're still new and need this info.

Jh547
09-05-20, 16:22
I am still pretty new to the game and, after reading several posts, realize I made lots of mistakes.

I've been on STG looking around and got to thinking, should I use a VPN when online looking up providers? I've seen a couple sites go down reciently and fear my IP address can lead LEO my direction.

What are your thoughts?

Jh547
11-25-20, 10:12
I am looking for advice, I work a lower level job but work with 100's of different people a year. Many of thr people I work with are the right age and possibly right temperament to become a provider. My Paranoid self is concerned that I may run into one of the people I worked with in the last few years.

Has anyone run into the situation that you realise your Escort is someone you know in your other life? What did you do?

Lax000
12-11-20, 12:02
Hi,

I'm new here and just looking into the process. I wanted to say hi. I'll try to search the forum a bit before asking too many newbie questions. Also not interested currently in having any dates. But after COVID I might be interested. Looking forward to learning more.

Jh547
06-20-21, 16:47
I am super paranoid that this will happen. Plus, I am not sure the provider has enough pride in themselves not to out me. (because outing me, outs themself).

So, this is the few "precautions" I've taken.

1. Look at the providers picture.

2. Call the provider and in the course of the conversation, ask if they work (ed) at your work. If they did, politely decline the servace.

3. Prey that they will keep their mouth shut about your meeting them. Hope they don't want everyone to know.

Anyone have better advice?


I am looking for advice, I work a lower level job but work with 100's of different people a year. Many of thr people I work with are the right age and possibly right temperament to become a provider. My Paranoid self is concerned that I may run into one of the people I worked with in the last few years.

Has anyone run into the situation that you realise your Escort is someone you know in your other life? What did you do?

Jh547
06-20-21, 16:51
Does anyone know if providers have a review board of Mongers? Like us, do they share their reviews and insights about us. Who tips well, who sucks at tipping. Who is an ass and who is a gentleman.

Thank you.

AbcGators
08-26-21, 17:34
Hi all. My experiences thus far have been entirely at providers' incall. There is a scenario upcoming where I may seek to host an outcall at my hotel. Any tips, do's and don'ts, etc? For my own safety and security. Room will be reserved under my name, don't think there's any way around that, and I will have colleagues staying in the same hotel.

Wazhewuzhe245
09-29-21, 05:39
Have not done it full time (Always on Call) for 10 years then only a few girls and a few months till about 5 years ago. I end up doing other stuff I always wanted to do and slowly cut what was left of the people from the last club I worked out of. For just giving me the "Why Would you want to go do that? You want to go to a movie?" BS Also the club just went to crap in all ways and didn't pay enough for the. "Trouble Ratchet girls coming in" as a DJ said. Other clubs its been 20 years and they are not around. Ok So that's Why I have no fall back little black book left.

So Girls ask what did or do you do and Driver = A Manager of some kind wanting to move you to their team. As well as club anything GM at my last club was very vocal about if you go to other clubs go Headhunting. (It was dumb tho. Girls made less $$ or they'd find out the bouncer that Romeoed them in to the place was seeing 2 other girls and one or all of them would leave.) But also way back it is or was a real lets make a Deal back in the pre DSL 90's Net porn, girls didn't have to payout or Door-feey the club maybe even the DJ (tipped for like songs or to stay off stage in other ways not just a %) Bouncers would get something to walk them to their car. Sometimes it was Pick her own hours or sell so much champagne a week then just show up to do the stage part a the weekend crowded Hours and go home so like 10:30 pm to 1:00 am. But it was more Management Owner Dealings then.

So Yeah if I make or try and make a 'Date independently' and what might have helped me years ago is kind of seen as a problem not to even talk about one my others big hobby is Photography that could get them "So your going to want to Take my picture!" or So Can We Do Free Promo Shoot 20 minutes of your 60 minutes. Is bad enough.

Add to that I don't exist on paper past a Drivers I'd and one of those BS red light cameras in the past 10 years.

Did a Agency check Once. It Did not workout then. I was even at a club some years ago at the time. It seems A Club GM's or anyone is not a reference. Probably worse and they wanted to see like you could pay for like 4 dates saved up also. Did not keep my own account.

So if a Girl Says on her add 'screening' How bad is it Doc?

Just a "Wanted" History For fighting with girls or is She going to want to see a Home and Boat bills going back 25 years?

