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BigBubbaBobby
12-29-14, 18:01
Thread starter.

BigBubbaBobby
12-30-14, 09:10
Anyone have any luck with this one? Super hot but not sure she ever meets or does anything physical.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea460d7a/view?interests-my-favorites

CaptainY
01-01-15, 17:12
With the increased LEO attention on the hobby, I've Ben trolling the SDSB sites.

I've found that there are lots of girls with profiles, they are miles behind your typical hobbyist in the P 4 P concept. Frankly, they just don't know what they're doing.

You have to invest so much time in the texting and chatting. My conclusion is to find a good provider and leave the amateurs behind.

Chromie
01-01-15, 17:36
Anyone have any luck with this one? Super hot but not sure she ever meets or does anything physical.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea460d7a/view?interests-my-favoritesDreamed with Ana in early October, she was delightful and attentive to my needs. While it is true that she is somewhat thicker than desirable she knows how to please and I will repeat next time I visit Nashville.

HossCartwright
01-01-15, 18:22
If you just want a hole to put your Dick in, stay away from the SD / SB sites. Which is why I'll continue to put in the efforts.


With the increased LEO attention on the hobby, I've Ben trolling the SDSB sites.

I've found that there are lots of girls with profiles, they are miles behind your typical hobbyist in the P 4 P concept. Frankly, they just don't know what they're doing.

You have to invest so much time in the texting and chatting. My conclusion is to find a good provider and leave the amateurs behind.

RebelKnight13
01-02-15, 01:46
I met a girl last year on a Sugardaddy website. She was AMAZING. Single mom. For baby food, diapers, etc, I ended up more than happy! DATY, GFE, DFK, etc. Everything that I wanted. In fact, I ended up giving her money because I didn't feel that I was being fair to her. We talked a lot besides the sex stuff. It evolved, and she was never pushy. The oddest thing was that eventually I learned that I was Facebook friends with her grandmother!

We ended up in a real relationship. I have pics, including some great nudes, but out of respect for her I wouldn't post any on here. It was the BEST package anybody could want. We dated from May through September. I am mid-40's, and she was 21 at the time. Alas, she eventually moved away to another state far, far away so she could be near family that moved out there.

I noticed recently that she started advertising again on the SD site out there. Some lucky dude is going to land a great girl. I post this not to brag, but to point out that there are success stories using SD sites.

Frankly, I'm looking for one girl that I can spend some drama-free time with like this girl.

Heliman
01-02-15, 11:20
Long time lurker on here. I'm active on some other boards.

I read through the Knoxville SA thread and it inspired me to try out SA. I went ahead and did a 1 month membership. So far, I've been texting with a few and should start meeting some over the next week.

I'll post an update once I've met a few.

Good luck to everyone:).

MoostacheTN
01-02-15, 15:28
Does anyone have advice or experiences they can share from that site? I recently joined is based upon finding it mentioned here. So far seems interesting, a little more work, but interesting.

FYI, this is my first post on here with this account, used to be another one, but honestly probably only had around 10 posts on that account.

FirstAndGoal
01-02-15, 17:03
I do have a good bit of experience in the SB / SD arena. There is def. Mutual availability there, but it requires an amazing amount of time, energy and in some cases $$ up front to get something going. The vast majority of the girls are just scamming and tire kicking. The really young hot chicks want an allowance $1500-$2000 K a month plus shopping and extravagant gifts for a guaranteed nothing in return. Um not me. I have never gone that route, I have in the 3 years or so of dabbling in the sport landed two that were sweet, sincere and affordable, but honestly spent way too much time to get the connection going. It is however NOT illegal, just like paying for your girlfriends Apt. Gas money etc. If you are exceptionally vulnerable and could not accept the consequences of the fallout of an interaction with LE in the escorting scene it is an alternative. The convenience is not good, you have to pre-plan all visits as these girls in most cases have real lives they have to work around too. I have seen a few providers listed on the SD sites as well so there you go it rolls both ways.

As always be safe.

F&G.


I met a girl last year on a Sugardaddy website. She was AMAZING. Single mom. For baby food, diapers, etc, I ended up more than happy! DATY, GFE, DFK, etc. Everything that I wanted. In fact, I ended up giving her money because I didn't feel that I was being fair to her. We talked a lot besides the sex stuff. It evolved, and she was never pushy. The oddest thing was that eventually I learned that I was Facebook friends with her grandmother!

We ended up in a real relationship. I have pics, including some great nudes, but out of respect for her I wouldn't post any on here. It was the BEST package anybody could want. We dated from May through September. I am mid-40's, and she was 21 at the time. Alas, she eventually moved away to another state far, far away so she could be near family that moved out there.

I noticed recently that she started advertising again on the SD site out there. Some lucky dude is going to land a great girl. I post this not to brag, but to point out that there are success stories using SD sites.

Frankly, I'm looking for one girl that I can spend some drama-free time with like this girl.

Gibson1970
01-03-15, 16:23
I've been on SA.com for over a year now.

I agree most of the ladies are tire kickers and have no intention of meeting or get scared and bail, even after texting.

I never pay for a Meet and Greet and don't help her financially until after sex. This is where alot of them bail or say they are not ****** LOL. If she wants money up front she is probably an UTR hooker.

The success rate is not good and it does require alot of effort, but when you find a special girl it is kinda like having a GF and you are able to help out a young girl.

CaptainY
01-03-15, 20:35
I'm enjoying, at the very least, browsing the girls on SA. I've got a couple if conversations going, with the hope of meeting this week for the first time. I'm staying away from girls in college. Seems like trouble and also that they need some more "life" under their belt to know how to approach this type if situation.

What's strange is that some girls seem to treat it like a dating site. Others, though, seem to know the game with some subtext in their profiles. I just haven't figured out if they know what they're saying.

I just can't figure out how to properly monetize this. I guess I let them set the price, and let them open the bidding. I'm hoping to have a fwb for about 2-3 meets a month, with physical on 1-2 of those.

Side note: I've been playing on AM for two months, and what a waste of time. I'm youngish, good looking, and have a little game, but holy crap. There are so many men on there versus women that you can't get any traction. Then, on the hot ones (and non-crazy too) that I've got on emails, we have great connection, and then they chicken out and delete their accounts and stop emailing.

It's been frustrating. At least on SA, the guys have more leverage.

TNtimer
01-03-15, 21:43
Does anyone have advice or experiences they can share from that site? I recently joined is based upon finding it mentioned here. So far seems interesting, a little more work, but interesting.

FYI, this is my first post on here with this account, used to be another one, but honestly probably only had around 10 posts on that account.Screen, screen, screen, then move fast or move on. SD4 Me seem to have quite a few with criminal records. Love when you've been talking to a girl for a week then she hits you up for her PO fees when she was supposed to be on her way to meet for lunch. :/ (happened with a brunette from Murfreesboro).

If you have trouble with chemistry or control, prob best to stick to provider side of things.

But when it works, it's an unbelievable experience! Had 3 of them that lasted over a year, 2 ended when they finally decided on a real relationship, 1 still ongoing. Every once in a while, life gets in the way and makes things difficult (schedules, emergencies, etc. You either have to budget for her emergencies or finding a new one every once in a while), and I lean back to the provider side of things, but overall, just can't beat a hot, fun sugar baby that's into you.

CaptainY
01-04-15, 15:52
But when it works, it's an unbelievable experience! Had 3 of them that lasted over a year, 2 ended when they finally decided on a real relationship, 1 still ongoing. Every once in a while, life gets in the way and makes things difficult (schedules, emergencies, etc. You either have to budget for her emergencies or finding a new one every once in a while), and I lean back to the provider side of things, but overall, just can't beat a hot, fun sugar baby that's into you.This sounds great, but what's the general idea of cost? Per date (at first)? Monthly?

I don't know how to monetize it, so I'm going into a M & G with a girl I've vetted and am going to see what she proposes.

HollywoodGuy
01-04-15, 19:11
I just can't figure out how to properly monetize this. I guess I let them set the price, and let them open the bidding. I'm hoping to have a fwb for about 2-3 meets a month, with physical on 1-2 of those. Always set the price yourself. I always do it upfront but some guys like to M&G first and then hit them up with their offer at the end of the M&G.

CaptainY
01-04-15, 21:05
I'm seeing some if the same girls I saw on AM when I search on SA. What's cool is that, on SA, they're reaching out to me.

I think it's strange that, if you asked a civilian girl about escorting, they'd act like you asked them to murder a puppy. But, then, on SA, they're not that far away from what we do here.

Jeepster1
01-04-15, 22:10
I'm seeing some if the same girls I saw on AM when I search on SA. What's cool is that, on SA, they're reaching out to me.

I think it's strange that, if you asked a civilian girl about escorting, they'd act like you asked them to murder a puppy. But, then, on SA, they're not that far away from what we do here.So murdering puppies is off the menu now?

Good to know.

-Jeepster1.

Cullen
01-05-15, 00:21
So murdering puppies is off the menu now?

Good to know.

-Jeepster1.Damnit! I guess I better shut down the mill.

Jeepster1
01-05-15, 00:39
Damnit! I guess I better shut down the mill.I've noticed that an unusual number of providers profess their love of pit bulls, maybe you should keep a litter or two around for barter?

Might help with the SB's. They can pretend they aren't playing for pay. . . Who could begrudge them a cute pup from a mysterious benefactor?

-Jeepster1.

TNtimer
01-05-15, 09:55
Always set the price yourself. I always do it upfront but some guys like to M&G first and then hit them up with their offer at the end of the M&G.On average, I try for 4, with 3 BCD / physical.

Budget around 800.

However, sky's the limit, and you sometimes find the one who truly is just looking for a nice guy and fb, who doesn't want anything much more than that.

HossCartwright
01-05-15, 14:36
To the other suggestions below.

You'd defiantly be better off establishing a "goal" for the girl before you meet up to avoid wasting your time. Nothing worse than meeting a very agreeable Co-ed that has a bad case of GPS.

My norm is to budget around $1. 2 per month. That can / will be adjusted depending is she has a place or not. In addition it can be increased if non-cash gifts are given.

I go for weekly meetings, depending if she has transportation. The last one depended on Uber, I had to go to her, after class which was inconvenient, so the rate was adjusted down.

Alternatively, my prior (to that one) came down to me from Clarksville around lunch each week. Very convenient so the price went up for me.

All depends on what you want and what your comfortable with. Get the "logistics" out of the way early as not to try yourself to a potential, that will be hard (pun) to make work. There are too many to fuck with those.

What works well for me is to meet, plant the seed (idea) and sit back, let them come at you. If you've established your particulars, she will know what's she's getting into. I tend to go for the younger set (gasp!) and they have a general idea what this (SD / SB) is, but tend to get second thoughts about letting a good looking, well endowed, older guy fuck them for sport! Not until they are in a real financial bind do they submit and find that it actually works to their advantage.

He'll, I've lost track of how much tuition I've paid for these girls!


This sounds great, but what's the general idea of cost? Per date (at first)? Monthly?

I don't know how to monetize it, so I'm going into a M & G with a girl I've vetted and am going to see what she proposes.

MoostacheTN
01-05-15, 22:15
To the other suggestions below.

You'd defiantly be better off establishing a "goal" for the girl before you meet up to avoid wasting your time. Nothing worse than meeting a very agreeable Co-ed that has a bad case of GPS.

My norm is to budget around $1. 2 per month. That can / will be adjusted depending is she has a place or not. In addition it can be increased if non-cash gifts are given.

I go for weekly meetings, depending if she has transportation. The last one depended on Uber, I had to go to her, after class which was inconvenient, so the rate was adjusted down.

Alternatively, my prior (to that one) came down to me from Clarksville around lunch each week. Very convenient so the price went up for me.

All depends on what you want and what your comfortable with. Get the "logistics" out of the way early as not to try yourself to a potential, that will be hard (pun) to make work. There are too many to fuck with those.

What works well for me is to meet, plant the seed (idea) and sit back, let them come at you. If you've established your particulars, she will know what's she's getting into. I tend to go for the younger set (gasp!) and they have a general idea what this (SD / SB) is, but tend to get second thoughts about letting a good looking, well endowed, older guy fuck them for sport! Not until they are in a real financial bind do they submit and find that it actually works to their advantage.

He'll, I've lost track of how much tuition I've paid for these girls!Thank have my first M&G tomorrow night.

HossCartwright
01-06-15, 09:42
My suggestion as to M&G's.

Keep it light. I prefer lunch or coffee. If it turns bad you can take it to-go! Ha!

Don't press hard, if at all on the P4 P aspect of an arrangement.


Thank have my first M&G tomorrow night.

MoostacheTN
01-06-15, 18:51
My suggestion as to M&G's.

Keep it light. I prefer lunch or coffee. If it turns bad you can take it to-go! Ha!

Don't press hard, if at all on the P4 P aspect of an arrangement.My preference as well, but this one is just a drink. Should be safe.

MoostacheTN
01-09-15, 01:03
My preference as well, but this one is just a drink. Should be safe.Thought I would follow up on my experiences so far. Had 2 M&Gs after quite a bit of talking. The 2 are completely different in terms of what they are looking for. One is quite a freak and look for the occasional gift, the other looking for more of someone to help in the business world. Both are very nice.

SteelTony36
01-09-15, 14:16
First post on this site, but I had to chime in on SA. As a side note, I've dreamt of a couple ladies after reading reviews on here. Both were excellent, albeit somewhat different experiences. (Adrien and Candy Redd).

Back to SA. I've been on there a very short time. Less than a couple weeks. I actually purposely left most of my info vague. With one G rated private photo set. I have to say, it's a bit like trying to drink from a fire hose. I've talked with women that offered straight up pay for play, to ones just looking for a good time / fb situation.

The pay for pay chick is smoking hot, but I haven't jumped on that. Little head may take over at some point.

1st meet and greet, mid thirties blond, maybe a 7, actually looked like her pics. Ended up back at her place after a few drinks, spent the next few hours banging the headboard against the wall. Wild one. Just about wore me out. Total investment a couple drinks. Plan to see her again for sure. No discussion of "arrangement".

2nd meet and greet, younger, post college single mom type. Also not bad looking, amazing rack on her. After coffee and some discussion ended up with her lips around mr happy in my car. No discussion of "an arrangement".

3rd meet and greet, another mid 30's woman. Met her and was a little stunned. Actually looked better in person than her pics. Without having seen the unwrapped package, I'd say a solid 8. Maybe better. Seriously hot. Great evening, drinks and dinner. Little making out, but nothing more that time. Skirted around discussing arrangement. She decided we could figure it out later. Definitely plan on seeing her again.

Have another m&g set for this weekend. After that, I'm going to have to cut it down to a couple. LOL. And stop answering messages on there.

It's been a blast already.

TNtimer
01-09-15, 19:08
Thought I would follow up on my experiences so far. Had 2 M&Gs after quite a bit of talking. The 2 are completely different in terms of what they are looking for. One is quite a freak and look for the occasional gift, the other looking for more of someone to help in the business world. Both are very nice.If you decide to pass on the freaky one, feel free to send a link to her profile!

Had one I was interested in from Belmont, but she dropped off.

Jeepster1
01-10-15, 12:55
First post on this site, but I had to chime in on SA. As a side note, I've dreamt of a couple ladies after reading reviews on here. Both were excellent, albeit somewhat different experiences. (Adrien and Candy Redd).

Back to SA. I've been on there a very short time. Less than a couple weeks. I actually purposely left most of my info vague. With one G rated private photo set. I have to say, it's a bit like trying to drink from a fire hose. I've talked with women that offered straight up pay for play, to ones just looking for a good time / fb situation.

The pay for pay chick is smoking hot, but I haven't jumped on that. Little head may take over at some point.

1st meet and greet, mid thirties blond, maybe a 7, actually looked like her pics. Ended up back at her place after a few drinks, spent the next few hours banging the headboard against the wall. Wild one. Just about wore me out. Total investment a couple drinks. Plan to see her again for sure. No discussion of "arrangement".

2nd meet and greet, younger, post college single mom type. Also not bad looking, amazing rack on her. After coffee and some discussion ended up with her lips around mr happy in my car. No discussion of "an arrangement".

3rd meet and greet, another mid 30's woman. Met her and was a little stunned. Actually looked better in person than her pics. Without having seen the unwrapped package, I'd say a solid 8. Maybe better. Seriously hot. Great evening, drinks and dinner. Little making out, but nothing more that time. Skirted around discussing arrangement. She decided we could figure it out later. Definitely plan on seeing her again.

Have another m&g set for this weekend. After that, I'm going to have to cut it down to a couple. LOL. And stop answering messages on there.

It's been a blast already.My new hero!

Looking foward to more posts as your adventures continue.

-Jeepster1.

SteelTony36
01-11-15, 22:18
Thanks jeepster.

Yeah my biggest problem to this point has been finding time to work them all in. If only I didn't have to work during the day. Ha.

Well the M&G Friday night didn't pan out, should have known, 20 year old "college" student. No showed. No biggie had a coffee and went on about my night.

Set up a M&G for Saturday night. This one had a case of GPS. Great looking girl, mid 20's. Was expecting 1. 5 k a month plus gifts each visit. Two visits a month. With the other prospects currently in the loop, not jumping on it.

Working out a playtime visit with the solid 8 this week.

Messages from several others that are basically just straight up pay for play.

HossCartwright
01-15-15, 18:42
On the younger ones. Admittedly they are the flaky type. They do most often require more effort to make it work.

HOWEVER.

Play it the right way and they will know where to go for that little extra when they REALLY need it. Case in point: I've let my membership to SA expire. Sometime in Nov if I remember correctly. Last week, a great little spinner (19 YO MTSU Student, ex-cheerleader, spinner) from Franklin sent a text wanting to see each other again. I'd met her for lunch / dinner a few times, gave her some funny money each time ($40 x3). I'd think she got skittish of the whole idea of a SD / SB arrangement and really became flaky when it was time to try out the Benefits in FWB. Crossed her off the "must bone" list and moved on.

