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Apothecary
09-11-23, 18:51
I ordered blackhawk visa from amazon. It worked. Make sure you put in same zip code as where you're logging in from.Thanks, will give that a try.
SteveTandberg
09-11-23, 19:27
Came across this profile. Says 5'3", Asian. But a few photos made me think possible TS?
Thoughts?
https://members.seeking.com/member/12148d34-0079-4981-aeda-4f27e3a4a37f
SteveTandberg
09-11-23, 20:34
Came across this profile. Says 5'3", Asian. But a few photos made me think possible TS?
Thoughts?
https://members.seeking.com/member/12148d34-0079-4981-aeda-4f27e3a4a37fPhotos that make you go hmmm.
Photos that make you go hmmm.He / she might be post-op. Since her profile doesn't mention anything nor "seeking trans-friendly". But yes does look suspicious.
SteveTandberg
09-11-23, 20:45
He / she might be post-op. Since her profile doesn't mention anything nor "seeking trans-friendly". But yes does look suspicious.I have the definitive answer. Curious what other think.
SteveTandberg
09-11-23, 22:35
Platinum Pussy Syndrome.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1f5105c8-849a-43e4-9af6-adc580b9cd6e
Wants $3 k to meet for a drink.
Cute but that's it.
Platinum Pussy Syndrome.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1f5105c8-849a-43e4-9af6-adc580b9cd6e
Wants $3 k to meet for a drink.
Cute but that's it.PPS tag well deserved. The other thing that makes me laugh is the little disclaimer that some of these girls put in their profiles about not using their photos and stuff. That little disclaimer has no legal bearing. Lmao When they join seeking and have a profile the only terms / disclaimers that are legal are seeking's which you agree to. LOL.
PetShopMan
09-11-23, 23:30
He / she might be post-op. Since her profile doesn't mention anything nor "seeking trans-friendly". But yes does look suspicious.I can't tell. Wouldn't be surprised if she was a ts or not. What I do know is that I would hit.
SteveTandberg
09-12-23, 00:11
https://members.seeking.com/member/388240b0-eef9-42af-8e3b-af42777e0196
Where these SBs get this queen ***** syndrome blows my mind.
She's a struggling crypto blockchain hustler. Not hot enough to be a model. Facecheck and pimeyes will tell you all.
Take a swing.
FarFarAway
09-12-23, 00:40
Are they actually here in SoCal or in their respective foreign country? If they are here I say go for it. I've had quite a few arrangements with Eastern European honeys and still have a couple long term arrangements going with them. One is a Ukrainian ex model and the other Hungarian. These ladies usually can be negotiated down to a low PPM price. I love sexy ladies with accents. It's a turn on. And these ladies really are appreciative of you helping them out. Unlike some of the American girls who have an entitled mentality and have crazy GPS.Well, I was unfortunately encouraged by your post. Of course they are here. Why would I be dealing w / anyone who isn't?
So, I have one who I spoke to, smoking smoking hot, but marginal English, hard to understand on a cell call. From some Latin American country. There are lots of these, from Brazil, etc. I have another I was just messaging and texting with. Both around 40 (I am 60+, so don't rag on me). The latter seemed hot, and easier to get to, and inland, where prices should be cheaper, so I took my shot. She had (briefly) shown me her private photos, yeah, she was sexy. So I sent her my 1 real photo (I have 2 pix of a guy who looks like me on my profile, with the top of the head cut off). The photo I sent her has been sanitized w / dots over the nose and eyes so facial recognition can't work. She immediately flips. She says it isn't me. I say 'I am still me', and she goes on to further ranting. Obviously, regardless, I am not going to be bedding this one. I immediately become concerned because one of the things you can report someone for on SA is "photos not of the person".
So, I immediately get on the site and block her profile. She was pretty new, she might not know about reporting people, and she might think she can't if they have blocked her. Anyway, I am waiting around w / bated breath for a few days to see if I get banned. I have only until the end of the week left on this membership, and I have POTs coming out my ears anyway. It would not be the worst thing in the world if my membership got cut short.
I also have FCs this week on the mornings of Wednesday-Friday. Daisy I've seen once before, she's an inland 28 YO spinner, a lotta tats she would like to purge, and happily takes 250. Colette is a 40's MILF, amazing rack, great kisser at the M&G. Diana is a 28 YO Latina, very shy and / or autistic, cannot make eye contact, but the most amazing body. Slender frame, but great firm tits, they could be manmade, but I want to test for myself. She has had sex w / only 2 other guys, her ex-husband and an old BF.
My take home lesson from this experience is not to get involved w / the Latina's who are foreign origin, but likely the Europeans could be OK.
FarFarAway
09-12-23, 00:45
https://members.seeking.com/member/388240b0-eef9-42af-8e3b-af42777e0196
Where these SBs get this queen ***** syndrome blows my mind.
She's a struggling crypto blockchain hustler. Not hot enough to be a model. Facecheck and pimeyes will tell you all.
Take a swing.That is a weird profile. Wearing an wedding ring set. And this in the profile: "I hate small talks. " "Someone who is scared to explore possibilities".
When they don't write English well, I think it tips off they are fakes.
I have also seen some lately that have very well-written profiles, but when you get to PM, the grammar evaporates. I think these also have high fake potential.
Well, I was unfortunately encouraged by your post. Of course they are here. Why would I be dealing w / anyone who isn't?
So, I have one who I spoke to, smoking smoking hot, but marginal English, hard to understand on a cell call. From some Latin American country. There are lots of these, from Brazil, etc. I have another I was just messaging and texting with. Both around 40 (I am 60+, so don't rag on me). The latter seemed hot, and easier to get to, and inland, where prices should be cheaper, so I took my shot. She had (briefly) shown me her private photos, yeah, she was sexy. So I sent her my 1 real photo (I have 2 pix of a guy who looks like me on my profile, with the top of the head cut off). The photo I sent her has been sanitized w / dots over the nose and eyes so facial recognition can't work. She immediately flips. She says it isn't me. I say 'I am still me', and she goes on to further ranting. Obviously, regardless, I am not going to be bedding this one. I immediately become concerned because one of the things you can report someone for on SA is "photos not of the It's always best to clarify then to assume. There's never a dumb question.
And my experience is with Eastern European girls not Latinas from other countries. Sorry it didn't work out. Since I mostly concentrate on young ladies in the 18-20 range they're usually born here for all ethnicities. I see it as since I'm providing good money help I want to get the youngest and freshest pussy available. Really don't understand why there are chics older than 30 on Seeking. At that age they should have their lives established and be independent. But to each their own.
The occasional European will usually message me or I may search for them once in a while. And they usually are born in their respective country. Also have had some British honeys. The reason I go for them sometimes is because of their looks and their accents which I find sexy. The European ladies are usually hot in the sack and love to please their men. I appreciate them because they are brought up to be in the more traditional role of a woman. Hopefully you'll get lucky with the next foreign girl.
MidnightDabber
09-12-23, 18:00
I plan to try to get back in in a few months or next year. Is it easier to get back on the more time elapses since you're banning now? I am on SDM but decided to take a break for a while and focus on myself. Maybe when I come back I can try SA again.
SteveTandberg
09-12-23, 19:54
I can't tell. Wouldn't be surprised if she was a ts or not. What I do know is that I would hit.https://instagram.com/dewdroppppppp?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
I plan to try to get back in in a few months or next year. Is it easier to get back on the more time elapses since you're banning now? I am on SDM but decided to take a break for a while and focus on myself. Maybe when I come back I can try SA again.Curious. How does SDM compare to SA? Like quantity and quality?
FarFarAway
09-13-23, 16:11
This profile sends me a message.
"I'm available for hook up sex, would you like to meet?"
With a number and Snap.
What an idiot.
MidnightDabber
09-13-23, 17:37
Curious. How does SDM compare to SA? Like quantity and quality?Definitely less woman, some of them are also on SA. I am talking to a few but I get the vibe they are fake? They seem real enough but they don't engage as much as SA girls so far. Its nice though that I do not have to worry about being banned for no reason. I would try it if you can not access SA.
FarFarAway
09-13-23, 19:20
What does this mean on a girls profile?
Totally random but if anyone's looking for a quick 20, ill gladly venmo you if you get someone's number for me. I don't want to resub to seeking but a new member caught my eyes. Just PM me if interested. Sorry if this creates bad clutter.
https://members.seeking.com/member/42cea9f1-73a3-48e3-8132-fbd0f21f6d24
Messaged her my standard opening. First message back was "PPP ONLY Hour 800. " haven't responded back to try to negotiate. If you're willing to drop 1 k on cherrysia then this may be an alternative.
https://members.seeking.com/member/65499a52-9c8d-40d6-8d64-22f6aaa07732
Think she's a rinser. Was aggressive in setting up a dinner date and expected $350 for it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/364311df-5e71-4763-bac7-6ae9f4170fc4
Didn't message. Only looked at her profile and she sent me "Hey! I'd love to meet up with you asap! I'm down to fuck. 500" with her number. Didn't respond because didn't want to get banned. Texted her 300 and she was down for it. Haven't pulled the trigger. Face kinda weird. May return to it with a lower ppm but prob not.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9999e777-80ae-45c3-87f4-c2bae640227b
No whip. Seemed like she was down for an overnight. Asked for $1500, countered 3, wanted to meet in the middle, didn't care enough to do so.
https://members.seeking.com/member/da545d3f-6c7b-497e-903d-2f79e41cde1e
Asked for 500 or what I could do. Didn't care enough to negotiate. Shell prob take 3.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5f336fb9-71c5-43c9-a2d4-0d6c2b191a0e
Asked 1000, countered 3, asked for 8, said I'm fine where I'm at. Might go down to 5 or 6 I think.
https://members.seeking.com/member/36af8c1f-f6b5-4dda-9f65-8f4f8ea883e8
Asked for 1. 2 k. Would have done it if it was really at emilyshak but it wasn't. Prob a scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/097c8438-c2a7-4871-9ecf-9cd0bdbcae74
Wanted 5-6, said her lowest was 5. Not worth it to me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/449dead8-5954-4177-b504-6afcf0149f14
Asked for 5. Faced seemed meh. Didn't bother countering.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a2286189-7680-489a-9b7c-613c4d9e1835
Was aggressive in setting up a date. Asked for 6, told her nah so she told me 4. Think she's a pro.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fed32168-d9d9-4837-8fa1-13b513783d95
400 with condom. Might of done it if she was BBFS but she wasn't down.
https://members.seeking.com/member/90956174-8a8a-4c46-b887-1332d15b17ab
Said she was down for 200 ppm. Told her I only pay AFTER the date. She wasn't with it. Might be a scammer might not. Either case I didn't care enough to find out to clarify whether she wanted the ppm in person or beforehand.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e9324b17-d832-4eca-b73a-e197c10312b3
Said her usual was 1 k. Too old for me to care to counter.
https://members.seeking.com/member/82668945-cbda-420f-8651-19b226be8e71
I threw out 3-400. Said she's lookin for 6-700. Might meet in middle at 5 but didn't care for it. At 6-700 I'd rather go see two k girls or two HX enclave girls.
https://members.seeking.com/member/084d07b6-7b0c-4009-932c-3b7d61ef7e24
Wanted a meet and greet for 200 first, and a 500 ppm. Told her I don't do paid meet and greets because many girls do that with no intention of moving forward.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d0451c62-b33d-4f49-acb4-57e1996efcd1
Asked for 6, said I'd do 500 for an overnight or 3 without. Crickets.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c3ecb536-73f2-448b-9940-9be5c5ff0081
Wanted 3 k allowance. Told her 700 for an overnight. Crickets.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d8ea93cc-fce4-4a04-ab98-4e6709eb79aa
Asking 700 total. Didn't care enough to counter. I don't trust duos either.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5134430-690e-454d-ae67-d408012702f1
Wanted 1 k. Not hot enough for me to counter.
https://members.seeking.com/member/13cee1a9-c396-438e-b85e-2d3b64eae6d8
Wanted 1 k. Not hot enough for me to counter. Even if she came down to 7-800, I'd rather go see 2 kgirls.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3c85c5d0-568c-43cf-8c9c-932fdedf9088
Wanted 5, countered 3, crickets.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f34a4cea-d3d3-4420-a66f-15c451475290
Wanted an allowance of 8 k to meet 4-6 x a month. She's hot but def not 100 k / yr hot.
https://members.seeking.com/member/050f7efd-9d07-4dfe-86e8-9f52fbfa1fd1
Asking 3. I might entertain but prob not.
https://members.seeking.com/member/36fc086a-2c61-46d1-b22a-ba5ce39bccc5
Asking 700, didn't bother countering.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f32cf88a-5d3d-46f2-8201-5290f4f1c236
Claims previous allowance was 5 k monthly. Cute but not that cute.
https://members.seeking.com/member/270c418c-caae-466d-b1bf-818cc25e77d1
Asking 1 k. Think I've seen her profile on HX before but unsure.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4e964730-d4fa-44b7-9150-a0bd2a1e5357
AVOID! Said she was down to meet for some hot sex with no ppm so I entertained it since she was down the st from me. Met / picked her up from the bar. As soon as I arrived the bartenders thought she was my friend and told me that she has to gtfo and that they already called the cops. Didn't kno what was going on or had time to analyze the situation so just had her hop in my car asap and we bounced. I regretted that shit literally 30 seconds later. Noticed that she was disheveled and she smelled homeless and haven't showered in a week. Upon further inspection she looked like it too with sunburnt skin and shitty clothes. Couldn't hold a conversation and was just saying nonsense crazy talk. Not sure if she was on drugs or not. Felt bad so I bought her some mcdonalds and drove around aimlessly trying to figure out how to dump her. She had nowhere to go and asked to go east so I just went to the next city over and tried to drop her off at the mall. She wasn't with it so drove around aimlessly. She had to charge her phone so I just found a random church with the lights on and said that they would prob let her charge her phone there. Dropped her off and dipped out asap. Didn't even touch her but showered as soon as I got home because I could still smell that stench. Def one of my most random experiences in a bad way.
As always proceed with caution and never pay before meeting, not even 20 bucks for gas. There were a few other profiles that were fakes but I got blocked. Reverse google image search and facial recognition sites are your best friends when it comes to SA.
Chupacabra
09-13-23, 22:26
https://members.seeking.com/member/42cea9f1-73a3-48e3-8132-fbd0f21f6d24
Messaged her my standard opening. First message back was "PPP ONLY Hour 800. " haven't responded back to try to negotiate. If you're willing to drop 1 k on cherrysia then this may be an alternative.
Just wanted to say, you're doing yeoman's work here. Not just countering these lunatics and giving them a reality check, but sharing the info here. I'd buy you a beer.
RockItAllNite
09-14-23, 10:57
What does this mean on a girls profile?She swallows then shows she has?
She swallows then shows she has?Pretty sure he was joking and it was rhetorical.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ff6841ad-bf04-4a16-af81-aa25107eff81
Asking 700 total. Didn't care enough to counter. I don't trust duos either.I was talking to these 2 about a week ago. I live in Orange County like them, and they asked for 600 for both / total and offered BBFS. It's the brown haired one that does the talking. I might've done it for 500, but both these girls are asking too much for their looks. I know a Vietnamese bikini model and a red-hot latina waitress that ask for 500 and would much rather employ either of them over having a 3-some with these two.
Omfgitzjin
09-14-23, 19:01
I was talking to these 2 about a week ago. I live in Orange County like them, and they asked for 600 for both / total and offered BBFS. It's the brown haired one that does the talking. I might've done it for 500, but both these girls are asking too much for their looks. I know a Vietnamese bikini model and a red-hot latina waitress that ask for 500 and would much rather employ either of them over having a 3-some with these two.Already gone.
HollywoodGuy
09-14-23, 19:13
What does this mean on a girls profile?Ahegao. Google it or search on phub.
Definitely less woman, some of them are also on SA. I am talking to a few but I get the vibe they are fake? They seem real enough but they don't engage as much as SA girls so far. Its nice though that I do not have to worry about being banned for no reason. I would try it if you can not access SA.Putting aside cost is there any way sdm is better than sa? Like why do it?
Chupacabra
09-14-23, 23:35
I was talking to these 2 about a week ago. I live in Orange County like them, and they asked for 600 for both / total and offered BBFS. It's the brown haired one that does the talking. I might've done it for 500, but both these girls are asking too much for their looks. I know a Vietnamese bikini model and a red-hot latina waitress that ask for 500 and would much rather employ either of them over having a 3-some with these two.I've always avoided any threesome on SA, because I just assumed it's a 99% chance of a scam or shakedown. After the whole #metoo nonsense, all it takes these days is one woman claiming abuse, but with two? Fuggedaboutit. My spidey senses go into warp drive when I see these ads. I can just picture it, all lovey-dovey until the money changes hands (or if it doesn't change hands because you refuse to pay upfront) then the games begin. . . Threatening to scream, call the cops, whatever. And it's two against one, plus these are just young, tearful, innocent angels (LOL) so what cop could resist white knighting for them? Nightmare fuel. Best case scenario, you get some mediocre attention from the one who lost the coin flip while the other plays on her phone. I just don't see an acceptable risk / reward profile here.
Having said that, I could be wrong. Has anyone ever done this with success?
MidnightDabber
09-15-23, 00:27
Putting aside cost is there any way sdm is better than sa? Like why do it?Because I was banned off of SA.
Has anyone here gotten back on to SA recently after being banned? Also under what circumstances do they ask for I'd? I have seen people say sometimes they request a pic of your license or passport?
I've always avoided any threesome on SA, because I just assumed it's a 99% chance of a scam or shakedown. After the whole #metoo nonsense, all it takes these days is one woman claiming abuse, but with two? Fuggedaboutit. My spidey senses go into warp drive when I see these ads. I can just picture it, all lovey-dovey until the money changes hands (or if it doesn't change hands because you refuse to pay upfront) then the games begin. . . Threatening to scream, call the cops, whatever. And it's two against one, plus these are just young, tearful, innocent angels (LOL) so what cop could resist white knighting for them? Nightmare fuel. Best case scenario, you get some mediocre attention from the one who lost the coin flip while the other plays on her phone. I just don't see an acceptable risk / reward profile here.
Having said that, I could be wrong. Has anyone ever done this with success?I've had quite a few 3 somes with SB's but only where either I put it together myself and introduce the girls to each other, or rarely where I've met one solo and she says she has a "friend. ".
Like you I never trust the profiles with 2 women in them. For all the reasons you list.
Because I was banned off of SA.
Has anyone here gotten back on to SA recently after being banned? Also under what circumstances do they ask for I'd? I have seen people say sometimes they request a pic of your license or passport?I've never been banned but I can't see how that's a problem.
Fake name. Fake email. New photos. Use a VPN. Prepaid Visa card.
How would they know it's you?
