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Member #5605

06-08-03, 20:36

I was finally able to have an "extended evening" at Club Taboo, and I have to report, that I wish I could have had a better time. The quality of women there left a lot to be desired, and the few that were partying were into the "black dicks" (I thought it was "white chicks for black dicks" night). Given the quantity of people, it made for a diffucult evening, since the bedrooms for partying were either ALL FULL or ALL EMPTY given any given time. The house music was louder then the 1 porno being played, and as i said, the few women partying were not attentative towards "lighter skinned penises" (I have never felt more racially discriminated against at ANY swing club! :( Overall, it was an encounter, I would NOT care to repeat, and for the price donated ($55.00 for a single male), I felt ripped off to say the least, but then again, the nature of these places is: YMMV, and "whatever the women want". At least the host is cool, and the food and drinks were well plenished! Good luck with whatever encounter you may have!

Member #5605

06-10-03, 19:40

Phone Number deleted as I have no desire to promote an INFERIOR SWING CLUB through a posting of mine.

Latin Walker

11-10-03, 07:01

Anyone know of anygood swingers club in vancouver, Canada?

Thanks for the PM's.. :)

LW

Euro Stomper

11-12-03, 07:54

Hello everybody,

I am travelling from Europe to Malaysia on the second half on november up to December and I would like to get, as a new member here, some usefull informations about swingers experiences.

I don't mind about races or religions and the way whom someone looks like, i just want to try new experiences and I want to start this new lifestyle as soon as i am in Malaysia.
Can anyone help me ? (I have tried already checking and searchiong for onto the wsag table of contents about malaysia but I couldnt find any).

Thank You.

Si Ma Yi

12-01-03, 01:42

Hi Euro stomper

I am a Malaysian and generally we don't swing that much. All trapped in mundane monotonous relationships. And to get sexual satisfaction, generally males go to Health Centers/ spa. As for females, I donno. Be careful with what the Malaysian men posts on WSG. Some just want to exaggerate to feel good about themselves.

Happy holidays

Emmanuelle

El Gringo 1

12-14-03, 20:32

Emmanuelle,

Thanks for your honest input.

How may I meet horny Malaysian married women?

Thanks in advance.

EG1

Lee Bog

12-15-03, 16:25

Was curious about Club Taboo so I called them. The guy said they're closed. No parties till next year.

Horny24

01-19-04, 01:51

Does anyone have any experience with Thad's swing club? Thought about checking it out for some semi-free fun but I'd like to know if it's worth the time.

Thanks in advance to all my fellow cocksmiths!

Horny24

Ace Base

02-10-04, 10:19

Alright, I'll have to kick start this!

Calling all girls and guys who live in the UAE (especially Dubai) and are into the lifestyle. Lets get the scene moving here!

PM me if you're a couple or a single woman. No single males please! We can arrange to meet in a neutral zone before we get it on.

Somebody. Do something.

Uninfun

04-02-04, 12:59

Philadelphia has two (2) swingers clubs, one on premise and one off premise.

I personally prefer the on premise Club Kama Sutra. It's like a big night club where you can have sex. The crowd is 27-37 on average (though they pack in about 100 couples and there are younger and Older couples). If you got a girl who's really into it, you'll have a blast. If you have to force the girl to go, you'll be disappointed. Kama Sutra is my favorite club north of Florida. (MiamiSpice is my favorite florida place).

The other off premise club is NJ Couples parties every other week. Never been there, but heard it's older couples.

Hope this helps- at least the Philly Scene.

T Poet

05-19-04, 07:50

Calling all freaks and swingers are there any things happeining in the Washington state area i wil be there on business for the summer and need to know what other options besides escorts are available. appreciate all tips.

TP

Will673

05-19-04, 14:33

Does anyone know of a swinger club in Ohio?

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Reno Dude

06-21-04, 08:31

If you live in the Kansas City metro area, Club E is having a party this coming Saturday night, June 26th. Couples and singles attend these parties which usually get pretty wild. However, since they have moved to a new location in Blue Springs, there's no telling what kind of activity will take place Saturday night. You can call them for reservations (required) at (913) 238-4339. A select few single men are allowed to come.

Reno Dude

07-05-04, 11:16

I don't want to repeat myself each month because that wouldn't be right, but Club E in Kansas City basically has a party once a month at a local hotel (usually the third Saturday of each month - like July 17th this month.) You can always call for information. A few select males are allowed into the parties, but you need to call early.

They also have an on-premise party house. These parties takes place every Friday and Saturday night. A few select males are allowed here too, but you cannot go upstairs without a couple taking you up there. They have a hot tub in the back yard, and a pool table downstairs in the basement.

For details and reservations (required) call (913)238-4339.
(Kansas City, Missouri/Kansas area)

Friend2001

07-20-04, 18:28

I shall be visiting India next week, i.e Delhi and Mumbai? Can somebody notify me of any swinging activities or couples/ladies?

Thx

Friend2001

08-21-04, 19:07

I shall be returning to India shortly, and am still interested to hear about any swinging clubs or couples - previous response was disappointing!

Big JP

09-18-04, 07:45

Greetings all my mongers Swingers,

I found this thread as I am bored on a weekend in Tokyo, I was wondering if there are any couples or single woman who want to share in weekend hotel stays in Tokyo for great sex. I and my regular/ SO are looking. Anytime, all races, sizes and religions are welcome. No single men please.

Some of my experiences (photo's) are posted in Tokyo/photo section of japan. PM if you are interested. We are not shy and she is bi. I am Straight.

BIG JP

Jackson I hope this request is okay and in the appropriate section. If this is not allowed I apologize in advance.

Spoon Kerve

10-04-04, 00:04

Greeting,

I was wondering if there are any swinger clubs or organizations in the philippines. moved here and was looking for some kinky action.

Brown Nuts

11-18-04, 14:52

I shall be returning to India shortly, and am still interested to hear about any swinging clubs or couples - previous response was disappointing!I would interested in finding out the same info.

Just Brian

11-21-04, 11:47

Just wondering if there are any truly active swingers' clubs in Malaysia?

Zidaho

11-28-04, 22:56

Hey Mongers,

Can not add much about international swinging clubs. I think i have talked about my Rio swing club experience which was not that great due to my lack of conversational ability.

