View Full Version : Trying this Sugar Baby thing.
CharlotteBank
08-10-22, 13:49
Had made plans three times and she ghosted all 3 times, be very careful meeting this one don't book any place or anything she will not show up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e18c6115-b6d7-4c29-b644-a2b7cc296c3aI'm convinced some just seek the thrill of being chased.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0
She wanted $300 for an hour of her time. Freaked the F out when I countered with $200. Guys got to stop simping so bad.
BrianPeter
08-10-22, 14:11
https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0
She wanted $300 for an hour of her time. Freaked the F out when I countered with $200. Guys got to stop simping so bad.Maybe it's because she thinks she's a pornstar. Did she send you her * Let's keep it at $200 and below guys. I'm done giving any more.
CharlotteBank
08-10-22, 17:54
Maybe it's because she thinks she's a pornstar. Did she send you her * Let's keep it at $200 and below guys. I'm done giving any more.Legit question: Why go on SA if you're going to go for low cost PPM?
JethRotheRed
08-10-22, 19:37
Got approached by a chick, assume it's a chick, on Twitter. A little back and forth, then do you like to see escorts? Of course I said. SHE'S in San Diego. I asked, would I have to fly you out here? Her reply, Is that a problem? My response: A flight, hotel, and your fee? Ain't no pussy worth that. Her response? Mine is.
Chatting with this one, any reports good or bad?
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb94f642-19ae-40c9-9307-3b4e1f663825
BrianPeter
08-11-22, 06:58
Legit question: Why go on SA if you're going to go for low cost PPM?Personally because I've found plenty at that amount.
Aafakljgadkg
08-11-22, 13:27
DesirableMiss.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8227690d-e6c4-4b5d-9276-9911ab68b401
I think this might be my classmate back in hs.
Had made plans three times and she ghosted all 3 times, be very careful meeting this one don't book any place or anything she will not show up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e18c6115-b6d7-4c29-b644-a2b7cc296c3aI made plans with her too, carried on a go conversation for a couple days. Talked all day the day of meet, two hours before goes radio silence!! Skip this was better are out there!!
GullyGuy23
08-12-22, 07:00
Been chatting with this one. Anyone have experience with her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/d36b7024-7670-4a90-a456-9523576373ae
CharlotteBank
08-12-22, 09:51
I made plans with her too, carried on a go conversation for a couple days. Talked all day the day of meet, two hours before goes radio silence!! Skip this was better are out there!!Why do they do this? It's a huge waste of time.
Setting up something with these any info out there? DMs open if you don't want to post here.
Tyschm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c5f3953-77c3-45b4-b316-32989a40af5e
Alluringlover.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fcac3e0f-4bf8-4c53-ba5e-acd839e39dba
Been chatting with this one. Anyone have experience with her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/d36b7024-7670-4a90-a456-9523576373aeLack luster. Big ass though.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0
She wanted $300 for an hour of her time. Freaked the F out when I countered with $200. Guys got to stop simping so bad.I used to hit that all the time for 200. Wasn't a fan of that Wisconsin accent. She's pretty fun but not for 3.
She's also a bit thicker in the legs then her pics show.
I've seen her at her place in Belmont about two years ago. She has a BF and she's SA semi-pro. Was a get in get out encounter. I would Not give 400. Two years ago I did 250 (and I thought that was generous at the time) Her current pics do look better than she did in person two years ago.Correct about teeth. I used to hit for 250 and 300. Wants 4 and a room so $525. Not close to worth it.
Dollersine
08-12-22, 20:51
This one is very pretty but wanted a deposit, when I said no she stoped texting.
SmallAsianCock
08-12-22, 21:29
Setting up something with these any info out there? DMs open if you don't want to post here.
Tyschm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c5f3953-77c3-45b4-b316-32989a40af5e
Alluringlover.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fcac3e0f-4bf8-4c53-ba5e-acd839e39dbaI think someone mentioned not long ago that Alluringlover is a semi pro.
I think someone mentioned not long ago that Alluringlover is a semi pro.That's escort Jen Love. Nothing semi pro about her.
So I was talking to Karmababygirl (https://members.seeking.com/member/6779802f-ffef-47e6-aeb6-cf3096f718aa) trying to set something up. She informs me that her best friend goes with her everywhere and she is also on SA (https://members.seeking.com/member/34a557f3-20a7-4067-bc3e-667f519a187c). Karmababy quoted me 350 for a casual date with both of them, said intimacy was to be discussed later but seemed to be on the table.
I have my doubts and she didn't produce a verification photo after I asked for one so I broke off communications. If they are real, I expect they are out of my price range but I throw this out for you other mongers willing to pursue. If you do, let me know so I know how big an idiot I was to pass it by.
So I was talking to Karmababygirl (https://members.seeking.com/member/6779802f-ffef-47e6-aeb6-cf3096f718aa) trying to set something up. She informs me that her best friend goes with her everywhere and she is also on SA (https://members.seeking.com/member/34a557f3-20a7-4067-bc3e-667f519a187c). Karmababy quoted me 350 for a casual date with both of them, said intimacy was to be discussed later but seemed to be on the table.
I have my doubts and she didn't produce a verification photo after I asked for one so I broke off communications. If they are real, I expect they are out of my price range but I throw this out for you other mongers willing to pursue. If you do, let me know so I know how big an idiot I was to pass it by.She had no problem sending a verification photo to me but they look extremely young. Maybe I forgot how 19 looks LOL. Anyway I stopped communication because I prefer experienced sugar babies over 25. I could be an idiot too NyteOwl but good luck to anyone who gives it a try. Please report back if you do!
TheMechanik365
08-14-22, 16:41
https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0
She wanted $300 for an hour of her time. Freaked the F out when I countered with $200. Guys got to stop simping so bad.FWIW, I'm new to SA and here's my perspective on things. I haven't had any problems moving girls quickly to text. I have run across the pic scammers for sure but I seem to have met a few legit ones. PPM seems to be the preferred transaction. Ranges from 250-600. One girl wanted 2000-3500 per month. Told her good luck.
Anyway, I have a couple who seem legit. One I'm supposed to meet on Wednesday.
Now as far as how much to pay and is it simping? The 300 for an hour with a 20 something college girl, IMHO, is not too much. You're paying for low mileage and someone who is not a drug addict and is doing something with their lives, who just wants some extra money. 200? You should go on STG or LC.
TheMechanik365
08-14-22, 16:45
Legit question: Why go on SA if you're going to go for low cost PPM?My sentiments exactly. You go on SA to find a higher caliber of female. As such, you should expect to pay more. Is there GPS on there? Absolutely but you can't expect to these girls to have STG Meth head rates.
TheMechanik365
08-14-22, 16:50
Why do they do this? It's a huge waste of time.Women need attention. It's a female requirement. All of these girls just like being chased for self esteem reasons. They have no intention of meeting.
TheMechanik365
08-14-22, 19:22
I used to hit that all the time for 200. Wasn't a fan of that Wisconsin accent. She's pretty fun but not for 3.
She's also a bit thicker in the legs then her pics show.300 for her to host. 400 for her to come to you.
Caveat, for her to host, means male "roommate" will watch and filming is up to you. I'm guessing it's her man and he's a voyeur.
TheMechanik365
08-14-22, 20:01
Chatting with this one, any reports good or bad?
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb94f642-19ae-40c9-9307-3b4e1f663825Just finished chatting with her. Told me she wanted to meet in SOUTHPARK. I asked if there was a coffee spot nearby and she said she wasn't drinking coffee at 7:30. My reply was, we don't have to drink coffee to sit and talk. Then she asked if I drank? Alarm bells tell me she wants to meet so I can buy her and possibly her friends drinks. No thanks.
She's probably real but I'm not playing games to find out.
Proceed with caution as I think she's fishing for free food and drinks.
BrianPeter
08-15-22, 08:04
My sentiments exactly. You go on SA to find a higher caliber of female. As such, you should expect to pay more. Is there GPS on there? Absolutely but you can't expect to these girls to have STG Meth head rates.I do not use STG or equivalent, so I don't know what those rates are. I have found plenty High Caliber women on seeking for 200 and below. And others for higher. The thing is, if you have a range, stick to it. If chicks are asking for higher, just move on.
FWIW, I'm new to SA and here's my perspective on things. I haven't had any problems moving girls quickly to text. I have run across the pic scammers for sure but I seem to have met a few legit ones. PPM seems to be the preferred transaction. Ranges from 250-600. One girl wanted 2000-3500 per month. Told her good luck.
Anyway, I have a couple who seem legit. One I'm supposed to meet on Wednesday.
Now as far as how much to pay and is it simping? The 300 for an hour with a 20 something college girl, IMHO, is not too much. You're paying for low mileage and someone who is not a drug addict and is doing something with their lives, who just wants some extra money. 200? You should go on STG or LC.She is a pro. Never seen my pic, went straight to txt and her ppm amount. SA is just the new backpage but the girls are charging double.
300 for her to host. 400 for her to come to you.
Caveat, for her to host, means male "roommate" will watch and filming is up to you. I'm guessing it's her man and he's a voyeur.Got her digits? I don't care if her room mate is a weirdo, ain't going to get in the way of my nut and 300 ain't bad for a cutie like that, especially if she'll bbcip. I'd make an afternoon of her.
TheMechanik365
08-15-22, 13:07
Got her digits? I don't care if her room mate is a weirdo, ain't going to get in the way of my nut and 300 ain't bad for a cutie like that, especially if she'll bbcip. I'd make an afternoon of her.To her on Seeking.
Got her digits? I don't care if her room mate is a weirdo, ain't going to get in the way of my nut and 300 ain't bad for a cutie like that, especially if she'll bbcip. I'd make an afternoon of her.She made it clear the $$$ was for only an hour of her time. You can find some more recent pics of her on her of.
I'm convinced some just seek the thrill of being chased.Sorry, she had dick appointment with me.
GutterMind4
08-15-22, 16:58
Since beginning the SB / SD arena, I've made over 500 offers. I've only offered 250 or less a few times, at first from being a newb and not wanting to over pay, but eventually, from just throwing a flyer at an "average" looking girl. Turns out, I only met three of those. A 200 that started at 400 but forgot or got desperate. The other two countered with 300 and was what I thought a descent value at that price. None of those were better than average. Not only did the overwhelmimg number of others deny the offer, most never replied and the rest horse laughed at it before blocking me no matter how good or bad they looked. So I choose not to risk being blocked by a 9 just so I can drive down prices for everyone else. I wouldn't consider average / below average looking girls as being STG quality. But I would say that, if I'm looking for average / below average looking, I'll get on a dating app or go to the local bar. If I wouldn't f* them for free, why would I pay money. Turns out, the ones I want to f* are, with a very rare exception, 400 or more. I keep seeing guys b* about driving up prices, and stating what things are worth, but you are not lining up my girls. As mentioned earlier, we are not making the market, we are reacting to it. Once some of these pandemic rich daddies run out of money, youight see a change but these girls literally have hundreds of messages a day. Why would they need to take less.
BTW, many of those 400 or higher, turned into multi- hour, multi-pop dates with lots mileage I would have never get in an independent or AMP, Eros girl, or even UTR pro. So if 400 instead of 200 or 300 means I'm over paying, tell me what I'm doing wrong or show me some 20 something 8's and 9's that will respond and show up.
I do not use STG or equivalent, so I don't know what those rates are. I have found plenty High Caliber women on seeking for 200 and below. And others for higher. The thing is, if you have a range, stick to it. If chicks are asking for higher, just move on.
BrianPeter
08-15-22, 18:11
Since beginning the SB / SD arena, I've made over 500 offers. I've only offered 250 or less a few times, at first from being a newb and not wanting to over pay, but eventually, from just throwing a flyer at an "average" looking girl. Turns out, I only met three of those. A 200 that started at 400 but forgot or got desperate. The other two countered with 300 and was what I thought a descent value at that price. None of those were better than average. Not only did the overwhelmimg number of others deny the offer, most never replied and the rest horse laughed at it before blocking me no matter how good or bad they looked. So I choose not to risk being blocked by a 9 just so I can drive down prices for everyone else. I wouldn't consider average / below average looking girls as being STG quality. But I would say that, if I'm looking for average / below average looking, I'll get on a dating app or go to the local bar. If I wouldn't f* them for free, why would I pay money. Turns out, the ones I want to f* are, with a very rare exception, 400 or more. I keep seeing guys b* about driving up prices, and stating what things are worth, but you are not lining up my girls. As mentioned earlier, we are not making the market, we are reacting to it. Once some of these pandemic rich daddies run out of money, youight see a change but these girls literally have hundreds of messages a day. Why would they need to take less.
BTW, many of those 400 or higher, turned into multi- hour, multi-pop dates with lots mileage I would have never get in an independent or AMP, Eros girl, or even UTR pro. So if 400 instead of 200 or 300 means I'm over paying, tell me what I'm doing wrong or show me some 20 something 8's and 9's that will respond and show up.From my experience, most girls think that we are going to be one and done so they ask for a higher initial amount. This is what some babies told me. They have said if you see me often then the rate drops. I've had 400 and 500 girls that went down to 200. These were some fine chicks. As many of us know YMMV. Not all do this but some do.
TheMechanik365
08-15-22, 19:09
Chatted with this one. She tells me she's looking for a weekly allowance. Okay, how much? She says it depends on how many times I want to see her. I say maybe once a week. She then says what do you want to do when we meet? Sex of course silly rabbit! LOL! She then tells me. She won't be intimate until she develops a "connection" and is "comfortable" with you.
So let me get this straight, you expect a guy to pay you to be around you? Man, some of these women are delusional. She's not even hot. She's average at best.
Wow is all I can say.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0f3a8b08-35cd-4228-9710-e0d488189222
SmallAsianCock
08-15-22, 20:43
Chatted with this one. She tells me she's looking for a weekly allowance. Okay, how much? She says it depends on how many times I want to see her. I say maybe once a week. She then says what do you want to do when we meet? Sex of course silly rabbit! LOL! She then tells me. She won't be intimate until she develops a "connection" and is "comfortable" with you.
So let me get this straight, you expect a guy to pay you to be around you? Man, some of these women are delusional. She's not even hot. She's average at best.
Wow is all I can say.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0f3a8b08-35cd-4228-9710-e0d488189222I will put her less than average.
TheMechanik365
08-16-22, 07:44
I will put her less than average.That's why I said average at best.
Here's the kicker. She asked if the give her money to hangout (no sex) was a dealbreaker and of course I said yes. Instead of her bowing out gracefully, she got all bitchy and tried to drag me about wasting time and not reading bios.
So of course I went and checked her bio and of course she didn't have anything in there about giving her money for nothing.
Soooo, I politely let her know about this and she blocked me. LOL!
TheMechanik365
08-16-22, 07:50
Moved this one quickly to text. Beautiful girl and body is banging. I offered 300 ppm, she all but laughed and said at least double. She then said I should try Cool Cave Spa for FS at that price. I guess she might be an ex employee.
Anyway, she's out of my price range.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/2f8a3fad-193c-4ec2-a897-f5c8abc8ff46
TheMechanik365
08-16-22, 08:03
This one is a pro. She has ads on a couple of different escort sites.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/d9b0998e-7c87-438c-9061-b18b5eb808e7
TheMechanik365
08-16-22, 13:40
A bit of interesting history with this one. First chatted with her under a different name. Said she's married to a female. Sent pics and videos to confirm that they are lovers. Anyway, she wanted 700 to pay her rent and she would drive to Charlotte from Greensboro.
Talked her down to $400 but thought that she as too much so I declined. She got mad and claimed I was a scammer because I didn't pay her for the pics and videos but I never asked, she offered.
She was back in my messages telling me she was desperate and offering 300. She did say her wife is available as well. Getting a 3 some would be tough as they have kids but she made it clear both are available for solo's.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/0e835c3b-d717-4a34-ad51-d697b531b1a3
GutterMind4
08-16-22, 15:01
This is my hope, and possibly the only way I continue SBs. When we hitl it off and everyone has a good time, a few have offered a better rate next time. I believe them but, so far, the travel schedule doesn't put me back to see them again for weeks. They often "forget" what they said, go off grid, or I just don't want to repeat. I have had one repeat so far and she went from 5 to 3. Frankly, she should have been 3 the first time. I've only been good at this about 4 or 5 months so once I get enough contacts in each city I visit, this should get more reasonable. God knows I've put the research in, geez. I have learned to promise more frequent visits too to make them feel it won't be "one and done". Can't say that's worked yet but the chicks have heard it all.
From my experience, most girls think that we are going to be one and done so they ask for a higher initial amount. This is what some babies told me. They have said if you see me often then the rate drops. I've had 400 and 500 girls that went down to 200. These were some fine chicks. As many of us know YMMV. Not all do this but some do.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/0e835c3b-d717-4a34-ad51-d697b531b1a3
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/d9b0998e-7c87-438c-9061-b18b5eb808e7
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/2f8a3fad-193c-4ec2-a897-f5c8abc8ff46The 3 links you posted go to your inbox on seeking. Would you mind trying with different links please?