PantyPatrol1
09-15-23, 12:44
https://members.seeking.com/member/42cea9f1-73a3-48e3-8132-fbd0f21f6d24
Messaged her my standard opening. First message back was "PPP ONLY Hour 800. " haven't responded back to try to negotiate. If you're willing to drop 1 k on cherrysia then this may be an alternative.
https://members.seeking.com/member/65499a52-9c8d-40d6-8d64-22f6aaa07732
Think she's a rinser. Was aggressive in setting up a dinner date and expected $350 for it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/364311df-5e71-4763-bac7-6ae9f4170fc4
Didn't message. Only looked at her profile and she sent me "Hey! I'd love to meet up with you asap! I'm down to fuck. 500" with her number. Didn't respond because didn't want to get banned. Texted her 300 and she was down for it. Haven't pulled the trigger. Face kinda weird. May return to it with a lower ppm but prob not.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9999e777-80ae-45c3-87f4-c2bae640227b
No whip. Seemed like she was down for an overnight. Asked for $1500, countered 3, wanted to meet in the middle, didn't care enough to do so.
https://members.seeking.com/member/da545d3f-6c7b-497e-903d-2f79e41cde1e
Asked for 500 or what I could do. Didn't care enough to negotiate. Shell prob take 3.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5f336fb9-71c5-43c9-a2d4-0d6c2b191a0e
Asked 1000, countered 3, asked for 8, said I'm fine where I'm at. Might go down to 5 or 6 I think.
https://members.seeking.com/member/36af8c1f-f6b5-4dda-9f65-8f4f8ea883e8
Asked for 1. 2 k. Would have done it if it was really at emilyshak but it wasn't. Prob a scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/097c8438-c2a7-4871-9ecf-9cd0bdbcae74
Wanted 5-6, said her lowest was 5. Not worth it to me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/449dead8-5954-4177-b504-6afcf0149f14
Asked for 5. Faced seemed meh. Didn't bother countering.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a2286189-7680-489a-9b7c-613c4d9e1835
Was aggressive in setting up a date. Asked for 6, told her nah so she told me 4. Think she's a pro.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fed32168-d9d9-4837-8fa1-13b513783d95
400 with condom. Might of done it if she was BBFS but she wasn't down.
https://members.seeking.com/member/90956174-8a8a-4c46-b887-1332d15b17ab
Said she was down for 200 ppm. Told her I only pay AFTER the date. She wasn't with it. Might be a scammer might not. Either case I didn't care enough to find out to clarify whether she wanted the ppm in person or beforehand.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e9324b17-d832-4eca-b73a-e197c10312b3
Said her usual was 1 k. Too old for me to care to counter.
https://members.seeking.com/member/82668945-cbda-420f-8651-19b226be8e71
I threw out 3-400. Said she's lookin for 6-700. Might meet in middle at 5 but didn't care for it. At 6-700 I'd rather go see two k girls or two HX enclave girls.
https://members.seeking.com/member/084d07b6-7b0c-4009-932c-3b7d61ef7e24
Wanted a meet and greet for 200 first, and a 500 ppm. Told her I don't do paid meet and greets because many girls do that with no intention of moving forward.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d0451c62-b33d-4f49-acb4-57e1996efcd1
Asked for 6, said I'd do 500 for an overnight or 3 without. Crickets.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c3ecb536-73f2-448b-9940-9be5c5ff0081
Wanted 3 k allowance. Told her 700 for an overnight. Crickets.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d8ea93cc-fce4-4a04-ab98-4e6709eb79aa
Asking 700 total. Didn't care enough to counter. I don't trust duos either.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5134430-690e-454d-ae67-d408012702f1
Wanted 1 k. Not hot enough for me to counter.
https://members.seeking.com/member/13cee1a9-c396-438e-b85e-2d3b64eae6d8
Wanted 1 k. Not hot enough for me to counter. Even if she came down to 7-800, I'd rather go see 2 kgirls.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3c85c5d0-568c-43cf-8c9c-932fdedf9088
Wanted 5, countered 3, crickets.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f34a4cea-d3d3-4420-a66f-15c451475290
Wanted an allowance of 8 k to meet 4-6 x a month. She's hot but def not 100 k / yr hot.
https://members.seeking.com/member/050f7efd-9d07-4dfe-86e8-9f52fbfa1fd1
Asking 3. I might entertain but prob not.
https://members.seeking.com/member/36fc086a-2c61-46d1-b22a-ba5ce39bccc5
Asking 700, didn't bother countering.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f32cf88a-5d3d-46f2-8201-5290f4f1c236
Claims previous allowance was 5 k monthly. Cute but not that cute.
https://members.seeking.com/member/270c418c-caae-466d-b1bf-818cc25e77d1
Asking 1 k. Think I've seen her profile on HX before but unsure.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4e964730-d4fa-44b7-9150-a0bd2a1e5357
AVOID! Said she was down to meet for some hot sex with no ppm so I entertained it since she was down the st from me. Met / picked her up from the bar. As soon as I arrived the bartenders thought she was my friend and told me that she has to gtfo and that they already called the cops. Didn't kno what was going on or had time to analyze the situation so just had her hop in my car asap and we bounced. I regretted that shit literally 30 seconds later. Noticed that she was disheveled and she smelled homeless and haven't showered in a week. Upon further inspection she looked like it too with sunburnt skin and shitty clothes. Couldn't hold a conversation and was just saying nonsense crazy talk. Not sure if she was on drugs or not. Felt bad so I bought her some mcdonalds and drove around aimlessly trying to figure out how to dump her. She had nowhere to go and asked to go east so I just went to the next city over and tried to drop her off at the mall. She wasn't with it so drove around aimlessly. She had to charge her phone so I just found a random church with the lights on and said that they would prob let her charge her phone there. Dropped her off and dipped out asap. Didn't even touch her but showered as soon as I got home because I could still smell that stench. Def one of my most random experiences in a bad way.
As always proceed with caution and never pay before meeting, not even 20 bucks for gas. There were a few other profiles that were fakes but I got blocked. Reverse google image search and facial recognition sites are your best friends when it comes to SA.Sorry but SA has really gone to shit. I get the crazy allowance quotes, digital content sellers who go inactive after a couple of days and see many platonic daters seeking "chemistry & connection who aren't on for sex". Many "SBs" on there are acting like its a dating site now. Its not what it used to be.
FarFarAway
09-15-23, 14:13
Pretty sure he was joking and it was rhetorical.No, I really want to know, what do you guys think a girl is trying to show by this? - and all sorts of different sticking the tongue out pix.
FarFarAway
09-15-23, 14:22
Sorry but SA has really gone to shit. I get the crazy allowance quotes, digital content sellers who go inactive after a couple of days and see many platonic daters seeking "chemistry & connection who aren't on for sex". Many "SBs" on there are acting like its a dating site now. Its not what it used to be.I am finishing up a month. I have so much pussy IDK what to do w / it. I will go from mid-20's to mid-40's, because I am way older. I have done about 8 M&Gs, and all are super hot and sexy, smart and nice. All are ready to FC w / me, my allowance offer for the first time is 4-5. They get the room that I also reimburse for. I met a MILF yesterday, in my car outside the restaurant we met at, I got my hand into her panties, and got her off in just a couple of minutes of flicking. Super wet, super hot, super fun. Really looking forward to banging her. Another is all about getting spanked, etc.
So, it just depends on who you approach and how you do it.
SteveTandberg
09-15-23, 15:51
I've seen a few profiles that I just can't get their attention. Maybe it's age, ethnicity, height, or just how I look?
There can be an extended period of time until my message has gone from delivered to read. Could be filters set on any of the above or just the sheer volume of messages that some of these women receive.
Anyway, was wondering if anyone did the Diamond upgrade and if so, what if any differences did you experience?
Thanks.
HollywoodGuy
09-15-23, 16:33
I've seen a few profiles that I just can't get their attention. Maybe it's age, ethnicity, height, or just how I look?
There can be an extended period of time until my message has gone from delivered to read. Could be filters set on any of the above or just the sheer volume of messages that some of these women receive.
Anyway, was wondering if anyone did the Diamond upgrade and if so, what if any differences did you experience?
Thanks.Never done it but don't recommend it as it would probably bring out the worst cases of GPS. I am verified and I doubt that even matters.
No, I really want to know, what do you guys think a girl is trying to show by this? - and all sorts of different sticking the tongue out pix.Seriously man?! LOL HG presented one possibility of ahegao. But it's usually presented with eyes partially open, cross eyed, or eyes rolled up into head (just white of eyes) and some drool coming down tip of tongue which is meant to be cum. She's missing a few of those items in her depiction of ahegao. So it really could be anything of a slutty nature. I see it as just ready to suck dick or slap your cock head on her tongue or ready to take cum on her tongue or face. Take your pick. LOL. She might be a certified freak nasty head doctor. A lot of young honeys have surprised me with their cock sucking skills. I don't even need to guide or teach them. Just sit back and enjoy the bj ride.
Anyone else getting "I'm surprised you don't have someone Dominant in your life" screened over your incoming / outgoing messages in their inbox? Archived inbox messages are normal tho.
Are they watching me?
SteveTandberg
09-15-23, 19:05
Anyone else getting "I'm surprised you don't have someone Dominant in your life" screened over your incoming / outgoing messages in their inbox? Archived inbox messages are normal tho.
Are they watching me?I'm also getting that exact message. I have to turn my phone sideways to read it.
FarFarAway
09-15-23, 19:19
Anyone else getting "I'm surprised you don't have someone Dominant in your life" screened over your incoming / outgoing messages in their inbox? Archived inbox messages are normal tho.
Are they watching me?Me too. This is weird. It happened to girls who had not responded to me, so I removed their access to my private photo. In the actual message box, it read correctly. However, if you look on the "Sent" window, all of those who had private photos removed have that message.
This is running on a computer not a phone. I put in a Help ticket. Not that it is a big problem I don't think.
Because I was banned off of SA.
Has anyone here gotten back on to SA recently after being banned? Also under what circumstances do they ask for I'd? I have seen people say sometimes they request a pic of your license or passport?I got banned and I made other profiles with other email addresses but when I would try paying for premium it wouldn't let me so I'm assuming they had my IP address stored. So then I emailed their support email with my original profile about being reinstated and they were like you were banned for using "ppm" and "dollar amounts" in messages so probably some dumb sb didn't like my offer and reported me saying I was trying to pay for for sex but they gave me another chance and reinstated me and I watch what I say in messages and try to get them to text as soon as possible and I haven't been banned since.
I've had quite a few 3 somes with SB's but only where either I put it together myself and introduce the girls to each other, or rarely where I've met one solo and she says she has a "friend. ".
Like you I never trust the profiles with 2 women in them. For all the reasons you list.I've had several 3 somes and it's always a friend of the sb I met on sa, I don't trust the profiles with 2 women they usually want a super high ppm and they usually aren't that hot.
I got banned and I made other profiles with other email addresses but when I would try paying for premium it wouldn't let me so I'm assuming they had my IP address stored. So then I emailed their support email with my original profile about being reinstated and they were like you were banned for using "ppm" and "dollar amounts" in messages so probably some dumb sb didn't like my offer and reported me saying I was trying to pay for for sex but they gave me another chance and reinstated me and I watch what I say in messages and try to get them to text as soon as possible and I haven't been banned since.Interesting. I'd heard they log IP also. That seems like an easy step for them.
But don't you use a VPN? I'd assume that fixes that.
FarFarAway
09-16-23, 11:17
I wonder what this will do to / for us. I presume Newsome will sign it. I like it for myself, but will it compromise our ability to snoop on SBs?
I just got into messaging w / a 42 YO divorcee on Seeking. Been on just a couple of days. Total newbie. She sent me her phone #. The real one. Using free web searching, I had her full name and her LinkedIn profile in a NY minute, home address, the balance on her mortgage, etc. What she told me is that she was semi-retired so can meet during the day. Perfect to avoid the warden.
A girl I messaged the day I rejoined the site has been away all this month, but came back today. Gave me her private pix and #. OMG she is totally hot, a grad student, and from her face pick got her real full name. I located her school, and know she is Indian-American. This is a total fantasy for me, I've never banged an Indian girl and have always wondered. She offers some particular risks to me, but I will forge ahead with "Paly". You may get a report on my progress.
Interesting. I'd heard they log IP also. That seems like an easy step for them.
But don't you use a VPN? I'd assume that fixes that.This worked for me if you got banned. Make sure cleared out your cookies, history, etc. Everything. Restart browser (I use chrome in this case) then go into incognito and create a brand new email not sounds similar to email you used. Create a seeking account with VPN after that. Sometimes it works without VPN, but make sure clear all the caches, cookies, and history. You can log in without VPN after that. It worked 2 or 3 times for me so perhaps it's YMMV.
WhiteCollarGuy
09-16-23, 19:29
I am finishing up a month. I have so much pussy IDK what to do w / it. I will go from mid-20's to mid-40's, because I am way older. I have done about 8 M&Gs, and all are super hot and sexy, smart and nice. All are ready to FC w / me, my allowance offer for the first time is 4-5. They get the room that I also reimburse for. I met a MILF yesterday, in my car outside the restaurant we met at, I got my hand into her panties, and got her off in just a couple of minutes of flicking. Super wet, super hot, super fun. Really looking forward to banging her. Another is all about getting spanked, etc.
So, it just depends on who you approach and how you do it.Sounds like you are in a great spot. My experience with seeking has been a bit mixed. I've met a few and went to the FC but they've generally been less attractive than their pics. There's, however, a lot of girls where it sounds like they want to do a meet & greet but they end up not confirming that we are meeting and being really flakey. Is that others' experience as well, or do I just have bad luck? Things are going well enough via DM and text that they say they are interested in meeting up, but they either don't give specifics as to when and where, or if we agree to a time and place, they don't end up confirming. My guess it's all part of the game but was curious if others frequently run into this.
ColoHobbyist
09-17-23, 02:20
she is Indian-American. This is a total fantasy for me, I've never banged an Indian girl and have always wondered.I've had the good fortune to have a south Asian SB before. She was easily one of the best and worst I've had.
Pros:
She LOVED sex.
She loved anal.
She worked for Marriott, so she was always game to book rooms with her employee discount.
Cons:
She ONLY loved anal.
She demanded a condom for vaginal sex.
She was bad at sucking cock.
She always answered her phon when her parents called, even if I was balls deep in her ass.
I wonder what this will do to / for us. I presume Newsome will sign it. I like it for myself, but will it compromise our ability to snoop on SBs?
I just got into messaging w / a 42 YO divorcee on Seeking. Been on just a couple of days. Total newbie. She sent me her phone #. The real one. Using free web searching, I had her full name and her LinkedIn profile in a NY minute, home address, the balance on her mortgage, etc. What she told me is that she was semi-retired so can meet during the day. Perfect to avoid the warden.
A girl I messaged the day I rejoined the site has been away all this month, but came back today. Gave me her private pix and #. OMG she is totally hot, a grad student, and from her face pick got her real full name. I located her school, and know she is Indian-American. This is a total fantasy for me, I've never banged an Indian girl and have always wondered. She offers some particular risks to me, but I will forge ahead with "Paly". You may get a report on my progress.Definitely would love to hear how it goes. I am interested in hitting some other types than the usual and have found it challenging.
I wonder what this will do to / for us. I presume Newsome will sign it. I like it for myself, but will it compromise our ability to snoop on SBs?
I just got into messaging w / a 42 YO divorcee on Seeking. Been on just a couple of days. Total newbie. She sent me her phone #. The real one. Using free web searching, I had her full name and her LinkedIn profile in a NY minute, home address, the balance on her mortgage, etc. What she told me is that she was semi-retired so can meet during the day. Perfect to avoid the warden.
A girl I messaged the day I rejoined the site has been away all this month, but came back today. Gave me her private pix and #. OMG she is totally hot, a grad student, and from her face pick got her real full name. I located her school, and know she is Indian-American. This is a total fantasy for me, I've never banged an Indian girl and have always wondered. She offers some particular risks to me, but I will forge ahead with "Paly". You may get a report on my progress.Very much interested to know how it goes.
In case anyone wants to watch the shame video from Seeking. You have to watch this if they determine you've been naughty.
https://contents.seeking.com/videos/seeking_violation_solicitation_1080p.mp4
I've had the good fortune to have a south Asian SB before. She was easily one of the best and worst I've had.
Pros:
She LOVED sex.
She loved anal.
She worked for Marriott, so she was always game to book rooms with her employee discount.
Cons:
She ONLY loved anal.
She demanded a condom for vaginal sex.
She was bad at sucking cock.
She always answered her phon when her parents called, even if I was balls deep in her ass.Too funny. I need to get my SB to make some calls next time LOL.
IronClad999
09-17-23, 20:47
I've had the good fortune to have a south Asian SB before. She was easily one of the best and worst I've had.
Pros:
She LOVED sex.
She loved anal.
She worked for Marriott, so she was always game to book rooms with her employee discount.
Cons:
She ONLY loved anal.
She demanded a condom for vaginal sex.
She was bad at sucking cock.
She always answered her phon when her parents called, even if I was balls deep in her ass.If her juice box is tight with raws; that'll make a big diff.
StudBucket
09-17-23, 22:51
I am finishing up a month. I have so much pussy IDK what to do w / it. I will go from mid-20's to mid-40's, because I am way older. I have done about 8 M&Gs, and all are super hot and sexy, smart and nice. All are ready to FC w / me, my allowance offer for the first time is 4-5. They get the room that I also reimburse for. I met a MILF yesterday, in my car outside the restaurant we met at, I got my hand into her panties, and got her off in just a couple of minutes of flicking. Super wet, super hot, super fun. Really looking forward to banging her. Another is all about getting spanked, etc.
So, it just depends on who you approach and how you do it.I am going to agree with this statement. Once you get you whole approach down, be confident, post good photos, SA is shooting fish in a barrel. At any given month I can get at least 20 decent girls that will go out and meet me. Of course, you must be willing to spend 4-600 to get the better ones on there. Sure, there are many that will ask crazy prices, but I just block those.
In case anyone wants to watch the shame video from Seeking. You have to watch this if they determine you've been naughty.
https://contents.seeking.com/videos/seeking_violation_solicitation_1080p.mp4That's some comedy. Basically "we need to say you shouldn't use seeking for the very reason we know 100% of you are here. Just don't make it so obvious mmmmkay?
PantyPatrol1
09-18-23, 12:09
I am going to agree with this statement. Once you get you whole approach down, be confident, post good photos, SA is shooting fish in a barrel. At any given month I can get at least 20 decent girls that will go out and meet me. Of course, you must be willing to spend 4-600 to get the better ones on there. Sure, there are many that will ask crazy prices, but I just block those.Its YMMV for sure. Not everyone can post pictures for obvious reasons. Tons of men on there are married I read somewhere.
FarFarAway
09-18-23, 19:22
I have posted earlier about a couple of facial recognition sites that could get us guys who want to stay anonymous in trouble. I provided some strategies to avoid trouble, including what I did, put black dots over the eyes and nose of my real photo, which I then send to vetted POTs (vetted by a phone call, and perhaps other sleuthing). I had checked the photos I've been sending from time to time on the two main sites discussed earlier. Look at my earlier posts if you want to know their specific names.
I was sending pix today and got a whim to check mine again. The site that has a name involving checking faces, it suddenly showed one of my real photos, connected w / a website that I am properly on for professional reasons. IDK, in the past, that particular post was not found by the facial recognition site, but it was today.
They have a means to get your photo / link removed from the search results. You select the pic and click through to a page where you can enter either 1) a pic of your driver's license, with info removed / hidden, just the face photo or 2) a selfie you have just taken w / two fingers on your chin. I took the latter path. I uploaded it and they say that it will take up to 5 days for them to permanently delete you from search results. They instantly stop giving your pic as an answer while they consider your removal request. I checked this of course, by using another browser and going back to the site. Now, it did not connect my sanitized photo w / the site that it had found earlier.