PinkOneOne
11-03-21, 23:39
Basically all of the good escorts agencies here where I'm at (California) require I'd license if not more if you have 0 references or aren't grandfathered in. Why are people afraid of giving that kind of PII and the I'd? If a place gets busted, is it because the cops can check the texts of the provider, track all mongers who gave away their real phone number, Id, etc.?

ILuvPusToo
11-18-21, 14:00
What's protocol when a provider doesn't list her rates? Should you just ask? Also, what if you aren't sure she is, say, full service or not? Again, just ask? Better text or voice if so? Thanks!I have the same question. What's the best way to check what's on Menu?

PoetAggin
12-16-21, 15:42
If an ad for a Hispanic MP says 26 and up but I'm 21 but pass for 26+. Can I still get serviced? Do they check ID usually?

Morgan82
05-15-22, 16:57
What texting applications do y'all use other than TextNow? I'm seeing multiple texting / calling apps on the AppStore, but from recent reviews majority of them are saying that some of the messages don't always get sent to the recipient and that some of them have IAPs for additional minutes.

TextNow has been solid for me; just looking for another application just like.

It for back-up.

Ruyer
11-25-22, 13:05
Question. I received a call from the "US Marshalls service", and the number also matched the us marshalls when I googled it. Most likely a spoofed caller I'd. They said I texted someone with me just saying 'hi when are you free.'

They asked me if I texted someone, saying that person was missing (and after I googled that persons name, I saw no mentions of a missing person).

They said I could either be arrested, or the family of the missing person wants me to take a psychological exam and pay $1,900 to prove I'm not a sex offender etc. They said I would need to pay over Zella, or I could go to an ATM and they would give me information to pay.

They then forwarded me to someone else, and he said he was some federal agent that had a wikipedia page (very high ranking one that Obama appointed). I asked him a question about his past that I saw from wikipedia, and he answered it wrongly. I then asked why was he trying to fraud people and make a scam, and he said okay we'll see you in court.

So this was all just a scam right? Anyone receive similar calls before?

TTTGuy2
12-27-22, 13:14
Will MP turn away guys who look too young or do they usually check IDs? I'm freshly 18 always wanted to try out a place since my buddy did when we were 16 (he looked about 20 then unfortunately I haven't been blessed with the same genetics) and he told me about it. Any other tips of this nature would be appreciated as I'm just starting to research this.

Girrafe1
04-05-23, 02:06
It seems the standard level of screening is 1 or 2 of:

-2 references.

-Selfie with Driver's License.

-Driver's License.

-Linkedin with work info + a decent amount of connections.

-Work Phone Number.

I've seen other screening options like Facetime or Google Duo but had a few questions:

1) What information can I blur out for my DL.

2) Am I allowed to blur out my eyes or part of my face for the picture verification?

3) When people say "light screening" what does that entail? If there is a spectrum of options, I'd love to know what options I have.

AbcGators
06-05-23, 08:31
Can anybody help talk me through the various issues and concerns with a video call for verification? I am based in a non-US city (just posting here because it's far more active) where it seems fairly common for escorts to request this and, apparently, for guys to agree. The girls say it's for safety and for comfort in deciding to see you, and they also say it's good for us guys to see that they are real as well. What are the pitfalls?

Since the beginning I've always refused this and moved onto the next (in the US) but after arriving to my international location and being tempted several times, I'm now considering breaking my rule. My fear is being recorded, and the recording being used to identify and / or blackmail me. However I'd imagine the chances of them being able to identify me are fairly slim since I don't think there's available access to a facial recognition database that I'm part of, and in any case I can keep the chat completely innocuous so there's plausible deniability that the video chat was just to meet someone online (I do chat with random people online routinely).

So, any reasons why I should or shouldn't stick to this rule?

Perving
06-24-23, 17:03
There was no one up front and the 2nd door was already open. My RA called me fom the call and took me to the first room. After a massage and FS, on my way out my RA had me stand with her in the lobby while, who I am assuming is Mamasan, came out of an office door (again, a guess here), to introduce me. She was actually prettier than my RA. Ever had this happen? Guessing so she would know me if I came back?

VoodooChile
09-03-23, 12:51
Got some good info here. Thanks.