I wouldn't mind looking up the Pro & 2 from Greensboro, you never know till you look.
The only one I was able to see the profile was CupidsFavorite & no way I'd pay $600 for that.
Thanks.
TheMechanik365
08-16-22, 21:02
The 3 links you posted go to your inbox on seeking. Would you mind trying with different links please?
I wouldn't mind looking up the Pro & 2 from Greensboro, you never know till you look.
The only one I was able to see the profile was CupidsFavorite & no way I'd pay $600 for that.
Thanks.Maybe you or someone else can help me? All I did was go to the profile and copied the link.
Is there something I'm missing?
TheMechanik365
08-16-22, 21:10
This one is in Columbia and wanted 400 to drive here. I declined. She called me yesterday and said she had a meeting in Charlotte at 4 and could do 300 since she would be here.
I didn't have time. She strikes me as a pro. When I inquired about her no list, she said no anal, no CIM and CFS.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0826e9c5-fffb-4fd9-8c8b-fe79223a8a22
This one is in Columbia and wanted 400 to drive here. I declined. She called me yesterday and said she had a meeting in Charlotte at 4 and could do 300 since she would be here.
I didn't have time. She strikes me as a pro. When I inquired about her no list, she said no anal, no CIM and CFS.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0826e9c5-fffb-4fd9-8c8b-fe79223a8a22I dreamt of this girl once. Wouldn't call her a pro. Little bigger than photos suggest. Mediocre BBBJ. The rest of the nos you listed were spot on, did do COB. Very limited kissing, no DFK. Paid 300 and haven't gone back. Not highly recommend.
Maybe you or someone else can help me? All I did was go to the profile and copied the link.
Is there something I'm missing?When in their messages, click on the SBs picture. That takes you to their actual profile. Copy the link from there.
AkaToneloc
08-17-22, 08:35
BTW, many of those 400 or higher, turned into multi- hour, multi-pop dates with lots mileage I would have never get in an independent or AMP, Eros girl, or even UTR pro. So if 400 instead of 200 or 300 means I'm over paying, tell me what I'm doing wrong or show me some 20 something 8's and 9's that will respond and show up.The above is my exact thoughts. I likewise typically only pursue what I perceive as 8's or higher. Personally, I ignore the ones that profile mentions they are passport ready, love traveling, arm candy, or upgrading their lifestyle and I average 400 ppm. Only once I agreed to 500 but she's a hot Colombian fantasy come true for me LOL.
I don't know why, but lately I have been getting some real 5 star talent reaching out to me on SB. I'm talking about the most attractive 1% of the girls on SB, the ones that an average guy like me would not expect to hear back from. I have a very good success rate with the 3-star girls and a fairly good success rate with some of the 4-star talent, but I have had at least 5 or 6 of the 5-star girls that have started texting with me and we are talking about meeting up for fun. I sure wish this could get spread out a little more but I need to take advantage of their interest and availability now. I didn't do anything special on my profile. I met with one of them last week and she was unbelievable; maybe the best full GFE I have ever had and she was drop dead gorgeous. Asian descent, but not East Asian. We text back and forth all the time now. Will see her again soon.You need to clear your mailbox. Had a PM bounce.
John Marigold
08-18-22, 10:49
You need to clear your mailbox. Had a PM bounce.Thanks for letting me know. I cleared some space.
TheMechanik365
08-18-22, 12:27
Browneyedbeauty.
https://members.seeking.com/member/26db0e4f-9e8e-47f0-b19b-40828c943630
She's been around for a few years but has a new profile now. Used to go by. SexyBrunette69 (do a search on a0e37696d968 and you'll find reviews on her previous profile).
Real. Nice looking, slim, and nice natural boobs. The only drawback is her teeth that can use some dental work. Slihht cigarette breath sp depending on how sensitive you are with that. Nice BBBJ, ok kisser, and will do BBFS if you can show test results (or vouch that youre disease-free). No anal but loves her vibrator. Wants 400 now plus room and won't back down from that price. She's up in Belmont area.Met with her yesterday.
Pros: Slim sexy body, nice apple bottom and her (natural) tits are amazing. She's really cool and down to earth and she's a firecracker in the sack. She's like it hard and the dirty talk was good. She's definitely a pleaser and a lot of fun.
Cons: The only con I had was her teeth. If she got her teeth fixed, she'd be a solid 7.5.
All in all, I enjoyed myself. She was sweet, very accommodating and personable and she is hot in bed. A lot of girls could learn a lot about how to treat a man, especially one that is spending his hard earned money and time on you, from her.
Met with her yesterday.
Pros: Slim sexy body, nice apple bottom and her (natural) tits are amazing. She's really cool and down to earth and she's a firecracker in the sack. She's like it hard and the dirty talk was good. She's definitely a pleaser and a lot of fun.
Cons: The only con I had was her teeth. If she got her teeth fixed, she'd be a solid 7.5.
All in all, I enjoyed myself. She was sweet, very accommodating and personable and she is hot in bed. A lot of girls could learn a lot about how to treat a man, especially one that is spending his hard earned money and time on you, from her.So what is she without her teeth fixed. Me personally anything 5 and below you get them off stg or the corner. No way I would spend several hundred on 5 and below.
Konabiker083
08-18-22, 21:00
https://members.seeking.com/member/1305f2de-4831-4806-bb5f-c1d38896cf49
This one actually wanted 500 per meet, no time limit. It took everything I had not to laugh LOL.
Grasshopping
08-18-22, 21:49
Met with her yesterday.
Pros: Slim sexy body, nice apple bottom and her (natural) tits are amazing. She's really cool and down to earth and she's a firecracker in the sack. She's like it hard and the dirty talk was good. She's definitely a pleaser and a lot of fun.
Cons: The only con I had was her teeth. If she got her teeth fixed, she'd be a solid 7.5.
All in all, I enjoyed myself. She was sweet, very accommodating and personable and she is hot in bed. A lot of girls could learn a lot about how to treat a man, especially one that is spending his hard earned money and time on you, from her.I was pretty happy with her until she raised her price all of a sudden. She is pretty good time though but I'm seeing two that also make me very happy. Both are pleasers and firecrackers and pretty good looking as well... and for less than what this one wanted. Each person had diff price point amd what value means but for me, 400+ has got to be someone that gived me out of this world sex. And I have had those before. Thanks for the report.
TheMechanik365
08-19-22, 06:19
So what is she without her teeth fixed. Me personally anything 5 and below you get them off stg or the corner. No way I would spend several hundred on 5 and below.I'd say a 6. Slightly above average on a scale of 1-10. Like I said, she's a cute GND and her body is really nice. Best natural tits I've seen in a long time.
I grade hard. 8-10's have to be special looks wise but I will say the overall experience was a 9.
TheMechanik365
08-19-22, 06:32
I was pretty happy with her until she raised her price all of a sudden. She is pretty good time though but I'm seeing two that also make me very happy. Both are pleasers and firecrackers and pretty good looking as well... and for less than what this one wanted. Each person had diff price point amd what value means but for me, 400+ has got to be someone that gived me out of this world sex. And I have had those before. Thanks for the report.Sounds like you found a couple of gems.
Anyway, yeah the price tag is a little steep but I needed some release and didn't want to play games. I've had some cheaper offers but they seemed a little too business like or like it was 50/50 if they would even show. This one seemed playful and enthusiastic over the phone and I was right. She came prepared and then some. Was on time and was just very cool.
I don't know what you consider out of this world sex but like I said, she was great in the sack.
TheMechanik365
08-21-22, 14:54
Of SA. There are a lot of scammers, pic sellers and attention seekers. Weeding through all the profiles is tiresome. I'm sure there are some gems on there but holy cow they need some kind of quality control.
ThriveToLife
08-21-22, 15:15
Hello, fellow mongers. Thanks for your contributions in this thread. Below are my experiences to share with you:
Browneyedbeauty. <<https://members.seeking.com/member/2...b-40828c943630>>.
Comments are dead on with this one. Negotiations started at 400 and politely declined. A day or two later, was willing to come down to 250, but then ghosted. I guess it depends on needs.
<<https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1a93c11e284178c3>> Took forever to respond, but did respond and I had left already.
<<https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a7917a4546466b6b>> Replied and started negotiations at 400, which I passed and she came back at 300. Once again, took too long to reply and missed her.
<<https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/224341f434ba7421>> Replied, provided my digits and then ghost.
<<https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c8b5de074e433f84>> I met this one. Damage 300. She's on the shy side and not for everyone. If you are too aggressive in chat, may shutdown. Unbelieveable body. BBFS, but no CIP I would have seen her a second time, but ran out of time.
<<https://members.seeking.com/member/8ec68fd4-998a-4d0b-afbc-6308f1364683>> Met this one. Damage 200. Older, but simply down to earth. Not local to Charlotte, but will travel for right price or person.
<<https://members.seeking.com/member/9360da63-0f40-4577-a6db-66b3e0dc23dc>> This one contacted me days later, too late.
<<https://members.seeking.com/member/9a89d920-9111-45ad-9fa1-35e6932d1500>> This one contacted and was set to meet, then silence until the day I left. Didn't meet.
<<https://members.seeking.com/member/e18c6115-b6d7-4c29-b644-a2b7cc296c3a>> Shared her number then silence.
As you can see, not great experience. Thanks.
She used host and was worth it for $200 last yr. At 500-550 now (400 + room) new rate, not worth it. You can do much better. She was willing for 250 + rm (400 total). Still not worth it for 6/10.
My prev session was rushed and dropped her after that. She is semi-pro, I wonn't risk bb with her.
Met with her yesterday.
Pros: Slim sexy body, nice apple bottom and her (natural) tits are amazing. She's really cool and down to earth and she's a firecracker in the sack. She's like it hard and the dirty talk was good. She's definitely a pleaser and a lot of fun.
Cons: The only con I had was her teeth. If she got her teeth fixed, she'd be a solid 7.5.
All in all, I enjoyed myself. She was sweet, very accommodating and personable and she is hot in bed. A lot of girls could learn a lot about how to treat a man, especially one that is spending his hard earned money and time on you, from her.
This one is in Columbia and wanted 400 to drive here. I declined. She called me yesterday and said she had a meeting in Charlotte at 4 and could do 300 since she would be here.
I didn't have time. She strikes me as a pro. When I inquired about her no list, she said no anal, no CIM and CFS.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0826e9c5-fffb-4fd9-8c8b-fe79223a8a22Anyone met this girl any reviews?
Thanks.
Masiha1980
08-22-22, 15:04
Since beginning the SB / SD arena, I've made over 500 offers. I've only offered 250 or less a few times, at first from being a newb and not wanting to over pay, but eventually, from just throwing a flyer at an "average" looking girl. Turns out, I only met three of those. A 200 that started at 400 but forgot or got desperate. The other two countered with 300 and was what I thought a descent value at that price. None of those were better than average. Not only did the overwhelmimg number of others deny the offer, most never replied and the rest horse laughed at it before blocking me no matter how good or bad they looked. So I choose not to risk being blocked by a 9 just so I can drive down prices for everyone else. I wouldn't consider average / below average looking girls as being STG quality. But I would say that, if I'm looking for average / below average looking, I'll get on a dating app or go to the local bar. If I wouldn't f* them for free, why would I pay money. Turns out, the ones I want to f* are, with a very rare exception, 400 or more. I keep seeing guys b* about driving up prices, and stating what things are worth, but you are not lining up my girls. As mentioned earlier, we are not making the market, we are reacting to it. Once some of these pandemic rich daddies run out of money, youight see a change but these girls literally have hundreds of messages a day. Why would they need to take less..Ore.
Totally agree with you here and you are right on target with your statements. So far I am talking to about 30+ girls from SA which I got it reactivated about a week ago. I am good looking 42 year old but anything below 400 for a 6+/10 gets immediately ignored or blocked. Rarely I found 200's and 300's but either they are on the heavier side or not even touching 4/10 mark. Before pandemic 200/300 was the average going rate. BrianPeters must be celebrity stud to get this low rate. Hahahaha.
My observation is the same as yours. Below are my noted points.
1. All the super fine ones are either scammers trying to sell you pictures and videos or they want a SD for long term on allowances but unwilling to take their panties down until they feel comfortable which means they get the sugar without doing anything from their side. I told them to fu*k off. It's a two way street.
2. Also noticed the 18,19 and 20 year old just want to talking online sugar daddy for his sugar but don't want to me and if they meet no intimacy. Same point as above.
3. 400 is the average for the average (6 or 7/10) ones and yes I've negotiated multiple shots, BBBJ, cim, rimjob and video shoot while suckin and fu*kin. Some ask for 500. Super fine ones ask for 800-1000 for all these services.
4. out of state girl contacting you is usually a scammer trying to sell online services. Like the real far out of state. The close ones travel frequently to charlotte.
5. some are very pushy. Quick message. Quick text. When can you meet. Let's meet today. How about now. These usually will do for 200-300.
6. some of them had their pictures from like 10 year back. I was like what the heck!!
Overall. I've found a lot of luck on SA. I was miserable when my account was flagged for solicitation because one mean WG did not like my counter offer. This was a year ago. I will post on how to reinstate the account on a new post.
Moral of the lesson learnt is do not discuss ppm on their site- take them offline to discuss anything financial cause it takes only one fu'ked up ***** to have your profile deactivated.
If you have a list of your quality ones that provide GFE's, BBBJ, cim, rim and video friendly. Pm me and I can trade mine since I am taking a break from this.
Good luck guys!
Masiha1980
08-22-22, 15:27
So it probably happened to few of us where a fuc*ed up rude ***** reported you because you low balled her with an counter offer that she did not like or you stood her up by ghosting on her since you found other options.
Whatever the case is. But we got screwed by these f'd up girls because we are blocked from the site.
Same happened to me about a year ago. I gave up and tried searching on other sites but they were blocked also for me. Seems they are all sister companies.
And just to remind you someone suggested this here so I even changed all the IP, computer and all that crap but every time I went to pay with my card. It will be blocked right away.
Anyways months of frustration later. Here is a solution that worked with 15 min's for me.
Email customer service and write them a simple apology letter and tell them it was a mistake that will not happen again.
They will ask you to go to the site seeking.com/ terms and read all the terms. After reading email them stating you agree to all the terms and conditions and will abide the rules.
Once you do above. They will reactivate your account with minutes. Learn from your experience and read below the don't do it points.
Please note this and don't ignore: these are my lessons learned.
1. Do not -absolutely do not discuss an money on their emails and site. Take it offline if someone will ask you for ppm.
2. do not use the word PPM and GFE on your profile description or your emails. Immediately it will be flagged or the girl can take a screen shot of that to report you if something goes wrong.
3. Don't argue with these girls. If she is irritating. Ignore and move on because conflict will get you blocked again.
4. once you take the conversation offline (texting) - you can discuss details which they cannot report or will not be considered by the SA site since it's offline.
That's it guys. Good luck hunting. Take care. I am not open to negative comments so keep them to yourself. .
Masiha1980
08-22-22, 16:15
Chatted with this one. She tells me she's looking for a weekly allowance. Okay, how much? She says it depends on how many times I want to see her. I say maybe once a week. She then says what do you want to do when we meet? Sex of course silly rabbit! LOL! She then tells me. She won't be intimate until she develops a "connection" and is "comfortable" with you.
So let me get this straight, you expect a guy to pay you to be around you? Man, some of these women are delusional. She's not even hot. She's average at best.
Wow is all I can say.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0f3a8b08-35cd-4228-9710-e0d488189222I get these types a lot. Usually the 18-19 year old super fine ones. I tell them I will also only pay once we establish a connection. Lmao.
This one is way below average- I won't even respond to her if she message me.
Masiha1980
08-22-22, 16:34
I used to hit that all the time for 200. Wasn't a fan of that Wisconsin accent. She's pretty fun but not for 3.
She's also a bit thicker in the legs then her pics show.https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
She quoted me 350 + 50 for CIM and 100 extra for rimjob and record it so total 500 - also asked for non latex condom only. I thought she was slim but the more pictures she sent the thicker she got. Profile pictures she looks much slimmer so I declined.
Also willing to host but got a male roommate.
Anyone smash this one? Too Eager to meet for a meet and greet or whatever / LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/84ad9b4e-7d7f-4c55-9d46-b2bd1fe46129
TIA.
Anyone met this girl any reviews?
Thanks.I posted a short review about a week ago. Post #4794.
HornyBum85
08-22-22, 22:40
Good evening, gentlemen!
I have a friend who is interested in starting to Sugar. She is Latina (Mexican and Cuban), 5'9", 22 years old, and is a college student in Charlotte.
She has never done anything like this before. She just wants a better life RIGHT NOW.
And to answer your collective question, because I know you are all asking: NO! She and I have never hooked up (and we never will. She is a friend).
She is def DTF.
PM me if you are interested in an awesome Sugar Baby (and make no mistake. She is not an escort. There is a huge difference).
Good evening, gentlemen!
I have a friend who is interested in starting to Sugar. She is Latina (Mexican and Cuban), 5'9", 22 years old, and is a college student in Charlotte.