We will have to periodically go onto the facial recognition sites and check that our photos aren't being recognized. A pain.
However, I do use this site fairly often on the pics of POTs, and often I can get to their real identities quickly. The information provided, it isn't all that useful in getting to 'yes' w / a POT, but it can cover your ass in case things go south.
MidnightDabber
09-18-23, 23:30
I got banned and I made other profiles with other email addresses but when I would try paying for premium it wouldn't let me so I'm assuming they had my IP address stored. So then I emailed their support email with my original profile about being reinstated and they were like you were banned for using "ppm" and "dollar amounts" in messages so probably some dumb sb didn't like my offer and reported me saying I was trying to pay for for sex but they gave me another chance and reinstated me and I watch what I say in messages and try to get them to text as soon as possible and I haven't been banned since.Was this recent? They said mine was "permanent" but then told me to look up the rules to avoid this in the future LOL. People have been saying how hard it is to get back on.
IronClad999
09-19-23, 10:21
Was this recent? They said mine was "permanent" but then told me to look up the rules to avoid this in the future LOL. People have been saying how hard it is to get back on.Shady situation LOL.
FarFarAway
09-19-23, 12:10
Within a couple of hours of submitting my request to that facial recognition site, they had permanently removed the 'hit' of my IRL photo on their list of results.
They have an odd way of acknowledging, but it does avoid the need to give them an email address. They say just to bookmark the removal page and come back to check. I did, and they said they had agreed to take my photo out.
This is sort of tricky. The photo is definitely in their results, sometimes there is an old website that it can be hard to get back to that has the pic out there (or perhaps it was archived somehow).
Chupacabra
09-19-23, 13:39
In case anyone wants to watch the shame video from Seeking. You have to watch this if they determine you've been naughty.
https://contents.seeking.com/videos/seeking_violation_solicitation_1080p.mp4That's hilarious. What a society of hypocrites we are.
Citrus1999
09-19-23, 16:17
Within a couple of hours of submitting my request to that facial recognition site, they had permanently removed the 'hit' of my IRL photo on their list of results.
They have an odd way of acknowledging, but it does avoid the need to give them an email address. They say just to bookmark the removal page and come back to check. I did, and they said they had agreed to take my photo out.
This is sort of tricky. The photo is definitely in their results, sometimes there is an old website that it can be hard to get back to that has the pic out there (or perhaps it was archived somehow).Just did the same, surprised how quickly they took action (less than 24 hours). I submitted several other photos of me and everything came back clean. I did use my real email, I figured there was nothing shady or illegal about wanting to remove my photos from a search engine and therefore nothing to hide.
FarFarAway
09-19-23, 18:02
Wow, I was on Rover.com looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.
IronClad999
09-19-23, 21:45
That's hilarious. What a society of hypocrites we are.Pretty humorous in some way LOL.
WhiteCollarGuy
09-19-23, 23:22
Has anyone pursued SBs who are in the same industry? I had a meet and greet with a POT and it turns out she's in the same profession. I didn't tell her what I do but am afraid that it's a matter of time before she figures out who I am since it's a small world. Thoughts?
FarFarAway
09-20-23, 14:58
Has anyone pursued SBs who are in the same industry? I had a meet and greet with a POT and it turns out she's in the same profession. I didn't tell her what I do but am afraid that it's a matter of time before she figures out who I am since it's a small world. Thoughts?Sorta, not exactly. I work in a large organization. Thousands of people at this location. There are definitely some girls who are also here who are candidates to show up on SA. I have for the most part been careful about this, figuring if I was seeing someone from my organization, there is a much greater chance of her coming across my IRL identity (of course I have a sugar story that doesn't involve my working here). So once those POTs divulged that they were here, I just blocked them and went on. Too many fish in the sea and all.
However, I am just now sorely tempted to violate my rules. I have a hankering to bang an Indian-American girl, and there is a POT right now who really floats my boat. And in my organization. Absolutely gorgeous. She is in a department far from mine (subject-wise and physically). We've spoken by phone and she is interested, though I am above her age range. Hence she wants to see full pix. Even those that have been sanitized to avoid facial recognition, someone at this organization upon seeing them could recognize me. Of course, this girl likely doesn't want anyone knowing that she is active on the site either.
She says her last arrangement ended about a month ago. She is hot enough she won't have to wait long to get some new offers. Carpe diem.
FarFarAway
09-20-23, 16:15
Had an interaction w / a POT that is a new experience for me on the site, after literally hundreds over the years. She's an educated Latina, seems like we'd have some things in common, hence I engaged her. After an initial phone call, I did sent her sanitized pix, just a couple. Those were OK for her so we are discussing a M&G. She said once on the call and once by text that she wanted to do lunch. Many people don't care what the initial meeting entails, others perhaps have read on Reddit or whatever that they should 'test' if someone is a sugar daddy or a Splenda daddy by trying to get a fancier M&G.
I most often pick a coffee place, and of course don't care if the girl wants a muffin in addition to her latte. I have done lunch w / a few also, I need to be a little more careful selecting a restaurant that has the right vibe and isn't going to put me in a vulnerable position (by running into someone IK, for example). I have a couple of these choices, and I suggested one to her. It is in a local shopping mall, and located near the parking structure, facilitating going to one of our cars for 'private' discussions provided the lunch went well. In my car, well, I can be blunt about my sexual practices, and if lucky, can get my hands / lips onto the lady in question.
This gal, she responds to my suggested venue by saying, no, she would really rather go to another, fancier restaurant in that mall. Some foods she likes there. IK it is a much higher profile than the place I offered, and poses risks to me that are unknown. The fact that now, a couple of times, she's been demanding w / my contributions to her world does not bode well for us to develop the sort of financial relationship I envision. I don't typically get crazy with the $. So I took her approach as an indication of her GPS. There are lots and lots of girls on the site, there is no particular reason I need this one. I am just going to try ghosting, see if she gets the idea.
PleasantOnSun
09-20-23, 16:39
Wow, I was on Rover.com looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.Interesting so how would you approach here if you find anyone interested.
HollywoodGuy
09-20-23, 18:45
Had an interaction w / a POT that is a new experience for me on the site, after literally hundreds over the years. She's an educated Latina, seems like we'd have some things in common, hence I engaged her. After an initial phone call, I did sent her sanitized pix, just a couple. Those were OK for her so we are discussing a M&G. She said once on the call and once by text that she wanted to do lunch. Many people don't care what the initial meeting entails, others perhaps have read on Reddit or whatever that they should 'test' if someone is a sugar daddy or a Splenda daddy by trying to get a fancier M&G.
I most often pick a coffee place, and of course don't care if the girl wants a muffin in addition to her latte. I have done lunch w / a few also, I need to be a little more careful selecting a restaurant that has the right vibe and isn't going to put me in a vulnerable position (by running into someone IK, for example). I have a couple of these choices, and I suggested one to her. It is in a local shopping mall, and located near the parking structure, facilitating going to one of our cars for 'private' discussions provided the lunch went well. In my car, well, I can be blunt about my sexual practices, and if lucky, can get my hands / lips onto the lady in question.
This gal, she responds to my suggested venue by saying, no, she would really rather go to another, fancier restaurant in that mall. Some foods she likes there. IK it is a much higher profile than the place I offered, and poses risks to me that are unknown. The fact that now, a couple of times, she's been demanding w / my contributions to her world does not bode well for us to develop the sort of financial relationship I envision. I don't typically get crazy with the $. So I took her approach as an indication of her GPS. There are lots and lots of girls on the site, there is no particular reason I need this one. I am just going to try ghosting, see if she gets the idea.I mean she wants you to know she is pricey. Good for her, not so good for you. In my case if I say to them I'll take you anywhere, they usually say something like olive garden, wingstop or even del taco. Gotta love it. Different demographic.
UltraCreamy
09-21-23, 01:10
https://members.seeking.com/member/270c418c-caae-466d-b1bf-818cc25e77d1
Asking 1 k. Think I've seen her profile on HX before but unsure.https://www.humaniplex.com/profiles/Sinderelllla
https://members.seeking.com/member/7a6cae48-9795-4e3b-93ea-56c7c3fcf554
1 k for a dinner date. Wouldn't consider anything less, doesn't leave the house for less than 1 K apparently.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ab104383-eb58-455d-b8e4-c9f79a10bd97
700 condom only. Probably could've talked her down but BBFS are a no go so I lost interest.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7a6cae48-9795-4e3b-93ea-56c7c3fcf554
1 k for a dinner date. Wouldn't consider anything less, doesn't leave the house for less than 1 K apparently.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ab104383-eb58-455d-b8e4-c9f79a10bd97
700 condom only. Probably could've talked her down but BBFS are a no go so I lost interest.Not the Alena I was familiar with haha.
Not the Alena I was familiar with haha.Yea it was a disappointment because she looked good in her photos. Asked if she was on BC, said no. Asked if she'd take the plan b and she started on a rant on how it's terrible for woman's health.
Currently working on this one, if anyone has any intel.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8cc41853-f3ad-4935-b484-71c87fa53751
MidnightDabber
09-23-23, 18:16
Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.
Anyone try her out?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ae2e07e0-39cc-4570-8a77-50403ea3367e
Wow, I was on Rover.com looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.I've met several girls on SA who actually do have profiles on rover.
Go for it!
Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.I use that line. "You are worth that amount and more, and some guy is going to be lucky to get you. It's just beyond my budget but best of luck. ".
Translated into SA speak: " You think I'm a Splenda daddy but I'm complimenting your shallow ass on the way out so you don't block or report me because of your own unjustified GPS. ".
FarFarAway
09-24-23, 12:07
Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.I will say stuff like 'I am sure some girls on the site get that', but qualify that isn't something I'd be able to do. And that if all they care about is that one allowance payment, they should try to track that guy down again. Meaning, yeah, history is fine, but you are here and now talking to me, and what you got before isn't that relevant. If you just want to say 'bye' without pissing her off and risking her reporting you to the site (however invalid) you can always go with HG's "I'll keep that in mind".
I don't think it is very fruitful to really haggle, people tend to have their numbers in mind. Think of it the same way you would about car prices. The phenomenon of pinning. I never never discuss $ online, only face to face. People are brave behind a keyboard, they fear rejection when face to face, and when they have invested in the meeting. Their ask will be less.
I emphasize I want an ongoing arrangement, where they'll get paid multiple times and they don't have to be on the site meeting someone new all the time, who might be nice or not really.
I have also had girls claim they were getting like 1-2 K per meet in past arrangements. Some I even believed that. Of course, they are ruined forever by that. A guy who does that, his mind is in a funny place, and he is fucking up the sugarbowl for most. I would not believe that a girl who had once gotten that kind of dough would ever be satisfied w / the 3-500 that I could do. I heard this at a M&G w / someone I thought had real potential for a friendly relationship, but I declined to pursue further.
FarFarAway
09-24-23, 12:11
Its YMMV for sure. Not everyone can post pictures for obvious reasons. Tons of men on there are married I read somewhere.I have provided my solution to posting photos that are safe. Someone who looks like you, with also some parts cut out as if they really are you and you are trying to stay discreet. There is even a new approach to locating photos on the web who look like you. Facial recognition sites.
Gidden Lade
09-24-23, 18:20
I have provided my solution to posting photos that are safe. Someone who looks like you, with also some parts cut out as if they really are you and you are trying to stay discreet. There is even a new approach to locating photos on the web who look like you. Facial recognition sites.Tried this & came up with what I thought was a good match. Site came back with a message saying the "image appears not to be you. " Will try finding another one. Guess not that many poor bastards are cursed enough to look like me.
I'm only sharing this for the sheer pleasure of making fun at somebody else's expense.
I have an SB. She's 19 and quite attractive. Very into fashion and makeup and stuff. Anyways she doesn't know I know but I know her TikTok handle. I look everyday.
She posts literally everyday. She mimicks this whole stupid generational thing where they dress up or dance or do product reviews. She refers to herself as an influencer. She starts every video with "like and subscribe. " She referred to herself in one video as "undiscovered famous. ".
She has like 400 followers. Every video gets like 4 comments. It's sad. But it's also funny. I mean to see someone in this generation pour so much time and energy into something so asinine and fruitless. She's a server at a restaurant. I want to shake her and say "you need to switch directions now and fast because you're not going to be this hot or young forever. " But I don't. Because I like banging her and I don't care enough to. So I'm just sharing it here like an asshole.
I swear I'm happy I was raised before this stupidity.
Gidden Lade
09-25-23, 08:08
Forgot to add that the pic I used was of some old jazz bassist that I never heard of (and I'm a music junkie). Thus, I assumed no one else would know either, esp a SB. Do you think the person being "famous" even if not very widely known was the problem?
Chupacabra
09-26-23, 13:11
I'm only sharing this for the sheer pleasure of making fun at somebody else's expense.
I have an SB. She's 19 and quite attractive. Very into fashion and makeup and stuff. Anyways she doesn't know I know but I know her TikTok handle. I look everyday.
She posts literally everyday. She mimicks this whole stupid generational thing where they dress up or dance or do product reviews. She refers to herself as an influencer. She starts every video with "like and subscribe. " She referred to herself in one video as "undiscovered famous. ".
She has like 400 followers. Every video gets like 4 comments. It's sad. But it's also funny. I mean to see someone in this generation pour so much time and energy into something so asinine and fruitless. She's a server at a restaurant. I want to shake her and say "you need to switch directions now and fast because you're not going to be this hot or young forever. " But I don't. Because I like banging her and I don't care enough to. So I'm just sharing it here like an asshole.
I swear I'm happy I was raised before this stupidity.I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.
I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.I totally get that. This one isn't exactly stupid. Just has vapid hobbies and aspirations.
I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.I'm realizing after I just sent the last message but it's really the narcissism here the bothers me. Not that I would characterize her as narcissistic. It's more a generational thing. Like they were always girls who wanted to be actresses and such. But the idea someone thinks it's a good career direction to try to be an influencer. And to really push for that, earnestly. To basically have it be your mission to have people follow you for daily 30 second dribbles on which color you think it's going to be in style this fall, or which brand of makeup foundation is the best. It seems like such a huge waste of human potential.
But again, she's really hot. So you know what I say over dinner in the hour leading up to taking her to bed? I compliment her taste, her vision, her connecting with an audience, her dedication to the craft.
I lie.
FarFarAway
09-26-23, 17:16
I dated a self-absorbed, brain-dead (but insanely hot) 19 year old once. The biggest problem for me was having to interact with her for more than 30 minutes. Clothes, TV stars, how her friends or family were mean to her that day, just continual asinine nonsense and she never shut up. I usually numbed myself with alcohol. I'd sit in bed saying "I hate this broad, she has the worst personality in the world, I get no sleep when she's here, I should just get a sex doll" and then she'd come out of the shower naked and I'd forget what I was just thinking. Later I realized all pretty young women are like this, so I might as well fuck the hottest ones for as long as I can stand them and never get too invested.Everyone has their limits / values. I have had a couple of dates w / super hot SBs lately, but one was dumb as a post, and one was truly autistic. Super shy, inexperienced, and unskillful in bed, etc. In both cases, I just could not do the deed and politely excused myself. I fulfilled my part of the bargain for their time and our room, but afterward ghosted. I am very 'mature,' as the saying goes, perhaps I am past the stage where simple hotness is sufficient. I really need to learn this lesson, and make the M&G useful for myself, to avoid these aborted FCs in the future. I tend to say 'oh, she's so damn hot, how can I miss out on this kitty even though there are these issues I can see?' But it doesn't work for me.
FarFarAway
09-26-23, 17:35
There's a reason we are in the bowl though. When traveling I met up w / a girl who was super kinky about the age gap, she was introduced to it by watching porn, and the experience of being w / her was top level. I got this from her afterward.
IronClad999
09-27-23, 10:28
There's a reason we are in the bowl though. When traveling I met up w / a girl who was super kinky about the age gap, she was introduced to it by watching porn, and the experience of being w / her was top level. I got this from her afterward.Hard to resist stuff like that; maybe go with the flow LOL.
SteveTandberg
09-27-23, 16:47
I've been using SA off and on since before 2015. Over time I realized that there was value in starting over. My tastes changed. My approach changed. The PPM / donation changed. Certain girls that would block me were accessible again.
This time around, I got curious about what wealth levels and body descriptions would attract certain sbs. So on this free profile, I changed it up a bit. Stayed with my ethnic category and age but increased height and upped the wealth / income.
Wealth matters although I have no idea of the quality of SBs that wealth attracts. Could be more scammers.
Since it's a free account I can't send or read messages but for sure it receives significantly more attention than the profile I use. I found some guy that kind of looks like me and use his photo but modified it so it's not him anymore.
Then through the reddit Sugarlife forum, I found out how to discretely check the activity of the sbs I'm seeing.
Just favorite them on the alternate profile and view Last Active. The timing isn't precise but according to the reddit guys, online activity is accurate to 1 hour of use. Past that, even if you're logged in but not using the site, it doesn't show your profile as active.
Can anyone confirm that? I haven't made a female profile so I have no way of checking that.
Seeing a SB you're seeing constantly active on the site helps me make better decisions on my interactions. Definitely an eye opener especially when you see a SB you're seeing reach out to this fake profile. I had a SB date and within 2 hours of her leaving, she was back on the site.
Anyone else do this?
Sorta, not exactly. I work in a large organization. Thousands of people at this location. There are definitely some girls who are also here who are candidates to show up on SA. I have for the most part been careful about this, figuring if I was seeing someone from my organization, there is a much greater chance of her coming across my IRL identity (of course I have a sugar story that doesn't involve my working here). So once those POTs divulged that they were here, I just blocked them and went on. Too many fish in the sea and all.
However, I am just now sorely tempted to violate my rules. I have a hankering to bang an Indian-American girl, and there is a POT right now who really floats my boat. And in my organization. Absolutely gorgeous. She is in a department far from mine (subject-wise and physically). We've spoken by phone and she is interested, though I am above her age range. Hence she wants to see full pix. Even those that have been sanitized to avoid facial recognition, someone at this organization upon seeing them could recognize me. Of course, this girl likely doesn't want anyone knowing that she is active on the site either.
She says her last arrangement ended about a month ago. She is hot enough she won't have to wait long to get some new offers. Carpe diem.I don't know what kind of financial stakes you have at risk, but you might want to listen to the rationale part of you that made the rules in the first place. I'm not sure you could ever under-estimate the amount of embarrassment a person would be willing to put up with, especially someone younger than you (or, generally, of the younger generations), and even more so if they have less to lose. She might be able to start over, but what are your odds if the worst were to happen and you became the talk of your organization? Just food for thought.
I've been using SA off and on since before 2015. Over time I realized that there was value in starting over. My tastes changed. My approach changed. The PPM / donation changed. Certain girls that would block me were accessible again.
This time around, I got curious about what wealth levels and body descriptions would attract certain sbs. So on this free profile, I changed it up a bit. Stayed with my ethnic category and age but increased height and upped the wealth / income.
Wealth matters although I have no idea of the quality of SBs that wealth attracts. Could be more scammers.
