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DollarBill50
10-15-14, 10:07
Ok!
For the last month or so I have been trying to find me a sugar baby to see once a week for like $$ a week. Now I know I don't ask for the freaky stuff, but there are some things that are required if I am going to see you every week. All the girls I have been trying to hook this up with have way too many rules for me to make this work. I have talked to some of the so call higher end girls (that want $$$ to $$ a week) that would meet that demand, but I can't afford that. So I have tried the ones that ask for a little to see if WE both can make this work. They have way too many rules for me. (No kissing, No DATY, etc).
Am I reaching somewhere that is not possible here in Charlotte. Or should I hit a web site that deals in setting these things up? I did have a girl name Simone that worked this perfectly. 8 months of pure fun for the both of us. I need to ask for a raise to pay for my hobby.
NC Transplant
10-15-14, 10:27
I would think for $$ a week or 800 a month there would be someone to take you up on it. That is pretty steady income and a lot of ladies are struggling. You may not find it on the escort boards but you may find something under the radar. I wish I could afford to pay that much for pussy. I would be living it up.
Ok!
For the last month or so I have been trying to find me a sugar baby to see once a week for like $$ a week. Now I know I don't ask for the freaky stuff, but there are some things that are required if I am going to see you every week. All the girls I have been trying to hook this up with have way too many rules for me to make this work. I have talked to some of the so call higher end girls (that want $$$ to $$ a week) that would meet that demand, but I can't afford that. So I have tried the ones that ask for a little to see if WE both can make this work. They have way too many rules for me. (No kissing, No DATY, etc).
Am I reaching somewhere that is not possible here in Charlotte. Or should I hit a web site that deals in setting these things up? I did have a girl name Simone that worked this perfectly. 8 months of pure fun for the both of us. I need to ask for a raise to pay for my hobby.
Member #5689
10-15-14, 10:33
I would agree for that money you should not have issues. I haven't hit too many BP girls in the last couple years but most $$ girls will do DATY and kissing especially on hour session.
I would think for $$ a week or 800 a month there would be someone to take you up on it. That is pretty steady income and a lot of ladies are struggling. You may not find it on the escort boards but you may find something under the radar. I wish I could afford to pay that much for pussy. I would be living it up.
Ok!
For the last month or so I have been trying to find me a sugar baby to see once a week for like $$ a week. Now I know I don't ask for the freaky stuff, but there are some things that are required if I am going to see you every week. All the girls I have been trying to hook this up with have way too many rules for me to make this work. I have talked to some of the so call higher end girls (that want $$$ to $$ a week) that would meet that demand, but I can't afford that. So I have tried the ones that ask for a little to see if WE both can make this work. They have way too many rules for me. (No kissing, No DATY, etc).
Am I reaching somewhere that is not possible here in Charlotte. Or should I hit a web site that deals in setting these things up? I did have a girl name Simone that worked this perfectly. 8 months of pure fun for the both of us. I need to ask for a raise to pay for my hobby.I suggest that you visit a few American MPs and when you find a girl you like make her an offer. These girls would love to make that amount of steady $.
HarleyGuy1964
10-16-14, 11:49
Ok!
For the last month or so I have been trying to find me a sugar baby to see once a week for like $$ a week. Now I know I don't ask for the freaky stuff, but there are some things that are required if I am going to see you every week. All the girls I have been trying to hook this up with have way too many rules for me to make this work. I have talked to some of the so call higher end girls (that want $$$ to $$ a week) that would meet that demand, but I can't afford that. So I have tried the ones that ask for a little to see if WE both can make this work. They have way too many rules for me. (No kissing, No DATY, etc).
Am I reaching somewhere that is not possible here in Charlotte. Or should I hit a web site that deals in setting these things up? I did have a girl name Simone that worked this perfectly. 8 months of pure fun for the both of us. I need to ask for a raise to pay for my hobby.I have had good luck with girls from Strip Clubs. Had this arrangement for 6 months, then she got greedy.
Bootyluvr1
10-19-14, 15:15
Ok!
For the last month or so I have been trying to find me a sugar baby to see once a week for like $$ a week. Now I know I don't ask for the freaky stuff, but there are some things that are required if I am going to see you every week. All the girls I have been trying to hook this up with have way too many rules for me to make this work. I have talked to some of the so call higher end girls (that want $$$ to $$ a week) that would meet that demand, but I can't afford that. So I have tried the ones that ask for a little to see if WE both can make this work. They have way too many rules for me. (No kissing, No DATY, etc).
Am I reaching somewhere that is not possible here in Charlotte. Or should I hit a web site that deals in setting these things up? I did have a girl name Simone that worked this perfectly. 8 months of pure fun for the both of us. I need to ask for a raise to pay for my hobby.I agree with the others it should not be an issue to find someone like that unless your wanting to stay longer than an hour. I know 2 ladies that EVERYTHING is on the menu and its only 200. But I can only afford it every other week unfortunatly.
AGoodThing2
11-04-14, 19:01
Marissa offering Sugar Baby services.
http://www.carolina-companions.com/marissa.html
Good luck.
AGT2.
DollarBill50
11-04-14, 19:14
You need to PM me those 2 ladies.
BTW!
I went to arrangementfinder.com. After filling in all the basic info, I waited. After about 2 days my mailbox on the site had about 5 mail messages. 2 from Charlotte, 1 Greensboro and a couple of others from out of state. After playing with the out of town ladies and the Greensboro girl wanting big dollars. I do have one from Charlotte. She is fine as all out doors. Been out a few times. Working on a time and place.
Will keep you posted.
I agree with the others it should not be an issue to find someone like that unless your wanting to stay longer than an hour. I know 2 ladies that EVERYTHING is on the menu and its only 200. But I can only afford it every other week unfortunatly.
GutterMind4
11-11-14, 15:22
I wasn't looking for an "arrangement" but kinda fell into one. I had been talking to a young girl at one of the local establishments and trying to hook up "outside". She is no longer working there, or anywhere that I know of, but I had taken her number already. Texted her about meeting one afternoon, and we did. There were no terms discussed, we had a good time, and I kicked her $$ for the company. I think she would have stayed as long as I wanted but she arrived late and I needed to bolt from the low end motel, that I had to arrange BTW. Anyway, I told her we could try it every 3 to 5 weeks as my schedule and budget would allow. Two weeks go by and she's texting me to get together again. I agreed, but this may be the last time for fear she is not your typical provider. She's young, inexperienced, and although willing to exchange her time for money, doesn't want to be considered a "you know", nor does she have a defined menu. Although I don't know her well enough to know, this is the kinda situation that could get a guy in trouble. I've taken every precaution I know and she doesn't even know my last name, but in the internet age, who knows. She told me she thought about running ads on BP but was affraid of LE, (this girl would get busted).
Why have I stayed this long you ask? She's young and hot.
Member #6050
11-12-14, 09:11
I wasn't looking for an "arrangement" but kinda fell into one. I had been talking to a young girl at one of the local establishments and trying to hook up "outside". She is no longer working there, or anywhere that I know of, but I had taken her number already. Texted her about meeting one afternoon, and we did. There were no terms discussed, we had a good time, and I kicked her $$ for the company. I think she would have stayed as long as I wanted but she arrived late and I needed to bolt from the low end motel, that I had to arrange BTW. Anyway, I told her we could try it every 3 to 5 weeks as my schedule and budget would allow. Two weeks go by and she's texting me to get together again. I agreed, but this may be the last time for fear she is not your typical provider. She's young, inexperienced, and although willing to exchange her time for money, doesn't want to be considered a "you know", nor does she have a defined menu. Although I don't know her well enough to know, this is the kinda situation that could get a guy in trouble. I've taken every precaution I know and she doesn't even know my last name, but in the internet age, who knows. She told me she thought about running ads on BP but was affraid of LE, (this girl would get busted).
Why have I stayed this long you ask? She's young and hot.Most sugar babies are young, naive, want a nsa with a financial arrangement to make ends meet. They don't consider themselves prostitutes or advertising as such nor do they have a sex for pay menu. Your girl seems to fit the description. Not sure what your concern is.
Most sugar babies are young, naive, want a nsa with a financial arrangement to make ends meet. They don't consider themselves prostitutes or advertising as such nor do they have a sex for pay menu. Your girl seems to fit the description. Not sure what your concern is.I absolutely agree. I had one that I had met at a strip club about a year ago. Young, super hot, sensual. She definitely did not equate what we were doing to be an escort type of pay for play arrangement, but continually would hint for additional gifts in addition to the green ones she expected. As phenomenal as the meetings were, as well as her good looks, the requests and expectations on her end were too much. The dollar amount, while pretty high was not a problem, just the wants and the request for more frequent visits (was doing about once every three weeks) was too much. I also found out later that she had this arrangement with at least one other guy as well. Good luck! Just remember that no matter how hot she is, there is some guy that is tired of her shit.
GutterMind4
11-12-14, 18:44
Most sugar babies are young, naive, want a nsa with a financial arrangement to make ends meet. They don't consider themselves prostitutes or advertising as such nor do they have a sex for pay menu. Your girl seems to fit the description. Not sure what your concern is.As goes for most of us, I never want the hobby life to cross over into real life. She doesn't strike me as the vengeful type but non of them do until they feel like someone did them wrong (cut her loose). I found out a ton of info about me just by Googling my own name and phone number (she has neither of those BTW). But where most providers wouldn't care or pursue, a young NSA girl without a day job could possibly call the SO, employer, drive by, extort, arrange burglary with other jobless friends, etc. Again, I don't think this girl would but I have read of such right here on this site. I'm sure I'm being paranoid, others would say I'm staying sharp, either way I expect it will eventually turn to drama I don't need. I've actually hinted that I may know others that might be willing to pay for her time and there was no response so I let it go. If that changes, I'll post about it.
Member #6050
11-12-14, 19:44
As goes for most of us, I never want the hobby life to cross over into real life. She doesn't strike me as the vengeful type but non of them do until they feel like someone did them wrong (cut her loose). I found out a ton of info about me just by Googling my own name and phone number (she has neither of those BTW). But where most providers wouldn't care or pursue, a young NSA girl without a day job could possibly call the SO, employer, drive by, extort, arrange burglary with other jobless friends, etc. Again, I don't think this girl would but I have read of such right here on this site. I'm sure I'm being paranoid, others would say I'm staying sharp, either way I expect it will eventually turn to drama I don't need. I've actually hinted that I may know others that might be willing to pay for her time and there was no response so I let it go. If that changes, I'll post about it.Sounds like you need to head off in another direction besides sugars.
ScreamingSheep
11-13-14, 06:50
I believe some are mistaking a UTR as a Sugar Baby. A sugar baby wouldn't have multiple customers or maybe even a boyfriend. She would be an exclusive kept woman outside of your normal life. And very expensive.
Any girl that considers advertising or seeing other "clients", yes you are a client, is a provider. Under the radar, low volume, what ever way you want to spin it.
Member #6050
11-13-14, 12:46
I believe some are mistaking a UTR as a Sugar Baby. A sugar baby wouldn't have multiple customers or maybe even a boyfriend. She would be an exclusive kept woman outside of your normal life. And very expensive.
Any girl that considers advertising or seeing other "clients", yes you are a client, is a provider. Under the radar, low volume, what ever way you want to spin it.I agree with what you've said contrasting sb's with utr's.
Usually a true sugar baby has a very involved life and limited need for exclusive male company. She might be a full time student or working single mom, for example. For whatever reasons, she is looking for occasional male company with sex included but also some financial "help". How expensive? That depends on the girl, her needs, how she feels about the male and the amount of contact. It strikes me as outside my definition of a prostitute. In many cases "gold digger" might apply but not always.
A UTR girl is your normal escort who choose to advertise quietly and selectively. It's still pay for play according to her menu and still prostitution.
Unfortunately the sites don't distinguish between these girls so you have to met them to sort out which they are.
GutterMind4
11-14-14, 17:12
Sounds like you need to head off in another direction besides sugars.I agree WL, this is not the type of hobby I enjoy (if it is considered part of the hobby). But I did state that I kinda fell into it so I gave it a try and came through it ok. Still not sure how you would categorize her though. She's not trying to meet others for the same but says she has one other guy she sees for the same arrangement. By that standard, I would say she is not UTR. I do think she has boyfriends or hook ups but they run in her circle of friends and are more her age. By your standard, I would say she's not a SB. And although I mostly agree with your definition of UTR, I think a SB could range from a full time executive mistress to a trailer park tramp in training. This girl is naive, disorganized, and ill prepared but she's not innocent, and she's looking for quick money. We just met again and she started blowing me up to meet earlier in the day than scheduled because she was in a bind. I agreed and altered my schedule accordingly. Fifteen minutes later she tried to push it back so she could "take a friend to work". I replied that "no thanks, maybe we can meet some other day". She amazingly reverted back to the agreed schedule. She later let it slip that she needed the money to shop for something to wear this weekend (yeah, she's in a bind). She also took a couple of calls while there. I didn't really care because we weren't on the clock, but I heard a lot of criminal and civil drama just on her end. After our meeting, I told her I was working out of town for a while, I'd call her soon.
The good news for you guys (I think), she's considering body rubs if anyone "randomly inquired". YMMV, but don't expect GFE.
NC Transplant
11-14-14, 17:36
I was thinking she was game for a few sugar daddies until at the end when you mentioned the body rub thing. Perhaps she is seeing that finding one guy to fill her needs will be hard to find and looking to be a real provider?
I agree WL, this is not the type of hobby I enjoy (if it is considered part of the hobby). But I did state that I kinda fell into it so I gave it a try and came through it ok. Still not sure how you would categorize her though. She's not trying to meet others for the same but says she has one other guy she sees for the same arrangement. By that standard, I would say she is not UTR. I do think she has boyfriends or hook ups but they run in her circle of friends and are more her age. By your standard, I would say she's not a SB. And although I mostly agree with your definition of UTR, I think a SB could range from a full time executive mistress to a trailer park tramp in training. This girl is naive, disorganized, and ill prepared but she's not innocent, and she's looking for quick money. We just met again and she started blowing me up to meet earlier in the day than scheduled because she was in a bind. I agreed and altered my schedule accordingly. Fifteen minutes later she tried to push it back so she could "take a friend to work". I replied that "no thanks, maybe we can meet some other day". She amazingly reverted back to the agreed schedule. She later let it slip that she needed the money to shop for something to wear this weekend (yeah, she's in a bind). She also took a couple of calls while there. I didn't really care because we weren't on the clock, but I heard a lot of criminal and civil drama just on her end. After our meeting, I told her I was working out of town for a while, I'd call her soon.
The good news for you guys (I think), she's considering body rubs if anyone "randomly inquired". YMMV, but don't expect GFE.
Member #6050
11-14-14, 19:54
I was thinking she was game for a few sugar daddies until at the end when you mentioned the body rub thing. Perhaps she is seeing that finding one guy to fill her needs will be hard to find and looking to be a real provider?She sounds closer to a provider than sugar baby, imo.
GutterMind4
11-17-14, 18:38
She wants it both ways. She likes the quick cash but wants to be picky about the clients. That's why she says she only has two "customers" like me. I think she used to work at a MP so that's why she's considering advertising body rubs. That way she can choose who to give certain extras to. I don't agree with the practice, just giving my opinion of her attitude. As she matures, or as real life grinds on her, I'm sure she'll become a little more liberal about who and how much she provides. But to reinforce your last posts, she'll end up as a provider with a lot of rules, no organization, and plenty of drama. Sound familiar?
She sounds closer to a provider than sugar baby, imo.
I tried the Sugar Daddy thing last year and had some good luck. A lot of the women on the SD / sb sites will negotiate a sort of "sample" session and are open to weekly or even monthly meetings for the less-than-wealthy patron. I saw a few once, a couple three or four times, and two off and on for four months. One young lady contacted me recently and told me to pass on her contact info to anyone interested. PM me if you want the info.
Member #5055
06-16-15, 11:35
I am visiting from out of town for a few weeks here and there this summer, and I am using SA to get good quality girls.
I highly recomend that anybody here who is interested in the SB world should read the great thread on the Richmond, VA forum about SBs. Start at the beginning and just start to read. GREAT tips of how to make it work for you.
SA is mostly the best site, and from what I am seeing here this week it is active and hopping.
Regards.
GW.
I tried the Sugar Daddy thing last year and had some good luck. A lot of the women on the SD / sb sites will negotiate a sort of "sample" session and are open to weekly or even monthly meetings for the less-than-wealthy patron. I saw a few once, a couple three or four times, and two off and on for four months. One young lady contacted me recently and told me to pass on her contact info to anyone interested. PM me if you want the info.I'm not sure if anyone had any luck with the sb I recommended, but it looks like her phone is off and it's possible her ex hacked her FB account. Apparently, he's a creep. But I apologize if my information proves unuseful.
NC Transplant
07-04-15, 10:19
http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2015-07-03/sugar-daddies-are-paying-their-share-13-trillion-student-loan-balance
I know some of you guys are donating to the cause?
Member #5055
07-06-15, 16:06
There are a TON of quality girls on SA -- saw 3 during the week, may repeat with one. Got plenty of others on the hook for my trip this week and next week!
Fair to say there are ones you DO NOT want to see -- so careful fishing is required!!
GW.
I am visiting from out of town for a few weeks here and there this summer, and I am using SA to get good quality girls.
I highly recomend that anybody here who is interested in the SB world should read the great thread on the Richmond, VA forum about SBs. Start at the beginning and just start to read. GREAT tips of how to make it work for you.
SA is mostly the best site, and from what I am seeing here this week it is active and hopping.
Regards.
GW.
Gastonian4
07-06-15, 18:55
There are a TON of quality girls on SA -- saw 3 during the week, may repeat with one. Got plenty of others on the hook for my trip this week and next week!
Fair to say there are ones you DO NOT want to see -- so careful fishing is required!!
GW.I've had pretty good luck on SA as well, I agree with the fishing comment. You have to be subtle about it don't think you are going to set a date with someone and be explicit about prices you will scare them off. Also pricing is very negotiable. I've met 4 people on there, in all cases I arranged meeting for drinks or lunch to get them to know me, and when the vibes turned good I asked them to walk to the car and offered them extra to snuggle a little and to play a little subtly which broke the ice. The four I met with 3 of them I arranged something later on. I had worked those four off and on for awhile and culled them from the crowd. One of them who was 27 blonde very buxom I ended up going to her place and we drank for awhile and ended up doing her on her couch, we had dinner earlier. The other one is 40 or so, went to a very liesurly dinner and went back to my place, had some more wine and ended up doing her in my bed LOL. Both girls were GFE experience especially the second one, we still text back and forth but my budget is tight lately. Expect to spend cost of an AMP no frills cost for first meeting and cost of an upgraded session plus dinner for the second. If you work it right for the second one you can get out of dinner. I can't overemphasize how important it is to be subtle and not expect to work out details until a one on one meeting. Everything is negotiable but you also can't be cheap. Happy hunting!
There are a TON of quality girls on SA -- saw 3 during the week, may repeat with one. Got plenty of others on the hook for my trip this week and next week!
Fair to say there are ones you DO NOT want to see -- so careful fishing is required!!
GW.What is the SA website?
Member #5055
07-07-15, 11:34
It talks about it here:
http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2015-07-03/sugar-daddies-are-paying-their-share-13-trillion-student-loan-balance
What is the SA website?
NC Transplant
07-07-15, 13:25
SA= Seeking Arrangements. Put it together with a. Com at the end.
What is the SA website?
NC Transplant
07-07-15, 13:32
Now she is looking for a sugar daddy. If I Had the money there is no way I would give that fat hog $1000 a week. I could have fun with a real hottie for that much. I wonder what she is smoking? WHO will give her $4000 a month? Geeze. This HAS to be the laugh of the day.
http://charlotte.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/looking-for-a-sugar-daddy/11448080
"hello many know me as leelee I'm a local escort here in charlotte and I have over 75 reviews to prove I'm legit and good at what I do. I'm looking for a man that can take the place of all my clients. I'm in school (can provide proof if needed) a lot of girls lie about it. Anyway looking for a weekly allowance of at least a 1000 so if you don't have that don't bother responding thanks leelee".
What is the SA website?I did a Google search on SA. It came up with sexaholics anonymous. Bet you can meet some great ladies there. I hear they have to go through a 12 position program.
Now she is looking for a sugar daddy. If I Had the money there is no way I would give that fat hog $1000 a week. I could have fun with a real hottie for that much. I wonder what she is smoking? WHO will give her $4000 a month? Geeze. This HAS to be the laugh of the day.
http://charlotte.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/looking-for-a-sugar-daddy/11448080
"hello many know me as leelee I'm a local escort here in charlotte and I have over 75 reviews to prove I'm legit and good at what I do. I'm looking for a man that can take the place of all my clients. I'm in school (can provide proof if needed) a lot of girls lie about it. Anyway looking for a weekly allowance of at least a 1000 so if you don't have that don't bother responding thanks leelee".I actually saw that ad as well, I am surprised at how much action LeeLee seems to get, she is about the least attractive woman I have seen post on BP (not including the one that always has to stress that s (he) is "100% woman," yet seems to think she is the greatest thing since sliced bread. Can't even imagine how many $40 visits that stretched worn out woman has had and anyone who would give her that much would be crazy.
I did a Google search on SA. It came up with sexaholics anonymous. Bet you can meet some great ladies there. I hear they have to go through a 12 position program.It's seekingarrangement.com.
No "s" at the end. Downside is the fee ($69/ mo) just to read and respond to any emails you get.
I have to figure out how to get a prepaid card to pay for it.
NC Transplant
07-08-15, 07:14
If you know a guy willing to give that $4000 a month let me know. I have a bridge for sale.
I actually saw that ad as well, I am surprised at how much action LeeLee seems to get, she is about the least attractive woman I have seen post on BP (not including the one that always has to stress that s (he) is "100% woman," yet seems to think she is the greatest thing since sliced bread. Can't even imagine how many $40 visits that stretched worn out woman has had and anyone who would give her that much would be crazy.
I actually saw that ad as well, I am surprised at how much action LeeLee seems to get, she is about the least attractive woman I have seen post on BP (not including the one that always has to stress that s (he) is "100% woman," yet seems to think she is the greatest thing since sliced bread. Can't even imagine how many $40 visits that stretched worn out woman has had and anyone who would give her that much would be crazy.1000 a week will only cover her weekly food purchases.
Member #5689
07-08-15, 23:36
You can purchase prepaid visas at the malls at the help desk you tell them how much you want I think it's a $3 fee.
It's seekingarrangement.com.
No "s" at the end. Downside is the fee ($69/ mo) just to read and respond to any emails you get.
I have to figure out how to get a prepaid card to pay for it.
Member #6050
07-09-15, 07:51
It's seekingarrangement.com.
No "s" at the end. Downside is the fee ($69/ mo) just to read and respond to any emails you get.
I have to figure out how to get a prepaid card to pay for it.I believe you will find they have a discounted subscription. Not sure about the terms so just look it up.
NC Transplant
07-09-15, 07:58
If you buy those prepaid Visa cards at a CVS or a retail store they will add a little for their profit. Some banks and especially credit unions will sell those Visa cards at face value with no additional fee added on them if you have an account with them. I know Family Trust based in Rock Hill will sell those cards without a fee if you are a member.
You can purchase prepaid visas at the malls at the help desk you tell them how much you want I think it's a $3 fee.