Fast forward to last week, met for Dinner, she in her cute voice tells me that she wants to move out of her parents house this semester. Full load at MTSU, part time gig, yeah. She's hard up for cash. Later, we discuss things more intimately. Great DFK session ending with BBBJCIM and an agreement to weekly meets all for the price of rent money.

Hmmm, weekly meets, should be 1-2 hours per meet all for $600? Yeah, I think I can do that.


Thanks jeepster.

Yeah my biggest problem to this point has been finding time to work them all in. If only I didn't have to work during the day. Ha.

Well the M&G Friday night didn't pan out, should have known, 20 year old "college" student. No showed. No biggie had a coffee and went on about my night.

Set up a M&G for Saturday night. This one had a case of GPS. Great looking girl, mid 20's. Was expecting 1. 5 k a month plus gifts each visit. Two visits a month. With the other prospects currently in the loop, not jumping on it.

Working out a playtime visit with the solid 8 this week.

Messages from several others that are basically just straight up pay for play.

HossCartwright
01-21-15, 19:50
Say thank you to the guy driving the Black Cadillac Escalade. You sir, have single handily added more SB's to my small harem over the last year.

Just did a meet and' greet and she mentioned you again!

MelWhiteBee
01-22-15, 00:45
I'm new and just need to find some good times. Don't kno how to get the first one.

MoostacheTN
01-22-15, 14:20
I'm new and just need to find some good times. Don't kno how to get the first one.I am new as well, but it takes time and a little luck. Believe it or not, I have run into quite a few that are frustrated with how few of the guys are serious. Also, don't be afraid to look at some that are out of town but within a couple or three hours drive.

TNtimer
01-23-15, 16:20
I am new as well, but it takes time and a little luck. Believe it or not, I have run into quite a few that are frustrated with how few of the guys are serious. Also, don't be afraid to look at some that are out of town but within a couple or three hours drive.Screen for time wasters. If they're not willing to meet up with in a few days of first talking, prob best to move on. If I knew whether A2 and this board's personal admin would allow it, I'd see if we could post profiles and intelligence on them- but have seen that backfire on other forums before too, so understand if verboten.

Don't be overly crass. Feel free to state what you're lookin for, and do so early in the convo, but don't beat her over the head with it.

Met one yesterday- had a couple of drinks at lunch, she felt comfortable, we parted ways- then I got a text soon as I pulled in the driveway wondering if I had time to play.

Well worth the ass chewing I took for leaving work early.

Making them feel comfortable, treating them decently, but being upfront about expectations, you can cut the wheat from the chaff, and find a diamond.

Not sure what you're talking about with "I'd see if we could post profiles and intelligence on them" you can PM me and talk about it if you want.

A2

GeorgeKaplan
01-25-15, 17:24
Last night, 48 Hours had a case that dealt with a couple who had met off SA, although they didn't maintain that was the cause of the alleged muder. It was just a piece of the whole puzzle, but it showed a bit of the inner workings.


My new hero!

Looking foward to more posts as your adventures continue.

-Jeepster1.

SteelTony36
01-26-15, 13:27
Screen for time wasters. If they're not willing to meet up with in a few days of first talking, prob best to move on. If I knew whether A2 and this board's personal admin would allow it, I'd see if we could post profiles and intelligence on them- but have seen that backfire on other forums before too, so understand if verboten.

Don't be overly crass. Feel free to state what you're lookin for, and do so early in the convo, but don't beat her over the head with it.

Met one yesterday- had a couple of drinks at lunch, she felt comfortable, we parted ways- then I got a text soon as I pulled in the driveway wondering if I had time to play.

Well worth the ass chewing I took for leaving work early.

Making them feel comfortable, treating them decently, but being upfront about expectations, you can cut the wheat from the chaff, and find a diamond.

Not sure what you're talking about with "I'd see if we could post profiles and intelligence on them" you can PM me and talk about it if you want.

A2I agree 100%. Manners and decency go a long way with most of these girls. As does being straightforward about what you are looking for, without being crass about it.

I'm having ALOT of fun on SA.

GirlLila
02-02-15, 19:36
Some guys can be just as shady as the girls on SA. You have to be prepared to weed through the ones who aren't really serious. - experienced sugar baby.

Jeepster1
02-03-15, 13:11
Some guys can be just as shady as the girls on SA. You have to be prepared to weed through the ones who aren't really serious. - experienced sugar baby.Would love to hear more from your perspective! This site is always better with feminine contributions.

-Jeepster1.

HossCartwright
02-03-15, 18:18
Something to be said about Spinners!. Say hello to Kimmie!

364164

HossCartwright
02-03-15, 18:34
Posting this comment is akin to saying a day without sunshine is like night!? At.

No harm intended, but we've communicated on that site prior, short tit-4-tat. Even without knowing you posted on this site, I could easily tell you were a "pro". Most SD's are not interested in the P (four) P type simply because its not just the act that we are after. Its an all encompassing relation, albeit short term (per meeting).

You look great, I'm certain that you provide a great experience and I do agree that we have to weed through a large volume of crap to glean those that enjoy a SD / SB relation. I am not saying that you cannot be "converted" mind you. It's just difficult for the average SD to do so. Once most figure out that you are a "pro" they get guarded. With the history of BNA and "pro's" can you blame them?


Some guys can be just as shady as the girls on SA. You have to be prepared to weed through the ones who aren't really serious. - experienced sugar baby.

MoostacheTN
02-04-15, 00:04
After some so so experiences, tonight was exactly what I was looking for. Young, pretty, nice and she is very interested. It takes more time, but I am very happy with the experience.

FirstAndGoal
02-05-15, 11:15
Hoss. I am jealous! Obviously an extremely hot, beautiful SB. Nice work, hope she is as nice in person as she is in her photo.

It does take time and a bit of good fortune to score some ass like that. Hunting for SB's is a bit like mining for diamonds!

Happy hunting.

F&G.


Something to be said about Spinners!. Say hello to Kimmie!

364164

HossCartwright
02-10-15, 22:10
For Jealousy. Finding a willing and able SB is easily done IF your respectful, honest and upfront. Those traits tend to cut down on the time and pays dividends.


Hoss. I am jealous! Obviously an extremely hot, beautiful SB. Nice work, hope she is as nice in person as she is in her photo.

It does take time and a bit of good fortune to score some ass like that. Hunting for SB's is a bit like mining for diamonds!

Happy hunting.

F&G.

LoveTheMerch
02-12-15, 19:01
For Jealousy. Finding a willing and able SB is easily done IF your respectful, honest and upfront. Those traits tend to cut down on the time and pays dividends.This may not add much to the convo, but AMEN! These words spoken by Mr. HossCartwright have provided me some amazing experiences.

HossCartwright
02-13-15, 20:21
Someone else is having fun out there. I read all of the reports up top about this hooker and that hooker. Dam if they only had the time and a little bit of effort AND the right mind set this world would pay dividends. The ROI in this is so much better.

Just met with my alternate SB. Started at 2 ended at 5, 3 pops and every conceivable position, act and / or idea was tried. And addition, she's BI with an absolute doll of a GF. Brunette, spinner little bewbs. Mmmmmmm.


This may not add much to the convo, but AMEN! These words spoken by Mr. HossCartwright have provided me some amazing experiences.

Stixxer
02-16-15, 22:30
Dang, I just posted in the Richmond VA thread of same topic. Good to find one closer to home for me.

So it seems there are some experienced men who have had some good fortune. I've been very lucky myself having found a local gal who I can spend a little time with a couple times a month. It's mutual and been going on over a year and I feel I am ready to branch out.

So there's seeking arrangements and arrangment finders and another one that seems to hold some promise for this area is sugar daddy for me. Any recommendations? Also for when I set up my profile, any tips in regards to pictures, what to say, what to avoid saying. That sort of thing?

Thanks.

MoostacheTN
02-17-15, 17:29
Dang, I just posted in the Richmond VA thread of same topic. Good to find one closer to home for me.

So it seems there are some experienced men who have had some good fortune. I've been very lucky myself having found a local gal who I can spend a little time with a couple times a month. It's mutual and been going on over a year and I feel I am ready to branch out.

So there's seeking arrangements and arrangment finders and another one that seems to hold some promise for this area is sugar daddy for me. Any recommendations? Also for when I set up my profile, any tips in regards to pictures, what to say, what to avoid saying. That sort of thing?

Thanks.I am only on SekkingArrangement, so I can't speak to that. As for profile, I have tried to give a little information, to kind of point them in the right direction without giving away everything. Patience is key for me, as I try to be very careful.

Jeepster1
02-20-15, 02:43
Worth a look?

https://thesugarbabylover.wordpress.com

-Jeepster1.

Stixxer
02-20-15, 20:10
Worth a look?

https://thesugarbabylover.wordpress.com

-Jeepster1.Thanks for sharing. I'm checking it out.

Spicy Dreams
02-22-15, 12:18
Last night I watched a movie on Lifetime called "Sugar Daddies. " It made the girls look like poor, naive little college girls who ended up being traumatized over time by these perverted older daddies with their sick fetishes and unyielding demands on their time. In the end a powerful daddy is trying to murder his baby for learning about another baby dying during a freaky sex act. And the girl's loving father comes in to save her at the last minute. It was unintentionally funny drama, as only Lifetime knows how to be.

ShyGuyInTn
02-22-15, 14:51
Last night I watched a movie on Lifetime called "Sugar Daddies. " It made the girls look like poor, naive little college girls who ended up being traumatized over time by these perverted older daddies with their sick fetishes and unyielding demands on their time. In the end a powerful daddy is trying to murder his baby for learning about another baby dying during a freaky sex act. And the girl's loving father comes in to save her at the last minute. It was unintentionally funny drama, as only Lifetime knows how to be.You got to love the man hating Midol Network!

HossCartwright
02-26-15, 12:59
To SA, this is my return on investment for a Month. I don't have to worry about being robbed, Uncle LEO hassling me or be concerned about anything much.

Fucked. K* - SA, once. 21 YO White Spinner. Still taking to her, but she is in and out of town. She's back in town this week so we'll see what transpires. (Investment: $150 + Lunch).

Fucked. The* SA, Three. 23 yo White Spinner. She's still on the hook. (Investment: $500 + Lunch).

Fucked. The* - SA, Twice. 34 YO black Spinner. Kicked to the curb. (Investment: $300 + Lunch).

Brings my overall to 5 fucks, Average of $160 + lunch / coffee.

Potentially fucking be* - SA. Got a BBBJ once over the almost three months. (investment: $320 (to date) and several lunch / coffee meets.

All were / are GFE to include BBBJ.

Others that are in various stages of the process, that I am talking to outside of the site total 7. All are spinners, seeing that my "cup" is full at the moment, I just keep them in the wings until a spot opens up. It may involve lunch or? To keep them interested in an arrangement, but its worth it to foster another SB.

Coeus73
03-18-15, 17:27
I just signed up on AM yesterday. I sent out some favorites and have gotten message requests. Problem I have is it could get expensive as you have to buy credits to send messages. I chose AM because I wasn't initially looking for a SB bit there are a few out there. Will let you guys know if I have any luck. If any ladies that post here are out there, look me up. I'm open to suggestions on how to go about this and not get found out by the wife. I'm not too worried right now, but it could be a problem if I have some success. What a tangled Web we weave, huh?

The Hulk
03-29-15, 16:45
I had wondered if there were any posts regarding this subject. I saw an episode of 48 Hours that was about a rich guy who hooked up with a girl via a sugar baby site. Since then I had wondered if these sites were more than just for women wanting to be 'kept'.

I've done a free membership on one of the sites. It sure seems like there are a lot of women in the middle TN area signed up? I question whether they are all real. But from reading.

Some of the posts here, it appears that at least some are.

Just curious if the guys who use these sites reach out to the SBs or do they reach out to you?

MoostacheTN
03-29-15, 23:17
I had wondered if there were any posts regarding this subject. I saw an episode of 48 Hours that was about a rich guy who hooked up with a girl via a sugar baby site. Since then I had wondered if these sites were more than just for women wanting to be 'kept'.

I've done a free membership on one of the sites. It sure seems like there are a lot of women in the middle TN area signed up? I question whether they are all real. But from reading.

Some of the posts here, it appears that at least some are.

Just curious if the guys who use these sites reach out to the SBs or do they reach out to you?Both, I get as many or more contacting me.

Gibson1970
03-30-15, 09:45
I had wondered if there were any posts regarding this subject. I saw an episode of 48 Hours that was about a rich guy who hooked up with a girl via a sugar baby site. Since then I had wondered if these sites were more than just for women wanting to be 'kept'.

I've done a free membership on one of the sites. It sure seems like there are a lot of women in the middle TN area signed up? I question whether they are all real. But from reading.

Some of the posts here, it appears that at least some are.

Just curious if the guys who use these sites reach out to the SBs or do they reach out to you?There are quite a few ladies on SA.com. I have had a good success rate once you meet. Alot of the ladies will agree to meet and then flake. Got to be patient, shrug your shoulders and be willing to say NEXT.

The Hulk
04-05-15, 23:27
Well I signed up this afternoon. So far I've only received messages from ladies who live in other states or other countries. I'm 58 and overweight so my experience may.

Not be as good as others who have posted here. But, heck it was half of what I normally spend at the Watering Hole every week so what the heck.

WHAT I WOULD GIVE TO MEET UP WITH LITTLE KIMMIE mentioned in a previous post!

Lacr398
04-21-15, 13:15
I am having crazy success on SA. Many of the active girls that have NSA or FWB in there profile MEAN IT. I have paid for 4 months now, became background verified and get messages every day.

Met a little college redhead in January. Expensive, more than I would ever normally donate. Worth it. She was real and low mileage and sweet. FS. Had a great day with her. $X7.

Met a young tattooed blonde. Slim and sexy. Lots of drama with her family, but way less drama than a BP girl. FS. $$.

Met a 26 year old redhead. Perky little thing. 5'9", DDs. Came on a road trip with me for work overnight. FS at least 8 times and BBBJs in the car. I was worn out. $$ for 36 hours and a few meals.

I'm even in an online / skype relationship with a sexy blonde in Florida. She puts on private shows for me, sometimes 30 minutes for as little as. 4.

Have more than I can afford lined up, about 6, most seemingly super hot. None of them requesting more than $$ for allowance. I'm loving every minute of it. You spend time, text, email, have meals with hot young girls who want intimacy. The ones I've met were nymphos. They wanted me and they want more of me.

In order:375366375367375368375369.

LetsGetCrazy
04-26-15, 11:49
I'm not sure where you guys are looking to find girls on SA, but all I have run across is girls that email you a few times and then disappear (which I believe the site pays them a little to keep getting the monthly payment from guys), or girls that want way more than they are worth. I had a young girl, that was not really that pretty and really had no body, tell me she wanted 1,150 for one time. Then she had the never to say that the site was only for rich guys and if I could afford it I needed to get off there. I could afford it, but she was not work maybe 150 at the most. I think some of these girls need to get their eyes checked, because they are seeing something different in the mirror than what I see.

SteelTony36
04-28-15, 23:39
Not sure why you're having a difficult time. I've been completely happy with the results I'm getting on there. Only problem I'm having is deciding which ones to keep in rotation. It's been a bit overwhelming actually. Return on investment has been crazy.

Little tip, head on over to the Richmond VA forum and checkout their SB thread. Look for the 5 steps link. I refined my game utilizing that and the results were impressive.

Good luck out there.


I'm not sure where you guys are looking to find girls on SA, but all I have run across is girls that email you a few times and then disappear (which I believe the site pays them a little to keep getting the monthly payment from guys), or girls that want way more than they are worth. I had a young girl, that was not really that pretty and really had no body, tell me she wanted 1,150 for one time. Then she had the never to say that the site was only for rich guys and if I could afford it I needed to get off there. I could afford it, but she was not work maybe 150 at the most. I think some of these girls need to get their eyes checked, because they are seeing something different in the mirror than what I see.

HollywoodGuy
04-29-15, 02:06
Not sure why you're having a difficult time. I've been completely happy with the results I'm getting on there. Only problem I'm having is deciding which ones to keep in rotation. It's been a bit overwhelming actually. Return on investment has been crazy.

Little tip, head on over to the Richmond VA forum and checkout their SB thread. Look for the 5 steps link. I refined my game utilizing that and the results were impressive.

Good luck out there.http://coach4ula.wix.com/fivesteps

Thanks for the props.

SteelTony36
05-11-15, 17:07
No problem. I believe in giving credit where credit is due.

My problem right now is having too many to chose from!

Can't believe I'm admitting this, but these young things are actually wearing me out! I'm wearing quite a few of them out too, so it's all good.

FreeTacos
05-13-15, 10:48
I'm thinking of switching to SA after looking into it and I noticed a few of the girls had men AND women listed as their "interested in".

Those with experience do you think some of them would be down for couples? I know the wife would love to have her own sugar baby.

CaptainY
05-13-15, 13:13
I've been on SA for 5 months and have had some success and lots of fun.

I've been really frustrated, though, at these girls' inability to communicate what they want. The profiles say "advice, mentorship" whatever, and when you message with them, they say "I'm not an escort. " But, when you meet, they're like "will you pay me $150 to have lunch with you?

Uh, no. Talk about time wasters. I wish they'd be honest about what they want. I am honest about my goals. End rant.

HollywoodGuy
05-13-15, 13:33
I've been on SA for 5 months and have had some success and lots of fun.

I've been really frustrated, though, at these girls' inability to communicate what they want. The profiles say "advice, mentorship" whatever, and when you message with them, they say "I'm not an escort. " But, when you meet, they're like "will you pay me $150 to have lunch with you?