However, I have had a few good Vegas experiences the past year. THere are about 3-4 good swing houses in Vegas, generally I recommend going with the attitude that most of the individuls you encounter do not have a clue about how to approach or talk up another couple or a man or woman. I would only go in with a female in tow, and preferrably one who wants to be there. Be prepared for a lot of voyer types, and basically they have no conversational skills or in some kind of internalized state that I have been in before, that is unable to loosen up and have fun. So, I strongly recommend taking a partner.

Laurie and I had a great time we chatted up several couples and Laurie was working on a guy she found attractive. I working on two couples, and we were able to all swing together. However, best for one person in the group to be in charge of the environment, that is kind of like a Lietenant, somewhat gregariously holding the horny single guys at bay and graciously inviting certain couples into your semi-private space, otherwise the ambience is too weird and insecure for women. I also noticed couples who would easily get carried away forgetting to insist using condoms. Without going back too many years, generally the swing environment I have experienced the last several years seems rushed, uncertainity and isolation easily prevail particularly in a group absent a focal point, a shade of . . . I don't know creeping oblivious shame??? However, occassional, in memory (that is 20 years ago) the right mix came together and it was a lot of FUN!!! I hope to do more swinging, maybe I will give Laurie a call and see when she will be back in the area. Ha, ha.

I think Swinglifestylecom has swinger meetings every couple of months. Might want to check that out if you want to pursue swinging, though again, preferably with a female as that initially opens up way more doors.

Zidaho

11-29-04, 23:11

I guess this is my month to post on this board. Frankly I can hardly contain my excitement about going to Brazil next week. Anyway, here are a couple of pics swinging with married women. I met one on AFF, the other on SLS, and the best one on Match. I guess the effort was worth it but wow, it did take a lot of effort.

Have fun

Reno Dude

12-29-04, 20:40

Probably the largest swingers party for New Year's will be at Club Erotica because they'll be at a hotel in Grandview, Missouri. I'll most likely go to that party since they accept single males. Club Erotica runs an ad in a paper called Night Shift locally in Kansas City.
There is another club called The Hideaway on the Kansas side of Kansas City, but it doesn't allow single people.

Reno Dude

Pussy Hunter

05-15-05, 23:49

This is a board for mostly AMP, SW, and others, but I would like to find someone to take me to a swingers group in S. Florida. This is an area that I'd love to partake in if there is a way to get introduced! PLease send me a note if there is someone who can get me introduced!

Thanks,

Pussy Hunter

Member #4064

11-26-05, 19:06

I hope you find someone hunter. I am in the same situation. Florida has some hot clubs. I went to one near Tampa, but it was rough being single. Since then I have been to a few more but generally speaking a single guy is needed at a swinger club like a dollar is needed to a millionaire. Many clubs will let you in but beware of some couples as they can get pretty snotty. It is a hit and miss game as I have also been lucky.

Cephlapod Love

12-17-05, 19:08

Hey, posted this sometime back on the Philly board, but just found this section of USASG so thought it might be of use to repost it here.

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Swinging IS exciting and erotic, however, it is highly unusual, especially for a single male. Swinging or the 'lifestyle' is not like it is portrayed in the movies; it's not one big orgy where everyone plays with anyone, at least not in my experience.

As a single male you face a tremendous up hill battle. Granted it can be won but, usually only by a few and with careful planning and action. The problem is there are TONS of other guys out there in competition. In my experience most guys that get into the lifestyle do so because they think it is easy sex. It can be. However, I have talked to a lot of women & couples in the lifestyle and the same recurrent themes come out: Guys are jerks! Guys are a dime a dozen! So if you venture into this you need to be on your best behavior, use your best manners and treat the ladies in a way you'd want a boyfriend to treat your sister. Bad behavior by single males only reinforces the negative stereotypes and makes it harder for those that try to behave. DO NOT venture into the lifestyle thinking that the women there are ******, sluts or prostitutes and they treat them on that level. They may want to behave as a wh**e for a few hours on the weekend but they still want to be treated right!

If a married lady wants a single guy, she usually finds him, not vice versa. The politics are quite interesting. One would think that this 'beyond the norm' lifestyle would bring a highly liberal group, not necessarily. This can be highly conservative. Guys will be very protective of their lady and tend to fend off single males, so one has to pass that hoop first. Then of course never be fooled, the woman is in ultimately in charge and final decisions are hers. Of course then there are the couples with issues and getting in the middle of that can bring lots of drama.

So why not find a single lady to be a couple in the lifestyle? Good approach, but know this: Single females in the lifestyle sit at the top of the food chain! EVERYONE wants them and wants attention from them: couples, other bi-single ladies and of course single males. These gals, when they sign up on a swinger's website, get 100 e-mails in the first two days, are immediately over-whelmed and have lots to pick and choose from. Again, standing out from the crowd as polite, sincere and drama free gentleman is a good tactic. Rest assured, bad behavior, or the perception of such, is a death knell. Most single females in the lifestyle run in packs and you better believe, when a new guys shows up they trade information. A good reputation is hard to earn, but a bad reputation is hard to live down.

The guys that I have seen that are long-term successful in the lifestyle are truly amazing. It has nothing to do with looks, though nice equipment doesn't hurt, but being able to make a lady multi-orgasmic can over come tool size. But the successful, long-term guys, are that because they always seem available. I have seen these guys go off with ladies that are either too large for my liking, not attractive or just not my taste. However their willingness to play with these ladies gets them a good reputation and the chance to be around when better targets are available. I asked a guy how he got it up after he had just wandered off with a lady I would not touch with a 10 foot pole. He said, 'Sometimes you just have to think of something else or close you eyes and imagine you are with Tara Banks."

All of that said, not to be discouraging, (just wanted to project a bit of reality) the best thing to do is start with an education on what the lifestyle is and what it is not. Read, several websites on this issue and try to get an understanding of the people that choose this and their orientation, their views on single males, etc. Then head to a club a few times to do some research. I you go with NO EXPECTATIONS, are polite, and ask a lot of questions (show interest in people) about the lifestyle and folks orientation in such you will learn a lot and start to learn how to fit in as a single male. As far as clubs go many limit the ratio of single males to couples or just plain ban them. In somecases single males are welcome only one night a week and couples only on the others. I know one club that lets SMs in on Friday night, action there if it happens, tends to be a gang-bang type; a bunch of horny guys lined up to take a 'turn' with some lady who wants multiple partners. Check on the policies about SMs before you venture out!