If you know a guy willing to give that $4000 a month let me know. I have a bridge for sale.http://charlotte.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-get-stuck-in-rush-traffic-come-see-me-please-do-your-homework-b4-contacting-me-i-have-over-78-reviews/21930463
Is it me or does she look like a negative? For those of you that recall what film is.
http://charlotte.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-get-stuck-in-rush-traffic-come-see-me-please-do-your-homework-b4-contacting-me-i-have-over-78-reviews/21930463
Is it me or does she look like a negative? For those of you that recall what film is.Agree!
That is disturbing!
NC Transplant
07-24-15, 20:35
It certainly doesn't make my dick hard.
http://charlotte.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-get-stuck-in-rush-traffic-come-see-me-please-do-your-homework-b4-contacting-me-i-have-over-78-reviews/21930463
Is it me or does she look like a negative? For those of you that recall what film is.
Lildevil01
07-25-15, 19:20
It certainly doesn't make my dick hard.Saw her once a year ago she's a big one I should have left no personality all business.
So I signed up on SeekingArrangement. Even paid the fee to read the messages for a month. Was surprised how inundated I was with views and messages. I have emailed and texted a couple, met 3. Of those 3, I had huge make out session with an absolute knockout, but she want $1 K / month. Another I have seen. She's married and hasn't really asked for funds (yet), but got FS. Worrisome thing with the married one is that I am now getting emails saying "I wish my life was different". I hope she's not thinking that she's going to break up her situation and end up with me.
I'd like to work something out with the babe, but that amount is rather steep and getting that together without being noticed is going to be very hard.
DollarBill50
08-05-15, 10:07
I have tried that site also. Like you I have met some really pretty ladies from their. A lot of the young black ladies want an allowance of like $250 every 2 weeks. But they didn't want to give up anything in return. At least the ones I have met just think that if they are on my arm is good enough. WRONG!
But I have met a couple that sex was first on the list and then we went to dinner on the second date and sex plus dinner for the 3rd date. I find it entertaining. I have my regulars from that site.
So I signed up on SeekingArrangement. Even paid the fee to read the messages for a month. Was surprised how inundated I was with views and messages. I have emailed and texted a couple, met 3. Of those 3, I had huge make out session with an absolute knockout, but she want $1 K / month. Another I have seen. She's married and hasn't really asked for funds (yet), but got FS. Worrisome thing with the married one is that I am now getting emails saying "I wish my life was different". I hope she's not thinking that she's going to break up her situation and end up with me.
I'd like to work something out with the babe, but that amount is rather steep and getting that together without being noticed is going to be very hard.
For those who messaged me about a sugar baby I recommended--she is back on seeking arrangements as $€XY. She is very talented and giving if you treat her well. Says she's'so in Lancaster, but is actually around Monroe.
http://charlotte.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-get-stuck-in-rush-traffic-come-see-me-please-do-your-homework-b4-contacting-me-i-have-over-78-reviews/21930463
Is it me or does she look like a negative? For those of you that recall what film is.I do not know about the negative, but she has the Krusty the Clown look with that hideous makeup. I am sorry but I have never seen LeeLee as worth more that a $10 BJ. She always makes my hand look good. She is what I call a keg girl in that I would need to empty one before doing her. In other words I would be passed out.
NC Transplant
09-12-15, 19:57
NOTHING about that face makes my dick hard. Not even worth a $10 BJ for me. I met her once. There was nothing about the experience to make me want seconds.
I do not know about the negative, but she has the Krusty the Clown look with that hideous makeup. I am sorry but I have never seen LeeLee as worth more that a $10 BJ. She always makes my hand look good. She is what I call a keg girl in that I would need to empty one before doing her. In other words I would be passed out.
Gigabyte40
09-13-15, 09:54
http://charlotte.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-get-stuck-in-rush-traffic-come-see-me-please-do-your-homework-b4-contacting-me-i-have-over-78-reviews/21930463
Is it me or does she look like a negative? For those of you that recall what film is.Yes it looks like a reverse image, dark face w white lips. It looks like she fell asleep in the tanning bed and woke up fried. Yuck.
GB40.
NC Transplant
09-13-15, 10:05
If the objective is to get someone to call I don't see those pics doing the job. Especially if she wants to be an expensive sugar baby. Good luck with that.
Yes it looks like a reverse image, dark face w white lips. It looks like she fell asleep in the tanning bed and woke up fried. Yuck.
GB40.
NOTHING about that face makes my dick hard. Not even worth a $10 BJ for me. I met her once. There was nothing about the experience to make me want seconds.LOL!
Well that first photo looks like she was eating grape jelly, and spread it all over her lower face. But this does tell you one thing about modern women, it tells you that no matter how bad they look, they believe they are Gods gift to men.
Also is it just me or does Barbi in Gastonia look like a version of Tammy Faye Baker? She is another one that scares the hell out of me. She has psycho written all over her face.
Any of you guys have any experience with"sweetyoungfun4 u"?
MraTypical
12-17-15, 17:21
Any of you guys have any experience with"sweetyoungfun4 u"?Hey Bruco,
I've seen her once. She's out of Pageland but will travel. She also has some friends that she can recommend. I had a good time with her. She's easy going and pretty cool. Don't expect a GFE but she doesn't rush you either. I may see again. Still exploring other options on SA. Good luck!
Hey Bruco,
I've seen her once. She's out of Pageland but will travel. She also has some friends that she can recommend. I had a good time with her. She's easy going and pretty cool. Don't expect a GFE but she doesn't rush you either. I may see again. Still exploring other options on SA. Good luck!I met Darlene, who I mentioned here before, through Liza. Darlene is a total GFE and gorgeous. She was "Honey" on SA. Not sure if she's still there. I can share her old number on a PM. I've also had some luck on What's Your Price.
LovesMuffins
01-08-16, 11:45
Anyone tried out asamia on SA?
MraTypical
01-08-16, 18:11
I met Darlene, who I mentioned here before, through Liza. Darlene is a total GFE and gorgeous. She was "Honey" on SA. Not sure if she's still there. I can share her old number on a PM. I've also had some luck on What's Your Price.Hey SP, a PM with Darlene's info would be much appreciated. She doesn't seem to still be active on SA. I've never had any luck on WYP. Does it still have a lot of active members?
Hey SP, a PM with Darlene's info would be much appreciated. She doesn't seem to still be active on SA. I've never had any luck on WYP. Does it still have a lot of active members?I had zero luck with WYP, though it's been 6 mos.
I had zero luck with WYP, though it's been 6 mos.MraTypical message sent.
My luck on WYP came from finding the same woman on WYP, SA, and OKCupid. We started talking on OKC but I let her know I saw her on the other sites. I've noticed a couple of these multisite girls. The one that I had success with became a get regular visit. Unfortunately, she moved out of state.
I finally caught up with theDarlene that I've mentioned here before. She's in need of assistance and is looking for men who "ain't creepy. " Pm me for contact info--if you aren't creepy and will be nice to her.
NC Transplant
01-23-16, 10:27
http://awm.com/video-she-isnt-shy-about-what-she-does-to-earn-a-hefty-paycheck-and-shes-willing-to-film-it-2/
JustCurius
02-04-16, 22:51
I finally caught up with theDarlene that I've mentioned here before. She's in need of assistance and is looking for men who "ain't creepy. " Pm me for contact info--if you aren't creepy and will be nice to her.I met Darlene today. She's a very sexy, sort of sultry, lady, but she wasn't GFE and certainly no spitfire. But she has a wonderful body and sweet long legs. Might have been standoffish because I would only had $. 35 in assistance. She really wants a minimum of $. 50. Maybe she thought I was creepy. Hoping second visit might be better. I've got her digits. Her friend Liza accompanied her but remained aloof.
I met Darlene today. She's a very sexy, sort of sultry, lady, but she wasn't GFE and certainly no spitfire. But she has a wonderful body and sweet long legs. Might have been standoffish because I would only had $. 35 in assistance. She really wants a minimum of $. 50. Maybe she thought I was creepy. Hoping second visit might be better. I've got her digits. Her friend Liza accompanied her but remained aloof.She can be very shy at first. I think time and money--more of both--warms her up.
Dirty Dingus
02-08-16, 18:41
I have conversed with this one off SA. She offered a 3 some with her and her friend (I am assuming it's Darlene) for a reasonable price. She seems to be a bit stingy on sending pics. She only wants to send a pic AFTER you have set up a date. How the hell do I know I want to set up a date till I see a pic?? Think I will pass. Too many other sugar babies to jump through hoops for one.
I had conversation with 2 people on SA, both were suspicious, didn't partake.
My experience with SA isn't good as of now.
I have conversed with this one off SA. She offered a 3 some with her and her friend (I am assuming it's Darlene) for a reasonable price. She seems to be a bit stingy on sending pics. She only wants to send a pic AFTER you have set up a date. How the hell do I know I want to set up a date till I see a pic?? Think I will pass. Too many other sugar babies to jump through hoops for one.
I have conversed with this one off SA. She offered a 3 some with her and her friend (I am assuming it's Darlene) for a reasonable price. She seems to be a bit stingy on sending pics. She only wants to send a pic AFTER you have set up a date. How the hell do I know I want to set up a date till I see a pic?? Think I will pass. Too many other sugar babies to jump through hoops for one.I've met her--just met, nothing more. She introduced me to Darlene. But she is definitely real and attractive.
There's an SA girl in York named after Disney's most famous deer who I've seen a few times. She has a great body and is a smart, open minded young woman. Pm for details.
There's an SA girl in York named after Disney's most famous deer who I've seen a few times. She has a great body and is a smart, open minded young woman. Pm for details.I got back in touch with this one and it turns out she is going to be away for a while.
She can be very shy at first. I think time and money--more of both--warms her up.She's now $3XxYaf on SA. Or search for a Native American in Monroe.
She's asking $2--at least for the first full visit.
DollarBill50
02-18-16, 13:18
But what is SA and WYP? PM if you need to.
Sandbagger
02-18-16, 13:29
But what is SA and WYP? PM if you need to.SA is SeekingArrangements. Not familiar with WYP.
SA is SeekingArrangements. Not familiar with WYP.WYP = Whatsyourprice.
WYP = Whatsyourprice.They're similar sites in that they hook up women motivated primarily by a need for money with men who have some money to spend. Girls range from old fashioned gold diggers, to young women looking for business mentors, and from women down on their luck to girls who also show up on BP. Both sites charge a fee to let you contact the women listed on the sites. Sometimes you find a diamond; sometimes you spend too much money on a lump of coal.
Gigabyte40
02-18-16, 19:37
They're similar sites in that they hook up women motivated primarily by a need for money with men who have some money to spend. Girls range from old fashioned gold diggers, to young women looking for business mentors, and from women down on their luck to girls who also show up on BP. Both sites charge a fee to let you contact the women listed on the sites. Sometimes you find a diamond; sometimes you spend too much money on a lump of coal.I signed up for WYP and paid a little to make contact with some of the women on there. It's pretty cool. No good stories to share yet but I'm working on it. I met one girl who only wanted to meet and greet. I'm talking to another that sounds pretty open minded.
GB40.
Onecurious
03-01-16, 00:24
I've had some luck on SA. Seems the going rate is $1. 5 to $$. I'm still looking for a regular on there. Lately I've been sending messages with no responses from some I'd definitely like to meet. Anyone else having this problem?
DollarBill50
03-01-16, 13:45
So I have signed onto both of these. You guys are right. There is a fee to start a conversation with these ladies. Someone with a little more experience with these 2 sites tell me something. On WYP I have had 2 ladies contact me with a bid of $100 and $50. Is this the price they expect for the date? Before I pay that fee for "Credits" I want to know is that the dinner first date price. As for SA I haven't received anything from any lady there. I'm sure negotiations will follow once I or if join them sites.
Onecurious
03-01-16, 15:07
So I have signed onto both of these. You guys are right. There is a fee to start a conversation with these ladies. Someone with a little more experience with these 2 sites tell me something. On WYP I have had 2 ladies contact me with a bid of $100 and $50. Is this the price they expect for the date? Before I pay that fee for "Credits" I want to know is that the dinner first date price. As for SA I haven't received anything from any lady there. I'm sure negotiations will follow once I or if join them sites.I can't speak for WYP as you have to add a picture even after you buy credits to be able to message anyone. I'm not willing to do that so just SA for me now. It's been a little slower on SA than when I first joined but setup meeting with a new one from there for later this week.
I've had some luck on SA. Seems the going rate is $1. 5 to $$. I'm still looking for a regular on there. Lately I've been sending messages with no responses from some I'd definitely like to meet. Anyone else having this problem?I don't know. But isn't that what you'd expect to pay for somebody anyway? Why go thru a site that charges a fee?
Maybe I'm missing something but why not save your money & just keep pounding the pavement for providers on BP, P411,etc. ?
Dirty Dingus
03-01-16, 19:16
I have been a member on SA on and off for years. I have made some very good contacts. Some months I may meet several, and some not make a connection at all. I also joined WYP for the first time. I could have met a few, but no one that has floated my boat enough to pull the trigger and go through with the date. It just seems to me that there is a lot of room to be scammed by the website. I did agree on a date with one hottie, but she then deactivated her profile, so I lost my credits and had not yet got any contact info. I asked the website if I was entitled to my credits back and they said no, since I didn't have the higher priced membership. I will just stick with SA. Seems a lot less complicated.
As far as the question as to why you just don't stick with BP gals and not have to pay a membership?? For me, I much prefer the sugar baby arrangement over that of being the 5th or 6th guy in line for the day seeing a hooker. If you are just wanting the cheapest sex that you can find, the sugar baby route is not for you.
Gigabyte40
03-01-16, 19:28
I have been a member on SA on and off for years. I have made some very good contacts. Some months I may meet several, and some not make a connection at all. I also joined WYP for the first time. I could have met a few, but no one that has floated my boat enough to pull the trigger and go through with the date. It just seems to me that there is a lot of room to be scammed by the website. I did agree on a date with one hottie, but she then deactivated her profile, so I lost my credits and had not yet got any contact info. I asked the website if I was entitled to my credits back and they said no, since I didn't have the higher priced membership. I will just stick with SA. Seems a lot less complicated.
As far as the question as to why you just don't stick with BP gals and not have to pay a membership?? For me, I much prefer the sugar baby arrangement over that of being the 5th or 6th guy in line for the day seeing a hooker. If you are just wanting the cheapest sex that you can find, the sugar baby route is not for you.Correct. SA and WYP are not cheap. If you want cheap stick to streetgirls and backpage girls. And there's nothing wrong with that. I've done it all.
I'm using WYP and found one that is fun but she wants to be taken care of. That means financially of course but she wants someone to talk to and be with her. So it works for me.
Word of warning about WYP: Men pay, women don't. Men pay to communicate with the women. You offer an initial amount JUST TO MEET HER. Out of dozens of women on there in this area (with 100 miles of Charlotte. That's the search criteria I use), I've attempted contact with about 20. Half of those turn me down. Half of the rest don't respond. Leaving only 1 or 2 that actually message, text, or call you. So don't expect immediate results. You have to work hard to find one. Your chances could improve as more women sign up or you're willing to travel further.
Part of the fun for me is the thrill of the chase.
GB40.
I have been a member on SA on and off for years. I have made some very good contacts. Some months I may meet several, and some not make a connection at all. I also joined WYP for the first time. I could have met a few, but no one that has floated my boat enough to pull the trigger and go through with the date. It just seems to me that there is a lot of room to be scammed by the website. I did agree on a date with one hottie, but she then deactivated her profile, so I lost my credits and had not yet got any contact info. I asked the website if I was entitled to my credits back and they said no, since I didn't have the higher priced membership. I will just stick with SA. Seems a lot less complicated.
As far as the question as to why you just don't stick with BP gals and not have to pay a membership?? For me, I much prefer the sugar baby arrangement over that of being the 5th or 6th guy in line for the day seeing a hooker. If you are just wanting the cheapest sex that you can find, the sugar baby route is not for you.Totally agree. Much prefer the SB route. Maybe I've just been lucky, but I've met some pretty cool girls on SA. I'm back on after a break as my fave moved back to her hometown, bummer, but I kind of prefer that things only last a couple months. Don't want anyone getting attached.
Totally agree. Much prefer the SB route. Maybe I've just been lucky, but I've met some pretty cool girls on SA. I'm back on after a break as my fave moved back to her hometown, bummer, but I kind of prefer that things only last a couple months. Don't want anyone getting attached.I met 4 women on SA. Two of which I had dreams with. One I carried on a semi-regular thing for 6 months, but it carried a very high price. The idea was to be able to meet at least 4 x / month, but even then, the cost / meeting was high. I felt a real connection and the activities were great. She was nearly insatiable and at least acted like she enjoyed it (very vocal). Unfortunately she travels for her real job and was out of town for 1-2 weeks / month. Between our two schedules and the holiday season, it no longer made $ense.
I email her periodically, and may try to renegotiate. She had smoking body and can cook too, so she will probably move on to more conventional relationships.
I never found anyone who was looking for a per date thing but never really asked.
Dirty Dingus
03-03-16, 09:47
I met 4 women on SA. Two of which I had dreams with. One I carried on a semi-regular thing for 6 months, but it carried a very high price. The idea was to be able to meet at least 4 x / month, but even then, the cost / meeting was high. I felt a real connection and the activities were great. She was nearly insatiable and at least acted like she enjoyed it (very vocal). Unfortunately she travels for her real job and was out of town for 1-2 weeks / month. Between our two schedules and the holiday season, it no longer made $ense.
I email her periodically, and may try to renegotiate. She had smoking body and can cook too, so she will probably move on to more conventional relationships.
I never found anyone who was looking for a per date thing but never really asked.I have to say that I have had decent luck finding gals that are OK with a per date agreement. I try to explain that a per meeting basis is what I had in the past and it works best for me. It's less complicated, etc. A majority of the gals will go for it, but some are stuck on the idea of a monthly allowance.
Mravcapo69
03-08-16, 19:02
Hi guys,
I am new to this forum, but not new to the site or idea of having a SB. Per meeting is something that I always insist on, and it worked fine for me so far. I don't do monthly payroll sort of thing. My biggest problem, and perhaps some of you are having the same problem, is finding a place to spend 2-3 hours during the day with SB. I am just starting to see a nice 21 year old SB, but need a room during the day, between 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM. Motels do not check you in before 2:00 or 3:00 PM, and that's too late for both of us, and neither of us can use our home. Of course, I'd never take her to my home, for the reasons most of us would understand. Can any one of you fellow hobbyist suggest what do you do in such situation, and where do you take your ladies? You can either PM me or offer any suggestions in the forum. Any help would be appreciated.
Mravcapo69
03-08-16, 19:06
I must say that I agree with Dirty Dingus. Per date arrangement is the only way I'd go. I don't go for the monthly thing, because the most times those ladies have a GPS (Golden Pussy Syndrome) and I am not sure we would click.
I have to say that I have had decent luck finding gals that are OK with a per date agreement. I try to explain that a per meeting basis is what I had in the past and it works best for me. It's less complicated, etc. A majority of the gals will go for it, but some are stuck on the idea of a monthly allowance.
Dirty Dingus
03-08-16, 20:12
Hi guys,
I am new to this forum, but not new to the site or idea of having a SB. Per meeting is something that I always insist on, and it worked fine for me so far. I don't do monthly payroll sort of thing. My biggest problem, and perhaps some of you are having the same problem, is finding a place to spend 2-3 hours during the day with SB. I am just starting to see a nice 21 year old SB, but need a room during the day, between 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM. Motels do not check you in before 2:00 or 3:00 PM, and that's too late for both of us, and neither of us can use our home. Of course, I'd never take her to my home, for the reasons most of us would understand. Can any one of you fellow hobbyist suggest what do you do in such situation, and where do you take your ladies? You can either PM me or offer any suggestions in the forum. Any help would be appreciated.It can be a problem sometimes getting a room before lunch. I usually like to find something around 11 AM. I have had pretty good luck with Sleep Inns having some early rooms available. I have the awards points program so I get a free room about once ever 10 yrs. LOL Sometimes I will make a reservation and put on the reservation that I would like an early check-in. This works sometimes and sometimes not. I often have to go looking when the first choice doesn't have any early rooms available. I have to say that hotel bills are killing me. Someone with a motor home should rent it out to guys like us that are looking for a room for a couple hours. Just park it in the Walmart parking lot!! LOL.
Mravcapo69
03-08-16, 21:31
It can be a problem sometimes getting a room before lunch. I usually like to find something around 11 AM. I have had pretty good luck with Sleep Inns having some early rooms available. I have the awards points program so I get a free room about once ever 10 yrs. LOL Sometimes I will make a reservation and put on the reservation that I would like an early check-in. This works sometimes and sometimes not. I often have to go looking when the first choice doesn't have any early rooms available. I have to say that hotel bills are killing me. Someone with a motor home should rent it out to guys like us that are looking for a room for a couple hours. Just park it in the Walmart parking lot!! LOL.Yes that certainly can be problem. I am not sure what to do. Motor home is not a bad idea, but what we should do is get 2-4 of us and split the cost of renting a 500 apartment or a small house. Or someone who has an extra room should make some extra money, buy renting it out. It would come out cheaper than always looking for a place LOL.
It can be a problem sometimes getting a room before lunch. I usually like to find something around 11 AM. I have had pretty good luck with Sleep Inns having some early rooms available. I have the awards points program so I get a free room about once ever 10 yrs. LOL Sometimes I will make a reservation and put on the reservation that I would like an early check-in. This works sometimes and sometimes not. I often have to go looking when the first choice doesn't have any early rooms available. I have to say that hotel bills are killing me. Someone with a motor home should rent it out to guys like us that are looking for a room for a couple hours. Just park it in the Walmart parking lot!! LOL.Pretty much what I've done. Just call until I find a place. Luckily 6-8 pm typically works well for me as long as it isn't too often.
Hi guys,
I am new to this forum, but not new to the site or idea of having a SB. Per meeting is something that I always insist on, and it worked fine for me so far. I don't do monthly payroll sort of thing. My biggest problem, and perhaps some of you are having the same problem, is finding a place to spend 2-3 hours during the day with SB. I am just starting to see a nice 21 year old SB, but need a room during the day, between 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM. Motels do not check you in before 2:00 or 3:00 PM, and that's too late for both of us, and neither of us can use our home. Of course, I'd never take her to my home, for the reasons most of us would understand. Can any one of you fellow hobbyist suggest what do you do in such situation, and where do you take your ladies? You can either PM me or offer any suggestions in the forum. Any help would be appreciated.I came across an ad on CL coupe of months back about renting a room for. 025 per 2 hrs. Called up the owner he mentioned house used by his friends for swinger parties but mostly unoccupied during normal days. He shared even pics and seem to be decent for a 2 hr time. Will PM you his contact.
Mravcapo69
03-09-16, 20:37
Fellow hobbyists, and SB lovers) I am just wondering if and how many of you in this group use KIK app to safely and confidentially communicate with your SB's, so that you don't have to give away your phone #? I am just trying to get the feel how popular is the app as the means of communication?
Gigabyte40
03-10-16, 00:23
Yes that certainly can be problem. I am not sure what to do. Motor home is not a bad idea, but what we should do is get 2-4 of us and split the cost of renting a 500 apartment or a small house. Or someone who has an extra room should make some extra money, buy renting it out. It would come out cheaper than always looking for a place LOL.An apartment to share would be OK, but maintenance and cleaning (sheets and towels) could become a problem to manage.