Since it's a free account I can't send or read messages but for sure it receives significantly more attention than the profile I use. I found some guy that kind of looks like me and use his photo but modified it so it's not him anymore.
Then through the reddit Sugarlife forum, I found out how to discretely check the activity of the sbs I'm seeing.
Just favorite them on the alternate profile and view Last Active. The timing isn't precise but according to the reddit guys, online activity is accurate to 1 hour of use. Past that, even if you're logged in but not using the site, it doesn't show your profile as active.
Can anyone confirm that? I haven't made a female profile so I have no way of checking that.
Seeing a SB you're seeing constantly active on the site helps me make better decisions on my interactions. Definitely an eye opener especially when you see a SB you're seeing reach out to this fake profile. I had a SB date and within 2 hours of her leaving, she was back on the site.
Anyone else do this?Funny you mention it, I was just online with a second profile I have had for a while but haven't really used. Had a first date today with a girl that I thought went well. Immediately afterward her profile was either deactivated or she blocked me. I was curious which it was so went to the second profile, searched for her and did not find her. Hopefully this means she was BSing me when she said she was only looking for one person. I will reach out to her in a day or two and see what happens.
SteveTandberg
09-27-23, 20:03
Funny you mention it, I was just online with a second profile I have had for a while but haven't really used. Had a first date today with a girl that I thought went well. Immediately afterward her profile was either deactivated or she blocked me. I was curious which it was so went to the second profile, searched for her and did not find her. Hopefully this means she was BSing me when she said she was only looking for one person. I will reach out to her in a day or two and see what happens.100% effective to determine if she blocks you. Theoretically she could take herself out of search but most girls don't do that. SB 2 times ago did that and does that so she can't be searched. Then occasionally she will pop on to answer messages and look for other SDs.
I don't know what kind of financial stakes you have at risk, but you might want to listen to the rationale part of you that made the rules in the first place. I'm not sure you could ever under-estimate the amount of embarrassment a person would be willing to put up with, especially someone younger than you (or, generally, of the younger generations), and even more so if they have less to lose. She might be able to start over, but what are your odds if the worst were to happen and you became the talk of your organization? Just food for thought.I concur. I know it's easier over time for folks like Far and me (married) to relax the rules a bit, then a bit more, and so on. But it's just not worth it. You spend a career building a professional reputation and it can be destroyed with a text.
FarFarAway
09-28-23, 11:55
Not sure my concerns are clear. My worry is just that, being at the same place, the chance is greater that I could run into a SB IRL, and she would thereby surmise my true identity, and would therefore have something to hold over me, vis-a-vis my SO, for example.
I would presume a young woman w / a professional ambition would have the same concern w / discretion on the site, and would do as much as I am to keep my participation in the sugar bowl on the DL. I don't envision anyone disclosing in my organization I am a SD.
I guess if someone were really crazy, they could make a Title IX filing against me if they found me out, but this does not seem likely. I keep all sorts of records and screenshots, that there is consensual relationship is easily shown.
It's a lot of work swimming in the sugar bowl. The SB's deluge you, but it's nice, a little like the strippers in the club stopping by. Some of these girls have game, others are just "wan to get together tonight? My number is _ In LA every single girl wanted $1,000! Crazy, before Covid was the last time I did this and it was $300 for most and supermodels wanted $500. I think I have a little some game and even so, that didn't work. Although there was an Asian (Grace) with GPS but was hot, but not worth $1 K.
I think I found one for tomorrow, but this shit is tiring!
IronClad999
09-29-23, 08:11
I concur. I know it's easier over time for folks like Far and me (married) to relax the rules a bit, then a bit more, and so on. But it's just not worth it. You spend a career building a professional reputation and it can be destroyed with a text.Most of the times we have way more to lose than the providers themselves; that's the gaming structure in this market.
Christophe1
09-29-23, 12:18
It's a lot of work swimming in the sugar bowl. The SB's deluge you, but it's nice, a little like the strippers in the club stopping by. Some of these girls have game, others are just "wan to get together tonight? My number is _ In LA every single girl wanted $1,000! Crazy, before Covid was the last time I did this and it was $300 for most and supermodels wanted $500. I think I have a little some game and even so, that didn't work. Although there was an Asian (Grace) with GPS but was hot, but not worth $1 K.
I think I found one for tomorrow, but this shit is tiring!Thanks for the incite. I always felt stupid sitting on the computer for hours trying to hook up with women who wanted some form of transactional relationship while I was missing out on life. Then I realized it is much easier to meet women out and about in the real world. I can take my computer anywhere, like the beach, coffee shop, even on top of Runyon Canyon, and hand out In and Out burgers to the hikers as they pass by. Maybe set up a table in the early morning and give out the Krispy Kremes. It is actually easier to meet hot women this way since most guys aren't approaching them. Online a woman is going to treat you like an ATM and you compete with lots of losers who may have more money than you. Having grown up with Hollywooders the question many of them had was are we REAL friends or is it just about the money? I guess reality has become the web world, and no one wants to be their true self covering their skin with tattoos, dying their hair, filling themselves with toy parts and buying their encounters. The hand we've been dealt.
I met prettyprincessxxx a year ago for dinner, I gave her a small allowance for that platonic date. She insisted on bringing a friend and I relented because she's fantastically gorgeous. Never heard from her again.
Messaging her now, she doesn't remember me from my new profile (fine by me). She wants $350 for platonic date, I couldn't talk her down for anything. . . I've already learned my lesson.
If anyone wants to spend $350 to likely get nowhere with a gorgeous gal, let us know if you can get past the rinser stage!
https://members.seeking.com/member/d9f49ec0-6cda-458a-8d2a-928b8a3cc31d
I met prettyprincessxxx a year ago for dinner, I gave her a small allowance for that platonic date. She insisted on bringing a friend and I relented because she's fantastically gorgeous. Never heard from her again.
Messaging her now, she doesn't remember me from my new profile (fine by me). She wants $350 for platonic date, I couldn't talk her down for anything. . . I've already learned my lesson.
If anyone wants to spend $350 to likely get nowhere with a gorgeous gal, let us know if you can get past the rinser stage!
https://members.seeking.com/member/d9f49ec0-6cda-458a-8d2a-928b8a3cc31dEverything about her profile shows she's not interested in hooking up for cash help. She even says a pretty girl on his shoulder. That's speak for being just arm candy. I've hooked up with babies just as pretty for less than that. Like you said lesson learned. Just reading that profile I would have skipped over it and tagged GPS right off the bat.
MidnightDabber
09-29-23, 16:11
I met up with an sb a few times then out of nowhere told me she is burnt out on sex work and sugaring. I was wondering if you guys heard this and if they ever come back to sex work? How would you guys deal with someone like this? Ignore her? Block her? Keep it open ended so she can come back?
I met up with an sb a few times then out of nowhere told me she is burnt out on sex work and sugaring. I was wondering if you guys heard this and if they ever come back to sex work? How would you guys deal with someone like this? Ignore her? Block her? Keep it open ended so she can come back?I have had multiple girls that I hadn't seen in a while for one reason or another hit me up wanting to get together again. If you want to see her again keep the lines open.
I met up with an sb a few times then out of nowhere told me she is burnt out on sex work and sugaring. I was wondering if you guys heard this and if they ever come back to sex work? How would you guys deal with someone like this? Ignore her? Block her? Keep it open ended so she can come back?That's not really a sugar baby anymore. And can be considered a pro or UTR at this point. Sounds like she's seeing multiple guys as well.
While she probably won't call herself a Pro or UTR and use the nicer term sugarbaby as her label. That's technically what she is now. If the price is right with her and you like what she offers in the sack. Then it's up to you if you want to keep seeing her or just keep communications open for the future.
The only time I've had a girl refer to it as something in terms as "sex work" is when negotiating in the beginning. Where some girls, who are completely fresh / new to arrangements might say they feel like a hooker or pro if they take money for sex. Then I discuss with them not to see it that way and just see it as help. Most of the time that convinces them to give it a shot and start the arrangement with me. But a few still can't see themselves doing it and it's a no go. I just move on the next girl.
HollywoodGuy
09-29-23, 22:05
That's not really a sugar baby anymore. And can be considered a pro or UTR at this point. Sounds like she's seeing multiple guys as well.
While she probably won't call herself a Pro or UTR and use the nicer term sugarbaby as her label. That's technically what she is now. If the price is right with her and you like what she offers in the sack. Then it's up to you if you want to keep seeing her or just keep communications open for the future.
The only time I've had a girl refer to it as something in terms as "sex work" is when negotiating in the beginning. Where some girls, who are completely fresh / new to arrangements might say they feel like a hooker or pro if they take money for sex. Then I discuss with them not to see it that way and just see it as help. Most of the time that convinces them to give it a shot and start the arrangement with me. But a few still can't see themselves doing it and it's a no go. I just move on the next girl.The quintessential SB in the way that many new SD's would like to define them (a first timer, or at least monogamous), barely exists after the age of 20 and sometimes much younger. And if they do fall into that practically unicorn status, I prefer to tell them they are getting an allowance for being a good little girl. But honestly I have rarely had that conversation in the way that you describe it. But I have had a few flake on me mid-date for the reasons you allude to. Not even a HJ.
Also I just bought a snappy new euro suv, but as I like to low ball I will continue to pick them up in one of my older model cars. Not that I have much dough anyway. But very easy for a young girl to confuse a normal car payment with someone that might have a few dollars. Although none of them would confuse my humble abode as anyone with serious money.
So never flash the car, the cash, the house, the watch or the job. I always describe myself as just a hard working guy. Code for struggling a bit in these bidenomic times, because no girl even cares how much money you have, only how much you are willing to spend. I have been a jeans and t-shirt guy my entire life. Game is all about communication, nothing more.
IronClad999
09-29-23, 22:16
Thanks for the incite. I always felt stupid sitting on the computer for hours trying to hook up with women who wanted some form of transactional relationship while I was missing out on life. Then I realized it is much easier to meet women out and about in the real world. I can take my computer anywhere, like the beach, coffee shop, even on top of Runyon Canyon, and hand out In and Out burgers to the hikers as they pass by. Maybe set up a table in the early morning and give out the Krispy Kremes. It is actually easier to meet hot women this way since most guys aren't approaching them. Online a woman is going to treat you like an ATM and you compete with lots of losers who may have more money than you. Having grown up with Hollywooders the question many of them had was are we REAL friends or is it just about the money? I guess reality has become the web world, and no one wants to be their true self covering their skin with tattoos, dying their hair, filling themselves with toy parts and buying their encounters. The hand we've been dealt.Pretty challenging to find genuine partners nowadays chris; esp on top of jaded chicks / brainwashed with materialistic characters that's blinding them into gps tactics (gold shovelers). Its more damaging on our end if we try wasting our time vs them chasing us; so much ego games esp when they show their true colors before the prenups LOL.
IronClad999
09-29-23, 22:17
It's a lot of work swimming in the sugar bowl. The SB's deluge you, but it's nice, a little like the strippers in the club stopping by. Some of these girls have game, others are just "wan to get together tonight? My number is _ In LA every single girl wanted $1,000! Crazy, before Covid was the last time I did this and it was $300 for most and supermodels wanted $500. I think I have a little some game and even so, that didn't work. Although there was an Asian (Grace) with GPS but was hot, but not worth $1 K.
I think I found one for tomorrow, but this shit is tiring!This chick is ok hot borderline; but if many guys mrsp on her is 1 k, theres a good chance she'll jack it to 2 k soon cas she thinks enough peeps will fall for the pussy.
IronClad999
09-29-23, 22:19
I've met several girls on SA who actually do have profiles on rover.
Go for it!Sounds reliable vs other common themed sites; less chance of bugs and fishy plots respectfully.
FarFarAway
09-30-23, 12:35
Sounds reliable vs other common themed sites; less chance of bugs and fishy plots respectfully.Ummmmmm, Huh?
BigBear818
09-30-23, 14:06
I met prettyprincessxxx a year ago for dinner, I gave her a small allowance for that platonic date. She insisted on bringing a friend and I relented because she's fantastically gorgeous. Never heard from her again.
Messaging her now, she doesn't remember me from my new profile (fine by me). She wants $350 for platonic date, I couldn't talk her down for anything. . . I've already learned my lesson.
If anyone wants to spend $350 to likely get nowhere with a gorgeous gal, let us know if you can get past the rinser stage!
https://members.seeking.com/member/d9f49ec0-6cda-458a-8d2a-928b8a3cc31dBased on her photos, she looks like she's catfishing for guys to spend money on her, but she isn't going to put out in return which is a waste of time and resources.
Anyone else getting "I'm surprised you don't have someone Dominant in your life" screened over your incoming / outgoing messages in their inbox? Archived inbox messages are normal tho.
Are they watching me?Clear your inbox.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9f4faa20-57b9-4a27-b1bd-f0f89fc457d2
Just saw her. Said she's leaving back to vegas tomorrow. BBFS 300 no cip. No kissing, no bjs unless covered.
Will ask for the cash first but then bounce right after you nut.
Why I like giving the cash after the date. Every time I've given it before they try to bounce asap. She was kinda hot tho with a nice body but still. At least it wasn't a rob I suppose. Just robbed of my second nut.
Based on her photos, she looks like she's catfishing for guys to spend money on her, but she isn't going to put out in return which is a waste of time and resources.Why I don't believe in paid meet and greets. There's no guarantee of ever moving forward and they can just keep stringing you along. Plus many do that as a side hustle with no intentions of ever doing anything. If you got the time and resources to blow then sure. I know I don't. If they got "I'm not an escort / prostitute / etc" on their profile, chances are they're just lookin for paid meet and greets.
She's prob attractive enough to get that tho and obvs has gotten it so kudos to her. When they're attractive enough then they can get away with shit like that or really high asks such as 1 k+. I'm sure most of us would have no qualms dropping racks for your favorite celeb crush who we'd consider a 10. The worst are average to below average girls thinking they can get or deserve the same offers / treatments as 10's because they read some post on Reddit. That's when I consider it gps. Then again we're living in a time where every girl thinks she's a 10 nowadays. Maybe that's why there's so much gps going around.
I just try to stick to my guns with 2-400. Sure I may not be getting the hottest all the time but at least its what Id consider fair. Of course Ive offered higher at times, but thats cuz theyre attractive enough to me or offering other things such as an overnight or something. I kinda have this thing where if they have min 25k+ followers or verified then I offer minimum 500 cuz I get a kick out of banging some hot insta model knowing that hundreds of simps are in her dms. Highest follower count Ive banged was almost half a mil. Got a couple semi famous insta models on the line but theyre all asking 500 minimum. Its kinda expected tho when they reach a certain point of fame.
Stick to your guns and don’t get discouraged my fellow kings. Don’t let these hoes walk all over u, discourage, or talk shit calling u broke and stuff. Obvs they’re the broke ones if they’re on the site and we’re the ones paying. The market is competitive so unless they’re a 9-10 which 95% ain’t, they gotta learn to compete or don’t get seen. And of course don’t EVER pay before ever meeting. No deposits or online bs, not even 5 bucks for “gas,” cuz you’re just asking to get robbed, and you will be. I wouldn’t even give Emily ratajkowski 20 bucks for gas prior to meeting. Just saying.
HollywoodGuy
10-05-23, 06:11
Someone was asking about this. Personally I can not read more than one story without puking.
https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/?rdt=48479
HollywoodGuy
10-05-23, 06:15
https://members.seeking.com/member/9f4faa20-57b9-4a27-b1bd-f0f89fc457d2
Just saw her. Said she's leaving back to vegas tomorrow. BBFS 300 no cip. No kissing, no bjs unless covered.
Will ask for the cash first but then bounce right after you nut.
Why I like giving the cash after the date. Every time I've given it before they try to bounce asap. She was kinda hot tho with a nice body but still. At least it wasn't a rob I suppose. Just robbed of my second nut.Being a little older (and wiser)? I never pay upfront... ever.
I am a one and done kind of guy. But as I can last any length of time I occasionally get a laugh when some pro starts pushing me to nut after 15 or 20 minutes. 45 minutes is my minimum and I'll go the distance if she's down. But I always get a little smirk going when they realize they are gonna have to work for it, knowing there could be some drama if they don't. And If I want a second nut it's only gonna be with a girl I am truly hanging with or doing an overnite.
But in the chatting stage I always tell them my allowance is for an hour of their time. So yeah, I'm a clock watcher.
Ace McNasty
10-05-23, 11:00
Ace since you can't' get PM, I want to ask you here, about an escort you posted about, Colette, big tits. I have met someone who might meet that definition, but on a sugar site. A 40 YO MILF. I don't want to pay steak prices for hamburger, YK? Do you think it could be the same woman?You could have met me halfway by telling me her SA username or profile link. I doubt we are talking about the same woman. I am not going to post her face pics but you can check my Colette's massive boobs.
If you still are unable to identify her, I suggest you hire an FBI informant.
Federal Boob Inspector.
This chick is ok hot borderline; but if many guys mrsp on her is 1 k, theres a good chance she'll jack it to 2 k soon cas she thinks enough peeps will fall for the pussy.I can tell you it's eye opening when you read the reddit forum sugarlifestyle. You would see bunch of SB's talk about ways to get more money out of you and how much they should charge. Plus, you can see some of the simps who play SD. They are the ones bending over backward and agreeing to those offers. So unless the simps would go away, things will continue to inflate more but hold your line. I have met plenty cute and good looking girls who want only 300. A lot of times, they just want to see me and go out to eat or movie without asking for anything. So hold the line!
Someone was asking about this. Personally I can not read more than one story without puking.
https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/?rdt=48479I was a member of that forum until I got kicked off. I really didn't mind being kicked off. I read it for about three months before they figure it out I was a guy.
It's pretty repetitive. It's just a community of girls, encouraging each other to ask for unreasonable amounts and have unreasonable expectations.
I was finally out it when I called it out. It was something like "all of you who think there are guys lining up to do multiple dates without sex, pay a thousand dollars or more, you're crazy. And a guy is not a Splenda daddy or cheap if he doesn't buy you an LV bag. He's a fool if he does. And get your priorities straight. You are going to be hot and young for like five more minutes. You have guys willing to give you pretty reasonable sized chunks of cash at a time and you want to buy handbags and heels? Who are you trying to impress? Every time you were that bag, you are going to have to confront how you earned it. Wouldn't you rather invest in your future?
That and a few other things. Got me tossed.
FarFarAway
10-05-23, 16:17
You could have met me halfway by telling me her SA username or profile link. I doubt we are talking about the same woman. I am not going to post her face pics but you can check my Colette's massive boobs.
If you still are unable to identify her, I suggest you hire an FBI informant.
Federal Boob Inspector.I posted inquiries to you on several different threads, both escorts and sugar, and in LA and OC, including one that had her photo w / the face half cut off. My Colette is a blond, so yours isn't the same chick. You can look at my post if you want to compare.
JollyJohnRoger
10-05-23, 21:26
Princess Peach.
Posts locations in LA and OC.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-5fda3e7d7caa
The pics are hot, for sure, but IRL and in her head, she's a nuclear bomb.
She wants 1 k for covered, vanilla sex per meet, clock watching.
She is "open to" back door action, depending upon size. Guess how much more?