She has never done anything like this before. She just wants a better life RIGHT NOW.
And to answer your collective question, because I know you are all asking: NO! She and I have never hooked up (and we never will. She is a friend).
She is def DTF.
PM me if you are interested in an awesome Sugar Baby (and make no mistake. She is not an escort. There is a huge difference).Not to be argumentative but what is the difference. I get they aren't 1 for 1 but it's pretty much the same in my eyes.
I think you're spot on with your analysis. Curious about how they're identifying you if you changed "everything. " There must be something we're overlooking. Did you use the same old card or a different card?
So it probably happened to few of us where a fuc*ed up rude ***** reported you because you low balled her with an counter offer that she did not like or you stood her up by ghosting on her since you found other options.
Whatever the case is. But we got screwed by these f'd up girls because we are blocked from the site.
Same happened to me about a year ago. I gave up and tried searching on other sites but they were blocked also for me. Seems they are all sister companies.
And just to remind you someone suggested this here so I even changed all the IP, computer and all that crap but every time I went to pay with my card. It will be blocked right away.
Anyways months of frustration later. Here is a solution that worked with 15 min's for me.
Email customer service and write them a simple apology letter and tell them it was a mistake that will not happen again.
They will ask you to go to the site seeking.com/ terms and read all the terms. After reading email them stating you agree to all the terms and conditions and will abide the rules.
Once you do above. They will reactivate your account with minutes. Learn from your experience and read below the don't do it points.
Please note this and don't ignore: these are my lessons learned.
1. Do not -absolutely do not discuss an money on their emails and site. Take it offline if someone will ask you for ppm.
TheMechanik365
08-23-22, 06:29
Anyone met this girl any reviews?
Thanks.http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?12742-Trying-this-Sugar-Baby-thing.&p=6074037&viewfull=1#post6074037.
HornyBum85
08-23-22, 10:18
Good evening, gentlemen!
I have a friend who is interested in starting to Sugar. She is Latina (Mexican and Cuban), 5'9", 22 years old, and is a college student in Charlotte.
She has never done anything like this before. She just wants a better life RIGHT NOW.
And to answer your collective question, because I know you are all asking: NO! She and I have never hooked up (and we never will. She is a friend).
She is def DTF.
PM me if you are interested in an awesome Sugar Baby (and make no mistake. She is not an escort. There is a huge difference).Good morning you magnificent bastards!
Extra kudos for those of you that can quote the origin of the "magnificent bastards" line. Not from a movie!
As I am sure you all can understand, I have been overwhelmed by the positive response from you all.
She is brand new. And I do not want to overwhelm her. So. This is an update to what I am doing:
1. Be very clear that I am simply playing "Cupid" for a friend who is interested in The Sugar Bowl.
2. Be very clear that I have known her for awhile now and that we are friends.
3. I have given her number to seven guys. She is going to work through that "Round".
4. If you received her number from me before 7:30 AM today then you are in that round.
5. If you reached out to me after 7:30 am today then I am sorry, but we need to give her a couple of days to prpcess those seven guys.
6. She is a college student and never done this before. She is not an ESCORT. Please treat her as such.
7. For those guys who reached out this morning after 7 AM please understand.
Thanks, gentlemen!
HornyBum85
08-23-22, 10:41
Not to be argumentative but what is the difference. I get they aren't 1 for 1 but it's pretty much the same in my eyes.Good morning!
This is indeed a very fair question. One that will likely be debated until the end of time!
And I never shy away from a question, especially when it is a really good question (like your's).
So, here goes:
1. It is a matter of perspective (I will use that word here).
2. Because of #1, we might simply disagree (and that is okay).
3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.
Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit.
A Sugar Baby. At least a genuine Sugar Baby. Is typically a college student, lives on campus, is doing this for spending cash (for the nice things that she would like to have), has a car, has no substance abuse issues, is physically fit, has an exit strategy, and does not consider what she is doing as "selling her pussy for money".
And that last one is key.
That is the major difference. At least, in my humble opinion.
Good morning!
This is indeed a very fair question. One that will likely be debated until the end of time!
And I never shy away from a question, especially when it is a really good question (like your's).
So, here goes:
1. It is a matter of perspective (I will use that word here).
2. Because of #1, we might simply disagree (and that is okay).
3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.
Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit.
A Sugar Baby. At least a genuine Sugar Baby. Is typically a college student, lives on campus, is doing this for spending cash (for the nice things that she would like to have), has a car, has no substance abuse issues, is physically fit, has an exit strategy, and does not consider what she is doing as "selling her pussy for money".
And that last one is key.
That is the major difference. At least, in my humble opinion.I think this is a huge generalization, in my experience the character of ladies in the business run a gamut from elite courtesan to homeless streetwalker there just is no one size fits all definition.
CuriousGeor
08-23-22, 12:25
3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.
Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit.
This makes me really question your judgement, are you not aware that escorts exist outside of SkipTheGames and MegaPersonals? Tryst, Eros, Models-world, etc are all full of girls that are decidedly escorts and also do not have a single one of the attributes you mentioned above. They just also happen to charge more than $120 for a half hour.
Man, this site is wild, sometimes you'd never know that there's a huge population of working girls that aren't also addicts if you just pay attention to the forums here.
TheMechanik365
08-23-22, 12:44
Good morning!
This is indeed a very fair question. One that will likely be debated until the end of time!
And I never shy away from a question, especially when it is a really good question (like your's).
So, here goes:
1. It is a matter of perspective (I will use that word here).
2. Because of #1, we might simply disagree (and that is okay).
3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.
Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit..I've said this a couple of times on this thread. The majority of what is being called a SB / SD relationship is nothing more than glorified prostitution. Selling pussy, no matter how often or what your circumstances are, qualifies you as a prostitute. The minute they agree to PPM, that's an escort. Just because these girls don't have the same mileage or are not on drugs, they are still accepting money for sex and that is the very definition of an escort.
Having said that, the true SB / SD relationship is not a PPM. It's when a younger woman who is need of help or wants extra money for going out, getting her hair or nails done, paying bills, etc. And in return she offers her time and affections to an older man. The older man also helps her by giving life advice as he's been there done that. The expectation of sex every time you meet is not part of the deal. Just like a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship, you go out and have fun but it doesn't always end in sex. Just like the SB shouldn't expect to cash out every time she sees her daddy. You call me, when you need help making your rent, getting your car fixed, you want a new outfit, you want your nails done, you need some food in the fridge.
These young girls today don't have a clue of how to be a SB and for that matter, a lot of dudes don't know how to be a SD.
My two cents.
Good morning!
This is indeed a very fair question. One that will likely be debated until the end of time!
And I never shy away from a question, especially when it is a really good question (like your's).
So, here goes:
1. It is a matter of perspective (I will use that word here).
2. Because of #1, we might simply disagree (and that is okay).
3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.
Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit.
A Sugar Baby. At least a genuine Sugar Baby. Is typically a college student, lives on campus, is doing this for spending cash (for the nice things that she would like to have), has a car, has no substance abuse issues, is physically fit, has an exit strategy, and does not consider what she is doing as "selling her pussy for money".
And that last one is key.
That is the major difference. At least, in my humble opinion.Sorry bud but this sort of wreaks of delusion. I'll give you that there are plenty of escorts that are as you describe, but for every one of those trashy substance addled loons, there's another girl who has her shit together, isn't high, and just wants to make money doing what women have been doing since money came into existence.
There's nothing really wrong with either of these. But make no mistake, if you're fucking for money, you're an escort. Bottom line. And hey, that's okay. All of us here are obviously cool with that.
Masiha1980
08-23-22, 22:26
I think you're spot on with your analysis. Curious about how they're identifying you if you changed "everything. " There must be something we're overlooking. Did you use the same old card or a different card?Same name on the card and address must have flagged it from their database. Same thing happened to their sister companies like whatsyourprice. Every time I went to pay to be a paid member even I used everything different. It immediately blocked me.
Sorry bud but this sort of wreaks of delusion. I'll give you that there are plenty of escorts that are as you describe, but for every one of those trashy substance addled loons, there's another girl who has her shit together, isn't high, and just wants to make money doing what women have been doing since money came into existence.
There's nothing really wrong with either of these. But make no mistake, if you're fucking for money, you're an escort. Bottom line. And hey, that's okay. All of us here are obviously cool with that.Not sure why some of this board get so fired up on this topic. The bottom line is that these women see it differently and that's all that matters. Can't tell you how many women I've hooked up with from seeking who made it adamant that that they are NOT an escort. Call it denial but whatever, being a sugar baby is socially acceptable, being an escort, less so. So let's just enjoy the fact that this distinction exists, because it creates a whole lot of additional options of women with other jobs that just want a little extra spending money.
BrianPeter
08-24-22, 07:41
Which one of you guys has been giving her $600. That's what's she's asking now. Dang!
https://members.seeking.com/member/d5d23e69-400d-426b-b70c-dceb8e134396?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
HornyBum85
08-24-22, 08:21
I've said this a couple of times on this thread. The majority of what is being called a SB / SD relationship is nothing more than glorified prostitution. Selling pussy, no matter how often or what your circumstances are, qualifies you as a prostitute. The minute they agree to PPM, that's an escort. Just because these girls don't have the same mileage or are not on drugs, they are still accepting money for sex and that is the very definition of an escort.
Having said that, the true SB / SD relationship is not a PPM. It's when a younger woman who is need of help or wants extra money for going out, getting her hair or nails done, paying bills, etc. And in return she offers her time and affections to an older man. The older man also helps her by giving life advice as he's been there done that. The expectation of sex every time you meet is not part of the deal. Just like a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship, you go out and have fun but it doesn't always end in sex. Just like the SB shouldn't expect to cash out every time she sees her daddy. You call me, when you need help making your rent, getting your car fixed, you want a new outfit, you want your nails done, you need some food in the fridge.
These young girls today don't have a clue of how to be a SB and for that matter, a lot of dudes don't know how to be a SD.
My two cents.EXACTLY! You said it far better than I did but that was my point (just did not word things so well).
Time waster. 2 times all goes well till day of meet, then she disappears:
https://members.seeking.com/member/a36999fc-0b54-4f55-b861-7772e2659600
Fabulous pair of all natural 34 ddd's. Would keep this one to myself but our schedules are just not compatible.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e5bab922-b275-42f9-a6ac-fe95475ab058
We met for drinks last Tuesday and went back to my place for a little fun. Nothing too spectacular. CBJ, DATY, Mish. But now I can't get her to respond to my messages this week so I take it she moved on with another arrangement. . 4 was the damage.
https://members.seeking.com/member/721459f5-aa77-4d27-a6a2-6d4bd2febbc7
Yep well said HornyBum85.
EXACTLY! You said it far better than I did but that was my point (just did not word things so well).
TheMechanik365
08-24-22, 21:45
This one asked for 500 PPM minimum. I asked if that included intimacy? She said she wasn't comfortable with intimacy but said we could go out to dinner and I can have pics and videos for that price. I laughed!
Go have a laugh. https://members.seeking.com/member/87d5c461-8a64-465b-b780-30bee470c972.
TheMechanik365
08-24-22, 21:57
Gashouse Pro? Wants 250 for 2 hrs. Will host in Gastonia or travel to you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/adb28923-b5cc-48d5-b63a-87c68b04da56
MraTypical
08-24-22, 23:47
Gashouse Pro? Wants 250 for 2 hrs. Will host in Gastonia or travel to you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/adb28923-b5cc-48d5-b63a-87c68b04da56I was seeing her until recently. She's very cool and laidback. Semi-pro is probably a good description. That price point is hard to beat. Decent body. Great head, cover optional. Only issue is she has kids at the home where she hosts. Got walked in on once in a compromising position.
Gashouse Pro? Wants 250 for 2 hrs. Will host in Gastonia or travel to you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/adb28923-b5cc-48d5-b63a-87c68b04da56Have to love a chick that has a cig in her hands in most of her photos.
CEOTraveling
08-25-22, 08:17
EXACTLY! You said it far better than I did but that was my point (just did not word things so well).I had 2 long term arrangements that each lasted 2 years. Both were incredible and traveled with me. I gave them a monthly stipend, an apartment and a car. Now SA is just filled with prostitutes.
GutterMind4
08-26-22, 11:55
I post about her on July 27 post #4679. You are correct, she ghosted me twice the days we were supposed to meet and finally blocked me (so I thought). Turns out she deactivated her account. A few weeks / months later, I found her on Snap and IG and some of the pics showed her with a guy. I had her number but decided to just send a message through Snap to say "hey", assuming she didn't remember me. As expected, she did not remember but said she was single again so I picked up where we left off. Scheduled a day and time, she kept pushing it back but at least she was communicating. Finally get to her house and, well, just read the review. Bottom line, she is real, DTF, and actually a sweet girl. But the pics are extremely flattering and she's not worth the three point five I paid. In her defense, she admitted that she gets very anxious before meets (almost called ours off again) but I didn't press her on the her time wasting tactics. Ironically, she reached out yesterday right after I read she ghosted you. So sounds like, once she meets you, you're good. Just go in with tempered expectations, she doesn't look near as good in real life.
Time waster. 2 times all goes well till day of meet, then she disappears:
https://members.seeking.com/member/a36999fc-0b54-4f55-b861-7772e2659600
Anyone see this lady? Chatted with her and wants skip the meet and greet, so comes across as desperate or pro vibes.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6585bb31-ae10-4525-a0e8-cdec87f9f342
Lately responses from Potential SBs has been better on this site, lot of girls chatting and leading to potential hook ups but there is still timewasters, pics / video sellers, chatbots with useless / endless chatting and last but not least bots favoriting me from different parts of world like I care.
Here is some info on some that I chatted, enjoy!
IvyKat.
Wanted 200 just for Meet&Greet and then texts out of blue for meet ups. There were reports of her milking members for dinner and drinks. Very unpredictable, expect to spend lot of time (and money) if you want to meet up wit this one, Ignore!!
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb94f642-19ae-40c9-9307-3b4e1f663825
BaddieBritany.
Met with this one, young and not doesn't look like a Pro. Easy to talk to setup Meet and Greet. Not a spinner and body is not tight. DTF and wants 400, can be talked down.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0826e9c5-fffb-4fd9-8c8b-fe79223a8a22
CandieRed704.
Chatting in middle of night (3.30/4.30 AM) and seems pushy. Not sure if she is even real person. Ignore for now.
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb92491f-5614-4030-83a1-75bd62be9f0e
Kdh_xoxo / / Kim.
There is reports of her here, search with Kim. Easy to talk to and DTF. She is texting me whenever she is coming to charlotte to meet up with some of you out there, yet to partake.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b9b43f5a-4c33-42e5-b3c4-d5be994d885f
Diva.
Claims to be Athletic body, which I doubt. Sending Videos / Pics, asking for meetups but so far hasn't asked for money. We are about to meet and then she says her car broke down and can't meet, sketchy at best. Ignored.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a71b2fb8-ce86-4a99-a506-177ddd4950c0
Gr33 neyes82/ GreenEyes.
Easy to chat / text. DTF, wants 300 or 400 can't remember. I need some feedback on this as well, may not be that good looking as her pictures suggest.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6585bb31-ae10-4525-a0e8-cdec87f9f342
LiLi190.
Don't have link anymore, she blocked me. Too Fat for my taste and she is too eager for DTF, Ignored.
HornyBum85
08-27-22, 12:02
Good evening, gentlemen!
I have a friend who is interested in starting to Sugar. She is Latina (Mexican and Cuban), 5'9", 22 years old, and is a college student in Charlotte.
She has never done anything like this before. She just wants a better life RIGHT NOW.
And to answer your collective question, because I know you are all asking: NO! She and I have never hooked up (and we never will. She is a friend).
She is def DTF.
PM me if you are interested in an awesome Sugar Baby (and make no mistake. She is not an escort. There is a huge difference).I wanted to update folks on this.
I would like to extend my heartfelt gratitude to the gentlemen who have contacted my friend.
She and I spoke today (we do most days.) and she is truly enjoying this.
So, to those kind gentlemen who have made this experience so unforgettable for someone doing this for the first time in her life (and she was nervous af. Had to walk her off the ledge a few times), I say "THANK YOU"!
If there is ever anything any of you need. You know where I am!
Monger on, gentlemen!
Thru just casting out the net on the sites I had evolved the mind set to talk to young ladies. Talk to them in social settings, share some Social Media coms. See what evolved.
Got lucky and established a "classic" SB / SD relationship you outlined. Started off with a few PPMs but now a much more satisfyingly arrangement.
She's asked for my advice and she's put it into action. I've shown her how to maintain her car. That I helped her acquiring. "No one has ever taken the time to teach me any of this. ".
She wasn't on any site just open coms and it evolved over 6 months. Peace.
I've said this a couple of times on this thread. The majority of what is being called a SB / SD relationship is nothing more than glorified prostitution. Selling pussy, no matter how often or what your circumstances are, qualifies you as a prostitute. The minute they agree to PPM, that's an escort. Just because these girls don't have the same mileage or are not on drugs, they are still accepting money for sex and that is the very definition of an escort.