Uh, no. Talk about time wasters. I wish they'd be honest about what they want. I am honest about my goals. End rant."I'm not an escort" is code for "I am a gold digger".

SteelTony36
05-13-15, 15:53
I'm thinking of switching to SA after looking into it and I noticed a few of the girls had men AND women listed as their "interested in".

Those with experience do you think some of them would be down for couples? I know the wife would love to have her own sugar baby.I've definitely had a couple offers to play with me and my SO.

Had to politely work around that request.

SteelTony36
05-13-15, 15:59
What has been an interesting occurrence as of late for me has been the following:

Young lady declines my initial offer with the "I'm not an escort" or "I'm not that cheap". Or any other number of excuses.

Fast forward 2-3 weeks later and all of a sudden they are interested in going straight to the FC for the same offer. 2 this week, Monday and Tuesday! Literally get a text "let's meet today and talk". One 19, one 20, and both unreal fuck machines. Both were lunchtime meets and went well into the evening before leaving. I need more free time!

TNtimer
05-16-15, 07:43
Fast forward 2-3 weeks later and all of a sudden they are interested in going straight to the FC for the same offer. 2 this week, Monday and Tuesday! Literally get a text "let's meet today and talk". One 19, one 20, and both unreal fuck machines. Both were lunchtime meets and went well into the evening before leaving. I need more free time!I have definitely not been having your kind of luck this last few months. In fact, one I thought would work out (managed one afternoon fun date) went silent, then just showed up on BP as a full time provider:

CaptainY
07-08-15, 19:28
I took a two month break from SA. Too many girls with really unreasonably high expectations. Anybody still having fun on there?

MoostacheTN
07-11-15, 12:22
I took a two month break from SA. Too many girls with really unreasonably high expectations. Anybody still having fun on there?Yes a lot.

FreeTacos
07-28-15, 15:20
I took a two month break from SA. Too many girls with really unreasonably high expectations. Anybody still having fun on there?I'll let you know here soon, we just joined last week and already have a few dates lined up. Thought it would be harder as a couple but we seem to be killing it.

HornDawgs
07-29-15, 20:00
Getting going on SA (fun stuff!) and ran into this girl:

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e353aa65/view

Something about that profile pic seemed like I'd seen it before and:

http://brandnewamateurs.com/bna/model/kaye/

HossCartwright
07-31-15, 18:03
She's fun if you can endure the chase. Doesn't want to come off as a hooker but needs the additional $$.

Watch what and how you post down here. Lurkers have been known to cock block.


Getting going on SA (fun stuff!) and ran into this girl:

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e353aa65/view

Something about that profile pic seemed like I'd seen it before and:

http://brandnewamateurs.com/bna/model/kaye/

Fraaak
08-13-15, 18:32
I'll let you know here soon, we just joined last week and already have a few dates lined up. Thought it would be harder as a couple but we seem to be killing it.That's awesome, I'd have assumed the same thing. My gf seems possibly interested in this idea but I don't think she is sold yet, despite coming up with the idea herself =p.

Will be interested to hear your reports!

TomDickNHarry
08-14-15, 14:06
Saw this and had to make my first post, just stumbled upon the site today actually researching someone on BP.

So been using SA for years in a larger city with amazing results. After a couple of months here, finding it a ton more work (not surprising) and more expensive (very surprising). I think there's just less supply. I've been on and off.

Seems if you're willing to do 5 $+ a meet then it looks like you can have your pick, I used to do half or less than that and have my pick. So maybe I'm just spoiled, but it can still be done reasonably, just not always if they're brand new.

My take is they'll go with the big offer first usually from someone they like, but then what that SD is on to the next set of new girls they can get paying that, they quickly re-adjust expectations. For that reason I tend to stick to my guns on px.

That and I found out my buddy was seeing a couple of the same girls on there for 1/2 the price when I thought they were only seeing me LOL. Felt pretty stupid.

But lately having more luck on CL and stuff actually, even as that's impossible here too.

Brand new on here so kind of figuring out the rules, obv people are hesitant to share much they're active on be / see of the cockblocking possibility, etc, but maybe as far as SA goes we could share the links to the real time wasters? Obviously YMMV but that's part of what makes it so time consuming, some of these girls can't even get up the nerve to get a coffee.

I don't know, just thinking of a way to make it useful.

TomDickNHarry
08-14-15, 14:25
Wrote out a long post and it's not here, just testing to see if it shows up before I write it out again.

Jeepster1
08-14-15, 18:42
Wrote out a long post and it's not here, just testing to see if it shows up before I write it out again.All new members go through a "probationary period. " The mods review your posts before making them public.

I believe there's a FAQ available via the home page.

-Jeepster1.

TomDickNHarry
08-15-15, 11:32
All new members go through a "probationary period. " The mods review your posts before making them public.

I believe there's a FAQ available via the home page.

-Jeepster1.Yep, sorry about that, realized it right after I posted the test message but didn't see any way to delete it.

So just a couple that come to mind, wasted a lot of time on this one, she even responds to CL ads, but after she flaked for the 5th time, got her to admit she has been looking for months and never even done a M&G. Maybe she was playing me, but I think she might be telling the truth and either way I for one won't waste another second on her.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e13651de/view?search-created-new

Curious if anyone cracked this one? Met her a couple of times, couldn't get past the M&G though, even though I really wanted to. Think she's relatively new but got the sense that maybe someone got to her first and screwed her over LOL. Just very cautious now.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e83251ef/view?search-created-new

This one wasn't my type, a little big, but bubbly and cute, got the sense you can go for a ride pretty easily with some wining and dining if you don't mind them with a little meat on the bones.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0dc03cf/view?search-created-new

Gibson1970
08-16-15, 13:54
I sent an email to Savanna but never heard back from her. She did read it. Just never replied.


Yep, sorry about that, realized it right after I posted the test message but didn't see any way to delete it.

So just a couple that come to mind, wasted a lot of time on this one, she even responds to CL ads, but after she flaked for the 5th time, got her to admit she has been looking for months and never even done a M&G. Maybe she was playing me, but I think she might be telling the truth and either way I for one won't waste another second on her.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e13651de/view?search-created-new

Curious if anyone cracked this one? Met her a couple of times, couldn't get past the M&G though, even though I really wanted to. Think she's relatively new but got the sense that maybe someone got to her first and screwed her over LOL. Just very cautious now.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e83251ef/view?search-created-new

This one wasn't my type, a little big, but bubbly and cute, got the sense you can go for a ride pretty easily with some wining and dining if you don't mind them with a little meat on the bones.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0dc03cf/view?search-created-new

TomDickNHarry
08-17-15, 11:36
I sent an email to Savanna but never heard back from her. She did read it. Just never replied.Consider yourself lucky based on my experience. Total blackhole of time.

TomDickNHarry
08-17-15, 12:09
Experienced SB in the northeast, has high expectations and seems more about her own pampering than yours, didn't like the personality, and wasn't nearly as hot as the pics, so didn't pursue.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e10b644c/view?search-recently-active

These are her real pics, not bad if you're into that alternative type. She does online web cam shows for her job, but she's not pushing that, will totally meet in person and is up for a per time thing.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e67ee6dc/view?search-recently-active

TomDickNHarry
10-23-15, 11:00
If anyone else is active in Nashville and surrounding areas, DM me. I've gotten back in the game and am looking to share info.

Had to share this one with everyone though, my ATF GPS. She wants $4 k per month for 3 meets, wants it upfront, and the FC has to be one of the two 5 star luxury resort hotels near her. I don't know what's more amazing, the request or that she might find some retarded sucker who does it.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e9c5b9f11/view?conversation-inbox

Jeepster1
10-23-15, 20:19
If anyone else is active in Nashville and surrounding areas, DM me. I've gotten back in the game and am looking to share info.

Had to share this one with everyone though, my ATF GPS. She wants $4 k per month for 3 meets, wants it upfront, and the FC has to be one of the two 5 star luxury resort hotels near her. I don't know what's more amazing, the request or that she might find some retarded sucker who does it.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e9c5b9f11/view?conversation-inboxWow, only 4 k and I get to play with rock-hard overdone horribly unnatural boobs? Sign me up!

-Jeepster1.

SirJohnFalstaf
01-07-16, 17:09
I have just begun to explore options in this arena, and I must say I'm fairly impressed by ladies on SA. I have an arrangement in place already, and I shall see how this one pans out in the end. I had two serious options to choose from, and I decided to go with the less expensive but less crazy option. Haha! In any event, if you have information to trade, I am willing to share. I will say up front I have not found a diamond in the rough.

Hl123
01-08-16, 12:13
I have just begun to explore options in this arena, and I must say I'm fairly impressed by ladies on SA. I have an arrangement in place already, and I shall see how this one pans out in the end. I had two serious options to choose from, and I decided to go with the less expensive but less crazy option. Haha! In any event, if you have information to trade, I am willing to share. I will say up front I have not found a diamond in the rough.I'm just starting also. I haven't made any arrangements yet. Please feel free to PM with advice.

Graham111
01-08-16, 12:23
I am a veteran daddy - 5 years now. This is really high end. OK if you got the money and won't miss it! Try about 20% of that and it should be grade A puntang! I have been successful with $$ a get together with overnite visits with all but the hardcore.


If anyone else is active in Nashville and surrounding areas, DM me. I've gotten back in the game and am looking to share info.

Had to share this one with everyone though, my ATF GPS. She wants $4 k per month for 3 meets, wants it upfront, and the FC has to be one of the two 5 star luxury resort hotels near her. I don't know what's more amazing, the request or that she might find some retarded sucker who does it.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e9c5b9f11/view?conversation-inbox

TNtimer
01-31-16, 17:34
Anybody chatted with this one?

I tend to like those that are right around 40 and hitting that sexual peak- but I've seen her profile change a few times, and seems like she might have a little drama on hand.

But. She's convenient for me there in Hermitage!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e5a969b7/view?search-recently-active

MushroomTip
02-04-16, 09:37
Did you ever got to meet the girl with the crazy hair?

Girl?


Experienced SB in the northeast, has high expectations and seems more about her own pampering than yours, didn't like the personality, and wasn't nearly as hot as the pics, so didn't pursue.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e10b644c/view?search-recently-active

These are her real pics, not bad if you're into that alternative type. She does online web cam shows for her job, but she's not pushing that, will totally meet in person and is up for a per time thing.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e67ee6dc/view?search-recently-active.

SideBoo
02-05-16, 23:43
Whats up fellas.

Any advise as to start on SA anonymously?

Prepaid CC.

Burner phone.

Use fake info / fake name.

Internet proxy.

Gibson1970
02-06-16, 13:02
Whats up fellas.

Any advise as to start on SA anonymously?

Prepaid CC.

Burner phone.

Use fake info / fake name.

Internet proxy.I have been off and on SA for 3 years now. I use my CC because I don't have a snooping SO, but a prepaid card will work fine.

I always start off using a Text Free App or burner phone because you never know about blackmail.

I always use a fake Profile name and my Public Profile pix is a close representation, but not actually me. I will do Private photos of myself.

It is a lot of work to find a good one. I typically do a Meet and Greet over Lunch or Dinner to insure we are compatible.

TooBigToFail
02-06-16, 23:31
I'd think twice about using your CC, these companies arent exactly secure. I only avoided getting caught up in the AM hack because I used Paypal instead. They keep payment info on their systems so its more secure.


I have been off and on SA for 3 years now. I use my CC because I don't have a snooping SO, but a prepaid card will work fine.

I always start off using a Text Free App or burner phone because you never know about blackmail.

I always use a fake Profile name and my Public Profile pix is a close representation, but not actually me. I will do Private photos of myself.

It is a lot of work to find a good one. I typically do a Meet and Greet over Lunch or Dinner to insure we are compatible.

SideBoo
02-07-16, 13:40
I'd think twice about using your CC, these companies arent exactly secure. I only avoided getting caught up in the AM hack because I used Paypal instead. They keep payment info on their systems so its more secure.So is prepaid CC safe. ?? I'm leery of using PPal.

Preciate it fellas.

Jeepster1
02-08-16, 01:05
So is prepaid CC safe. ?? I'm leery of using PPal.

Preciate it fellas.Some prepaid credit cards have to be registered to (somebody's) name and address before you can use them for online purchases.

The Simon prepaid American Express claims that no registration is needed. You can by them at Customer Service at Opry Mills or Lebanon Outlets.

You can Google Simon American Express to find their website and see if that's for you.

-Jeepster1.

Jeepster1
02-08-16, 15:52
So is prepaid CC safe. ?? I'm leery of using PPal.

Preciate it fellas.More details on the Simon (Available at Opry Mills) cards:

http://motherboard.vice.com/read/the-simple-trick-ashley-madisons-users-could-have-used-to-protect-themselves

-Jeepster1.

BoroNut85
02-09-16, 16:40
Any awesome men out there mind PM your logon info? I'm under the probation period and I have 10 free messages. I can see that private pics are blocked. I just want to see how much more access I get with paying for an upgrade. Only need it for like 20 min and then feel free to change pw. Will be happy to verify anything.

Jeepster1
02-17-16, 21:22
Did anybody see the profile of the SA lady with the surgically-made elf ears? And who had her navel removed?

Perhaps not the best choice if you wanted an inconspicuous liason.

-Jeepster1.

SideBoo
02-18-16, 04:23
More details on the Simon (Available at Opry Mills) cards:

http://motherboard.vice.com/read/the-simple-trick-ashley-madisons-users-could-have-used-to-protect-themselves

-Jeepster1.Simon amx CC. No questions asked & wrks like a charm.

Heliman
02-18-16, 20:14
Yes, I saw that one. Very strange indeed.

On another note, I'm having my first meetup tomorrow, hopefully it will go as well as I expect.


Did anybody see the profile of the SA lady with the surgically-made elf ears? And who had her navel removed?

Perhaps not the best choice if you wanted an inconspicuous liason.

-Jeepster1.

NashLatino
03-04-16, 23:24
Hi guys,

I am new to the board. And this will be my first post.

With too much time on my hands, I signed up for the Preimium version for a month.

So far, I have received quite a few responses, but I have come closest with the girl in the pics attached. But there where a couple of big flags that made me not want to pull the trigger.

She asked for 7 Benjamins, Full GFE and pretty much unlimited time. I was completely fine with that. She then told me that we would have to meet in a public place where the donation would be put, flag number one. Then, she told me that someone would be with her but I would not know who and where the person was for her security, flag two.

It spooked me and put it on hold. Receiving responses from all ages, sizes, and colors.

Will revert once I catch some more conversation.

Rocket Dork
03-05-16, 12:08
Hi guys,

I am new to the board. And this will be my first post.

With too much time on my hands, I signed up for the Preimium version for a month.

So far, I have received quite a few responses, but I have come closest with the girl in the pics attached. But there where a couple of big flags that made me not want to pull the trigger.

She asked for 7 Benjamins, Full GFE and pretty much unlimited time. I was completely fine with that. She then told me that we would have to meet in a public place where the donation would be put, flag number one. Then, she told me that someone would be with her but I would not know who and where the person was for her security, flag two.

It spooked me and put it on hold. Receiving responses from all ages, sizes, and colors.

Will revert once I catch some more conversation.Stay Far Away. Its a con. My two cents. Rocket Dork (Hopefully you will know what title means. Its telling you how old I am) LOL!

NashLatino
03-06-16, 10:50
Hi guys,

I am new to the board. And this will be my first post.

With too much time on my hands, I signed up for the Preimium version for a month.

So far, I have received quite a few responses, but I have come closest with the girl in the pics attached. But there where a couple of big flags that made me not want to pull the trigger.

She asked for 7 Benjamins, Full GFE and pretty much unlimited time. I was completely fine with that. She then told me that we would have to meet in a public place where the donation would be put, flag number one. Then, she told me that someone would be with her but I would not know who and where the person was for her security, flag two.

It spooked me and put it on hold. Receiving responses from all ages, sizes, and colors.

Will revert once I catch some more conversation.I have continued to chat with more girls, and I am having more trouble deciding with which girl to go. At the moment, I may pull the trigger on this one. I am speechless with the pix and vid.

She is asking for 7 Benjamins for at least 3 hours.

Will report back later if trigger pulled.

CanDoForU
03-06-16, 19:41
I have continued to chat with more girls, and I am having more trouble deciding with which girl to go. At the moment, I may pull the trigger on this one. I am speechless with the pix and vid.

She is asking for 7 Benjamins for at least 3 hours.

Will report back later if trigger pulled.NL, could be just me? Did you take a good look at that pic of her snapper. You would think she'd clean that thing up a little before the cheese moment. Not a big deal, just doesn't look DATY fresh.

NashLatino
03-15-16, 18:55
I have continued to chat with more girls, and I am having more trouble deciding with which girl to go. At the moment, I may pull the trigger on this one. I am speechless with the pix and vid.

She is asking for 7 Benjamins for at least 3 hours.

Will report back later if trigger pulled.I have went ahead and got my feet wet with a Mature lady from SA. She is a 35 year old lady. I decided to go with the experience and I don't regret it. We met at a Hooters, talked and she was very engaged. Ate and drank, then took off to the room.

Once there, she told me that whatever I wanted, and I took the opportunity. I used all 3 of her wholes, BBBJ, mish, doggy, cowgirl, facefck and anal. Did not complain one bit about her jaw hurting or me roughing up the booty.

Did not watch the clock one bit, went into the room at like 2 pm and did not leave till 6. About the damage, Lunch, drinks, room, and 300.

TomDickNHarry
03-28-16, 15:06
I have continued to chat with more girls, and I am having more trouble deciding with which girl to go. At the moment, I may pull the trigger on this one. I am speechless with the pix and vid.