"That would need some serious spoiling, and depends on your size. I'm petite, after all.
How much more spoiling?
2 k more. ".
3 k for a one time, non-overnight covered session with a cute butt, cute face (7/10), tiny boobs and maybe Greek!
Don't say you weren't warned.
PantyPatrol1
10-06-23, 14:21
I was a member of that forum until I got kicked off. I really didn't mind being kicked off. I read it for about three months before they figure it out I was a guy.
It's pretty repetitive. It's just a community of girls, encouraging each other to ask for unreasonable amounts and have unreasonable expectations.
I was finally out it when I called it out. It was something like "all of you who think there are guys lining up to do multiple dates without sex, pay a thousand dollars or more, you're crazy. And a guy is not a Splenda daddy or cheap if he doesn't buy you an LV bag. He's a fool if he does. And get your priorities straight. You are going to be hot and young for like five more minutes. You have guys willing to give you pretty reasonable sized chunks of cash at a time and you want to buy handbags and heels? Who are you trying to impress? Every time you were that bag, you are going to have to confront how you earned it. Wouldn't you rather invest in your future?
That and a few other things. Got me tossed.The average age is 30+ I would be willing to bet. A lot of huffing and puffing from a few frequent contributors making it seem like its raining benji's and that all the SDs are frauds or con men. Who wants to deal with that jaded BS?
MidnightDabber
10-06-23, 19:29
Princess Peach.
Posts locations in LA and OC.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-5fda3e7d7caa
The pics are hot, for sure, but IRL and in her head, she's a nuclear bomb.
She wants 1 k for covered, vanilla sex per meet, clock watching.
She is "open to" back door action, depending upon size. Guess how much more?
"That would need some serious spoiling, and depends on your size. I'm petite, after all.
How much more spoiling?
2 k more. ".
3 k for a one time, non-overnight covered session with a cute butt, cute face (7/10), tiny boobs and maybe Greek!
Don't say you weren't warned.You paid thousands for one girl?
Spare me the info about what I should have done please. Just posting this so no one else goes through what I did.
This girl seemed innocent enough. We had good convos over text. No red flags or areas of concern that stood out. Decided to meet this morning at a hotel. Sent her $$$ through an app. As soon as the money came through she started screaming for help and bee lined to the door. I fought with her for a second but then my brain took over and I just pushed her out through the door and let her go.
Lesson learned. Just beware of this ***** so you don't get caught up like I did. Unfortunately I can no longer access her profile but her username was miumiu_99 pics I posted are of her. Goes by Daysia or Lala. Phone ended in 1112.
FarFarAway
10-07-23, 00:01
Spare me the info about what I should have done please. Just posting this so no one else goes through what I did.
This girl seemed innocent enough. We had good convos over text. No red flags or areas of concern that stood out. Decided to meet this morning at a hotel. Sent her $$$ through an app. As soon as the money came through she started screaming for help and bee lined to the door. I fought with her for a second but then my brain took over and I just pushed her out through the door and let her go.
Lesson learned. Just beware of this ***** so you don't get caught up like I did. Unfortunately I can no longer access her profile but her username was miumiu_99 pics I posted are of her. Goes by Daysia or Lala. Phone ended in 1112.Wow, that could happen to any of us. Though I never use an app, I pay cash, and never until after. So I presumably would not have had that issue. But I'd predict she'd never have gone to a room w / me if she knew that is what I did.
PantyPatrol1
10-07-23, 13:03
I didn't post the link but its on the site many have commented on here. They are doing their intel and the comments indicate some of these SBs are total haters.
HollywoodGuy
10-07-23, 16:05
I didn't post the link but its on the site many have commented on here. They are doing their intel and the comments indicate some of these SBs are total haters.You mean all of them. Sprinle sprinkle. IYKYK.
JollyJohnRoger
10-07-23, 22:49
You paid thousands for one girl?No, she suggested 1 k per meet, 3 k for greek. My post was a PSA.
I didn't post the link but its on the site many have commented on here. They are doing their intel and the comments indicate some of these SBs are total haters.Thank you. I've been reading the posts. Hilarious!
LimpAndSmall
10-08-23, 00:03
Anyone know what this app is, where to find?
Posted today on the other site.
"I usually ask how's their experience with Seeking, ask them to tell me about their previous arrangements, and what they have in mind if we decide to proceed with arrangement, we talk about whether they need discretion, etc. Then I usually proceed to texting. I ask for their number, check it through that app where you can read reviews from other SBs, check if it's a real phone on another site if it's a real phone. If yes, I'll be able to see his real name, oftentimes it will show their address, real age, socials etc. If there are no red flags, I'll text them from my burner number and usually I'll try to talk about money asap. ".
At the least, everyone should regularly change burner number. I do.
Someone was asking about this. Personally I can not read more than one story without puking.
https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/?rdt=48479You can't take anything on that forum too seriously. There's a story of a girl 27 yo, 5'6, 170 lbs (you know, fat) who claims to get 10 k a month plus gifts from 1 guy on a regular basis. It's laughable.
No matter the question from the SB, the collective answer is always the same: he's too cheap, dump him, don't under-value yourself, you are a victim in your story. Every. Single. Damn. Time.
Also, every SD is a liar but it's totally ok for girls to lie to their BF / husband about sugaring or lie to your SD. Shocking, right?
It's worth a quick read for the laughs but you're seeing mental issues in real time.
Anyone know what this app is, where to find?
Posted today on the other site.
"I usually ask how's their experience with Seeking, ask them to tell me about their previous arrangements, and what they have in mind if we decide to proceed with arrangement, we talk about whether they need discretion, etc. Then I usually proceed to texting. I ask for their number, check it through that app where you can read reviews from other SBs, check if it's a real phone on another site if it's a real phone. If yes, I'll be able to see his real name, oftentimes it will show their address, real age, socials etc. If there are no red flags, I'll text them from my burner number and usually I'll try to talk about money asap. ".
At the least, everyone should regularly change burner number. I do.
I'm pretty sure it's MrNumber, but that only has reviews from other SBs and possibly your name if you are silly enough to use your registered phone.
I've never seen age or socials on there. But, I think the girl posting is saying that if MrNumber shows name or "real phone" she can lookup name, address, age, socials.
If anyone knows anywhere else they are leaving reviews, I'd like to know.
Just a heads up to all. You can also find names, home and email addresses by doing a phone number search here:
https://www.familytreenow.com/
Search for yourself by name or (real) number. You might be surprised at the accuracy of some of it, but the dates of residency at some of the addresses listed are off. This is why you should always use a burner number. It's free to search.
HollywoodGuy
10-09-23, 12:07
Just a heads up to all. You can also find names, home and email addresses by doing a phone number search here:
https://www.familytreenow.com/
Search for yourself by name or (real) number. You might be surprised at the accuracy of some of it, but the dates of residency at some of the addresses listed are off. This is why you should always use a burner number. It's free to search.It's a pain in the ass. But you should remove your name from all public records. I spent maybe 6 hours one day doing it a couple years ago. And it narrowed down my name popping up except in relationship to a few business entities I am connected too. But an SB would never see those anyway as they would have to have my real number to find them. Also my real picture is not posted anywhere online and never has been. And the pic I use on seeking is real but it was only taken for my seeking profile.
Google your name, any past addresses and phone #'s. You may also want to google any immediate family. And have zero social media if possible.
Gidden Lade
10-10-23, 11:57
It's a pain in the ass. But you should remove your name from all public records. I spent maybe 6 hours one day doing it a couple years ago. And it narrowed down my name popping up except in relationship to a few business entities I am connected too. But an SB would never see those anyway as they would have to have my real number to find them. Also my real picture is not posted anywhere online and never has been. And the pic I use on seeking is real but it was only taken for my seeking profile.
Google your name, any past addresses and phone #'s. You may also want to google any immediate family. And have zero social media if possible.Sounds like great advice. I don't do social media either & have no pictures online. No wife or kids either. All that being said do you think it's safe to use my regular credit card to pay for SA? The prepaid ones seem to be giving everyone so much trouble I was wondering if it's even worth the hassle of trying to find one that works.
HollywoodGuy
10-11-23, 00:49
Sounds like great advice. I don't do social media either & have no pictures online. No wife or kids either. All that being said do you think it's safe to use my regular credit card to pay for SA? The prepaid ones seem to be giving everyone so much trouble I was wondering if it's even worth the hassle of trying to find one that works.I have always used my regular CC for seeking. Only married guys need to cover that up.
I think this young lady is in SA.
https://www.pornhub.com/video/search?search=susie+stellar.
IronClad999
10-11-23, 11:21
I have always used my regular CC for seeking. Only married guys need to cover that up.Sometimes they accept gift cards too, but rare, and if not then ATM is another gig.
HollywoodGuy
10-11-23, 13:54
I decided to renew my seeking membership. I spent the last four months hosting my long term x GF, even though she lives in my apt complex, she slept here the whole time. But both our schedules are changing dramatically due to work (and she found a same age BF) so I pray she gets her stuff out of here in a day or two.
Going to jump start with a date with another long term SB that just moved to vegas a few days ago. If she really settles in here I would probably see her at least once a week. Sent maybe eight messages today. Seems the pickens are a bit slim right now. But no rush.
I think this young lady is in SA.
https://www.pornhub.com/video/search?search=susie+stellar.Have a profile link?
KathmanDouche
10-12-23, 19:16
She looks good but at 700, seemed a bit much.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6a507a0e-ab45-44d0-ae11-3335a39b55b0
Chupacabra
10-13-23, 02:02
She looks good but at 700, seemed a bit much.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6a507a0e-ab45-44d0-ae11-3335a39b55b0I also passed. Too expensive and I got kind of a scammy vibe, like she's one that would try to take the money upfront and then come up with an urgent reason to leave 15 minutes later.
This girl is willing to come over but would rather you get a hotel. 700 for BBFS with cip. Negotiated it but never pulled the trigger so no idea of service.
https://members.seeking.com/member/91d023c1-224e-4d39-b55a-23d13d665aea
FarFarAway
10-13-23, 16:18
This girl is willing to come over but would rather you get a hotel. 700 for BBFS with cip. Negotiated it but never pulled the trigger so no idea of service.
https://members.seeking.com/member/91d023c1-224e-4d39-b55a-23d13d665aeaPic of her in a cheap hotel room suggests she is a traveling escort. I'd bet she would like to come over for that amount.
DanSommerKamp
10-13-23, 23:46
Sorry but SA has really gone to shit. I get the crazy allowance quotes, digital content sellers who go inactive after a couple of days and see many platonic daters seeking "chemistry & connection who aren't on for sex". Many "SBs" on there are acting like its a dating site now. Its not what it used to be.
If you believe that she's a 10 and don't mind spending $1 k on her while her creep bf / pimp is stalking you from afar as you mentioned, then have fun with her. It's your money and hopefully the bf / pimp will go away or mysteriously disappears.So I saw this girl for 5 months, for a LOT less than 1 k / per visit. More like 1 k / week with uber rides and uber eats.
She is INSANELY sexual. She is hot, super clean, but super super super messed up.
Her booker / pimp / BF Randy is normally you who are talking to, and they will suck the life out of you. Randy sucks the money out of you.
Sia / Maria (not her real name) sucks everything else. The girl is multi-orgasmic, and LOOOOVES greek. Randy, however, doesn't like her.
Doing it, with him or anyone else, LOL. Two Red Flags that I was talking to Randy: 1. He orders and UNGODLY amount of food, no possible.
Way she eats it all. Rest assured that a family of 3 guys, and 1 woman weighing 108 pounds was well fed. 2. He didn't acknowledge the.
Stuff we did during our sesh, especially trips to the islands.
She comes every 2 to 3 minutes, non-stop, one of the wildest women I've ever met.
What did it for me was when I caught her recording sessions and sending the recordings to her pimp.
This crap had to be going on with lots of people, who probably got Randy's texting app details, because a bunch of.
Maria's regulars got warning texts, as well as warnings to LE. Someone got burned, and bad.
Hot as fuck, but seriously fucked up in every way you can imagine. Like every addiction, you got to walk away.
Interesting article on the experience of "influencers" and LA party girls.
https://www.businessinsider.com/moved-to-los-angeles-influencer-party-culture-toxic-2023-10
On my very first night in LA, I got blackout drunk. I'm not mad at myself for that, it was my first night. But then I did it for three months straight. Every single night, I was drinking, going out. I lost all motivation for content creating.
I was hanging out with people I'd met on social media, we were going to parties in mansions. In LA, people use partying as a distraction from their responsibilities.
These usually aren't normal parties — there's a list, and you have to bring your I'd to match the name on the list, and those who are not on the list will sometimes just jump fences and sneak in. A lot of people in LA want to live the celebrity life, without actually being celebrities.
BigBear818
10-15-23, 16:11
So I saw this girl for 5 months, for a LOT less than 1 k / per visit. More like 1 k / week with uber rides and uber eats.
She is INSANELY sexual. She is hot, super clean, but super super super messed up.
Her booker / pimp / BF Randy is normally you who are talking to, and they will suck the life out of you. Randy sucks the money out of you.
Sia / Maria (not her real name) sucks everything else. The girl is multi-orgasmic, and LOOOOVES greek. Randy, however, doesn't like her.
Doing it, with him or anyone else, LOL. Two Red Flags that I was talking to Randy: 1. He orders and UNGODLY amount of food, no possible.
Way she eats it all. Rest assured that a family of 3 guys, and 1 woman weighing 108 pounds was well fed. 2. He didn't acknowledge the.
Stuff we did during our sesh, especially trips to the islands.
She comes every 2 to 3 minutes, non-stop, one of the wildest women I've ever met.
What did it for me was when I caught her recording sessions and sending the recordings to her pimp.
This crap had to be going on with lots of people, who probably got Randy's texting app details, because a bunch of.
Maria's regulars got warning texts, as well as warnings to LE. Someone got burned, and bad.
Hot as fuck, but seriously fucked up in every way you can imagine. Like every addiction, you got to walk away.Wow, I appreciate your feedback and very good intel. The Pimp / Booker / BF definitely got a nice check from you and kept him well feed, LOL.
LoveFromFrank
10-15-23, 19:37
Does this part of the hobby provide better mileage per dollar than just getting a regular provider when the wallet permits? Trying to diversify as I'm always looking to branch out and have a good variety to choose from.
DanSommerKamp
10-15-23, 20:49
Wow, I appreciate your feedback and very good intel. The Pimp / Booker / BF definitely got a nice check from you and kept him well feed, LOL.It was really awesome while it lasted. Got to see her for multi-hour sessions 2 to 4 times a week, more so right after her period when she was insanely horny.
I didn't broadcast how good it was, on a very selfish basis.
Face was "ok" but the body and the sex was just incredible. She was incredibly flexible.
The details are provided because:
1. It was amazing, almost addicting.
2. Incredible value for money spent (I mean who gets to fuck for 3-4 hours at a time, 10 to 12 times a month, for $4 k?
3. It was sad to end it, but what did it was the texts from some other guy detailing the blackmail bullshit along with her recording and forwarding.
Goes to show you, if something is TGTBT, it usually is.
Volcanoes are interesting, amazing, and even beautiful. Problem is, get too close, and you don't get burned. You die. Hahaha.
She said for her safety she will have her friend Uber her. She send me a picture from the Uber and said she is on her way. A few minutes later she asked me if I can send her friend the money for Uber.
I told her I will give her cash when she gets to my place and that's the last thing I heard from her. Today I checked her profile and her location was in Mexico. I blocked her but be on the lookout for this new Uber scam.
FarFarAway
10-16-23, 16:43
Expects payment for M&G.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87fe412b-83c6-4952-a0a2-6a15e81c4beb
Expects payment for M&G.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87fe412b-83c6-4952-a0a2-6a15e81c4bebNot my experience with her. This a new profile for her but she's been around. Would uber her over, 500 ppm BBFS.
FarFarAway
10-17-23, 10:00
Not my experience with her. This a new profile for her but she's been around. Would uber her over, 500 ppm BBFS.Well, you only M&G someone once. Whenever you met her, she didn't do that. YMMV as the saying goes. I was last actively messaging her over a year ago. Haven't seen her profile since. She definitely would not meet me initially w / out payment. If she is just coming to your place w / o meeting, well that's what I call an escort. Sure, there are plenty of those on Seeking, just not my preference. And if you want a SB and she's a UTR escort, well, that's helpful info to have, isn't it?
PantyPatrol1
10-17-23, 11:47
SB: I need advice the POT texted me and asked me what I'm looking for.
Peanut Gallery: GIRL don't be a fool he's a john / stalker / rapist who's a splenda daddy-BLOCK IMMEDIATELY!
Depressing.
FarFarAway
10-17-23, 15:21
SB: I need advice the POT texted me and asked me what I'm looking for.
Peanut Gallery: GIRL don't be a fool he's a john / stalker / rapist who's a splenda daddy-BLOCK IMMEDIATELY!
Depressing.A prime reason a significant fraction of the females on SA are there is b / c they are tired of wishy-washy guys, like those her age. "Confidence is attractive / sexy". I have heard this a hundred times from POTs. They want a guy who has power, financial, physical, BDE. Don't ask what she's looking for. Don't brag (much), just give her the facts (provided they show you as the sort of man many SBs are looking for). Tell her what you are looking for. Even if it wasn't what was in her mind, she might be receptive. Play the role of a SD. Do all of this nicely / as a gentleman. You'll have a lot of SBs interested.
HollywoodGuy
10-17-23, 16:57
SB: I need advice the POT texted me and asked me what I'm looking for.
Peanut Gallery: GIRL don't be a fool he's a john / stalker / rapist who's a splenda daddy-BLOCK IMMEDIATELY!
Depressing.Plenty of willing and able girls to be had for fair market value. Not as many as before covid or whatever. But still enough.
I have just gone back on seeking and I have had to make a few adjustments. Mostly in the area of taller and older. lol. Which for a lot of you guys is a bonus. But I like them shorter and younger at below market rates. But I still see a lot of fine girls at $$ and $$$ (non-white).
BigBear818
10-17-23, 18:34
It was really awesome while it lasted. Got to see her for multi-hour sessions 2 to 4 times a week, more so right after her period when she was insanely horny.
I didn't broadcast how good it was, on a very selfish basis.
Face was "ok" but the body and the sex was just incredible. She was incredibly flexible.
The details are provided because:
1. It was amazing, almost addicting.
2. Incredible value for money spent (I mean who gets to fuck for 3-4 hours at a time, 10 to 12 times a month, for $4 k?
3. It was sad to end it, but what did it was the texts from some other guy detailing the blackmail bullshit along with her recording and forwarding.
Goes to show you, if something is TGTBT, it usually is.
Volcanoes are interesting, amazing, and even beautiful. Problem is, get too close, and you don't get burned. You die. Hahaha.$4 k / month is a good check for an average bottom feeding Joe like the pimp and girl, but her recording is a definite deal breaker for me for security concerns. I was tempted to test her out, but I own properties and can't afford her to be doing weird stuff like recording and sending out info to her broke pimp.
NutritionFacts
10-17-23, 23:23
I just heard back from an support request to restore my account and it was denied. They said if I try to get back on there will be "further consequences". What does this mean and has anyone ever not been unable to get on again after getting banned? I might wait a few months to try to get back on.