What if we found a hotel room, rented it like weekly. If 2 or 3 of us pitched in to get it started, then we could loan it out in 2 hour blocks for like $50 and just put the money into more nights rental. It could stay rented until the money stops. We should switch rooms or change the name occasionally to avoid detection. Any ideas on this? In a hotel we would not have to worry about cleaning etc. One person would need to manage the key to avoid double booking.
GB40.
Dirty Dingus
03-10-16, 10:08
An apartment to share would be OK, but maintenance and cleaning (sheets and towels) could become a problem to manage.
What if we found a hotel room, rented it like weekly. If 2 or 3 of us pitched in to get it started, then we could loan it out in 2 hour blocks for like $50 and just put the money into more nights rental. It could stay rented until the money stops. We should switch rooms or change the name occasionally to avoid detection. Any ideas on this? In a hotel we would not have to worry about cleaning etc. One person would need to manage the key to avoid double booking.
GB40.I see lots of potential problems. Who will get it in their name, and trust the others not to damage or steal the room supplies? I certainly wouldn't. Afterall, we are mostly strangers to each other on here. It is a great idea if all the participants adhered to the rules and didn't take advantage of the situation. Also, if 2 or 3 used it in a day, there would be no way to get sheets and towels changed between participants. I hate to be a pessimist, but I don't see it working out.
Fellow hobbyists, and SB lovers) I am just wondering if and how many of you in this group use KIK app to safely and confidentially communicate with your SB's, so that you don't have to give away your phone #? I am just trying to get the feel how popular is the app as the means of communication?I used it initially to make contact, but once we started seeing each other more, I used a hotmail acct too.
I've followed this and the Richmond threads for quite a while and have gotten some great info from everyone, so first off thanks for everything you guys have shared. I've got a few thoughts to add.
So far I've stumbled through both of these sites and have had mixed results. I've had no luck on SA at all. All but a couple profiles are dormant and no one there that really stands out. I've pretty much given up on it.
WYP is very interesting. There are definitely fake profiles out there, probably run by the site, but I've learned a few tricks to filter those out before wasting credits / money. It's not foolproof but it's pretty successful. First off, I never respond any more to offers / winks from girls. My profile has no public pic so these offers are either fake or scammer girls. Instead I'll view profiles I'm interested in and if a girl reciprocates and views my profile, I'll send a wink and get the conversation going. Every time I've done this, the girl is real. Whether she has GPS or is a scammer is to be figured out from there, but they are real and I've had success meeting the ones that filter through.
Never respond or wink to profiles with no public pics, or only one pic. I've also found profiles with things like 38 DD or BBW or other sexual acronyms like that in the user name are generally fake.
Also, I never converse through the site. I give them my name and email and say let's talk that way first. This is another good filter because there are some that just say "Send me the details of our date and I'll see you there" and never send me an email. I ain't that dumb honey but there are some who might be.
Finally, all my offers are for $100. No more, no less. It's a respectable number that gets the conversation going for $10. If they expect more than that, it's not worth it. PERIOD! When I meet the girl for the first date (IN A CROWDED, PUBLIC PLACE GUYS), I immediately give her a nice girly girl card with $50 in it so she knows I'm not there to mess with her. I've had one complain it wasn't the full amount and I just walked. The other meetings went great and we renegotiated the total "date" price and activities during the conversation.
What I'd really like is a way to track and share those "bad" GPS / Scammer profiles so others don't waste their money and make the same mistake. Of course the site would never want to do that itself. What would you guys think about a thread here for SA and WYP profiles / girl reviews? We do it for everything else.
John HandCock
03-10-16, 12:17
I've followed this and the Richmond threads for quite a while and have gotten some great info from everyone, so first off thanks for everything you guys have shared. I've got a few thoughts to add.
So far I've stumbled through both of these sites and have had mixed results. I've had no luck on SA at all. All but a couple profiles are dormant and no one there that really stands out. I've pretty much given up on it.
WYP is very interesting. There are definitely fake profiles out there, probably run by the site, but I've learned a few tricks to filter those out before wasting credits / money. It's not foolproof but it's pretty successful. First off, I never respond any more to offers / winks from girls. My profile has no public pic so these offers are either fake or scammer girls. Instead I'll view profiles I'm interested in and if a girl reciprocates and views my profile, I'll send a wink and get the conversation going. Every time I've done this, the girl is real. Whether she has GPS or is a scammer is to be figured out from there, but they are real and I've had success meeting the ones that filter through.
Never respond or wink to profiles with no public pics, or only one pic. I've also found profiles with things like 38 DD or BBW or other sexual acronyms like that in the user name are generally fake.
Also, I never converse through the site. I give them my name and email and say let's talk that way first. This is another good filter because there are some that just say "Send me the details of our date and I'll see you there" and never send me an email. I ain't that dumb honey but there are some who might be.
Finally, all my offers are for $100. No more, no less. It's a respectable number that gets the conversation going for $10. If they expect more than that, it's not worth it. PERIOD! When I meet the girl for the first date (IN A CROWDED, PUBLIC PLACE GUYS), I immediately give her a nice girly girl card with $50 in it so she knows I'm not there to mess with her. I've had one complain it wasn't the full amount and I just walked. The other meetings went great and we renegotiated the total "date" price and activities during the conversation.
What I'd really like is a way to track and share those "bad" GPS / Scammer profiles so others don't waste their money and make the same mistake. Of course the site would never want to do that itself. What would you guys think about a thread here for SA and WYP profiles / girl reviews? We do it for everything else.You don't have to create another thread. Post the links to the babys here and tell good or bad. The Cincinnati thread has done this and probably was the first to do this aand continues to.
Mravcapo69
03-10-16, 12:46
I've followed this and the Richmond threads for quite a while and have gotten some great info from everyone, so first off thanks for everything you guys have shared. I've got a few thoughts to add.
So far I've stumbled through both of these sites and have had mixed results. I've had no luck on SA at all. All but a couple profiles are dormant and no one there that really stands out. I've pretty much given up on it.
WYP is very interesting. There are definitely fake profiles out there, probably run by the site, but I've learned a few tricks to filter those out before wasting credits / money. It's not foolproof but it's pretty successful. First off, I never respond any more to offers / winks from girls. My profile has no public pic so these offers are either fake or scammer girls. Instead I'll view profiles I'm interested in and if a girl reciprocates and views my profile, I'll send a wink and get the conversation going. Every time I've done this, the girl is real. Whether she has GPS or is a scammer is to be figured out from there, but they are real and I've had success meeting the ones that filter through.
Never respond or wink to profiles with no public pics, or only one pic. I've also found profiles with things like 38 DD or BBW or other sexual acronyms like that in the user name are generally fake.
Also, I never converse through the site. I give them my name and email and say let's talk that way first. This is another good filter because there are some that just say "Send me the details of our date and I'll see you there" and never send me an email. I ain't that dumb honey but there are some who might be.
Finally, all my offers are for $100. No more, no less. It's a respectable number that gets the conversation going for $10. If they expect more than that, it's not worth it. PERIOD! When I meet the girl for the first date (IN A CROWDED, PUBLIC PLACE GUYS), I immediately give her a nice girly girl card with $50 in it so she knows I'm not there to mess with her. I've had one complain it wasn't the full amount and I just walked. The other meetings went great and we renegotiated the total "date" price and activities during the conversation.
What I'd really like is a way to track and share those "bad" GPS / Scammer profiles so others don't waste their money and make the same mistake. Of course the site would never want to do that itself. What would you guys think about a thread here for SA and WYP profiles / girl reviews? We do it for everything else.Nccbb69 - thanks for your input. I agree it may be a good idea to start the new treads for those two sites and tracking the fake ones. But there are so many other sites and avenues of searching for prospects, that some of the members use. Although I am somewhat new to this SB / SD idea, I've also followed the Richmond forum and learned a lot, or at least enough to interest me in this side of the hobby. Searching for legit escorts, and always being on a timer, lately doesn't appeal as much. It would be nice if we could liven up the conversation in this area on this subject. Share some valuable information in public or via private messages, but at least get it going. I'll do what I can to support the idea.
Mravcapo69
03-10-16, 12:48
I know there is a lot of buzz in here about sites such as SA and WYP, but I am curious if anyone had any success with "Date Broke College Girls", some chat apps ClL posts, Backpage posts, and similar. I am all about spending more $ on a baby, than on a memberships. Any input would be appreciated.
Dirty Dingus
03-10-16, 13:12
I have read some on both of these sugar baby threads. The Cincinnati discussion, in my opinion, is what it's all about. They discuss specific sugar babies in the area and often give links to their profiles. I know that many don't and won't give up their good "finds" and that is understandable. The Richmond discussion, in my opinion, is 99.9% hot air, and I find to be totally worthless. I don't even waste my time reading it anymore. I realize that many sugar daddies don't want to give up their great "finds" for fear of losing them or making the gal mad, but to make the discussion worthwhile, at least tell of the average or below average sugar babies so we can not waste our time on them. That is the direction that I would like to see this thread go, sharing specific info about specific babies. I do like the thread that we have going here. I have picked up some good pointers on the various sugar daddy sites
John HandCock
03-10-16, 13:34
I have read some on both of these sugar baby threads. The Cincinnati discussion, in my opinion, is what it's all about. They discuss specific sugar babies in the area and often give links to their profiles. I know that many don't and won't give up their good "finds" and that is understandable. The Richmond discussion, in my opinion, is 99.9% hot air, and I find to be totally worthless. I don't even waste my time reading it anymore. I realize that many sugar daddies don't want to give up their great "finds" for fear of losing them or making the gal mad, but to make the discussion worthwhile, at least tell of the average or below average sugar babies so we can not waste our time on them. That is the direction that I would like to see this thread go, sharing specific info about specific babies. I do like the thread that we have going here. I have picked up some good pointers on the various sugar daddy sitesCongratulations, your right on spot. If the babys don't pull or deactivate their profile then they are still in the market while seeing the daddy. The Richmond thread early on contains alot of good info but evolved into a dick measuring thread with everyone that has 10 babies that are 10's. As you said no links or any kind of useful information other than some entertaining fiction.
Good post on your part and good luck with having an informative forum. Oh the Knoxville thread is also very informative.
Mravcapo69
03-10-16, 22:20
I see lots of potential problems. Who will get it in their name, and trust the others not to damage or steal the room supplies? I certainly wouldn't. Afterall, we are mostly strangers to each other on here. It is a great idea if all the participants adhered to the rules and didn't take advantage of the situation. Also, if 2 or 3 used it in a day, there would be no way to get sheets and towels changed between participants. I hate to be a pessimist, but I don't see it working out.A lots of great suggestions here, both ways. Yes renting a room on weekly basis could be beneficial, but I can also understand the concerns about the trust that are expressed. I think the point is, that if we keep discussing it, some good will come out of it. The idea here is to work together on something that could benefit more of us, instead trying to take an advantage of each other. People create partnerships and do work together all the time. This is a small risk to take, for a much larger benefit. If we would think hard we could probably come up with a good solution for most or all potential problems. I know this would not be for everyone, but certainly could help few people interested.
Gastonian4
03-11-16, 10:01
A lots of great suggestions here, both ways. Yes renting a room on weekly basis could be beneficial, but I can also understand the concerns about the trust that are expressed. I think the point is, that if we keep discussing it, some good will come out of it. The idea here is to work together on something that could benefit more of us, instead trying to take an advantage of each other. People create partnerships and do work together all the time. This is a small risk to take, for a much larger benefit. If we would think hard we could probably come up with a good solution for most or all potential problems. I know this would not be for everyone, but certainly could help few people interested.This might not be for everyone because of how far away you are from Gastonia and depending on the quality of the girl you might not want to take her to it for the first meeting, but the HT in Gastonia is only $25 for an hour or so, and as long as you know what you are doing you won't have to give I'd. Kind of like the Bates hotel but it's got a bed and I've never heard of issues like some of the other hotels in the area. The HT is just a mile or so off exit 17 on I85.
Mravcapo69
03-11-16, 13:17
This might not be for everyone because of how far away you are from Gastonia and depending on the quality of the girl you might not want to take her to it for the first meeting, but the HT in Gastonia is only $25 for an hour or so, and as long as you know what you are doing you won't have to give I'd. Kind of like the Bates hotel but it's got a bed and I've never heard of issues like some of the other hotels in the area. The HT is just a mile or so off exit 17 on I85.Hello Gastonian4! I hope this is the same Gastonian from years back but just 4 added at the end of the name. I enjoyed sharing resources with you years back, and appreciate your help. That is good to know about Gastonia and that there are places in case I am in that area. We'll just have to look for something similar in Charlotte. If you know of any, please share the info. As always, I appreciate your help.
Mravcapo69
03-11-16, 14:20
Congratulations, your right on spot. If the babys don't pull or deactivate their profile then they are still in the market while seeing the daddy. The Richmond thread early on contains alot of good info but evolved into a dick measuring thread with everyone that has 10 babies that are 10's. As you said no links or any kind of useful information other than some entertaining fiction.
Good post on your part and good luck with having an informative forum. Oh the Knoxville thread is also very informative.All these other forums are certainly great reference for us to get ideas, but focusing on our forum, to grow it and be helpful to each other is my priority. When I say helpful, I am not thinking about passing a SB's between us, unless of course, she want's to be passed around. Some low profile escorts don't mind that, but many SB's are not very accepting of an idea. I am certainly not a selfish guy, and I'll share just about anyone who want's to be shared, or at least write a reviews about those that are advertising and don't deserve attention. Sharing links on SB's profile from SA or similar sites, I think is a great suggestion. But being careful with that is a must. Some SB's don't like to feel like they are being passed around. Especially if you find them outside of those paid sites. They typically are very low profile, and want to keep it that way. They understand the relationship and arrangement, but still want to be with one person. I am seeing a nice young lady right now who responded to my add. She has a boyfriend and want's to keep that side of her life unchanged, but got herself in a little bind with rent an needed help. Being a good samaritan, I certainly didn't mind offering my help. That's a kind of situation, none us want to screw up by passing them around, regardless of how giving and sharing we are in here. I certainly wouldn't want to screw anything up in her personal life either. I certainly understand and respect that. I think many, of us, including myself, know how to get a SB, but run into problems where we don't know where to take them for those few hours during the day that we want to spend with them. In most cases we don't go to their home or bring them to ours. Some of the older SB's, have been doing this for a while so they may be already set up for such occasions, and you can use their place. But most of the younger ones either still live at home or with roommates, and don't exactly want to advertise to everyone what they do.
Where I would like to see this forum go, instead of sharing SB's between us (unless they want that), is to help each other with resources. Such as insites on places that accept short term rentals, allow early check-ins any time of the day. Also, perhaps, exploring other sources of looking for new talent besides these paid websites. I understand that these websites are bringing already someone with the interest in the lifestyle, and they do the screening for us, which is real convenient and in one place. But sometimes, the hunt itself is a just as exciting, and convincing the young lady to try it, after she never even thought about it, and succeeding, has it's charm. Sure it's more work, but it's also more fun, at least to me. Anyway, there are other free avenues for talent search, through some social media websites, chat apps, dating sites, free classifieds, etc. So, if any of you has a good experience and success with such resources, please share and explain your success, how and why did it work.
Dirty Dingus
03-11-16, 15:47
All these other forums are certainly great reference for us to get ideas, but focusing on our forum, to grow it and be helpful to each other is my priority. When I say helpful, I am not thinking about passing a SB's between us, unless of course, she want's to be passed around. Some low profile escorts don't mind that, but many SB's are not very accepting of an idea. I am certainly not a selfish guy, and I'll share just about anyone who want's to be shared, or at least write a reviews about those that are advertising and don't deserve attention. Sharing links on SB's profile from SA or similar sites, I think is a great suggestion. But being careful with that is a must. Some SB's don't like to feel like they are being passed around. Especially if you find them outside of those paid sites. They typically are very low profile, and want to keep it that way. They understand the relationship and arrangement, but still want to be with one person. I am seeing a nice young lady right now who responded to my add. She has a boyfriend and want's to keep that side of her life unchanged, but got herself in a little bind with rent an needed help. Being a good samaritan, I certainly didn't mind offering my help. That's a kind of situation, none us want to screw up by passing them around, regardless of how giving and sharing we are in here. I certainly wouldn't want to screw anything up in her personal life either. I certainly understand and respect that. I think many, of us, including myself, know how to get a SB, but run into problems where we don't know where to take them for those few hours during the day that we want to spend with them. In most cases we don't go to their home or bring them to ours. Some of the older SB's, have been doing this for a while so they may be already set up for such occasions, and you can use their place. But most of the younger ones either still live at home or with roommates, and don't exactly want to advertise to everyone what they do.
Where I would like to see this forum go, instead of sharing SB's between us (unless they want that), is to help each other with resources. Such as insites on places that accept short term rentals, allow early check-ins any time of the day. Also, perhaps, exploring other sources of looking for new talent besides these paid websites. I understand that these websites are bringing already someone with the interest in the lifestyle, and they do the screening for us, which is real convenient and in one place. But sometimes, the hunt itself is a just as exciting, and convincing the young lady to try it, after she never even thought about it, and succeeding, has it's charm. Sure it's more work, but it's also more fun, at least to me. Anyway, there are other free avenues for talent search, through some social media websites, chat apps, dating sites, free classifieds, etc. So, if any of you has a good experience and success with such resources, please share and explain your success, how and why did it work.It would be great if we all would share our good finds, but that probably won't happen. We could actually use this forum as a communication point and just privately email the guys on here that are truly interested in sugar babies. In reality most guys are going to "protect" their investments even if their babies are seeing multiple guys. I think what John was saying is that if they have an active profile then they are actively searching for a sugar daddy, no matter what she tells the present sugar daddy. At the very minimum we could use this forum as a means of warning other daddies about bad, dishonest, rip-off sugar babies. I really see no need to be like the Richmond forum where its just a bragfest.
NC Transplant
03-11-16, 16:21
Aren't most sugar babies just looking for one rich guy to take care of them? Just a thought but it may not be possible to share the information so another guy can get some of the action too? Most of these gals don't think of themselves as escorts and they aren't looking for multiple guys are they? Maybe the information on rip offs can be shared but I don't know if it is possible to share the good ones or they become an escort? Just a thought?
It would be great if we all would share our good finds, but that probably won't happen. We could actually use this forum as a communication point and just privately email the guys on here that are truly interested in sugar babies. In reality most guys are going to "protect" their investments even if their babies are seeing multiple guys. I think what John was saying is that if they have an active profile then they are actively searching for a sugar daddy, no matter what she tells the present sugar daddy. At the very minimum we could use this forum as a means of warning other daddies about bad, dishonest, rip-off sugar babies. I really see no need to be like the Richmond forum where its just a bragfest.
Dirty Dingus
03-11-16, 16:34
Aren't most sugar babies just looking for one rich guy to take care of them? Just a thought but it may not be possible to share the information so another guy can get some of the action too? Most of these gals don't think of themselves as escorts and they aren't looking for multiple guys are they? Maybe the information on rip offs can be shared but I don't know if it is possible to share the good ones or they become an escort? Just a thought?True, some are only looking for one guy. I have seen quite a few that are seeing multiple daddies. Of course they don't want to be thought of as escorts but quite frankly, they are basically f-ing for money. I have been seeing a sugar baby for quite some time. She is seeing multiple sugar daddies. How do I know? One of her sugar baby friends told me. I agree with you that guys are not going to share the info for fear of losing out. If you read the Cincinnati board they do provide specific info on some of the good and bad SBs. The ideal thing would be to have some sort of private board that is not public to discuss these more delicate details.
NC Transplant
03-11-16, 16:53
I suppose some could be accepting several daddies for smaller donations to the cause. They would be lower mileage but still the same in my book. If you get down to it just about every woman is a hoe at heart. How many women use sex to get what they want? Just about every damn one. There are some exceptions. That is why the pussy sometimes dries up after you marry them. They got what they want.
True, some are only looking for one guy. I have seen quite a few that are seeing multiple daddies. Of course they don't want to be thought of as escorts but quite frankly, they are basically f-ing for money. I have been seeing a sugar baby for quite some time. She is seeing multiple sugar daddies. How do I know? One of her sugar baby friends told me. I agree with you that guys are not going to share the info for fear of losing out. If you read the Cincinnati board they do provide specific info on some of the good and bad SBs. The ideal thing would be to have some sort of private board that is not public to discuss these more delicate details.
Mravcapo69
03-12-16, 00:01
Aren't most sugar babies just looking for one rich guy to take care of them? Just a thought but it may not be possible to share the information so another guy can get some of the action too? Most of these gals don't think of themselves as escorts and they aren't looking for multiple guys are they? Maybe the information on rip offs can be shared but I don't know if it is possible to share the good ones or they become an escort? Just a thought?NC Transplant, I agree 100%. That's pretty much what I was trying to say earlier. Most of these girls do not want to be passed around, because they don't see themselves as escorts. They usually stick with one, or just a few daddies, depending how many can satisfy their needs. Otherwise it makes them the same like escorts, and most of them don't want to go that rout. Actually, a good number of them see only one daddy at the time. Now, like someone mentioned, if their profiles are active, and they may be seeing more than one daddy at the time, that's still in significantly smaller numbers than your average escort. So helping the good ones to stay UTR is completely understandable. Once we're done with them, and if they decide to reactivate their profiles on SA or any other site, at that point it's all fair game. Reporting on bad ones should be a definite must, as a warning to the rest of us.. Or, if anyone is considering the particular SB, and want's to run her profile on the forum, just to check if any one of us had any experience with that particular one, that would be understandable.
NC Transplant, I agree 100%. That's pretty much what I was trying to say earlier. Most of these girls do not want to be passed around, because they don't see themselves as escorts. They usually stick with one, or just a few daddies, depending how many can satisfy their needs. Otherwise it makes them the same like escorts, and most of them don't want to go that rout. Actually, a good number of them see only one daddy at the time. Now, like someone mentioned, if their profiles are active, and they may be seeing more than one daddy at the time, that's still in significantly smaller numbers than your average escort. So helping the good ones to stay UTR is completely understandable. Once we're done with them, and if they decide to reactivate their profiles on SA or any other site, at that point it's all fair game. Reporting on bad ones should be a definite must, as a warning to the rest of us.. Or, if anyone is considering the particular SB, and want's to run her profile on the forum, just to check if any one of us had any experience with that particular one, that would be understandable.Agreed. Passing along warnings about scammers or flakes is a good idea, but I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. I've asked them to be discrete about this and I owe them the same courtesy in return.
NC Transplant
03-12-16, 11:41
Makes sense. I just wish my pockets was deep enough to get into this game. But there are other risks involved in getting overly involved in any one gal.
NC Transplant, I agree 100%. That's pretty much what I was trying to say earlier. Most of these girls do not want to be passed around, because they don't see themselves as escorts. They usually stick with one, or just a few daddies, depending how many can satisfy their needs. Otherwise it makes them the same like escorts, and most of them don't want to go that rout. Actually, a good number of them see only one daddy at the time. Now, like someone mentioned, if their profiles are active, and they may be seeing more than one daddy at the time, that's still in significantly smaller numbers than your average escort. So helping the good ones to stay UTR is completely understandable. Once we're done with them, and if they decide to reactivate their profiles on SA or any other site, at that point it's all fair game. Reporting on bad ones should be a definite must, as a warning to the rest of us.. Or, if anyone is considering the particular SB, and want's to run her profile on the forum, just to check if any one of us had any experience with that particular one, that would be understandable.
John HandCock
03-12-16, 11:44
Never pass a sb onto another monger, especially guys that doesn't even belong to the SA or any other site. That is a big NO.