She is asking for 7 Benjamins for at least 3 hours.

Will report back later if trigger pulled.Everyone's different, but 7 is high especially for ones who talk like that and are ready to go to FC immediately, they're basically pros, UTR types at best. 2 to 3 is more in line and usually you can negotiate down to that though they'll always ask for something crazy like 6 or 7.

Not to say there aren't some that are worth that, and for the rare hot, true college amateur I'd consider paying it, but the irony is they don't usually ask for that. And you don't even have to worry about time, you're not on the clock. It's gotten harder and harder to find but those types are what makes this so much better than mongering. JM2 C.

Donwhite
05-01-16, 10:37
Anyone having any luck lately? It seems like the cupboard is empty right now.

Gibson1970
05-03-16, 09:46
Anyone having any luck lately? It seems like the cupboard is empty right now.I let me Membership lapse as well. I was juggling two and didn't need anymore. One has dropped off so I may rejoin soon.

JRuizNets
05-03-16, 12:43
Some prepaid credit cards have to be registered to (somebody's) name and address before you can use them for online purchases.

The Simon prepaid American Express claims that no registration is needed. You can by them at Customer Service at Opry Mills or Lebanon Outlets.

You can Google Simon American Express to find their website and see if that's for you.

-Jeepster1.I normally use a prepaid car I buy at the local Krogers for $4. 00. I call a number to activate but it does not need any name or addresss when I verify. When I use on a site I make up a diff name or the one I'm using and a zip code and address works everytime.

Sixtate
05-11-16, 19:06
Hey guys is this skittles 92 the little utr spinner by the name of crystal that's been reviewed here?

Donwhite
05-25-16, 17:56
If anyone has any legit sbs that they can't support anymore, please pm me. I'm in a huge dry spell. I've had four meet and greets set up and they have all went radio silent on me the day of.

FigLeaf
05-25-16, 18:41
Alright you SD's ou there I have some questions for you.

I am still somewhat new to the mongering life and just recently signed up on SA. I have learned how to search and narrow down the prospects. I just have a few questions if you wouldn't mind helping out a noob at this of the life.

1. Do most of you use a burner phone or text app to initiate contact?

2. When searching How much do expect to see out of pocket for an initial meet and greet?

3. On average, what do you see as the normal amounts for expectations being minimal, negotiable, and practical? High end is out of my ballpark range.

4. Does it necessarily have to be an ongoing thing or can it be intermittent as I travel for work extensively?

Those are just a few of my numerous questions, but I am hoping we can start here.

I haven't bitten the bullet yet, mainly because I am not sure what he SB's really expect money wise.

TNtimer
05-26-16, 18:52
Alright you SD's ou there I have some questions for you.
1. Do most of you use a burner phone or text app to initiate contact?

I use GV- Google Voice- with a dummy email.

2. When searching How much do expect to see out of pocket for an initial meet and greet?

I try never over $200.

3. On average, what do you see as the normal amounts for expectations being minimal, negotiable, and practical? High end is out of my ballpark range.

Monthly, I've never gone over $1400, regardless of what she had in there.

4. Does it necessarily have to be an ongoing thing or can it be intermittent as I travel for work extensively?

That is up to you and her- It most certainly CAN be done, but many are not open to it, and those that are are often closer to a UTR than an SB.

LetsGetCrazy
07-07-16, 12:00
I set something up with this one. She had 2 people drive her. She was acting nervous and texting a lot. I was getting ready, I had a feeling. Sure enough! "Oh I need to take gas money out to My sister and her husband". I made her leave all but 50. She got in the car and they left, but came back and started texting for me to come let her in she was at the door and I had watched them pull back up and the guy was at the door not her. They wouldn't leave until I had thrown out 200. They are scamming low lives!!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b8380628-98c8-8dce-78bb-f88353e2419e

Heliman
07-07-16, 20:01
I set something up with this one. She had 2 people drive her. She was acting nervous and texting a lot. I was getting ready, I had a feeling. Sure enough! "Oh I need to take gas money out to My sister and her husband". I made her leave all but 50. She got in the car and they left, but came back and started texting for me to come let her in she was at the door and I had watched them pull back up and the guy was at the door not her. They wouldn't leave until I had thrown out 200. They are scamming low lives!!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b8380628-98c8-8dce-78bb-f88353e2419eYep, I was also scammed. Up to this point, all my SA meetings had gone great and I let my guard down. Definitely avoid!!

Nashguy207
07-08-16, 08:01
I set something up with this one. She had 2 people drive her. She was acting nervous and texting a lot. I was getting ready, I had a feeling. Sure enough! "Oh I need to take gas money out to My sister and her husband". I made her leave all but 50. She got in the car and they left, but came back and started texting for me to come let her in she was at the door and I had watched them pull back up and the guy was at the door not her. They wouldn't leave until I had thrown out 200. They are scamming low lives!!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b8380628-98c8-8dce-78bb-f88353e2419eIf you haven't already you need to also put this in the rip off thread.

John HandCock
07-08-16, 09:53
I set something up with this one. She had 2 people drive her. She was acting nervous and texting a lot. I was getting ready, I had a feeling. Sure enough! "Oh I need to take gas money out to My sister and her husband". I made her leave all but 50. She got in the car and they left, but came back and started texting for me to come let her in she was at the door and I had watched them pull back up and the guy was at the door not her. They wouldn't leave until I had thrown out 200. They are scamming low lives!!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b8380628-98c8-8dce-78bb-f88353e2419eDid this happen at your hotel or home? When they came back why not call 911. These are strangers never seen before beating on your door. This would have taught them a lesson.

LetsGetCrazy
07-09-16, 11:11
Did this happen at your hotel or home? When they came back why not call 911. These are strangers never seen before beating on your door. This would have taught them a lesson.This was at my house and I live in a very nice subdivision. I should have known better than to not get a hotel room. Needless to say we need to shut them down. I don't want anyone else going through what I did with them.

LetsGetCrazy
07-09-16, 11:14
Yep, I was also scammed. Up to this point, all my SA meetings had gone great and I let my guard down. Definitely avoid!!Sounds like this is what they do!

LetsGetCrazy
07-22-16, 16:27
I am giving up on this hobby! I just got robbed again! I am so done with this all! Took all the money, started acting weird and then started texted and she was out the door!

Amora Skyy 6156-719-5082.

www.seekingarrangement.com/member/37ca2af7-9ed3-4546-196a-4d43f022a066

Quake3
07-22-16, 19:27
I am giving up on this hobby! I just got robbed again! I am so done with this all! Took all the money, started acting weird and then started texted and she was out the door!

Amora Skyy 6156-719-5082.

www.seekingarrangement.com/member/37ca2af7-9ed3-4546-196a-4d43f022a066As I knew 100% paid dating service as man looking for woman or Sugar daddy type, we are man Man are target for both. First all of these sites membership or premium member are usually free for woman. They need them to attract men. Then Women in their target you too.

Ask us a question why we pay money for entertain and we need verify. I hated these verify site. Think your personal safe with them-- think again. Even here IP is logged your email is recorded and save in log files. Yes I am from silicon valley and so many of us here. Don't waste money on these. If you want to find babe and become sugar daddy many places as I know full of them. Most high end night club where business travel usually couple hang around, Strip club, any strip club money can buy all girl there.

For escort services like I mentioned used your judgment who to see and what to see. Why we have this type of free forum for no need to register verify who you are. If she asked for information you think it can destroy or damage your private life then don't give out.

No work place verify, No business email, No direct phone number to business even you own it. Chance are one bad apple can destroy all you build up from family to business and client.

Is there different between 150 $ girl and 400 $ girl to me prob yes-- 400 $ usually show up on time dress to impress and try be highclass. I have met and have much better service and much better look dress 150 H** than 400 H*.

Just me 2 cents.

Gibson1970
07-23-16, 14:45
I am giving up on this hobby! I just got robbed again! I am so done with this all! Took all the money, started acting weird and then started texted and she was out the door!

Amora Skyy 6156-719-5082.

www.seekingarrangement.com/member/37ca2af7-9ed3-4546-196a-4d43f022a066I never give them the money until after they have done the deed.

Jeepster1
08-08-16, 10:26
Exact Quote from a local profile:

"Hi I just want a sugar daddy to talk to all the time and love me and treat me special and I'll be yours I'm really nice and want to know everything about you, all your interests, hobbies, and issues you wanna talk about I'm here for you ! I really like convos where we ask each other cheesy questions like "what's your favorite food" or "what's your favorite city" so talk to me anytime xoxo"

Maybe she thought she was posting here? http://crazygirlfriend.com.

-Jeepster1.

SteelTony36
08-08-16, 17:52
Exact Quote from a local profile:

"Hi I just want a sugar daddy to talk to all the time and love me and treat me special and I'll be yours I'm really nice and want to know everything about you, all your interests, hobbies, and issues you wanna talk about I'm here for you ! I really like convos where we ask each other cheesy questions like "what's your favorite food" or "what's your favorite city" so talk to me anytime xoxo"

Maybe she thought she was posting here? http://crazygirlfriend.com.

-Jeepster1.Seems there is an influx of lovelies lately with college starting back. Fertile hunting grounds. I've definitely ran into a few of these though. It's a bit of a WTF moment.

Jeepster1
08-23-16, 10:22
SA member Kayeh using fake pics. Stolen from Instagram model Karin Jinsui.

-Jeepster1.

TnGuy23
08-30-16, 18:33
First I got to say thanks for those who posted their findings on SA. I have had good and bad experiences on TER and BP so I thought I'd give SA a try. Created a free profile 1st week of July. I didn't want to pay for the upgrade so basically I "hid" my e-mail address in my profile in the "what I'm looking for" section. This helped weed out the fakers, bots and spammers. I immediately got a few responses. Met a couple of flakes and 1-2 nice females but it didn't work out. They either wanted too much $ or weren't that attractive or they weren't into me. Fast forward a month later I get a response from a "TGTBT" profile. I wrote it off as fake or too much $, but she wanted to meet for lunch so I said why not and boy was she for real. Close to my age (thirties), sexy as hell, college grad, divorced but looking for long-term fwb but a little extra spending $. What I would have spent for an expensive hour on TER I spent less than half that for one of the most incredible experiences ever. After lunch we met a couple of weeks later at a hotel for a few hours and it was ecstatic. I'll never do BP or TER again. Guys, they're out there, you just have to be patient and be honest and up front what you're looking for.

Jeepster1
09-04-16, 01:39
ClassyGirlNextDoor88 using stolen pics. From the set posted here:

http://www.xpaja.net/sabrosa-nina/

-Jeepster1.

Jeepster1
09-04-16, 02:02
Chulaa Babyy using stolen pic. From a Madison, Wisconsin escort:

http://www.escortreviewfinder.com/608-676-0523/16358953/large/

She also has posted Private pics, which I haven't seen.

-Jeepster1.

Jeepster1
09-14-16, 23:59
Guess who popped up on SA recently?

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9057-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2699345&viewfull=1#post2699345

-Jeepster1.

Hl123
09-15-16, 13:29
Guess who popped up on SA recently?

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9057-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2699345&viewfull=1#post2699345

-Jeepster1.Not sure who you're referring to. There are several other providers I have come across on SA.

Jeepster1
09-15-16, 16:39
Not sure who you're referring to. There are several other providers I have come across on SA.Please check my original post, it has a link to her hobby name and a report about her. That report includes a BP link with pics and contact info. Some of the same pics are in the SA profile.

I could just duplicate it all here, but that takes all the fun out of asking "Guess Who? ".

-Jeepster1.


Guess who popped up on SA recently?

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9057-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2699345&viewfull=1#post2699345

-Jeepster1.

Jayb2003
09-15-16, 20:42
Not sure who you're referring to. There are several other providers I have come across on SA.It goes to my review of Payton when I click the link. Is that who you are referring to? Damn that girl is so hot. I'm thinking about signing up for SA just to see how much she is charging now. Probably some of the most perfect breast that you will see on a girl under 100 lbs.

SteelTony36
09-16-16, 08:58
Guess who popped up on SA recently?

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9057-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=2699345&viewfull=1#post2699345

-Jeepster1.Yep. I noticed that too.

Heliman
09-16-16, 13:19
It goes to my review of Payton when I click the link. Is that who you are referring to? Damn that girl is so hot. I'm thinking about signing up for SA just to see how much she is charging now. Probably some of the most perfect breast that you will see on a girl under 100 lbs.She was on SA before about a year or so ago. She wanted 700 per meeting when I was talking to her and then she started showing up on BP. LOL.

Jeepster1
09-16-16, 13:56
She was on SA before about a year or so ago. She wanted 700 per meeting when I was talking to her and then she started showing up on BP. LOL.Well you can tell she's got an expensive habit. Have you checked the prices at Sephora.com lately?

-Jeepster1.

Jayb2003
09-16-16, 17:20
She was on SA before about a year or so ago. She wanted 700 per meeting when I was talking to her and then she started showing up on BP. LOL.So the $400 that she told me last year was a good deal LOL! She looks awesome naked but definitely not worth $700 to me.

HornDawgs
09-17-16, 11:34
She was on SA before about a year or so ago. She wanted 700 per meeting when I was talking to her and then she started showing up on BP. LOL.That's insane! The most I've done is $300/ meet and that's for a hot 18 year old true SB, not a hot (true) but tatted up UTR provider.

Johnny Heyther
09-19-16, 07:13
ClassyGirlNextDoor88 using stolen pics. From the set posted here:

http://www.xpaja.net/sabrosa-nina/

-Jeepster1.Nice find, probably saved me some trouble.

SteelTony36
09-19-16, 22:40
So the $400 that she told me last year was a good deal LOL! She looks awesome naked but definitely not worth $700 to me.Yeah she was asking for $400. Never took her up on it. Too many other options at a way better value. She's definitely got a ridiculous rack though.

FigLeaf
09-27-16, 20:40
Had this one message me and within a few messages was straight out asking for P4 P.

Any input from you SA guys? Google image search shows nothing.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b78f4cba-56a9-4223-b77e-0cedcd0be3aa

GregsRed
09-28-16, 13:57
She is stunning naked. Her attitude is equally as bad. Her and her old room mate, Jessica (with the big ass, 'sweet cheeks' were from the same area of Chicago and moved down together. They both had the same terrible attitude. My two visits with Payton were only HJs and she let me play with her boobs and just a bit with the kitty. No penetration. The two visits were both lack luster and mechanical. The only reason I went back for seconds was in hopes that the service would improve b / c she has a damn near perfect body. Nope, the service may have been worse on round two. IMO I would not give her $150 for a visit b / c the service was so bad. I can go look at beautiful women on the porn sites. I prefer to pay for performance.

G.


So the $400 that she told me last year was a good deal LOL! She looks awesome naked but definitely not worth $700 to me.

HornDawgs
09-28-16, 14:24
Had this one message me and within a few messages was straight out asking for P4 P.

Any input from you SA guys? Google image search shows nothing.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b78f4cba-56a9-4223-b77e-0cedcd0be3aaNever had that happen before! She's on there like two days and A. Messages me first and B. The message is like "What's your plan for tonight?

Doesn't seem like my type anyway but that seems like a red flag.

FigLeaf
09-28-16, 21:23
And then out of the blue she wants me to know she is looking for something fun and discreet and she can host. Want to know if I am interested.

Damn, it must be my profile or something but I am getting hit left and right with girls messaging me.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9831b28c-cdc8-3781-a136-960ab4f60cf6

Anyone know anything on this one? Google image is a nogo on her pics.

MushroomTip
09-29-16, 09:55
Met her once and never meeting her again. She's not good looking at all.


And then out of the blue she wants me to know she is looking for something fun and discreet and she can host. Want to know if I am interested.

Damn, it must be my profile or something but I am getting hit left and right with girls messaging me.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9831b28c-cdc8-3781-a136-960ab4f60cf6

Anyone know anything on this one? Google image is a nogo on her pics.

FigLeaf
10-18-16, 20:37
If you are into MILF's, and I am, there are numerous ones available in the Nashville area. I am currently texting back and forth with 6 of them. Met with two. Had one who after a quick dinner gave one amazing BBBJ while FIV and FIA in the car who says she is into just about anything except S&M. Must see her again to see how far she will really go. All holes open and says she would DP but I don't know of any other guy who's junk I want to see or have that close to my junk. Total cost for dinner drinks and play was $0. 8.

Had another meet me for dinner and ended up in a marathon 3 hour session where everything was open. Tiny little thing at about 5'1 and 100 lbs or so but really nice firm B cups. 37 years old and I Will Definitely revisit with this one. Total cost for dinner, drinks, room, and marathon session was $$.

Got another visit lined up with one tomorrow who appears to want nothing other than to fuck my brains out and cheat on hubby. I can and will oblige tomorrow.

So far, SA seems to be a goldmine for me when it comes to MILF's. Yeah I get stuff all the time from chicks in the Phillipines, Columbia, Russia, Czech Republic. We all know that is just a scam so they get blocked immediately. Takes a little more leg work, but definitely looks to be much better quality than CL and BP tracked up addicts.

Vet420
10-25-16, 16:36
If you are into MILF's, and I am, there are numerous ones available in the Nashville area. I am currently texting back and forth with 6 of them. Met with two. Had one who after a quick dinner gave one amazing BBBJ while FIV and FIA in the car who says she is into just about anything except S&M. Must see her again to see how far she will really go. All holes open and says she would DP but I don't know of any other guy who's junk I want to see or have that close to my junk. Total cost for dinner drinks and play was $0. 8.

Had another meet me for dinner and ended up in a marathon 3 hour session where everything was open. Tiny little thing at about 5'1 and 100 lbs or so but really nice firm B cups. 37 years old and I Will Definitely revisit with this one. Total cost for dinner, drinks, room, and marathon session was $$.