NutritionFacts
10-17-23, 23:24
Anyone have a pic of her for those of us banned from SA? I may have talked to her before.
Anyone have a pic of her for those of us banned from SA? I may have talked to her before.Search this thread for "asian sugar babies" and you'll see some pics.
I just heard back from an support request to restore my account and it was denied. They said if I try to get back on there will be "further consequences". What does this mean and has anyone ever not been unable to get on again after getting banned? I might wait a few months to try to get back on.I'm actually the first in line to be deterred by such language.
But in this case, I call BS. Future consequences? Like what? The site is totally legal. And there's zero chance they want to harm their reputation by doing anything untoward. This is just plain nonsense. Just get a vpn, some new pics, a new email address, and hop back on.
JollyJohnRoger
10-18-23, 20:26
Anyone have a pic of her for those of us banned from SA? I may have talked to her before.CherrySia. Here she is as of 6 months ago.
You were warned.
I have noticed a bunch of girls with "love" in their header. Gives the impression they are pros all with the same booker. Anyone have any experience with them?
Examples:
https://members.seeking.com/member/6091ce09-c0c9-4a3c-b3da-077827af1533
https://members.seeking.com/member/562099e7-e003-4050-b8be-ee741f18a4ba
https://members.seeking.com/member/8da8bca9-b83b-4cde-999b-b228e0a0307c
ILightEmUp
10-20-23, 01:33
https://members.seeking.com/member/d1075f3e-ad39-4f9e-8743-b09ba91ee643
Seems to be more of them.
I have noticed a bunch of girls with "love" in their header. Gives the impression they are pros all with the same booker. Anyone have any experience with them?
Examples:
https://members.seeking.com/member/6091ce09-c0c9-4a3c-b3da-077827af1533
https://members.seeking.com/member/562099e7-e003-4050-b8be-ee741f18a4ba
https://members.seeking.com/member/8da8bca9-b83b-4cde-999b-b228e0a0307c
IronClad999
10-20-23, 19:41
CherrySia. Here she is as of 6 months ago.
You were warned.Hope she's still in good shape and has extras if available, thanks man.
Hope she's still in good shape and has extras if available, thanks man.After reading the warnings and shit. You still considering hooking up with this chic? Be careful dude don't get blackmailed. Plenty of other cute young Asian girls on seeking that don't have a pimp boyfriend and are more of a true fresh sugarbaby. Not a prostitute. Seeking is meant to hopefully find a true fresh non-pro / sugarbaby. Not for pros.
BigBear818
10-22-23, 13:53
Almost all white / asians asking for 1 k+ and they're not even hot. Average at best. I pull hotter chicks on hinge / tinder.
Most of them feel like they are entitled and think they deserve to be put on a pedal stood, but the reality is that they shouldn't even be put on a foot stool. Like the Cherry Sia chic for example think she's a 10, but she's a 5-6 at best with a broke pimp that follows and she reports to. Not worth the hassle of me looking over my shoulder or a risk of me doing something that may put me in legal trouble.
KathmanDouche
10-22-23, 18:54
Most of them feel like they are entitled and think they deserve to be put on a pedal stood, but the reality is that they shouldn't even be put on a foot stool. Like the Cherry Sia chic for example think she's a 10, but she's a 5-6 at best with a broke pimp that follows and she reports to. Not worth the hassle of me looking over my shoulder or a risk of me doing something that may put me in legal trouble.I'm personally not really attracted to Asian women, at all really, so I just don't get that at all. But there are many, many, K-girls and shit all over the region, why seek a conceded ones with GPS on Seeking?
NutritionFacts
10-22-23, 19:13
What happened to them? Is Sugaring past its peak?
HollywoodGuy
10-22-23, 21:48
What happened to them? Is Sugaring past its peak?As far as I can see it is. Less girls in general, less young newbies. Higher prices. Not talking about asian girls, just in general.
I'm personally not really attracted to Asian women, at all really, so I just don't get that at all. But there are many, many, K-girls and shit all over the region, why seek a conceded ones with GPS on Seeking?Because for the 300/400 average you're dropping on a kgirl. You can still get lucky and find a younger, just as cute or hotter, Asian girl in other nationalities as a sugarbaby. Not just Korean. And for around the same price if you know how to negotiate. And not be limited to just an hour or less playtime.
Some guys still use the monger mentality when talking to a POT. You don't do that. Don't talk about hourly, or for an hour, or other monger terms such as BBBJ, cim, etc. A true fresh sugarbaby / non-pro shouldn't be talked to in those terms and you shouldn't set a time limit on the meetups. I spend on average 2 sometimes 3 hours with my arrangements. Sometimes overnights. Doing all kinds of naughty things in the sack. Taking pics, videos. Creampies, swallowing, anal. Try doing all that with a kgirl for that same price and for that long. Ain't going to happen and kgirls are high mileage on them.
I've said it before and will say it again. The arrangement game is the best value bang for the buck. If you negotiate and keep the price low.
The only thing that kind of gets close is if you travel to southeast Asian countries. But I don't travel so the sugar game is my dreamland. It used to be even cheaper back in the non-pro days on Craigslist. The same quality of girls on Seeking but at basement prices. I'd spend 100 average for young cute White girls, Asian girls, Latinas, etc. I'd still dabble on Seeking back then too. But even then it was still a little pricier than craigslist and it's personal ads section. And no need to pay a membership fee. Craig's was and always has been free. Fuck Trump and his damn Fosta law! That's what screwed up everything and the gold rush on Craigslist.
Mac Eat Bright
10-22-23, 23:02
Because for the 300/400 average you're dropping on a kgirl. You can still get lucky and find a younger, just as cute or hotter, Asian girl in other nationalities as a sugarbaby. Not just Korean. And for around the same price if you know how to negotiate. And not be limited to just an hour or less playtime.
Some guys still use the monger mentality when talking to a POT. You don't do that. Don't talk about hourly, or for an hour, or other monger terms such as BBBJ, cim, etc. A true fresh sugarbaby / non-pro shouldn't be talked to in those terms and you shouldn't set a time limit on the meetups. I spend on average 2 sometimes 3 hours with my arrangements. Sometimes overnights. Doing all kinds of naughty things in the sack. Taking pics, videos. Creampies, swallowing, anal. Try doing all that with a kgirl for that same price and for that long. Ain't going to happen and kgirls are high mileage on them.
I've said it before and will say it again. The arrangement game is the best value bang for the buck. If you negotiate and keep the price low.
The only thing that kind of gets close is if you travel to southeast Asian countries. But I don't travel so the sugar game is my dreamland. It used to be even cheaper back in the non-pro days on Craigslist. The same quality of girls on Seeking but at basement prices. I'd spend 100 average for young cute White girls, Asian girls, Latinas, etc. I'd still dabble on Seeking back then too. But even then it was still a little pricier than craigslist and it's personal ads section. And no need to pay a membership fee. Craig's was and always has been free. Fuck Trump and his damn Fosta law! That's what screwed up everything and the gold rush on Craigslist.May I ask you how to negotiate? For now, most of them will ask for a ridiculous number and not guarantee for the time they stay together. Some will ask to leave or even vanish with no signs after the first pop. How do you prevent that from happening to you and keep it for a long time?
May I ask you how to negotiate? For now, most of them will ask for a ridiculous number and not guarantee for the time they stay together. Some will ask to leave or even vanish with no signs after the first pop. How do you prevent that from happening to you and keep it for a long time?Sorry man it's not something that's easily teachable. Some things I do have to say is stop going for older babies. Late 20's and above ask for to much. Because they have to many responsibilities. So they usually expect more. You don't want a seasoned vet sugarbaby. Especially the ones that tell you straight out in their profile that they've had previous daddies. That's the first strike for me and I move on to the next profile. Girls that say treat me like a princess or say "generous" in their profile. Another sentence that irks me in their profiles is "don't waste my time". Well fuck you b*tch then! I move on the next profile. When you see that, that's just the tip of the iceberg. If you really read what some of these girls put in their profiles. You can usually easily see the warning signs right away. Fellas just don't look at the pretty pics of these chics. READ what they write in their profiles.
I make really good money in my profession but when it comes to pussy. It really shouldn't be expensive and really should be as free as possible. I still date in regular civie life. But when you're in your 40's it's not that easy to find that hot young 18/19 year old to rock your world. I civie date late 20's, 30's and some early 40's. Once in a while I'll find a young one on sites like okcupid that's curious about dating an older dude. But when I want it fast and guarantee that it's just about dessert getting into those young panties. Then I go on the hunt on Seeking.
PantyPatrol1
10-23-23, 10:37
Sorry man it's not something that's easily teachable. Some things I do have to say is stop going for older babies. Late 20's and above ask for to much. Because they have to many responsibilities. So they usually expect more. You don't want a seasoned vet sugarbaby. Especially the ones that tell you straight out in their profile that they've had previous daddies. That's the first strike for me and I move on to the next profile. Girls that say treat me like a princess or say "generous" in their profile. Another sentence that irks me in their profiles is "don't waste my time". Well fuck you b*tch then! I move on the next profile. When you see that, that's just the tip of the iceberg. If you really read what some of these girls put in their profiles. You can usually easily see the warning signs right away. Fellas just don't look at the pretty pics of these chics. READ what they write in their profiles.
I make really good money in my profession but when it comes to pussy. It really shouldn't be expensive and really should be as free as possible. I still date in regular civie life. But when you're in your 40's it's not that easy to find that hot young 18/19 year old to rock your world. I civie date late 20's, 30's and some early 40's. Once in a while I'll find a young one on sites like okcupid that's curious about dating an older dude. But when I want it fast and guarantee that it's just about dessert getting into those young panties. Then I go on the hunt on Seeking.Much truth here- beware of a bunch or rules and disclaimers in the profile as well as those POTS are likely not going to be a good time. Someone who starts things off by strafing their applicants is to be avoided. And true, the older they are, the more bills they have.
What happened to them? Is Sugaring past its peak?Covid is what happened and it's still affecting things. And as mentioned it's affecting the pool of available girls in all ethnicities not just Asian. Remember we're dealing in a game that involves super intimate contact. Prostitutes rebounded pretty quick because that's usually their only way to make money. But fresh newbie babies are probably looking for other means for extra cash other than fucking for it. Less risk of getting sick from covid and also the other usual std's. The pool of young fresh newbies is considerably smaller than before covid.
LimpAndSmall
10-23-23, 16:36
What happened to them? Is Sugaring past its peak?Inevitable. Fashions and social phenomena in general always have an expiry date.
Being an SB was a cool / fun thing for sorority coeds say 6 years ago. That in itself guarantees that it isn't cool today.
That was yesterday's fashion.
NutritionFacts
10-24-23, 19:42
Covid is what happened and it's still affecting things. And as mentioned it's affecting the pool of available girls in all ethnicities not just Asian. Remember we're dealing in a game that involves super intimate contact. Prostitutes rebounded pretty quick because that's usually their only way to make money. But fresh newbie babies are probably looking for other means for extra cash other than fucking for it. Less risk of getting sick from covid and also the other usual std's. The pool of young fresh newbies is considerably smaller than before covid.Think its a cyclical or pattern that will get better sometime?
Think its a cyclical or pattern that will get better sometime?Not sure. I stick to trying to find fresh young sugarbabies. And right now that pool is tiny compared to before covid. Even the overall pool is small. If I remember correctly the overall pool without any search filters used to be at 100,000+ before covid. Now it's only 10,000+ for all sugarbabies of any age. So that's a considerable drop. I'm hoping more younger honeys will give it a try but it's going to be a slow climb.
NutritionFacts
10-25-23, 02:24
I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.
I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.Heck yes do it! I've done this. My issue sometimes was not having enough time to meet up with all the babies I had lined up. I had everything all discussed with them, amounts, what they liked and open to in the sack, etc. Just to much pussy ready to go and literally not enough time to see them.
It's easy just reach out to them and say I'm so and so from Seeking. And just wondering if you might still be interested and needing help. And make up something like your schedule was hectic busy and sorry you couldn't meet up. It's 50/50 whether they are still interested and I've had luck being able to hook up with some. Just don't be surprised if some are married now and have kids. Or some have gained weight and are not as hot as they used to be. That's life. No biggie. So I'd suggest doing some reverse searches on any contact info you have for them. Phone #, reverse face searches, so that maybe you can find them on Facebook or Insta and see where they may be at in life and if you still want to reach out. A lot could have changed since 2015 for them.
FarFarAway
10-26-23, 13:52
I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.I keep an amazingly long list of all those I have been in touch w / from the site, their info, etc. Sometimes I will see a profile on the site I recognize, someone I had been interested in but never moved forward with. But also at a time (mostly) that I don't have a paid membership, so I can't message them on the site. If I am lucky, I will recall enough info I can go back and get their phone # from my records, and then I can say something like "I saw your profile on seeking recently, we were in touch there earlier" and re-introduce myself.
HollywoodGuy
10-26-23, 18:13
Ideally you want someone new to sugaring if you are looking for the biggest bang for your buck. Once these girls start taking cash for pussy they wisen up rather quickly.
Add two years to that girl and she is not the same girl anymore. Add four years and she is basically not even worth the effort. Just my 2 cents. I rarely respond to any girl whose profile is more than a few months old. For me a year old is already too long.
And all that guarantees nothing. Because she could have been renting herself out long before she ever found seeking. But I hedge my bets to the best of my ability.
MidnightDabber
10-26-23, 20:52
I was too young and not established back then. Still I think of what could have been. When I finally did get on I had women (incl. Asians) discounting themselves because I was relatively young. Never coming back LOL.
I have noticed a bunch of girls with "love" in their header. Gives the impression they are pros all with the same booker. Anyone have any experience with them?
Examples:
https://members.seeking.com/member/6091ce09-c0c9-4a3c-b3da-077827af1533
https://members.seeking.com/member/562099e7-e003-4050-b8be-ee741f18a4ba
https://members.seeking.com/member/8da8bca9-b83b-4cde-999b-b228e0a0307cI'm curious about this too! This is the closest I could find, short for "Live Laugh Love Girl" - but could just as easily be a booker.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Live%20Laugh%20Love%20Girl
Honestly I'm young I'm talking barely 30 and was in there late 20's. Can't recall how many situations ended up where nothing was exchanged and they'd continue to reach out. Felt much easier than bumble / tinder / hinge. Though that was relatively easy as well.
Currently have 2 and 1 lives with me and asks for nothing, the other is this gorgeous person who just enjoys being treated out and nothing more.
Currently found myself the unicorn I've been looking for since I've been on SA. A little person and I'm not talking about someone that's 4'11 or 4'10 what ever the technical height is for what someone deems as a little person.
This one is like 4'3 and life is good.
Also have these college girls that live together it's 3 of them and went out with them last night out here in OC. Cute group of white and two Asian girls. All they want is dinner which I can see how it might be more but no allowance exchanged.
SA can truly be a great place still. It's not as frequent but it's still there and I'll check in every 3 months or so to see if there's anyone that intrigued me.
I was too young and not established back then. Still I think of what could have been. When I finally did get on I had women (incl. Asians) discounting themselves because I was relatively young. Never coming back LOL.
I had some thoughts I would like to add. Before doing so, I wish to credit Hollywood Guy. I learned most of my skills / technique from following the advice he shared starting back when he was active on the Richmond thread. Those were truly in the early days.
First, the Bowl is past its' peak but it is still the best way to find fresh young GFE action. The early days were "early" days. Everybody was new at it. Most especially the girls and they had much different expectations than today. All the nasty action was over on Backpage, Craigs List, etc. Today, those people are muddying the Bowl and scaring away some innocent young things we might have found earlier. There are now Reddit, FB, YT and TT forums and videos offering women advice on how to use the Bowl. Even if the numbers rebound, the innocence will not.
Second, people who are new even then complained about lack of success. It was always thus and thus it always will be. It takes practice, patience and discipline to achieve success in the Bowl. However, with those virtues and some game, *anyone* can get laid off the Bowl. To start, newbies need to learn to avoid getting "buck fever" over the first few thirst traps you see. Too many guys zoom in on the first few profiles (often even a single profile) that look likely. Most of the time these are actually scammers or, if real, out of their league/GPS. HG has always said: it's a numbers game. Never, never, ever! Get too invested in any one profile. Cast the net wide then cast it wider. Try A-B testing different approaches, different personal pictures and profile language. Keep chasing even after you build a rotation. Women move on or you get bored; you need to stay in practice.
Next, be prepared to overpay in the beginning. Be prepared to lower your standards in the beginning. Look at some of the wisdom posted by the high count posters on this thread. Sugar babies aren't like escorts. They tend to very selective and ask to be wooed. They rarely are seeing multiple guys in a week or month or at the same time. (It happens but that is not what I consider a true Sugar experience.) When you approach the highest quality profiles, you very likely will find yourself in competition with guys who have far more experience. It will tough to outperform them in gaining a chick's interest. Therefor, you must either offer a higher allowance or aim for someone not getting as much attention. Don't get discouraged.
Final tip, remember that it's a numbers game. Just work the numbers and ignore rejection or failure. Women can smell and despise desperation; they are attracted to confidence and indifference. If you understand that, like a city bus, another profile is always coming along, you can avoid the former and use the latter.
BAM
HollywoodGuy
10-29-23, 21:35
One thing I noticed since signing back up. There are no foreign profiles hitting me up. Used to be like 6 a day. Now it's zero. Big improvement.
MidnightDabber
10-30-23, 23:10
I read that SA is requiring I'd verification more often now? Any of you guys seeing that.
I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.I have done this with a few.
In all 3 cases they were very happy to hear from me. All he dropped out due to bad experiences. But it's not like they didn't need money anymore or their lives had gotten materially better. One is now a regular. Honestly I don't even find her super attractive anymore. She's put on a few pounds and lost a molar I can see when she smiles. (Again, not rich people here). But she's so accommodating and sends me photos and is so excited when we meet that I just keep doing it.
I was too young and not established back then. Still I think of what could have been. When I finally did get on I had women (incl. Asians) discounting themselves because I was relatively young. Never coming back LOL.Totally. I have a lot of money to spend now but I'm older and less attractive. I used to be a stud. I can only imagine the shit I could have pulled if I made a lifestyle out of the at 30 instead of 50.
Ace McNasty
10-31-23, 10:59
I had some thoughts I would like to add. Before doing so, I wish to credit Hollywood Guy.
BAMSlow day in Cincinnati? Bam!
Ideally you want someone new to sugaring if you are looking for the biggest bang for your buck. Once these girls start taking cash for pussy they wisen up rather quickly. Add two years to that girl and she is not the same girl anymore. Add four years and she is basically not even worth the effort. Just my 2 cents. I rarely respond to any girl whose profile is more than a few months old. For me a year old is already too long.You newbies and aspiring daddies thinking of jumping in the bowl should subscribe to this guy. He is cursed with knowledge. One of 4-5 members here that I respect and enjoy reading. The rest of the angry male Karens, jealous drama queens, and brilliant Einsteins are nothing but static and a constant source of daily laughter for me.
Agree 100% whether it is sugaring or escorting. My specialty is to hit them fast and hit them hard as soon as they create a profile, whether on Seeking, PD, or Hx. Once that account is active, you are working against the clock, and the girls will become jaded, pissed off, or worse, suddenly realize "what they're worth" LOL.