Posting links is ok because only paying members to the site can contact them. Now if their profile is up then they are open for business.
Most of these girls have more than one SD, count on that. There is the occasional girl who sees only one and they usually pull the profile or deactivate it. Again if profile is up they are.
Looking the same as you are.
Now posting the link and info as if they show up, are the pics accurate, what kind of arrangement they are looking for, are they pros, utr girls, useful info is quite all right. NEVER PASS THEIR NUMBER TO SOMEONE ELSE.
Now as to volume of guys they see most have quite a few, especially if your doing the college girls. Most are very wild and party hardy LOL. You would be surprised at the number getting hammered and doing 2-3 guys at the same time. Oh and remember that the college boys are getting it free. So don't throw out the low volume of guys that they are fucking.
If you giys want an useful forum then publish links and info. If you just want to do fictional writing about all the babes you have then there are several other forums that do that. Oh they don't give out any info either just all the 10's they are fucking.
Gigabyte40
03-12-16, 13:21
Agreed. Passing along warnings about scammers or flakes is a good idea, but I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. I've asked them to be discrete about this and I owe them the same courtesy in return.I agree too: that I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. Here's why:
Girls that advertise on WYP or SA expect a SD who will take care of them and not share her info with his friends. It is intended to be a discreet arrangement. Also, I don't mind telling you about some girls on BP or in the strip club who are easily accessible to everyone. But I invest a considerable amount of time and money to meet girls on SB sites. I'm not going to go to all that trouble and expense and then just give you her number. You got to work for it like I did.
Now I will share techniques and tactics to guide you. And here's my first tip:
Login in to WYP. Setup a profile. Purchase some credits and start shopping. You will have to contact a bunch of them just to find a diamond-in-the-rough. But they're out there waiting for you.
GB40.
Agreed. Passing along warnings about scammers or flakes is a good idea, but I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. I've asked them to be discrete about this and I owe them the same courtesy in return.I had a fair share of them on SA. Below are top 2 scams that I faced. Now I do laugh thinking of them.
1. I started chatting with a beautiful probably a 10 22 ish girl. We flirted a lot and skyped about once or twice. Everything was perfect. The catch here is she won't meet outside and she only want to meet in the hotel room. Even though we skyped, I was little skeptical. We arragnged a date and the plan is to pick her from a public place. I did not book a room by this time. I went a little early and scooped the whole place just to make sure. I parked my car and started the wait game. A girl came with couple of guys, started putting on make up and started texting me from a different number with a story like her phone is gone blah blah. I was watching the whole thing from my car and started panicking on how they are trying to scam me. She is not the girl in the pics or the one who skyoer. Even now I am not sure how she pulled it. There is no trace of her pics on the web. I reported to SA and they deleted her of the very next day.
2. Started flirting with a beautiful 9 ish girl and planned the date. Again no trace of her pics on the web. As usual, asked for skype and she was up for it. Just want to see her pretty face. When the Skype was turned on, it was guy and he is interested to be my sugar daddy. Disconnected the Skype immediately and blocked him. He started texting me saying that he is willing to give or do anything for my virgin ass. I said fuck off and blocked him as well. I did not sleep for almost 2 days. Again reported to SA and they removed him right away and they have apologized for the inconvenience.
Now I really do laugh when I think about it, but I was really scared and pissed at that moment. I had good memeories on SA though. That's for another time. Bottom line is, We should really start calling out the scammers here and I will do the same in future.
Stay tight and have fun.
I had a fair share of them on SA. Below are top 2 scams that I faced. Now I do laugh thinking of them.
1. I started chatting with a beautiful probably a 10 22 ish girl. We flirted a lot and skyped about once or twice. Everything was perfect. The catch here is she won't meet outside and she only want to meet in the hotel room. Even though we skyped, I was little skeptical. We arragnged a date and the plan is to pick her from a public place. I did not book a room by this time. I went a little early and scooped the whole place just to make sure. I parked my car and started the wait game. A girl came with couple of guys, started putting on make up and started texting me from a different number with a story like her phone is gone blah blah. I was watching the whole thing from my car and started panicking on how they are trying to scam me. She is not the girl in the pics or the one who skyoer. Even now I am not sure how she pulled it. There is no trace of her pics on the web. I reported to SA and they deleted her of the very next day.
2. Started flirting with a beautiful 9 ish girl and planned the date. Again no trace of her pics on the web. As usual, asked for skype and she was up for it. Just want to see her pretty face. When the Skype was turned on, it was guy and he is interested to be my sugar daddy. Disconnected the Skype immediately and blocked him. He started texting me saying that he is willing to give or do anything for my virgin ass. I said fuck off and blocked him as well. I did not sleep for almost 2 days. Again reported to SA and they removed him right away and they have apologized for the inconvenience.
Now I really do laugh when I think about it, but I was really scared and pissed at that moment. I had good memeories on SA though. That's for another time. Bottom line is, We should really start calling out the scammers here and I will do the same in future.
Stay tight and have fun.Dang! That second story is crazy. Good to know that SA addresses complaints.
Dirty Dingus
03-12-16, 14:21
I had a fair share of them on SA. Below are top 2 scams that I faced. Now I do laugh thinking of them.
1. I started chatting with a beautiful probably a 10 22 ish girl. We flirted a lot and skyped about once or twice. Everything was perfect. The catch here is she won't meet outside and she only want to meet in the hotel room. Even though we skyped, I was little skeptical. We arragnged a date and the plan is to pick her from a public place. I did not book a room by this time. I went a little early and scooped the whole place just to make sure. I parked my car and started the wait game. A girl came with couple of guys, started putting on make up and started texting me from a different number with a story like her phone is gone blah blah. I was watching the whole thing from my car and started panicking on how they are trying to scam me. She is not the girl in the pics or the one who skyoer. Even now I am not sure how she pulled it. There is no trace of her pics on the web. I reported to SA and they deleted her of the very next day.
2. Started flirting with a beautiful 9 ish girl and planned the date. Again no trace of her pics on the web. As usual, asked for skype and she was up for it. Just want to see her pretty face. When the Skype was turned on, it was guy and he is interested to be my sugar daddy. Disconnected the Skype immediately and blocked him. He started texting me saying that he is willing to give or do anything for my virgin ass. I said fuck off and blocked him as well. I did not sleep for almost 2 days. Again reported to SA and they removed him right away and they have apologized for the inconvenience.
Now I really do laugh when I think about it, but I was really scared and pissed at that moment. I had good memeories on SA though. That's for another time. Bottom line is, We should really start calling out the scammers here and I will do the same in future.
Stay tight and have fun.I had one potentially dangerous experience. I had chatted with 2 gals on SDforme several years ago. They were from Greensboro, and we decided to meet for dinner in Charlotte. I sat in the parking lot waiting. I am not sure they ever showed up, but I did see one car approach with 2 blondes in it. They left so I am not 100% sure if it was them or not. I bailed because my gut feeling was starting to get the best of me. Several months later these 2 tried to rob a sugar daddy that they had been seeing at knife point.
One other gal that I recently talked with off SDforme wanted me to pick her up at her house. I was uncomfortable with that. A week or so later she had acquired a car and could meet me for lunch. The morning that we were to meet, I asked what restaurant she wanted to meet at. She said it didn't matter cause she was going to eat anyways. Strange!! So I suggested we just meet inside the mall. She didn't want to do that, but instead wanted me to meet her at her car in the parking lot. Again, I bailed because of my gut feeling.
Another strange one. I had talked to a gal off SA from Florence, SC. She was willing to drive to Charlotte. Claimed she would Skype to prove she was real. The Skype name she gave did not exist. I texted her a few weeks later, apparently, a gay guy had got her number and was wanting to hook up. I blocked him. Later, she recontacted me through SA and gave me a new number. We conversed back and forth for awhile, the suddenly a guy saying he was her bf texted me thanking me for breaking them up. I never replied but felt like telling him that his gf is the one hoing around on him.
Moral of the story: Think with your big head, trust your gut, and ignore what the little head is trying to get you to do!
Most of these girls have more than one SD, count on that. There is the occasional girl who sees only one and they usually pull the profile or deactivate it. Again if profile is up they are.This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.
What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?
I had one potentially dangerous experience. I had chatted with 2 gals on SDforme several years ago. They were from Greensboro, and we decided to meet for dinner in Charlotte. I sat in the parking lot waiting. I am not sure they ever showed up, but I did see one car approach with 2 blondes in it. They left so I am not 100% sure if it was them or not. I bailed because my gut feeling was starting to get the best of me. Several months later these 2 tried to rob a sugar daddy that they had been seeing at knife point.
One other gal that I recently talked with off SDforme wanted me to pick her up at her house. I was uncomfortable with that. A week or so later she had acquired a car and could meet me for lunch. The morning that we were to meet, I asked what restaurant she wanted to meet at. She said it didn't matter cause she was going to eat anyways. Strange!! So I suggested we just meet inside the mall. She didn't want to do that, but instead wanted me to meet her at her car in the parking lot. Again, I bailed because of my gut feeling.
Another strange one. I had talked to a gal off SA from Florence, SC. She was willing to drive to Charlotte. Claimed she would Skype to prove she was real. The Skype name she gave did not exist. I texted her a few weeks later, apparently, a gay guy had got her number and was wanting to hook up. I blocked him. Later, she recontacted me through SA and gave me a new number. We conversed back and forth for awhile, the suddenly a guy saying he was her bf texted me thanking me for breaking them up. I never replied but felt like telling him that his gf is the one hoing around on him.
Moral of the story: Think with your big head, trust your gut, and ignore what the little head is trying to get you to do!I hate girls that trick their SD. Because of all the scams I restricted my hunt between 30-40 and was always lucky. They are good at bed though.
NC Transplant
03-12-16, 19:55
My understanding is the only difference is lower millage. A SB has one or just a few Daddies that she sees where a hooker may see several guys a day. There may be more accessibility too. My pockets are deep enough to afford a SB. Could feel more like a relationship rather than a hit it and go? Just how I see it. Just a more exclusive way for the same game.
This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.
What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?
Dirty Dingus
03-13-16, 10:03
This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.
What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?To me most sugar babies are about the same as a hooker that has just a few regular customers. Most of them don't want to think of themselves as escorts, but its a very fine line between the two. There are quite a few professional sugar babies, and they depend on their daddies to provide them the level of living that they are use to. When they lose a daddy, they just pick up another to take up the slack. I am with you though, not very much difference at all!
John HandCock
03-13-16, 10:56
This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.
What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?Technically your right, if they accept money for sex that's prostitution. Thats the law. Now if we go by that then not sure if anything outside of marriage is not and some will argue that is.
Is there a gray area? If your dating and you help with a bill would you consider them as hookers?
I agree with you that if your paying then that's hoo king. Cut off the money and see if they are still there.
Mongers like to think they have rediscover the wheel with the term SB. Younger less used pussy that cares about them while still paying for it.
Mravcapo69
03-13-16, 14:28
To me most sugar babies are about the same as a hooker that has just a few regular customers. Most of them don't want to think of themselves as escorts, but its a very fine line between the two. There are quite a few professional sugar babies, and they depend on their daddies to provide them the level of living that they are use to. When they lose a daddy, they just pick up another to take up the slack. I am with you though, not very much difference at all!I couldn't disagree with this, even if I wanted to. The difference is only in milage. Several years ago, I red this line somewhere, if I remember correctly, while reading some eastern philosophical writings, related to femininity and the "power of pussy" In a rough translation, it said something like this "All women are ******! Sorry mother, you're women too. " It took a while to digest that, but as I get older, it gets clearer to me. All it takes is right circumstances, and a strength of the desire toward something, to bring that "inner *****" to the surface in every woman, and to use the pussy to get whatever they want. And of course, our radars get turned on and pick up the vibes making our laser guided missiles search for the target. With that in mind, I choose to have fun and hit as many targets as I can afford. Because, in the end, it will cost me one way or the other. I'll share what I can, whenever I can. Protect the gems, expose the fakes, and warn the rest. Play safe!
John HandCock
03-13-16, 15:49
K here is what I don't understand. Why do the mongers say that the SB experience of feeling like a relationship. If that's what they seek then why not develope a regular GF, and help her out without her asking for help. Heaven forbid they do that.
My reasons for doing this is its faster than the normal process. I'm also older with a taste for younger women (not the 18-20's group) that most seem to shoot for. The last reason is I pay for it because its faster and this is the only reason most younger girls would even consider it. I believe that to be the case with every monger here. If you think they care again cut the sugar off. There again there are exceptions but lets not foget we are paying for the company, the sex and their feelings for us.
NC Transplant
03-13-16, 16:51
I have yet to meet a woman that won't use her pussy to get what she wants. How about a woman that lays on her back to get a job promotion? Isn't that the same thing too?
I couldn't disagree with this, even if I wanted to. The difference is only in milage. Several years ago, I red this line somewhere, if I remember correctly, while reading some eastern philosophical writings, related to femininity and the "power of pussy" In a rough translation, it said something like this "All women are ******! Sorry mother, you're women too. " It took a while to digest that, but as I get older, it gets clearer to me. All it takes is right circumstances, and a strength of the desire toward something, to bring that "inner *****" to the surface in every woman, and to use the pussy to get whatever they want. And of course, our radars get turned on and pick up the vibes making our laser guided missiles search for the target. With that in mind, I choose to have fun and hit as many targets as I can afford. Because, in the end, it will cost me one way or the other. I'll share what I can, whenever I can. Protect the gems, expose the fakes, and warn the rest. Play safe!
Mravcapo69
03-13-16, 18:51
I have yet to meet a woman that won't use her pussy to get what she wants. How about a woman that lays on her back to get a job promotion? Isn't that the same thing too?Exactly! Payment is a payment, regardless what shape or form it comes in. However, you only get arrested for the cash payment, because the Uncle Sam can't collect his portion of it. Go figure) This is how it's been since the world started, and will most likely remain for along time.
Technically your right, if they accept money for sex that's prostitution. Thats the law. Now if we go by that then not sure if anything outside of marriage is not and some will argue that is.
Is there a gray area? If your dating and you help with a bill would you consider them as hookers?
I agree with you that if your paying then that's hoo king. Cut off the money and see if they are still there.
Mongers like to think they have rediscover the wheel with the term SB. Younger less used pussy that cares about them while still paying for it.I get the sugar baby thing when it's really a sugar baby thing. Rich guy takes care of hot chick she fucks him a lot, been going on forever. Of course she wouldn't fuck him without the money and if she's really super hot money alone, unless it's a fuckload of money isn't going to be enough. That's a different thing.
My question was confined to the issue of multiple clients. If a chick is taking money from more than one guy then she's a hooker. She might be a low volume hooker but she's a hooker.
I think lots of guys are falling for the sugar baby / sugar daddy shit that are not the sole source and it's a way for them to feel 'better' than other johns.
To me it just sounds like more expensive pussy.
As far as the covert prostitution that passes for love in a lot of relationships, yeah we could have that convo over a bunch of beers.
Shakey1965
03-13-16, 23:21
I get the sugar baby thing when it's really a sugar baby thing. Rich guy takes care of hot chick she fucks him a lot, been going on forever. Of course she wouldn't fuck him without the money and if she's really super hot money alone, unless it's a fuckload of money isn't going to be enough. That's a different thing.
My question was confined to the issue of multiple clients. If a chick is taking money from more than one guy then she's a hooker. She might be a low volume hooker but she's a hooker.
I think lots of guys are falling for the sugar baby / sugar daddy shit that are not the sole source and it's a way for them to feel 'better' than other johns.
To me it just sounds like more expensive pussy.
As far as the covert prostitution that passes for love in a lot of relationships, yeah we could have that convo over a bunch of beers.You are spot on. If she has more than one guy supporting her, she's a hooker and you are a john. Its simple. Guys that pay these chicks on a per date basis are in complete denial. If you want to call it a SD / SB relationship then step up and make it exclusive, otherwise you are just getting played.
You are spot on. If she has more than one guy supporting her, she's a hooker and you are a john. Its simple. Guys that pay these chicks on a per date basis are in complete denial. If you want to call it a SD / SB relationship then step up and make it exclusive, otherwise you are just getting played.Who is denial? I'm well aware of the fact that the SBs I see likely aren't exclusive. I've never asked them to be. But I'm also quite confident that they aren't holed up in crappy hotel taking it from 10 guys a night to support a drug habit. To each his own. I like to go get drinks or dinner with a cute younger girl and then have some fun. Yes it's more expensive, but so what. If anyone is in denial, it's the girls who think because we go to dinner or because we might text back and forth once in a while that they aren't selling their bodies. I'm well aware of what's going on. She ain't my GF. I'm not dumb.
NC Transplant
03-14-16, 09:35
Good point. It will take a shit load of money to get an exclusive thing with a SB. Then you really don't know for sure.
I get the sugar baby thing when it's really a sugar baby thing. Rich guy takes care of hot chick she fucks him a lot, been going on forever. Of course she wouldn't fuck him without the money and if she's really super hot money alone, unless it's a fuckload of money isn't going to be enough. That's a different thing.
My question was confined to the issue of multiple clients. If a chick is taking money from more than one guy then she's a hooker. She might be a low volume hooker but she's a hooker.
I think lots of guys are falling for the sugar baby / sugar daddy shit that are not the sole source and it's a way for them to feel 'better' than other johns.
To me it just sounds like more expensive pussy.
As far as the covert prostitution that passes for love in a lot of relationships, yeah we could have that convo over a bunch of beers.
John HandCock
03-14-16, 11:05
Good point. It will take a shit load of money to get an exclusive thing with a SB. Then you really don't know for sure.Your wrong on this. Each individual girl has different needs and wants. Now if your years older and are shooting for the 18-20 group your going to pay out the ass for them exclusively.
I have 2, one 42 who just wanted her car payment paid monthly. The second is a chubby 28 year old who drives an hour each way plus $12 in tolls to see me a couple times a month, oh and she is a freak. I give her $50 for gas and tolls. Oh both pulled the profiles and after 4 months Itold the 42 year old I wouldn't be able to continue the arrangement. Was no problem and still see her a couple of times a month.
Now most of you guys wouldn't look at either one or would hit it a couple of times then move on but if you keep your end of the arrangement and treat them good you can find girls for little or nothing that are exclusive. They are there you just have to look for them. Oh I'm 64.
Dirty Dingus
03-14-16, 12:45
The SB / SD thing is another venue for getting pussy. Is it hooking or isn't it? Does it matter? I get what I want, she gets what she wants. It's a very simple concept. No one is in denial of anything. Just like some of you like to go in a drug infested neighborhood and pick up drug addicts for a $10 BJ. I don't understand your thinking but at the same time I say more power to you. Don't knock the other guys that enjoy banging a hot college gal. This discussion sort of reminds me of a bunch of kids playing with toys and one is jealous over the toy that another has.
Gigabyte40
03-14-16, 14:41
The SB / SD thing is another venue for getting pussy. Is it hooking or isn't it? Does it matter? I get what I want, she gets what she wants. It's a very simple concept. No one is in denial of anything. Just like some of you like to go in a drug infested neighborhood and pick up drug addicts for a $10 BJ. I don't understand your thinking but at the same time I say more power to you. Don't knock the other guys that enjoy banging a hot college gal. This discussion sort of reminds me of a bunch of kids playing with toys and one is jealous over the toy that another has.Yep, the SB / SD concept is just a new name for the same old thing that's been going on forever: Men trying to find a way into a woman's pants. Whether you pay now, pay later, buy her jewelry or buy her dinner, you're going to pay for it eventually. Hell I met one that I pay through paypal! And what's wrong with helping each other out? She has something you need and you have something she needs.
The internet way of meeting is now more popular. Whether its a dating site, arrangement site, SB site, backpage, craigslist, it usually leads to one thing. Pussy. Of course relationships can develop, you can have feelings for the girl whether she is genuine or not. But as long as you can get that pussy it's worth it. I've met them in strip clubs, on the street, at Walmart, and now online. And it's all good.
I'm glad we have this site to discuss all the different ways we go about getting pussy. I learn something new everyday.
GB40.
StormyTuesday
03-23-16, 21:57
It would be great if we all would share our good finds, but that probably won't happen. We could actually use this forum as a communication point and just privately email the guys on here that are truly interested in sugar babies. In reality most guys are going to "protect" their investments even if their babies are seeing multiple guys. I think what John was saying is that if they have an active profile then they are actively searching for a sugar daddy, no matter what she tells the present sugar daddy. At the very minimum we could use this forum as a means of warning other daddies about bad, dishonest, rip-off sugar babies. I really see no need to be like the Richmond forum where its just a bragfest.I have been in the sugar bowl since last summer after a year or so of seeing reviewed BP girls (have posted 30 plus reviews on the oThER site). SA has been an oasis for me personally but it requires much extra effort, patience and emotional fortitude. I stumbled onto the Richmond SB forum last summer as well and it was extremely helpful in giving me some perspective. I have been in the FC with 17 of which 9 were multiple (2 to 15 visits). I am near chapel hill and at first used a 2 hour radius (Charlotte, Wilmington) but now try to stay within an hour radius. IMHO there is plenty of opportunity for discretely (preferably by PM) sharing former SBs that are no longer in the rotation for reasons of no fault of the SB. Although a good pecentage of the SBs are in it to find a long term SD, many realize that they will be played by SDs for 2 to 3 visits, so they are (like us) always looking for replacements / back-ups.
Good point. It will take a shit load of money to get an exclusive thing with a SB. Then you really don't know for sure.LOL! I have one down here that is satisfied that I take her to shop as Wallyworld. I took here to the Olive Garden, and you would have thought I went to a place that cost $200 a plate. She is a small town girl, and it shows in her tastes. All I know is I will keep her that way. As far as I know, I am pretty much her only SD. Hell the girl does not even have a car. If I end up having to find another one, I will only look at the Podunk girls. They are coming up from dirt so anything looks good to them.
I'm assuming most sugar daddy's are in a relationship but seeking discreet fun outside of that? Maybe I'm wrong here.
But lets assume that's the case, what do you guys actually put into your profile on sites like SA? Do you put a pic?
Wanting to explore this side of the hobby but not sure how much to expose or not.
Thanks for any tips.
PK.
Dirty Dingus
03-26-16, 08:53
I'm assuming most sugar daddy's are in a relationship but seeking discreet fun outside of that? Maybe I'm wrong here.
But lets assume that's the case, what do you guys actually put into your profile on sites like SA? Do you put a pic?
Wanting to explore this side of the hobby but not sure how much to expose or not.
Thanks for any tips.
PK.I have been on and off SA for a number of years. Even though I am completely single, I do not post a pic. I just don't want family or friends seeing me on a sugar daddy site. I have posted a fake pic with the face blurred out, and then post real pics in the private section. However, if someone is interested, I prefer just to text or email a pic. I do think you might get more responses if you have a pic posted, but I have never really had a problem making contracts without a pic. I have a pinger number that I use for texting. I also hear that google voice is a good choice.
SA is a bit expensive for a monthly membership ($70), but I have found it to be far superior to most if the other sites. It can be a crap shoot as to how many contacts you can make in a month, but don't get discouraged. Some months I have made few contacts, and others are very productive.
Mravcapo69
04-08-16, 16:43
Time comes in every man's life when, in his late 40's, he wonders if he will ever again see these words come to him in a text message, during the meeting. I am truly starting to enjoy this new SD / SB thing. This "emergency" text message, will get me just about any meeting.
She: What are you doing today?
Me: I am in the meeting for another couple of hours.
She: Did you want to hang out today? I'm completely broke from buying my prom ticket, it was $80.