Now as far as getting an education, I have always had a soft spot for Patty, she has a book and runs one of the biggest swingers publications.

http://www.connectiononline.com/home.php

Her book is here:

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...=glance&s=books

Here is another resource on the topic recommended by one of the clubs:
http://www.sexuality.org/mgswing.html

Good luck!

PsyberZombie

12-28-05, 18:17

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Member #5605

01-02-06, 01:56

Anybody found any places in the IE (Riverside/San Bernardino, CA) worth visiting that is not anti-single male?

Best Tx Monger

01-09-06, 11:10

Is it just me, or is there discrimination agains the single men in this industry ? Maybe I am ugly, period !

-007

Swing Club

01-09-06, 23:39

Try not chain smoking while at the club. There are a lot of women who can't stand it. Try being polite. Alwayys ask the man for permisssions with his wife. When getting with the wife knock the bottom out of that. Its usually for her enjoyment anyway. Ask the husband for any special request, and exchange phone numbers and email address with them.

Richie Sambora

02-19-06, 16:37

I think it is hard to get in to a swing situation .

Most times it is for the guy who is a closet queer wife is a front Or they want to use you fucking to sell you photo and you get a 2 second bj or hand shake . Sometime the guy can't get it up or no longer works , then it is for real

I have been to a place where i was asked if i would like to fuck his wife .

I asked which one is she , so i looked at her , i said sure.

This dude layed on his side while i was fucking the shit out of his wife and he proceded to jerk himself off .

His mouth was near her thighs ,while i was pounding into her i was watching this guy closely as i thought he was a nuts .

He then slides up closer to her face and he is still jerking off he is about to blow a load i pulled out ,he shoots all over her snatch and belly .

I was like what the fuck ..DUDE

I grab a wipe poured some beer on my cock and washed it off pulled off the condom washed it off again ,took a piss , put my clothes on, got the fuck out of there .

TALK about a memory to stick in your head ,could not consentrate .

This dude would of tried to put it up my ass ,if i did not watch him.

Not that there's anything wrong with being GAY ((not my cup of tea))

I have been to many swing clubs it is definetly hit or miss

Let me ,let you in on a new trend ,i am following .

I stumbled across some pay site ,come to find out that they have what are called Members meets OR BAR MEETS .

YOU GET TO MEET THE GIRL AND OR GIRLS AND THE HUBBIES WHO LIKE TO SWAP AND FUCK THE MEMBERS take the photo's and sell them .

Case point : need to be carefull here .. some of the girls are for hire ! , but if your black you have a higher chance of getting with them .( nothing against black)).

if your white you will get a peice of ass TOO

I have been to a few parties with a friend and have gotten laid and blown from a few of the women , if you like being in the open in a hotel room with 40 guys (((several rooms strung together ))),
who are definetly not atractive most were out of shape .

When you know, you look like FABIO but the blacks and ugly dudes are getting all the ass ????? then , have at it ..

do a search and you will find ,the crack of dawn , is one and
my hottie wife, is another just to name a couple there are about 6 that i know of in florida ... ((i have nothing against Blacks ))

just the prefered choice of the ladies who your going to meet there

I understand this may be slightly typical but not happen on all occasions.
This was one of my experiences .

I did manage to get a hj to completion while the chick rubbed her titis all over me and spoke nasty ..
Theres lots of cock sucking but not to completion ..((white guy <))

My guess is that they want to treat all the member fairly so they stay members ..

Also some guys just pop when a chick looks at them in a certain way ,BECAUSE he has been jerking himself off with the anticipation of getting her mouth on him when she drops and sucks it a little he pops ..

Those are the ones that make for good photo's .

there is lots of cum flying around ,,,nasty ..........Stay Safe RDD

Member #5605

04-16-06, 12:13

Finally found a swing place, that is "close to home" (10 miles from me!). Its "Gary and Margarets" in Mira Loma. They can be reached via: nasca.com

They are part of the "Inland Empire Clubs" category. While the accomadations were 5 stars on a 4 star scale, the crowd was overwhelmingly (and nauseatingly!) BBW's, and SICKENINGLY OBESE ONES at that (garyandmargarets.com web-site states: "BBW's welcome". Judging by the number I saw last night, I thought it was a REQUIREMENT as 8 out of 10 couples there were pushing maximum density, and the women (along with a few men!) were definetly WIDER THEN THEY WERE TALL!). I will go again, as it is average priced ($50.00 for couples, and $60.00 for single men!). I hope I can catch them on a "non-whaling" night, cause I did not have a harpoon last night, and should have had one!

Cun Cook

12-31-06, 03:51

Are there any decent places in El Paso for anyone that lives there?

No Limit

01-10-07, 15:24

I have never posted in her, but I was wondering if there were any swing clubs near Toledo for a single male to go to.

Sorry if I have wasted anyones time with this post.

Be safe out there!

NL

Big Red50

01-10-07, 15:31

Are there any decent places in El Paso for anyone that lives there?Yeah, walk across the Mexican border to Juarez. Latina Pussy will find you in the first 1000 meters.

Ravens will crush the Colts T-3 and counting

Balmer Big Red

Big Red50

01-10-07, 15:32

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Fl Fun Guy

03-19-07, 20:35

I have found that SDC is a very active and diverse crowd, I would suggest starting there. I think they still offer a 2 week trial.

htpp://www.sdc.com

Good luck,

Bum Pas

03-19-07, 21:16

Hey guys and gals, there are great swingers club in Jamaica and st. Martin no string attached. You can check this website for info. www.caribbeanerotica.com

Bad Bad Boy

06-17-07, 12:48

I have never been to a swing club because I have heard they are not too friendly for single males to attend. On the other hand, if you join a singles club as a couple your chances are much better.

I have gone to several adult movie theaters, single and with a female. When you go as a couple you have no trouble hooking up with other couples. Much of the time, they will seek you out.

Going as a single male, you may or may not be invited to play with other couples. It all depends upon their mood and what they are looking for at the moment. White chicks looking for black dicks seem to be very popular.

The best adult theater experience I had was at the Cinema One in Chattanooga, TN. when I went there with a date. We had more invitations from other couples than we could count. We were invited to play with another couple in a semi-private (without door) room, asked to join them while watching the movie, played with each other when brousing through the adult toy section, and asked if we wanted to get a motel room with them.

I suspect the swing clubs are pretty similar. If you go as a single male, your opportunities are slim.