Got another visit lined up with one tomorrow who appears to want nothing other than to fuck my brains out and cheat on hubby. I can and will oblige tomorrow.

So far, SA seems to be a goldmine for me when it comes to MILF's. Yeah I get stuff all the time from chicks in the Phillipines, Columbia, Russia, Czech Republic. We all know that is just a scam so they get blocked immediately. Takes a little more leg work, but definitely looks to be much better quality than CL and BP tracked up addicts.This is the safe and the way of the future.

FigLeaf
10-30-16, 08:22
Stay away, she is seriously threatening to find me and let my wife know. Good thing I use only an app for this type of stuff. I never actually met her in person but the first meet I canceled when she kept postponing and wanted me to front her babysitter money. Second time I had to cancel due to a change in plans on the home front. That is when she blew up and is threatening to find me.

Crazy chicks.

SirCumference
11-10-16, 10:04
Never had that happen before! She's on there like two days and A. Messages me first and B. The message is like "What's your plan for tonight?

Doesn't seem like my type anyway but that seems like a red flag.Too many red flags for me. Immediate P4 P request, wanting to meet ASAP with no advance planning, pressing for meeting in any circumstances (parking in my car somewhere)? Complaining that she had gotten all ready for the rush appointment and it was "all for nothing" when I couldn't drop everything for a meeting, asking about money transfer apps in advance, direct references to sexual favors and costs.

The spidey sense went off a few too many times for me to go any further; my first practice with SA but not my first trip around the block, as it is. I definitely see the promise of SA but be careful out there!

LetsGetCrazy
11-16-16, 21:20
Just wanted to warn everyone this the girl that is part of a group that robs guys after setting up a meeting.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7945e9ff-8262-4aaf-9610-742862105fc2

JerrySpring
12-03-16, 13:38
Hey guys first time post. About 1. 5 yrs ago I switched from BP to SA and was the best thing I ever did. Quality just skyrocketed. Although the $ went way up it has been worth it. I actually just moved from Chicago and the SA scene here is a lot better. It def helps that I am younger than most on the site but all I can say is wow. I am seeing three young college ones that you would never think would be in the SD game.

CatsFann
12-03-16, 23:19
Hey guys first time post. About 1. 5 yrs ago I switched from BP to SA and was the best thing I ever did. Quality just skyrocketed. Although the $ went way up it has been worth it. I actually just moved from Chicago and the SA scene here is a lot better. It def helps that I am younger than most on the site but all I can say is wow. I am seeing three young college ones that you would never think would be in the SD game.I have been on SA with mixed success at best. Any links you can post that could be successful?

SirCumference
12-07-16, 10:02
I have been on SA with mixed success at best. Any links you can post that could be successful?I found this blog to be helpful: https://theescortlover.wordpress.com/tag/seekingarrangement-com/.

My own personal advice:

1) SA requires a different kind of spidey sense than the hobby, which takes a bit to develop. Instead of looking out for Uncle LEO and Lady of the Run Into the Night With Your Cash, you're watching out for Scammer Babe, that cute college coed majoring in Gold Digging, Little Miss Platonic Relationship, and Princess Please Rescue Me. Don't fall for the sob story--rent is due and she's about to be on the street, car broke down and no way to get to work / school but no money to pay for repair, etc. Always insist on a face-to-face meeting (public place, natch) and a date (private place, natch!) before any cash leaves your hands.

2) Get a face-to-face as soon as you can. Be nice. Listen. Ask her about herself. Tell a little about you (in general terms, obviously--college, job, etc.). Pay the bill (duh). This is your chance to get her interested in you and to see if you're interested in her.

3) Don't talk price until after the face-to-face meeting--you develop a little rapport in the meeting, and that helps your cause here. Define and clearly state what you're looking for arrangement-wise, especially on points like pay-per-meeting vs. Monthly, frequency of meetings, extras / gifts / travel, etc. Let her name the price--most seem to either undervalue or massively overvalue what you would pay on the hobby market.

4) Start a new profile every time you re-enter the arena. Let the past be the past.

5) Whatever you're looking for, you can find it--don't be afraid to hear no, or get no response, or get a blowoff. The ratio of SB to SD is such that it's a buyer's market; if one won't fulfill your interests, move on to the next one. Don't be afraid to move the conversation to specific sexual interests.

6) Be prepared for a little more emotional involvement than with most hobby encounters. There's a deeper level of relationship in SB / SD encounters than in most, and I'm still friends (and occasionally FWB) with several of my arrangements.

7) Don't over-commit. It can feel like an all-you-can-eat smorgasbord when you first get started, but your bank account may not last too long that way!

8) Same hobby skills to maintain anonymity--burner phone, separate email, cash, hotel room instead of home (for at least the first several meetings), etc. --and research skills for due diligence. Those digits might lead you straight to her Backpage ad, or Tin Eye might point you in the direction of her bridal portfolio on The Knot (true story, LOL).

9) Don't be a jerk. Treat the relation like you would a dating relationship where you're guaranteed a sure thing--or at least if you're just looking for pay for play, be up front about it.

10) Have an exit strategy. Variety is the spice of life, after all, and one of the reasons I enjoy the hobby--know when to leave, be polite but firm and clear, and move on. On the flip side, don't be offended when she chooses to end the relationship as well; I've had a few end when she got a boyfriend, left for the summer, etc.

11) You'll definitely run across some pros. My general feeling is that they're asking for more on SA than they are in their Backpage ad, so be wary.

12) I get the feeling that most of the legit members have never had a successful arrangement. Use that knowledge to your own advantage.

13) You'll almost certainly need a Premium membership to get anywhere. I usually just do the one-month-at-a-time option because it's pretty easy to find what you're looking for in a month. Adjust your privacy settings to your liking. I recommend being visible on searches but hiding your last active date, hiding when you view someone, and showing when you favorite someone.

14) Keep a sense of humor. I found that about 80% of contacts were obvious scams, not compatible with what I was looking for, far enough out of town to make regular meetings impossible, or pros advertising in a different market than the usual ones we hobbyists frequent. 10% of the rest were outlandish ($5 k+ a month for once a week, her own credit card, cosigning on a loan, etc.). Only way to deal with it is to laugh.

I like monthly allowance relations that last 3-6 months; upfront cost is higher but I wind up getting far more action than I would have for the same expenditure in the hobby arena, and usually have better action as we get to know each other.

I also really enjoy SA for fulfilling some fantasy requests that couldn't be found easily in the hobby. For example, I had a great arrangement with a college girl where one requirement was that our meetings were in her dorm room. That was a fun throwback, to say the least!

Good luck and hope this helps!

FarFarAway
12-07-16, 12:24
This is all fine, but the place to go to study the art of the sugar bowl is the Richmond, VA thread. The Sugar thread is the de facto national blog for SDs, and there is a compilation on a thread called Highlights that catalogs all of the most important posts about how to do it right. The information there is voluminous, and newbies need to study it carefully.


I found this blog to be helpful: https://theescortlover.wordpress.com/tag/seekingarrangement-com/.

My own personal advice:

1) SA requires a different kind of spidey sense than the hobby, which takes a bit to develop. Instead of looking out for Uncle LEO and Lady of the Run Into the Night With Your Cash, you're watching out for Scammer Babe, that cute college coed majoring in Gold Digging, Little Miss Platonic Relationship, and Princess Please Rescue Me. Don't fall for the sob story--rent is due and she's about to be on the street, car broke down and no way to get to work / school but no money to pay for repair, etc. Always insist on a face-to-face meeting (public place, natch) and a date (private place, natch!) before any cash leaves your hands.

2) Get a face-to-face as soon as you can. Be nice. Listen. Ask her about herself. Tell a little about you (in general terms, obviously--college, job, etc.). Pay the bill (duh). This is your chance to get her interested in you and to see if you're interested in her.

3) Don't talk price until after the face-to-face meeting--you develop a little rapport in the meeting, and that helps your cause here. Define and clearly state what you're looking for arrangement-wise, especially on points like pay-per-meeting vs. Monthly, frequency of meetings, extras / gifts / travel, etc. Let her name the price--most seem to either undervalue or massively overvalue what you would pay on the hobby market.

4) Start a new profile every time you re-enter the arena. Let the past be the past.

5) Whatever you're looking for, you can find it--don't be afraid to hear no, or get no response, or get a blowoff. The ratio of SB to SD is such that it's a buyer's market; if one won't fulfill your interests, move on to the next one. Don't be afraid to move the conversation to specific sexual interests.

6) Be prepared for a little more emotional involvement than with most hobby encounters. There's a deeper level of relationship in SB / SD encounters than in most, and I'm still friends (and occasionally FWB) with several of my arrangements.

7) Don't over-commit. It can feel like an all-you-can-eat smorgasbord when you first get started, but your bank account may not last too long that way!

8) Same hobby skills to maintain anonymity--burner phone, separate email, cash, hotel room instead of home (for at least the first several meetings), etc. --and research skills for due diligence. Those digits might lead you straight to her Backpage ad, or Tin Eye might point you in the direction of her bridal portfolio on The Knot (true story, LOL).

9) Don't be a jerk. Treat the relation like you would a dating relationship where you're guaranteed a sure thing--or at least if you're just looking for pay for play, be up front about it.

10) Have an exit strategy. Variety is the spice of life, after all, and one of the reasons I enjoy the hobby--know when to leave, be polite but firm and clear, and move on. On the flip side, don't be offended when she chooses to end the relationship as well; I've had a few end when she got a boyfriend, left for the summer, etc.

11) You'll definitely run across some pros. My general feeling is that they're asking for more on SA than they are in their Backpage ad, so be wary.

12) I get the feeling that most of the legit members have never had a successful arrangement. Use that knowledge to your own advantage.

13) You'll almost certainly need a Premium membership to get anywhere. I usually just do the one-month-at-a-time option because it's pretty easy to find what you're looking for in a month. Adjust your privacy settings to your liking. I recommend being visible on searches but hiding your last active date, hiding when you view someone, and showing when you favorite someone.

14) Keep a sense of humor. I found that about 80% of contacts were obvious scams, not compatible with what I was looking for, far enough out of town to make regular meetings impossible, or pros advertising in a different market than the usual ones we hobbyists frequent. 10% of the rest were outlandish ($5 k+ a month for once a week, her own credit card, cosigning on a loan, etc.). Only way to deal with it is to laugh.

I like monthly allowance relations that last 3-6 months; upfront cost is higher but I wind up getting far more action than I would have for the same expenditure in the hobby arena, and usually have better action as we get to know each other.

I also really enjoy SA for fulfilling some fantasy requests that couldn't be found easily in the hobby. For example, I had a great arrangement with a college girl where one requirement was that our meetings were in her dorm room. That was a fun throwback, to say the least!

Good luck and hope this helps!

SirCumference
12-07-16, 13:40
Thanks FFA, I had forgotten about that one. I read it extensively when I first broke into new waters.

Here's a link: http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ.

TL; DR: What works for one person and one area can be vastly different than what works for another. I enjoy the feeling out / negotiating process, hence my satisfaction with SA. What others enjoy may be different. Studying how it's done is vital!


This is all fine, but the place to go to study the art of the sugar bowl is the Richmond, VA thread. The Sugar thread is the de facto national blog for SDs, and there is a compilation on a thread called Highlights that catalogs all of the most important posts about how to do it right. The information there is voluminous, and newbies need to study it carefully.

RichardHead57
12-07-16, 13:56
Too many red flags for me. Immediate P4 P request, wanting to meet ASAP with no advance planning, pressing for meeting in any circumstances (parking in my car somewhere)? Complaining that she had gotten all ready for the rush appointment and it was "all for nothing" when I couldn't drop everything for a meeting, asking about money transfer apps in advance, direct references to sexual favors and costs.

The spidey sense went off a few too many times for me to go any further; my first practice with SA but not my first trip around the block, as it is. I definitely see the promise of SA but be careful out there!I saw this one and had fun. She's a legit BBW and just doesn't understand that discussing money isn't kosher. Gives an amazing BJ, but will call you like crazy wanting to meet again. PM for contact info.

WarEagle78
12-08-16, 23:50
I am not the typical SD. Heck. Not even a SD at all I have been on SA for 1 month now as a premium member. I have met 4 different women now and I have invested an $11.00 any pizza from pizza hut. Seriously. One chick kept telling me how hungry she was. She even got the hotel room. After I fucked her, I ordered pizza online and had it delivered to the room. I signed for it and took off.

Another girl I met kept telling me how bad she wanted a SD experience. Met her on a car date at a park. Ended up getting BBBJ and fucking her on a park bench in the dark.

Another was married, but could play during the day. It started off the usual. Wanting an allowance. Pay per visit. Whatever. After a meet and greet, we made out and she wanted to go back to her place during the day while her husband worked. I am still pounding this one. I go over on my lunch breaks No investment.

The 4th was kind of a flake and wanted more out of it. I did get a BBBJ though. Didn't nail her.

My month sub just ended. I may wait another month before I reup my sub to get some fresh fish in the pond. So far. Loving this site! Don't get me wrong. I am not 4/4. Probably 4/100. There are many swings and misses. You have to be diligent. I play the part and let my demands be known up front. I always let them no that I am not a pay per visit or allowance type person. I tell them if it goes well, I would prefer to take them out for dinners, movies, events and occasional gifts at my discretion. The ones that only want money will jet immediately. You will quickly find out the ones you really have no shot with too. The ones that are VERY open even after you explain yourself. Those are your target.

FigLeaf
12-22-16, 23:29
Just met up with my second SB. I will call her FLSB2. Met at her place and for a three hour period fucked her like there was no tomorrow. Thing was she fucked me just as much and I was trying to leave, she started grinding her ass on junior who of course woke up. Proceeded to round three where I bent her over the couch and fucked her until I I couldn't stand up anymore. Literally! I am now sitting in the car trying to gather the strength to drive home. Got to love those thirty something women that just want to Fuck and Fuck some more.

I am going on a business trip for two weeks and am flying her out to stay with me for a 48 hour carnal fest over the weekend. Got to love sugar babies.

Have mentioned her before but I am still going to be a greedy bastard and keep her for myself. This one is now my absolute ATF and total was under $3 including several bottles of liquor and wine she requested I bring.

Yeah I know, it is a little more than your typical escort. But crap, she is absolutely smoking hot and fucks like a damn porn star!

Afflacked
12-23-16, 00:12
I checked out the SA site. To read or basically send a message do you have to be a premium account holder?

Donwhite
12-23-16, 00:41
I checked out the SA site. To read or basically send a message do you have to be a premium account holder?You have to have a paid membership to read and send messages.

FigLeaf
12-23-16, 12:13
You have to have a paid membership to read and send messages.You have to have a paid membership to READ messages. As long as you have a public picture posted, you can send messages. That is what I do. I have a public pic posted that does not show my face. I send messages to the ones that interest me telling them how to contact me through a private email account or my text app. I also let them know that since I don't have a paid membership, the only way I will see their message is if they message me offsite via email or text. If they respond, great let's move on to the next phase. If they don't, it is their loss not mine because there are plenty of other babies out there.

Donwhite
12-23-16, 12:56
You have to have a paid membership to READ messages. As long as you have a public picture posted, you can send messages. That is what I do. I have a public pic posted that does not show my face. I send messages to the ones that interest me telling them how to contact me through a private email account or my text app. I also let them know that since I don't have a paid membership, the only way I will see their message is if they message me offsite via email or text. If they respond, great let's move on to the next phase. If they don't, it is their loss not mine because there are plenty of other babies out there.You must have some account privileges that I don't have. I cannot send messages when my paid membership expires.

FigLeaf
12-25-16, 22:52
You must have some account privileges that I don't have. I cannot send messages when my paid membership expires.I would bet that it is because I have not signed up for this account and don't plan to.

I did pay for another account and like you, once the membership expired, pfffft! No more ability to send messages.

Gastam
01-03-17, 16:29
I'm assuming you only send messages to Premium members correct? As they are the only ones who will be able to read them?


You have to have a paid membership to READ messages. As long as you have a public picture posted, you can send messages. That is what I do. I have a public pic posted that does not show my face. I send messages to the ones that interest me telling them how to contact me through a private email account or my text app. I also let them know that since I don't have a paid membership, the only way I will see their message is if they message me offsite via email or text. If they respond, great let's move on to the next phase. If they don't, it is their loss not mine because there are plenty of other babies out there.

GeorgeKaplan
01-06-17, 14:52
That was helpful! Will any pic do?


You have to have a paid membership to READ messages. As long as you have a public picture posted, you can send messages. That is what I do. I have a public pic posted that does not show my face. I send messages to the ones that interest me telling them how to contact me through a private email account or my text app. I also let them know that since I don't have a paid membership, the only way I will see their message is if they message me offsite via email or text. If they respond, great let's move on to the next phase. If they don't, it is their loss not mine because there are plenty of other babies out there.

FigLeaf
01-14-17, 23:29
I guess I will call her FLSB3 since she was the third. It was a struggle trying to meet up with her. Even after twice and I offered to fly her on a business trip I was taking so she could see her family in a far off western state. She canceled the trip after the ticket was purchased but I was able to get refunded. While on the trip and not hearing anything for a few days, I sent a text asking if she wanted to take a break. Turns out she did. Will miss her because she was pornstar quality.

Trying to work on another one, FLSB2 who we have met once for car fun with much more promised but schedules have just not coincided. Still trying to get this set up because I want to see what else is offered.

FLSB1 is so far my ATF because of the out and out connection we have. The warden here is tough to schedule a pass with when she is out of the prison. Hopefully, newer schedule will allow more passes from the prison on a greater frequency so I can get with FLSB1 more often.

FLSB4 is a far off connection I see when traveling to a different state. Haven't seen her in 7 months, but contacted her to let her know I was going to be in her area for two nights this week and she jumped at the opportunity for two days / nights together. I will call her ATF number 2.