Having said that, the true SB / SD relationship is not a PPM. It's when a younger woman who is need of help or wants extra money for going out, getting her hair or nails done, paying bills, etc. And in return she offers her time and affections to an older man. The older man also helps her by giving life advice as he's been there done that. The expectation of sex every time you meet is not part of the deal. Just like a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship, you go out and have fun but it doesn't always end in sex. Just like the SB shouldn't expect to cash out every time she sees her daddy. You call me, when you need help making your rent, getting your car fixed, you want a new outfit, you want your nails done, you need some food in the fridge.
These young girls today don't have a clue of how to be a SB and for that matter, a lot of dudes don't know how to be a SD.
My two cents.
Anyone see this lady? Chatted with her and wants skip the meet and greet, so comes across as desperate or pro vibes.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6585bb31-ae10-4525-a0e8-cdec87f9f342She's been reported on before under a different name. She's heavy. Big, firm belly and thick legs. That said she will do it all except butt stuff. Can get her lower, leave it at 200 and see what she says. Can host on her days of now that school is back in session. So that's a plus.
Which one of you guys has been giving her $600. That's what's she's asking now. Dang!
https://members.seeking.com/member/d5d23e69-400d-426b-b70c-dceb8e134396?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3DShe told me 5 and that was stupid I thought for her. To me it looks like her mid section isn't very nice.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
She quoted me 350 + 50 for CIM and 100 extra for rimjob and record it so total 500 - also asked for non latex condom only. I thought she was slim but the more pictures she sent the thicker she got. Profile pictures she looks much slimmer so I declined.
Also willing to host but got a male roommate.I never wore a condom with her and nothing but anal was off limits. I'm thick so that maybe why but I never really want to do that unless the ass is hot. And hers wasn't. She had thick thighs last year. Maybe she skimmed down. But 200 is all I ever gave.
TheMechanik365
08-28-22, 16:57
She's been reported on before under a different name. She's heavy. Big, firm belly and thick legs. That said she will do it all except butt stuff. Can get her lower, leave it at 200 and see what she says. Can host on her days of now that school is back in session. So that's a plus.Quoted me 300, I offered 2 and she would not budge.
Quoted me 300, I offered 2 and she would not budge.That's absurd for an overweight older lady.
TheMechanik365
08-29-22, 11:44
That's absurd for an overweight older lady.In fairness to her, she did say that was 2-3 hours and the only no was anal. She can only host in the mornings when her kids are at school but she prefers coming to you.
ANewHope84
08-29-22, 12:02
Is seeking even worth it? Debating wether or not to take that plunge. It seems to be a hassle from.
What I've seen on here.
GutterMind4
08-29-22, 12:48
What's your budget, what are you looking for, and how much time do you have to spend? If you are in the hobby and are used to half hour or one hour sessions with pros, but would prefer a more organic experience, it might be worth it. Or if you like the idea of "dating" college aged girls or single moms, it can be bountiful. But I have found a couple of truths doing the SB thing. It takes a ton of time to message enough girls to get a few to respond. The real amateurs are terrible at communicating. The fantasy is just that, fantasy (these girls, more times than not, would never f* you without paying them). The cost only has value if you can spare time to get your money's worth. For example, the entry fee is pretty similar to professionals but the value comes from the ability to spend more time, multiple pops, there's often more on the menu, sometimes BB if that's your thing, little to no chance for demons, pimps, or LEO, and a more intimate experience in general.
The flip side of that is the ridiculous amount of time and effort to find real, non-gps girls. If they are college age, they are likely shy and inexperienced and may not be down for all your fantasy porn scene ideas. You likely have very little in common and it will show in your conversations. They could just as likely be dead fish because of the thought of what they are doing for money. It can be pricey and you may get less value of they're not into it.
This year my experience has been very good but I'm fortunate enough to have the time to put into it. Ironically, I had 2 back to back SB in two days last month. On the third day, I lined up an Eros girl and was reminded at how easy and stress free it was to set a time, show up, and blow a load in a hot chick. So, to answer your questions I would say yes if you want some variety in your hobby. But no need to subscribe every month. Do one month and get as many numbers as you can off the app / website. Work those numbers until they're conquered or eliminated. Then pay for another month if needed. Good luck.
Is seeking even worth it? Debating wether or not to take that plunge. It seems to be a hassle from.
What I've seen on here.
GutterMind4
08-29-22, 16:02
Spot on assessment of this category of the hobby. The fact that there is a SB SD thread on this forum is kinda a misnomer based on that definition. I think the pay for play mongers have taken advantage (in a good way) of the sites that provide this service. And if a girl agrees before meeting someone there will be an exchange of currency for an act, they can word it how ever they want to but it's still prostitution. I always see the debate that being in a relationship with a girl is never free, therefore, it's not prostitution. But I think it's fair to say if they know what's going down and how much $ they'll get out of it, it is what it sounds like. That's much different than a young lady taking up an offer to go out on the lake with an older guy who owns a nice boat, he buys her dinner later, and after a couple outings (dates), they smash and he pays a car payment here and there to keep it going while she gives him some ass to keep the payments coming.
The ladies (non pros) on these sites may have entered the game hoping that was how it was going to happen but for a lot of them, this idea dissolves into the ppm situation. In little defense of the girls, other than man's primal need to get ass, they don't realize how much organized efforts by us mongers for "pay for play". I'm sure there are a handful that are too fearful of putting themselves out there on OF, and this is more discreet way to get their side hussle. But if you put lipstick on a pig it's still a pig. And of all the social degradation I see these days, I'm still thankful there are the outlets that put supply and demand in contact with each other so we may scratch that otherwise unreachable itch, LOL.
Thru just casting out the net on the sites I had evolved the mind set to talk to young ladies. Talk to them in social settings, share some Social Media coms. See what evolved.
Got lucky and established a "classic" SB / SD relationship you outlined. Started off with a few PPMs but now a much more satisfyingly arrangement.
She's asked for my advice and she's put it into action. I've shown her how to maintain her car. That I helped her acquiring. "No one has ever taken the time to teach me any of this. ".
She wasn't on any site just open coms and it evolved over 6 months. Peace.
GutterMind4
08-29-22, 16:10
That reply was supposed to be attached to Mechaniks post #4823.
Spot on assessment of this category of the hobby. The fact that there is a SB SD thread on this forum is kinda a misnomer based on that definition. I think the pay for play mongers have taken advantage (in a good way) of the sites that provide this service. And if a girl agrees before meeting someone there will be an exchange of currency for an act, they can word it how ever they want to but it's still prostitution. I always see the debate that being in a relationship with a girl is never free, therefore, it's not prostitution. But I think it's fair to say if they know what's going down and how much $ they'll get out of it, it is what it sounds like. That's much different than a young lady taking up an offer to go out on the lake with an older guy who owns a nice boat, he buys her dinner later, and after a couple outings (dates), they smash and he pays a car payment here and there to keep it going while she gives him some ass to keep the payments coming.
The ladies (non pros) on these sites may have entered the game hoping that was how it was going to happen but for a lot of them, this idea dissolves into the ppm situation. In little defense of the girls, other than man's primal need to get ass, they don't realize how much organized efforts by us mongers for "pay for play". I'm sure there are a handful that are too fearful of putting themselves out there on OF, and this is more discreet way to get their side hussle. But if you put lipstick on a pig it's still a pig. And of all the social degradation I see these days, I'm still thankful there are the outlets that put supply and demand in contact with each other so we may scratch that otherwise unreachable itch, LOL.
In fairness to her, she did say that was 2-3 hours and the only no was anal. She can only host in the mornings when her kids are at school but she prefers coming to you.She's a horny old lady. Can't DT but will gag trying to. Squirts. Takes loads wherever you want to put them. Tosses salad. She's worth a turn I guess, inflation is a m'effer.
TheMechanik365
08-30-22, 07:03
Is seeking even worth it? Debating wether or not to take that plunge. It seems to be a hassle from.
What I've seen on here.I'm a newbie to SA (Been on there a month). There are definitely some real women on there that are DTF but it takes a lot of work to weed through the pic and video sellers, the scammers who want money upfront (sight unseen) and the ones that just want attention and have no plans to actually meet and those that want GPS arrangements.
Having said that, I've met two in person (1 we did the deed & the other is a college girl that I'm close to closing the deal on) I've gotten legit quotes from others that are DTF and their price has ranged from 250-500 PPM. There are a couple college girls that wanted a weekly or monthly arrangement but I'm not in a position to take advantage of that right now.
I can say it has been fun chatting with a bunch of different ladies, who all seem easy to move offline and find out what they're looking for. I would say with the current state of escorts in the area, SA is not a bad way to go. Prices are higher in most cases but the trade off is, most of these girls are not junkies, actually have jobs (just a supplement to their income) and they are decent looking.
Right now I have the potential to bed 2 more with a high probability and there's at least 3 others that I believe I could bed right now and if that's actually the case, I'd say it was money and time well spent.
Try it for the month and if you don't like it, you can cancel.
Just remember, you have to put the time in and it's a lot of time.
Good luck.
This is one of the first girls I ever chatted with 2 yrs ago. I reviewed her once as a flake and she text me and fussed at me so she was either tipped off or watched the board.
Anyway I'll support my review then by saying she hasn't changed. Stood me up a few times and always wants money for vids until she can meet but always has a reason she can't meet. I did buy a couple vids which were poorly done. Could have been hot material just poor quality camera. She's real but I've yet to meet her because she text me still occasionally wanting to play. But really just wanting to get a handout. I've told her many times no more money until we actually meet. And yes she's a middle of the night texter. Waste of time.
Lately responses from Potential SBs has been better on this site, lot of girls chatting and leading to potential hook ups but there is still timewasters, pics / video sellers, chatbots with useless / endless chatting and last but not least bots favoriting me from different parts of world like I care.
Here is some info on some that I chatted, enjoy!
IvyKat.
Wanted 200 just for Meet&Greet and then texts out of blue for meet ups. There were reports of her milking members for dinner and drinks. Very unpredictable, expect to spend lot of time (and money) if you want to meet up wit this one, Ignore!!
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb94f642-19ae-40c9-9307-3b4e1f663825
BaddieBritany.
Met with this one, young and not doesn't look like a Pro. Easy to talk to setup Meet and Greet. Not a spinner and body is not tight. DTF and wants 400, can be talked down.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0826e9c5-fffb-4fd9-8c8b-fe79223a8a22
CandieRed704.
Chatting in middle of night (3.30/4.30 AM) and seems pushy. Not sure if she is even real person. Ignore for now.
TheMechanik365
08-30-22, 07:51
What's your budget, what are you looking for, and how much time do you have to spend? If you are in the hobby and are used to half hour or one hour sessions with pros, but would prefer a more organic experience, it might be worth it. Or if you like the idea of "dating" college aged girls or single moms, it can be bountiful. But I have found a couple of truths doing the SB thing. It takes a ton of time to message enough girls to get a few to respond. The real amateurs are terrible at communicating. The fantasy is just that, fantasy (these girls, more times than not, would never f* you without paying them). The cost only has value if you can spare time to get your money's worth. For example, the entry fee is pretty similar to professionals but the value comes from the ability to spend more time, multiple pops, there's often more on the menu, sometimes BB if that's your thing, little to no chance for demons, pimps, or LEO, and a more intimate experience in general.
The flip side of that is the ridiculous amount of time and effort to find real, non-gps girls. If they are college age, they are likely shy and inexperienced and may not be down for all your fantasy porn scene ideas. You likely have very little in common and it will show in your conversations. They could just as likely be dead fish because of the thought of what they are doing for money. It can be pricey and you may get less value of they're not into it.
From a seasoned pro. This is my exact experience. Also, the key is to move them to private texts ASAP. These girls get hundreds of messages from horny guys every day, so the quicker you move off SA, the higher probability of a meet because you can weed out a lot of fakers.
It really is a numbers game. I've messaged over a hundred girls in this last month, so yeah, it's time very time consuming. If you enjoy the thrill of the hunt, you'll probably enjoy it a little more.
Here's a tip: Even though a lot of these girls are doing PPM, they don't want to be treated like a prostitute. They still want to be pursued like a regular chick you're trying to date. You have to have some kind of game that separates you from the rest because talking to these girls, they say how creepy guys are and how even though it's PPM, just asking how much, doesn't cut it. Read their bio (if they have one), even if you don't GAF about it and pick something from it as an opening line, trust me, it will go a long way.
As GutterMind said, my SA membership has just ended, but I have enough numbers and contacts to have fun with for the next month.
TheMechanik365
08-30-22, 08:03
She's a horny old lady. Can't DT but will gag trying to. Squirts. Takes loads wherever you want to put them. Tosses salad. She's worth a turn I guess, inflation is a m'effer.Yeah, I got that impression as well. Yep, inflation is killing the game. LOL!
This is one of the first girls I ever chatted with 2 yrs ago. I reviewed her once as a flake and she text me and fussed at me so she was either tipped off or watched the board.
Anyway I'll support my review then by saying she hasn't changed. Stood me up a few times and always wants money for vids until she can meet but always has a reason she can't meet. I did buy a couple vids which were poorly done. Could have been hot material just poor quality camera. She's real but I've yet to meet her because she text me still occasionally wanting to play. But really just wanting to get a handout. I've told her many times no more money until we actually meet. And yes she's a middle of the night texter. Waste of time.She has been like that for a long time. She couldn't even keep a quick paid lunch date. And yea she will blow up your phone at 3 am so don't give her your main number. Better yet skip on this attention seeker.
From a seasoned pro. This is my exact experience. Also, the key is to move them to private texts ASAP. These girls get hundreds of messages from horny guys every day, so the quicker you move off SA, the higher probability of a meet because you can weed out a lot of fakers.
It really is a numbers game. I've messaged over a hundred girls in this last month, so yeah, it's time very time consuming. If you enjoy the thrill of the hunt, you'll probably enjoy it a little more.
Here's a tip: Even though a lot of these girls are doing PPM, they don't want to be treated like a prostitute. They still want to be pursued like a regular chick you're trying to date. You have to have some kind of game that separates you from the rest because talking to these girls, they say how creepy guys are and how even though it's PPM, just asking how much, doesn't cut it. Read their bio (if they have one), even if you don't GAF about it and pick something from it as an opening line, trust me, it will go a long way.
As GutterMind said, my SA membership has just ended, but I have enough numbers and contacts to have fun with for the next month.This x1000. We all know the drill but you need to play the game a bit.
I've hooked with numerous chicks who said to me early "I'm not an escort". Fast forward a week and we are in a hotel room.
Find something in their profile. It shows you actually read it. Ask them their dogs name and tell her it's a cute pup (if there is a picture). That's about the highest response probability you'll get. Chicks love their dogs man.
And it helps if you’re willing to get a drink or coffee with no expectations. I never pay them for that meet, but it opens up a ton of the more “regular” girls who aren’t willing to meet a random guy off the internet at a hotel.
TheMechanik365
08-30-22, 12:32
This x1000. We all know the drill but you need to play the game a bit.
I've hooked with numerous chicks who said to me early "I'm not an escort". Fast forward a week and we are in a hotel room.
Find something in their profile. It shows you actually read it. Ask them their dogs name and tell her it's a cute pup (if there is a picture). That's about the highest response probability you'll get. Chicks love their dogs man.
And it helps if youre willing to get a drink or coffee with no expectations. I never pay them for that meet, but it opens up a ton of the more regular girls who arent willing to meet a random guy off the internet at a hotel.The meet for coffee or drinks is two-fold. One, it lets the female relax and gets her comfortable being around you (after all, you're most likely not dealing with a pro), so you have to gently guide them to the finish line.
Second, it gives you a chance to bail if she is not as advertised. For the record that's as much as I'm willing to pay in advance at a meetup. Minimum output, for potential maximum gain. If they insist on dinners and spending money upfront, cut it off right away and let her know, it's P2P and the play needs to start now. The crazy part is, if they're real and provide intimacy, I'm more than willing to treat them to dinner, the movies, shows, etc, on top of the PPM because I'd rather have more of a relationship than what I would get from an escort.
It's funny but I feel like you're paying to date, if that makes sense. Because just about every real girl I've talked to on there has said, they don't want just a transaction, they want to build a connection and I can believe that of most women.
She is near Salisbury, name is Kirsten, anyone have info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/f46eee5f-3ab7-4bde-9413-946e92212760
https://members.seeking.com/member/4c7b8238-555c-45d6-8e0b-5eeeef96028f
Sweet girl just trying to make some extra money. Saw her while she was pregnant. Would of had the baby by now. Hosted after meeting for 300, but just wasn't GFE with me, so that's a one and done.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e8975286-9e3e-4e20-8613-9a7d77a72195
Time waster. Ghosted on a m&g.
https://members.seeking.com/member/911b9ffb-d8cf-4922-98ee-3b76fa300e17
Wants 400. If the pics are real, I'm interested. But she doesn't seem to be available till after 8 pm, so I moved on.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4833a25e-e030-4318-9263-79a009423724
Bigger than her pics. 300. Hosted after a meeting for a drink last Weds. Very open menu. Typically bigger than I'd like but the combo of very normal (has a real job), open menu, and hosting, made the allowance acceptable. Repeating next week.