Perfect example is one of my current SB below, a 22 yo hot asf brunette. Let's just call her Becca, because she looks like the young Rebecca Hall from the Iron Man movie. Brand new to the bowl, and still naive and innocent. Lets me do whatever I want to her body, and her PPM is so cheap, sometimes I don't even pay her and we just hang out. Once you establish a connection and it becomes organic, the amazing sex follows. But I am experienced enough to know the shelf life is not very long, so enjoy your regulars as much as you can. It's fun until it isn't.
No condom. CIP and CIM as much as I can give.
HollywoodGuy
10-31-23, 11:47
Agree 100% whether it is sugaring or escorting. My specialty is to hit them fast and hit them hard as soon as they create a profile, whether on Seeking, PD, or Hx. Once that account is active, you are working against the clock, and the girls will become jaded, pissed off, or worse, suddenly realize "what they're worth" LOL.Yes they learn rather quickly and even girls that "like" you will suddenly start copping an attitude of non gratitude. If you ever want to know just how much they "like" you, try advancing a solid regular a few extra dollars and see if she ever makes good on it.
IronClad999
10-31-23, 13:36
No condom. CIP and CIM as much as I can give.She looks like a keeper easily, thanks for the shares man. Good stuff.
My specialty is to hit them fast and hit them hard as soon as they create a profile, whether on Seeking, PD, or Hx. Once that account is active, you are working against the clock, and the girls will become jaded, pissed off, or worse, suddenly realize "what they're worth" LOL This right here is the only strategy I use to find good, cheap, and fresh pussies.
HardToPost
10-31-23, 23:36
Slow day in Cincinnati? Bam!
You newbies and aspiring daddies thinking of jumping in the bowl should subscribe to this guy. He is cursed with knowledge. One of 4-5 members here that I respect and enjoy reading. The rest of the angry male Karens, jealous drama queens, and brilliant Einsteins are nothing but static and a constant source of daily laughter for me.
Agree 100% whether it is sugaring or escorting. My specialty is to hit them fast and hit them hard as soon as they create a profile, whether on Seeking, PD, or Hx. Once that account is active, you are working against the clock, and the girls will become jaded, pissed off, or worse, suddenly realize "what they're worth" LOL.
Perfect example is one of my current SB below, a 22 yo hot asf brunette. Let's just call her Becca, because she looks like the young Rebecca Hall from the Iron Man movie. Brand new to the bowl, and still naive and innocent. Lets me do whatever I want to her body, and her PPM is so cheap, sometimes I don't even pay her and we just hang out. Once you establish a connection and it becomes organic, the amazing sex follows. But I am experienced enough to know the shelf life is not very long, so enjoy your regulars as much as you can. It's fun until it isn't.
No condom. CIP and CIM as much as I can give.Which website did you find this girl? Which area are you in? Seeking has older women. Not as much good looking women or young woman anymore.
I keep an amazingly long list of all those I have been in touch w / from the site, their info, etc. Sometimes I will see a profile on the site I recognize, someone I had been interested in but never moved forward with. But also at a time (mostly) that I don't have a paid membership, so I can't message them on the site. If I am lucky, I will recall enough info I can go back and get their phone # from my records, and then I can say something like "I saw your profile on seeking recently, we were in touch there earlier" and re-introduce myself.Not for everyone, but I maintain a password-protected spreadsheet in which I document every girl, a face photo, contact info, age, body description, date, and a few words about what I thought of her. Amazingly helpful. So later when choosing a girl, or when I go back to a city, it's easy to remember. Oh yeah that was the girl who actually was 10 lbs heavier than her profile photos, but who was a great dinner date. Oh yeah that was the girl who does nails at a salon but wants to invest in stocks so remember to ask about that.
Is what's your price less strict than SA?
I was too young and not established back then. Still I think of what could have been. When I finally did get on I had women (incl. Asians) discounting themselves because I was relatively young. Never coming back LOL.LOL I feel the same way about the CL times.
FirstClass1
11-01-23, 20:44
Is what's your price less strict than SA?They're owned by the same company as SA. If you get suspended / banned from one site, it'll affect your profile on the other.
https://members.seeking.com/member/39dc8d6f-ed21-4732-9a38-ecb145ad1436
Anyone try her out? Looks hot.
Is she real?
Chupacabra
11-02-23, 02:27
I'm curious about this too! This is the closest I could find, short for "Live Laugh Love Girl" - but could just as easily be a booker.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Live%20Laugh%20Love%20GirlI asked one what it means, but no response yet.
Chupacabra
11-02-23, 02:31
One thing I noticed since signing back up. There are no foreign profiles hitting me up. Used to be like 6 a day. Now it's zero. Big improvement.I made the mistake of looking in Colombia (was planning a Medellin trip) and thought hell, why not Venezuela. Now I'm probably more popular than their star soccer player. Haha.
Nice looking pics, but check out that video!
Nekoshou - https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e7b551fb6bbcbc2b
I made the mistake of looking in Colombia (was planning a Medellin trip) and thought hell, why not Venezuela. Now I'm probably more popular than their star soccer player. Haha.There's a setting in seeking, if you're a paid member, where it doesn't notify the other person if you have viewed them. You should use it.
I realized how creepy I looked when I'd check out the same girl a few times over days. She must've been like "why this dude always checking my profile?" Good switch to flip. Only works if paying.
JollyJohnRoger
11-03-23, 18:24
https://members.seeking.com/member/39dc8d6f-ed21-4732-9a38-ecb145ad1436
Anyone try her out? Looks hot.
Is she real?Yes, tried out. She is definitely hot. See the other posts regarding her pimp / booker / boyfriend and blackmail, etc.
Chupacabra
11-04-23, 00:36
There's a setting in seeking, if you're a paid member, where it doesn't notify the other person if you have viewed them. You should use it.
I realized how creepy I looked when I'd check out the same girl a few times over days. She must've been like "why this dude always checking my profile?" Good switch to flip. Only works if paying.Thanks for the tip. I'm a longtime single guy, so my OpSec is terrible. Haha But it's so nice not to worry.
Some info to share: Every good looking chick who's dtf will ask for $1 k. It's almost like they are all using the same playbook. If you negotiate from there, the truly hot ones will ghost you, the good looking ones will drop to 700-750, and the more cute girl next door types will drop to 400-600. I have no idea how Hollywood does it, but that's what I'm seeing. These are mainly white chicks, some asian, which probably explains the GPS. For reference I'm mid 40's, fit, gl, used to kill it in my 30's.
The other m. O. , which I haven't sampled yet, is getting some smaller amount (200 ish) to go to lunch or dinner and negotiate ppm from there. These are usually the really hot ones. I haven't pursued because I assume it's a scam. Free meal and a tip on top. LOL.
There are still a few that seem traditional, who want to grab an (expensive) meal and get to know you, so these may be the few legit sugar babies still out there, but they have all been so vapid that I couldn't summon the energy to go (plus I'm on the wagon so that makes the prospect of sitting through dinner with one, with the chance of getting blueballed, just a bridge too gar).
Anyway my two cents. I'll probably go back to straight escorts, K-girls.
There are still a few that seem traditional, who want to grab an (expensive) meal and get to know you, so these may be the few legit sugar babies still out there, but they have all been so vapid that I couldn't summon the energy to go (plus I'm on the wagon so that makes the prospect of sitting through dinner with one, with the chance of getting blueballed, just a bridge too gar).
Anyway my two cents. I'll probably go back to straight escorts, K-girls.Ok time for me to be judgmental and prick-ish.
I find the dinners with these girls interesting. In an anthropological way. They really do live in a separate universe. My life is surrounded by people like me. My friend group and my professional group are all highly educated, professional class, and they speak a sort of American dialect that signals your participation in this class. For example everyone knows "where did you go to school" means college and it's a proxy for other things. Or it's totally normal to talk about macroeconomic policy and have an opinion on it.
And then I find myself sitting in front of some seeking girl. She does nails or hair but really wants to run her own salon. Or she is a nanny but does TikTok videos and really wants to be an influencer. Or she's bored as an office manager and dreams of being a stay at home wife.
I always just listen. I'm always very encouraging, even if in my head, I'm thinking "influencer" is not a paid career destination you're likely to reach.
It really is interesting just to be reminded that you live in a stupid little bubble of robots just like you. But it's comfortable at least.
HollywoodGuy
11-04-23, 12:25
I have no idea how Hollywood does it, but that's what I'm seeing. These are mainly white chicks, some asian, which probably explains the GPS. For reference I'm mid 40's, fit, gl, used to kill it in my 30's.I think the $ days may be over at least in vegas (I have no clue about L. A.). I have been back on seeking for about a month now and no takers. I did get some interest at $.5 and at $$ I am home free. It's sad but that's just where things have gone to. I have chosen not to partake at those prices as I am looking for someone I can see at least once a week. And at a working stiffs income it's not really in my budget to spend 1 k a month quite yet. In vegas they have what they call Latina Houses. Decent girls for a $ max (including tip). (check the thread) But that's not what I am looking for.
Also very few younger girls, way more older, curvier, and taller girls. None of which hold any interest for me. And way less AA girls to choose from. I have a girl living with me but that's a whole different story (and takes about 5 bills a month out of my gross). My one long term hottie (a dancer in vegas I was seeing for the last 4 years) dropped me. She didn't even ask for more money. She just straight up ditched me. So for now I will patiently wait and see what happens.
PantyPatrol1
11-04-23, 13:11
I think the $ days may be over at least in vegas (I have no clue about L. A.). I have been back on seeking for about a month now and no takers. I did get some interest at $.5 and at $$ I am home free. It's sad but that's just where things have gone to. I have chosen not to partake at those prices as I am looking for someone I can see at least once a week. And at a working stiffs income it's not really in my budget to spend 1 k a month quite yet. In vegas they have what they call Latina Houses. Decent girls for a $ max (including tip). (check the thread) But that's not what I am looking for.
Also very few younger girls, way more older, curvier, and taller girls. None of which hold any interest for me. And way less AA girls to choose from. I have a girl living with me but that's a whole different story (and takes about 5 bills a month out of my gross). My one long term hottie (a dancer in vegas I was seeing for the last 4 years) dropped me. She didn't even ask for more money. She just straight up ditched me. So for now I will patiently wait and see what happens.Its a different landscape now. Seeking has morphed into a dating app targeting less-beat women from 25-45 who have useless degrees or under-performing careers and need their shit paid for. I also noticed less AA's; I think that they are screening potential UTR working girls more closely than before and this demo may have sensed the hostility. They even removed the college campuses as locations in searches-that says it all. Just my take.
Chupacabra
11-04-23, 13:50
Ok time for me to be judgmental and prick-ish.
I find the dinners with these girls interesting. In an anthropological way. They really do live in a separate universe. My life is surrounded by people like me. My friend group and my professional group are all highly educated, professional class, and they speak a sort of American dialect that signals your participation in this class. For example everyone knows "where did you go to school" means college and it's a proxy for other things. Or it's totally normal to talk about macroeconomic policy and have an opinion on it.
And then I find myself sitting in front of some seeking girl. She does nails or hair but really wants to run her own salon. Or she is a nanny but does TikTok videos and really wants to be an influencer. Or she's bored as an office manager and dreams of being a stay at home wife.
I always just listen. I'm always very encouraging, even if in my head, I'm thinking "influencer" is not a paid career destination you're likely to reach..Not prickish at all, my good man, and probably good advice! If I go, I'll channel my inner Dian Fossey. I'm from your same bubble but obviously lack your patience. I don't mind hearing about them and their lives, but the constant obsession with pop culture (which is vulgar in every possible way) and their phone drives me nuts. I've walked out of Tinder dates in the middle of the meal. I guess I am well past the point of listening to / entertaining a woman just to get in her pants. That's called dating, been there done that. Ha Maybe I'm just an escort guy at this point.
FarFarAway
11-04-23, 16:19
They even removed the college campuses as locations in searches-that says it all. Just my take.What does that mean? I never heard of any such thing before.
HollywoodGuy
11-04-23, 22:40
I also noticed less AA's; I think that they are screening potential UTR working girls more closely than before and this demo may have sensed the hostility. They even removed the college campuses as locations in searches-that says it all. Just my take.I think the AA girls just realized that its faster money the old fashioned way or just using social media or the many OF type sites.
Not prickish at all, my good man, and probably good advice! If I go, I'll channel my inner Dian Fossey. I'm from your same bubble but obviously lack your patience. I don't mind hearing about them and their lives, but the constant obsession with pop culture (which is vulgar in every possible way) and their phone drives me nuts. I've walked out of Tinder dates in the middle of the meal. I guess I am well past the point of listening to / entertaining a woman just to get in her pants. That's called dating, been there done that. Ha Maybe I'm just an escort guy at this point.You know what's worse than obsession with pop culture? (And that is indeed bad). Obsession with fancy objects they can't afford. Some really really want a Chanel bag or an LV bag or a pair of Loubtiton shoes so bad. Enough that they'll sleep with an older guy to get it. For what? To signal to the outside world that they're flush with resources, but to live with the cognitive dissonance of what you had to do to get that bag? It's embarrassing to me to think about that. Some girls are just vapid and empty but some have a few brain cells and if they just applied themselves in a different direction they could do so much better.
To be clear I never say so because I don't want to appear condescending and paternalistic. And I also want to get laid that night. But I do think it.
PantyPatrol1
11-05-23, 14:21
What does that mean? I never heard of any such thing before.Before, you could type in a college as a location, and all SB POTs who listed that school as their location would show up in a search. They got ride of that unfortunately.
Seeking is offering a free hour right now. I saw and clicked the offer on the banner at the top of the page, and it works. Only valid until midnight tonight.
Uncountable
11-07-23, 15:59
What do you guys think? Wants 6 bills per meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c6ef4f50-8c1e-4f42-8cb5-3e3ea3727041
HollywoodGuy
11-07-23, 19:40
What do you guys think? Wants 6 bills per meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c6ef4f50-8c1e-4f42-8cb5-3e3ea3727041Two bills at most. Just my 2 cents.
ColoHobbyist
11-07-23, 20:55
I think the AA girls just realized that its faster money the old fashioned way or just using social media or the many OF type sites.I think the AA girls realized that it's tough being on these sites if you're not A++ body and face wise or bringing actual "I'd be interesting over dinner as well as in bed" credentials.
The cultural divide that exists between girls (of any race, but especially Black and Hispanic girls) who grew up in the hood and middle aged white / Asian guys with careers sufficient to provide for weekly paid sex is often underestimated.
I've had Black sugar babies that I saw regularly for months at a time. We did all the things, dates, trips, and, of course, all the sex. But I've also been to M&Gs with Black girls where it was obvious within 10 minutes that we had literally nothing in common and that if we got together, it'd be weird and awkward to a degree that just wouldn't be fun (for me, at least). I'd much rather find a 6/10 that I connect with than a 9/10 that I've got zero connection with. If I want zero connection, I'll go find someone on LC or HX.
NutritionFacts
11-07-23, 21:13
Has anyone tried reaching out to women on social media? I got some decent success on twitter / ig. Any tips on what types of women to focus on there? You guys have a lot of good tips.
Has anyone tried reaching out to women on social media? I got some decent success on twitter / ig. Any tips on what types of women to focus on there? You guys have a lot of good tips.Unless you've been banned from SA, why do it? There's so much risk of a girl pasting it all over that she got propositioned for sugar sex. At least in SA they declare that's why they're there.
So I saw this girl for 5 months, for a LOT less than 1 k / per visit. More like 1 k / week with uber rides and uber eats.
She is INSANELY sexual. She is hot, super clean, but super super super messed up.
Her booker / pimp / BF Randy is normally you who are talking to, and they will suck the life out of you. Randy sucks the money out of you.
Sia / Maria (not her real name) sucks everything else. The girl is multi-orgasmic, and LOOOOVES greek. Randy, however, doesn't like her.
Doing it, with him or anyone else, LOL. Two Red Flags that I was talking to Randy: 1. He orders and UNGODLY amount of food, no possible.
Way she eats it all. Rest assured that a family of 3 guys, and 1 woman weighing 108 pounds was well fed. 2. He didn't acknowledge the.
Stuff we did during our sesh, especially trips to the islands.
She comes every 2 to 3 minutes, non-stop, one of the wildest women I've ever met.
What did it for me was when I caught her recording sessions and sending the recordings to her pimp.
This crap had to be going on with lots of people, who probably got Randy's texting app details, because a bunch of.
Maria's regulars got warning texts, as well as warnings to LE. Someone got burned, and bad.
How did her regulars get warning texts? Who texted.
FarFarAway
11-08-23, 12:32
I think the AA girls realized that it's tough being on these sites if you're not A++ body and face wise or bringing actual "I'd be interesting over dinner as well as in bed" credentials.
The cultural divide that exists between girls (of any race, but especially Black and Hispanic girls) who grew up in the hood and middle aged white / Asian guys with careers sufficient to provide for weekly paid sex is often underestimated.I think you are mistaken grouping AA and Latinas. I see them as in very different statuses on the site, and in society really. You should look at the demographics from the CDC about STD rates in different ethnic groups. That might affect your preferences.
I find a lot of Latina girls quite attractive, though some aren't very interesting. However, they seem more pliable than many girls, and in particular regarding big age gaps.
I have noticed a bunch of girls with "love" in their header. Gives the impression they are pros all with the same booker. Anyone have any experience with them?
Examples:
https://members.seeking.com/member/6091ce09-c0c9-4a3c-b3da-077827af1533
https://members.seeking.com/member/562099e7-e003-4050-b8be-ee741f18a4ba
https://members.seeking.com/member/8da8bca9-b83b-4cde-999b-b228e0a0307cIn response to these "love" profiles, I received an invite from a group that calls themselves "LOVE, a wing of the snctm network". Basically, SNCTM seems to be an "Eyes Wide Shut" type of group https://snctm.com/snctm-video-collection/.
LOVE seems to offer 1-guy to many girls activities. Sounds fun and very expensive, not for me.
This profile is almost certainly one of their profiles, even though it doesn't use the word love. Perhaps they got caught and instead now mention "play parties"
https://members.seeking.com/member/d8e2e49c-174f-4824-ab07-e07203134562
FirstClass1
11-09-23, 02:47
I think you are mistaken grouping AA and Latinas. I see them as in very different statuses on the site, and in society really. You should look at the demographics from the CDC about STD rates in different ethnic groups. That might affect your preferences.
I find a lot of Latina girls quite attractive, though some aren't very interesting. However, they seem more pliable than many girls, and in particular regarding big age gaps.Absolutely true. Statistically, AAs are six times more likely to carry and transmit STIs than non-Hispanic whites.
Latina is an umbrella term for women from many ethnic groups with Iberian culture, and can include blonde, blue eyed Argentinians; short and stocky Amerindians from Guatemala and Mexico; blacks from Dominican Republic or Puerto Rico; Lebanese and Palestinian descendants from Colombia and Central America; Japanese / Korean expatriates in Peru and Brazil; and most often a hybrid combination of all these ethnicities and more.
My own preference is for Caucasian women, be they European, Castizas or American "Heinz 57's. " There's nothing more attractive to me than a gorgeous blonde or redhead with porcelain skin and blue, green, or hazel eyes.