On another note, since FLSB3 backed out on me, I found and met with 2 others in the far off western state. Let's call them FLSB4 and FLSB5.

FLSB4 was definitely what the Richmond board would call a Nando1. Look it up. I picked her up at a Notel she was staying at with friends. Didn't realize this until she was in the the rental vehicle. No sugar was ever discussed in or conversation. Very cool looking with tattoos for a late 30's MILF. That was what caused me to go through with it. On the way back to my hotel we had a frank discussion about what we expected and wanted. Again, no sugar was discussed. Once at the hotel, I let her take a bubble bath and make everything smooth while I waited. Once out of the bathroom we began with a mutual nude lotion massage that was very good on her part. That led to a very sensual BBBJCIMWS that made this old man very happy. To let myself rest and rejuvenate, I returned the favor to a freshly washed smooth as silk DATY that had her writhing on the bed in ecstacy. Finished up in covered mish then doggie. That's when the Nando 1 started to show up. No home, no job, no money, blah blah blah. On the way back to her Notel, she got pretty quiet and moody. Once we pulled into the lot, she said aren't you going to help me out? Of course I said and proceeded to place a Benjamin in her purse. Next day, she blows my phone up wanting more money for a room or she will be out on the streets. I never answered because I do not, nor will I ever, advance money. I ignored her until the next day when she texted wanting to know why I blew her off. Once I explained that I was uncomfortable fronting money, I have yet to hear back from her. I may try again next trip if her phone still works but I really should stay away from Nando1's.

FLSB5 was a smaller BBW that we false started on a time or two but finally got her to come straight to the FC. We had a few adult beverages, some light talk but none about the sugar. Soon enough the clothes began to come off and for a smaller BBW, she had some great 40-D knockers. Great BBBJWCIM no swallow. Followed up with nice very very very wet very responsive DATY followed by some tit fucking which she seemed to thoroughly enjoy as her nips are very responsive. Finished with a pretty quick mish because I was ready. Fed her $. 40 in sugar in her purse on the way out and promised to keep in touch. I might or I might not. I haven't made up my mind on her yet. BBW are usually not my style as I prefer the spinners with decent sized tits.

That's all for now. FL out.

Vet420
01-15-17, 17:30
I guess I will call her FLSB3 since she was the third. It was a struggle trying to meet up with her. Even after twice and I offered to fly her on a business trip I was taking so she could see her family in a far off western state. She canceled the trip after the ticket was purchased but I was able to get refunded. While on the trip and not hearing anything for a few days, I sent a text asking if she wanted to take a break. Turns out she did. Will miss her because she was pornstar quality.

Trying to work on another one, FLSB2 who we have met once for car fun with much more promised but schedules have just not coincided. Still trying to get this set up because I want to see what else is offered.

FLSB1 is so far my ATF because of the out and out connection we have. The warden here is tough to schedule a pass with when she is out of the prison. Hopefully, newer schedule will allow more passes from the prison on a greater frequency so I can get with FLSB1 more often.

FLSB4 is a far off connection I see when traveling to a different state. Haven't seen her in 7 months, but contacted her to let her know I was going to be in her area for two nights this week and she jumped at the opportunity for two days / nights together. I will call her ATF number 2.

On another note, since FLSB3 backed out on me, I found and met with 2 others in the far off western state. Let's call them FLSB4 and FLSB5.

FLSB4 was definitely what the Richmond board would call a Nando1. Look it up. I picked her up at a Notel she was staying at with friends. Didn't realize this until she was in the the rental vehicle. No sugar was ever discussed in or conversation. Very cool looking with tattoos for a late 30's MILF. That was what caused me to go through with it. On the way back to my hotel we had a frank discussion about what we expected and wanted. Again, no sugar was discussed. Once at the hotel, I let her take a bubble bath and make everything smooth while I waited. Once out of the bathroom we began with a mutual nude lotion massage that was very good on her part. That led to a very sensual BBBJCIMWS that made this old man very happy. To let myself rest and rejuvenate, I returned the favor to a freshly washed smooth as silk DATY that had her writhing on the bed in ecstacy. Finished up in covered mish then doggie. That's when the Nando 1 started to show up. No home, no job, no money, blah blah blah. On the way back to her Notel, she got pretty quiet and moody. Once we pulled into the lot, she said aren't you going to help me out? Of course I said and proceeded to place a Benjamin in her purse. Next day, she blows my phone up wanting more money for a room or she will be out on the streets. I never answered because I do not, nor will I ever, advance money. I ignored her until the next day when she texted wanting to know why I blew her off. Once I explained that I was uncomfortable fronting money, I have yet to hear back from her. I may try again next trip if her phone still works but I really should stay away from Nando1's.

FLSB5 was a smaller BBW that we false started on a time or two but finally got her to come straight to the FC. We had a few adult beverages, some light talk but none about the sugar. Soon enough the clothes began to come off and for a smaller BBW, she had some great 40-D knockers. Great BBBJWCIM no swallow. Followed up with nice very very very wet very responsive DATY followed by some tit fucking which she seemed to thoroughly enjoy as her nips are very responsive. Finished with a pretty quick mish because I was ready. Fed her $. 40 in sugar in her purse on the way out and promised to keep in touch. I might or I might not. I haven't made up my mind on her yet. BBW are usually not my style as I prefer the spinners with decent sized tits.

That's all for now. FL out.Thanks for sharing, I am a big fan of SA but there is a wide variety of potentials on there that range is varies in expectations. I have had some success but it is hard to get a solid one as like all of them they become flaky and hard to schedule when you need them most.

FigLeaf
01-17-17, 23:00
Spent the last 48 hours in a coastal eastern state. Metup with a former UTR that I will call UTRFL1 that agreed to meet with me while in town. I am so glad we reconnected. Last night was a get reacquainted fuck fest. Makes me glad she doesn't live nearer or I would be in trouble. I picked her up from her place and took her straight to the FC where we started with an awesome rubdown which she has always been excellent at. Moved into BBBJCIM and true to form I didn't last very long. Giving little man time to recuperate, we moved onto a very tasty DATY and then worked our way into cowgirl, mish, and K9 for the finish.

Night two was pretty good as well. I had a room with a jacuzzi and we proceeded to soak our aching muscles from the previous nights escapades. Follow this up with another excellent rub down and little man was ready. BBBJ straight into cowgirl and then mish for the finish. Total sugar for both nights was 0. I did slip her two bennies when I dropped her off tonight, but that was purely because I thought she needed it. Not because it was discussed because it wasn't. In fact, she said next time to not worry about any sugar.

I need to travel east more often!

FigLeaf
01-18-17, 22:44
If the pictures are fake like this, I recommend staying away.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a6ac2f1c-fac3-413d-994f-2f49c9138002

FigLeaf
01-18-17, 22:47
YES! Finally have a meet set up at the FC! I am finally going to see what else is available tomorrow night. Hope little man can rise to the occasion after the east coast swing earlier this week. More to follow after the festivities.

John HandCock
01-18-17, 23:17
I guess I will call her FLSB3 since she was the third. It was a struggle trying to meet up with her. Even after twice and I offered to fly her on a business trip I was taking so she could see her family in a far off western state. She canceled the trip after the ticket was purchased but I was able to get refunded. While on the trip and not hearing anything for a few days, I sent a text asking if she wanted to take a break. Turns out she did. Will miss her because she was pornstar quality.

Trying to work on another one, FLSB2 who we have met once for car fun with much more promised but schedules have just not coincided. Still trying to get this set up because I want to see what else is offered.

FLSB1 is so far my ATF because of the out and out connection we have. The warden here is tough to schedule a pass with when she is out of the prison. Hopefully, newer schedule will allow more passes from the prison on a greater frequency so I can get with FLSB1 more often.

FLSB4 is a far off connection I see when traveling to a different state. Haven't seen her in 7 months, but contacted her to let her know I was going to be in her area for two nights this week and she jumped at the opportunity for two days / nights together. I will call her ATF number 2.

On another note, since FLSB3 backed out on me, I found and met with 2 others in the far off western state. Let's call them FLSB4 and FLSB5.

FLSB4 was definitely what the Richmond board would call a Nando1. Look it up. I picked her up at a Notel she was staying at with friends. Didn't realize this until she was in the the rental vehicle. No sugar was ever discussed in or conversation. Very cool looking with tattoos for a late 30's MILF. That was what caused me to go through with it. On the way back to my hotel we had a frank discussion about what we expected and wanted. Again, no sugar was discussed. Once at the hotel, I let her take a bubble bath and make everything smooth while I waited. Once out of the bathroom we began with a mutual nude lotion massage that was very good on her part. That led to a very sensual BBBJCIMWS that made this old man very happy. To let myself rest and rejuvenate, I returned the favor to a freshly washed smooth as silk DATY that had her writhing on the bed in ecstacy. Finished up in covered mish then doggie. That's when the Nando 1 started to show up. No home, no job, no money, blah blah blah. On the way back to her Notel, she got pretty quiet and moody. Once we pulled into the lot, she said aren't you going to help me out? Of course I said and proceeded to place a Benjamin in her purse. Next day, she blows my phone up wanting more money for a room or she will be out on the streets. I never answered because I do not, nor will I ever, advance money. I ignored her until the next day when she texted wanting to know why I blew her off. Once I explained that I was uncomfortable fronting money, I have yet to hear back from her. I may try again next trip if her phone still works but I really should stay away from Nando1's.

FLSB5 was a smaller BBW that we false started on a time or two but finally got her to come straight to the FC. We had a few adult beverages, some light talk but none about the sugar. Soon enough the clothes began to come off and for a smaller BBW, she had some great 40-D knockers. Great BBBJWCIM no swallow. Followed up with nice very very very wet very responsive DATY followed by some tit fucking which she seemed to thoroughly enjoy as her nips are very responsive. Finished with a pretty quick mish because I was ready. Fed her $. 40 in sugar in her purse on the way out and promised to keep in touch. I might or I might not. I haven't made up my mind on her yet. BBW are usually not my style as I prefer the spinners with decent sized tits.

That's all for now. FL out.Nice story. Post the links to their sa profile, takes an extra 5 seconds.

John HandCock
01-18-17, 23:30
I'm assuming you only send messages to Premium members correct? As they are the only ones who will be able to read them?At one time a male unpaid member couldn't send messages or read. Now if your unpaid I think you can send some before your cut off. I think its 10 but you also have to post a pic to get this deal. I renew every other month and once it expires I can't read messages. If you never paid for a membership I think that 10 message deal was a preview of sorts to get you to join.

OJones
01-19-17, 00:15
I'm on SA but not a paying member so I can't read messages sent to me, and when I am able to respond, SA auto-changes my response to a canned reply. I'd like to communicate with the ladies through email, but can't figure out a way to get them my email address when SA rejects my profile for containing an email address and then auto-changes my replies. Any tips would be appreciated!

John HandCock
01-19-17, 00:22
I'm assuming you only send messages to Premium members correct? As they are the only ones who will be able to read them?Standard Sugar Daddy Membership:

Use search.

View visitors and favorites lists.

That is from SA. I think they offer new men 10 free messages to get them to sign up. Oh they have to post a pic to get that deal. Once my membership is up I can't read messages until I renew.

FarFarAway
01-19-17, 01:08
I'm on SA but not a paying member so I can't read messages sent to me, and when I am able to respond, SA auto-changes my response to a canned reply. I'd like to communicate with the ladies through email, but can't figure out a way to get them my email address when SA rejects my profile for containing an email address and then auto-changes my replies. Any tips would be appreciated!Dude, you just have to pay. How do you think you're going to keep these girls happy ($wise) if you can't afford even the now exorbitant $80 a month to be on the site. My experience is I can't take more than a month on anyway. It's too distracting, I can't work and the SO may tell the difference in my demeanor. I can harvest enough POTs in a month to keep me going for a long time anyway.

OJones
01-19-17, 03:42
Dude, you just have to pay. How do you think you're going to keep these girls happy ($wise) if you can't afford even the now exorbitant $80 a month to be on the site. My experience is I can't take more than a month on anyway. It's too distracting, I can't work and the SO may tell the difference in my demeanor. I can harvest enough POTs in a month to keep me going for a long time anyway.I was hoping for a clever workaround. If I have to pay, then so be it.

FigLeaf
01-19-17, 09:34
I guess I will call her FLSB3 since she was the third. It was a struggle trying to meet up with her. Even after twice and I offered to fly her on a business trip I was taking so she could see her family in a far off western state. She canceled the trip after the ticket was purchased but I was able to get refunded. While on the trip and not hearing anything for a few days, I sent a text asking if she wanted to take a break. Turns out she did. Will miss her because she was pornstar quality.

Trying to work on another one, FLSB2 who we have met once for car fun with much more promised but schedules have just not coincided. Still trying to get this set up because I want to see what else is offered.

FLSB1 is so far my ATF because of the out and out connection we have. The warden here is tough to schedule a pass with when she is out of the prison. Hopefully, newer schedule will allow more passes from the prison on a greater frequency so I can get with FLSB1 more often.

FLSB4 is a far off connection I see when traveling to a different state. Haven't seen her in 7 months, but contacted her to let her know I was going to be in her area for two nights this week and she jumped at the opportunity for two days / nights together. I will call her ATF number 2.

On another note, since FLSB3 backed out on me, I found and met with 2 others in the far off western state. Let's call them FLSB4 and FLSB5.

FLSB4 was definitely what the Richmond board would call a Nando1. Look it up. I picked her up at a Notel she was staying at with friends. Didn't realize this until she was in the the rental vehicle. No sugar was ever discussed in or conversation. Very cool looking with tattoos for a late 30's MILF. That was what caused me to go through with it. On the way back to my hotel we had a frank discussion about what we expected and wanted. Again, no sugar was discussed. Once at the hotel, I let her take a bubble bath and make everything smooth while I waited. Once out of the bathroom we began with a mutual nude lotion massage that was very good on her part. That led to a very sensual BBBJCIMWS that made this old man very happy. To let myself rest and rejuvenate, I returned the favor to a freshly washed smooth as silk DATY that had her writhing on the bed in ecstacy. Finished up in covered mish then doggie. That's when the Nando 1 started to show up. No home, no job, no money, blah blah blah. On the way back to her Notel, she got pretty quiet and moody. Once we pulled into the lot, she said aren't you going to help me out? Of course I said and proceeded to place a Benjamin in her purse. Next day, she blows my phone up wanting more money for a room or she will be out on the streets. I never answered because I do not, nor will I ever, advance money. I ignored her until the next day when she texted wanting to know why I blew her off. Once I explained that I was uncomfortable fronting money, I have yet to hear back from her. I may try again next trip if her phone still works but I really should stay away from Nando1's.

FLSB5 was a smaller BBW that we false started on a time or two but finally got her to come straight to the FC. We had a few adult beverages, some light talk but none about the sugar. Soon enough the clothes began to come off and for a smaller BBW, she had some great 40-D knockers. Great BBBJWCIM no swallow. Followed up with nice very very very wet very responsive DATY followed by some tit fucking which she seemed to thoroughly enjoy as her nips are very responsive. Finished with a pretty quick mish because I was ready. Fed her $. 40 in sugar in her purse on the way out and promised to keep in touch. I might or I might not. I haven't made up my mind on her yet. BBW are usually not my style as I prefer the spinners with decent sized tits.

That's all for now. FL out.FLSB3 - https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f55f8f05-6800-45d5-88eb-9677a748e478.

FLSB4 - https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/23bb11c6-a016-4cea-bb6b-e432eac1c6c8.

FLSB5 - https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1fa0ef0a-a77a-27cb-5367-0da344225e35.

Going to keep FLSB1nd FLSB2 to myself for now.

FigLeaf
01-23-17, 17:33
After numerous messages I finally got her to tell me what she wants.

$1. 2 k per visit - 4 times per month!

I told her I was used to giving out an allowance more along the lines of $$ per visit.

GPS on display as she said but I am pretty and I know I am worth that!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e4b4dd21-838d-42dc-909b-470c5847a228

Gibson1970
01-23-17, 17:35
After numerous messages I finally got her to tell me what she wants.

$1. 2 k per visit - 4 times per month!

I told her I was used to giving out an allowance more along the lines of $$ per visit.

GPS on display as she said but I am pretty and I know I am worth that!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e4b4dd21-838d-42dc-909b-470c5847a228That chick isn't even hot. I've had much hotter for far less.

SnoBallGuy
01-23-17, 17:42
After numerous messages I finally got her to tell me what she wants.

$1. 2 k per visit - 4 times per month!

I told her I was used to giving out an allowance more along the lines of $$ per visit.

GPS on display as she said but I am pretty and I know I am worth that!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e4b4dd21-838d-42dc-909b-470c5847a228What does GPS mean.

FunnyUy
01-23-17, 18:33
That chick isn't even hot. I've had much hotter for far less.Much hotter out there. For much less. Thanks for sharing. I wonder if she has gotten that much, ever. That is my question. Maybe, but I doubt it. She needs to be reasonable to get a daddy. I Am not saying she should start car dates at. 40 each but $1,200 is probably all she should expect for a month of allowance.

FigLeaf
01-23-17, 21:35
What does GPS mean.Girl suffers from thinking she has Golden Pussy Syndrome.

Guess she thinks that snatch is made of gold or something.

FigLeaf
01-23-17, 21:37
Much hotter out there. For much less. Thanks for sharing. I wonder if she has gotten that much, ever. That is my question. Maybe, but I doubt it. She needs to be reasonable to get a daddy. I Am not saying she should start car dates at. 40 each but $1,200 is probably all she should expect for a month of allowance.If I would have been on phone with her, I would have laughed at loud when she said "Corner girls get $200 and I ain't no corner girl. ".