BBB

Stud2

07-24-07, 10:08

I would like to meet couples in South Carolina looking for a male for swinging fun. I've had luck in N. Carolina but not much in S. Carolina here in the low-country. Any couples interested please let me know. Or if anyone can give info I would like more about meetings and locations.

Swingfest

09-11-07, 13:52

Have you checked out; <a href="http://www.swingfest.com">SwingFest - The World's Largest Swingers Party and Swing Lifestyle Convention</a>?

Swingfest

09-11-07, 13:53

Have you checked out; SwingFest - The World's Largest Swingers Party and Swing Lifestyle Convention

Details can be found at: http://www.swingfest.com

Stud2

09-14-07, 10:32

Have you checked out; <a href="http://www.swingfest.com">SwingFest - The World's Largest Swingers Party and Swing Lifestyle Convention</a>?Thanks alot for the info I've banged the hell out of at least 5 wifes.

Stud2

02-21-08, 12:24

Love to find a couple that would help me get connected with a group or another couple into swinging. I do have a lady friend who may be interested in swinging with me.

Loves Blues

03-27-08, 12:55

Starting a poker game for swingers in Huntsville; The game is quite different any that you have ever played before.

PM if interested please

Lee

Daka1

03-28-08, 06:34

Go to Google and type in "swingers augusta georgia" (without the quotes).

One of the first things to come up should be of interest.

Play safe.

D

Adventure1

03-29-08, 02:07

I'm a single male. Attractive & discrete. Looking to hook up with a couple, but as with most of you, it is very difficult to get into this hobby if you are single. If you have any connections or are interested, please pm me.

To the person who mentioned the amazing swinger site. Thank you. I will keep trying.

R Consultant

06-25-08, 07:44

Swingfest

06-25-08, 07:48

Anyone know of a local group of swingers in the Tampa Bay Area? If so please PM and send me in the right direction. A web site or phone number would be most appreciated since it would give me some good information to go on. Thanks for your time.

Happy Hunting..It's not exactly Tampa, but have you checked out http://www.swingfest.com ?

The world's largest swingers party might be worth the trip.

R Consultant

07-05-08, 05:24

Is this some real deal or just a commercial type website? Have you ever been or you just doing the public relations deal?

Thanks in Advance?

Happy Hunting..

It's not exactly Tampa, but have you checked out http://www.swingfest.com ?

The world's largest swingers party might be worth the trip.

Swingfest

07-05-08, 13:18

I'm not sure what you mean by "commercial type website" ... if you’re asking if it's a dating or subscription site; then the answer is No, it is not a "commercial type website"

It IS an informational site for "The world's largest swingers lifestyle party and adult expo". It is hosted by Pornstar Mary Carey and has a ton of other porn stars and featured guests that will be on site.

I couldn't even begin to list out EVERYTHING that is going on at during the 4 days, but the highlights are 5,000+ couples, 25 parties, seminars, convention floor, haulover nude beach, Trapeze and Miami Velvet Swingers Clubs, so on and so on ...

http://www.swingfest.com

Is this some real deal or just a commercial type website? Have you ever been or you just doing the public relations deal?

Thanks in Advance?

Happy Hunting..

Layla

04-02-09, 00:26

Anyone ever attend one of the UG parties in NYC?

Northsideman

04-21-09, 00:45

Even though Paadise Lakes (in the Tampa area) is a non-sexual nudist camp (many "wholesome family nudists" HATE swingers), rumor has it that many swingers hang out there anyway.

But I've never been there, only to various sexual & non-sexual nudist camps in the Midwest. Last time was at Sun Aura (or whatever they call themseleves these days, they used to be Naked City years ago) in Roselawn, Indiana, by myself. Except for a few people who were nice, I was mainly treated rudely like a second class citizen just for being a single male (this after I paid to get in). Actually found the place rather childish and high school-ish. The so-called "highlight" of the camp was a place where (not particularly hot) women dance nude in the middle of a circle of chairs (which single men are NOT allowed to sit in!). Big deal! The guy presiding over this silly ceremony said I could sit for a few minutes, then threw me out!

Once I was at a non-sexual nudist camp and a couple mentioned to an older member that they had recently been to a swing club. This older member read them the Riot Act about how "this is not a swing club" and "swinging is about conquest" while non-sexual nudism is about "relaxation" (relaxation of the non-sexual kind of course!).

Older people at non-sexual nudist camps can be hostile towards single men, but for different reasons than the rudeness at sex camps. Some conservative nudists automatically assume that single men are going to misbehave, while all couples are above criticism. But I have seen couples misbehave at non-sexual camps. One couple at a non-sexual camp was sneaking in other people through a back gate who hadn't paid to get in!

Just Parties

09-21-09, 22:49

I operate a Swingers Party/Event/Convention Service. I do about 15 of these a year in many places including Vegas. Every thing from a small meet and greet to a huge 4 day party with hundreds of people filling a hotel. It is all about meeting like minded people and having fun!

Single guys are welcome and all the couples who attend know that we welcome single guys. But not all couples are looking for guys. But most are at some point.

Sorry this sounds more like an ad, than a report. I hope to advertise here on USASexGuide someday. But I am open to any questions about swingers.

Google JPJustParties to find my web site with a list of events that are planned.

Bayarea Hotguy

10-05-09, 02:02

I was just checking out this forum, and see that the posts are from all over, I can speak for only two places, one was Lover's Lane in Orlando, a great place, but very commercial. The other place was a place in Northern Va, just a hot couple hosting from home once a month. I think their website is novaswingerfun.com. Single guy friendly, (the only ones who pay a fee though) and lots of available women. Hope this helps the guys in my area.

Bayarea Hotguy

10-09-09, 17:34

I forgot to add, that if you go to the swinger party in DC, BE CAREFUL! The house is a nice house, and they have a good party, although way too many bi guys for my taste, not enough couples, so the party gets a B-, and they have them days and at nights.($100- $150 cover charge). The corner down the street is controlled by gangs (very obvious) and you have to drive right by it to get to the place to park, (PARKING SUCKS HERE) and when you drive right by the corner, and you are white, they will try to sell you drugs, so watch out. I see a robbery someday here. Also make sure your car has an alarm or the club. I would NEVER go there at night, just my opinion, you could get arrested for being in a drug area, or robbed and beaten. The house is right on the corner of one of those neighborhoods where on one side there are nice houses, on the other side, it is the ghetto, typical DC. Be careful guys.