Funny, that last one you'll be seeing again reminds me a lot of my experiences. I have this moment of clarity after 2-3 hours of pumping loads into some middle-aged frumpy lady when I realize I just paid good money to do what I could of done for free on any given night at a crappy bar in this town.
Then that old line hits me, I pay them to go away. These 40+ Aged horny women have the right idea! Find guys to pay to bang them when they'd be out trolling for the same guys at last call when the lights go on anyway.
I recently ended one night with a fatty I should have never been paying a dime for telling her as much. As much as she wants to keep fuking she refuses to do it for free. Keeps texting every weekend asking if I want to come over and pound it out for awhile, but she won't budge on me not paying her the 2 Benjamins I had been dropping.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4c7b8238-555c-45d6-8e0b-5eeeef96028f
Sweet girl just trying to make some extra money. Saw her while she was pregnant. Would of had the baby by now. Hosted after meeting for 300, but just wasn't GFE with me, so that's a one and done.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e8975286-9e3e-4e20-8613-9a7d77a72195
Time waster. Ghosted on a m&g.
https://members.seeking.com/member/911b9ffb-d8cf-4922-98ee-3b76fa300e17
Wants 400. If the pics are real, I'm interested. But she doesn't seem to be available till after 8 pm, so I moved on.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4833a25e-e030-4318-9263-79a009423724
Bigger than her pics. 300. Hosted after a meeting for a drink last Weds. Very open menu. Typically bigger than I'd like but the combo of very normal (has a real job), open menu, and hosting, made the allowance acceptable. Repeating next week.
Just sayin.
She is near Salisbury, name is Kirsten, anyone have info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/f46eee5f-3ab7-4bde-9413-946e92212760
Aafakljgadkg
09-06-22, 15:57
Anyone seen her?
She used to be on SA and reach out to me again recently.
DM me if it's better.
BrianPeter
09-06-22, 16:19
Anyone seen her?
She used to be on SA and reach out to me again recently.
DM me if it's better.Is she in the Ballentyne area?
Is she in the Ballentyne area?
Anyone seen her?
She used to be on SA and reach out to me again recently.
DM me if it's better.Corresponded with this one since since last week until recently. Supposedly stays in Unv area and can host. Wanted 4 and was willing to take 3. She wanted to meet right away and get right to the deed. She could have something she really wants or is TGTBT. She avoided my FaceTime, OF and bird app questions to verify so a probable scammer. I was blocked today on seeking and probably my burner too but I haven't confirmed. A random number did reach out reading: "hey" but I'll share some of the correspondence below.
Corresponded with this one since since last week until recently. Supposedly stays in Unv area and can host. Wanted 4 and was willing to take 3. She wanted to meet right away and get right to the deed. She could have something she really wants or is TGTBT. She avoided my FaceTime, OF and bird app questions to verify so a probable scammer. I was blocked today on seeking and probably my burner too but I haven't confirmed. A random number did reach out reading: "hey" but I'll share some of the correspondence below.This is classic scam. Lure you in with everything you want, take offense at you observing something is off, slamming you for it.
The easiest way to take emotion out of it is to compare the length of "her" texts before and after things go south. The honey trap texts are short and exactly what you want to hear. The explanations of why you need to send money, subscribe, etc., are significantly longer. When it seems you're on to the scam you are slammed with personal insults as the final grasp at "her" salvaging the con. Total BS.
TheMechanik365
09-07-22, 07:35
Corresponded with this one since since last week until recently. Supposedly stays in Unv area and can host. Wanted 4 and was willing to take 3. She wanted to meet right away and get right to the deed. She could have something she really wants or is TGTBT. She avoided my FaceTime, OF and bird app questions to verify so a probable scammer. I was blocked today on seeking and probably my burner too but I haven't confirmed. A random number did reach out reading: "hey" but I'll share some of the correspondence below.She's been blowing up my burner consistently. Said she wanted to meet before Tuesday which I couldn't do. She quoted 300 and said she could host or travel. Funny thing is, I don't recall reaching out to her but that doesn't mean I didn't.
Anyway, I told her straight out, I don't send anything upfront and she said okay. Comms have been normal and nothing out of the ordinary. The desperation, avoiding live verification and contacting multiple guys, makes me think something's not right.
Wants 6 for ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/587b61d6-43be-4d61-9b90-fa81fac66b3d
I believe this might have answered her already but I couldn't find it. I used Walmart card long back but now Walmart require SSN for registration.
Does seeking site accepts prepaid gift card, if yes which one is better & working without going through SSN registration?
This is classic scam. Lure you in with everything you want, take offense at you observing something is off, slamming you for it.
The easiest way to take emotion out of it is to compare the length of "her" texts before and after things go south. The honey trap texts are short and exactly what you want to hear. The explanations of why you need to send money, subscribe, etc., are significantly longer. When it seems you're on to the scam you are slammed with personal insults as the final grasp at "her" salvaging the con. Total BS.TjtjtJall, well spoken man. After I saw I was blocked, I reported the account as spam / scammer before I was so lucky.
She's been blowing up my burner consistently. Said she wanted to meet before Tuesday which I couldn't do. She quoted 300 and said she could host or travel. Funny thing is, I don't recall reaching out to her but that doesn't mean I didn't.
Anyway, I told her straight out, I don't send anything upfront and she said okay. Comms have been normal and nothing out of the ordinary. The desperation, avoiding live verification and contacting multiple guys, makes me think something's not right.TheMechanik365, I would defiinitely beware bro and if she's real it could be a possible robbery attempt.
I corresponded with her some time back on SA and text. These new pictures look nothing like what she used to post. The rates are twice what she was asking, and seemed too high then. I didn't pull the trigger as I felt there were red flags. Even more so now.
Wants 6 for ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/587b61d6-43be-4d61-9b90-fa81fac66b3d
Hard to believe this ad is staying up. Any info on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8055ced0-aebe-4820-8731-70a24a7ac706
Just confirming suspicions. https://members.seeking.com/member/6e00ba04-4522-4291-babf-b065be019d56.
Quickly got off SA to text, good to meet, happy to take my ppm offer, likes to eat at chop houses. Etc, etc, TGTBT.
Got around to asking for verification photo. Crickets.
Happy hunting.
BrianPeter
09-09-22, 07:14
Is this the same girl? I know that there were some reports on her from Seeking. Looks like she's stepping out as a pro.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4c7b8238-555c-45d6-8e0b-5eeeef96028f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
https://www.slixa.com/north-carolina/charlotte/alex-864
Is this the same girl? I know that there were some reports on her from Seeking. Looks like she's stepping out as a pro.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4c7b8238-555c-45d6-8e0b-5eeeef96028f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
https://www.slixa.com/north-carolina/charlotte/alex-864Without question the same girl.
Is this the same girl? I know that there were some reports on her from Seeking. Looks like she's stepping out as a pro.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4c7b8238-555c-45d6-8e0b-5eeeef96028f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
https://www.slixa.com/north-carolina/charlotte/alex-864Does either version of this young lady accept creampies?
Masiha1980
09-09-22, 15:51
Without question the same girl.She is still on SA and I talked to her last week. She is breast feeding a baby and was asking me if I want to drink some. I am not into that stuff so I declined and told her I am not into that stuff. Dtf though.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4c7b8238-555c-45d6-8e0b-5eeeef96028f
Masiha1980
09-09-22, 15:56
Is this the same girl? I know that there were some reports on her from Seeking. Looks like she's stepping out as a pro.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4c7b8238-555c-45d6-8e0b-5eeeef96028f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
https://www.slixa.com/north-carolina/charlotte/alex-864Same. She got a 8 weeks old baby and breast feeding. Spoke to her last week. She asked me if I am into drinking her milk. I declined since that's not my kink. Dtf and willing to do all other stuff.
BrianPeter
09-09-22, 17:02
Same. She got a 8 weeks old baby and breast feeding. Spoke to her last week. She asked me if I am into drinking her milk. I declined since that's not my kink. Dtf and willing to do all other stuff.How much did she want from you?
How much did she want from you?I gave her 3 last time I saw her. (about 2-3 weeks ago) She has always been a pro, nothing has changed. She was a dancer and pro down in Florida before the baby. This is her full time job.
I will say the pics are not very accurate anymore. She has gotten a lot bigger since baby. She's not an SB she's an escort so don't get suckered to pay SA rates.
I gave her 3 last time I saw her. (about 2-3 weeks ago) She has always been a pro, nothing has changed. You had better luck than me. She wouldn't budge from 5 when I approached her one month ago on SA.
Hard to believe this ad is staying up. Any info on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8055ced0-aebe-4820-8731-70a24a7ac706Dropped her number, and several request to text her. Pm me for number.
I know I don't post very often but believe me I'm a loyal subscriber. I've been following the sugarbaby thread for a while and there's very little mention secretbenefits. I had a short stint on seeking and felt like it was a complete waste of time. But secretB, that's a honeyhole of real women wanting to meet. Sure it takes a little while to get started, like any of those sites. The nice thing is you can limit your searches down to verified users and actually see when they were last active. When I travel, I do a little recon a week in advance, send out a few messages and by the time I get in to town, most always have at least two lined up.
Locally, I've met at least 5 from the site. All women eager to meet a older guy for a mutually beneficial meet. I steer clear of anyone who isn't verified with a video. Also stay away from the 18-25 yo crowd. Just not my thing.
So, the point of my post is, does anyone have a valid argument that seeking is better than secretB's? Maybe I'm missing something or maybe I just let a secret out that I should have kept to myself.
You had better luck than me. She wouldn't budge from 5 when I approached her one month ago on SA.Just chatted w her; now she wants 6.5!
I have had the opposite experience. Never got anything going on Secret Benefits. Have found success in Seeking.
I know I don't post very often but believe me I'm a loyal subscriber. I've been following the sugarbaby thread for a while and there's very little mention secretbenefits. I had a short stint on seeking and felt like it was a complete waste of time. But secretB, that's a honeyhole of real women wanting to meet. Sure it takes a little while to get started, like any of those sites. The nice thing is you can limit your searches down to verified users and actually see when they were last active. When I travel, I do a little recon a week in advance, send out a few messages and by the time I get in to town, most always have at least two lined up.
Locally, I've met at least 5 from the site. All women eager to meet a older guy for a mutually beneficial meet. I steer clear of anyone who isn't verified with a video. Also stay away from the 18-25 yo crowd. Just not my thing.
So, the point of my post is, does anyone have a valid argument that seeking is better than secretB's? Maybe I'm missing something or maybe I just let a secret out that I should have kept to myself.
Fireball25
09-11-22, 22:41
I know I don't post very often but believe me I'm a loyal subscriber. I've been following the sugarbaby thread for a while and there's very little mention secretbenefits. I had a short stint on seeking and felt like it was a complete waste of time. But secretB, that's a honeyhole of real women wanting to meet. Sure it takes a little while to get started, like any of those sites. The nice thing is you can limit your searches down to verified users and actually see when they were last active. When I travel, I do a little recon a week in advance, send out a few messages and by the time I get in to town, most always have at least two lined up.
Locally, I've met at least 5 from the site. All women eager to meet a older guy for a mutually beneficial meet. I steer clear of anyone who isn't verified with a video. Also stay away from the 18-25 yo crowd. Just not my thing.
So, the point of my post is, does anyone have a valid argument that seeking is better than secretB's? Maybe I'm missing something or maybe I just let a secret out that I should have kept to myself.I've fared better on SB vs Seeking as well. I've met one solid on one SB, but she stopped, different life choice. Lining up another nice one. On seeking so many ghosts / scams / blackmail. Haven't looked back.
Dollersine
09-12-22, 11:39
Gents I wanted to alert you to a woman in Mooresville who will try and take you for every penny you have. The post she was using was on What's your price but I have Hurd she is on other sites? I can't up load a link or photo sine all are gone. To give you a description she stated she is a heavy duty construction worker. She is very attractive and will give you Every sob story for money. I have additional info on her but I will not put it in the open forum. If you would like more info pm me.
Please stay clear of her if she pops up in another site or location. She is 39 5'8 died blond hair great false rack. She will promise the world and give nothing and does it real well. Stay safe all!
If any one has any good contacts north of Charlotte from North lake to Mooresville please also pm me. Good luck to all.
I've fared better on SB vs Seeking as well. I've met one solid on one SB, but she stopped, different life choice. Lining up another nice one. On seeking so many ghosts / scams / blackmail. Haven't looked back.I can't speak to SB but Seeking has been pretty productive for me. I've been active for about 3 months and I've managed to hook up with 7 girls, number 8 tomorrow if so goes according to plan. It's not without it's frustration but the reward is there.
AlexMcMasters
09-12-22, 19:39
I offered her less than her requested 500 ppm and she freaked out and was incredibly rude. I don't mind there being a disagreement in negotiation but I thought her reaction was ridiculous an immature.
As mentioned previously she did have a baby a little over two months ago.
Just chatted w her; now she wants 6.5!
Dollersine
09-12-22, 23:26
Gents I wanted to alert you to a woman in Mooresville who will try and take you for every penny you have. The post she was using was on What's your price but I have Hurd she is on other sites? I can't up load a link or photo sine all are gone. To give you a description she stated she is a heavy duty construction worker. She is very attractive and will give you Every sob story for money. I have additional info on her but I will not put it in the open forum. If you would like more info pm me.
Please stay clear of her if she pops up in another site or location. She is 39 5'8 died blond hair great false rack. She will promise the world and give nothing and does it real well. Stay safe all!
If any one has any good contacts north of Charlotte from North lake to Mooresville please also pm me. Good luck to all.I searched and found one of her posts, if I find more I will add that photo also. Beware!
Masiha1980
09-12-22, 23:41
https://members.seeking.com/member/fcac3e0f-4bf8-4c53-ba5e-acd839e39dba
Dreamed about her yesterday. Lives by university area. She is legit, place is safe and okay but too dark with all lights off and blinds closed. Pictures are a bit photo shopped but still very pretty. Sexy body -pretty smile but everything is fake. Fake tits, fake butt, fake lips and fake smile. Talks weird through nose. Initially I thought it was a guy with all work done but when I saw the puss, I felt she was real. At least I hope so I am right. Lmao. Well I posted her porn link below so seems she is not operated one.
Everything is available but all transactional based even the BBBJ was like a robot machine. No emotions no sensation no foreplay no slow. Everything felt rushed.
She is mentioned here before also. Will not repeat. Damage was 300.
It's my opinion though. You might like her and find the exact opposite experience.
She also did some porn before - https://www.xvideos.com/models/jordy-love.
Stay safe and good luck.
I've fared better on SB vs Seeking as well. I've met one solid on one SB, but she stopped, different life choice. Lining up another nice one. On seeking so many ghosts / scams / blackmail. Haven't looked back.I'm so glad I'm not the only one. We should compare notes. Shoot me a message. Lets divide and conquer a few. Maybe we can help one another weed out the fakes. Since nobody else is interested, let them stay on seeking.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fcac3e0f-4bf8-4c53-ba5e-acd839e39dba
Dreamed about her yesterday. Lives by university area. She is legit, place is safe and okay but too dark with all lights off and blinds closed. Pictures are a bit photo shopped but still very pretty. Sexy body -pretty smile but everything is fake. Fake tits, fake butt, fake lips and fake smile. Talks weird through nose. Initially I thought it was a guy with all work done but when I saw the puss, I felt she was real. At least I hope so I am right. Lmao. Well I posted her porn link below so seems she is not operated one.
Everything is available but all transactional based even the BBBJ was like a robot machine. No emotions no sensation no foreplay no slow. Everything felt rushed.
She is mentioned here before also. Will not repeat. Damage was 300.
It's my opinion though. You might like her and find the exact opposite experience.
She also did some porn before - https://www.xvideos.com/models/jordy-love.
Stay safe and good luck.No way that's who you met. She doesn't look mechanical in her videos. Regardless of the experience at least you have her under your belt. Congrats.
Cashapp / Applepay scam. Quick to text then hits you up for apple pay.
https://members.seeking.com/member/723f9174-3064-48c1-af73-2c80ab2f2f46
BigKav1000
09-13-22, 23:45
I've had zero success on SB and am quite happy with the quality of babies I've pulled on SA. One thing I will say about SB is I don't think those girls realize we can see the verification videos, because they usually look like hell in them.
I know I don't post very often but believe me I'm a loyal subscriber. I've been following the sugarbaby thread for a while and there's very little mention secretbenefits. I had a short stint on seeking and felt like it was a complete waste of time. But secretB, that's a honeyhole of real women wanting to meet. Sure it takes a little while to get started, like any of those sites. The nice thing is you can limit your searches down to verified users and actually see when they were last active. When I travel, I do a little recon a week in advance, send out a few messages and by the time I get in to town, most always have at least two lined up.
Locally, I've met at least 5 from the site. All women eager to meet a older guy for a mutually beneficial meet. I steer clear of anyone who isn't verified with a video. Also stay away from the 18-25 yo crowd. Just not my thing.