Me: Sure. What time?
She: I am out of class 1215, can we do 1:00.
Me: Where do I pick you up?
She: At the playground.
Me: OMW.
She: Yay!
Not trying to brag, but life can be great!!!
P.S. - before anyone gets any wrong ideas, yes she is legit. Turned 18 late February. I don't play with underaged, ever!!! Way too much legit pussy out there to be looking for trouble.
Gastonian4
04-08-16, 16:59
Time comes in every man's life when he wonders if he will ever again see these words come to him in a text message, during the meeting. I am truly starting to enjoy this new SD / SB thing. This "emergency" text message, will get me just about any meeting.
She: What are you doing today?
Me: I am in the meeting for another couple of hours.
She: Did you want to hang out today? I'm completely broke from buying my prom ticket, it was $80.
Me: Sure. What time?
She: I am out of class 1215, can we do 1:00.
Me: Where do I pick you up?
She: At the playground.
Me: OMW.
She: Yay!
Not trying to brag, but life can be great.I had a few interesting experiences years back, when you have to ask for their drivers license you know you're on the edge LOL. I know two of you old timers know what I'm talking about, but when you have one you meet who gets out of school at 230 that you are pushing the envelope LOL, that was an interesting girl. Also I know one of you knew the mom, the aunt, and the daughter all available, only lasted a few months but it was fun! NC especially Gastonia can be an interesting place! If you try WYP sometime there are a couple of Gastonia girls on there I can vouch for, one of them I've known for 10 years she's my go to girl all these years she's expanding her opportunities now.
Mravcapo69
04-08-16, 17:30
Yes sir, Gastonian, I remember those days very good. I never had a pleasure of meeting anyone from that "family" hobby) but I certainly do remember the one we used to pick up after her 230 class. She was down for anything, and never objected to any requests. I remember her real well. I used to go with her near by, and than about an hour later, either take her out for a quick lunch, or just take her to her street, drop her off at the corner so that she can walk home. WOW, those were the days. I am so happy to be reliving them again. I must say, the current one, I am already missing her as my future ex SB. She's so cute, with a personality of an angel. In all the years I've been plying this game, off and on, I've never ran into such a sweet young lady. No GPS syndrome. Just normal girl, of course, once she unplugs from her social life on iPhone, and all the texting, you can actually have a conversation with her, just about anything. Once she is out of "The Matrix" she's very mature for her age, and so easy to talk to. In any case, I better stop, because I'll start receiving info requests in my inbox. Unfortunately, this one is not for sharing, as per her request, that I will respect.
I had a few interesting experiences years back, when you have to ask for their drivers license you know you're on the edge LOL. I know two of you old timers know what I'm talking about, but when you have one you meet who gets out of school at 230 that you are pushing the envelope LOL, that was an interesting girl. Also I know one of you knew the mom, the aunt, and the daughter all available, only lasted a few months but it was fun! NC especially Gastonia can be an interesting place! If you try WYP sometime there are a couple of Gastonia girls on there I can vouch for, one of them I've known for 10 years she's my go to girl all these years she's expanding her opportunities now.
John HandCock
04-08-16, 18:07
I see that this thread has went the way of the Richmond thread, lots of rehashed information along with the creative writing. I went back 4 of the 9 pages and not one informative post on a sb or a link showing she existed. I always have hope for new threads on sb's but for some reason most turn into the Richmond thread.
Check out the Baltimore, Cincinnati, Knoxville threads, its not to late.
Gastonian4
04-08-16, 18:21
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I am aware that the vast majority of references to underage girls are legitimate attempts to warn other fellow members about how easy it is to accidentally pickup an underage girls, the potential dangers of being caught with underage girls, etc. However, past discussions in the Forum has repeatedly demonstrated that the subject simply cannot be discussed intelligently, in any form or for any reason, without being misinterpreted, and without starting flame wars.
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John HandCock
04-17-16, 08:42
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EDITOR'S NOTE: This report was edited to remove references to underage persons.
I am aware that the vast majority of references to underage girls are legitimate attempts to warn other fellow members about how easy it is to accidentally pickup an underage girls, the potential dangers of being caught with underage girls, etc. However, past discussions in the Forum has repeatedly demonstrated that the subject simply cannot be discussed intelligently, in any form or for any reason, without being misinterpreted, and without starting flame wars.
Please do not post references to underage persons in the Forum. Thanks!
I have been on SA and WYP both for last few months and it hasn't yet returned me any investment I made. I did went out for date with couple of girls but they were just there to stash their stomachs with expensive food and take the price and nothing more than that.
Has anyone got info of any Sugar baby who is available and they might be interested in sharing that info through PM? PM me with details if you have any.
Yesterday I decided to get back on SA after taking a month off and I already have a date set up with a new little cutie. Anyway, she used her real name and phone #, so I was easily able to figure out her real identity and it turns out she's married. I ran into this once before and called it off, but what do you guys think? On one hand it's not my business how she runs her life, but on the other hand, I don't want to get beat up or killed by an angry husband. Do I tell her that I know, since maybe he's cool with it? Just cancel or just meet up anyway?
Yesterday I decided to get back on SA after taking a month off and I already have a date set up with a new little cutie. Anyway, she used her real name and phone #, so I was easily able to figure out her real identity and it turns out she's married. I ran into this once before and called it off, but what do you guys think? On one hand it's not my business how she runs her life, but on the other hand, I don't want to get beat up or killed by an angry husband. Do I tell her that I know, since maybe he's cool with it? Just cancel or just meet up anyway?You could also get sued in court if you got caught. I do not know if you are married, but if so, I believe you have a lot more to lose if he catches you. Also, don't believe her if she tells you he is ok with it. Had one to tell me that and he wasn't. Luckily nothing happened to me. If he is ok with it, then you should be able to contact about it.
You could also get sued in court if you got caught. I do not know if you are married, but if so, I believe you have a lot more to lose if he catches you. Also, don't believe her if she tells you he is ok with it. Had one to tell me that and he wasn't. Luckily nothing happened to me. If he is ok with it, then you should be able to contact about it.I'm not married and given that represented herself as single on the website, I'm not too worried about some home wrecker lawsuit, but still, I'll likely cancel. It won't be fun if I'm looking over my shoulder the whole time and waiting for someone to start banging on the hotel door.
John HandCock
04-27-16, 20:39
Yesterday I decided to get back on SA after taking a month off and I already have a date set up with a new little cutie. Anyway, she used her real name and phone #, so I was easily able to figure out her real identity and it turns out she's married. I ran into this once before and called it off, but what do you guys think? On one hand it's not my business how she runs her life, but on the other hand, I don't want to get beat up or killed by an angry husband. Do I tell her that I know, since maybe he's cool with it? Just cancel or just meet up anyway?What does her profile state? If she says married then I ask if it has to be discreet. If she says he knows and is ok then I figure he is basically pimping his wife out. If she says it has to be discreet then I worry it could be a set up or ending up in an awkward and possibly dangerous situation. If married I stay away completely.
If she list single then she is probably sneaki g around but you can't tell her you know different. Makes you look like a creepy stalker so best not to divulge that. Just pass, alot of girls on there to choose from.
What does her profile state? If she says married then I ask if it has to be discreet. If she says he knows and is ok then I figure he is basically pimping his wife out. If she says it has to be discreet then I worry it could be a set up or ending up in an awkward and possibly dangerous situation. If married I stay away completely.
If she list single then she is probably sneaki g around but you can't tell her you know different. Makes you look like a creepy stalker so best not to divulge that. Just pass, alot of girls on there to choose from.She did list single. I tend to agree with all of this, except the creepy stalker part took me one Google search and 10 seconds to figure this out. People don't realize the social media imprint they leave for the world to see. Part of me want to tell her to warn her. Might want to get a burner, not put your cell in public profiles, and maybe go by your middle name or something. But anyway, date cancelled.
Yesterday I decided to get back on SA after taking a month off and I already have a date set up with a new little cutie. Anyway, she used her real name and phone #, so I was easily able to figure out her real identity and it turns out she's married. I ran into this once before and called it off, but what do you guys think? On one hand it's not my business how she runs her life, but on the other hand, I don't want to get beat up or killed by an angry husband. Do I tell her that I know, since maybe he's cool with it? Just cancel or just meet up anyway?One thing that I always try to do is to stay away from girls that live with their family. A friend of mine ran into this problem a while back where he was dating a college girl through SA. He went for like 4-5 dates before the father of the girl got the wind of it and knocked the shit out of him. The father couldn't go to police or court because there was no proof of anything illegal but he did scared him a lot. Since then my friend has been out of this for like forever and I as a precaution don't go for college girls that live with family.
Mravcapo69
04-29-16, 15:09
I am just going to throw this out there for some feedback of the fellow members. I have red a lot of posts in different forums, smaller and larger, but I don't remember ever coming across someone being in my situation. I may have missed it, but I don't remember seeing it. So, here is the thing. You're sitting late at night, browsing SA site, in a hope to get the best value out of your most recent membership purchase and score you a SB or two. So, you're scanning through all different profiles, and sending few messages, and than you open one profile just realize, "holly crap, this chick works with me. " Her photos are all clear, unlike yours, which is blurred up (thank God), or otherwise protecting your identity, and you're 100% certain it's her. She just recently joined your department, and you've been wanting to hit that ass from the moment you saw her the first time, and started dreaming about those creamy titties under her shirt. So the million dollar question is, how do you play this? Do you, or do you not, go for it? Regardless of all sorts of rules and regulations at work place that have to be watched closely. Ho do you bring it without making it sooo weird and uncomfortable for both of you. Who's got more risk here and more to loose, if the crap hits the fan?
I am just going to throw this out there for some feedback of the fellow members. I have red a lot of posts in different forums, smaller and larger, but I don't remember ever coming across someone being in my situation. I may have missed it, but I don't remember seeing it. So, here is the thing. You're sitting late at night, browsing SA site, in a hope to get the best value out of your most recent membership purchase and score you a SB or two. So, you're scanning through all different profiles, and sending few messages, and than you open one profile just realize, "holly crap, this chick works with me. " Her photos are all clear, unlike yours, which is blurred up (thank God), or otherwise protecting your identity, and you're 100% certain it's her. She just recently joined your department, and you've been wanting to hit that ass from the moment you saw her the first time, and started dreaming about those creamy titties under her shirt. So the million dollar question is, how do you play this? Do you, or do you not, go for it? Regardless of all sorts of rules and regulations at work place that have to be watched closely. Ho do you bring it without making it sooo weird and uncomfortable for both of you. Who's got more risk here and more to loose, if the crap hits the fan?I think that's waaaaaay too risky. If you pursue, I say do it outside of SA.
Or, even better idea, send me her name and I'll hook up with her and tell you all about it. .
Kidding about that, but I think that is a really bad idea.
Gigabyte40
04-29-16, 16:21
I am just going to throw this out there for some feedback of the fellow members. I have red a lot of posts in different forums, smaller and larger, but I don't remember ever coming across someone being in my situation. I may have missed it, but I don't remember seeing it. So, here is the thing. You're sitting late at night, browsing SA site, in a hope to get the best value out of your most recent membership purchase and score you a SB or two. So, you're scanning through all different profiles, and sending few messages, and than you open one profile just realize, "holly crap, this chick works with me. " Her photos are all clear, unlike yours, which is blurred up (thank God), or otherwise protecting your identity, and you're 100% certain it's her. She just recently joined your department, and you've been wanting to hit that ass from the moment you saw her the first time, and started dreaming about those creamy titties under her shirt. So the million dollar question is, how do you play this? Do you, or do you not, go for it? Regardless of all sorts of rules and regulations at work place that have to be watched closely. Ho do you bring it without making it sooo weird and uncomfortable for both of you. Who's got more risk here and more to loose, if the crap hits the fan?I think if you're asking the question, then you know the answer should be no. It sounds like there's a lot to lose. Like your job.
The main reason you're attracted to her is because you know her AND saw her on the site. Otherwise she would not be such a challenge.
But there's a lot of attraction to an illicit affair. That's what drives all of us to this board.
So, proceed with caution or don't pursue her at all.
GB40.
John HandCock
04-29-16, 17:18
She did list single. I tend to agree with all of this, except the creepy stalker part took me one Google search and 10 seconds to figure this out. People don't realize the social media imprint they leave for the world to see. Part of me want to tell her to warn her. Might want to get a burner, not put your cell in public profiles, and maybe go by your middle name or something. But anyway, date cancelled.Exactly but how would you feel if she did the same. Showed up at your work with a bunch of personal information on you. You would call her crazy stalker or worse. Its ok to do your due diligence but never share it with them. They never asked for you to investigate them so keep what you learned close to your vest. She is being sneaky and not telling the truth so you owe them nothing. If you had went through with it it could of gone good or south badly. Always best to side with safety, to many girls out there that is reliable abd safe.
I am just going to throw this out there for some feedback of the fellow members. I have red a lot of posts in different forums, smaller and larger, but I don't remember ever coming across someone being in my situation. I may have missed it, but I don't remember seeing it. So, here is the thing. You're sitting late at night, browsing SA site, in a hope to get the best value out of your most recent membership purchase and score you a SB or two. So, you're scanning through all different profiles, and sending few messages, and than you open one profile just realize, "holly crap, this chick works with me. " Her photos are all clear, unlike yours, which is blurred up (thank God), or otherwise protecting your identity, and you're 100% certain it's her. She just recently joined your department, and you've been wanting to hit that ass from the moment you saw her the first time, and started dreaming about those creamy titties under her shirt. So the million dollar question is, how do you play this? Do you, or do you not, go for it? Regardless of all sorts of rules and regulations at work place that have to be watched closely. Ho do you bring it without making it sooo weird and uncomfortable for both of you. Who's got more risk here and more to loose, if the crap hits the fan?The whole purpose of SD / SB thing is to get the cream while remaining discreet. Even if you are single you don't want to run into someone known while your are courting a SB. So for me and possibly to a lot other people it will never be a good idea to pursue someone known through SA. Outside that you can get inside her pants as much and as many time you want.
John HandCock
04-29-16, 20:40
I am just going to throw this out there for some feedback of the fellow members. I have red a lot of posts in different forums, smaller and larger, but I don't remember ever coming across someone being in my situation. I may have missed it, but I don't remember seeing it. So, here is the thing. You're sitting late at night, browsing SA site, in a hope to get the best value out of your most recent membership purchase and score you a SB or two. So, you're scanning through all different profiles, and sending few messages, and than you open one profile just realize, "holly crap, this chick works with me. " Her photos are all clear, unlike yours, which is blurred up (thank God), or otherwise protecting your identity, and you're 100% certain it's her. She just recently joined your department, and you've been wanting to hit that ass from the moment you saw her the first time, and started dreaming about those creamy titties under her shirt. So the million dollar question is, how do you play this? Do you, or do you not, go for it? Regardless of all sorts of rules and regulations at work place that have to be watched closely. Ho do you bring it without making it sooo weird and uncomfortable for both of you. Who's got more risk here and more to loose, if the crap hits the fan?If your single and aren't worried about company policies then make a play. Just never mention you saw her on sa. Do it as a civy, don't for gods sakes offer her an arrangement. If she isn't interested then move on. If your married forget about it all together.
Mravcapo69
04-30-16, 23:30
If your single and aren't worried about company policies then make a play. Just never mention you saw her on sa. Do it as a civy, don't for gods sakes offer her an arrangement. If she isn't interested then move on. If your married forget about it all together.Thank you all for your honest input. My thoughts are exactly in line with everyone who contributed. I was leaning more toward NO, stay away, too risky.
So I happen to get in contact with this girl through SA. We exchanged few texts and she forwarded me her pic. After a little exploration I was able to find her FB page as well as I found a BP ad she posted a couple of months ago in Denver (Her SA profile did mentioned she moved to Raleigh from Denver recently) with 150 as damage for hr. Now to meet somewhere discreet (like a hotel) she asked me 400 for hr. I was like are you fucking kidding me? Why the hell will I waste 400 on you when in less than that I can get much better. I told her I won't give that much and 200 is my limit. She said she is not some cheap hooker here for cheap guys like me and is high class girl who is only here because she needs some roses urgently. I was already not in mood to continue the texting so I just said -"Funny you mentioned cheap hooker because I happened to found a BP add of yours from Denver where even 150 was the high class amount for you
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Seriously these BP bitches think that by being on SA they have become some high end model / escort and that SDs will give anything to get them.
So I happen to get in contact with this girl through SA. We exchanged few texts and she forwarded me her pic. After a little exploration I was able to find her FB page as well as I found a BP ad she posted a couple of months ago in Denver (Her SA profile did mentioned she moved to Raleigh from Denver recently) with 150 as damage for hr. Now to meet somewhere discreet (like a hotel) she asked me 400 for hr. I was like are you fucking kidding me? Why the hell will I waste 400 on you when in less than that I can get much better. I told her I won't give that much and 200 is my limit. She said she is not some cheap hooker here for cheap guys like me and is high class girl who is only here because she needs some roses urgently. I was already not in mood to continue the texting so I just said -"Funny you mentioned cheap hooker because I happened to found a BP add of yours from Denver where even 150 was the high class amount for you
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Seriously these BP bitches think that by being on SA they have become some high end model / escort and that SDs will give anything to get them.Stay strong! A big part of the problem is that some guys seem to be paying these amounts. In chatting with a few girls, some dudes are giving them exactly what they want. I suppose that's the risk on a site like that. Recently I've had better luck with the small town country girls. Seems like they get less attention than the Charlotte girls. Met a super sweet little country girl yesterday. A little extra travel but that's fine, I also won't run into her at the grocery store.
Southerncfp
05-04-16, 16:45
Stay strong! A big part of the problem is that some guys seem to be paying these amounts. In chatting with a few girls, some dudes are giving them exactly what they want. I suppose that's the risk on a site like that. Recently I've had better luck with the small town country girls. Seems like they get less attention than the Charlotte girls. Met a super sweet little country girl yesterday. A little extra travel but that's fine, I also won't run into her at the grocery store.Small town country girls are the best. Great attitudes and reasonable rates. Other than the drive, its well worth it.
John HandCock
05-04-16, 19:17
So I happen to get in contact with this girl through SA. We exchanged few texts and she forwarded me her pic. After a little exploration I was able to find her FB page as well as I found a BP ad she posted a couple of months ago in Denver (Her SA profile did mentioned she moved to Raleigh from Denver recently) with 150 as damage for hr. Now to meet somewhere discreet (like a hotel) she asked me 400 for hr. I was like are you fucking kidding me? Why the hell will I waste 400 on you when in less than that I can get much better. I told her I won't give that much and 200 is my limit. She said she is not some cheap hooker here for cheap guys like me and is high class girl who is only here because she needs some roses urgently. I was already not in mood to continue the texting so I just said -"Funny you mentioned cheap hooker because I happened to found a BP add of yours from Denver where even 150 was the high class amount for you
"
Seriously these BP bitches think that by being on SA they have become some high end model / escort and that SDs will give anything to get them.The problem is most have no idea what an actual sb is. The girls are just cashing in on it. Most of these girls belong in the escort or utr and CL sectons. The girls post the profiles and thes guys fall over themselves paying the inflated prices for title of sb.
Gastonian4
05-08-16, 16:52
I again had a good experience with a WYP girl in the greater gadtonia area. She's been on there less than a month. Agreed on a 1. 0 date but talked her down to. 5 for having drinks etc. She had me pick her up at her house and we headed to one of my bar hangouts. 2 strong drinks for her later and an hour of conversation and a few carefully worded conversations and I could tell she is very doable. I am pretty sure I'm the only guy she has met with. She told me stories about some of the guys she started talking to and gave them her email addy and guys sending her pics of their di'ks she just ignored them. She is one of those you have to gain her confidence she's not going to meet with guys wanting to do negotiating for the deed unless she has met them. But after two stiff drinks I was able to negotiate $. 5 for doing the deed in hugs future. Attractive late 20's girl slender and shapely. She told me she'd go out for drinks for free. Total price including the date plus drinks plus next time with her is way less than one FS at an AMP plus future encounters only $. 5 it's all about being subtle and approaching tge girl very carefully. Unless I know you or you are well verified do not PM me for additional info on her. I like WYP especially for Gastonia area girls.
Mravcapo69
05-08-16, 21:29
I again had a good experience with a WYP girl in the greater gadtonia area. She's been on there less than a month. Agreed on a 1. 0 date but talked her down to. 5 for having drinks etc. She had me pick her up at her house and we headed to one of my bar hangouts. 2 strong drinks for her later and an hour of conversation and a few carefully worded conversations and I could tell she is very doable. I am pretty sure I'm the only guy she has met with. She told me stories about some of the guys she started talking to and gave them her email addy and guys sending her pics of their di'ks she just ignored them. She is one of those you have to gain her confidence she's not going to meet with guys wanting to do negotiating for the deed unless she has met them. But after two stiff drinks I was able to negotiate $. 5 for doing the deed in hugs future. Attractive late 20's girl slender and shapely. She told me she'd go out for drinks for free. Total price including the date plus drinks plus next time with her is way less than one FS at an AMP plus future encounters only $. 5 it's all about being subtle and approaching tge girl very carefully. Unless I know you or you are well verified do not PM me for additional info on her. I like WYP especially for Gastonia area girls.That's exactly, my friend, how you work the UTR's os SB's or whatever. If you want to get anything out of them, they have to like you. If you can't get to that liking point, as might as well just call an escort, and get serviced. But to me that's not playing the field, but just taking the penalty shot and scoring. Anyone can do that.
So after trying for many months on SA and WYP both finally I hit my first score on SA. Met this very hot and cute college girl in her early 20's through SA and man what an experience it was. We met at a restaurant for a meet first. Took dinner and Talked for an hour or so. She looked fun and smart in her talking and we talked everything ranging from what we do for fun, to sports, to politics and what not (and she is a Medicine student). Throughout the talk I was careful to layout the work for something more. She told me she is looking for someone with whom she can connect and that she has been on 2 dates before this but they didn't worked out as the guys were more interested in physical than connecting. Finally I asked her what she is expecting from this arrangement and she tells me she wants to have fun and adventure and getting physical is not issue for her. So I dropped the final bomb and asked if she would be willing to carry forward this meet somewhere discreet and she said yes she wants to. Took her to my hotel room. There too we first chatted for a while and then proceeded with the main course and damn that was so good. We did everything and she really looked she was into it appeared to enjoy (it didn't looked she was faking). We did it multiple times and spent like 5-6 hours in my room. Damage wise its 2 roses but she was way more than every penny. And the best thing is that for 2 roses she is open to even spend the whole day with me doing fun things.
Mravcapo69
05-10-16, 21:38
So after trying for many months on SA and WYP both finally I hit my first score on SA. Met this very hot and cute college girl in her early 20's through SA and man what an experience it was. We met at a restaurant for a meet first. Took dinner and Talked for an hour or so. She looked fun and smart in her talking and we talked everything ranging from what we do for fun, to sports, to politics and what not (and she is a Medicine student). Throughout the talk I was careful to layout the work for something more. She told me she is looking for someone with whom she can connect and that she has been on 2 dates before this but they didn't worked out as the guys were more interested in physical than connecting. Finally I asked her what she is expecting from this arrangement and she tells me she wants to have fun and adventure and getting physical is not issue for her. So I dropped the final bomb and asked if she would be willing to carry forward this meet somewhere discreet and she said yes she wants to. Took her to my hotel room. There too we first chatted for a while and then proceeded with the main course and damn that was so good. We did everything and she really looked she was into it appeared to enjoy (it didn't looked she was faking). We did it multiple times and spent like 5-6 hours in my room. Damage wise its 2 roses but she was way more than every penny. And the best thing is that for 2 roses she is open to even spend the whole day with me doing fun things.Exactly, you just have to find a right girl there, and not some gold digger, which there are plenty of those as well. It beats givint two roses to any escort with an attitude and list of NO's just to be "serviced" like a car after 5 K miles.