Oh, and if you want the 411 on the Springfield Party, Herndon party or the new Mannassas party, message me.

YoHimBeBrother

10-11-09, 23:19

I've been attending swing parties in Houston once or sometimes twice a month for the past year. The parties are single guy friendly. The couple that host the parties love to play and they expect everyone to play. At the larger parties they charge single guys a cover charge, which includes beer, water and finger food. But with the smaller parties its free.

Last nights party was exceptional thus the reason why yohimbebrother feels compelled to submit this post.

At previous parties there's a mixed bag of different couples that have showed up to play. They range from fat black couples, black and white couples of different sizes, sexy latino couples, hot looking couples, single older ladies (late 50s) that love too fuck and suck, and a few single ladies here and there so on and so on.. Over the past year I have fucked all of the good looking ones that show up and I have taken one for the team. This one particular lady that I took one for the team with was about 5'2" and 200lbs. ROUND is the word that comes too mind. I had a difficult time focusing on f&cking her, but this lady could suck a golf ball thru a garden hose. But back to last nights party.

There was 5 couples at last nights party. 2 white couples, 2 black couples and 1 hispanic couple. All the ladies were good looking with the exception of 1 of the black couple, but she was still doable.

I started off my f*ckfest with the hispanic chic who I always like to fuck first. We started off just watching the others f*ck in the bedroom then moved to the living room for some fun of our own. She started off sucking me while I FIV. Then another guy moved in and started a little DATY. After he got her all hot and bothered I slid on a cover and started pounding away in her nicely shaved vagina.

At the apex of the night, the black chick that was really good looking was taking all cummers. She was kneeling over a big comfy chair sucking dicks and getting banged from behind while her husband watched. This girl was looked like a porn star, heather hunter I think. Smooth lite skin, long waving hair, big ass, long legs and a high sex drive. I was with the HOT blonde chick f*cking in the bed and watching the black chick have fun. A guy finished f&cking the hot black chick and moved away. I immediately withdraw from the blonde chick's hole that I was f#cking and took off my condom and grabbed a fresh one and moved in for the kill. I started drilling her k9 style while she sucked some guy. Then she said lets move to the bed. We get in the bed in mish position and I'm looking into her beautiful face as I slid into her and f*cked her for all I was worth. Wow she was hot and tight. We flip over and she starts riding me and moaning really loud. I looked over at her husband and he gave me an approving smile and a thumbs up. I pummeled her in all positions for what seemed like an eternity.

After finishing with her I made a quick dash to the restroom to freshen up and then back to the bedroom for my next victim, which was the other black chick who was somewhat thick. She grabbed me when I walked out of the restroom and said let do this. I rode and spanked her ass till she was screaming in ecstasy.

The hispanic chick followed behind her again. During the course of the night I f*ck all of the ladies there last night with the exception of just one. This one particular chick always seems to be drunk and or on drugs, so I stay away from her.

Lets see, free p#ussy with no hunting involved or danger from being busted by LE, safe environment fun and friendly people. Equals good time had by all.

Have fun out there brother.

Yohimbebrother

Just Parties

10-12-09, 14:25

Lets see, free p#ussy with no hunting involved or danger from being busted by LE, safe environment fun and friendly people. Equals good time had by all.I bet all the ladies and the couples left happy also.

That was a great report!

Bayarea Hotguy

10-12-09, 14:48

I got the dates for the October swinger party...there is one in the daytime, mostly gangbang style, at noon, on the 23rd, and a couples only at 8pm one on Saturday night the 24th in Herndon/Dulles area...They do let in a few single guys at the "couples only" one, but get with me on info for that.

Lugnut

10-23-09, 18:22

Last time was at Sun Aura (or whatever they call themseleves these days, they used to be Naked City years ago) in Roselawn, Indiana, by myself. Except for a few people who were nice, I was mainly treated rudely like a second class citizen just for being a single male (this after I paid to get in).My wife and I have been to Sun Aura quite a few times and we've never experienced what you describe. Our experience has been that everybody is more than friendly. Yes, there are a lot of single guys who go there and for the most part they're well-mannered and friendly. If that's the case, they're not a threat or a problem. Guys who are pushy and/or have an attitude tend to get treated like you describe. Not saying you were that way, I'm just sayin'.......

Actually found the place rather childish and high school-ish. The so-called "highlight" of the camp was a place where (not particularly hot) women dance nude in the middle of a circle of chairs (which single men are NOT allowed to sit in!). Big deal! The guy presiding over this silly ceremony said I could sit for a few minutes, then threw me out!

Can't imagine what sort of "highlight" that was. We've never seen that particular event there. There are lots of different groups of people doing their own thing, however. Friends, and friends of friends tend to stay within their own enclaves, doing whatever might be fun to them; relaxing, talking, cooking out, playing games, or whatever, all in various states of undress.

I used to do my share of mongering and adult theater visiting when I was younger. I'd guess my mindset was pretty much like the vast majority of guys who are out trolling for pussy: find some, bust a nut, then leave. Reflecting back on those experiences I've found it rather amazing how fast my horniness level would change. I'd go from frantic horny just before stuffing it in, to heading for the door and wondering how the Monday Night Football game turned out, all in a matter of seconds, pre- and post orgasm.

A vital part of the swinging lifestyle is the social side of it. When my wife and I started "playing" we never figured the social side would be as much fun as it is. When you run into more-or-less compatible people, much of the "fun factor" comes from the extensive talking, partying and generally having fun that goes on before any screwing starts. Most single guys aren't into that mindset, nor are they willing to invest the time it takes to become friends with a couple, get comfortable, and maybe eventually start sampling some of the wife's pleasures; they'd just as soon bust a nut and leave. Couples know this, of course, plus many swingers only play with other couples. Sure, there are couples around who actively seek out single guys, but they tend to be a minority. There are one zillion guys out there looking for a hookup for every woman or couple who might be, so they can afford to be quite picky. Chances are you don't have the one cock that she's been looking for, so you have to sell yourself with your people skills.

Once I was at a non-sexual nudist camp and a couple mentioned to an older member that they had recently been to a swing club. This older member read them the Riot Act about how "this is not a swing club" and "swinging is about conquest" while non-sexual nudism is about "relaxation" (relaxation of the non-sexual kind of course!).