So, the point of my post is, does anyone have a valid argument that seeking is better than secretB's? Maybe I'm missing something or maybe I just let a secret out that I should have kept to myself.
MidnightSteel
09-14-22, 09:40
I've had zero success on SB and am quite happy with the quality of babies I've pulled on SA. One thing I will say about SB is I don't think those girls realize we can see the verification videos, because they usually look like hell in them.Owe man, you are so right on the videos. Some of the pics are like damn ok she's hot then the video is like fuck. I have the opposite experience. Doing pretty well on SB but cancelled SA. I also like SB because when you find some good talent your credits keep till you need to circle back and line up some more girls.
BrianPeter
09-15-22, 07:13
Anyone connect with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/64da66e3-7c81-4483-9b40-c3f3786c1927
SargeBob22
09-15-22, 09:31
Which site is the best for finding a sugar baby?
Anyone seen briellabaeb on what's yr price? Seems she has a good head on her shoulders. And no bs.
Seems I've seen something before, but can't find it. https://members.seeking.com/member/89734dc5-87eb-499b-b04a-f355a2f3a793.
Anyone connect with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/64da66e3-7c81-4483-9b40-c3f3786c1927She is DTF, gives a great BBBJ with lots of attention to the prostate, I asked for CIM but she stopped in the middle of my nut. I did not repeat because of no CIM. She was average looking with lots of ink, the damage was 300 and she hosted in a safe location in noda.
BrianPeter
09-15-22, 11:52
She is DTF, gives a great BBBJ with lots of attention to the prostate, I asked for CIM but she stopped in the middle of my nut. I did not repeat because of no CIM. She was average looking with lots of ink, the damage was 300 and she hosted in a safe location in noda.Thanks should have went to seeing her I had a below average experience today.
ConCityKing
09-15-22, 12:11
Anyone seen this one? Age scares me a little. But I have had success with 18-20 yo's in the past. PM me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce59f258-5583-4bcf-b0cd-9a42a34aaf5d
Seeking promo code good for September 20 OFFSD.
She is DTF, gives a great BBBJ with lots of attention to the prostate, I asked for CIM but she stopped in the middle of my nut. I did not repeat because of no CIM. She was average looking with lots of ink, the damage was 300 and she hosted in a safe location in noda.Would you mind sharing her digits? I'm a tattoo artist and it seems like she and I might get along better than most LOL.
Would you mind sharing her digits? I'm a tattoo artist and it seems like she and I might get along better than most LOL.Here she is on SB with a video, you can buy credits on SB cheaper than the $99 sub on seeking.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/9fa804fc0bee6cf8 SB sucks compared to Seeking, the only ones that reply are the same ones on seeking. The same with WYP
GruntinGunner
09-15-22, 21:32
Good day Gentz and I hope everyone is doing well, I've been lurking for a bit and wanted to ask if SB or the other sites are worth the subscription. I'm sure everyone's experience varies yet never really looked much into subscribing. Not sure if I do meet with someone do I need to be wealthy. If someone could please give me a better understanding. I do appreciate the intel BTW.
Stay safe guys.
Which site is the best for finding a sugar baby?Seeking has more that need less game and more dough from you, simi pros if you didn't read into that.
Anyone have a report on her? https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/30a7dc05409e6033.
Immediately asked if I was interested in PPM. I was hesitant, but, took the bait and asked how much. $800! I asked if that was for an evening or overnight. She said a for a couple of hours, add $200.
Got the impression she is real, just GPS and for that reason, I am out.
https://members.seeking.com/member/04d92d96-2ceb-462b-a3db-809eceb78a9c
John Marigold
09-17-22, 10:54
Anyone have a report on her? https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/30a7dc05409e6033.Seems like a very nice woman. She is a widow. If you're married, forget it, she won't be interested.
She suggested we go to text very quickly. Asked for $700. Told her way to rich for me. Offered to do half hour for $300. At an AirBnB in Plaza, says it is her last day. She seemed to be in a hurry, I felt pressured. Spider senses are tingling. Passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e4f5ca52-6b68-4c7c-80c9-675248f8c904
Have chatted with her and took the convo to text. I really want this one to be real, but, something doesn't seem quite right. Still talking. Appreciate any feedback.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9034fae5-2235-496a-9911-2a12a39cbae4
Murican314
09-17-22, 12:27
She suggested we go to text very quickly. Asked for $700. Told her way to rich for me. Offered to do half hour for $300. At an AirBnB in Plaza, says it is her last day. She seemed to be in a hurry, I felt pressured. Spider senses are tingling. Passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e4f5ca52-6b68-4c7c-80c9-675248f8c904She also posts on adultsearch.
Have chatted with her and took the convo to text. I really want this one to be real, but, something doesn't seem quite right. Still talking. Appreciate any feedback.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9034fae5-2235-496a-9911-2a12a39cbae4Try. She wants $500 with no intimacy the first meet.
Try. She wants $500 with no intimacy the first meet.That is one of the worst GPS move. But there a sucker everyday too. I'm glad we here won't spend that kind of money.
SeriousRod238
09-17-22, 20:55
Try. She wants $500 with no intimacy the first meet.
That is one of the worst GPS move. But there a sucker everyday too. I'm glad we here won't spend that kind of money.Speaking of GPS, check this one out in GA. Apparently, it's not a local problem. Anyone even attempting to contact her should have his monger card revoked.
https://members.seeking.com/member/406e94ea-3d7c-43aa-9f5c-d68386ebd12c?%3Flocale=en_USS&_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
I'd be interested in what folks here are willing to dole out for different levels of SB that present themselves on the sites we all meet them on. In my experience there are three tiers that I have spoken with and / or smashed fall into.
The first tier is the unicorn group. Age 18-29, very fit, pretty and seem TGTBT. These are typically the scams, platonic or online only girls, who have no intention of sleeping with anyone. But there are some that fall into this category that do go all the way. So my question is of those that do become active SBs, what do we pay them? I have bedded two that fall into this category in my time. They were the most I have ever paid. One was definitely worth it but I don't think she was in the game for much longer. The other was most definitely not worth it, should have lit those hundreds on fire.
The second tier is late 20's-40, cute but not stand out attractive, perhaps overweight with a cute face. Maybe thin with a butter face. Maybe huge boobs but also fat. There is an obvious physical flaw that keeps them out of the first tier. How much for this tier?
The third tier is older, divorced and often with children, more rural, less attractive perhaps but also much more aware of what they are getting into and therefor much more likely to end up in the sack with. What is the pay per meet of this tier?
I'm just trying to understand the market relate for these women. There are always exceptions. There are always exceptions, and we can all get lucky finding one that will take way less than what they are probably worth. But I'd love to know how as a community we value these different level of women.
LookingFor2022
09-18-22, 18:15
Fellow mongers, new account (old one was compromised) but been on here awhile.
Last Thursday I may have inadvertently scared off a fellow monger bc I think she had double booked. She was a bit startled when she opened the door from the look on her face and tongue got a little twisted!! Location was toward UNCC, apt near intersection of 485 and 29, PNC area. You were walking around, up down the stairs like not sure which apt. Must have been your first time there. Sorry man. DM me, I'd like to compare some notes.
Any info on this lady will be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/225bf819-681c-4087-944e-d7138a36e29a
GutterMind4
09-19-22, 15:50
For starters, your tier 2 is more desirable to some than others. Not all guys want to chase these clueless coeds despite the tight skin and silky hair. So the dole out is not only subjective to each guy's taste but also his budget (and budget can be what he's willing to spend as much as what he's able to spend). I actually prefer the mid thirty somethings because they are easier to talk to, less likely to BS, and don't want to waste time either. That said, I also target fit and attractive ladies over the heavier girls so the pickins are slimmer (no pun intended). These ladies can be as much as, or more, that the coeds because they kinda know their worth where the younger girls guess or assume their value. Either way, it's been widely posted that you won't find anything less than 2 bills and I wouldn't pay more than 4 bills for anything unless the experience is in the top 1% of attractiveness and / or menu offering. I've spent more but that but it was in Vegas or for a local girls that should have been 3 bills. Not to be too general but the payout should be as little as you can get away with but ultimately, the ladies set the market and the guys respond to it. If it's too high, they lady will adjust accordingly as her responses dictate. But it's also widely known that these girls get hundreds of messages a day. So good luck getting the IG models less than 5 to 8 Ben's.
I'd be interested in what folks here are willing to dole out for different levels of SB that present themselves on the sites we all meet them on. In my experience there are three tiers that I have spoken with and / or smashed fall into.
The first tier is the unicorn group. Age 18-29, very fit, pretty and seem TGTBT. These are typically the scams, platonic or online only girls, who have no intention of sleeping with anyone. But there are some that fall into this category that do go all the way. So my question is of those that do become active SBs, what do we pay them? I have bedded two that fall into this category in my time. They were the most I have ever paid. One was definitely worth it but I don't think she was in the game for much longer. The other was most definitely not worth it, should have lit those hundreds on fire.
The second tier is late 20's-40, cute but not stand out attractive, perhaps overweight with a cute face. Maybe thin with a butter face. Maybe huge boobs but also fat. There is an obvious physical flaw that keeps them out of the first tier. How much for this tier?
The third tier is older, divorced and often with children, more rural, less attractive perhaps but also much more aware of what they are getting into and therefor much more likely to end up in the sack with. What is the pay per meet of this tier?
I'm just trying to understand the market relate for these women. There are always exceptions. There are always exceptions, and we can all get lucky finding one that will take way less than what they are probably worth. But I'd love to know how as a community we value these different level of women.
Tensandaces
09-19-22, 17:25
Hey guys,
On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.
So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.
Download a free texting app, link it to a new Gmail or outlook email address that you make just to verify that number. You'll be good to go.
Hey guys,
On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.
So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.
Thanks for that response. I agree 4 is the general ceiling, but I've had success at the 200 level when I'm the first guy they've been with in the SB lifestyle. I left that amount for such a lady recently and she texted later that I was way short and she was expecting 4 even though we never discussed the money. No chance she was at that level, but I was wondering how she arrived at 4 with no prior experience of her own.
Highest I've paid is 5 but that was a bombshell blonde, blue eyed 19 year old with an insane natural rack and perfect body. She got out of the lifestyle pretty quickly I think. But that was definitely money well spent on my end.
For starters, your tier 2 is more desirable to some than others. Not all guys want to chase these clueless coeds despite the tight skin and silky hair. So the dole out is not only subjective to each guy's taste but also his budget (and budget can be what he's willing to spend as much as what he's able to spend). I actually prefer the mid thirty somethings because they are easier to talk to, less likely to BS, and don't want to waste time either. That said, I also target fit and attractive ladies over the heavier girls so the pickins are slimmer (no pun intended). These ladies can be as much as, or more, that the coeds because they kinda know their worth where the younger girls guess or assume their value. Either way, it's been widely posted that you won't find anything less than 2 bills and I wouldn't pay more than 4 bills for anything unless the experience is in the top 1% of attractiveness and / or menu offering. I've spent more but that but it was in Vegas or for a local girls that should have been 3 bills. Not to be too general but the payout should be as little as you can get away with but ultimately, the ladies set the market and the guys respond to it. If it's too high, they lady will adjust accordingly as her responses dictate. But it's also widely known that these girls get hundreds of messages a day. So good luck getting the IG models less than 5 to 8 Ben's.
Hey guys,
On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.
So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.
You can add a burner app right to your phone, I use burner.com but many others out there. OK, these chicks on SA or simi pros to straight up pros, they don't have time to chat, if you can't make a deal in 10 min or less expect to be ghosted. The college girls call it ATM101, it's not for the faint of heart anymore.
John Marigold
09-20-22, 07:19
Hey guys,
On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.
So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.It's better to move to texting via phones as soon as possible. If you discuss meeting up for sex and start asking questions about requiring a condom or not, etc. , SA will permanently ban you.
TheMechanik365
09-20-22, 07:35
You can add a burner app right to your phone, I use burner.com but many others out there. OK, these chicks on SA or simi pros to straight up pros, they don't have time to chat, if you can't make a deal in 10 min or less expect to be ghosted. The college girls call it ATM101, it's not for the faint of heart anymore.I found that 98% move straight to text without hesitation. Agreed, a lot of these girls are looking for PPM right away. Definitely a different ball game.
As far as what to pay. It's all subjective. What one man considers a 10, another considers a 5. Me, myself, I will pay more for a young coed. The term SB is meant for a twenty something, not late thirties and forties. Nothing against the older ladies but the whole point of this SB / SD lifestyle is an older man with disposable income, finding a young lady with whom he can spend time with in exchange for financial benefits.
Now, I'm not saying I won't bed an older lady or that I mind paying for her time, I'm just going to pay a premium.
MidnightSteel
09-20-22, 13:55
Speaking of GPS, check this one out in GA. Apparently, it's not a local problem. Anyone even attempting to contact her should have his monger card revoked.
https://members.seeking.com/member/406e94ea-3d7c-43aa-9f5c-d68386ebd12c?%3Flocale=en_USS&_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3DHAHA she sounds terrible. I bet she calls herself an influencer.
TheMechanik365
09-21-22, 06:13
https://members.seeking.com/member/c1cf7597-7ab5-4f24-a495-2a6616a09246
Saw her last night. Cute, thick, coed in her last year of school. Took about a month or so to hook up. Did a M & G around the time I first contacted her, at a bar which didn't cost a thing. I had a beer and she had a water. She's really busy between work and school, so you have to be patient and keep in contact. If you don't keep in contact, she will block you.
She asked for 5, I countered with 4 and we met in the middle at 450. That was for 2 hours. Her no list: CIM, Anal, COF. She's thick and was tight. Head was decent and she seemed to enjoy herself. I probably won't pay the 450 again but it was a nice ride and she's really cool.
On a site full of fakes, she's real.
Tensandaces
09-21-22, 10:04
I found that 98% move straight to text without hesitation. Agreed, a lot of these girls are looking for PPM right away. Definitely a different ball game.
As far as what to pay. It's all subjective. What one man considers a 10, another considers a 5. Me, myself, I will pay more for a young coed. The term SB is meant for a twenty something, not late thirties and forties. Nothing against the older ladies but the whole point of this SB / SD lifestyle is an older man with disposable income, finding a young lady with whom he can spend time with in exchange for financial benefits.
Now, I'm not saying I won't bed an older lady or that I mind paying for her time, I'm just going to pay a premium.Yes I agree and am also looking for the young coed. If it costs a bit more that's no problem as long as it's a low mileage younger lady. If other guys prefer to negotiate their way out of the vibe that's their deal. Granted I have to scratch around more to find the right situation.
So they jump right to text now, huh? When I was on before it seemed as if I had to work to get them to chat off the site. That's why it seemed like there might be some kind of scam I didn't know about. Thanks for the info. Burner ready and now maybe I can make some progress.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c1cf7597-7ab5-4f24-a495-2a6616a09246
Saw her last night. Cute, thick, coed in her last year of school. Took about a month or so to hook up. Did a M & G around the time I first contacted her, at a bar which didn't cost a thing. I had a beer and she had a water. She's really busy between work and school, so you have to be patient and keep in contact. If you don't keep in contact, she will block you.
She asked for 5, I countered with 4 and we met in the middle at 450. That was for 2 hours. Her no list: CIM, Anal, COF. She's thick and was tight. Head was decent and she seemed to enjoy herself. I probably won't pay the 450 again but it was a nice ride and she's really cool.
On a site full of fakes, she's real.I saw her about a year ago, I only paid 300, she did offer BB. She was too thick for me and she has cellulite on her thighs, not a repeater for me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0
Messaged her and she sent her number but I don't want to pay for premium lmaooo can anyone PM if they have it.
Captain Sod
09-21-22, 19:41
Hi guys, first post on here.
Been in the hobby for a while but never really contributed, trying to change that Saw her new profile on SA, she messaged me, wanted to move to Snap / text quickly. Thought, no way, this is bullshit. But, kept comms open anyway just to see. Ended up doing a video call verification. She's cute, a little desperate, open to most things except the butt. Asked 4; countered 3, asked if I could host but agreed I would come to her air bnb in SW Charlotte. Was on the way there when I got a message "hold up, wait". Goddamit. Waited around in a nearby parking lot for a while before bailing. Some family issues or something. Considering the video call and it didn't cost me anything but a little time, I might try again, but like 10 minutes effort max. Also some weird thug pictures on her snap story.
Izzyback.
https://members.seeking.com/member/952174b8-3e8d-4902-bc89-6708ff1d28e8
Thanks for all you do guys! -Sod.
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BrianPeter
09-22-22, 05:54
https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0
Messaged her and she sent her number but I don't want to pay for premium lmaooo can anyone PM if they have it.Any of the senior members here would tell you to add some useful reports to the forum, before you ask for numbers. Also, it would be number for number.
TheMechanik365
09-22-22, 06:38
https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0
Messaged her and she sent her number but I don't want to pay for premium lmaooo can anyone PM if they have it.It is bad etiquette to ask those of us who have paid the membership fee, to help you contact these girls. Why should we pay and give you free access?
Pay for the membership just like we all did.