Exactly, you just have to find a right girl there, and not some gold digger, which there are plenty of those as well. It beats givint two roses to any escort with an attitude and list of NO's just to be "serviced" like a car after 5 K miles.Yes, essentially we all know that the girls are on SA for money but there are girls who are just for money (the gold digger type who will sleep around with anyone and they have somewhat the same tone as of a normal BP girl / escort) and then there are some who want to have some chemistry and connection before they can proceed. And that's the kind of SB which makes the worth of those 2 roses because when they are generally in then they don't put too many rules and restrictions.
NC Transplant
05-11-16, 09:05
Be careful with that emotional chemistry and attachment. That can be a bad can of worms if you aren't careful.
Yes, essentially we all know that the girls are on SA for money but there are girls who are just for money (the gold digger type who will sleep around with anyone and they have somewhat the same tone as of a normal BP girl / escort) and then there are some who want to have some chemistry and connection before they can proceed. And that's the kind of SB which makes the worth of those 2 roses because when they are generally in then they don't put too many rules and restrictions.
Hi All,
I'm a longtime member, occasional poster, with a quick question: I just stumbled on this forum page, and am wondering if someone can tell me (private post is fine) what.
"SA" and WYP stand for? I assume, naturally, a couple websites, but I'd like to do some looking at those sites.
Sorry for the dumb question, but thanks in advance for any help here.
Hi All,
I'm a longtime member, occasional poster, with a quick question: I just stumbled on this forum page, and am wondering if someone can tell me (private post is fine) what.
"SA" and WYP stand for? I assume, naturally, a couple websites, but I'd like to do some looking at those sites.
Sorry for the dumb question, but thanks in advance for any help here.SA - seekingarrangement.com.
WYP - whatsyourprice.com.
NC Transplant
05-29-16, 15:59
http://www.seattletimes.com/business/students-seeking-sugar-daddies-for-tuition-rent/
I met a hot Latina from WYP. The date was $50 plus a steak dinner. She quoted me $400 for time alone. The funny thing is I found her old Miami Beach backpage ad where she charged significantly less. I took a pass.
And I have since noticed three or four BP girls on WYP or SA. Seems like going through BP is a lot cheaper.
I have had some luck with SA, just a lot of work sometimes to make it happen, have found that being 100% upfront and honest about what I want is the best way to do it, half tell me to screw off, but the other half are looking for the same thing, normally negotiate to $$ and fun is had by all, have done in 5 different times now.
Good Luck.
Like others have said on here, I've been having some pretty good success on SA. I paid for a month membership and within a few days, could have had several appointments set up. Picked 1 girl and have seen her a few times over the past 3 weeks. It's been better than any escort I've ever seen. It's almost as though you aren't even paying, she's just a regular girl I could have met out anywhere.
I think the trick is to treat these girls like real people, not BP girls or escorts. Honestly, I feel like I am back in college, only difference is I leave a few bucks afterwards.
If you prefer a quick meeting with a professional, these sites aren't for you.
Only probably is I need more money, LOL. I offer most $$, some ask for more, but most seem happy with that. Which means maybe I'm offering too high?
John HandCock
07-14-16, 11:43
I met a hot Latina from WYP. The date was $50 plus a steak dinner. She quoted me $400 for time alone. The funny thing is I found her old Miami Beach backpage ad where she charged significantly less. I took a pass.
And I have since noticed three or four BP girls on WYP or SA. Seems like going through BP is a lot cheaper.Pros and utr girls have found a gold mine in the arrangement sites. For some reason they can put up a profile and guys go crazy over their new sb's LOL even posting the BP or CL link. Do your research on these girls.
Like others have said on here, I've been having some pretty good success on SA. I paid for a month membership and within a few days, could have had several appointments set up. Picked 1 girl and have seen her a few times over the past 3 weeks. It's been better than any escort I've ever seen. It's almost as though you aren't even paying, she's just a regular girl I could have met out anywhere.
I think the trick is to treat these girls like real people, not BP girls or escorts. Honestly, I feel like I am back in college, only difference is I leave a few bucks afterwards.
If you prefer a quick meeting with a professional, these sites aren't for you.
Only probably is I need more money, LOL. I offer most $$, some ask for more, but most seem happy with that. Which means maybe I'm offering too high?You hit the nail on the head. Sure there are working girls on SA, but if you want the cute college girls, you just got to spend a little time being nice and treating them like a regular girl. Just got back on SA after a break and started chatting with a cute 20 yr old. She told me that she won't talk to the creeps who treat her like a prostitute. Fast forward after 30 minutes of texting and she is meeting me on Thursday for a late lunch then off to a hotel room.
For whatever glorious reason, being a SB has become at least somewhat socially acceptable amongst college aged girls, so I'm going to enjoy that trend while it lasts.
John HandCock
07-27-16, 08:28
You hit the nail on the head. Sure there are working girls on SA, but if you want the cute college girls, you just got to spend a little time being nice and treating them like a regular girl. Just got back on SA after a break and started chatting with a cute 20 yr old. She told me that she won't talk to the creeps who treat her like a prostitute. Fast forward after 30 minutes of texting and she is meeting me on Thursday for a late lunch then off to a hotel room.
For whatever glorious reason, being a SB has become at least somewhat socially acceptable amongst college aged girls, so I'm going to enjoy that trend while it lasts.30 minutes texting, m / g, then straight to fc. Sounds like an arrangement has been made so this sounds like an utr girl. They can be fun too.
Ncognito365
07-27-16, 08:44
I had a college SB that was three times the cost of an Indy. The quality was better but $$$ and her half of the rent was too much.
30 minutes texting, m / g, then straight to fc. Sounds like an arrangement has been made so this sounds like an utr girl. They can be fun too.NC St. Sorority girl. Verified. I don't see anyone unless I can google sleuth my way into determining thier true identify. I then check arrest records. She likes the extra shopping money. I'm not her only arrangement, but I don't care. So call her utr or whatever, it's all good
Over my experience at SA (I have been with some) the thing that I have noticed, that for me gives a hint about whether the girl is a BP girl or a true SB, is that a BP girl will start to get ready and leave right after your are done (you know what I mean) while a true SB whos not that used to BP part will remain there for a while. And to think logically it makes sense also because girls who have been on BP a lot have developed a habit of running the clock (well majority of them).
NC St. Sorority girl. Verified. I don't see anyone unless I can google sleuth my way into determining thier true identify. I then check arrest records. She likes the extra shopping money. I'm not her only arrangement, but I don't care. So call her utr or whatever, it's all good
On a business trip in Raleigh last week. Started early in the day searching for local Raleigh girls on SA. By mid afternoon, I had 3 potential meetings lined up. Decided to meet up with a local college girl, she was part-south American and exactly what I was looking for. Came over the hotel, hung out for a while, then spent the next 90 min having fun. Multiple times. It was like I was 22 again. I thought she was going to fall asleep and spend the night. Of course, even that's a little too much for me, so at midnight, she uber'd back to campus and passed out in the bed.
Honestly, we laid their talking for 30+ minutes afterward. He nude smooth body all over me. It's definitely different that a pro.
If you have the necessary funds and the ability to treat these girls like real people, you can have a great time. Assuming that's what you want, which I do at this point in my life.
But even I felt the urge to hit the massage parlor today. Cause sometimes, that's just what you need too! But I didn't pull the trigger on that. Have to save $.
I've been on SA for a year on and off and have hooked up with 12 girls during that time. I realized after meeting a new girl this past week that I'd say easily 8 of them have expressed zero care as to whether I used a cover or not.
Now, I avoid the obvious pros and like the college girl next door types, but this still shocks me. I grew up during the AIDS crises, so it was pounded into my head that unprotected sex meant a one way ticket to HIV-ville. I know it's different now, but for all these girls know, I could raw dogging SWs everyday.
For the record, I've avoided the temptation as I don't want a sugar baby baby nor an unexpected itch.
Any one else noticed this phenomenon?
I've been on SA for a year on and off and have hooked up with 12 girls during that time. I realized after meeting a new girl this past week that I'd say easily 8 of them have expressed zero care as to whether I used a cover or not.
Now, I avoid the obvious pros and like the college girl next door types, but this still shocks me. I grew up during the AIDS crises, so it was pounded into my head that unprotected sex meant a one way ticket to HIV-ville. I know it's different now, but for all these girls know, I could raw dogging SWs everyday.
For the record, I've avoided the temptation as I don't want a sugar baby baby nor an unexpected itch.
Any one else noticed this phenomenon?I haven't seen as many as you have, I don't think any of the ones I have seen have seen have had condoms with them. I am fairly confident I could have gone in bare with most. One did ask if I had condoms with me. I of course did, but politely told her that she may want to put a couple condoms in her purse if this is something she wants to be doing. Not all men will have them, then it becomes on uncomfortable situation.
Like you, I have only seen girls in their 20's. Non- pros as far as I can tell. Always meet at their apartments, never a hotel.
I haven't seen as many as you have, I don't think any of the ones I have seen have seen have had condoms with them. I am fairly confident I could have gone in bare with most. One did ask if I had condoms with me. I of course did, but politely told her that she may want to put a couple condoms in her purse if this is something she wants to be doing. Not all men will have them, then it becomes on uncomfortable situation.
Like you, I have only seen girls in their 20's. Non- pros as far as I can tell. Always meet at their apartments, never a hotel.So you are basically seeing the same thing. It just kind of struck me, when I had to stop the last girl from climbing on, so I could grab one. I find that interesting. But anyway. Happy hunting.
Queen City Guy
08-04-16, 15:04
Well I have been lurking on WYP for years and more recently SA. It just seems to me like SA more of the gals were wanting ongoing monthly or more often things. Many say they want to be 'spoiled' which I don't mind to an extent but I'm not looking for divas to drain me dry (of cash that is, they can drain me dry otherwise and at my age it doesn't take much). I've had better luck with WYP. They seem more reasonable in their expectations too. I send a wink which usually prompts an offer. Like my business mentor taught me 35 years ago "make the other person commit first, that gives you a negotiating point. ".
One other thing I like about it is that it appears all these gals are real, they aren't bots like some of the sex dating sites that milk you just to buy tokens without any hope of getting action, they aren't best friends with their pharmacist, you won't get robbed, mugged, shaken down or car jacked going to see them, they aren't turning 12 tricks a day, and they don't have handlers other than a couple I've talked with are married actually. Maybe they want some side action and the $ allow them to justify it to their husbands.
And as mentioned you get to know someone and they relax and get comfortable and you know their going to be more fun in bed, heck a wife is that way after some good conversation. Oh and also the risk of legal repercussions seem much less.
For now its good until the gals that went from the street to CL to BP make the move and ruin it.
John HandCock
08-04-16, 16:19
Well I have been lurking on WYP for years and more recently SA. It just seems to me like SA more of the gals were wanting ongoing monthly or more often things. Many say they want to be 'spoiled' which I don't mind to an extent but I'm not looking for divas to drain me dry (of cash that is, they can drain me dry otherwise and at my age it doesn't take much). I've had better luck with WYP. They seem more reasonable in their expectations too. I send a wink which usually prompts an offer. Like my business mentor taught me 35 years ago "make the other person commit first, that gives you a negotiating point. ".
One other thing I like about it is that it appears all these gals are real, they aren't bots like some of the sex dating sites that milk you just to buy tokens without any hope of getting action, they aren't best friends with their pharmacist, you won't get robbed, mugged, shaken down or car jacked going to see them, they aren't turning 12 tricks a day, and they don't have handlers other than a couple I've talked with are married actually. Maybe they want some side action and the $ allow them to justify it to their husbands.
And as mentioned you get to know someone and they relax and get comfortable and you know their going to be more fun in bed, heck a wife is that way after some good conversation. Oh and also the risk of legal repercussions seem much less.
For now its good until the gals that went from the street to CL to BP make the move and ruin it.These sites are full of BP, CL and utr girls now. This happens when guys don't know the difference. A true sb is going to want a ltr. They aren't going to have 3, 4 or more daddy's in a rotation. If your looking for just at hit and run there are plenty of those girls there.
These sites are full of BP, CL and utr girls now. This happens when guys don't know the difference. A true sb is going to want a ltr. They aren't going to have 3, 4 or more daddy's in a rotation. If your looking for just at hit and run there are plenty of those girls there.Who cares about the "true" definition of an SB? If you are willing to put in a little time and effort to weed out the BP girls and the girls with GPS, you can have a lot of fun and meet some pretty cool girls all with;.
-no worry about LEO.
-no worry about handlers.
-no worry about being ripped off.
-100% GFE.
Etc.
To each his own, but I like it, despite the added cost.
John HandCock
08-05-16, 10:39
Who cares about the "true" definition of an SB? If you are willing to put in a little time and effort to weed out the BP girls and the girls with GPS, you can have a lot of fun and meet some pretty cool girls all with;.
-no worry about LEO.
-no worry about handlers.
-no worry about being ripped off.
-100% GFE.
Etc.
To each his own, but I like it, despite the added cost.Apparently very few care about definition of a true sb. If they did these so called sb threads would be pretty bare. Instead we get reviews of swers providing GFE to guys who don't mind the xtra cost. To each their own.
Apparently very few care about definition of a true sb. If they did these so called sb threads would be pretty bare. Instead we get reviews of swers providing GFE to guys who don't mind the xtra cost. To each their own.These girls are SWs? Please. Why do you troll sugar baby threads across several cities. Very weird.
Gigabyte40
08-07-16, 14:16
Met a very cute spinner on SA site. Had dinner at nice restaurant in Ballantyne area. Age about 25, educated, well traveled and refined.
She told me that to continue seeing her would require a minimum donation of $600 to $800 per visit. DAMN!
That sure sounds like a case of GPS to me. Golden Pussy Syndrome.
I told her that's a bit high. She said SA is not a site for ordinary $250 escort hookups.
Doesn't sound like I'll be seeing any more of this young lady. Guess I better stick with $100 Gastonia drug addicted strippers.
GB40.
Mravcapo69
08-08-16, 03:42
Met a very cute spinner on SA site. Had dinner at nice restaurant in Ballantyne area. Age about 25, educated, well traveled and refined.
She told me that to continue seeing her would require a minimum donation of $600 to $800 per visit. DAMN!
That sure sounds like a case of GPS to me. Golden Pussy Syndrome.
I told her that's a bit high. She said SA is not a site for ordinary $250 escort hookups.
Doesn't sound like I'll be seeing any more of this young lady. Guess I better stick with $100 Gastonia drug addicted strippers.
GB40.Yes, that sounds like a true GPS. Everyone on SA has their own interpretation of what the site is about, and it is a wide range. On SA, I ran into some ladies who are there not after money but just looking for a decent, established guy, not a looser. All the way to various degrees of GPS. Needles to say, the ones looking for some sort of relationship are much fewer than those that want to be "employed" by their SD. In my humble opinion, those that expect top dollar, are nothing but high dollar escorts, wanting to decrease the amount of traffic and work they need to put in, by increasing the required donation.
NC Transplant
08-08-16, 09:08
I would have told her good luck with that and left. It is a lot more than I can afford.
Met a very cute spinner on SA site. Had dinner at nice restaurant in Ballantyne area. Age about 25, educated, well traveled and refined.
She told me that to continue seeing her would require a minimum donation of $600 to $800 per visit. DAMN!
That sure sounds like a case of GPS to me. Golden Pussy Syndrome.
I told her that's a bit high. She said SA is not a site for ordinary $250 escort hookups.
Doesn't sound like I'll be seeing any more of this young lady. Guess I better stick with $100 Gastonia drug addicted strippers.
GB40.
Met a very cute spinner on SA site. Had dinner at nice restaurant in Ballantyne area. Age about 25, educated, well traveled and refined.
She told me that to continue seeing her would require a minimum donation of $600 to $800 per visit. DAMN!
That sure sounds like a case of GPS to me. Golden Pussy Syndrome.
I told her that's a bit high. She said SA is not a site for ordinary $250 escort hookups.
Doesn't sound like I'll be seeing any more of this young lady. Guess I better stick with $100 Gastonia drug addicted strippers.
GB40.I once chatted with 2 such GPS SBs on SA. One of them wanted me to pay her some allowance even before meeting her for the 1st time to show her I am interested. I told her if that's what she is looking on SA than I am afraid she will find many SDs interested as no one would prefer to give money to someone without even knowing who the other person is. Th other one wanted a 1500 roses as a one time down payment on first meet and 500 roses for subsequent meets. It was way-way over my budget so I rejected it. So she said she is not looking to meet "average" people.
I guess either these SBs are out of their minds or there are some seriously loose SDs with money to throw away that have put these SBs out of their mind.
I once chatted with 2 such GPS SBs on SA. One of them wanted me to pay her some allowance even before meeting her for the 1st time to show her I am interested. I told her if that's what she is looking on SA than I am afraid she will find many SDs interested as no one would prefer to give money to someone without even knowing who the other person is. Th other one wanted a 1500 roses as a one time down payment on first meet and 500 roses for subsequent meets. It was way-way over my budget so I rejected it. So she said she is not looking to meet "average" people.
I guess either these SBs are out of their minds or there are some seriously loose SDs with money to throw away that have put these SBs out of their mind.I think its some of both. No doubt there are seriously rich dudes on that site looking for exclusive side pieces that they can throw money at. Though my guess is that there are more girls looking for those dudes than there are dudes willing to pay it. That's why I avoid the 9/10's. I figure they are fake or GPS, and I also try to get money expectations from them within a few messages and make it clear that I'm pay per visit only.
Ok. I am new to this technique and honestly apprehensive. I have appreciated all that the group has contributed. Question now. I have connected with a real person that appears to be interested in proceeding. We are still doing the dance of "what are you looking for?" And "what is your suggestion?" I don't get any suspicions but then again it is best not to trust anyone. Does anyone have preferred methods of LEO checking a potential P2 P date? Everyone has their trade secrets. I appreciate your input. Feel free to send a PM as well. This could be really sweet if all goes well. I need to maintain some discipline instead of letting the little head make all of the decisions.
Ok. I am new to this technique and honestly apprehensive. I have appreciated all that the group has contributed. Question now. I have connected with a real person that appears to be interested in proceeding. We are still doing the dance of "what are you looking for?" And "what is your suggestion?" I don't get any suspicions but then again it is best not to trust anyone. Does anyone have preferred methods of LEO checking a potential P2 P date? Everyone has their trade secrets. I appreciate your input. Feel free to send a PM as well. This could be really sweet if all goes well. I need to maintain some discipline instead of letting the little head make all of the decisions.LEO using SA seems like a very high effort, low reward technique, but I suppose it's possible. With that said I never see anyone off there unless I can determine who they really are. Here is what I do.
-take it off SA. Ask for her number to continue things over text. Take that number and enter it into Facebook. If there is an account tied to that number, it will pop up. This is a good way to find indentities and verify pics. This works A LOT.
-enter their profile name into Twitter and Instagram, a lot of them just seem to default to the same profile name out of habit.
-another method that has worked, especially if they are from a smaller town (if the cell search doesn't work) is just enter their first name and their city into Facebook. Like Jenny Hickory or Marie Gastonia. Then scroll through the results. Might take 10 minutes but I have found that people often use their FB profile pics on SA. Found the last two girls I met this way.
-if still unsure, request to meet for coffee. LEO isn't going to waste time on this. I like to offer this anyway as a way to make her feel more comfortable. Some accept, some decline.
A lot of these tactics won't work with pros as they use fake names and burners, but for the utr and college girls / single moms, I have found that basically zero give you a fake name or don't use their "regular" phone. Since those are the only ones I'm interested in, if I can't find their indentity, I move on. Also keep in mind that all of the above can be used to identify you.
Gigabyte40
08-11-16, 14:09
Ok. I am new to this technique and honestly apprehensive. I have appreciated all that the group has contributed. Question now. I have connected with a real person that appears to be interested in proceeding. We are still doing the dance of "what are you looking for?" And "what is your suggestion?" I don't get any suspicions but then again it is best not to trust anyone. Does anyone have preferred methods of LEO checking a potential P2 P date? Everyone has their trade secrets. I appreciate your input. Feel free to send a PM as well. This could be really sweet if all goes well. I need to maintain some discipline instead of letting the little head make all of the decisions.Here's how I did it. When contacting potential SB's:
After all the texting and messaging, I require a real voice call so I can see if there is a real girl on the other end. Asking for a phone call usually stopped pranksters and fakes right there. When they ask why do you need TALK to me I responded by saying if we're going to meet then we have to talk.
So try that first. Ask them to call you or you call them. Or stop wasting time texting some teenage kid who is leading you on with a fake ad.
Next, I just say I'm looking for something mutually beneficial where I help you and you help me. If they agree then you're good. If they say help you how, then you're probably talking to someone that's not going to have fun.
As for money, I ask are you open minded? If they say yes then I say you could make 100 or 200 if you're open minded.
Try those and see what happens.
GB40.
John HandCock
08-11-16, 14:27
Ok. I am new to this technique and honestly apprehensive. I have appreciated all that the group has contributed. Question now. I have connected with a real person that appears to be interested in proceeding. We are still doing the dance of "what are you looking for?" And "what is your suggestion?" I don't get any suspicions but then again it is best not to trust anyone. Does anyone have preferred methods of LEO checking a potential P2 P date? Everyone has their trade secrets. I appreciate your input. Feel free to send a PM as well. This could be really sweet if all goes well. I need to maintain some discipline instead of letting the little head make all of the decisions.Set up m / g. If your talking money by text, email, or phone your talking sex worker. Do dinner or coffee talk see if connection. If both want to proceed then have her describe what she expects. If its good sgree, if not negotiate. Pretty simple and straight forward. LEO NOT going throught all this UNLESS one of parties is involved in the drug trade. My opinion.
Gastonian4
08-11-16, 16:34
It's difficult to figure out the section to post this in. I met this girl through an ad that was somewhat innocent I had in CL. Talked her into meeting of drinks. She is very cautious. Told her about WYP and she posted an ad in there under Gastonia. She's had limited luck. I've referred 3 or 4 well known to me Senior members via her direct contact info. One SM gave me a review of her that it was the best he'd had in years. Two said it was a very good experience and one was so so but he still got off LOL. She is in a mid level hotel in Gastonia that's safe from my experience. Contribution is. 5 to a little more. I can't believe that guys that post with expensive MP reviews balk with $. 5 unless it's a SW give me a break. Sorry to rant. Anyway she is 24 a 9 face 5 body little chunky. BBBJ skills about a 5. Puss of velvet. Send me a PM if you have a lot of legitimate reviews to your name and a trusted senior member. Everybody be good.
Here's how I did it. When contacting potential SB's:
After all the texting and messaging, I require a real voice call so I can see if there is a real girl on the other end. Asking for a phone call usually stopped pranksters and fakes right there. When they ask why do you need TALK to me I responded by saying if we're going to meet then we have to talk.
So try that first. Ask them to call you or you call them. Or stop wasting time texting some teenage kid who is leading you on with a fake ad.
Next, I just say I'm looking for something mutually beneficial where I help you and you help me. If they agree then you're good. If they say help you how, then you're probably talking to someone that's not going to have fun.