Older people at non-sexual nudist camps can be hostile towards single men, but for different reasons than the rudeness at sex camps. Some conservative nudists automatically assume that single men are going to misbehave, while all couples are above criticism. But I have seen couples misbehave at non-sexual camps. One couple at a non-sexual camp was sneaking in other people through a back gate who hadn't paid to get in!There are as many different flavors and outlooks on nudism, swinging, polyamory, or whatever as there are people engaged in it, which is the prime reason it's difficult to run into folks in the lifestyle you click with well. When we first started playing we didn't expect this, but it's true.

And, some discrete playing goes on even at non-sexual nudist camps. You can't get a bunch of adult naked people together and expect no fucking to go on. It's just not overt. Also, be careful in those places. Typically, you have to be nude, kids and all, and they're prime pedophile magnets.

RediMax42

10-28-09, 10:12

I hear there is a private club meet, any insight?

Just Parties

11-17-10, 11:54

So my Dearest and I had to jump through hoops to try and "apply" at this uppity swingers club. Twice, only to get rejected. Twice. WTF?

In my experience swinging is about enjoying yourself, your partner, others, making friends, partying down and good old fashioned sexy time! There is nothing hotter than watching sexins going on while having a conversation about the latest hockey game or whatever. I especially enjoy blowing my dearest and whoever he may be talking to while they are talking and heck joining in the convo if I feel I have something to add. I love to watch him with others and he loves to watch me. Hell I just love to watch and to be watched. So, after answering the stupid Q&A for this snobbish swing club here in Louisville only to get rejected for reasons unknown. We were like screw you people we will find cooler and dirtier filth.

Enter. THE HOBBY.

Nothing like seeing fellas when Dearest is at work and taking pictures with cocks in my mouth and sending them to him as a suprise out of the blue. Best sex ever when he gets home!

Although, it would be nice to have some sort of social club to interact with other folks in a safe environment. But Louisville is sadly lacking! We have tried fetish parties, but those are so trite and ritualistic with all the repeated spanking and floggings and no sexual interction. BORING. Oh and usually you can't have more than 3 beers. Again, BORING!

Someone needs to liven The 'Ville up in the way of THE SWANG! Go south one weekend to TheSocialClub in Nashville. Google that for more info. Plenty of REAL SEX to watch and plenty of real people to watch you.

Charliebeach

01-10-11, 14:39

As a male I have only had 3 swinging experiences. When I lived in Colorado my then girlfriend and I had a drunken foursome with a couple she knew. We wound up trying it twice more before I had to move to MD. It was my first group sex experience and now I want to try it again. Now as a single male, I would like to try this again, but I know it can be difficult with the large number of us. I wouldn't want to be labeled as one of those pushy males or some guy who just brings a woman with him as a pass to get into certain events. And when you are casually dating someone, it's kinda hard to segway swinging into a conversation. Anyone know of any male friendly clubs / events that happen in the DC / MD area, or places to meet like minded females?

Bbqman69

03-25-11, 12:02

We will be opening a pvt. Swing club for over 50 in a month in the Dayton, Ohio area. It seems a lot of clubs do not want the mature crowd. This will be for couples and singles. Check out the Dayton Backpage under bodyrubs. If your over 50 come have fun soon.

Bevo Martini

03-26-11, 23:08

My wife loves a dp. She wants a dp whiles a guy fucks her throat. Being a girl of course, she doesn't want to do it alone. She is 40 120lbs 5-2 blonde blue w / natural C's. Anyone have a wifey that is interested. We are in Pacific Northwest. She isn't interested in magnum guys.

Sorry

CatCo

08-31-11, 08:34

Hi everyone! I'm located in the Hickory, NC area and looking for any suggestions on swingers clubs or anything of that type. I've heard of The Estate in Charlotte, a couple of our friends have been there, but it's not a monthly thing from what I understand. Charlotte, Winston-Salem, or even the Asheville area would be okay. I'm just having problems finding legit places. Perhaps I haven't looked in the right places. We've only been in the lifestyle for a few years, I consider us to be fairly new at it still. Thanks in advance for any info. PM me if you feel more comfortable talking about it that way.

Hdone

04-11-12, 11:20

I went ther last summer just to check it out because I'd never done it before. It was actually very nice and liberating.

Although it did take about an hour for the folks st the pool to warm up to me, I did make some nice friends and had great conversation. I guess it all depends on your attitude. Mine is to experience life rather than just bust a nut. Next time I'm bringing a date though.

My wife and I have been to Sun Aura quite a few times and we've never experienced what you describe. Our experience has been that everybody is more than friendly. Yes, there are a lot of single guys who go there and for the most part they're well-mannered and friendly. If that's the case, they're not a threat or a problem. Guys who are pushy and / or have an attitude tend to get treated like you describe. Not saying you were that way, I'm just sayin'.

Can't imagine what sort of "highlight" that was. We've never seen that particular event there. There are lots of different groups of people doing their own thing, however. Friends, and friends of friends tend to stay within their own enclaves, doing whatever might be fun to them; relaxing, talking, cooking out, playing games, or whatever, all in various states of undress.

I used to do my share of mongering and adult theater visiting when I was younger. I'd guess my mindset was pretty much like the vast majority of guys who are out trolling for pussy: find some, bust a nut, then leave. Reflecting back on those experiences I've found it rather amazing how fast my horniness level would change. I'd go from frantic horny just before stuffing it in, to heading for the door and wondering how the Monday Night Football game turned out, all in a matter of seconds, pre- and post orgasm.

A vital part of the swinging lifestyle is the social side of it. When my wife and I started "playing" we never figured the social side would be as much fun as it is. When you run into more-or-less compatible people, much of the "fun factor" comes from the extensive talking, partying and generally having fun that goes on before Any screwing starts. Most single guys aren't into that mindset, nor are they willing to invest the time it takes to become friends with a couple, get comfortable, and maybe eventually start sampling some of the wife's pleasures; they'd just as soon bust a nut and leave. Couples know this, of course, plus many swingers only play with other couples. Sure, there are couples around who actively seek out single guys, but they tend to be a minority. There are one zillion guys out there looking for a hookup for every woman or couple who might be, so they can afford to be quite picky. Chances are you don't have the one cock that she's been looking for, so you have to sell yourself with your people skills.

There are as many different flavors and outlooks on nudism, swinging, polyamory, or whatever as there are people engaged in it, which is the prime reason it's difficult to run into folks in the lifestyle you click with well. When we first started playing we didn't expect this, but it's true.