JayWeb78
11-28-23, 09:39
Have been out of the hobby for a bit and have recently been lurking on several boards. Everyone seems to be negative about rates, screening, deposits and pictures etc. I don't get it. If a provider posts a rate she thinks is appropriate that is her prerogative. If you don't want to pay that rate move on. If you go to the Chevy dealership and can only afford a Chevette don't test drive a Corvette and then complain about the price. Screening is for both our safety and I would not see a provider who did NOT screen! Again if a provider wants screening info and you don't want to provide it, move on. I think too many guys rant about these issues and then others pile on needlessly. Think back to when you got into the hobby and remember it is supposed to be all about fun! Happy hobbying!

JayWeb78
12-04-23, 14:47
As I previously mentioned, I have been out of the hobby for a bit due to a relocation but not too long. But reading the boards recently I see many guys slamming providers who have No Review Policies, Required Deposits, various Screening Procedures, or Rates that are higher than their budget, etc.

It's really a simple fix. Don't contact a provider who clearly states policies you don't like. But at the same time, no need to hate and slam. Just move on to someone that meets your likes not only in looks etc, but also policies. Uncomfortable with deposits, move on. Uncomfortable with I'd screening, move on. Uncomfortable with No review policies, move on. Rates higher than you like (aka GPS) just move on. There are many providers out there to accommodate all of our comfort levels.

I too read reviews but they have never been my sole selection criteria for how and with whom I spent my money. I see providers with a wide range of varying policies. No reviews, deposits required, I'd requirements, etc. For each policy, I assume that she has a reason and accept it.

I have never had an issue with any of my choices, no theft, no show, excessive delays, stings, no not as advertised, but I do stay on platforms that screen the ladies before they are allowed to advertise. No free ad sites.

I do understand why some providers have stopped participating in reviews. A few cases in point.

I read a review by guy who right off the bat said he was into spinners. His review was on a BBW who he slammed for having too much around her waist. Hello that is what a BBW is. Now that provider has a negative review because he did not do his research ahead of time to select a provider that met his criteria.

The best one was a guy who said up front that he loved brunettes. His reviews were on a number of gorgeous blonds and you guessed it he ran each down for not being a brunette! I saw the ads and all of them had pictures as blonds! In some cases he was the providers' one negative review but it will follow the providers around as long as they still have reviews.

My point of all this is don't take a No Review Policy as a negative. If a provider tours regularly, advertises on multiple sites, meets you desired physical characteristics and provides what you are looking for, take the plunge! I think more providers are going to stop participating in reviews and I really don't blame them. Think about it. Would we want to read reviews of our own escapades in the hobby!

I don't hate on providers that have deposit requirements and or rates higher than I want to invest, various screening procedures. I accept or move on. Isn't there enough hate now days, why make an activity that is supposed to be fun, so negative? The jaded adversarial mentality only creates more of the same on both sides. Try to have fun again! Don't be a hater or spread hate, surprise the provider you contact with a new you. Find ladies that align with your criteria and have fun!

WiseTraveler
12-06-23, 12:12
...But reading the boards recently I see many guys slamming providers who have No Review Policies, Required Deposits, various Screening Procedures, or Rates that are higher than their budget, etc.

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I have never had an issue with any of my choices, no theft, no show, excessive delays, stings, no not as advertised, but I do stay on platforms that screen the ladies before they are allowed to advertise. No free ad sites.Thanks for posting. I agree in spirit but have to point out you are likely targeting the wrong demo. If you only use paid ad sites (Tryst, TER, P411, etc.), of course you're going to have fewer problems in terms of fake ads, scam deposits, etc. It would be like posting, "Why do so many complain about car repair shop advertising, pricing, and other unethical practices? Just go to authorized dealers and use manufacturer authorized parts!" Fine for higher end vehicles but doesn't make sense for someone on a budget.

For those looking for newer talent and good value, alligator / Sumo / STG are still the place to go. A new hottie or fun MILF won't usually go to Tryst or TER.

Asking for ID is a provider's choice but a really bad idea to comply with. They likely won't delete the pics so you've just made it easier to potentially get busted or least questioned (queue awkward convo in front of family), or have your identity stolen. I would far more trust providers who screen using references or verification sites. I trust P411 far more than Amber who thinks saying "NO PO-PO" makes any difference.

Deposits are 99% scams. Please don't suggest they are legit practices. The 1% who are safe to pay deposits to are established, highly reviewed providers. Again, not this demo.

Same for sugar sites / potential meet and greets. Don't pay deposits. Offer to meet at place of their choosing near their location and pay for food / drinks. Even offer to give a gift card upon meeting in person but never pay digitally in advance. It's the wrong precedent to set for most mongers. Again, 99% of deposit requests are scams.