As for money, I ask are you open minded? If they say yes then I say you could make 100 or 200 if you're open minded.
Try those and see what happens.
GB40.My approach is to say I'm looking for someone who can spare an hour or two three or four times a month in private with possible dinners, shows, etc. I also add that the first meeting can be in public or a hotel room. That usually makes things clear. I've also found that older (25 and over) women are a little more direct about arrangements. The younger ones I've met seem to sort of be playing with the idea of a SD / sb arrangement.
Member #6056
08-12-16, 23:33
Hi Gastonian,
FYI, your Inbox is full so I couldn't reply to your PM.
Thanks,
InOut.
Gastonian4
08-12-16, 23:47
Hi Gastonian,
FYI, your Inbox is full so I couldn't reply to your PM.
Thanks,
InOut.Inbox is good to go now.
What do you guys use for a picture on WYP? Can't really use a real photo of myself due to. Well you know.
Seems you have to provide a picture and get it approved to do much on the site.
PK.
Mravcapo69
08-21-16, 20:52
I use an app on my phone to blur the face, and than in the private photos I put the same version of that picture without a blur, and if I choose, I can put couple more pics. I use "Touch Blur" app for iPhone, and so far it worked good for me. That creates enough privacy for me. It blurs the pic enough not to be recognizable. I hope this helps.
What do you guys use for a picture on WYP? Can't really use a real photo of myself due to. Well you know.
Seems you have to provide a picture and get it approved to do much on the site.
PK.
I sent out winks on WYP and received four offers. Wondering if anyone has any actual experience with these women. Feel free to PM if you prefer.
Young 18 to 22:
Mariahshea98 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~mariahshae98.
Adrianeee https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~adrianneee.
Two MILFS:
Jaclyn20 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Jaclyn20.
Skindiva https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Skindiva.
I received messages from these women on SA. Anyone have any experience with any of them? I'm getting ready to pull the trigger.
Leannnason 19 https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d982d61b-8bf6-85ba-2241-478d0d232308.
RingMySouthernBell 30 and hot https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/49410dbd-00cb-481f-9743-a953177c3731.
Kristen10 foryouSA 42 MILF very sexy private pics https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b25fe380-a959-41cf-b8ec-23a30428870f.
VelvetVanDorin 19 smokin private pics https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/11fc688f-2b7b-26db-6732-4bb7e4dc9897.
Southerncfp
08-29-16, 09:07
I haven't seen any of these chicks. I have met several from WYP. Just my experience, but I tend to stay away from 18-22 yr olds. They are usually clueless about what us guys are looking for plus, I prefer a little bit older anyway. PM if you want details on those that I've had good times with.
I sent out winks on WYP and received four offers. Wondering if anyone has any actual experience with these women. Feel free to PM if you prefer.
Young 18 to 22:
Mariahshea98 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~mariahshae98.
Adrianeee https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~adrianneee.
Two MILFS:
Jaclyn20 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Jaclyn20.
Skindiva https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Skindiva.
Arrangement Finders has a number of posts where the girls reveal an e-mail address (usually gmail). All are fake, eventually trying to get you to sign up on another web site.
Mravcapo69
08-29-16, 19:51
Mariahshea98 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~mariahshae98. - Seems interesting. She has a profile on SA as well. Told me about her very close friend, and said how they do everything together. She asked me if I would be interested in both of them at the same time. I am toying with that idea. Depends how much it will cost me. I am working on meeting with them soon, to see if that's something I want to approach further.
Adrianeee https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~adrianneee. - a small girl. Met her for lunch once, but than I left Charlotte for the summer. She is a babysitter for some rich guy, but is looking to make some money on the side. She is little bit annoying, but sweet. I am returning to Charlotte soon and I may approach her again to see if I can get more out of her than just a lunch. She's real petite, just the way I like them, so I may work on hitting that at least once to give it a test ride LOL.
Jaclyn20 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Jaclyn20. - no experience with her.
Skindiva https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Skindiva - I've sent her a wink, but she rejected it. Not sure why. I suppose I am not her type. Better luck to someone else.
I sent out winks on WYP and received four offers. Wondering if anyone has any actual experience with these women. Feel free to PM if you prefer.
Young 18 to 22:
Mariahshea98 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~mariahshae98.
Adrianeee https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~adrianneee.
Two MILFS:
Jaclyn20 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Jaclyn20.
Skindiva https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Skindiva.
I sent out winks on WYP and received four offers. Wondering if anyone has any actual experience with these women. Feel free to PM if you prefer.
Young 18 to 22:
Mariahshea98 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~mariahshae98.
Adrianeee https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~adrianneee.
Two MILFS:
Jaclyn20 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Jaclyn20.
Skindiva https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Skindiva.Mariahshea is on SA. She sent me an unsolicited message talking about her and friend. Seemed a little like a stock message that blows out to a ton of people. Things like that make she think she isn't real, but that's just a gut feel.
Onecurious
08-29-16, 23:28
Mariahshea is on SA. She sent me an unsolicited message talking about her and friend. Seemed a little like a stock message that blows out to a ton of people. Things like that make she think she isn't real, but that's just a gut feel.Received a message also on SA from Mariahshea about meeting her and her friend also. Seems a little fishy but we have been conversating. I prefer over 21 however. If anyone has any info on SA to share PM and we can exchange.
I have known her personally for some time. A friend of mine dated her a year or so ago.
PM me and I can try to share what info I do know to help.
I sent out winks on WYP and received four offers. Wondering if anyone has any actual experience with these women. Feel free to PM if you prefer.
Young 18 to 22:
Mariahshea98 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~mariahshae98.
Adrianeee https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~adrianneee.
Two MILFS:
Jaclyn20 https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Jaclyn20.
Skindiva https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Skindiva.
So I'm going to make the switch from SA to WYP. I'm still trying to iron out my approach and the premise of the site. Wanted to start off with a few younings 18 to 20. Wondering if anyone has any experience with any of these girls. Please feel free to PM if you have anything to share or any other recommendations ( or any to avoid )
CharlotteQueen95 (20 yr).
Babygirl0282 (19 yr).
HereForYou2 (19).
I was going to post the links to the profiles but they were pretty long.
Mravcapo69
09-03-16, 12:41
From the economical aspect of WYP, I am starting to like it over SA. Simply because, once the both sides agreed on first date price, and the contact is established, you can keep in touch with the lady as long as you want. On the other hand, SA want's you to keep paying for the membership every month, otherwise, if you're membership has expired, you can log into the account, but you can't read the conversation you had previously.
The flip side to it is, SA seems to have way more to choose from, in comparison to WYP. So they both have it's benefits, depending what the personal need / preference is.
CharlotteQueen95 she want's 200 for first date and is sticking to that price. In my humble opinion, that's little bit too much, especially if you consider that all you're getting in most cases, is just a dinner date. She has a chance of meeting you, getting fed, takes the money and never sees you again. I personally will not go on a dinner date with a girl, for more than 100. Even that is pushing it. Not trying to sound cheap, just reasonable, and as long as other guys keep throwing cash at them, reasonable is not the idea these girls get into their heads.
Babygirl0282 We agreed on a first date price and all, we just can't find the time that works for both.
HereForYou2 Keeps insisting on 150 for the first date.
I'd love to see what some other respected senior members in here have to say to this.
So I'm going to make the switch from SA to WYP. I'm still trying to iron out my approach and the premise of the site. Wanted to start off with a few younings 18 to 20. Wondering if anyone has any experience with any of these girls. Please feel free to PM if you have anything to share or any other recommendations ( or any to avoid )
CharlotteQueen95 (20 yr).
Babygirl0282 (19 yr).
HereForYou2 (19).
I was going to post the links to the profiles but they were pretty long.
Thanks for the good info. Like you said, the selection seems a bit thin as compared to SA. I might send out a few offers and see. If its just dinner dates I'll go back to SA where things seem to be more what I'm looking for. Thanks again.
From the economical aspect of WYP, I am starting to like it over SA. Simply because, once the both sides agreed on first date price, and the contact is established, you can keep in touch with the lady as long as you want. On the other hand, SA want's you to keep paying for the membership every month, otherwise, if you're membership has expired, you can log into the account, but you can't read the conversation you had previously.
The flip side to it is, SA seems to have way more to choose from, in comparison to WYP. So they both have it's benefits, depending what the personal need / preference is.
CharlotteQueen95 she want's 200 for first date and is sticking to that price. In my humble opinion, that's little bit too much, especially if you consider that all you're getting in most cases, is just a dinner date. She has a chance of meeting you, getting fed, takes the money and never sees you again. I personally will not go on a dinner date with a girl, for more than 100. Even that is pushing it. Not trying to sound cheap, just reasonable, and as long as other guys keep throwing cash at them, reasonable is not the idea these girls get into their heads.
Babygirl0282 We agreed on a first date price and all, we just can't find the time that works for both.
HereForYou2 Keeps insisting on 150 for the first date.
I'd love to see what some other respected senior members in here have to say to this.
Gastonian4
09-03-16, 18:44
Thanks for the good info. Like you said, the selection seems a bit thin as compared to SA. I might send out a few offers and see. If its just dinner dates I'll go back to SA where things seem to be more what I'm looking for. Thanks again.I've had good luck with WYP. I stick with Gastonia area girls for the best value. You have to read in between the lines to get a gut feel if a girl is at least a possibility. I send a wink and if a girl says 200 I ignore them. If they say 100 I will counter with 99 because that takes less credits than 100. Once you put 50 on credits you can contact 4 or 5 girls and it doesn't have to be within a month they don't expire so you can wait for new talent. Typically I take it to regular email with the girl after a few messages back and forth and tell them I don't want to risk the site monitoring our private conversation. You have to carefully dance the dance with them to see if they are a possibility. Then I end up talking to the girl into meeting for 50 for drinks and tell her I'll give her the other 50 if she dresses sexy for me and if she's ok with getting a quick snuggle in the parking lot. If the girls a possibility typically they will go for it if the chemistry is right and go to the parking lot. By that point you can tell if more is a strong possibility. I've worked out extras right after the first date 3 or 4 times and arranged a future meeting easily other times. For a full encounter I've arranged anywhere from 50 to 100. Most of the WYP girls aren't SW or BP girls and they don't ask for a monthly arrangement. The real young ones think they are worth too much though. You just need to know when to be subtle and don't show your hand totally before you meet and get the chemistry going. I'd say 70 percent of the ones I ended up meeting are doable. 4 or 5 of you can vouch that I gave you the information on a few of them that these girls are real but they come and go so you have to refresh with new ones. The girls just want some attention and they don't want to feel like a * eve though they are LOL.
Mravcapo69
09-03-16, 22:28
I agree with everything Gastonian said. I'll add just another point here, that it is probably good to keep checking both sites, WYP and SA. Some of the girls have profiles on both sites. If I find the same girl on both sites, although there is no guarantee, I believe that increases the probability of getting more out of them than just a dinner date. It may take little extra sweet talking, but it may be worth it in the near future.
I've had good luck with WYP. I stick with Gastonia area girls for the best value. You have to read in between the lines to get a gut feel if a girl is at least a possibility. I send a wink and if a girl says 200 I ignore them. If they say 100 I will counter with 99 because that takes less credits than 100. Once you put 50 on credits you can contact 4 or 5 girls and it doesn't have to be within a month they don't expire so you can wait for new talent. Typically I take it to regular email with the girl after a few messages back and forth and tell them I don't want to risk the site monitoring our private conversation. You have to carefully dance the dance with them to see if they are a possibility. Then I end up talking to the girl into meeting for 50 for drinks and tell her I'll give her the other 50 if she dresses sexy for me and if she's ok with getting a quick snuggle in the parking lot. If the girls a possibility typically they will go for it if the chemistry is right and go to the parking lot. By that point you can tell if more is a strong possibility. I've worked out extras right after the first date 3 or 4 times and arranged a future meeting easily other times. For a full encounter I've arranged anywhere from 50 to 100. Most of the WYP girls aren't SW or BP girls and they don't ask for a monthly arrangement. The real young ones think they are worth too much though. You just need to know when to be subtle and don't show your hand totally before you meet and get the chemistry going. I'd say 70 percent of the ones I ended up meeting are doable. 4 or 5 of you can vouch that I gave you the information on a few of them that these girls are real but they come and go so you have to refresh with new ones. The girls just want some attention and they don't want to feel like a * eve though they are LOL.
Mravcapo69
09-04-16, 09:43
To all of you fellow mongers, who are looking at WYP and SA, here is the profile I would recommend to stay away from. Just weird, and too complicated for my taste. She has a profile on WYP and SA. If any of you want to throw money at this chick, please do so, but I am done with her.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Ambrozia
In her profile she comes across all nice and friendly, "open minded" and "free spirited", but when she wanted $150 for a date, I told her that I thought a lunch or dinner date and $100 is a fair offer, she stopped talking to me. So I asked her is she was interested or not, that I would like to know, and she comes back with the reply below.
"Yea, I read your message, disliked your tone, and chose not to write you back.
I feel like you have a lot of needs that you'd like met right off the bat. You want me to be ok with you being married, ok. You want me to meet for lunch even though my preference is always for dinner, ok. You want me to cater to your schedule and just be flexible to when you're available, ok. And these are all things I'm fine with, however I noticed you're pretty quick to cut down my needs. That is selfish and one sided. That is not the type of arrangement I'm seeking.
It's not about the money as much as it is about self respect. Really. If you're going to nitpick over $50, I'm most definitely all set with that nonsense. I chose $150 as the offer because the money wasn't as important, because I genuinely had an interest in meeting you, I'm normal given $200+ for dinner.
I wish you luck in whatever you're seeking here. I will not be meeting you now. Enjoy your day. ".
My reply to that was. And please guys, let me know if I was unreasonable.
"Hmmm, I am confused. So you disliked my tone just because I was trying to explain how my schedule and situation is, so that you're aware and you can tell me if that works for you and how your life is and that we can plan something that works for both of us. They are not needs, or me being selfish, as you put it, but the reality of how my life is. I didn't think that being honest would be considered demanding or needy, but by explaining that, I thought you would understand the situation better and we would be on the same page. So instead of communicating and talking to me, so that we can work something out, you do your own assumptions and conclusions, and you just ignore me, as if I am supposed to read your mind and know all of those things without talking to you. I told you that I would prefer to do lunch because that's what works for me, but I didn't exclude dinner. I just said I would need little more time to arrange something so that I can meet you for dinner. I didn't want you to be OK with me being married. I just told you that I am married and asked you if you are OK with that. You could have simply say NO and we would move one. You use "self respect" to justify your higher money demand than what I was comfortable with, and calling me cheap with arguing aver $50. If being treated with a nice lunch or a dinner, and potentially good and interesting company, plus a $100 without any other expectations, is not good for you, than who is being selfish here? If you, like you said, genuinely had interest of meeting me, and we were matching with many interests, better communication and nitpicking about the money wouldn't have been an issue. Bottom line is that you rejected me only based on my money offer. I may be many things in your eyes, but stupid I am definitely not. For someone who advertises herself as being open minded, free spirited, etc. , the last thing I would expect that the money was that big of an issue if you were "genuinely" interested in someone. Yes, I wish you best of luck as well, and perhaps you should adjust your profile to describe what you're truly all about, $$ Enjoy your life, because I don't need that sort of a gold digging energy around me. ".
John HandCock
09-04-16, 10:49
To all of you fellow mongers, who are looking at WYP and SA, here is the profile I would recommend to stay away from. Just weird, and too complicated for my taste. She has a profile on WYP and SA. If any of you want to throw money at this chick, please do so, but I am done with her.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Ambrozia
In her profile she comes across all nice and friendly, "open minded" and "free spirited", but when she wanted $150 for a date, I told her that I thought a lunch or dinner date and $100 is a fair offer, she stopped talking to me. So I asked her is she was interested or not, that I would like to know, and she comes back with the reply below.
"Yea, I read your message, disliked your tone, and chose not to write you back.
I feel like you have a lot of needs that you'd like met right off the bat. You want me to be ok with you being married, ok. You want me to meet for lunch even though my preference is always for dinner, ok. You want me to cater to your schedule and just be flexible to when you're available, ok. And these are all things I'm fine with, however I noticed you're pretty quick to cut down my needs. That is selfish and one sided. That is not the type of arrangement I'm seeking.
It's not about the money as much as it is about self respect. Really. If you're going to nitpick over $50, I'm most definitely all set with that nonsense. I chose $150 as the offer because the money wasn't as important, because I genuinely had an interest in meeting you, I'm normal given $200+ for dinner.
I wish you luck in whatever you're seeking here. I will not be meeting you now. Enjoy your day. ".
My reply to that was. And please guys, let me know if I was unreasonable.
"Hmmm, I am confused. So you disliked my tone just because I was trying to explain how my schedule and situation is, so that you're aware and you can tell me if that works for you and how your life is and that we can plan something that works for both of us. They are not needs, or me being selfish, as you put it, but the reality of how my life is. I didn't think that being honest would be considered demanding or needy, but by explaining that, I thought you would understand the situation better and we would be on the same page. So instead of communicating and talking to me, so that we can work something out, you do your own assumptions and conclusions, and you just ignore me, as if I am supposed to read your mind and know all of those things without talking to you. I told you that I would prefer to do lunch because that's what works for me, but I didn't exclude dinner. I just said I would need little more time to arrange something so that I can meet you for dinner. I didn't want you to be OK with me being married. I just told you that I am married and asked you if you are OK with that. You could have simply say NO and we would move one. You use "self respect" to justify your higher money demand than what I was comfortable with, and calling me cheap with arguing aver $50. If being treated with a nice lunch or a dinner, and potentially good and interesting company, plus a $100 without any other expectations, is not good for you, than who is being selfish here? If you, like you said, genuinely had interest of meeting me, and we were matching with many interests, better communication and nitpicking about the money wouldn't have been an issue. Bottom line is that you rejected me only based on my money offer. I may be many things in your eyes, but stupid I am definitely not. For someone who advertises herself as being open minded, free spirited, etc. , the last thing I would expect that the money was that big of an issue if you were "genuinely" interested in someone. Yes, I wish you best of luck as well, and perhaps you should adjust your profile to describe what you're truly all about, $$ Enjoy your life, because I don't need that sort of a gold digging energy around me. ".Never ever pay for a m / g. Think of it it as job interview for both. No one pays to be interviewed. Not everyone is a connection if that's what your seeking. If your looking for utr the connection doesn't matter. Arguing over 50 and schedule clearly no match. Instead of going back and forth wish them luck and move on. Remember they are here for financial help not to meet a bf.
Longduckdong1
09-05-16, 20:40
Interesting.
Found a match that I saw once on at a massage place on SA.
Look for lzzielou and you will see someone familar to the scene from Plaza Midwood.
I saw her once on central, not as cute as the pics, a bit dirty and disheveled. Offered takeout but was asking about twice what I felt she was worth.
Small word. That chick has messaged me before on SA. I didn't know she was a pro. Haven't see her but she wanted 400 bucks for a meet up. I wasn't interested.
Interesting.
Found a match that I saw once on at a massage place on SA.
Look for lzzielou and you will see someone familar to the scene from Plaza Midwood.
I saw her once on central, not as cute as the pics, a bit dirty and disheveled. Offered takeout but was asking about twice what I felt she was worth.
Southerncfp
09-06-16, 11:45
I just met her for a M&G last week. I could tell as soon as we met that she was just trying to get money from dudes with no intent on actually meeting. She wants to meet multiple times, to really to get to know someone. Give me a break. No need for that shit. So when we get ready to leave she quotes me a shit ton of money for her "monthly maintenance". I wasnt sure if I should laugh or just tell her to f off. I opted for the latter. She said what about today. I said what about it? You agreed to $$. I said no I didn't. We met for lunch today, nothing else, clearly. So I offered her 50 to not make a scene, and she took it. She then looks up at me with those big brown doe eyes, and says, "well, I'm really mad now. I don't think I want to see you again. " And like Powers Boothe in Tombstone, I stare back at her and say "So what?" She was very disappointed. Ohh well.
Never ever pay for a m / g. Think of it it as job interview for both. No one pays to be interviewed. Not everyone is a connection if that's what your seeking. If your looking for utr the connection doesn't matter. Arguing over 50 and schedule clearly no match. Instead of going back and forth wish them luck and move on. Remember they are here for financial help not to meet a bf.
Never ever pay for a m / g. Think of it it as job interview for both. No one pays to be interviewed. Not everyone is a connection if that's what your seeking. If your looking for utr the connection doesn't matter. Arguing over 50 and schedule clearly no match. Instead of going back and forth wish them luck and move on. Remember they are here for financial help not to meet a bf.Totally agree with this. I try to make that clear that a meet and greet is just that. It's not the arrangement. I also refuse to meet with anyone until we've had some prelim money discussion. Turns some girls off, but I try to frame more as I don't want to waste their time if we aren't in the same ball park.
The man is sitting in a bar, strikes up a conversation with a lady, and after several drinks, asks the lady if she would fuck him for a million dollars. She says "YES" ! Then he asks her if she would fuck him for $100. She turns to him & says loudly, "WHAT DO YOU THINK I AM?" . The man replies, "well I already know what you are, we are just haggling over the price ".
Anyone have any experience with "soulshinechic"? Seems to be a sexy UTR MILF. I usually go younger, but I like the look of her and I'm getting tired of no shows. Seems like a sure thing.
Mravcapo69
09-08-16, 20:24
Sometime I wonder if some of these chicks truly think that they are a God's gift to desperate, lonely men, and we can't get a dinner date in any other way but paying them. Seriously, give me F* break. There is another one of those talented individuals. Her profile on WYP.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Scarlett32
First of all, she approached me first with an offer of 200, and I changed it to 100, which again, as Gastonian pointed out, for an interview, dinner or lunch alone should be enough. But anyway, she comes back with 200 again, and I again brought it down to 100, and she counters right back at 200. I declined and ignored her. I can do so much more with that 200 than listen to her wining about her financial problems and her expensive lifestyle. I am not about to feed her, be her shrink, and pay her like an attorney.
Totally agree with this. I try to make that clear that a meet and greet is just that. It's not the arrangement. I also refuse to meet with anyone until we've had some prelim money discussion. Turns some girls off, but I try to frame more as I don't want to waste their time if we aren't in the same ball park.
I think you nailed the description.
In my short time on WYP I'll admit, I'm not a fan and I prefer SA. It seems that most of the chicks on here (especially the younger ones) just want a "date" and they want to be paid for you to take them out to dinner or an activity. SA chicks (once you weed out the pros and fakes) have some decent chicks that appreciate your time and $$ and repay the favor. It seems WYP the focus is on the "date" SA the focus is on the "arrangement".
Sometime I wonder if some of these chicks truly think that they are a God's gift to desperate, lonely men, and we can't get a dinner date in any other way but paying them. Seriously, give me F* break. There is another one of those talented individuals. Her profile on WYP.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Scarlett32
First of all, she approached me first with an offer of 200, and I changed it to 100, which again, as Gastonian pointed out, for an interview, dinner or lunch alone should be enough. But anyway, she comes back with 200 again, and I again brought it down to 100, and she counters right back at 200. I declined and ignored her. I can do so much more with that 200 than listen to her wining about her financial problems and her expensive lifestyle. I am not about to feed her, be her shrink, and pay her like an attorney.
I think you nailed the description.