FigLeaf
01-23-17, 21:40
On the plus side, I have a lunch date setup with a new 30 year old potential SB on Thursday followed by a M&G set up for Thursday afternoon for coffee with a 19 year old Hot Young College Babe. Much more reasonable pricing than GPS girl.

FigLeaf
01-25-17, 00:14
Met up with my FLSB1 (ATF) tonight for a few hours of fun. Had been right at a month since last we romped. Not much to say except it was like putting on a warm comfortable shirt straight out of the clothes dryer on a winter morning. The more I see her, the more I really enjoy the sex. She is open to trying just about anything so I introduced her to the islands tonight. Slowly ever so slowly. Will see how that goes down the road (or wold that be Hershey highway?

Plan on getting back to her in the next two weeks when the warden is out on the town for the night which gives me a free pass out of NP Jail.

Til next time.

FL out.

And no she doesn't want to share!

Nashguy207
01-25-17, 10:08
After numerous messages I finally got her to tell me what she wants.

$1. 2 k per visit - 4 times per month!

I told her I was used to giving out an allowance more along the lines of $$ per visit.

GPS on display as she said but I am pretty and I know I am worth that!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e4b4dd21-838d-42dc-909b-470c5847a228Her profile has been taken down or something the link no longer works.

OJones
01-25-17, 14:45
Met up with my FLSB1 (ATF) tonight for a few hours of fun. Had been right at a month since last we romped. Not much to say except it was like putting on a warm comfortable shirt straight out of the clothes dryer on a winter morning. The more I see her, the more I really enjoy the sex. She is open to trying just about anything so I introduced her to the islands tonight. Slowly ever so slowly. Will see how that goes down the road (or wold that be Hershey highway?

Plan on getting back to her in the next two weeks when the warden is out on the town for the night which gives me a free pass out of NP Jail.

Til next time.

FL out.

And no she doesn't want to share!You, sir, are a lucky dude. I'm navigating the SA waters now as a paying member, so I am definitely hoping to find something similar to what you've got!

FigLeaf
01-25-17, 17:28
You, sir, are a lucky dude. I'm navigating the SA waters now as a paying member, so I am definitely hoping to find something similar to what you've got!I sprinkle her with some sugar and we spend hours together. We met up at 630 and she left the FC at 930. All in all I don't mind giving her $$. 5 each time. Think this is the fifth time we have met up and each time it just gets better. By no means am I falling for her because I couldn't stand to be around her artistic self all the time. But for a few hours here and there and some intense very sensual sex, I am in!

FigLeaf
01-25-17, 17:44
You, sir, are a lucky dude. I'm navigating the SA waters now as a paying member, so I am definitely hoping to find something similar to what you've got!Cast a very wide net. I originally sent out literally a hundred messages. Most I never got a response from even tho I could tell they read the message. Of the remaining 20 or so I did get responses from, half were throwback into sugar bowl for one reason or another (GPS, not the right schedules, or wanted to meet more than I could, etc.) That left me 10 or so to sort through. Some turned out to be psycho, a few flaked out after a few messages and went silent. Out of the original 6 I spent time with through meet and greets, I ended up with 5 that I fucked. Still have the original first meet (FLSB1) and the porn actress (FLSB3) is messaging me again wanting to meet. Going to string her out for awhile to see if I can lower the cost or get more frequent visits for the same price. Still having scheduling issues with FLSB2 but I am determined to see where she goes because all we had was a little car fun and I believe she can be an economical choice if need be.

So there we go. One hundred messages and 2-3 actually long term prospects. Going to let the membership expire and see in a month or two if these don't pan out long term. Yes it is a lot of work, but the cost per time spent in the FC makes it worth it and I enjoy the chase.

OJones
01-26-17, 09:23
Cast a very wide net. I originally sent out literally a hundred messages. Most I never got a response from even tho I could tell they read the message. Of the remaining 20 or so I did get responses from, half were throwback into sugar bowl for one reason or another (GPS, not the right schedules, or wanted to meet more than I could, etc.) That left me 10 or so to sort through. Some turned out to be psycho, a few flaked out after a few messages and went silent. Out of the original 6 I spent time with through meet and greets, I ended up with 5 that I fucked. Still have the original first meet (FLSB1) and the porn actress (FLSB3) is messaging me again wanting to meet. Going to string her out for awhile to see if I can lower the cost or get more frequent visits for the same price. Still having scheduling issues with FLSB2 but I am determined to see where she goes because all we had was a little car fun and I believe she can be an economical choice if need be.

So there we go. One hundred messages and 2-3 actually long term prospects. Going to let the membership expire and see in a month or two if these don't pan out long term. Yes it is a lot of work, but the cost per time spent in the FC makes it worth it and I enjoy the chase.Yeah, I sent a bunch of messages so far. I've probably gotten 20 replies and 5 conversations out of it. I did land a coffee date from one though so that could be promising! What do you think about a girl asking for a small allowance up front for a public meeting that doesn't appear to be anything more than that yet? I kind of feel like the SA exists for SDs to pay the SBs and there's an implied understanding that a sexual relationship is part of the agreement, no?

Gibson1970
01-26-17, 10:22
Yeah, I sent a bunch of messages so far. I've probably gotten 20 replies and 5 conversations out of it. I did land a coffee date from one though so that could be promising! What do you think about a girl asking for a small allowance up front for a public meeting that doesn't appear to be anything more than that yet? I kind of feel like the SA exists for SDs to pay the SBs and there's an implied understanding that a sexual relationship is part of the agreement, no?Most of this Site do not feel they should pay money for a Meet and Greet. You should pay for the meal, coffee, drinks, etc.

I do not either, unless they are traveling a long way and I will pay for gas.

To me, if she wants money for a Meet and Greet she has GPS and will try to drain you dry. Also the chance she will take the money and break off all communications.

I have had plenty of Meet and Greets where no money was involved. I pass on girls who want money just to meet. I view this as a job interview.

And yes, there is an implied sexual relationship.

FigLeaf
01-26-17, 11:27
Most of this Site do not feel they should pay money for a Meet and Greet. You should pay for the meal, coffee, drinks, etc.

I do not either, unless they are traveling a long way and I will pay for gas.

To me, if she wants money for a Meet and Greet she has GPS and will try to drain you dry. Also the chance she will take the money and break off all communications.

I have had plenty of Meet and Greets where no money was involved. I pass on girls who want money just to meet. I view this as a job interview.

And yes, there is an implied sexual relationship.No sugar at M&G. Simply pay for the meeting unless they travel more than 50 miles to meet you then sprinkle a little sugar to pay for gas.

OJones
01-26-17, 12:08
No sugar at M&G. Simply pay for the meeting unless they travel more than 50 miles to meet you then sprinkle a little sugar to pay for gas.I appreciate the advice, guys. My first reaction is to respond with "yeah, but she's young and Asian!" However, I should not be an idiot and save that money for later.

FigLeaf
01-26-17, 13:35
I appreciate the advice, guys. My first reaction is to respond with "yeah, but she's young and Asian!" However, I should not be an idiot and save that money for later.The thing about M&G sugar and promising before you even meet is kinda crazy. You have no idea if she is the baby you have been talking with. She might show up and once there suffer from a serious case of GPS. I try to not talk sugar until I absolutely have to. It's a crazy world in this sugar bowl we live in and there are plenty of crazies out there.

FigLeaf
01-28-17, 21:59
Ahhh the joys of SA! Where else could I get 19-22 yo Hot Young Babes to sleep with this middle 50's aged dude!

I have a very interesting week ahead. Have a M&G setup with a 22 yo hot young Latina on Tuesday afternoon a little northwest of here. I will call her FLSB6. There are strong possibilities that the M&G will lead to a trip to the FC. Sugar discussions have already been talked about which I usually never do. If the M&G goes wonky on me and she turns out to be a flake or God forbid a Nando1, I can always cut and run. My big head is telling me it will be fine. We shall see.

Next up on Thursday is a M&G a little southeast of here where I will meet up with a 19 yo HYCB. I will call her FLSB7. This one I am going to say the odds are 60/40 to the good for a little side trip to the FC. This one takes awhile to respond to texts so I am giving the odds of her flaking on the M&G at 50-50.

Should be an interesting week. Oh and I still need to get back with FLSB3, she of the PSE! She wants me back. Could mean she just needs the money one more time but if so, I will get my money's worth!

Got keep churning before the monthly membership expires so I can keep myself in hot young pussy for the next few months before I make the SA rounds again.

Vet420
01-28-17, 22:39
Ahhh the joys of SA! Where else could I get 19-22 yo Hot Young Babes to sleep with this middle 50's aged dude!

I have a very interesting week ahead. Have a M&G setup with a 22 yo hot young Latina on Tuesday afternoon a little northwest of here. I will call her FLSB6. There are strong possibilities that the M&G will lead to a trip to the FC. Sugar discussions have already been talked about which I usually never do. If the M&G goes wonky on me and she turns out to be a flake or God forbid a Nando1, I can always cut and run. My big head is telling me it will be fine. We shall see.

Next up on Thursday is a M&G a little southeast of here where I will meet up with a 19 yo HYCB. I will call her FLSB7. This one I am going to say the odds are 60/40 to the good for a little side trip to the FC. This one takes awhile to respond to texts so I am giving the odds of her flaking on the M&G at 50-50.

Should be an interesting week. Oh and I still need to get back with FLSB3, she of the PSE! She wants me back. Could mean she just needs the money one more time but if so, I will get my money's worth!

Got keep churning before the monthly membership expires so I can keep myself in hot young pussy for the next few months before I make the SA rounds again.I'm loving it too! Better quality through SA and more bang for the buck! I have 3-4 on rotation for the variety and each has a different quality I enjoy. Holly being one I see once or twice a week because she can handle my stamina having been a porn star. Although her recreational use I am concerned about so I try to keep a distance to cut lose if needed. I prefer a rotation to keep it always interesting and enjoyable.

FigLeaf
01-29-17, 00:14
I'm loving it too! Better quality through SA and more bang for the buck! I have 3-4 on rotation for the variety and each has a different quality I enjoy. Holly being one I see once or twice a week because she can handle my stamina having been a porn star. Although her recreational use I am concerned about so I try to keep a distance to cut lose if needed. I prefer a rotation to keep it always interesting and enjoyable.Yeah her rec use bothers me too but good Gawd that woman can fuck like no tomorrow. I can only get to her about twice a month.

HornDawgs
01-29-17, 20:09
Anyone had any luck getting this one to the FC or even a meet? Been on a while and had some sporadic conversation, couldn't get anything scheduled. PM if you like.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/49340154-2740-4ddd-a5da-24816301fc32

OJones
01-29-17, 20:45
Yeah her rec use bothers me too but good Gawd that woman can fuck like no tomorrow. I can only get to her about twice a month.Do you mind posting a link to her profile? I'm taking with one that just told me her name is Holly and want to see if it's the same one. Also, any of you ever had any luck with VintageMermaid?

FigLeaf
01-29-17, 22:44
Do you mind posting a link to her profile? I'm taking with one that just told me her name is Holly and want to see if it's the same one. Also, any of you ever had any luck with VintageMermaid?https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f55f8f05-6800-45d5-88eb-9677a748e478

FigLeaf
01-29-17, 22:45
Anyone had any luck getting this one to the FC or even a meet? Been on a while and had some sporadic conversation, couldn't get anything scheduled. PM if you like.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/49340154-2740-4ddd-a5da-24816301fc32Never could get a response from her. I saw she read my messages but never responded. Guess I wasn't her type.

FigLeaf
01-29-17, 22:46
Do you mind posting a link to her profile? I'm taking with one that just told me her name is Holly and want to see if it's the same one. Also, any of you ever had any luck with VintageMermaid?Another one that I know read my messages but got zero response from her. Moving on.

FigLeaf
01-29-17, 22:50
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b9f3ae11-3bd5-44e1-89d6-39707e2206af

I really believe this one is a scam as I saw another extremely similar to almost identical ad from one day prior that is now gone. When I messaged her, she immediately wanted to move to a more private chat server? DANGER, Will Robinson!

Beware fellow Dads!

HornDawgs
01-29-17, 22:56
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b9f3ae11-3bd5-44e1-89d6-39707e2206af

I really believe this one is a scam as I saw another extremely similar to almost identical ad from one day prior that is now gone. When I messaged her, she immediately wanted to move to a more private chat server? DANGER, Will Robinson!

Beware fellow Dads!The Tennessee, Tennessee location is an odd one I've seen on a few that seem fake.

FunnyUy
01-29-17, 23:54
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f55f8f05-6800-45d5-88eb-9677a748e478Can't get her to respond. I really like to try that out!

OJones
01-29-17, 23:56
Can't get her to respond. I really like to try that out!I appreciate the link and the info. I haven't talked with her yet. I guess I'm talking to a different Holly.

Donwhite
01-30-17, 00:23
Anyone had any luck getting this one to the FC or even a meet? Been on a while and had some sporadic conversation, couldn't get anything scheduled. PM if you like.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/49340154-2740-4ddd-a5da-24816301fc32I think she may just be on the site for attention or she is a catfish. I could never get anything set up with her. I also asked her to video chat and she flaked on doing it multiple times.

Jeepster1
01-30-17, 01:44
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b9f3ae11-3bd5-44e1-89d6-39707e2206af

I really believe this one is a scam as I saw another extremely similar to almost identical ad from one day prior that is now gone. When I messaged her, she immediately wanted to move to a more private chat server? DANGER, Will Robinson!

Beware fellow Dads!At least one of Pat007's pics is from Brazilian model Franciele Christ.

-Jeepster1.

http://www.ojogo.pt/multimedia/fotografias/interior/as-curvas-arrasadoras-de-franciele-5086568.html

https://www.instagram.com/francielechrist/?hl=en

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b9f3ae11-3bd5-44e1-89d6-39707e2206af

OJones
01-30-17, 01:53
Has anyone met her before? I've been chatting with her a few days but haven't set a meetup time or place yet. We also haven't talked sugar yet so that's a positive.

FigLeaf
01-30-17, 14:07
Has anyone met her before? I've been chatting with her a few days but haven't set a meetup time or place yet. We also haven't talked sugar yet so that's a positive.Is there a Link?

FigLeaf
01-31-17, 18:06
Ahhh the joys of SA! Where else could I get 19-22 yo Hot Young Babes to sleep with this middle 50's aged dude!

I have a very interesting week ahead. Have a M&G setup with a 22 yo hot young Latina on Tuesday afternoon a little northwest of here. I will call her FLSB6. There are strong possibilities that the M&G will lead to a trip to the FC. Sugar discussions have already been talked about which I usually never do. If the M&G goes wonky on me and she turns out to be a flake or God forbid a Nando1, I can always cut and run. My big head is telling me it will be fine. We shall see.

Next up on Thursday is a M&G a little southeast of here where I will meet up with a 19 yo HYCB. I will call her FLSB7. This one I am going to say the odds are 60/40 to the good for a little side trip to the FC. This one takes awhile to respond to texts so I am giving the odds of her flaking on the M&G at 50-50.

Should be an interesting week. Oh and I still need to get back with FLSB3, she of the PSE! She wants me back. Could mean she just needs the money one more time but if so, I will get my money's worth!

Got keep churning before the monthly membership expires so I can keep myself in hot young pussy for the next few months before I make the SA rounds again.Strike One! FLSB6 the hot young Latina flaked on me and I never heard back from her.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/29dfc858-7fd4-4177-a3db-e2579466a0f3?mailbox=inbox

Strike Two! FLSB7 the hot young college babe never responded to my texts after initially agreeing to meet so I am marking her down as a flake.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/35d50431-613e-4d2b-8525-b60db1e6329b?mailbox=inbox

Backup Plan! Going to go see FLSB2 on Thursday night. Straight to the FC with this one.

NEW Addition! Let's call this little 34 YO MILF FLSB8. Going to meet for drinks on Saturday evening and then if we click, (her words!) it's off to the sex room we go! Got to like older women, they rarely flake, and they know what they want!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/56cac171-3bd4-4c02-98a2-414c010917ea?mailbox=inbox

FigLeaf
01-31-17, 22:05
Seems desperate so might be had for less but she smokes and I cant do smokers.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b0296529-de45-495d-b9bf-d7d1264acb96

FunnyUy
02-01-17, 02:11
Strike One! FLSB6 the hot young Latina flaked on me and I never heard back from her.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/29dfc858-7fd4-4177-a3db-e2579466a0f3?mailbox=inbox

Strike Two! FLSB7 the hot young college babe never responded to my texts after initially agreeing to meet so I am marking her down as a flake.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/35d50431-613e-4d2b-8525-b60db1e6329b?mailbox=inbox

Backup Plan! Going to go see FLSB2 on Thursday night. Straight to the FC with this one.

NEW Addition! Let's call this little 34 YO MILF FLSB8. Going to meet for drinks on Saturday evening and then if we click, (her words!) it's off to the sex room we go! Got to like older women, they rarely flake, and they know what they want!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/56cac171-3bd4-4c02-98a2-414c010917ea?mailbox=inboxHey fig leaf.

Nice reports on the sugar life. You are working it hard. I would like to check the links to the ladies. Save me time and effort.

Jeepster1
02-01-17, 04:54
Seems desperate so might be had for less but she smokes and I cant do smokers.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b0296529-de45-495d-b9bf-d7d1264acb96I noticed that Lhanna's sugar expectation was marked as "High", or in excess of $10k monthly!

Is it your experience that the Lifestyle Expectation level can be largely ignored?

-Jeepster1.

Jeepster1
02-01-17, 05:04
You might recognize new SA member AbsolutelyAlyssa; she's a longtime Nashville provider.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f145237d-c1d4-471b-b15d-7a01116c6403

https://twitter.com/absolutealyssa6

http://absolutelyalyssa.escortfiles.com/home

-Jeepster1.