And, some discrete playing goes on even at non-sexual nudist camps. You can't get a bunch of adult naked people together and expect no Fucking to go on. It's just not overt. Also, be careful in those places. Typically, you have To be nude, kids and all, and they're prime pedophile magnets.

King P

03-19-14, 12:28

Anybody know of any Adult Movie Theaters in Broward County or Dade County Florida?

Toshi69

03-27-14, 13:18

I post on craigslist for this.

My wife loves a dp. She wants a dp whiles a guy fucks her throat. Being a girl of course, she doesn't want to do it alone. She is 40 120lbs 5-2 blonde blue w / natural C's. Anyone have a wifey that is interested. We are in Pacific Northwest. She isn't interested in magnum guys.

Sorry

Member #5605

03-01-15, 14:17

While the spaciousness of this place deserves 4 stars, its drawbacks lower that rating. Drawbacks such as: the bar is too damned small, and is in a high traffic-area between.

Going in to and out of, the outside smoking area. The quality of music for "dancing" left a lot to be desired, and the "food" left out for consumption was unindentifiable.

And probably would have warranted a health dept. Citation, had they seen it (I guess that is why it was in an UNLIT part of the kitchen! Partiers are multi-ethnic, with the.

Overly represented BBW's population in full attendance, as they always are at these parties (complete with an OBESE female dominitrix-EWW! There is CLEAR BIAS of the women

towards African-American males, and servicemen (Navy and Marines), so if you are neither of those, you are probably NOT going to get your "nut".

There is a separate building for those into "50 Shades of Grey" (BDSM) activities, but you will take your life in your hands getting to it if you cross the patio area when its raining (as I did last night! The "Slippery when wet" warning clearly should have applied to the pavement!

Uncertain if I will go back with an $85.00 "donation" for a single male, but I might give this place another chance. Maybe on a drier, warmer night, and after the "couples" area.

Has been relocated to the double-wide, so indicated for, and perhaps if there are LESS discriminating women in the "Glory Hole" cubicle off the kitchen (a sign really should.

Have been posted as to what the woman on the other side of the hole would service!

Shinobi02

11-27-15, 05:13

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JohnnyOceans2

12-29-15, 11:27

When I was 18 I worked with this kid for about 3 months and we were okay friends. His girlfriend was one of the hottest girls I had ever seen and he liked to cheat on her all the time. He would show me pictures of her naked on his phone all the time without me asking. He eventually came up to me asked if I wanted to fuck his girlfriend and I said yes but he said he had to be there to watch. I ended up getting him to let me fuck her while we videotaped it on her cell phone. This girl had a 10 face and the biggest nicest ass I have ever seen. She was Puerto Rican and about 5"2. I went over to her house while her boyfriend was in the other room I videoed while she sucked and bounced on my dick. I ended up pulling out and cumming on her tits and stomach. We showed the tape to my buddy and he really wanted to watch in person. A couple days later I went back over and me and his girlfriend fucked while he sat there jerking his dick. I ended up cumming inside her which she enjoyed and then her boyfriend started fucking her with my cum in her and ended up cumming in her as well. This was the only time I let him watch but me and his girlfriend secretly met up many more times and fucked and I came in her many times.

Scoopa

03-07-16, 00:11

Looking for couples interested in safe partying with attractive couple I'm African American 5'9 green eyes Carmel completion she's Thai / French 5'6 120 lbs be cup Detroit metro area.

Member #5143

05-02-16, 00:01

Hey all. I'm looking for an attractive woman who wants to have fun with me and my bf. I'm white 5'2 130 lbs he is italin great body and the stamina for both of us. We will take you out so we can all get to no each other. We like to have. Some drinks, smoke a little and ok with. Some other. Stuff but not interested in IV drug user or prostitutes. Just someone who live within 50 miles of the. Albany area who wants to explore and have some fun. We will pay for whatever you need while with us food, room, drinks ect. We are alotta fun and if your into this kind of thing I think we can all have some fun. Pm me if interested. Must be whit, not addicted to any drugs, and disease free. Lets chat.

Viper350

05-18-16, 00:20

I started swinging in 1998 when I was about 30 years old. I have had about two dozen experiences with mostly various couples but also a few solo women also. I think it helped that I was finding these people using AOL and various websites back then before most people where actively using the Internet as their source of porn and hookups. One of my best times was when a woman invited me over for sex with her while her husband was at work. We got naked outdoors in her whirlpool jacuzzi, then went inside her house and I fucked her for an hour or so until I came in her. The husband came home a few hours later and was so turned on by the fact that I fucked his wife. I must say, I've met a lot of very nice folks over the 18 years of swinging as a single straight male, but now that everyone flocks to the Internet and so many single males are hounding legitimate nice swinging folks, it's much tougher these days to "hook up" with a couple, group or woman into the lifestyle. They are still out there, but you need to be very respectful, don't play games with them and be real if you say you're going to meet and sometimes you need to use a combination of hookup apps, various websites and attending local swingers clubs to "score" a hookup with swinging people. Good luck in your quests and adventures!

JohnnyOceans2

01-15-17, 14:53

A couple years ago me and my girlfriend went to Aruba for a vacation. I was 20 and she was 19. One night we were at a casino and started talking to this older couple in their 50's who were very nice and were about our parents ages. We were staying in the high rise section and they had a nice suite in the low rise section. They invited us back to their place that night they seemed friendly enough so we went with them. We had some drinks and hung out and they had a jacuzzi on their patio right outside their room. We were all in it and they brought up the idea of swinging. Me and my girlfriend werent really into it. We ended up talking more and decided on getting naked. The older couple started getting intimate in the hottub so naturally me and my girl did too. That night me and my girlfriend had sex on their couch while they had sex on their bed and we could see eachother. The next night we went back and this time we ended up switching partners. I don't know how I felt about seeing my girl get fucked by another man but he was alot older so in a way that kind of made it better. The last night we were their and there was 3 more couples ranging in ages from 40's to 60's. They had a big suite and we were all naked and everyone was having sex with everybody. Me and my girlfriend were very popular being that we were so much younger. We each had sex with 4 other people. At one point I had the 3 older woman giving me oral at the same time. Everything was safe though we all used condoms. For some people this may spice up the relationship but for us we werent big fans, we tried it once on a vacation and we probably won't do it again.