It is bad etiquette to ask those of us who have paid the membership fee, to help you contact these girls. Why should we pay and give you free access?
Pay for the membership just like we all did.Life's all about who you know brother.
BrianPeter
09-22-22, 12:58
Life's all about who you know brother.Seems like you don't know anybody with the number. Just get the membership.
Hi guys, first post on here.
Been in the hobby for a while but never really contributed, trying to change that Saw her new profile on SA, she messaged me, wanted to move to Snap / text quickly. Thought, no way, this is bullshit. But, kept comms open anyway just to see. Ended up doing a video call verification. She's cute, a little desperate, open to most things except the butt. Asked 4; countered 3, asked if I could host but agreed I would come to her air bnb in SW Charlotte. Was on the way there when I got a message "hold up, wait". Goddamit. Waited around in a nearby parking lot for a while before bailing. Some family issues or something. Considering the video call and it didn't cost me anything but a little time, I might try again, but like 10 minutes effort max. Also some weird thug pictures on her snap story.
Izzyback.
https://members.seeking.com/member/952174b8-3e8d-4902-bc89-6708ff1d28e8
Thanks for all you do guys! -Sod.If she was real and already had an Airbnb, more than likely she was hosting a few different gentleman callers. You were probably bumped because of a double book or a 4-Bill guy wanted to meet and that trumped your 3-bill offer. This shit happens all the time and I never believe any excuse they give. The thug in the snap pics is weird.
Captain Sod
09-22-22, 23:28
If she was real and already had an Airbnb, more than likely she was hosting a few different gentleman callers. You were probably bumped because of a double book or a 4-Bill guy wanted to meet and that trumped your 3-bill offer. This shit happens all the time and I never believe any excuse they give. The thug in the snap pics is weird.Thanks Banger. I kinda figured that. I've actually had pretty good success with SA, just not in Charlotte. I'll keep reporting what I find.
I have been a shameful user of seeking for years. To the point I'm using numbers that I last contacted 3 to 4 years ago and still getting replies back to meet up, albeit for higher rates. Inflation is real!
Secret benefits is a loser from the start. The model is incentivized to get you to message girls, pay a premium to see their "secret" pics, move your message to the front of the line, or get a read receipt. They target the most vulnerable of the simps. Of course I signed up to try my hand and here is the deal.
1 in 20 girls might be a real person. The rest are photos from girls in other geographies that have submitted their pics and "verification" video at some point in the last few years. One prior I read of a girl in Monroe said she was really looking forward to exploring the Bay Area.
Those profiles will be the ones that message you. They will request access to your pics. They will be online every other day for 12 hours straight. Every time you reply to those bots it costs you $12 based on the 50 credits /$60 math. If you are a real cuck you pay $12 to respond, another $12 to get your message "boosted", another $12 for a read receipt and a final $12 to see her naughty private photos. They clear $50 on a bot.
The one thing I'll give seeking is every girl I've messaged and moved to text is at least a person. Now many are frauds or girls looking for online only, platonic, etc. BS. But, it's at least human.
Secret benefits is the biggest fraud I've ever participated in. Please avoid.
CEOTraveling
09-23-22, 10:00
Any of the senior members here would tell you to add some useful reports to the forum, before you ask for numbers. Also, it would be number for number.Couple of years ago. $250 BBFS. Was decent. Fat ass.
Tiny914 and Tonybutmighty on SB.
She's got a weird body, very thin legs and arms, no ass, but has a belly and fake cans. Has popped out 5 kids, so I question the fitness of her nether regions.
She can't host, can only meet nights and weekends, and wants 400 ppm. I informed her that's more mid20's hot girl donation. Hopefully she ruminates on the PSA I gave her and gets more realistic.
https://members.seeking.com/member/171ef0e7-6ce2-4da3-8a05-f6c1dba8b784
https://members.seeking.com/member/2f3f06c5-ca08-4eba-94d6-121f90f5d32a?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC9mb3J1bS9zaG93dGhyZWFkLnBocD8xMjc0Mi1UcnlpbmctdGhpcy1TdWdhci1CYWJ5LXRoaW5nLi9wYWdlNg%3D%3D Anyone knows what happened to Sammi, is she still alive? I texted her about 3 months ago, someone replied back she had major issues, he warned me to be careful.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2f3f06c5-ca08-4eba-94d6-121f90f5d32a?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC9mb3J1bS9zaG93dGhyZWFkLnBocD8xMjc0Mi1UcnlpbmctdGhpcy1TdWdhci1CYWJ5LXRoaW5nLi9wYWdlNg%3D%3D Anyone knows what happened to Sammi, is she still alive? I texted her about 3 months ago, someone replied back she had major issues, he warned me to be careful.She posts regularly on her Facebook and she seems happy. I also saw her ad on SB - https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a47c43a0fa0c26e4
I haven't contacted her recently but I wish her the best.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2f3f06c5-ca08-4eba-94d6-121f90f5d32a?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC9mb3J1bS9zaG93dGhyZWFkLnBocD8xMjc0Mi1UcnlpbmctdGhpcy1TdWdhci1CYWJ5LXRoaW5nLi9wYWdlNg%3D%3D Anyone knows what happened to Sammi, is she still alive? I texted her about 3 months ago, someone replied back she had major issues, he warned me to be careful.She seemed very unhappy last time I got in touch with her a couple months back.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2f3f06c5-ca08-4eba-94d6-121f90f5d32a?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC9mb3J1bS9zaG93dGhyZWFkLnBocD8xMjc0Mi1UcnlpbmctdGhpcy1TdWdhci1CYWJ5LXRoaW5nLi9wYWdlNg%3D%3D Anyone knows what happened to Sammi, is she still alive? I texted her about 3 months ago, someone replied back she had major issues, he warned me to be careful.Talked to her yesterday. She moved to a different city and is in rehab, which she desperately needed. Last time I saw her in person was at a QT near my house and she looked like she had been sleeping outdoors. Chatted with her a little bit but wasn't willing to do more than that based on her appearance.
She had fallen deep down the demon hole and from the looks of her Facebook as well as the couple of conversations I've had with her via text since she left, I don't think she'll be back this way any time soon. Seems to be on the path of getting her shit together.
https://members.seeking.com/member/731f01a2-256b-49c4-a81e-6aedd3a8d7a6
A little overweight with hot face. Wants 450 per meet. Claims recently deceased sugar daddy was giving her over $3 k a month. Tough sledding on the wrong side of 30.
HoldenPierson
09-29-22, 12:22
https://members.seeking.com/member/2190d8f4-9b22-4f02-b47b-df1f01f9a1f0
Messaged her and she sent her number but I don't want to pay for premium lmaooo can anyone PM if they have it.Much freakier on her OF page than first date but do agree with other member, she is a thicky.
https://members.seeking.com/member/84de2e0e-c482-4dea-833c-52385f2b6f9a
Anyone have any experience with her? Comms have been good, dtf, quoted $5. I've verified with photos and found confirming social media profiles. Everything checks out and seems legit. Just wondering if the experience is worth it or of there are any red flags. Thanks!Make sure she's not by the airport. A jetliner might mistake it for the runway and try to land on her forehead.
TruHobby31
09-30-22, 11:41
So I have an UTR that has been my go to for the last 2 years.
Colombian, 27 and DTF addicted to it.
DM for her number and email. She prefers EMAIL first and here is her IG its private but request and she will accept. She is trying to do the Sugar baby thing full time.
Instagram.com/ lacamilachica.
Will respond to DM's when I have a moment I am working.
John Marigold
09-30-22, 11:45
Secret benefits is a loser from the start. The model is incentivized to get you to message girls, pay a premium to see their "secret" pics, move your message to the front of the line, or get a read receipt. They target the most vulnerable of the simps. Of course I signed up to try my hand and here is the deal. 1 in 20 girls might be a real person. The rest are photos from girls in other geographies that have submitted their pics and "verification" video at some point in the last few years. One prior I read of a girl in Monroe said she was really looking forward to exploring the Bay Area. Those profiles will be the ones that message you. They will request access to your pics. They will be online every other day for 12 hours straight. Every time you reply to those bots it costs you $12 based on the 50 credits /$60 math. If you are a real cuck you pay $12 to respond, another $12 to get your message "boosted", another $12 for a read receipt and a final $12 to see her naughty private photos. They clear $50 on a bot. The one thing I'll give seeking is every girl I've messaged and moved to text is at least a person. Now many are frauds or girls looking for online only, platonic, etc. BS. But, it's at least human. Secret benefits is the biggest fraud I've ever participated in. Please avoid.A few days ago, I met-up with a gorgeous 22 year old that I met on Secret Benefits (SB). She agreed to a $250 session fee that included BBBJ and BBFS but no CIP as she is not on birth control. I reserved a room on the DayUse website which was perfect for our early afternoon session. She arrived at my room right on time. I let her in and was amazed that she looked even better in person than in her photos on SB (which are also very hot). Before we met, she even sent me a really hot personalized video to my phone saying how excited she was to meet me soon. Nice touch! Upon entering the room, we hugged and immediately began a slow, sensual DFK while fondling and grabbing and pressing into each other's butts. I picked her up in my arms and carried her over to the bed. We continued kissing for about 15 to 20 minutes with each of us shedding a little bit of clothing along the way. When kissing, I noted in my mind that she has amazing lips that I couldn't wait to feel around my member. So she slid down while lying on top of me and began kissing my stomach and then lightly licking my member. After teasing me with the light licking she then began is alternate between licking and sucking me. It was the best BBBJ I have ever had; her lips and the inside of her mouth felt amazing. Knowing that I was close to climax we changed positions with me on top of her and I began to slowly enter her and begin a rhythmic in / out. She was a bit tight but her natural body fluids made it feel just perfect. I almost forgot that I had promised to pull out before coming. So quickly pulled up where she could take it in her mouth and I provided a nice full load there. She kept sucking until the last drop and swallowed it all. One of my best sessions ever. Only 250. I won't give her profile name here out of respect for her privacy. Let's just say that I begins with the letter "B".
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Is this supposed to be funny? If you don't have anything useful or responsive to add, please stfu.I think he was referring to her ginormous forehead.
DudeMan1990
10-02-22, 18:01
https://members.seeking.com/member/84de2e0e-c482-4dea-833c-52385f2b6f9a
Anyone have any experience with her? Comms have been good, dtf, quoted $5. I've verified with photos and found confirming social media profiles. Everything checks out and seems legit. Just wondering if the experience is worth it or of there are any red flags. Thanks!Hey man I private messaged you about her!
Sure you aint po po? You been pimpin this chic on many threads.
So I have an UTR that has been my go to for the last 2 years.
Colombian, 27 and DTF addicted to it.
DM for her number and email. She prefers EMAIL first and here is her IG its private but request and she will accept. She is trying to do the Sugar baby thing full time.
Instagram.com/ lacamilachica.
Will respond to DM's when I have a moment I am working.
DudeMan1990
10-02-22, 19:56
I think he was referring to her ginormous forehead.Well I mean your wife is probably ugly ass hell hence the reason you're having to pay females on this site to have something good to look at. So no room to talk about foreheads.
Her profile has been up for awhile. Exchanged a few messages. I may be over cautious, but, something doesn't quite seem right. Any insight is appreciated:
https://members.seeking.com/member/af210d0b-977d-7b47-ceb7-45d5bbe3b051
BigKav1000
10-06-22, 02:05
After a little back and forth and trying to sell me pics I was quoted 500.
Anyone seen this one? Age scares me a little. But I have had success with 18-20 yo's in the past. PM me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce59f258-5583-4bcf-b0cd-9a42a34aaf5d
Sure wish you guys would post a screen shot of the profile for these girls, then we can follow them as they create new profiles. Of course this one is already disappeared.
https://members.seeking.com/member/84de2e0e-c482-4dea-833c-52385f2b6f9a
Anyone have any experience with her? Comms have been good, dtf, quoted $5. I've verified with photos and found confirming social media profiles. Everything checks out and seems legit. Just wondering if the experience is worth it or of there are any red flags. Thanks!
It's not a mistake that this post is leading the thread. This is always my response when I am threatened by the subject of a report.
I would be very careful with the subject of this report, she has now threatened the member who posted it with exposure and me. If I were a monger in the states I would stay far away.
A2
CuriousGeor
10-06-22, 08:19
Much freakier on her OF page than first date but do agree with other member, she is a thicky.Anyone mind sharing the OF? I tried poking around and couldn't find it.
CaptCipher
10-06-22, 15:55
https://members.seeking.com/member/84de2e0e-c482-4dea-833c-52385f2b6f9a
Anyone have any experience with her? Comms have been good, quoted $5. I've verified with photos and found confirming social media profiles. Everything checks out and seems legit. Just wondering if the experience is worth it or of there are any red flags. Thanks!
It's not a mistake that this post is leading the thread. This is always my response when I am threatened by the subject of a report.
I would be very careful with the subject of this report, she has now threatened the member who posted it with exposure and me. If I were a monger in the states I would stay far away.
A2The SB sites are alway a mixed bag, sometimes you end up with a headcase like her.
PoopSnicker
10-06-22, 17:28
Is this supposed to be funny? If you don't have anything useful or responsive to add, please stfu.It was really fucking funny! Don't get all bent.
BrianPeter
10-06-22, 21:20
Anyone mind sharing the OF? I tried poking around and couldn't find it.She says that it's not up at the moment.
If she was real and already had an Airbnb, more than likely she was hosting a few different gentleman callers. You were probably bumped because of a double book or a 4-Bill guy wanted to meet and that trumped your 3-bill offer. This shit happens all the time and I never believe any excuse they give. The thug in the snap pics is weird.When they say Airbnb that's code for I'm a hooker.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7f97413b-f896-4c13-9785-a0e1a03e5c70
She is DTF, gives a great BBBJ with lots of attention to the prostate, I asked for CIM but she stopped in the middle of my nut. I did not repeat because of no CIM. She was average looking with lots of ink, the damage was 300 and she hosted in a safe location in noda.I paid 250. And she came to me. Nice girl but skin was a bit lax and ass and tits soft and not firm.
Anyone seen her?
She used to be on SA and reach out to me again recently.
DM me if it's better.She did the same and sent a hot pic of her sitting down with ass looking nice. Like all in a hurry to meet. I couldn't meet that day so I scheduled a day or 2 after and ghosted. I got the pro escort vibe.
Grasshopping
10-09-22, 21:44
Sure wish you guys would post a screen shot of the profile for these girls, then we can follow them as they create new profiles. Of course this one is already disappeared.Her profile is back on. All talks aside, I think she's got a hot body. I'd totally pursue her.
BrianPeter
10-10-22, 06:11
Her profile is back on. All talks aside, I think she's got a hot body. I'd totally pursue her.Don't let your little head lead you to do that. There are better options without the drama and threats.
SeekingRdu
10-10-22, 08:58
It was really fucking funny! Don't get all bent.It Was funny. LOL.
With that said her forehead wasn't that bad. Check this one out in Raleigh. This one could easily be an extra in a men in black remake!
https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612
Grasshopping
10-11-22, 23:11
I have been tempted to try Secret Benefits for quite some time but never took the plunge due to its pricing model. Plus, I have always had pretty good success with SB so I didn't feel the need to switch.
Well lately my SBs are dropping like flies so I thought maybe it's now a good time to try the site SB out. If anyone has any tips on how to maximize the use of credits and weed out junks as much as possible, please do share either on the forum or PM. Thanks.
TruHobby31
10-12-22, 23:58
Her IG is back up. IF and when she accepts your request then message me and I will fill in blanks. Black shirt blue jeans holding a purse standing in front of a pool.
Can't make it any easier.
BrianPeter
10-13-22, 05:59
She's freaky. Pm me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/420d46af-7d39-43fb-a3e9-574ee61ef4d5
Fireball25
10-13-22, 17:45
I have been tempted to try Secret Benefits for quite some time but never took the plunge due to its pricing model. Plus, I have always had pretty good success with SB so I didn't feel the need to switch.
Well lately my SBs are dropping like flies so I thought maybe it's now a good time to try the site SB out. If anyone has any tips on how to maximize the use of credits and weed out junks as much as possible, please do share either on the forum or PM. Thanks.So I weed msgs out by the ones not in CLT, 18/19 yr olds, and if word description of themselves do not reflect picture. A big one I look for, is when I receive a msg, I check to see if at least they visited my profile before hand. If not, it's a bot or scam msg, in my opinion.
MidnightSteel
10-14-22, 10:36
So I weed msgs out by the ones not in CLT, 18/19 yr olds, and if word description of themselves do not reflect picture. A big one I look for, is when I receive a msg, I check to see if at least they visited my profile before hand. If not, it's a bot or scam msg, in my opinion.Yes that's a good tip, I do the same. I also don't open their private pics until we have traded a few messages. That will save you 10 credits. I like SB and have had a good amount of success.
TruHobby31
10-14-22, 14:49
For all the WHITE Knights that think messaging me craziness is a good look I am going to post here and not waste my time replying to each DM.