FigLeaf
02-01-17, 09:28
I noticed that Lhanna's sugar expectation was marked as "High", or in excess of $10k monthly!

Is it your experience that the Lifestyle Expectation level can be largely ignored?

-Jeepster1.I have found the ones who typically list their expectations as high are ones who have read all the glamour stories of the babies paying for college, cars, etc. The daddies who can afford that are few and far between and most often not even on SA. They find their babies in real life.

Once contact is established and communication begins, most, but not all, are highly open to negotiations. The most expensive I have had someone not willing to come lower on their offer was $1 k per meet. Granted she was absolutely stunning and knew it. Reminded me a whole lot of Scarlett Johansson.

I have sprinkled sugar for as little as. 8 for car fun, $ for a marathon 3 hr session that included all holes, to as much as the $$. 5 that I give my ATF, FLSB1, when I see her just because I want to and I know her situation and it doesn't hurt that she is down for anything in the FC and she constantly has the most incredible bedroom conversations.

FarFarAway
02-01-17, 11:27
I noticed that Lhanna's sugar expectation was marked as "High", or in excess of $10k monthly!

Is it your experience that the Lifestyle Expectation level can be largely ignored?

-Jeepster1.Depends on the girl. If they are really young, say 23 or less, they may have no clue, or perhaps didn't read the $ definitions. I would push ahead. You know you are offering too much if you never get turned down. A good place to get practice is w / the totally hot ones. I once did M&G w / a true high fashion model, I've seen many of her pix, and she had one of those big expectations. I offered her 800/ meet and she turned me down, saying 1000 was her minimum. She did host in her place, so that would have been a savings, but she was a kinda cold Russian, and not feeling it, didn't pursue.

MsSportsDoc
02-01-17, 13:49
I've been chatting with her the past few days, and are arranging a M&G for next week, but thought I'd see if anyone had any experience with her.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1d7af7b9-e5e4-b456-e015-a95aca2861be

Thanks.

OJones
02-01-17, 16:41
I noticed that Lhanna's sugar expectation was marked as "High", or in excess of $10k monthly!

Is it your experience that the Lifestyle Expectation level can be largely ignored?

-Jeepster1.I'm actually taking to this girl today and trying to meet tomorrow. We've already discussed sugar and I wouldn't describe it as "high".

FigLeaf
02-01-17, 22:08
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/82d90bde-5452-4c45-b60a-b7bd06e635bc

Wants you to sign up for cam show.

Nope!

FigLeaf
02-01-17, 22:13
You might recognize new SA member AbsolutelyAlyssa; she's a longtime Nashville provider.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f145237d-c1d4-471b-b15d-7a01116c6403

https://twitter.com/absolutealyssa6

http://absolutelyalyssa.escortfiles.com/home

-Jeepster1.Talked with her via text and she wants minimum $$$ per hr plus you have to provide the FC.

PRO all the way.

Thanks, Jeepster!

BnaTom
02-01-17, 22:18
Her pics look familiar. Anyone have any info on her? I'm supposed to meet her, tomorrow Evening. Thanks!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3b45465b-5dc2-4ec1-8cc1-23efc64d3238

BnaTom
02-01-17, 22:22
I'm actually taking to this girl today and trying to meet tomorrow. We've already discussed sugar and I wouldn't describe it as "high".She tried to get me to advance her $300 last night to pay her phone bill. She was over eager and a bit preditatory. I hope I'm wrong. Let me know!

FigLeaf
02-01-17, 22:23
Strike One! FLSB6 the hot young Latina flaked on me and I never heard back from her.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/29dfc858-7fd4-4177-a3db-e2579466a0f3?mailbox=inbox

Strike Two! FLSB7 the hot young college babe never responded to my texts after initially agreeing to meet so I am marking her down as a flake.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/35d50431-613e-4d2b-8525-b60db1e6329b?mailbox=inbox

Backup Plan! Going to go see FLSB2 on Thursday night. Straight to the FC with this one.

NEW Addition! Let's call this little 34 YO MILF FLSB8. Going to meet for drinks on Saturday evening and then if we click, (her words!) it's off to the sex room we go! Got to like older women, they rarely flake, and they know what they want!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/56cac171-3bd4-4c02-98a2-414c010917ea?mailbox=inboxSorry for the bad links.

The first two are now dust in the wind. Either they blocked me or the profiles no longer exist.

The last one is this one.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d7636d00-53e6-1abb-6644-b306f1d3dd31

FigLeaf
02-01-17, 23:32
I'm actually taking to this girl today and trying to meet tomorrow. We've already discussed sugar and I wouldn't describe it as "high".Do let us know how it goes.

I wonder if she is as desperate as she seemed to me via text.

OJones
02-02-17, 11:21
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/82d90bde-5452-4c45-b60a-b7bd06e635bc

Wants you to sign up for cam show.

Nope!I actually joked with her I wasn't interested in cam unless I was performing with her. She got me in touch with somebody claiming to be her boss. He wanted me to wire him $300 to perform with her. Sounds completely legit, right!? (Sarcasm).

OJones
02-02-17, 11:26
I'm actually taking to this girl today and trying to meet tomorrow. We've already discussed sugar and I wouldn't describe it as "high".Nothin happened. We texted several times yesterday setting up a morning meeting for today for $. 5. She even asked if I wanted a threesome with her and her sister since she's staying at her sister's place. I said yes, but she replied that it would be more, so I declined. Her response was "it will still be fun cause I give great balls deep head. " Long story short, our time that we were supposed to meet this morning has long come and gone so it's a lost opportunity I guess.

FigLeaf
02-02-17, 13:59
Nothin happened. We texted several times yesterday setting up a morning meeting for today for $. 5. She even asked if I wanted a threesome with her and her sister since she's staying at her sister's place. I said yes, but she replied that it would be more, so I declined. Her response was "it will still be fun cause I give great balls deep head. " Long story short, our time that we were supposed to meet this morning has long come and gone so it's a lost opportunity I guess.Well the $. 5 sounds a long way from the "High" expectation listed!

I firmly believe most of the babies have no idea what the expectation is supposed to be.

SnoBallGuy
02-02-17, 14:01
I actually joked with her I wasn't interested in cam unless I was performing with her. She got me in touch with somebody claiming to be her boss. He wanted me to wire him $300 to perform with her. Sounds completely legit, right!? (Sarcasm).These people that ask for that are nuts why not just drive down the hway and throw your money out the window.

OJones
02-02-17, 15:10
Nothin happened. We texted several times yesterday setting up a morning meeting for today for $. 5. She even asked if I wanted a threesome with her and her sister since she's staying at her sister's place. I said yes, but she replied that it would be more, so I declined. Her response was "it will still be fun cause I give great balls deep head. " Long story short, our time that we were supposed to meet this morning has long come and gone so it's a lost opportunity I guess.For what it's worth, she did text me back a little bit ago apologizing for oversleeping and offering to see me tomorrow or Saturday. That won't work for me though or I'd still try. Also, I forgot to mention that I'd asked her if there were any limits to activities and she said no limits. Now, normally I'd expect that to mean all access, but who knows.

Heliman
02-02-17, 17:12
They blocked me or I would post their profile url. I was texting with them and the number matched the social media profile for someone known to steal / rob guys they setup meets with from SA. Yes, she got me too. Use caution if you try and meet is all I will say.

MsSportsDoc
02-02-17, 18:39
They blocked me or I would post their profile url. I was texting with them and the number matched the social media profile for someone known to steal / rob guys they setup meets with from SA. Yes, she got me too. Use caution if you try and meet is all I will say.Here you go. https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/016a67bd-dd22-4cfa-b598-04d96312f567.

MsSportsDoc
02-02-17, 18:52
Ok. I have a M&G set up next week, and today the sugar was brought up. She want's $500 per meeting. Thoughts? Seems high based upon what I've been reading. I was hoping to get in at around $250 each.

FigLeaf
02-02-17, 19:53
Stay away, she is seriously threatening to find me and let my wife know. Good thing I use only an app for this type of stuff. I never actually met her in person but the first meet I canceled when she kept postponing and wanted me to front her babysitter money. Second time I had to cancel due to a change in plans on the home front. That is when she blew up and is threatening to find me.

Crazy chicks.She is back under the new name of Kassy93.

Still crazy.

www.seekingarrangement.com/member

Sport313
02-02-17, 23:59
Ok. I have a M&G set up next week, and today the sugar was brought up. She want's $500 per meeting. Thoughts? Seems high based upon what I've been reading. I was hoping to get in at around $250 each.On SA, I've generally found that you get what you pay for. A real true blue SB won't accept anything under 400-500 around these parts and rightfully so. When I'm in CA, NY, etc a good SB goes for 800-1200 per meet. These types you can comfortably be seen in public with if you like, take to dinner / events, aren't feeding a habit and can hold conversation. Personally, I have no problem offering first out the gate and offering well because these girls are my style. I do my homework though. I google search photos, check the typical sites to see if they are double dipping as a provider for anything else.

A bicycle and a Bentley are not the same price for a reason. I met my current SB from SA 3 months ago here in Nashville. We both deactivated our accounts the night we met (I've logged on to check- she's still deactivated!) There's jewels out there guys but negotiating doesn't work well if you really want a SB. I gifted her 700 for our first meeting- all nighter, dinner, drinks and Back to the room for the rest of the evening. Her allowance is 950 monthly to help with whatever bills that covers for her but I only see her once a month due to home commitments. I use PayPal to avoid the awkwardness, it's sent on the 15th and we have never talked about it since the first meeting. In between meetings communication is on point. She is the 3rd long term SB I've had. I could write a book on how to SA and be successful at it but only if you really want a SB, if not I'd just stick with the backpage.coms of the world cause here's a major difference. Most of the riffraff drug addicts are on SA unfortunately but no REAL SB's are on backpage. So that wraps today's SA 101.

And to you guys that are going to say that I'm upsetting the curve. The candy store is all yours. I found the sweets that I was looking for in terms of the SD / SB life. Good luck out there.

FigLeaf
02-03-17, 00:05
Finally, the stars aligned and we met up for a second time. No car fun this time around. It was straight to the FC. Boy am I glad I doggedly pursued her through all of the missed connections. She does give a mighty fine BBBJ. Rides like a rodeo queen too. Sugar was never discussed and I deposited $. 2 in her purse as she left. She didn't even want to discuss sugar, saying whatever you want is fine. I don't want it to feel like it is necessary.

Definitely going to see her again. She might just nudge out FLSB1 as my ATF if for no other reason than the price is at 50%. Twice the fun, fellow daddies!.

FigLeaf
02-03-17, 00:07
Ok. I have a M&G set up next week, and today the sugar was brought up. She want's $500 per meeting. Thoughts? Seems high based upon what I've been reading. I was hoping to get in at around $250 each.Rarely do I ever gift more than $. 5. The rate you are suggesting of $$. 5 is much too high. There are many more babies than daddies on SA. You don't have to pay those kind of prices.

Jeepster1
02-03-17, 00:52
Newish SA member cuddleme0071 is using a pic from porn girl XOEve.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/82d90bde-5452-4c45-b60a-b7bd06e635bc

http://altporn.livejournal.com/300994.html

http://xoeve.com/index.php?

-Jeepster1.

FunnyUy
02-03-17, 00:53
Finally, the stars aligned and we met up for a second time. No car fun this time around. It was straight to the FC. Boy am I glad I doggedly pursued her through all of the missed connections. She does give a mighty fine BBBJ. Rides like a rodeo queen too. Sugar was never discussed and I deposited $. 2 in her purse as she left. She didn't even want to discuss sugar, saying whatever you want is fine. I don't want it to feel like it is necessary.

Definitely going to see her again. She might just nudge out FLSB1 as my ATF if for no other reason than the price is at 50%. Twice the fun, fellow daddies!.Glad this FLSB worked out. Please let us know how FLSB8 works out on Saturday. You go FigLeaf!

OJones
02-03-17, 00:53
Rarely do I ever gift more than $. 5. The rate you are suggesting of $$. 5 is much too high. There are many more babies than daddies on SA. You don't have to pay those kind of prices.A sugar baby I've talked with before messaged me a little bit ago that she got a hotel room for a meet up with a different sugar daddy and he stood her up. She wanted to know if I was available right now but I'm unfortunately not. I told her I might be able to find her a friend tonight so she sent me some pics. She's bigger (not bbbw in my opinion) and attractive. I'd be happy to email the pics and contact info to anyone that PMs me.

OJones
02-03-17, 01:27
A sugar baby I've talked with before messaged me a little bit ago that she got a hotel room for a meet up with a different sugar daddy and he stood her up. She wanted to know if I was available right now but I'm unfortunately not. I told her I might be able to find her a friend tonight so she sent me some pics. She's bigger (not bbbw in my opinion) and attractive. I'd be happy to email the pics and contact info to anyone that PMs me.She will let you take her to Greece as well.

FigLeaf
02-03-17, 10:11
Newish SA member cuddleme0071 is using a pic from porn girl XOEve.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/82d90bde-5452-4c45-b60a-b7bd06e635bc

http://altporn.livejournal.com/300994.html

http://xoeve.com/index.php?

-Jeepster1.And POOF! Her SA profile is gone.

OJones
02-03-17, 10:38
And POOF! Her SA profile is gone.She kept messaging me last night after I turned down her boss' offer of wiring him $300 to do a show with her. She wanted to meet me and told me she could get out of her cam duties for two days if I'd just send him $100. The. She started saying stuff that made her sound like a prisoner. I told her I was more concerned with her apparent lack of freedom to be an adult and go wherever she pleases and she responded with something like "I am very safe here" and that was it. Bizarre.

OJones
02-03-17, 10:40
She told me she was looking for $. 6 but when some of you guys called her, she was wanting $$ So, sorry about that fellas. I hate to waste yall's time.

FigLeaf
02-04-17, 09:26
SO today my monthly subscription runs out. When I logged on this morning, I had about 15 views on my profile which hasn't happened before. I noticed at the bottom left corner, there was a magnet symbol flashing. I found out that they have set my profile to on attraction level to generate more interest in my profile.

I am 100% positive that this is a marketing ploy to get me to sign up for another month so I can read all the messages I am willing to bet I am about to start getting.

Tricky.

Oh, about half of the profiles were from England. Not sure if it is because of the time difference or if because I started using a VPN tunneling through London.

FunnyUy
02-04-17, 10:45
SO today my monthly subscription runs out. When I logged on this morning, I had about 15 views on my profile which hasn't happened before. I noticed at the bottom left corner, there was a magnet symbol flashing. I found out that they have set my profile to on attraction level to generate more interest in my profile.

I am 100% positive that this is a marketing ploy to get me to sign up for another month so I can read all the messages I am willing to bet I am about to start getting.

Tricky.

Oh, about half of the profiles were from England. Not sure if it is because of the time difference or if because I started using a VPN tunneling through London.I Bet you are correct and it is all Those reasons. I Believe when my subscription lapses I am going to start all over again with a new name, new profile etc. So I look new to the SB's.

DMNash
02-04-17, 13:29
Anyone have anything to report on SA gal Cassblue? Thanks.

FunnyUy
02-04-17, 14:56
Met with a lovely young brunette spinner today. She is probably someones UTR but it was nice. Reminded me of a super nice UTR. Thanks for all the suggestions on sB work. It is a lot of effort but definitely worth it.

FigLeaf
02-04-17, 16:14
The warden has changed her plans for the evening and I won't get a hall pass for the evening.

FLSB8 was super considerate and is definitely willing to change her plans to Thursday evening when I fly back into town. As far as the warden knows, I will be getting back into town "late".

FLSB8 did say she is willing to be "flexible". Now my dirty fucking mind took that the way most of us daddies would take it. Not sure if she meant it that way, but will be fun to find out!

Until next time.

FL out.

FigLeaf
02-04-17, 16:20
I Bet you are correct and it is all Those reasons. I Believe when my subscription lapses I am going to start all over again with a new name, new profile etc. So I look new to the SB's.Oh I am probably going to start over again too. Probably, my ass! Damn straight I will. But not until the baby well starts drying up or I just get bored with what I have. Give me 3-4 months and I will be back messaging like a fiend trying to find the elusive ATF that doesn't care how much of an allowance she gets.

Jeepster1
02-04-17, 16:29
Iwantyou11, fake pics.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6055c78d-b2b3-4143-9d7a-85bd097443d0

Source:

https://www.instagram.com/imamberhahn/?hl=en

http://www.amberhahn.com

-Jeepster1.

Cullen
02-04-17, 20:25
Iwantyou11, fake pics.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6055c78d-b2b3-4143-9d7a-85bd097443d0

Source:

https://www.instagram.com/imamberhahn/?hl=en

http://www.amberhahn.com

-Jeepster1.I thought I recognized her. Amber keeps following me and unfollowing me on Twitter.

FunnyUy
02-04-17, 23:19
Oh I am probably going to start over again too. Probably, my ass! Damn straight I will. But not until the baby well starts drying up or I just get bored with what I have. Give me 3-4 months and I will be back messaging like a fiend trying to find the elusive ATF that doesn't care how much of an allowance she gets.Go team fig leaf.

You are the daddy (literally) because of you I was in a house with a SB way younger than me, very pretty for a modest allowance. Keep up the good work and keep us posted.

Keep up your leadership.

FigLeaf
02-05-17, 00:10
Go team fig leaf.

You are the daddy (literally) because of you I was in a house with a SB way younger than me, very pretty for a modest allowance. Keep up the good work and keep us posted.

Keep up your leadership.Hey don't blame me because you got your dick sucked by a HYB!

And I truly am not a leader. I learned a ton of shit just reading the first 100 pages or so of the Richmond, VA forum and applying the principles I read about there.