Vladfidel

02-25-17, 14:02

I'm looking for any info on Swinger House party in Port Saint Lucie county, Florida?

Member #5605

06-25-17, 13:25

There is a place in Moreno Valley called "Club Lure.com" that is "up and coming". It needs MORE WOMEN, and is currently held in a private home. At least ALL the women were not obese, as is the case with too many of these places.

Member #5605

07-14-17, 23:55

"Club Lure.com" (also known as "Cala Craves" on Twitter!) is having a Sat. Night party in MV (Riverside County, CA) on 07/15/2017. Please check out the website for more info.

BillyDWilliams

09-10-17, 08:51

Atheistically

06-11-18, 00:44

Turns out that the swinger's place known as "ClubFA", has a "nudist resort" attachment to it (down the street and around the corner from it! The OLD "Deer Park Nudist Resort" is NOW KNOWN AS:

"Freedom Acres Resorts" and offers all the amenities for a weekend nudist resort (restricted to ADULTS ONLY however! And throws "pool parties" on alternating weekends. The staff is decent, the facilities are adequate, but the actual swingers, after an initial attendance with them, leave a LOT to be desired. Maybe I just attended on the wrong weekend, or was only in the presence of the OBNOXIOUS, DRUNK ONES! I may give it another chance. It's on the internet under "Freedom Acres Resorts" and is a SEPARATE FACILITY FROM (but OWNED BY! "Club FA".

HowieBenz

02-22-19, 02:19

If you are travelling to Jamaica let me know.

Timonelama

03-04-19, 08:21

Was curious about Club Taboo so I called them. The guy said they're closed. No parties till next year.Been there long time ago with my x-partner. I would highly recommend Club Taboo if or when opened again.

HappilyMarried

09-16-20, 14:44

Bud Green

12-05-20, 17:12

Does anyone know how to do this, husband is saying he doesn't want to swing I believe him but- it's crazy he could totally get a great match from a couple, me on the other hand feels like I would be doing something wrong how did you figure things out?No, means no. I wouldn't push anyone into doing something they don't want to do that has a way of coming back and biting you. After 35 years together, I don't know what we have not done so if you are looking for a unicorn the best place is SeekingArrangments.com however you will need to help them with living expenses, and in turn, you have your fun and they go away until you call on them again. I have had civilian ones of both sexes and wow, what a nightmare. Another option is to check out a local swinger club, you don't have to do anything but have fun, Most are BYOB so you guys can watch, have a few drinks, maybe meet a couple of peeps and see if anything develops, most have dance floors and good music to dance too but if he isn't open to going or pursuing it. I recommend you don't pressure him. You can PM with any questions as I don't frequent this section often.

DrHot

01-30-22, 12:36

Does anyone know how to do this, husband is saying he doesn't want to swing I believe him but- it's crazy he could totally get a great match from a couple, me on the other hand feels like I would be doing something wrong how did you figure things out?Bro the golden rule of swinging is "No means No", don't try to push things that will only make it awkward and unpleasant for all the participants.

Johnny Shakes

06-23-22, 05:01

If you are travelling to Jamaica let me know.Yes, I Am last week.

Sudcciv

09-26-22, 01:13

This place no longer exists-neither does "Club FA". Both went down during COVID. Neither have returned. Nor plan to. RIP!

Turns out that the swinger's place known as "ClubFA", has a "nudist resort" attachment to it (down the street and around the corner from it! The OLD "Deer Park Nudist Resort" is NOW KNOWN AS:

"Freedom Acres Resorts" and offers all the amenities for a weekend nudist resort (restricted to ADULTS ONLY however! And throws "pool parties" on alternating weekends. The staff is decent, the facilities are adequate, but the actual swingers, after an initial attendance with them, leave a LOT to be desired. Maybe I just attended on the wrong weekend, or was only in the presence of the OBNOXIOUS, DRUNK ONES! I may give it another chance. It's on the internet under "Freedom Acres Resorts" and is a SEPARATE FACILITY FROM (but OWNED BY! "Club FA".

Sudcciv

10-23-22, 01:14

If you go to the website "tubepornstars.com", and Enter "Czech Mega Swingers" in the Search menu, what comes up are clips some over 2 hours!) of what SHOULD HAPPEN at Swinger Parties!

Not sure if it is all "acting", or there are paid pornstars, or if it is honest-to-sex, over-the-top fucking in every corner of the house (and on the stairs too!

Swinger places can take some "cues" from these clips! .

GotrDone85

12-30-22, 13:14

My wife and I are gaining interest in the lifestyle. What are some good resources to learn more and maybe understand how to find other like minded couples in our area? 35 F and 37 M.

GotrDone85

12-30-22, 13:17

My wife and I are gaining interest in the lifestyle. What are some resources to use in order to learn more and understand if there are any like minded couples in our area?

GladiateHer73

01-08-23, 20:11

Bro the golden rule of swinging is "No means No", don't try to push things that will only make it awkward and unpleasant for all the participants.I couldn't agree more here. I've been in the lifestyle on and off for years. My first wife and I were swingers. It truly sucked giving up the lifestyle with the divorce but, alas, she just wasn't the right person for me long-term. I've since remarried and my current wife has no clue I used to swing. That said, I casually brought it up early in our relationship to test the "subject matter" waters and was please to find out that she wasn't turned off at all. So. We went to a local club (one my previous spouse and I never attended before) just to see what it was like. We ended up having a great time just with each other and putting on a show for others. Went back and did some more of that and eventually met some people that I'm proud to say are really good friends of ours now. Slowly but steadily we extended our comfort zones and finally concluded that after some very careful conduct over the previous visits that we were, Indeed, both down with the lifestyle. Personally, I'm a cuck and live to see my wife getting her pu $$why fragged by a big schlong. She's not at all into woman and loves being on her knees in a circle of dudes giving her the noodle salad. Before visiting this club I honestly had no idea my wife was such a freak! Who knows. Maybe she didn't either!! LOL.

In summary, I never forced anything. I just simply let it grow organically. If I were sitting in the OP's shoes, I'd bring my spouse to a club with zero expectations. See where the night leads. If mutually comfortable, fuck in front of others. Have some fun and flirty time with others. Tread lightly. Tread carefully. And most importantly stay tuned to your mate's reactions / feelings / etc. Above all else. Do Not apply pressure either physically or verbally. Good luck!!