I met Camila on Seeking we had an arrangement for a little over 2 years. I took this girl to several different countries and cost for my arrangement with her was not traditional and far exceeds what anyone should consider when beginning an initial agreement with someone.
That said I still travel globally I am in Colombia atm. I found out through a few mutual connections we established over the year that she would see others when not traveling with me. NO PROBLEM I never claim to own pussy any pussy.
The problem is that she lied to me way too many times about various things like fucking with a rubber when she was not. FOR ME, that is something I could not overlook. I have been in this lifestyle for going on 15 years and TBH I am open too almost anything but lies. I cannot have anyone around and in my personal space that I cannot trust. That said I stopped seeing her and she played the victim card and thought her starting a new account would make me jealous.
I told her not only did it not make me jealous I would help her with new clientele and arrangements. Hence the post here: READ THIS AND UNDERSTAND. If you are looking to have fun their are few other experiences I have had that compare but KNOW she plays victim and lies constantly. Most of these women are the same. The faster you learn this the safer you will be in cutting things off before investing more than you should.
Never try and turn a hoe into a housewife. You white knights so far have all been regular members. You will soon learn victim is the mentality of the working woman PERIOD. That said if you have problems with me sharing her info keep that to yourself I don't care she asked for the assistance no matter what she says she asked for the assist. I am sure it sounds better to be a damsel in distress LOL.
Her page is up and active and she is still screening so if she responds good luck and have fun just don't lose sight of what reality is!
IG: lacamilachica.
Snap: camila_chic* hint its not an asterisk.
Her IG is back up. IF and when she accepts your request then message me and I will fill in blanks. Black shirt blue jeans holding a purse standing in front of a pool.
Can't make it any easier.
John Marigold
10-14-22, 17:21
I have been tempted to try Secret Benefits for quite some time but never took the plunge due to its pricing model. Plus, I have always had pretty good success with SB so I didn't feel the need to switch.
Well lately my SBs are dropping like flies so I thought maybe it's now a good time to try the site SB out. If anyone has any tips on how to maximize the use of credits and weed out junks as much as possible, please do share either on the forum or PM. Thanks.Check out my Post #4080 in this Sugar Baby thread. You might find it helpful.
John Marigold
10-15-22, 16:04
Secret benefits is a loser from the start. The model is incentivized to get you to message girls, pay a premium to see their "secret" pics, move your message to the front of the line, or get a read receipt. They target the most vulnerable of the simps. Of course I signed up to try my hand and here is the deal. 1 in 20 girls might be a real person. The rest are photos from girls in other geographies that have submitted their pics and "verification" video at some point in the last few years. One prior I read of a girl in Monroe said she was really looking forward to exploring the Bay Area. Those profiles will be the ones that message you. They will request access to your pics. They will be online every other day for 12 hours straight. Every time you reply to those bots it costs you $12 based on the 50 credits /$60 math. If you are a real cuck you pay $12 to respond, another $12 to get your message "boosted", another $12 for a read receipt and a final $12 to see her naughty private photos. They clear $50 on a bot. The one thing I'll give seeking is every girl I've messaged and moved to text is at least a person. Now many are frauds or girls looking for online only, platonic, etc. BS. But, it's at least human. Secret benefits is the biggest fraud I've ever participated in. Please avoid.You get a few things right, but you are mostly flat-out wrong. Saying that "1 in 20 girls might be a real person" is nonsense. I have spent considerable time on both SA and SB and I have found SB to have far fewer fakes or scammers. Once you understand that there are far fewer fakes and scammers and have learned how to have success on SB, when you then renew look for the half-price offer they give when you get down to having only 10 tokens left. You can then buy 2000 tokens at less than $0. 15 per token. It does not cost anything to scroll through the profiles. If you decide to send a message to a girl, it costs 10 tokens which is about $1. 50. You need to avoid having to look at everyone's secret photos, get your messages boosted, or get read receipts; just ignore that stuff. Just spend wisely and your 2000 tokens can last for 3 months or longer. Once you hit it off with a girl, move to texting with your cellphone and ask her to send you pics there.
I had another extremely hot date with a regular a few days ago. If you searched through the profiles of 18-22 year-old blondes with average figure in Charlotte, she will appear in your search. I think she is one of the most beautiful young women on the site in the Charlotte area. Her photos appear to be photo-shopped -- and perhaps they are a bit -- but she actually looks just like her photos. Her breasts are natural, 36 C, and perfectly shaped. She does a great BBBJ and allows DFK and BBFSCIP but I suspect YMMV on the latter. She hosts too so I save on the cost of a hotel. Honestly, I would expect to have to pay $800 or so with girl of her caliber, and I would pass because that's too high for me. But she is extremely reasonable (at least to me). It's around $300.
No lie, I have at least 15 girls from SB that I have "dated" this year and have had only one bad experience (and that girl has fortunately left SB). I rarely find girls that chat for a few minutes and then ask for money up-front via cash app. Of course, there are some, but just write in your profile that you will not pay via cash app in advance and that will eliminate most of that stuff.
I hope you can understand and appreciate that I won't reveal any of her details. I won't do that for any of the SB girls I date privately like this. If they wanted that kind of publicity, I guess they would go on STG or something. I do just want to refute what others are writing about SB that I feel is wrong, misleading and unfair. And you can go ahead and discuss sexual things right on SB and they won't ban you like SA will.
I would far prefer to see reviews of women that help members in their search. And, have no intention to disparage one service or another. I will just point out that on this site, I have seen posts and links about women on Seeking. I don't recall ever seeing a useful review or link for anyone on Secret Benefits. I have used the information found here to help on Seeking. Those who have success on SB should help the members with useful reviews that include links. Let's remember our goals.
Now, get out there, and report back!
You get a few things right, but you are mostly flat-out wrong. Saying that "1 in 20 girls might be a real person" is nonsense. I have spent considerable time on both SA and SB and I have found SB to have far fewer fakes or scammers. Once you understand that there are far fewer fakes and scammers and have learned how to have success on SB, when you then renew look for the half-price offer they give when you get down to having only 10 tokens left. You can then buy 2000 tokens at less than $0. 15 per token. It does not cost anything to scroll through the profiles. If you decide to send a message to a girl, it costs 10 tokens which is about $1. 50. You need to avoid having to look at everyone's secret photos, get your messages boosted, or get read receipts; just ignore that stuff. Just spend wisely and your 2000 tokens can last for 3 months or longer. Once you hit it off with a girl, move to texting with your cellphone and ask her to send you pics there.
I had another extremely hot date with a regular a few days ago. If you searched through the profiles of 18-22 year-old blondes with average figure in Charlotte, she will appear in your search. I think she is one of the most beautiful young women on the site in the Charlotte area. Her photos appear to be photo-shopped -- and perhaps they are a bit -- but she actually looks just like her photos. Her breasts are natural, 36 C, and perfectly shaped. She does a great BBBJ and allows DFK and BBFSCIP but I suspect YMMV on the latter. She hosts too so I save on the cost of a hotel. Honestly, I would expect to have to pay $800 or so with girl of her caliber, and I would pass because that's too high for me. But she is extremely reasonable (at least to me). It's around $300.
No lie, I have at least 15 girls from SB that I have "dated" this year and have had only one bad experience (and that girl has fortunately left SB). I rarely find girls that chat for a few minutes and then ask for money up-front via cash app. Of course, there are some, but just write in your profile that you will not pay via cash app in advance and that will eliminate most of that stuff.
I hope you can understand and appreciate that I won't reveal any of her details. I won't do that for any of the SB girls I date privately like this. If they wanted that kind of publicity, I guess they would go on STG or something. I do just want to refute what others are writing about SB that I feel is wrong, misleading and unfair. And you can go ahead and discuss sexual things right on SB and they won't ban you like SA will.
John Marigold
10-16-22, 09:16
I would far prefer to see reviews of women that help members in their search. And, have no intention to disparage one service or another. I will just point out that on this site, I have seen posts and links about women on Seeking. I don't recall ever seeing a useful review or link for anyone on Secret Benefits. I have used the information found here to help on Seeking. Those who have success on SB should help the members with useful reviews that include links. Let's remember our goals. Now, get out there, and report back!You miss my point. Secret Benefits is a very legitimate site and, IN MY OPINION, has fewer fakes, scammers, and BOTs than Seeking. Quoting from one of YOUR previous posts: "SB is a waste of money and time. Never met one woman from that site, and I worked it, even recognized a pro I had seen before. They definitely use bots to generate generic messages to you from women whose profile you have used, in order to get you to use your credits. " The PURPOSE of my posts is to argue that you're dead wrong about SB being a waste of time and full of BOTs. Maybe you and some others here just don't know how to "work it" on SB, so I have been trying to inform readers here about how to work it and also point out how hot some of the girls are there.
Now, get out there, and stop misrepresenting a valuable site that you just didn't know how to work.
Hey guys,
On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.
So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.If they immediately ask for your number most of them are escorts. As isn't the same as it was a few years ago. They girls that are real want $500-800. Many are also scammers but if they ask for your number immediately usually escort.
BrianPeter
10-16-22, 19:38
If they immediately ask for your number most of them are escorts. As isn't the same as it was a few years ago. They girls that are real want $500-800. Many are also scammers but if they ask for your number immediately usually escort.Yep it's 500 and up now. Even the unattractive ones are asking that. I'm sticking with my regulars more often. I'm not gifting 500 unless she's a 10 face, body, and agreed services.
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Grasshopping
10-16-22, 21:38
You miss my point. Secret Benefits is a very legitimate site and, IN MY OPINION, has fewer fakes, scammers, and BOTs than Seeking. Quoting from one of YOUR previous posts: "SB is a waste of money and time. Never met one woman from that site, and I worked it, even recognized a pro I had seen before. They definitely use bots to generate generic messages to you from women whose profile you have used, in order to get you to use your credits. " The PURPOSE of my posts is to argue that you're dead wrong about SB being a waste of time and full of BOTs. Maybe you and some others here just don't know how to "work it" on SB, so I have been trying to inform readers here about how to work it and also point out how hot some of the girls are there.
Now, get out there, and stop misrepresenting a valuable site that you just didn't know how to work.Thanks for everyone's passionate feedback. I didn't mean to stir up such heated debates but won't apologize for asking either as I think seeing different perspectives is good for the community. I have heard some raving about SB and some swear by SA. I think everyone's experience could be different just like everything else.
One of my buddies who also sugar dates or at least used to had slightly better luck with SA than SB. With the credit-based scheme, I think I'll have to approach SB very differently than I was with SA. I will have to discipline and limit myself not to open every message whose originator has a hit profile pic. I will have to pick the ones that are verified and / or have been on the site for a while. Even though that means I could miss out on some real babies. I'll experient with it and will send / read messages sparingly to conserve credit. I'm not looking for tons of SBs anyway. Will be happy with 2 good and consistent ones.
Question about the creit discount: can I buy 100 credits now ($59). Then when my credit runs low and get the discount offer, I buy the 500 or 1,000 credits with the discount? Or will I will limited to applying the discount to the purchase of 100 credits only?
BrianPeter
10-17-22, 09:45
She's freaky. Pm me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/420d46af-7d39-43fb-a3e9-574ee61ef4d5Her profile is gone now. She must have freaked out from all the new attention.
Secret Garden
10-18-22, 00:48
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ConCityKing
10-18-22, 12:18
Gave SB a shot. Idk how yall make it worth it. I pored through profiles for about 2 weeks. Very selective on messages. I stayed in the 4-7 range on looks hoping to increase my odds. Bought the lowest amount of credits so I think I could send 16 messages total. I'm up to 14 with one response. She replied once and haven't heard from her since. I'll stick to SA. I can send 16 messages in an hour. LOL.
One of yall that have had success mind throwing me a bone with a sure thing to burn my last 2 messages on.
Thanks.
-CCK.
I have been mongering for a while in Orlando and have had so so! Success (I have met some very good ladies on SB) but it has cost a pretty penny.
II came up to the Carolinas and have found 0 luck.
Sent several msgs with no responses.
Will keep trying to see if any luck.
Say safe.
Ee.
Wanted 500. Not from me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c1566ec-9784-409e-b5d2-a2adfd29994f
Wanted 500. Not from me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c1566ec-9784-409e-b5d2-a2adfd29994fCounter offer, bet she takes much less, Christmas time is coming.
Gave SB a shot. Idk how yall make it worth it. I pored through profiles for about 2 weeks. Very selective on messages. I stayed in the 4-7 range on looks hoping to increase my odds. Bought the lowest amount of credits so I think I could send 16 messages total. I'm up to 14 with one response. She replied once and haven't heard from her since. I'll stick to SA. I can send 16 messages in an hour. LOL.
One of yall that have had success mind throwing me a bone with a sure thing to burn my last 2 messages on.
Thanks.
-CCK.I score on all the sugar baby sites. I think my age is an advantage 50 to 60+ is a plus, couple of good pics, and a straight to the point profile, most of the a real players will hit you up. The way I weed out the gamers is if they say anything about in their ad about wine and dining or taking care of her long term, pass. Most over 30 are ready to play, under 25 takes a little more game. A young chick with chaps is what I look for. IMHO, the biggest gamers, hardest to score, and most expensive are collage students, unless they just fit my mold I pass. I'm still getting plenty action for 3 or less and less than 5 bills if I stay the night, oh and most I see host. I call it the "Senior Advantage".
MidnightSteel
10-19-22, 15:22
Counter offer, bet she takes much less, Christmas time is coming.I've had luck with the "$300-500 depending on the experience" My experience is you dangle a carrot and they step up the experience to match the dollar amount they desire.
Organ Grinder
10-19-22, 15:54
I have a paid account w / Seeking. Every time I click on a link here in the forum to seeking, I get the error "Profile Not Available" with a "Find a Better Match" button.
Am I doing something wrong?
Gave SB a shot. Idk how yall make it worth it. I pored through profiles for about 2 weeks. Very selective on messages. I stayed in the 4-7 range on looks hoping to increase my odds. Bought the lowest amount of credits so I think I could send 16 messages total. I'm up to 14 with one response. She replied once and haven't heard from her since. I'll stick to SA. I can send 16 messages in an hour. LOL.
One of yall that have had success mind throwing me a bone with a sure thing to burn my last 2 messages on.
Thanks..Check your PM.
Grasshopping
10-19-22, 17:27
Fantasy Night.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fc2de21e-c9b7-4da8-836e-7261945eae91
Very eager to meet. Said would drive up to Charlotte from Columbia to meet up. Said ppm immediately on SA. Took her offline. Quoted 350 plus room. I didn't bite. Got a pro or semi-pro impression though her pics look good. We never discussed details of activities. I have not been in the mood for pros or even semi-pros lately so I stopped responding.
Karmababygirl.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9265fefd-34fc-4139-afe9-bf537fde6f2c
Usually those that advertise duo experience are up to no good. This one is no exception. Very eager to meet. When asked about details of menu, she would beat around the Bush. Then finally said we were just meeting for dinner and no intimacy on the first date. And yes, she does want allowance for the dinner date. Like I didn't know it from the beginning. Don't waste your time.
SophiaMG.
https://members.seeking.com/member/21bf8d50-d7ff-40ef-815a-98351a89b281
This one is real. Quoted 300 plus room. Nice face and slim but body is soft borderline flappy even though she's slim (I. E. Not firm). No BJ of any kind but allows BBCIP. Ok kisser. She's just unremarkable in bed so I didn't repeat.
Was talking to couple other "SBs" but they are all pros so I didn't pursue:
Such asthis one. https://members.seeking.com/member/d5d5ec57-7569-40d1-b1c4-29fcdc9109fa.
Any intel on BrazilianBeauty? Haven't discussed any details but she seems too easy.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/5c332b81-9d1e-4a9e-be30-5c632a59f996
SmallAsianCock
10-19-22, 21:41
Fantasy Night.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fc2de21e-c9b7-4da8-836e-7261945eae91
Very eager to meet. Said would drive up to Charlotte from Columbia to meet up. Said ppm immediately on SA. Took her offline. Quoted 350 plus room. I didn't bite. Got a pro or semi-pro impression though her pics look good. We never discussed details of activities. I have not been in the mood for pros or even semi-pros lately so I stopped responding.
Karmababygirl.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9265fefd-34fc-4139-afe9-bf537fde6f2c
Usually those that advertise duo experience are up to no good. This one is no exception. Very eager to meet. When asked about details of menu, she would beat around the Bush. Then finally said we were just meeting for dinner and no intimacy on the first date. And yes, she does want allowance for the dinner date. Like I didn't know it from the beginning. Don't waste your time.Two of your links Karmababygirl, and Karmababygirl go to your messages.
I like Dame but I don't recall the convo went anywhere.
LatinaLover2
10-20-22, 02:58
Wanted 500. Not from me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c1566ec-9784-409e-b5d2-a2adfd29994fI rarely monger in the states, mostly in South America. The girl you linked to your post would never get a second look in Colombia. I get girls, mostly coeds that would put that girl to shame for less than a 100 and be very happy to get it. You could buy a ticket to Colombia for less than that girl wanted for an hour. Most with very little limits and no time limit, expand your horizons, you won't be sorry.
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