In my short time on WYP I'll admit, I'm not a fan and I prefer SA. It seems that most of the chicks on here (especially the younger ones) just want a "date" and they want to be paid for you to take them out to dinner or an activity. SA chicks (once you weed out the pros and fakes) have some decent chicks that appreciate your time and $$ and repay the favor. It seems WYP the focus is on the "date" SA the focus is on the "arrangement".Totally agree. I think that's what I struggled with on WYP. You agree on an amount, but for what? I'd rather pay SA $70 a month than pay some girl $100 to each lunch with me.
Mravcapo69
09-09-16, 21:35
Having an account on both, SA and WYP, it gives me an idea if the girls are actively working it and if they are most likely just for money. Just to test it, I think I am going to change my approach for a while. If any of you have any input on this idea, it would be greatly appreciated. Perhaps some of you are already doing something similar, but to weed out the girls that are only after the money, first I'll start accepting offers only up to $100, or $99, as Gastonian suggested, for the reason of using less credits. Those that agree on that price, to weed out gold diggers, and to filter even more, I'll explain that the first date they will be treated with lunch or dinner only. If there is chemistry, and we click enough to have a 2nd date, preferably somewhere more intimate, that's when they will get the agreed amount and whatever else we agree on. I may end up with no dates at all, but at least it's an experiment worth trying. This may take a while, because new prospects do not come on WYP as often as on SA, but I got all the time in the world, and someone in plan B is always good to have.
Totally agree. I think that's what I struggled with on WYP. You agree on an amount, but for what? I'd rather pay SA $70 a month than pay some girl $100 to each lunch with me.
Mravcapo69
09-09-16, 22:09
Just wondering if anyone of you guys had any contact or experience with this young lady on WYP.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~TattooPrincess15
Her profile stats say she's a tiny little thing, just the way I like them. She' has a profile on SA as well. Any info would be appreciated. If you want to keep it private, please inbox me. Thanks!
Anyone have any experience with "soulshinechic"? Seems to be a sexy UTR MILF. I usually go younger, but I like the look of her and I'm getting tired of no shows. Seems like a sure thing.FYI. Despite confirming we were still on Friday and Saturday, this one no showed on me today. Waste of a hotel room. Avoid.
Holy Houndog
09-13-16, 08:48
I don't post often, but have had several successful dates and a few not so much on WYP. As some have stated, a few of these ladies suffer from GPS. I don't play that. If it costs more than a ben, see ya. I've had a couple who want to m&g and we talk, eat and discuss further options. As Gastonian says, Gtown is a popular breeding ground. I've met one in Georgia, well worth it for a half bill and room. Some of the girls are want to be high priced escorts without the stigma. Even had one to tell me that she didn't want to have sex for 3 benjamins, that wud make her a wh#%e. But she wanted the money for her time. Bwahahaha. I've met lonely women just looking for extra, like I am, but needed some assitance. Glad to help ladies. Be reasonable. If you think you're worth 2/3 bux, you are an overpriced streetwalker on WYP. Good luck with that. Bid low, maximize your credits and negotiate in person, email or text. Stay away from the GPS and one can find some good strange on that site. Happy Hunting. Dog. And BTW, If Gastonian gives a tip, it's a good deal. The guy doesn't miss.
Run, don't walk when you see a "LCurls" from this site, she is a thief waiting to steal your money. After initial meet and greet, she looked like a nice person and went to hotel. We did had sex and she just decides to take the money from my pants and run out while I was showering / cleaning myself. She kicked me so hard too, when I tried to stop her because I didn't know what else she took along with the money (car keys / phone etc) and was so worried, Luckily she only took the money and nothing else, my phone, car keys and bag were still in the room, thank god! She probably thought that cash I had in my pants is more than what we negotiated (and it wasn't, I had exact cash we agreed on), and wanted to run away with it (with more cash). Shaken up really bad, and don't want this to any of you out there, please be careful. Always watch out for your belongings and never leave their sight, I saw reports of this kind of stuff happening to others and thought it would never happen to me, wrong! You can PM me for more details.
Mravcapo69
09-20-16, 21:15
Hey, thanks for the warning. Below is the link to the profile. I hope the link works.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/85db0f6e-28d1-4980-87ca-7afbbe1081c1
Run, don't walk when you see a "LCurls" from this site, she is a thief waiting to steal your money. After initial meet and greet, she looked like a nice person and went to hotel. We did had sex and she just decides to take the money from my pants and run out while I was showering / cleaning myself. She kicked me so hard too, when I tried to stop her because I didn't know what else she took along with the money (car keys / phone etc) and was so worried, Luckily she only took the money and nothing else, my phone, car keys and bag were still in the room, thank god! She probably thought that cash I had in my pants is more than what we negotiated (and it wasn't, I had exact cash we agreed on), and wanted to run away with it (with more cash). Shaken up really bad, and don't want this to any of you out there, please be careful. Always watch out for your belongings and never leave their sight, I saw reports of this kind of stuff happening to others and thought it would never happen to me, wrong! You can PM me for more details.
Yeah, she was the one. She was edgy and a bit serious when I met her for the initial meet and greet and almost didn't wanted to go to the hotel, as I saw some red flags. I also have a rule not to go to hotel right after the first meeting / but the little head took over my rationale and I ignored my own rules. She is a stinker too, pussy smells despite me asking her to wash, she just pretended to wash it I guess, bad hygiene although she looked clean on the outside when I met her. Don't know why these people can't even keep their body / private parts clean and smell free!!
I trusted this person bit too much and was relaxed in looking out for my own security, so please be alert and mindful of that. Keep your wallet in car and hide car keys / Driver license and Credit card (that you need to show hotel) in some inconspicuous place right after you get into hotel room. I myself never take wallet into the room, so that saved me from further damage.
Hey, thanks for the warning. Below is the link to the profile. I hope the link works.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/85db0f6e-28d1-4980-87ca-7afbbe1081c1
OrdinaryJohn
09-27-16, 17:29
Tried Jess from WYP? Looks too good to be true. She's talking about meeting up halfway.
Mravcapo69
09-27-16, 20:40
When asking these questions, it would really be helpful if the link to the profile was included, so that we know exactly who Jess is, from where, etc. Copy and paste of a link does not take that much of an effort. I've looked through all the Charlotte profiles, within 50 miles range, and I see no one with just a name Jess. Few profiles with a variation of that name, yes I do see. But now I have to guess who the girl is in question.
Tried Jess from WYP? Looks too good to be true. She's talking about meeting up halfway.
Gastonian4
09-27-16, 21:13
When asking these questions, it would really be helpful if the link to the profile was included, so that we know exactly who Jess is, from where, etc. Copy and paste of a link does not take that much of an effort. I've looked through all the Charlotte profiles, within 50 miles range, and I see no one with just a name Jess. Few profiles with a variation of that name, yes I do see. But now I have to guess who the girl is in question.You can also do a search by username on WYP but I believe you have to have the exact username. I found just one user within 50 miles with the exact name Jessica she's from lake Wylie.
Mravcapo69
09-27-16, 22:43
Thanks Gastonian!
I suspected that was the one, but it would have been so much easier just to do this.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Jessica
She seems interesting, and pretty much very business like. I am not sure if that's good or bad. Being straight to the point, at least we know what she's after. I haven't seen her before, so I assume, like her profile says, she just got onto it.
You can also do a search by username on WYP but I believe you have to have the exact username. I found just one user within 50 miles with the exact name Jessica she's from lake Wylie.
Mravcapo69
09-30-16, 22:55
I don't remember if I've asked about this one already, but does anyone have any experience to share about this girl? Link to her WYP profile is below. If you prefer to I'm me, instead of writing a public review, please do.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Kaitlingr
Gastonian4
10-01-16, 10:15
I don't remember if I've asked about this one already, but does anyone have any experience to share about this girl? Link to her WYP profile is below. If you prefer to I'm me, instead of writing a public review, please do.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~KaitlingrShe accepted an offer for just under a Franklin. Went back and forth with a few messages but didn't get much of a response back. Plus she says she won't do anything on the first date. But still could be worth a try.
She accepted an offer for just under a Franklin. Went back and forth with a few messages but didn't get much of a response back. Plus she says she won't do anything on the first date. But still could be worth a try.I met her in Huntersville. Country girl who lives in and works as a waitress near Denver. She is more interested in the date money than really doing anything. Definitely nothing on the first date. She is looking for the classic long term sugar daddy. Didn't seem up for any kind of pay to play. Best thing I can say is pictures are accurate.
Mravcapo69
10-01-16, 12:54
Gastonian! Thanks for the reply. I was waiting for someone to give their input. Here is my experience. She accepted the offer just under a Franklin. It happened several months back. I was out of the state all summer, and returned beginning of September. Meanwhile, we exchanged many messages, and felt like we really clicked. Agreed on face to face meet, once I return. She sounded excited, and could wait to meet me. Finally, once I came back to Chlt, we choose the day to meet for lunch. I told her I typically don't give any cash on the first date, but I liked her, so I don't mind. Met for lunch. She is who she says she is. I also checked her on FB, and found out she has a boyfriend, which she told me that she broke up with. Had a great conversation. All went well. She told me that she would let me know her schedule the following week, so that we can meet again. I gave her the agreed amount, which turned out to be my price for learning the lesson. She wasn't contacting me with the schedule, so I've sent several messages, being nice and asking if she'd like to get together again and usual stuff. Nothing rude or pushy, just a normal conversation after, what I thought was a nice date. She never replied to any of my messages, and just keeps ignoring me. She red them all, and she's on the site every day, on top of the list. Fair enough, I don't expect to be every girls cup of tea, but at least have some common decency toward others, and if you demand respect, give respect back. I would appreciate at least her telling me she's no longer interested, but the silence treatment, that doesn't site well with me. If she replied and explained, I would never write any negative reviews. But my 100 lesson, I believe, is worth sharing with everyone here. I think this girl is just working the site. Goes on first dates, and gets what she can the first time, and that's where it ends with her. Perhaps some of you had a better experience, but this is mine. I am just warning everyone, be careful with this girl. She'll take your money and never talk to you again. Yeap, I was a sucker, but now I know :)) I'd love to hear form anyone else having a better experience, but I doubt it.
Once again, here is the link to her profile
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Kaitlingr
She accepted an offer for just under a Franklin. Went back and forth with a few messages but didn't get much of a response back. Plus she says she won't do anything on the first date. But still could be worth a try.
Gigabyte40
10-02-16, 00:26
I met her in Huntersville. Country girl who lives in and works as a waitress near Denver. She is more interested in the date money than really doing anything. Definitely nothing on the first date. She is looking for the classic long term sugar daddy. Didn't seem up for any kind of pay to play. Best thing I can say is pictures are accurate.Kaitlyn must be making a fortune on these one time dinner dates. I met her too and paid 100 up front, bought dinner, then got nothing after that. I quit WYP months ago because I didn't like their concept of paying upfront.
For those who don't know, WYP is a sugar daddy site called WhatsYourPrice. You find a girl's profile you like and make a offer for a date. The site says the first date is not for sex it is just for meeting. You can offer 20 or 30 or 50 or 100 to entice a girl to meet you. She can accept or decline. Most girls I tried would not accept below 50 and some wanted 100 - JUST TO MEET.
That's too much to pay just to have dinner with no promise of anything more. A couple of dates I had turned into more but most of them just wanted to make money one time and never meet again. I just didn't like that concept.
GB40.
John HandCock
10-02-16, 08:37
Kaitlyn must be making a fortune on these one time dinner dates. I met her too and paid 100 up front, bought dinner, then got nothing after that. I quit WYP months ago because I didn't like their concept of paying upfront.
For those who don't know, WYP is a sugar daddy site called WhatsYourPrice. You find a girl's profile you like and make a offer for a date. The site says the first date is not for sex it is just for meeting. You can offer 20 or 30 or 50 or 100 to entice a girl to meet you. She can accept or decline. Most girls I tried would not accept below 50 and some wanted 100 - JUST TO MEET.
That's too much to pay just to have dinner with no promise of anything more. A couple of dates I had turned into more but most of them just wanted to make money one time and never meet again. I just didn't like that concept.
GB40.Yeah its a get paid to show up site. Better to just find a regular date from pof and take your chance at getting lucky.
Its best to stick to an sa type site and never ever pay for an initial m / g.
Mravcapo69
10-02-16, 10:21
Kaitlyn definitely seems to found her niche on that site for little extra income, and the story she gave me about breaking up with her "looser boyfriend" I doubt it's true. I am thinking of sending her one more message on WYP, and calling her out on her BS. On the other hand, I am not sure it's worth wasting my time. It's all part of her sales pitch. He probably knows about what she does and supports it, since they both no she's not giving up anything on the first date. It's good to bring these things out about these girls, and share it on this site. I don't believe that this will kill their little side activity, because there are still plenty of guys out there falling for their little scams, but hopefully it will slow it down. Or if nothing else, it will protect the members of this forum from being taken advantage of them. Unless, some of you will find the way how to turn this info into your advantage.
I did however, because of the nature of the site WYP, changed my whole approach. I tell every girl that I am happy to treat them with lunch or dinner on our first date, but cash handouts are only given down the road, depending which way our friendship goes. The ones that are not interested, I can care less about. We'll see how that works)).
Kaitlyn must be making a fortune on these one time dinner dates. I met her too and paid 100 up front, bought dinner, then got nothing after that. I quit WYP months ago because I didn't like their concept of paying upfront.
For those who don't know, WYP is a sugar daddy site called WhatsYourPrice. You find a girl's profile you like and make a offer for a date. The site says the first date is not for sex it is just for meeting. You can offer 20 or 30 or 50 or 100 to entice a girl to meet you. She can accept or decline. Most girls I tried would not accept below 50 and some wanted 100 - JUST TO MEET.
That's too much to pay just to have dinner with no promise of anything more. A couple of dates I had turned into more but most of them just wanted to make money one time and never meet again. I just didn't like that concept.
GB40.
Can't agree more, I created my WYP profile and guess what, the first offer I get is from her, a date for $100, I rejected saying not interested, never felt that good doing so. Also she claims to be 22, from the pics I seriously doubt that, she looks much older than that. But I digress.
I would say spread the word, to defeat her at her own game, hopefully not many folks fall for her trick!!
Kaitlyn definitely seems to found her niche on that site for little extra income, and the story she gave me about breaking up with her "looser boyfriend" I doubt it's true. I am thinking of sending her one more message on WYP, and calling her out on her BS. On the other hand, I am not sure it's worth wasting my time. It's all part of her sales pitch. He probably knows about what she does and supports it, since they both no she's not giving up anything on the first date. It's good to bring these things out about these girls, and share it on this site. I don't believe that this will kill their little side activity, because there are still plenty of guys out there falling for their little scams, but hopefully it will slow it down. Or if nothing else, it will protect the members of this forum from being taken advantage of them. Unless, some of you will find the way how to turn this info into your advantage.
I did however, because of the nature of the site WYP, changed my whole approach. I tell every girl that I am happy to treat them with lunch or dinner on our first date, but cash handouts are only given down the road, depending which way our friendship goes. The ones that are not interested, I can care less about. We'll see how that works)).
Mravcapo69
10-02-16, 14:54
As far as her age, I am not sure if she's 22, but she's very close to it. Although, she definitely looks bit better in the pictures. I agree, let's help each other from wasting the money on these scammers, and share the info about such chicks. I am almost certain that the ones that are honest and something could happen with them, other than just a lunch date, they should be fine not taking the money on the first day, but getting it later on. That's how it works on SA. Some of these chicks on WYP figured it out, that they can make money without giving up anything, if they just hang out on WYP. Well, I am done with being a charity for them. I don't feel like giving them a Benjamin or anything less just to pay for their lunch and drinks as well. find out the took the money and ran.
On the other hand, we should share the info, and help the girls that are honest and willing to go further. Once you contact them, it's up to you which angle you take to get them to cooperate with you.
Can't agree more, I created my WYP profile and guess what, the first offer I get is from her, a date for $100, I rejected saying not interested, never felt that good doing so. Also she claims to be 22, from the pics I seriously doubt that, she looks much older than that. But I digress.
I would say spread the word, to defeat her at her own game, hopefully not many folks fall for her trick!!
Gastonian4
10-02-16, 18:58
As far as her age, I am not sure if she's 22, but she's very close to it. Although, she definitely looks bit better in the pictures. I agree, let's help each other from wasting the money on these scammers, and share the info about such chicks. I am almost certain that the ones that are honest and something could happen with them, other than just a lunch date, they should be fine not taking the money on the first day, but getting it later on. That's how it works on SA. Some of these chicks on WYP figured it out, that they can make money without giving up anything, if they just hang out on WYP. Well, I am done with being a charity for them. I don't feel like giving them a Benjamin or anything less just to pay for their lunch and drinks as well. find out the took the money and ran.
On the other hand, we should share the info, and help the girls that are honest and willing to go further. Once you contact them, it's up to you which angle you take to get them to cooperate with you.Since I have a burner email I decided to send her a note that some guys who get together to share experiences aren't talking about her in a positive way because she has a reputation of doing the date without hardly any possibility of more than that. Note I haven't met her in person my radar was up with her so I didn't partake. I usually let them know I'll meet with them for half of the fee and if they feel comfortable and want to go to the car to snuggle a little I will do the other half. It's worked well for me. I'd be surprised if many gals will meet you if they know they don't get anything the first time but I'd be interested to know how that approach works. Here's her message back to me;.
Well thank you so much for letting me know, I am not very concerned about it because if I have went out with them and nothing happened afterwards it was probably their fault or there was no connection there so I'm not too worried about that. I'm not a serial dater and it's not about the money, I've done it on my own since I was 15. I've always taking care of myself so that's no issue. So whoever you got the information from you can let them know that it was probably them! Also I get that everybody is on that site for a reason but it plainly states that it is a G rated website, that's why I am not on any other websites. I am not a "hotel ****" and I will not go home with anybody on a first date, nor will I meet them at their house or anywhere that I do not feel comfortable on a first date. That is just stupid and unsafe. Thank you for your concern and best wishes!
That chick is absolutely a "serial dater" I received an offer from her too within a few days of being on the site. Was for $85 and did not accept. Not using WYP anymore, moved back to SA. Also been putting in the effort to land a few dates off of POF.
The cold hard truth is that there are many chicks like Kaitlingr on both SA and WYP and the only way they will go away is if we stop feeding these stray cats.
Mravcapo69
10-02-16, 21:44
I agree! She certainly is a serial dater, and she's got a line of BS for everything. I wish someone would actually come out on this forum who met her more than once and got anything out of her other than a dinner date and paid her agreed fee. First of all, I would never waste my time with a chick from that site, or any other, if in the back of my mind she was not a potential lay. In her case, she was definitely a potential for 2nd and third date in my book, maybe even longer. I treated her like a lady, and she played her part with a hug and convincing me how she'll send me her next week's schedule so that we can plan a 2nd date, etc. , etc. So it wasn't me who didn't like her. Also, I understand that I don't have to be every girls cup of tea, and I am OK with that. She may have not find me attractive or interesting, and that's OK. All she had to do was answer one of my messages and let me know that she changed her mind about seeing me again. But after she god a Benjamin from me, and a free lunch, she gave me a silence treatment, even thought I can see that she red every one of my messages. Besides, she is on that site almost every day, and pops up 80% of the times withing the first 5 profiles. So she is working it full time, whenever she's not working as a waitress. Gastonian, old friend, just be careful! I truly hope you get something out of her, more than any one of us did, but be careful. I will definitely keep you posted how my experiment works out with not paying anything on the first date. I already have an update on that, just didn't have time to write it up yet and post it. And for that reason, where no money is promised on the first date, I prefer SA over WYP. Besides, way more choices and faster turnaround on SA than WYP.
That chick is absolutely a "serial dater" I received an offer from her too within a few days of being on the site. Was for $85 and did not accept. Not using WYP anymore, moved back to SA. Also been putting in the effort to land a few dates off of POF.
The cold hard truth is that there are many chicks like Kaitlingr on both SA and WYP and the only way they will go away is if we stop feeding these stray cats.
Thanks guys, really appreciate all the info. I got an offer from her as well and was somewhat interested until I read all this. My general rule is I don't even bother with anyone under 30 because 90% of the time, the younger ones are just after a money grab and most can't hold a conversation about anything other than themselves and spending money on themselves.
On the SA vs WYP topic, I've actually found better response from WYP, especially when traveling elsewhere. Seems every time I log into SA there are very few active profiles. In the end, I'm not sure it matters which one you use as long as you have a good radar and know how to weed out the scammers.
Other ones to watch out for are Nestle9218 and Palm81.
Have come across a couple of Gastown gals that look pretty promising.
Mravcapo69
10-03-16, 14:08
OK, so my first experiment with "offering no cash until we see how it goes. " I talked to this girl for a while, and I explained how I am not giving anything other than treating her with lunch or dinner, and she was OK with that. I explained that I've been taken advantage of before and I am not being anyone's ATM until we see how it goes for a 2nd date or further down the road. So we met, and everything went fine. Of course I didn't give any cash, but when she came home she emailed me that I didn't stick to my word, and we agreed on a 100 but she agreed to 50 because she liked me and, she wasn't even going to take the money, but I should have at least offered, and she repeated not caring about the money and blah blah blah. None of it true. I repeated our agreement from before, and pointed out in the text where we discussed that and she agreed to see me without accepting any money. I told her that she must have mistaken me with someone else, and mixed up the conversations, because I don't know with how many guys she spoke with and what they promised. I told her her if she can find in our conversation, where I said that I will give her the money, I would give her 100, no questions asked. And I also said, that for someone who didn't care about the money that much, she seemed pretty upset. Well,. I never heard back from her LOL. I had a feeling this may happen. But I don't care. I am tired of these chicks thinking they are getting easy money. She seemed nice, but obviously had her blond moments. I am not holding it against her, I am just, I am just done being fucked over these chicks. I may be looking in adjusting my approach and see how that goes Link to her profile is down below.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~KateWh_
Mravcapo69
10-03-16, 14:17
This young lady is fair. She's got a profile on both sites. Agreed on 50 for the first date. You just have to be careful with her and not come on too strong. Make friends with her and your chances increase by a lot. As always, YMMW. Please inbox me for details. Senior members only!
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~TattooPrincess15
Gigabyte40
10-03-16, 17:51
OK, so my first experiment with "offering no cash until we see how it goes. " I talked to this girl for a while, and I explained how I am not giving anything other than treating her with lunch or dinner, and she was OK with that. I explained that I've been taken advantage of before and I am not being anyone's ATM until we see how it goes for a 2nd date or further down the road. I am tired of these chicks thinking they are getting easy money. She seemed nice, but obviously had her blond moments. I am not holding it against her, I am just, I am just done being fucked over these chicks. I may be looking in adjusting my approach and see how that goes Link to her profile is down below.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~KateWh_No matter what else you think, these girls want one thing: money. Don't think they're attracted to fat, old, bald guys for any other reason. And if you're not fat old or bald good for you maybe you can meet chicks with your good looks and slim physique. But don't be fooled. Its only about the money. No money? No honey for you.
I've tried offering dinner, clothes, shopping, phone cards, everything. They want all that but what they really want is cold hard cash.
GB40.
Mravcapo69
10-03-16, 18:19
You got that right.
No matter what else you think, these girls want one thing: money. Don't think they're attracted to fat, old, bald guys for any other reason. And if you're not fat old or bald good for you maybe you can meet chicks with your good looks and slim physique. But don't be fooled. Its only about the money. No money? No honey for you.
I've tried offering dinner, clothes, shopping, phone cards, everything. They want all that but what they really want is cold hard cash.
GB40.
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