Smokey Gringo
12-06-23, 15:51
As I previously mentioned, I have been out of the hobby for a bit due to a relocation but not too long. But reading the boards recently I see many guys slamming providers who have No Review Policies, Required Deposits, various Screening Procedures, or Rates that are higher than their budget, etc.

It's really a simple fix. Don't contact a provider who clearly states policies you don't like. But at the same time, no need to hate and slam. Just move on to someone that meets your likes not only in looks etc, but also policies. Uncomfortable with deposits, move on. Uncomfortable with I'd screening, move on. Uncomfortable with No review policies, move on. Rates higher than you like (aka GPS) just move on. There are many providers out there to accommodate all of our comfort levels.

I too read reviews but they have never been my sole selection criteria for how and with whom I spent my money. I see providers with a wide range of varying policies. No reviews, deposits required, I'd requirements, etc. For each policy, I assume that she has a reason and accept it.

I have never had an issue with any of my choices, no theft, no show, excessive delays, stings, no not as advertised, but I do stay on platforms that screen the ladies before they are allowed to advertise. No free ad sites.

I do understand why some providers have stopped participating in reviews. A few cases in point.

I read a review by guy who right off the bat said he was into spinners. His review was on a BBW who he slammed for having too much around her waist. Hello that is what a BBW is. Now that provider has a negative review because he did not do his research ahead of time to select a provider that met his criteria.

The best one was a guy who said up front that he loved brunettes. His reviews were on a number of gorgeous blonds and you guessed it he ran each down for not being a brunette! I saw the ads and all of them had pictures as blonds! In some cases he was the providers' one negative review but it will follow the providers around as long as they still have reviews.I disagree with most of what you said. One I slightly agree with is the pettiness on looks such as hair color and build. But there in again is a grey area. Some of these chicks use dated pics and at least in my area, heavily filtered pics. I'd be pissed and have been (walked out once) that I showed up and the Mountain dew and smoking added 5 years and 25 lbs. A lot of these chicks also won't send recent pics.

But, It's no different than the dating world. I cannot count on my fingers how many times I've matched on OKC / Tinder / Bumble / Boo and there are no body shots but but their profile says "athletic " "normal" and I get that full body shot and they are neither or I showed up to drinks and saw firsthand. I'd love to have left at least an appearance review. But some doods don't care anyway so you're worried about nothing. Like my old man used to say "There's a pole for every hole. "

Now, slamming invasive identifying procedures is necessary both two fold. It keeps working girls from trying to make it normal and it shows not as keen members and especially new members that it's not an industry norm and should not be or will be accepted as well. So these girls have everything on you, and you have just a username and hotel on them? Bullocks. In reality 99% aren't interested, smart, or good enough to pull off blackmail. Obviously married cats and high profilers obviously are much more susceptible and they are our brethren whether they should be fucking around or not, we must protect the flock. But really I don't care much because I ain't got shit to lose family / career wise. I was locked up for assault and my job didn't bat an eye.

Pricing? Slamming it and it's two fold as well. I try not to ***** about hot ass ladies that charge exorbitant prices, but that still doesn't free them from my criticism. We are seeing it my market. When there's an elite charging 6-1000 an hour, it causes a vacuum and the mids will try to fill which they ain't worth. And now you / we have a market imbalance (we have ladies that were $300 jumping up to $500 with no body mods / location / service upgrades to speak of) because while hot, some doods pay the elites, the mids then price themselves out and leave. Next up the street zombies move up to fill that void. And now mids wanting to join after the purge will price herself back in between a chick she knows she's not hot enough to compete with and a street barnacle continuing the imbalance. And this again keeps the not so often senior user who checks back in or a newbie that you don't have to pay that or there is better out there for what you have to spend. Ensuring a better experience for us all.

Lastly, this is a review board. Whether bad, good, or trivial it all needs to be catalogued.

MongerLoids
02-20-24, 12:56
Howdy everyone. I wanted to ask what people use as a cover story / alibi for their sex vacations?

Went to Thailand a few years ago and had a blast! Recently I am starting to get the itch again to go back. However now I am in a long term relationship with my girlfriend and we live together.

I don't know how I would explain a sudden 2+ week absence, I have a yearly 2 week business trip in the summer but I don't know if I could somehow make that into something longer.

Any advice / tips for go to excuses? Or other general tips? I am sure I would still need to check in like I normally would from my home time zone but nit sure what else I would need to do.