BlackBeltKen
11-09-23, 11:26
Two bills at most. Just my 2 cents.Yeah.
There are a lot of guys on SA with deep pockets full of cash to throw around. Some girls want $ just to meet and greet. I went to lunch with a 40's MILF early on and she wanted $1 K per meet because a few lawyer guys paid that amount.
It's like shopping in Beverly Hills, you know going there the quality is usually good but it's outrageously priced but you can shop elsewhere.
Ace McNasty
11-09-23, 12:18
Nice looking pics, but check out that video!
Nekoshou - https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e7b551fb6bbcbc2bThe things I do to her 19 yo girl's tiny little 90 pound body invokes the Fight Club rule. First rule is we don't talk about it. Levels of depravity that cannot be discussed publicly. The only words that come out of her purty mouf are:
Yes daddy.
How can such a tiny little girl have massive perky natural boobs that defy age and gravity? Those balloons are real and they are spectacular. Those puffy nips are beet red after a couple hours of sucking and mashing in the FC. This is what a sugar baby ought to be--young, teeny tiny, no condom, all holes available, and submissive.
If you ain't getting all that then you are not sugaring correctly.
FarFarAway
11-09-23, 13:41
The things I do to her 19 yo girl's tiny little 90 pound body invokes the Fight Club rule. First rule is we don't talk about it. Levels of depravity that cannot be discussed publicly. The only words that come out of her purty mouf are:
Yes daddy.
How can such a tiny little girl have massive perky natural boobs that defy age and gravity? Those balloons are real and they are spectacular. Those puffy nips are beet red after a couple hours of sucking and mashing in the FC. This is what a sugar baby ought to be--young, teeny tiny, no condom, all holes available, and submissive.
If you ain't getting all that then you are not sugaring correctly.The profile snap looks like it is from seeking, not from secretbenefits.
HollywoodGuy
11-09-23, 15:00
Has anyone tried reaching out to women on social media? I got some decent success on twitter / ig. Any tips on what types of women to focus on there? You guys have a lot of good tips.Met my current non-sb gf on tiktok. I posted all about it on the social media thread.
Number ends in 216X.
312 area code.
Tries to get you to send payment for date ahead of time to "motivate" her to commit to it. A complete scam. Don't fall for it.
Ace McNasty
11-10-23, 12:13
Has anyone tried reaching out to women on social media? I got some decent success on twitter / ig. Any tips on what types of women to focus on there? You guys have a lot of good tips.
Met my current non-sb gf on tiktok. I posted all about it on the social media thread.It only took me a minute to search that tutorial you posted here. Not sure why these guys keep asking the same questions that have already been asked and answered thousands of times since Day 2 of this site. That white rectangle box on the upper right hand corner of the page is your best friend. Unfortunately the search box seems to be the loneliest feature of most hoe boards, since dudes are exceedingly averse to it.
SM has been an invaluable source of hook up for a guy like me who travels constantly for business. Hx is pretty much confined to SoCal. When I go to other states, then I use PD, Seeking, and of course, all SM platforms. You are right, tictactoe can be a source for chicks, but in my experience, IG and SC are the most active and user friendly.
In the end, you will not learn how to use SM to procure vaginas by asking here. The only way to learn SM is to whip out your phone and start using SM. A fraction of my many examples before of girls I hooked up with on SM. Some are from IG and SC, while others are from the popular sites who also use SM as another platform. Maybe you guys will recognize some of these girls who are very active on Hx and PD.
Wrong site, I know, but if anyone has any good Intel on the monger scene in Tokyo, let me know. Heading there next week.
FarFarAway
11-10-23, 16:06
In the end, you will not learn how to use SM to procure vaginas by asking here. The only way to learn SM is to whip out your phone and start using SM. A fraction of my many examples before of girls I hooked up with on SM. Some are from IG and SC, while others are from the popular sites who also use SM as another platform. Maybe you guys will recognize some of these girls who are very active on Hx and PD.Most of the pics you post, they look really more like escorts than SBs. I don't doubt escorts use SM. I think some people were interested in using SM to locate civvies.
Most of the pics you post, they look really more like escorts than SBs. I don't doubt escorts use SM. I think some people were interested in using SM to locate civvies.Yea, idk what he's bragging about. It's like those profiles on SA where you can easily tell they're a pro. Those girls are not casuals at ALL.
Looks like she's back on the site under a different name now. We just started chatting but glad I saw this.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a66ebdfa-15ee-41ed-b39b-0f6d9d5437a7
Spare me the info about what I should have done please. Just posting this so no one else goes through what I did.
This girl seemed innocent enough. We had good convos over text. No red flags or areas of concern that stood out. Decided to meet this morning at a hotel. Sent her $$$ through an app. As soon as the money came through she started screaming for help and bee lined to the door. I fought with her for a second but then my brain took over and I just pushed her out through the door and let her go.
Lesson learned. Just beware of this ***** so you don't get caught up like I did. Unfortunately I can no longer access her profile but her username was miumiu_99 pics I posted are of her. Goes by Daysia or Lala. Phone ended in 1112.
XJakeRobertsx
11-11-23, 20:19
Sugar baby recounts her experience on SA.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnNz8pKis38
Uncountable
11-12-23, 00:58
Sugar baby recounts her experience on SA.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnNz8pKis38Watching the full session really gave me some insights into how we are viewed:
* Lonely men.
* Creepy.
* Sad.
* Willing to pay premium just to grab the attention of pretty young girls.
No wonder so many of these girls get mad at the thought of putting out. They actually do not see themselves as selling their bodies.
CumInPussy
11-12-23, 02:39
Wrong site, I know, but if anyone has any good Intel on the monger scene in Tokyo, let me know. Heading there next week.Mongering in Tokyo is a bit challenging if you don't speak Japanese. Some places accept foreigners but usually limited to BJ joint. FS join like soapland most of the time requires some Japanese knowledge. There are few that foreigner friendly but the girl selection usually on the older side. Your best bet is book them from Asian Mystique (google asian mystique japan).
You can also try Seeking. Girls there range from 30-80 k yen and less GPS compare to LA / OC here. On average you can get someone for 40-50 k yen. About 50% are not Japanese, but varies from neighboring countries. Japanese one tends to ask over 50.
Check International Sex Guide page for Japan or you can also PM me as this is not the right forum to discuss.
Mongering in Tokyo is a bit challenging if you don't speak Japanese. Some places accept foreigners but usually limited to BJ joint. FS join like soapland most of the time requires some Japanese knowledge. There are few that foreigner friendly but the girl selection usually on the older side. Your best bet is book them from Asian Mystique (google asian mystique japan).
You can also try Seeking. Girls there range from 30-80 k yen and less GPS compare to LA / OC here. On average you can get someone for 40-50 k yen. About 50% are not Japanese, but varies from neighboring countries. Japanese one tends to ask over 50.
Check International Sex Guide page for Japan or you can also PM me as this is not the right forum to discuss.I'm a white guy and I mongered in Tokyo. Let me say 3 things.
First, the best stuff is off-limits to you. Accept it. Japan has huge sex culture. Kinky shit. Crazy shit. Look it up. I'm talking like pay to grope a girl on the subway crazy. But it's only for native Japanese. They see foreigners as interesting but dirty.
Second, you can still get stuff. I got room service escorts. But they weren't the premiums. One girl was Filipina and one was Japanese but clearly had seen better days.
Third, it's still worth goign. Japan is one of the most unique and amazing places. I'd go there even without mongering. I spent 3 nights just wandering the alleys of Golden Gai and talking to people. Amazing place.
Mongering in Tokyo is a bit challenging if you don't speak Japanese. Some places accept foreigners but usually limited to BJ joint. FS join like soapland most of the time requires some Japanese knowledge. There are few that foreigner friendly but the girl selection usually on the older side. Your best bet is book them from Asian Mystique (google asian mystique japan).
You can also try Seeking. Girls there range from 30-80 k yen and less GPS compare to LA / OC here. On average you can get someone for 40-50 k yen. About 50% are not Japanese, but varies from neighboring countries. Japanese one tends to ask over 50.
Check International Sex Guide page for Japan or you can also PM me as this is not the right forum to discuss.Thanks just PMed you!
PussyDestroyr
11-14-23, 03:01
Looks like she's back on the site under a different name now. We just started chatting but glad I saw this.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a66ebdfa-15ee-41ed-b39b-0f6d9d5437a7You probably dodge an STD bullet.
FarFarAway
11-15-23, 01:46
This girl sets up a new profile every few days.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ae90bf32-9434-4c8c-b597-61458de7b561
I have run across a few others who do the same.
CumInPussy
11-15-23, 19:22
This girl sets up a new profile every few days.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ae90bf32-9434-4c8c-b597-61458de7b561
I have run across a few others who do the same.She is super flaky too. I tried to setup meeting with her, agreed on time and texted her like one hour before meet to confirm, no response. Few hour later she responded and said just woke up and insisted to meet but I was busy. Tried again next time and same thing happened. She sounds desperate for money but can't manage her time and commit to the meeting.
Interestingly I met her in person, while meeting other girl that apparently her friend. She was driving her friend to meet me at Starbucks then left. I didn't say anything to her that time. Her fried use screen name Nikki. I met her for $300 early this year and she blocked me, so I don't have her seeking's link but see her profile before she blocked me. Idk if she is still around, that was earlier this year.
Met up with sb I intially started talking to like 2 months ago but never met up, text her 2 days ago she said she wanted to meet yesterday so we met at a bar she was a real ditz so could only do one drink to handle that conversation, went to the room started with BBBJ for a while she seemed really into it, told her to sit on it she didn't say anything about a cover and she just jumped on, she had mentioned earlier she was on bc so I just unloaded in her, overall ok time she's got a great curvy body, on her profile one of her pics is really her the other ones are fake, I'll post link once I'm done.
This girl sets up a new profile every few days.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ae90bf32-9434-4c8c-b597-61458de7b561
I have run across a few others who do the same.Met up with her in the FC long time ago, less ink back then. Same tricks with the multiple profiles. Picked her up from some apartment complex, did the deed, and dropped her off somewhere else at her request. It was BBFS no CIP as she wasnt on BC. From what I can gather, she's a single mom with "issues" and isn't quite right in the head. Was spewing off conspiracy theories and shit on the ride back. I'd repeat for the 150 sugar we agreed on, but she blocked me after and reestablished contact recently and won't budge below 300. I'll pass.
Alkalinedio
11-16-23, 14:53
Damn! Sketch ballz.
Thanks for the heads up.
You did the right thing, not worth the drama if that escalated.
Stay safe.
AD.
Spare me the info about what I should have done please. Just posting this so no one else goes through what I did.
This girl seemed innocent enough. We had good convos over text. No red flags or areas of concern that stood out. Decided to meet this morning at a hotel. Sent her $$$ through an app. As soon as the money came through she started screaming for help and bee lined to the door. I fought with her for a second but then my brain took over and I just pushed her out through the door and let her go.
Lesson learned. Just beware of this ***** so you don't get caught up like I did. Unfortunately I can no longer access her profile but her username was miumiu_99 pics I posted are of her. Goes by Daysia or Lala. Phone ended in 1112.
HollywoodGuy
11-16-23, 19:51
Met up with her in the FC long time ago, less ink back then. Same tricks with the multiple profiles. Picked her up from some apartment complex, did the deed, and dropped her off somewhere else at her request. It was BBFS no CIP as she wasnt on BC. From what I can gather, she's a single mom with "issues" and isn't quite right in the head. Was spewing off conspiracy theories and shit on the ride back. I'd repeat for the 150 sugar we agreed on, but she blocked me after and reestablished contact recently and won't budge below 300. I'll pass.This is how you get them for less. When they are early on in their seeking career.
A lot of posts here stress the need for opsec with regard to communications, burner phone, photos, payments, etc.
But what about STD testing? Is there a way to do that anonymously / securely?
Probably can avoid some part of a paper trail by paying cash, but the real issue is I believe most (all?) testers want to see I'd?
Nightmare scenario would be a positive result. I believe some are notifiable, I. E. SO would potentially be informed, if you give real info?I know this is a stale topic, but one thing I ran into while doing Anon testing is this. Bought a test kit off Ebay or Amazon. Registered it to my Sugar I'd. All good. But then a week or two later, here comes fast and furious emails from the testing site. They said I had something! WTF! So within hours I was in a redi-Clinic getting retested and treated for said disease.
Now here is where the fun begins. Right away the some Nimrod from the State Health Department starts texting my GV number. The dude was like a dog with a bone and would not let up. He wanted to see to it that I got treated. He would not take my word for the fact that I went and got treated and retested. This debate went on for DAYS and eventually I got the test results back from a real lab and it was NEGATIVE. So the dumb at # from the HD was working with a False Positive. Plus I had been needlessly treated. The dude pressed on and would not quit, stating that I should have waited for him and then I could have gotten treated for FREE at the HD. Genius!
Obviously I couldn't wander into the State HD for treatment without proper I'd. And since the testing was done under the Sugar I'd I had no way to do that. Might have been able to get the clinic to treat me anyway, but that would mean linking the Sugar I'd to IRL info. So eventually the HD guy told me he knew where I lived. It was the Sugar I'd address and I think he sent an agent or something there to "find me" and get me treated.
But the Sugar I'd worked, they never found me, BUT there were consequences. Plus no doubt if they could every match the Sugar I'd to IRL they could do something dumb like impersonation charges.
So yeah, Anon STD testing can be done, but if you pop Positive for anything, there are consequences!
FarFarAway
11-19-23, 01:25
IDK why this is so hard for folks. I have posted about this before, many others already know about it. Use the stdcheck.com website. I believe that is the right URL, I don't have current access to my sugar jump drive where I keep all those records. Anyway, the site I use, you can go on there and pay for a STD panel, including all the viral and bacterial diseases, but I think perhaps not chlamydia. You can do that with the same sort of prepaid debit card we are always using for our SA membership. You can establish an account w / a fake sugar name, and all contact info fake. You are given a selection of local clinics (Quest, etc.) where you can go give your samples (blood and urine).
I find a lab in the back of a grocery store local to my work, no one knows me in that city. I make an appointment, print out the paperwork from the website, take it in, and get the samples taken. No muss, no fuss. In a day or two I get an email from the site that my results are ready. I can download a nice official-looking PDF file, it lists all of the tests done and that they were negative, it gives all of the fake sugar info I gave the site originally. This would be satisfactory for absolutely any SB who was worried about the cleanliness of her SD.
Familiarize yourself with all of the different diseases. In particular, these panels include Herpes simplex type I. This is the virus that causes cold sores, among many things. It is easily transmitted, by kissing, drinking from a dirty glass, etc. Therefore, about two-thirds of the US population is seropositive for this one. So don't get freaked out when you see you are +, and don't let your SB give you any crap about it.
I have never had a positive test using this service, other than HSV I, so IDK if I would be tracked down by public health authorities. I can just say that it seems these days every business is trying to stress you out with some terrible thing might be lurking out there to get you to spend more $ on their services.
PantyPatrol1
11-19-23, 12:05
Familiarize yourself with all of the different diseases. In particular, these panels include Herpes simplex type I. This is the virus that causes cold sores, among many things. It is easily transmitted, by kissing, drinking from a dirty glass, etc. Therefore, about two-thirds of the US population is seropositive for this one. So don't get freaked out when you see you are +, and don't let your SB give you any crap about it.
I have never had a positive test using this service, other than HSV I, so IDK if I would be tracked down by public health authorities. I can just say that it seems these days every business is trying to stress you out with some terrible thing might be lurking out there to get you to spend more $ on their services.This is good info-thanks. The herpes strain that affects genitals is HSV 2 I believe. It seems with POT SB's 1/3 are hard core condom only, 1/3 will tell you BB OK if you look clean and the other 1/3 will do BB only with a test like this.
Uncountable
11-19-23, 23:25
I know most members here are wise and will not make the stupid mistake I made today, but I was extremely horny today and I gave in to the little guy, so I made a terrible mistake. I booked an outcall escort from callescort dot org for an hour. I invited her to my damn apartment! Dumb, dumb, dumb mistake. A few seconds before she arrived, I went to dispose of the trash outside.
As I was about to go back into the compound, she pulled over beside me and she instantly identified me, probably because I told her my race and age. She had a big belly and messed up teeth. I wanted to run away but she looked like the type to make a scene. We went inside and the moment I handed her the money, she took her bag and slowly made her way to the exit. Almost like she knew that I hadn't the balls to do anything. There is nothing in this world that terrifies me more than public confrontations or making a scene in public.
I also paid a deposit of $40 by cashapp for gas. All in all, I suffered a loss of $340 for my stupidity. Even as I was making these decisions, I knew what I was doing was reckless and foolish, but I soldiered on like a retard.
Normally with my SBs, I always paid after the deed, never before, but escorts have different rules. Never, ever invite an escort into your house! If you must, let her be a well reviewed one from a reputable site.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f62a93ee-8803-42c1-b59a-9b455cd55bba
This girl is a bit ghetto. She looks like her pictures and the kitty is pretty tight. She is below the going rate and can be negotiated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f62a93ee-8803-42c1-b59a-9b455cd55bba
This girl is a bit ghetto. She looks like her pictures and the kitty is pretty tight. She is below the going rate and can be negotiated.I've found that these things suggest a particularly low class girl (and she's on that train):
- chest tattoo or tattoo anywhere but the good places. You know them.
- those stupid fake eyelashes done aggressively.
- those stupid long fake nails.
Honorable mention for standing in front of expensive luxury stores in a mini skirt.
I know most members here are wise and will not make the stupid mistake I made today, but I was extremely horny today and I gave in to the little guy, so I made a terrible mistake. I booked an outcall escort from callescort dot org for an hour. I invited her to my damn apartment! Dumb, dumb, dumb mistake. A few seconds before she arrived, I went to dispose of the trash outside.
As I was about to go back into the compound, she pulled over beside me and she instantly identified me, probably because I told her my race and age. She had a big belly and messed up teeth. I wanted to run away but she looked like the type to make a scene. We went inside and the moment I handed her the money, she took her bag and slowly made her way to the exit. Almost like she knew that I hadn't the balls to do anything. There is nothing in this world that terrifies me more than public confrontations or making a scene in public.
I also paid a deposit of $40 by cashapp for gas. All in all, I suffered a loss of $340 for my stupidity. Even as I was making these decisions, I knew what I was doing was reckless and foolish, but I soldiered on like a retard.
Normally with my SBs, I always paid after the deed, never before, but escorts have different rules. Never, ever invite an escort into your house! If you must, let her be a well reviewed one from a reputable site.People on this thread who know my style will understand why I say this.
You did the right thing. Lost money is an occupational hazard in this game. You lost 340 dollars. It's not the end of the world. You know what didn't happen? She didn't yell and scream rape and punish you for not acquiescing. You didn't make a fool of yourself in front of your neighbors. She didn't blast you on social media.
All you lost was a little money and temporary loss of mental peace. Rest in knowing that your life is such that you can have and lose such funds and your life is not affected. It could be worse. You could be the person who needs to con people like that to live.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f62a93ee-8803-42c1-b59a-9b455cd55bba
This girl is a bit ghetto. She looks like her pictures and the kitty is pretty tight. She is below the going rate and can be negotiated.Is she Asian or latina.
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